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It's our anniversary, so the boys have the pod's very first guest Sherry Vine (https://www.instagram.com/misssherryvine) return to chat about best/worst hookups. Before that, the boys talk about Jack's struggle to find artistic community and queer support as well as his journey with suicidal ideation. Finally JJ picks a fight with overuse of neurodivergency on social media and Jack leaves love and light to all of the pod's prior guests. Don’t forget to get tickets to Jack & Brita’s abortion rights fundraiser at The Stonewall Inn in NYC on June 30th. Tickets at abortthecourt.eventbrite.com Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

JJ is missing—check all windowless vans—so Jack is joined by special guest co-host Jizzelle (www.instagram.com/theonlyjizzelle) to talk about Jack’s last matchmaker date, Jizzelle’s Provincetown gig and what it means to be a “side”. Today’s guest is iconic NYC drag performer, activist and RuPaul’s Drag Race contestant Brita Filter (www.instagram.com/thebritafilter) who talks about her recent projects, online harassment and her love life. Finally, Jack picks a fight with the dearth of male backup dancers and Jizzelle leaves love and light to all Ru-girls. Don’t forget to get tickets to Jack & Brita’s abortion rights fundraiser at The Stonewall Inn in NYC on June 30th. Tickets at abortthecourt.eventbrite.com Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

JJ starts off the pod this week with a discussion of anticipation, both positive and negative, for the Fire Island movie. On Scruff, the boys’ swiping quickly turns into a discussion about muting, unfollowing and blocking on instagram, with Jack surprising no one by saying he’s strongly anti-mute—unfollows only. Today’s guest is drag performer Nicole Anadyme (www.instagram.com/dymequeennyc) who leads a discussion of best/worst group sex experiences. Finally JJ picks a fight with rude subway passengers and Jack leaves love and light to his new podcast—Star Trek Zhuzherations! Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

Pop those poppers, because this week the boys start off discussing VHS head cleaner and the more general concept of having to give up vices. In the swiping segment, JJ picks Tinder and Jack realizes he may have already swiped all of NYC as the only matches lately appear to be from Brazil (which he’s not necessarily mad at). Then LGBTQ+ rapper EarthTone (www.instagram.com/earthtonemuziq) joins to discuss his dealbreakers. Finally, Jack picks a fight with a week of unreasonable Crossfit workouts and JJ leaves love and light to Jack’s recent film project. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

It's a wild one folks. The boys start off talking about jealousy and it somehow meanders into Jack remembering he used to lay in bed at night as a child and pray he'd die before 40. That revelation sucks up the second segment, so no swiping today. Then fellow gay sex podcaster Steve Rodriguez of TAGS Live (www.instagram.com/tagspodcast) joins to detail his best and worst relationships. Finally, JJ picks a fight with his clumsiness and Jack leaves love and light to his friends who gas him up. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

It's a very special occasion, one that only comes about once a year--or twice a month if you're JJ. It's JJ's boo-iversary. After a highly caffeinated and meandering conversation about ? the boys jump into the Feeld app for the first time to look at poly couples on the hunt. This week's guest IKP (https://www.instagram.com/ikp4president/) joins for some red flags and finally Jack picks a fight with Schitt's Creek while JJ leaves love and light to his couch surfers. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

Jack and JJ are manifesting a discussion about manifesting on this week’s open. After they jump to Scruff to find your standard collection of couples and bottoms, and one man who is leather daddy from the neck down, and superintendent from the neck up. Jack then talks to NYC nightlife mainstay DJ Gingy (https://www.instagram.com/djgingynyc/) about his dealbreakers, before JJ picks a fight with surprise jalapeños on his pizza, and Jack leaves love and light to finally being good at Crossfit. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

Today’s pod starts with JJ gushing about his new boo Chris as Jack seethes. Attempting to find romance for Jack, the boys then head to Tinder for a land of blank profiles, which leads to a discussion of Jack’s “automatic swipe left” profile inclusions. Then we have our very first Ru-girl, the iconic Honey Davenport (https://www.instagram.com/honeydavenportofficial/) who takes a break from her myriad projects to join Jack to “look back at it.” Finally, JJ picks a fight with rose-flavored vaseline and Jack leaves love and light to his post-pandemic evolution. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

Jack's got a beef with self-care--or more specifically when it's weaponized to justify unreliability. JJ takes Jack into the wasteland that is Grindr to find some masc-onlys, gimps and all around slim pickings. After, Jack is joined by colleague Deshawn Aaron Jenkins (https://www.instagram.com/deshawndreams/) to "look back at" some old behaviors they've retired, and Deshawn dishes on his current poly relationship. Finally, JJ picks a fight with snap judgments, while Jack leaves love and light to a phenomenal new Michelle Yeoh sci-fi movie. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

JJ’s hole is a mood ring, we discover, as the boys discuss some STI journeys. After the break, they move onto Hinge swiping to find a cute musician with coded Star Wars references and someone who bravely admits that they like…the gym. Jack flies solo again this week and plays a game of dealbreakers with the winner of the 6th cycle of NYC’s Lady Liberty drag competition, Freeda Kulo (https://www.instagram.com/freedakulo/)! Finally, JJ picks a fight with young straights invading his gay spaces, while Jack leaves love and light to his new linens. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

The boys start discussing the eyes of Tammy Gay—gay eyes, which Jack only recently recognized as what he thought were hateful glares for the last 28 years. JJ talks about accidentally employing the tactic and Jack’s receipt of them in Crossfit from a cavalcade of bottoms. Next, Jack breaks down his latest date through his matchmaking service and bemoans "travel gays." Finally, powerhouse entertainer Kenny Supreme (www.instagram.com/kennysupremee) joins to pitch his ideal, virtual reality-based, first date. Finally Jack picks a fight with a barfly while JJ leaves love and light to straight people. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet

"TURN THE MICS ON!" JJ screamed on their break between recordings for Jack to retell his induction into top daddy-hood. After the break, Jack reveals the desolate wasteland that is Astoria Grindr. In the third act, LGBTQ+ recording artist, nightlife mainstay and all around hustler Marcel The Artist (www.instagram.com/marcel_theartist) joins to talk best/worst movies. Finally, JJ picks a fight with recent attacks on LGBTQ+ rights and Jack leaves love and light to post-pandemic opportunities. Talk to us: www.instagram.com/dyingalonepodcast www.instagram.com/jacktracyofficial www.instagram.com/jjbozeman Give us money: www.paypal.me/necessaryoutlet Join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/necessaryoutlet Get more content: www.youtube.com/necessaryoutlet