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Sometimes when you say “I miss him,” what you really mean is… you miss who you were when you were with him. In this vulnerable girl chat, we unpack the difference between missing a person and missing the feeling of being chosen, desired, and seen. We talk about nostalgia, attachment vs. alignment, ego bruises, nervous system highs, and why heartbreak often feels like losing a version of yourself. This episode dives into:• Why we romanticize potential• The identity shift that happens after a breakup• Attachment vs. emotional alignment• Missing validation vs. missing love• How to reclaim the version of you that felt alive If you’ve been stuck replaying memories, questioning your worth, or feeling the ache of someone who wasn’t consistent, this conversation is your reminder: you’re not crazy You don’t miss him. And she’s still yours. Press play and let’s unpack it together

Have you ever felt like everyone else is moving forward while you’re stuck in an in-between season? In this deeply personal girl chat, we’re talking about timeline pressure, identity shifts, and the quiet grief that comes with growth. This episode is for the woman who feels behind in life, who is rebuilding in private, who is questioning herself while watching others “arrive.” We unpack:• The silent pressure to have it all figured out• Identity changes that feel destabilizing• Outgrowing people and old versions of yourself• The fear of being left behind• Why uncomfortable seasons are often preparation If you’re navigating life transitions, emotional growth, healing, or simply trying to find your footing again, this conversation will feel like a late-night talk with your big sister. You are not late or failing.You are becoming. Press play and let’s sit in it together.

Emotional intelligence isn’t about being calm all the time or never getting upset. It’s about awareness, accountability, and knowing how to manage your emotions without losing yourself. In today’s episode, we’re breaking down three powerful signs that you’re emotionally intelligent. Even if you’ve never labeled yourself that way. From pausing before reacting, to taking accountability in relationships, to recognizing other people’s emotions without absorbing them, this conversation dives into what emotional maturity actually looks like in real life. If you’re working on self-growth, healthier communication, secure attachment, or becoming more emotionally stable in relationships, this episode is for you. We’re talking: Emotional intelligence in relationships How to regulate your reactions The difference between empathy and emotional overload Why accountability is attractive How emotional maturity impacts dating and personal growth If you’ve been doing the inner work, this might be the validation you didn’t know you needed. Tune in and let’s grow.

Going no contact is very scenario. Let’s talk about how each gender handles it and what exactly is it

We are going to learn how to say no and Wyatt is important to sit boundaries and how to do so

Why people who are always neutral in certain topics are the worst and how to not be like that.

Learning which situations require, which is very important

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Let’s work on healing your mental health and speaking of that was talk about healing childhood trauma, and the traits that come from it, which is being a people pleaser. Check out my book with the link below. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D2J4W671

Sometimes we need a little pick me up from someone who understands that life isn’t always gonna have ups. Well, I am here to give you that little pick me up in that boost to keep going! Be sure to subscribe.

What are the dues and don’ts of a friendship and how to be a good friend. Also subscribe to thought base and my blog. Purejoi18.com

Let’s talk about dealing with people who love to play the victim. Grab your tea and snacks and stay tuned. Also subscribe and check out my blog. Purejoi18.com

Let’s talk about the difference

Learning to let go of the reigns and embrace change

How to keep a strong bond in adult friendship. Listen up and take note. Also subscribe to my blog. https://purejoi18.com