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In this episode, we sit down with Claire Fountain to explore the complexities of dating, trauma, and healing while staying open to connection. Together, we unpack how past experiences shape our nervous systems, influence what feels “safe” in relationships, and impact the way we show up in modern dating. We discuss: The difference between safety and comfort—and why they often get confused after trauma How shame shows up when we don’t know what we want or don’t like what we chose The role of embodiment and self-trust in dating and relationships Setting boundaries while remaining open to love and connection Claire shares her journey from yoga and movement into psychotherapy, offering insights rooted in somatic healing, mindfulness, and lived experience. This conversation is for anyone navigating dating as a trauma survivor, questioning old patterns, or learning how to approach connection with more curiosity, compassion, and agency. Guest: Claire Fountain (she/her)Website: https://www.clairefountain.com/aboutInstagram: @cbquality Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries.Instagram: @fckthatshitpodTikTok: @emmaglobinaWebsite: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/Merch: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/storeSubstack: https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page

In this episode of The Dating Diaries, Emma Shull gets honest about the patterns that keep us stuck—examining how alcohol, people-pleasing, and avoidance can quietly shape our dating lives and sense of self-worth. Reflecting on her experience with Sober October, Emma shares how stepping away from drinking revealed deeper cycles of self-sabotage and disconnection, and how learning to trust her intuition became a practice in saying no—on dates, in relationships, and in life. This episode isn’t about perfection or quick fixes; it’s an invitation to notice the loops you’re in, question what’s no longer serving you, and consider what it might look like to choose yourself, even when it’s uncomfortable. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries. Instagram: @fckthatshitpodTikTok: @emmaglobina Website: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/Merch: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/storeSubstack: https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page

In this episode, we sit down with Sam Bail to talk about the complexities of navigating relationships, particularly through the lens of dating apps and the impact of COVID-19 on personal growth. We discuss: Breakups and the transition to online dating How the pandemic disrupted our plans for self-improvement and social engagement What it means to decenter both alcohol and dating in our lives Finding authentic connections in a world that often feels performative Sam shares her journey of creating intentional social spaces and rethinking what dating and connection can look like when you strip away the usual crutches. This conversation is for anyone who's ever felt like they're going through the motions in dating, using alcohol to make it more bearable, or wondering if there's a different way to show up for themselves and others. Guest: Sam Bail Website: https://www.brightnightssocial.com/#about Newsletter: https://brightnightssocial.substack.com/ Instagram: @brightnightssocial Connect with the show: Instagram: @fckthatshitpod

Summary In this episode one of the Dating Diaries, Emma Shull shares her personal journey through the complexities of dating, self-worth, and the impact of past trauma. She reflects on her experiences with dating apps, the societal pressures surrounding relationships, and the importance of self-discovery. Emma emphasizes the need to reject forced connections and mindless swiping, advocating for genuine human connection and self-empowerment. Follow our instagram and tiktok to keep up behind the scenes. IG- @fckthatshitpod Tiktok- @emmaglobina Website: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/ Merch: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/store Substack: https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page

The Dating Diaries is a F*ck That Shit podcast season exploring what happens when we stop swiping and start showing up. Through thoughtful, personal reflections and candid conversations, host Emma Shull documents her own journey of navigating dating without the apps—pushing past comfort zones, flirting IRL, and learning how to build connection with intention. Each episode peels back the layers of modern romance, spotlighting guests who are challenging the digital dating status quo and finding love, intimacy, or self-discovery in unexpected ways. From solo musings to community wisdom, The Dating Diaries is a call to unplug, reconnect, and reimagine what dating can feel like—off the screen and in real life.

In this powerful episode of FCK THAT SHT, I sit down with the iconic burlesque queen, Perle Noire, to explore her journey of transforming stigma into strength and using seduction as a tool for liberation. Known for her captivating performances and trailblazing work in redefining sensuality and self-love, Perle Noire has empowered over 5,000 women and femmes through her signature workshop, Healing Through Seduction. We discuss: How Perle Noire reclaimed her narrative through art and sensuality. The process of turning stigma into empowerment and healing. Her philosophy of self-love, authenticity, and embracing your inner diva. The impact of her Healing Through Seduction workshops and how they continue to inspire women to connect deeply with themselves. Connect with Perle Noire: 🌐 Website: blackburlesquequeen.com📸 Instagram: @theperlenoire

In this provocative and thought-provoking episode of F*ck That Shit, we’re stripping away the layers of shame, stigma, and societal expectations with the brilliant Fancy Feast—a Brooklyn-based burlesque performer, writer, and sex educator. Together, we explore: 🔥 The intersections of burlesque, drag, and sex work 🔥 How shame is weaponized—and monetized—against sex workers 🔥 Reversing the spectator's gaze and reclaiming power in performance 🔥 The role of filth and obscenity in challenging societal norms 🔥 Embodiment in a digital world and why presence matters 🔥 Why supporting sex workers means paying for their labor Through personal anecdotes, cultural critiques, and deep reflections, Fancy Feast shares how performance can be both a mirror and a megaphone—confronting discomfort, transforming perspectives, and breaking down barriers. 🔗 Learn more about Fancy Feast: fancyfeastburlesque.com ✨ Join us as we say F*ck That Shit to shame and celebrate the power of erotic labor.

In this episode of F*ck That Shit, we sit down with Gigi Holliday—burlesque icon, educator, and co-host of Assorted Chocolates Podcast. Ranked #8 most influential burlesque performer in the world, Gigi opens up about navigating family judgment, fighting for industry recognition, and unapologetically choosing herself. From stripping to burlesque to dominatrix work, she shares how she built a career on her own terms, embraced financial independence, and found power in defying expectations. 🎙 Takeaways:✨ The challenges of family acceptance and reclaiming your narrative✨ Why burlesque is business—demanding respect, safety, and fair pay✨ The power of community in erotic labor and performance spaces✨ Embracing your “villain era” to put yourself first 🔥 Listen now and step into your audacity! Want to learn more about Gigi and her work? https://www.gigiholliday.com @gigiholliday

The Darkly Divine: The Evolution of Erotic Labor In this episode of Stripping Away Stigma, we sit down with Artina Darkly—a powerhouse performer, producer, and advocate reshaping the landscape of nightlife and sex work. With over a decade in the industry, Artina has carved out spaces that uplift, educate, and empower. We explore her journey from stripping to burlesque, the stigma that still lingers within erotic labor, and the transformative power of performance. Artina shares how she’s breaking barriers and building community through her work, proving that sex work is not just survival—it’s an art form, a legacy, and a force for change. Key Takeaways: ✨ The intersection of burlesque, stripping, and sex work—why the ‘heauxarchy’ needs to go✨ The importance of creating safe spaces in nightlife and beyond✨ How performance can be a tool for self-discovery, activism, and healing✨ Breaking the stigma: What it really means to be a sex worker in today’s world Where to Find Artina Darkly & Her Work: 🔥 X.E.S Swrks Seminars – A quarterly series creating educational and supportive spaces for sex workers🔥 Dark Opulence – A weekly variety show celebrating sensuality and artistry (Saturdays at Pink Metal BK, 9 PM)🔥 A Dazzling Dark Night – A monthly classical burlesque showcase (One Thursday a month at Le Boudoir BK, 8 PM) Follow @ArtinaDarkly for updates on performances, events, and advocacy! 🎧 Tune in now & strip away the stigma with us!

In this episode of F*ck That Shit: Stripping Away Stigma, we sit down with the incredible AM Davies—a retired stripper, producer of Yes, a Stripper Podcast, and a fierce advocate for sex worker rights. With 20 years of experience in the industry, AMD has navigated the highs and lows of erotic labor, from personal empowerment to systemic challenges, and is now dedicated to amplifying the voices of sex workers worldwide. We dive into:✨ The realities of working in erotic labor & industry exploitation✨ Life after a career-ending injury & reclaiming power✨ The fight against stigma, SESTA/FOSTA, & harmful legislation✨ Addressing the “But what about benefits?” argument✨ The intersection of stripping, autonomy, and advocacy AMD’s journey is one of resilience, activism, and radical self-acceptance. By the end of this conversation, you’ll be saying F*ck That Shit to whorephobia and the systems that perpetuate it. 📲 Instagram: @amdavies_🎙 Yes, a Stripper Podcast: @yesastripperpodcast💻 Website: Yes, a Stripper Podcast 🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts!

In this episode of Fck That Shit, I sit down with the magnetic and titillating Honeybaby—a transsexual kink provider, educator, peer coach, and performer—whose work explores the intersection of eroticism, disability, mental health, healing, and connection. We dive into: 🔥 The transformative power of the erotic as a tool for personal and collective healing 🔥 Navigating sex work while balancing multiple identities 🔥 The urgent need for accessibility in nightlife and sex work spaces 🔥 The impact of community, boundaries, and self-acceptance in both performance and advocacy Honeybaby is not only a performer and educator but also a passionate advocate for disability and mental health inclusion. They co-facilitate a free Virtual SWer Support Group every Monday—DM them if you’re interested! 📲 Follow Honeybaby on IG:@honeybabynyc 📩 For education, facilitation & performance inquiries: [email protected]🔗 For SW/kink-related connections: [email protected] Let’s strip away the stigma and say Fck That Shit to disability exclusion and erasure. Tune in now!

In this episode, we sit down with Cha Cha, a body-affirming photographer, burlesque performer, and producer of Hexes & Heauxs, a show centering Black, Brown, Trans, Fat, and Queer nightlife artists. They dive into the journey from photography to performance, the power of self-portraits, and the challenges of representation in burlesque. Cha Cha shares insights on building a community, balancing motherhood and art, and why holding space for marginalized voices is an act of resistance. ✨ Key Takeaways: Burlesque as empowerment & self-expressionThe importance of consent & control in performanceTreating show production as a businessPrioritizing mental health & community support🔗 Connect with Cha Cha: 📸 Photography: cheyennegil.com 📷 IG: @chachamamaburlesque / @cheyennegil Venmo: @chacha-mama

In this episode of Stripping Away Stigma, I sit down with the electrifying Queerly Femmetastic—a Brooklyn-bred bombshell, internationally renowned ecdysiast, and Grand Master Funk of the 2024 What the Funk Festival. We dive into the erased Black history of burlesque, the whorearchy that divides erotic labor, and how outdated blue laws still police performers. Queerly shares insights on consent in performance spaces, the power of costuming, and why cash is queen. Through humor and wisdom, she reminds us to honor our past, reject stigma, and take up space unapologetically. Key Takeaways:🔥 Burlesque has deep Black roots – Black shake-dancers and hoochie-coochie performers shaped the art form.🔥 F*ck the whorearchy – Erotic labor deserves respect across the board.🔥 Blue laws still restrict performance – Outdated legal restrictions police bodies on stage.🔥 Consent and etiquette matter – Audiences must respect performer boundaries.🔥 Costuming is an evolving skill – Creativity and patience build a burlesque persona.🔥 Cash is queen – Performance is labor and should be valued.🔥 Healing through burlesque – Sensuality and movement can be powerful tools for self-discovery. Follow Queerly Femmetastic:📸 Instagram: @queerly_femmetastic Linktree: https://linktr.ee/queerlyfemmetastic Tip Queerly or Support their art here: https://ko-fi.com/queerlyfemmetastic Stay Connected:💬 Follow me: @emmglobina / @fckthatshitpod If you loved this episode, don’t forget to rate, review, and share! 💃🔥

In this episode of F*ck That Shit, host Emma Shull interviews Jackrabbit Slims, an Afro-Latina burlesque dancer and drag performer based in NYC. They discuss Jack's journey into burlesque and drag, the cultural influences shaping their artistry, and the challenges of navigating stigma while maintaining authenticity. Jack shares insights on body positivity, self-expression, and transitioning from performer to producer, as well as reflections on sobriety, personal growth, and the evolution of NYC's performance scene. The conversation explores the unique appeal of Coney Island pageants, the intersection of burlesque and sex work, and the importance of fair compensation for performers. Jack also highlights their current show, Los Diablos, and the significance of community support in their career. Tune in for a candid discussion on artistry, resilience, and breaking the rules in the world of burlesque. Stay tuned for the end, where Jack and Emma circle back about the question: Is Burlesque sex work?

In this episode, host Emma Shull sits down with Amanda Poise, a theater artist turned burlesque performer. Amanda shares how she built War in High Heels, a project that amplifies performer stories while navigating the intersections of family concerns, safety, and artistic freedom. Together, they unpack the nuances of burlesque as both a community and a scene, the challenges of imposter syndrome, and how city environments—from New York to Seattle—shape artistic expression. Through personal stories and reflections, Amanda reveals how burlesque is more than entertainment—it’s a form of storytelling, self-discovery, and rebellion. Rewriting the Narrative – Amanda’s shift from 16 years in theater to burlesque and what it taught her about artistic agency. Creating Your Own Stage – The origins of War in High Heels and how it amplifies diverse performer experiences. Navigating Stigma & Safety – Addressing family concerns and the broader societal misconceptions about burlesque. Authenticity in Performance – How different artistic spaces impact creativity and personal growth. Balancing Multiple Passions – Managing creative projects without being confined to a single identity. Saying ‘F*ck That Shit’ to Expectations – How burlesque empowers performers to reclaim their narratives on their own terms. This episode is an unfiltered look at how burlesque challenges norms, redefines artistic spaces, and offers a stage for radical self-expression. Learn more about Amanda and their work: https://amandapoise.com/warinhighheels Follow them on instagram: @poisonamanda and feel free to send them a tip for their thoughts! Venmo is @amandapoise and Cashapp is $sipsofpoison