Advertise on podcast: To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

Hey everyone! Here is your look into all the fun we're having with our bonus material over on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for her” moments of horror movies. A consistent theme of the episode will be that the way women are represented in horror is a gateway of understanding how women are treated by society in general. Through the strength of the Final Girl, the three women have become empowered to leave bad situations, speak up for themselves and others, and say goodbye to politeness if it means they get to stay safe. A sampling of the movies, with spoilers, that will be discussed are Men, Barbarian, Bodies Bodies Bodies, and Halloween. Trigger warnings for body horror, sexual assault, and domestic violence. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Natalie is joined by her dear friend and witch mentor, Cate (Practically a Witch). Cate and Natalie will discuss the privilege to find yourself aging and entering your crone stage of life. There will also be some personal stories about how sacred they found the relationships they held with older women while they grew up. Other topics will include beauty standards, creeps getting older, and the power women hold because of all the things they’ve been through. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more!  You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Find Cate Practically a Witch Website

Amanda and her husband are survivors of child marriage. She joins Natalie to tell her story of how she ended up forced into marriage at the age of 17 illegally. Topics of this episode will include child marriage laws, teen pregnancy, using religion as a tool of oppression, and how to ensure the laws we live under are actually protecting children. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more!  You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Find Amanda TikTok Website Support Unchained at Last

Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) makes a stunning return to the podcast to review Practical Magic 2. Natalie and Julia will dig deep to discuss themes that were found in the movie, even if they were only lightly touched upon. They will also talk about all the hopes they had for the movie and what they would have done if they were paid to write the sequel for Natalie’s favorite movie. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Find Julia Join Julia’s Patreon Shop Prose and Glow The Book Club Candle Instagram Julia’s Instagram

Hey, Team Tolerator! Here are all the ways you can be apart of our community on Patreon and a little preview of the content you will find there for this month! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Natalie rewatched all of Desperate Housewives, got super irritated with Tom Scavo, and immediately knew she needed Margaret from the Smash Hit podcast to come do an episode on this iconic show. Natalie and Margaret will rank each husband on Desperate Housewives on their problematic tendencies. There will also be discussion on how important it is to see middle aged women be represented on tv, the secrets we keep in suburbia, and what Desperate Housewives taught us about love, life, and marriage. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Find Margaret Podcast: Smash Hit  Instagram

Kat Steinberg (She Media) is helping us define the trust economy and how it fits into our current media landscape. Kat and Natalie will discuss what it feels like when you’re living during a time where you can’t trust the media surrounding you. There will be discussion of women who have been targeted by negative media campaigns with a concentration on Chappel Roan, Sabrina Carpenter, Taylor Swift, and headlines from the past that affected Britney Spears and Amanda Bynes. Discussion will also include how the media portrays women and the negative connotations about womanhood we have had ingrained in us through our media. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Find Kat SHE Media Instagram SHE Knows Instagram SHE Media website

Ellen Moore returns to the podcast to talk about her advocacy for herself when it comes to getting the disability aid she needs to survive. Ellen gives Natalie an update on her health and the process she went through in order to apply for disability aid. There will be discussion on stigmas people with disability face, how hustle culture affects our ability to rest, and how people can help Ellen as she goes through the process to try and appeal the decision that she cannot receive aid. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well! Find Ellen Instagram Ellen’s Gofundme

Team Tolerator, the podcast is officially coming back! I know the feed has been quiet and here is your explaination as to why. We will be returning with regularly scheduled episodes next week! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more!  You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing how toxic masculinity had given her partner a misconception of what a relationship should be. The women go into how misogyny has created a culture around dating that allows for men to have their privilege leak over into our romantic lives. They talk about the emotional labor women take on within relationships, how toxic masculinity contributes to gender norms in relationships, and urge listeners to remember that everyone should feel cared for and seen during a romantic partnership. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Freaky Friday starring Lindsay Lohan and Jamie Lee Curtis! You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from Fiction Fixation to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to pull off! They’ll all talk about the favorite rom coms, the tropes they love, the tropes they’re over, and what they hope for the genre in the future. Movies of note will be Anyone But You, The Idea of You, Set It Up, and more! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women supporting other women and her ideal type of feminism. It took a lot of people, including Shanaz, to get her to watch it again and see the sinister misogyny lurking behind the pretty facade. Shanaz and Natalie will talk about a lack of body diversity, low pay, women being in competition with one another, women being a commodity for men, and other ways misogyny presents itself within DCC. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here. We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!