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Welcome to the De Escalation Conversations podcast! In this heartfelt and insightful episode, host Kerry Mensior sits down with Michael Warren, a retired Michigan law enforcement officer with 24 years of experience, current Virtual Academy partner, and seasoned trainer—to talk about all things police culture, de-escalation, teamwork, and the powerful ‘culture of speed’ affecting modern policing. GUEST INFO: Retired law enforcement officer from Michigan with 24 years of experience. He holds multiple degrees and is an avid reader. He currently serves with Virtual Academy ensuring partner success. Episode Highlights: Michael Warren’s Journey: From growing up surrounded by law enforcement in Georgia, to serving his childhood dream in Michigan, Michael shares the pivotal moments and family influences that shaped his career. Inside the Police Profession: Hear how shifting between dispatch, road patrol, detective work, and training molded Michael’s approach and perspective on effective policing. Culture of Speed vs. De-Escalation: Michael and Kerry dive deep into how the pressure for quick metrics and fast response times can undermine thorough, thoughtful police work and why de-escalation always requires time, patience, and empathy. Building High-Performing Teams: Both guests emphasize the irreplaceable value of well-rounded teams, leveraging individual strengths, and supporting each other on tough calls. Real-Life Lessons: Michael recounts a moving story about supporting a young man through a family tragedy, showing that de-escalation is much bigger than just use-of-force scenarios it’s about allowing people to be heard, seen, and understood. Training that Matters: The conversation highlights the importance of micro-learning, ongoing, realistic training, and the critical role of first-line supervisors in shaping officer success. Duty to Intervene & Teamwork in Action: The hosts reflect on the evolution of peer de-escalation and intervention long before it became policy and why humble teamwork is the backbone of safe, effective law enforcement. Key Takeaways: De-escalation isn’t just about avoiding force it’s about connection, understanding, and giving people their say. Law enforcement thrives not on being "well-rounded" individuals, but on well-rounded teams leveraging each member’s strengths. Training, experience, and intentional mentorship are essential to developing future-ready officers. Sometimes, calls that "go right" are just as important to analyze as those that go wrong so the right skills get transferred throughout the team. Shout Outs & Resources: Virtual Academy: Elevating first responder training for safer communities. ILEETA (International Law Enforcement Educators and Trainers Association): Highly recommended by both hosts. Conferences, learning labs, and an unbeatable network of professionals. Special mention for industry leaders: John Bostain of Command Presence and Brian Willis, both recognized for their groundbreaking work in law enforcement education. Connect & Learn More: Find Michael Warren’s contact info and links to Virtual Academy in the show notes below. Interested in law enforcement training, de-escalation, or joining Aelita? Check out the links this podcast is your gateway! Listen On: Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, YouTube Music, and more! Stay Safe, and Keep the Conversation Going! If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, and share. Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments what topics would you love to see covered next? #PolicePodcast #DeEscalation #LawEnforcement #ILEETA #FirstResponders #VirtualAcademy #Teamwork #Training #DutyToIntervene Subscribe for New Videos Every Week! ► https://www.youtube.com/@The-IDEA-World  Follow us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theidea.world Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheIdea.World Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the-idea  Visit our Website ► https://www.theidea.world

Welcome to another powerful episode of the De Escalation Conversations Podcast! In this episode, host Kerry Mensior sits down with Jamie Waymire, a licensed clinical social worker, international conference speaker, and clinical director at The Battle Within. Jamie shares her extraordinary journey from working in community mental health to serving veterans and first responders, and how personal tragedy shaped her advocacy and her work. GUEST INFO:  Jamie Wehmeyer, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, faced unimaginable tragedy when her 17-year-old son, Jake, was murdered on June 25th, 2017. Already dedicated to trauma and resilience work, this loss deepened her understanding of these concepts. Jamie now shares her journey of honoring Jake's memory while healing and rediscovering joy. She is the Clinical Director of The Battle Within, helping Veterans and First Responders heal from trauma, and owner of Jamie Wehmeyer, LLC. With a Master's in Social Work from the University of Kansas, Jamie offers seminars and consultations on trauma-informed practices, resilience, and healing. Episode Highlights: Jamie’s Path to Trauma Work: Jamie opens up about her career, which began with aspirations for business but quickly shifted to social work, driven by her passion for helping others and a natural ability to connect with people. Understanding Secondary Trauma: The core of Jamie’s work at The Battle Within is addressing the secondary trauma that veterans and first responders experience. She explains why recognizing and tending to this trauma is crucial for their long-term health and ability to continue serving. A Mother’s Loss and New Purpose: In a deeply personal segment, Jamie discusses the impact of losing her 17-year-old son, Jake, to violence. She details the fallout for her family and community, sharing insight on how trauma reverberates and the gap in preparedness to support grieving families, even among those with experience in trauma-informed care. Supporting Others Through Crisis: Jamie offers practical advice for supporting those experiencing the immediate aftermath of loss, focusing on simply “being present,” offering basic support, and avoiding unhelpful clichés. She shares what actions and words were most meaningful for her family in their darkest times. Recognizing & Managing Triggers: Jamie and Kerry discuss how trauma sets off triggers, sometimes unexpectedly and share strategies for recognizing and managing them. Jamie’s personal tips include tuning into physical cues, sensory grounding (with a special mention of her “Prickly Pig” tool), and the importance of curiosity and gratitude as means to re-engage the thinking brain. Self-care and Grounding Techniques: The episode emphasizes the need for movement, nature, and grounding practices as vital tools for emotional regulation, especially for frontline professionals. Jamie breaks down how simple things like mindful walks, breathing exercises, and gratitude journaling can help reset the nervous system and restore a sense of safety. The Battle Within – What It Offers: Jamie shares about her work at The Battle Within, an organization founded by veterans and first responders. Their flagship program, The Revenant Journey, is a 5-day intensive that empowers participants with emotional regulation skills, meditation, yoga, ceremonies for healing, and ongoing therapy connections - all at no cost. The Battle Within aims to break isolation and provide community and evidence-based strategies for healing trauma. How You Can Help: Jamie discusses the importance of both professional and community support. She encourages listeners to educate themselves, be present for others, and to check out The Battle Within if you or someone you know could benefit from their programs. Key Takeaways: Healing from trauma isn’t linear, and everyone’s experience is unique. Sometimes the most powerful support is just presence and kindness—not trying to “fix it.” Self-awareness and simple practices like nature walks, breathing, and gratitude can interrupt trauma cycles. Organizations like The Battle Within are critical resources for those who serve our communities. Connect & Learn More: The Battle Within – Programs for veterans and first responders (all services are free). If you found this episode helpful, please share it with others who may need support, and leave us your comments and feedback. For more resources on trauma, resilience, and advanced de-escalation training: Visit Idea That World for upcoming courses and events. Thank you for listening, and remember, stay safe, stay connected, and support those who serve. Subscribe for New Videos Every Week! ► https://www.youtube.com/@The-IDEA-World  Follow us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theidea.world Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheIdea.World Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the-idea  Visit our Website ► https://www.theidea.world

In this episode, host Kerry Mensior sits down with Randall Larkin, an award-winning corrections officer from London, Ohio, yes, not the UK, but right between Dayton and Columbus. Randall shares his inspiring journey from Army infantryman to leading the way in crisis intervention and de-escalation inside Ohio’s correctional facilities. If you're interested in real-life applications of de-escalation, trauma-informed care, and connecting with people in high-stress environments, you need to hear Randall's experiences and practical advice. GUEST INFO: Randall Larkin is a Correctional Officer with the Ohio Department of Rehabilitation and Corrections. Randall is the local CIT Coordinator for his institution as well as a Hostage Negotiator for ODRC. Over the course of the last year he has trained more than 300 correctional staff in Crisis Intervention. Randall is also the 2024 CIT International Corrections Officer of the Year.  Key Topics Covered Randall’s Unconventional Path: From Army infantry in Alaska and Iraq straight into Ohio corrections, Randall’s unique background shapes his approach to reducing violence and managing crisis situations. Life Inside Corrections: Randall discusses the day-to-day realities of correctional officers, endless rules, occasional pushback, and how to keep your cool after reminding someone to tuck in their shirt for the thousandth time! Crisis Intervention Team (CIT) Training: Discover how CIT training transforms the workplace. Randall shares insights from teaching over 20 CIT courses in 2023 alone, and how advanced de-escalation tools are critical for both safety and emotional health. The Power of Empathy and Active Listening: Learn the practical skills and mindsets Randall teaches, phrase things as requests, build rapport, use active listening, and always remember that even incarcerated individuals have choices. Managing Stress and Coming Home: Randall reveals his strategies for decompressing after a tough shift (hint: podcast silence and a good drive home), and how he makes the intentional transition from officer to dad and husband when he walks through the door. Impact Beyond the Prison Walls: Hear about the impact Randall’s teaching has had on COs across Ohio, many of whom reach out weeks or months later to share powerful stories of emotional growth and crisis averted. Trauma, Wellness, and Self-Care: A must-listen segment for anyone in high-stress professions, why “you were only supposed to climb the mountain, not carry it,” and how emotional wellness is the foundation for helping others. Memorable Quotes "Even if you’re telling someone to do something, they still have a choice. My job is to communicate it in a way that respects their humanity." "How can we be expected to help somebody else if we can’t help ourselves?" "Practice makes perfect, but only if you practice the right things." Listen in and walk away with actionable skills, a better understanding of trauma-informed care, and inspiration for building safer, more compassionate workplaces, no matter your profession! Subscribe for New Videos Every Week! ► https://www.youtube.com/@The-IDEA-World  Follow us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theidea.world Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheIdea.World Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the-idea  Visit our Website ► https://www.theidea.world

Welcome to a deeply moving and impactful episode of the De Escalation Conversations Podcast. In this episode, recorded live in Indianapolis at the 2024 CIT International Conference, host Kerry Mensior sits down with special guest Adina Peyton, recipient of the CIT Advocate Award. Episode Highlights: Adina's personal story: A mother's journey through tragedy, advocacy, and healing after the loss of her son, Brad, in a police-involved shooting. The moments that sparked her passion for change and led her into action at City Council, just days after her son’s passing. Walking through grief and isolation: What it’s like to lose a loved one in the public eye, and the powerful lessons Adina learned about perspective, forgiveness, and resilience. The creation and mission of her nonprofit, Grammy (Getting Real About Mental Illness): Destigmatizing mental illness, funding confidential mental health care for first responders, and advocating for Crisis Intervention Team (CIT) training. Real-life victories: How Adina’s work has sent officers for CIT training and caused meaningful changes for both law enforcement and the community. Inspiring listeners to break out of feeling stuck, and to live by design, not default. Why You Should Listen: This episode isn’t just about one family’s loss, it’s about hope, compassion, and courage. Kerry and Adina offer valuable insights for families, first responders, and anyone touched by mental illness or trauma. Whether you’re looking for inspiration, practical advice, or a new perspective on how communities and law enforcement can work together, this conversation has something for you. Learn More & Support: Find out more about Adina’s nonprofit, Grammy (Getting Real About Mental Illness), and how you can support their mission. Key Topics Covered: CIT Advocate Award and its significance Navigating grief and public reaction to tragedy The importance and impact of CIT training for law enforcement How to advocate for change, even when you feel alone Practical ways to support first responder mental health Resources: Adina Peyton’s nonprofit: Grammy — Getting Real About Mental Illness How to Get Involved: If Adina’s story moved you, consider supporting her nonprofit or learning more about CIT training in your area. Every contribution and conversation helps move the needle toward safer, more compassionate policing and community support. Subscribe for more powerful conversations and resources around de-escalation and crisis management. Don’t forget to like, comment, and share this episode to help spread the message! #DECpodcast #Deescalation #MentalHealth #LawEnforcement #Community #Advocacy #Podcast  Subscribe for New Videos Every Week! ► https://www.youtube.com/@The-IDEA-World  Follow us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theidea.world Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheIdea.World Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the-idea  Visit our Website ► https://www.theidea.world

Welcome to another episode of the De Escalation Conversations Podcast, recorded live in Indianapolis at the 2024 Crisis Intervention Team (CIT) International Conference!  This week, host Kerry Mensior sits down with Nigel Payne, the Memphis Police Department CIT Coordinator, whose law enforcement journey is deeply rooted in his family experiences and a passion for mental health advocacy. Nigel shares his powerful personal story of witnessing De-Escalation in action as a child, when an officer safely and respectfully helped his grandmother during a schizophrenic episode.  This life-changing moment set him on a path to teach and lead others: from studying under Major Sam Cochran, the founder of CIT, to becoming a CIT officer and now a program coordinator, impacting hundreds of officers every year. In this candid, insightful conversation, Nigel and Kerry dive into: The human side of policing and why De-Escalation is at the heart of effective law enforcement Tips and real-world advice for officers and civilians to stay cool under pressure and avoid escalating conflicts The importance of empathy, self-reflection, and seeing the bigger picture - both on and off duty, at work and at home How to handle high-stress calls, manage your emotional triggers, and even how something as simple as music can transform tense situations Practical tools to separate work stress from home life and the value of being “1% better every day” Nigel’s journey reminds us that De-Escalation isn’t just for the field, it’s a way of life that makes our communities, families, and ourselves stronger.  Whether you’re a police officer, firefighter, medic, schoolteacher, or just want to improve your relationships, this episode is packed with takeaways you can use today. Don’t miss this inspiring discussion with one of CIT’s top leaders in Memphis TN, and find out how you can implement these principles in your own life. Like, comment, and subscribe for more de-escalation strategies!  Subscribe for New Videos Every Week! ► https://www.youtube.com/@The-IDEA-World  Follow us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theidea.world Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheIdea.World Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the-idea  Visit our Website ► https://www.theidea.world

Ready to thrive in your career, find your God-given purpose, and achieve financial freedom? In this inspiring episode, host Kerry Mensior sits down with the incredible Michelle Sinclair Doyley, a mentor, coach, and financial educator with 20+ years in the financial sector and over 200 published articles. Michelle shares her unique journey from feeling stuck in a career that drained her, to designing a life of purpose, prosperity, and joy - and how she now empowers others to do the same. Through her faith-based approach and actionable strategies, Michelle helps professionals discover their ideal career or business in as little as one session and creates tailored financial “exit plans” for those ready to make a change. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to know when it’s time to leave your current job or pivot careers Identifying the difference between environmental discontent and a true calling for change Practical steps for discerning God’s direction vs. fear The power of mentorship, community, and accountability on your journey Creating seamless transitions: how to leverage your current skills and prepare financially The importance of aligning your work with your purpose for true fulfillment Real stories and encouragement for anyone feeling "stuck" or searching for meaning Special Mention: Purpose to Prosperity Summit Michelle’s free online summit is happening NOW! This faith-fueled, life-changing event is designed for Christians seeking clarity, financial freedom, and joy in their careers or businesses. Learn from world-class speakers (including Jason!), get actionable resources, and connect with a supportive community. Register now: purposetoprosperity.info Key Quotes: "We need each other. Whatever big vision God has given you, you can’t do it alone." – Michelle Sinclair Doyley "Find something that you love to do, and you'll never work another day in your life." – Kerry Mensior Let’s Connect! Tell us in the comments: What’s holding you back from stepping into your purpose? What was your biggest takeaway from Michelle’s story? If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to LIKE , SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with someone who needs a boost on their journey from purpose to prosperity! Links & Resources: Register for the Summit: https://purposetoprosperity.info Subscribe for New Videos Every Week! ► https://www.youtube.com/@The-IDEA-World  Follow us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theidea.world Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheIdea.World Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the-idea  Visit our Website ► https://www.theidea.world

In this episode of the Deescalation Conversations (DEC) Podcast, host Kerry Mensior sits down with Dr. Jason Sherwin—PhD, cofounder, and CEO of DeCervo, a cutting-edge neurotech company at the forefront of high-speed decision making. From major league sports to law enforcement training, Jason shares the fascinating journey that brought him from aerospace engineering to neuroscience and how DeCervo’s tech is transforming rapid decision-making for professionals in high-pressure situations.    Discover the science behind how our brains process split-second choices—whether it’s a baseball hitter recognizing a fastball, a police officer detecting pre-attack cues, or an NHL referee making a call on the ice. Jason explains how DeCervo’s research and training tools (like eTrain) help improve reaction and decision quality, using real-world examples and practical insights. If you’re an educator, first responder, or anyone interested in neuroscience and decision making, you won’t want to miss this engaging conversation packed with relatable stories, current science, and powerful takeaways.    In this episode: The science behind everyday fast decisions—on the field, on the road, and in life How DeCervo’s technology translates neuroscience into practical training for police, teachers, and first responders Real stories of critical moments: from baseball dugouts to police traffic stops Why understanding brain activity (EEG, MRI) is key for training under pressure How eTrain is revolutionizing law enforcement training with real bodycam footage The secrets to making quick, correct decisions in high-stress situations If you’re a first responder, educator, sports enthusiast, or just curious about how your brain works under pressure—this episode is for you!    #Neuroscience #DecisionMaking #FirstResponders #DeEscalation #LawEnforcement #SportsScience #DeCervo #Podcast #BrainScience #RapidDecisions

Welcome to another compelling episode of the De-Escalation Conversations Podcast. In this episode, host Kerry Mensior sits down with disaster and border crisis expert, Eddy Weiss, for an eye-opening discussion on the security issues facing the U.S. today. Eddy delves into insights from his book "Chaos Across Continents: Venezuela's Impact on America's Front Lines" and discusses the pervasive threat of gangs like Tren de Aragua infiltrating migrant shelters and urban areas across the country. Through this conversation, Eddy Weiss highlights the importance of situational awareness and community vigilance, stressing that these issues, while deeply political, fundamentally affect our families and communities. Stay tuned as we explore current security challenges, the influence of historical contexts, and the crucial need for effective De-Escalation strategies. Don't miss out on this essential discussion providing both knowledge and actionable steps for tackling these pressing concerns.

On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, host Kerry Mensior delves into the powerful concept that your calendar is a reflection of your true values. He reflects on the challenges individuals face when focusing on what they lack instead of acknowledging their achievements, and how this mindset can affect mental health. Kerry shares practical steps on using a calendar to live a fulfilling life by aligning it with your values and responsibilities, while also improving relationships and reducing procrastination. Tune in for valuable insights and actionable tips to start living your life by design.Get your FREE BANKcode here ($99.00 value):https://CrackMyCode.com/VictoryThe Power of Gratitude: "When you're in gratitude, your brain cannot also be in survival state." — [00:00:44 → 00:00:48] The Importance of Your Calendar: "Your calendar is a reflection of your true values." — [00:01:48 → 00:01:52] The Gap and The Gain: "I want you to think about that for just a moment because anytime you've been depressed, anytime you've been down, any anytime that you've just been Feeling like you're slogging through mud every day. Most of the time, you're looking at the gap, not at the gain. You're looking at what you don't have versus what you do have." — [00:04:02 → 00:04:49] Time Management and Procrastination: "But if your family is not on your calendar, then you're not living your values." — [00:06:16 → 00:06:21] Prioritizing Time with Loved Ones: "When are they gonna have a little bit of time? When are they gonna have a 15 minute time block? And right now, what I want you to do is I want you to put it on your calendar." — [00:08:26 → 00:08:33] BANKCode Assessment: "It's what we use in one of our de escalation tools because it allows you to know the language that the other person can best hear, Not the language that you natively speak." — [00:08:51 → 00:09:03] gratitude, success, achievement, depression, values, calendar, time management, relationships, experiences, family, goal setting, planning, procrastination, emotional state, survival state, executive state, neuroscience, mindset, priorities, reflection, accountability, personality assessment, teamwork, joy, fulfillment, training, scheduling, career, goals, priorities, lifestyle IDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training? You can reach us directly at: [email protected] or by filling out a contact form at https://www.TheIdea.World/contact

In this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, Kerry Mensior delves into the powerful impact of evening and morning routines, with a focus on the practice of journaling. Kerry emphasizes the importance of reflection and introspection through journaling, detailing the "WLAG's" approach to capturing Wins, Losses, Aha's, and Goals. He explores the significance of journaling in personal growth and trauma healing, providing insights into the neuroscience behind its effectiveness. With practical tips and techniques, Kerry guides listeners through establishing their own journaling routine and integrating it with mindfulness and meditation practices. Furthermore, he shares his personal morning routine, highlighting the pivotal role of consistency and exercise in his healing journey. Tune in for valuable insights on using routines and journaling as transformative tools for personal growth and healing.The Power of Gratitude: "Your brain does not allow you to be in gratitude and in survival state at the same time, what will happen is if you go into gratitude, your brain will go, oh, I'm safe, and you'll shift into executive state." — [00:07:13 → 00:07:25]The Power of Journaling: "When we write, especially by hand, we engage multiple areas of our brain, including those are involved in thinking language and working memory." — [00:11:07 → 00:11:15] Goal-setting and Journaling: "A journal can be your road map and a companion in this journey." — [00:11:52 → 00:11:55] The Importance of Introspection: "At the end of each day or sometimes maybe even a week, you can write about what you learned, what you struggled with, and how you can improve." — [00:12:48 → 00:12:55] The Power of Journaling for Trauma Healing: "It definitely increases your positivity, and it opens your mind up to more opportunities for success." — [00:13:39 → 00:13:46] journaling, introspection, personal growth, trauma healing, morning routine, evening routine, goal setting, reverse engineering, sleep, rest, gratitude journaling, mindfulness, meditation, self reflection, emotional healing, accountability, resilience, success, consistency, prompts, meditation practice, exercise, workout, 75 hard, sunlight, vitamin D, lifestyle design, self-discovery, healing journey, conflict resolution, communication techniques IDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training? You can reach us directly at: [email protected] or by filling out a contact form at https://www.TheIdea.World/contact

In this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, we delve into the fascinating world of neuroscience and its powerful connection to goal setting.  Kerry explores how setting clear, actionable goals not only directs our efforts effectively but also triggers changes in the way our brains operate. By breaking down the science behind goal achievement and the role of dopamine in reinforcing positive behavior, Kerry will provide practical tips for aligning our goals with our brain's natural processes. Drawing from real-world examples, Kerry will show you how to combat procrastination and achieve success by leveraging our brain's capabilities. Tune in to discover how setting and achieving goals is a conversation with our brains, empowering us to reach new heights.QUOTES:Setting Specific Goals: "Vague goals aren't helpful. Being specific as possible with what you want to achieve allows your brain to really set the parameters for what you're going to do. This clarity helps your brain focus on exactly what needs to be done." — [00:06:10 → 00:06:26] The Power of the Brain's Filter System: "When you activate the Raz, which is what you're doing with everything that we just talked about, your brain begins to focus on that and it begins to look for that information because you've just told your brain that that's important information before that it was not important to your survival." — [00:13:49 → 00:14:04] Understanding the Impact of Fear on Decision Making:"When we are in Survival State, what happens is our PFC, our Pre-Frontal Cortex, shuts off electrically. It powers down and we operate from our Hind Brain, our Reptilian Brain, our Lizard Brain, and we don't make good decisions during that time." — [00:17:12 → 00:17:27] neuroscience, dopamine, feel good neurotransmitter, pleasure, reward, goal setting, motivation, positive reinforcement, progress, achievements, neuroscience and goal achievement, neural pathways, myelination, goal specificity, visualization, feedback, procrastination, survival state, executive state, prefrontal cortex, creativity, problem solving, fear center, dopamine boost, clear and specific goals, manageable tasks, regular feedback, celebrating milestones, setting goals, brain's power IDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training? You can reach us directly at: [email protected] or by filling out a contact form at https://www.TheIdea.World/contact

Welcome back to another episode of De-Escalation Conversations, where we dive into the world of conflict resolution and finding peaceful solutions. In today's episode, we have a special guest joining us: Matt Lorenc, the Director of Sales and Marketing at Fraud Fighter. With over 20 years of experience in Sales, Team Building and Business Expansion, Matt Lorenc brings a wealth of knowledge in the field of ID and document authentication. We explore the importance of verification and authentication in preventing fraud, as well as the prevalence of synthetic ID fraud and the potential risks it poses. Matt also introduces us to Fraud Fighter's innovative solution, Paladin, which offers quick and efficient ways to verify suspect identity and mitigate risk. We discuss its applications in various industries, from car dealerships to law enforcement, and the impact it can have on preventing financial crimes. So grab your favorite beverage, sit back, and join us as we delve into the fascinating world of fraud prevention and how vital De-Escalation techniques when dealing with Financial and Economic Crimes Investigations. ABOUT MATT:Matt Lorenc has joined Fraud Fighter as the company’s new Director of Sales and Marketing. Matt has been building and leading teams that consistently meet and beat growth records for the last 15 years. Designing innovative systems and creating new business opportunities in fintech, logistics, HR compliance, and investments with a focus on SaaS companies in a hyper-growth phase. Matt is excited to bring his passion for team building, data-driven management, diversification, and scalable business expansion to Fraud Fighter. Although an east coast native, after finishing his degree at Fordham University in New York, he and his wife of 13 years moved to Los Angeles, CA. Matt is a keen multi-instrumentalist musician and enjoys writing and playing music, traveling, kayaking, and wrestling for couch space with his 2-year-old American Bully, Charli.KEYWORDS:de-escalation training, shift brain, calm down, statements, prosecution, interviews, suspects, victims, witnesses, salespeople, survival state, good statement, Fraud Fighter, 20 years, synthetic ID fraud, scammers, stolen information, fake IDs, UV light, scanned, TSA, visual inspection, UV flashlight, authentication solutions, dealership websites, mobile apps, web apps, desktop solutions, patrol officers, law enforcement, suspect identity mitigation, risk IDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training? You can reach us directly at: [email protected] or by filling out a contact form at https://www.TheIdea.World/contact

In 1994, Dr. Steve Albrecht co-wrote one of the first business books on workplace violence. He interviewed a double murderer in prison for the book.  Since then, he has trained thousands of government, healthcare, library, and private-sector employees in workplace violence awareness, prevention, and response.  He helps K-12 schools and colleges and universities to create Threat Assessment Teams to address school violence threats. He has written 26 books on HR, security, leadership, and criminal justice topics.🎙️ Exciting News! We just recorded an amazing episode for the De-Escalation Conversations Podcast with the incredible Dr. Steve Albrecht!   🎙️ We delved into the fascinating world of road rage, workplace violence prevention, and much more! Here are 3 key takeaways from our conversation:  1️⃣    Anger Mastery: Dr. Albrecht emphasized the importance of mastering our anger, rather than just managing it. Understanding the triggers and stressors that lead to road rage, workplace violence, or confrontational situations is crucial for effective de-escalation.  2️⃣    The Power of Empathy: Recognizing subtle signals in body language, empathizing with individuals going through struggles, and seeing them as human beings can make a significant difference in diffusing tense situations. Empathy is a powerful tool for creating a safer and more inclusive environment.  3️⃣    See Something – Say Something: We discussed the vital role that bystanders play in identifying potential threats. Whether it's reporting suspicious behavior, leaks of information, or instances of sexual harassment, speaking up and reporting can help prevent tragic incidents. Trust your instincts and ensure a secure environment.   Stay tuned for the release of this enlightening episode!   And don't forget to check out our website for valuable resources on communication, conflict resolution, and De-Escalation training. Let's make our world a safer place together!   💪🌍 #DeEscalationConversations #Podcast #WorkplaceViolencePrevention #RoadRage #Empathy #SafeEnvironments #CommunicationSkills #ConflictResolution #StaySafe[00:02:48] Blessed to learn from experienced mentors in PD. [00:05:30] School shootings by perpetrators have shifted dramatically. Previous incidents were mostly gang-related or retaliatory, but now it's students, ex-students, parents, and others targeting schools. This shift happened after Columbine, where perpetrators gained momentum and were revered online. It's disheartening to see this becoming an acceptable solution for disaffected, revenge-seeking individuals. [00:09:12] Library staff trained in de-escalating conflicts, safety. [00:11:08] Library visit ruined by showering transient, relocating. [00:15:27] Threats often do not precede lethal actions. [00:18:59] Guns from homes contribute to gun violence. [00:20:46] Speak up, fill gaps, protect others. [00:25:33] I'm known as the anti bomb threat guy [00:28:54] Risks and consequences of escalating road rag IDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training? You can reach us directly at: [email protected] or by filling out a contact form at https://www.TheIdea.World/contact

Welcome to the De-Escalation Conversations Podcast! Today, we have a special guest, the Chief Innovation Officer at 1st MOMENT™. With a focus on transforming workplace culture through a prevention-oriented approach, 1st Moment bridges the gap between physical and behavioral health, and work comp incidents. Providing comprehensive care, 1st MOMENT™ aims to prevent incidents and foster well-being within and beyond the workplace. Let's prioritize prevention and create an environment where employees and their families thrive. Join us as we delve into their insights and expertise in reshaping workplace culture. Please join me in welcoming the Chief Innovation Officer from 1st MOMENT™.[00:01:46] Podcast features Chief Innovation Officer of First Moment. [00:04:18] First Moment is critical to managing incidents, reducing costs. [00:10:00] Limited psychological services hinder First Responders being able to  help. [00:11:21] Officer involved shootings led to PTSD. [00:15:26] Tragic incidents, and 1st Moment service responds. [00:20:50] People impacted lack tools; children confused. Government must act swiftly. [00:21:57] Physician burnout, high suicide rate, lack of support. [00:26:22] The impact of not prioritizing employee well-being. [00:31:40] 24/7/365 availability for trusted, reliable help. [00:35:14] Maintaining privacy while providing support and education. [00:38:18] Visit https://www.theidea.world IDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training? You can reach us directly at: [email protected] or by filling out a contact form at https://www.TheIdea.World/contact

🎙️ Exciting News! 🎉  I had the honor of hosting Gagan Gupta, a powerhouse of personal development and leadership, on this episode of De-Escalation Conversations. We dove deep into empowering senior executives, conscious business leaders, and professionals to unlock their full potential in a rapidly transforming world. 🌍   Here are 3 key takeaways from my conversation with Gagan Gupta:   1️⃣ Disconnect from your roles and find inner peace: Gagan highlighted the importance of detaching ourselves from our titles, jobs, and material possessions. By identifying ourselves with our surroundings, we limit our ability to experience true joy, peace, and love. Remember, the ultimate desire of every person is to have more joy, peace, and love in their lives. 🌟   2️⃣ Harness the power of intentional dreaming: Both Gagan and I believe in the power of intentional dreaming to manifest positive outcomes in our lives. By requesting specific solutions and outcomes from the universe, we can shape our dreams to avoid unwanted topics and work towards our goals. Understanding and applying this concept for 21 days can bring a sense of power and effectiveness. 💭   3️⃣ Crafting your legacy:We discussed an intriguing perspective on obituaries. We want you to know the importance of writing your own obituary to guide your life and leave behind a meaningful legacy. Don't let others define your story, decide on your desired impact and legacy. After all, if you don't write your obituary, someone else will. 📜   I was truly inspired by Gagan's wisdom and the tools he provided to elevate our personal and professional lives. Don't miss out on this insightful episode, available now on De-Escalation Conversations. Tune in to gain valuable insights and unleash your potential! 🔊 Keep in touch with Gagan Gupta at:  Fast Track Your Career.com.au  #Podcast #LeadershipDevelopment #PersonalDevelopment #LegacyBuilding #IntentionalDreaming #DeEscalationConversations  [00:00:56] Deescalation Conversations podcast: meet Gagan Gupta.   [00:09:42] Safety net crucial in unexpected career changes.   [00:14:10] Legacy matters; ask yourself who you are.   [00:18:21] Group grew, friend brought staff, universe aligned.   [00:26:31] Tractor beam, tools, list, gratitude, dark thoughts.   [00:27:47] Gratitude, giving, and counterintuitive perspectives, explained.   [00:36:02] Trying to do too much leads to frustration.   [00:42:49] Disconnect from roles, find joy, sleep better.   [00:44:29] Requesting universe solutions, intentional dreaming for success.   [00:52:09] Coaching for impact: 10,000 business leaders.   [00:56:43] Obituary: Humility, listener, calmness, legacy in control.   [01:00:38] Check out The Idea World for valuable content.  IDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training? You can reach us directly at: [email protected] or by filling out a contact form at https://www.TheIdea.World/contact