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Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our YouTube Channel  How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Natalie’s friend, Jessica Toukatly, is on the show today to talk about the important work started by The Geena Davis Institute for Gender and Media. Geena Davis was watching television with her kids one day when she noticed a sharp difference between the amount of lines given to male characters versus the female characters in the show. So she started tallying and collecting data. Jess will go over the ways Geena used her standing in Hollywood to meet with executives to bring light to how little women were being represented in media when it came to their male counterparts. There will also be a discussion on what quality female representation looks like in film, how the institute eventually expanded to collecting data that would represent other marginalized voices’ time on screens, and other women who have pioneered paths forward when it comes to getting women’s stories told.  How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Find Jessica Instagram

The podcast’s guest for today’s episode is Dr. Valerie Rein, the author of the book Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment. Natalie and Dr. Valerie will discuss all the negative effects living in a misogynistic culture has on the body, mind, and heart. There will be talk about how these negative side effects manifest within our everyday lives and the toll they take on our health. There will also be discussion on Dr. Valerie’s work in creating ways for women to heal from the trauma caused by Patriarchy. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Support Dr. Valerie Rein Buy the book Instagram Website

Friend of the pod, Darcie, is back this week to talk about the one and only Kesha. Natalie and Darcie have been waiting for the right time to talk about Kesha and why they’re such strong supporters of who she is as an artist. After seeing the T**s Out Tour, they knew they had finally personally reached the best time and also Kesha seems to be having her best time as well. Topics of discussion will include Kesha’s reputation in the music industry, her legal battle with Dr. Luke, the healing she has done, and why Kesha is someone to be admired for her strength against adversity and how she inspires hope that you can fight the system, feel beaten by it, but still find your way to peace and happiness. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter.  Our bonus episode for this month included the topics: Kristi NoemTimothy ChalametThe women of the OlympicsChelsea Devantez and her film, BasicGetting over disappointmentLove is Blind OhioSecret Lives of Mormon Wives S4The only place to find a full trailer of our Misogyny Roundups is over on our free Patreon tier!

Tara Jabbari (Who Was She Podcast) has come prepared to prove to Natalie and the entire Tolerator audience that the Godfather Trilogy is actually a chick flick. Tara will use the films as a way to discuss how masculinity is presented in the films, the strong storylines rooted in the immigrant experience, and how women quietly held power behind the scenes. There will also be some moments where we can all just get a little hot over how good everyone looked in this trilogy. And as a bonus feature, Tara has shared her pitch deck with all the visuals and movie clips that are referenced in the episode! You can find the deck at this link.  How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Find Tara Instagram Website Who Was She Podcast Media Maker Spotlight Podcast

Nicky Trendz and Manny Oso from the podcast Bubble Bath Stories are here to chat about Manny’s first official watch through of Sex and the City. Highlights of the conversation will be why Natalie isn’t team any of those men, the dating tropes that each woman fell into during their story arc, the importance of having a group of strong women by your side, and why Carrie should have definitely accepted that check from Mr. Big. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Find Nicky and Manny Website Listen to Bubble Bath Stories Nicky’s IG Manny’s IG Bubble Bath Stories’s IG

Kat Sass is a drag artist, makeup artist, costume designer, teacher, tv and film personality, event host, and their creativity knows no bounds. All of those topics will be discussed with a special focus on how misogyny affects your life as a drag artist and as a creative in general. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Support Kat  Instagram

Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up. Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

We’re coming to the cottage! Kervin (For Why Games) joins Natalie on the pod to chat over the show that took the holiday season by storm, Heated Rivalry! The two friends will relive their favorite moments from the show and talk about the show as a form of queer representation in the media. They will also discuss how the show had them reflecting on their own experiences with love, audiences reactions to the show, and the discourse that happens all over the internet because of the show. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Support Kervin Website Tiktok

Megan Metzger is a comedian from Chicago who has recently gone through a divorce. She joins Natalie on the show to walk through the misogyny she experienced within her marriage and what the future holds for her. The problem with that future? Megan has found it really hard to be attracted to men or want to spend time with them after her divorce. Dating, relationships, women’s experiences with casual sex, and more will be discussed as we try to find the solution for how to have a physical attraction to men when you don’t actually like men all that much. *For this episode, there was an audio issue on my end and my track ended up muffled. My philosophy is that in real time conversation is always the priority but I do apologize for the audio quality. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Support Megan Patreon Instagram

Natalie is joined by new friend Cetoria to get into the girl powered world that is Sailor Moon. They will talk about how the show represents the energy that is being a teenage girl. Within the conversation surrounding Sailor Moon, they will also talk about the hierarchy of girlhood and how they experienced girlhood as young women and ways they’re reclaiming it today. They’ll also discuss other treasured franchises that were celebrating young women while they were growing up. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Support Cetoria Instagram

Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up. Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) is back to dive deep into her feelings about Glinda now that she has seen Wicked: For Good. Natalie and Julia will discuss the deep amount of empathy Elphaba holds for Glinda, even when Glinda is still siding with Oz and taking the privileges that come along with that choice. They will also discuss Glinda’s path to understanding it isn’t enough to entertain the thought that there are oppressive systems surrounding you, eventually you do have to do some actions to bring about change. There will also be discussion surrounding how the media serves as a reflection of our society as well as some troubling thoughts on our society’s diminishing media literacy.  Was Julia sold on Glinda being changed for good? Listen to the episode to find out. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Support Julia Shop Her Candles Instagram Patreon

Sarah Intelligator is a family law attorney and author of the book Live, Laugh, Find True Love: A Step-By-Step Guide to Dating and Finding a Meaningful Relationship, By a Divorce Attorney. She joins Natalie to talk about all the things she’s observed from couples who have solicited her help when they make the decision to file for a divorce. These observations have led Sarah to have some clear cut do’s and don’t’s on how to really be intentional on finding the right partner. In this episode, she gives some solid advice on how to pay attention to the important details when you’re dating to make sure you’re a good match. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Support Sarah Website Instagram Order Her Book