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This is a pleasure-centric episode! Learn some tips for pleasing people with vulvas, and get an insider’s idea of different ways to play. Allison Moon talks sex geek stuff like lesbianism, theater, disability, and sexual skills. 2:00 GIRLSEX 101 is about queer sex 5:00 straight men like this book too 8:00 Guide to Getting It/On 11:00 college professor in the PNW 14:00 Sex Geek Summer Camp 18:00 listening will make you better 21:00 more tips for sex with women  Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com  26:00 beware scammers selling stuff 30:00 oral sex tips 33:00 don’t kick me off online plz  36:00 more oral sex tips 39:00 transphobes hate her!  Sponsored by Lovecrave.com 45:00 SWOON - a short rom/com film about sex work and disability 47:00 leftist movements can leave people behind 51:00 sex can be silly and bizarre  54:00 @DirtyLola and Reid Mihalko shoutouts 57:00 a renaissance around sex positive media is possible  FIND YOUR GUEST: AlliedMoon.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenesat Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Kaytlin Bailey is a comedian and former escort who founded a nonprofit organization that uses storytelling to advocate for human rights. She produces conferences and podcasts episodes and is touring The Oldest Profession Live Show now! Let’s talk about 10,000 years of sex work in history. TIMESTAMPS: 3:00 feminism succeeds with inclusion of sw 7:00 sw in history  10:00 feedback from audiences 13:00 internalized shame 15:00 the Honest Courtesan - maggiemcneil.com 18:00 sugaring and escort background 22:0010% off your feministtrash.com order with code STRIPPERWRITER 25:00 Veronica Franco - fascinating historical figure 29:00 reminder to save your money if you can 33:00 fundraising and sugaring  37:00 differences in activism 40:00 what is “bad” money? 43:00 attitude is everything  47:00 flagging or signaling  50:00 it’s expensive to look “naturally pretty” 54:00 how to gauge compassion about sw?57:00 how to be an ally  1:00:00 danger vs opportunity  1:02:00 sex tips from a married person jk FIND YOUR GUEST: kaytlinbailey.com/,  AND AT theoldestprofession.org/ FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenesat Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Suzannah Weiss is an American sexologist and author of “Eve’s Blessing”, which discusses how people with vulvas can lead pleasurable lives in a world that normalizes their pain, specifically related to sex, childbirth and menstruation. This book is for gender diverse people, and is not a critique of the Bible, but a more sex-positive re-imagining of it. 3:00 chronic lyme disease, pain or no-gasm  7:00 stories from others 10:00 what is “the female experience” 13:00 medical forms and language can make it confusing 15:00 gaslighting example 18:00 PAXIL may mess up your vag 21:00 hormonal birth control side effects 25:00 CONDOMANIA.COM - code THEYTALKSEX 10% off first order 28:00 the Bible’s pain of child-raising? 32:00 wine is not the answer in this case 36:00 side effects of sexual violence 40:00 OF Bible Passages  43:00 advocate for yourself during doctor visits 45:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com 46:00 about 5% of people have endometriosis? 50:00 should periods be so painful? 53:00 reminder, she’s a sex therapist in CA 56:00 sex tips! FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @suzannahwise FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Your questions on STIs, dating, and pleasure, answered by Mariah Caudillo of @SexedFiles of IG. She's worked in schools for a decade and is an online program creator for a major health care clinic. Let's talk health and fun sex stuff. 3:00 day and night jobs! 7:00 teaching in schools for a decade  10:00 bacterial vs virtual STIs 14:00 M.Gen is a new STI! Fun! 16:00 Qs for a new partner? 22:00 HPV info  25:00 THEYTALKSEX for 15% off first order Condomania.com 27:00 Bacterial Vaginosis is an STI? 34:00 the vagina is like a sleeping bag 37:00 how much is too much masturbation? 43:00 Sponsored by LoveBlanket.com - get 10% off via theytalksex.com 45:00 cock ring questions  48:00 hallucinations while orgasming? 51:00 what to do about a chronic UTI? 54:00 how to stay motivated as a teacher  57:00 NY Post is trash 1:01:00 more on online harassment 1:03:00 sex tips! FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @sexedfiles FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :) Please rate and review this podcast :)

Phoenix Rising met your host as a newbie stripper in the previous decade -  and she rejoins Elle to reflect in the podcast, years later. What has changed or been learned? This is a big advice episode for all strippers and people who love them. Let’s talk drama, burnout, injuries, aging, judgement, and self-care. I first interviewed Phoenix Rising as a newbie stripper, in our previous decade -  and she rejoins your host as a thriving veteran, years later. This is a big advice episode for all strippers and people who love them. Let’s talk drama, burnout, injuries, aging, judgement, and self-care. 3:00 animal rescue  5:00 club experience 8:00 shoutout to PUMPS in NY 12:00 Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com 17:00 shoutout to @yourtoxicaddiction on IG 20:00 club conflict with peers 23:00 how to avoid burnout 25:00 mental capacity and energy 28:00 on music and branding 34:00 common stripper injuries  38:00 balls to the wall pain 40:00 TheyTalkSex.com has discount codes for cool gifts :) 43:00 on the terms “baby stripper and veteran” 47:00 aging in the industry 50:00 body hair removal 53:00 body hair and strippers 56:00 quizzed on Charlie Kirk during dances? 1:02:00 stripper documentary “Cheers:PDX” FIND YOUR GUEST: IG @motherlucifer FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Not your average grandma…better! Ruby Lynne of The Granny Panty podcast started sex work at the age of fifty three and today she’s a prolific media creator with a background in public health. Let’s learn some marketing and professional’s tips while discussing better practices for self care and health of yourself and your loved ones. 2:00 public health and porn! 5:00 M.Gen is a new STI 8:00 podcasting and networking with oldies 12:00 on being outed by a family ‘friend’  16:00 high school reunions 20:00 being stalked via Paypal 24:00 $500 a month to STI test! 27:00 studio work 30:00 sexting apps and etiquette  33:00 more ^^^ 37:00 losing friends and family 41:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com 45:00 roleplay and moods 48:00 we need an award category! 56:00 what keeps us young? FIND YOUR GUEST thegrannypantypodcast.com/  rubylynne.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Tricia Wise is a full time herpes educator and visual artist, and we talk about how to be a safer slut, and stay happier while being mentally ill. Get some updated HSV information, and get connected with her Shadownbanned podcast and upcoming zine project. 2:00 meet your shadowbanned host 5:00 SEGGS instead of sex 8:00 it’s disheartening to get flagged 12:00 HSV 1 vs 2 16:00 symptoms that we experience  19:00 take the herpes survey study!SPFPP.ORG 23:00 dating red flags? 28:00 dating tips and anxiety texting 32:00 getting the ICK for protection 35:00 reframing the scare 38:00 code THEYTALKSEX for 10% off Love-Blanket.com 42:00 harness that OCD in healthier ways 45:00 1 in 5, or 1 in 8 people have herpes 48:00 sex tipssss FIND YOUR GUEST safeslut.shop and youtube.com/@safeslut FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Are you feeling stressed out more often than feels normal? Let’s hear from our guest and therapist Carolanne Marcantonio who offers some explanation for what’s happening in your brain and body when you feel like you’re running from big game hunters, and want to anxiety-poop, or cry. 3:00 meet your punk guest 6:00 career advice from Dr. Ruth! 9:00 Fight, flight, freeze, fawn 12:00 stomach problems 15:00 ladders of inference 18:00 more examples 22:00 tips to ground yourself 24:00 discount code THEYTALKSEX 28:00 shake it off, literally 33:00 thesystemsthinker.com 37:00 SPONSORED BY Netherlandswax.com 42:00 can your partner work with you? 45:00 real vs perceived threat 48:00 ChatGPT sucks, why? 50:00 book recommendations 55:00 more book recs! 59:00 sex tips! FIND OUR GUEST : wisetherapylcsw.com/carolanne-marcantonio IG @SexTherapyBrooklyn FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Did you know that violence against people in the adult industries is a common type of police misconduct? Our guest and journalist Isidoro Rodriguez uncovers what he’s learned through interviews and study of two at-odds populations: cops and sex workers. Let’s talk about how power and criminalization of prostitution makes it impossible to protect marginalized people in our America. 3:00 embedded with police academy  5:00 sadistic, altruistic, apathetic 8:00 concepts of consent 10:00 did you have any biases? 13:00 I just want to learn 16:00 how to screen for predators? 20:00 officer-health and wellness 24:00 THEYTALKSEX for 10% off love-blanket.com/ 27:00 what are Good Samaritan laws? 30:00 Rights For Girls is not overly helpful or ethical as an org. 33:00 please don’t make our clients into criminals 35:00 trauma can lead to bias 38:00 billboard ads would help  41:00 clients don’t like talking on record either 44:00 don’t punish all the liquor buyers 47:00 safe harbor laws aren’t enough  50:00 I hope for a nice cop  53:00 don’t police homelessness or mental illness 56:00 Jessie Sage, Blair Hopkins, Kaytlin Bailey are experts on this  1:01:00 more reliable news sources 1:06:00 sex tips  FIND YOUR GUEST https://www.isidoro-rodriguez.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Jae Tracy grew up through severe parental abuse and trafficking and is finally able to speak about her experiences, in order to bolster other survivors and to teach the warning signs. Let’s talk about living as an adult with a family trauma history, and thriving as an individual after. 1:00 we met in the strip club 4:00 she can finally share her story of childhood 7:00 charming and abusive mother 10:00 meth and alcohol and “the wrong crowd” 13:00 Lutheran grandparents 16:00 Find her on Youtube @ Jae Tracy 19:00 a step up from home life 24:00 supporting a parent in their sobriety? 27:00 what feels good for yourself  30:00 sex after trauma  35:00 how to explain sex work vs trafficking 36:00 ways to spot abuse? 43:00 foster kids across state housing? 46:00 social worker problems 49:00 racism in parenting 52:00 get silly and wild in sex  FIND MORE OF JAE’S WORK HERE: LinkedIn: Instagram: Substack: YouTube:  Original Soft White Underbelly Interview: https://youtu.be/4sfHCQIzK3Y FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Leanne Lawson is an amateur adult content creator living in Canada who stumbled upon an online world of pro-fascism trans women(!) Let’s talk about internalized violence and power structures in adult work, trans and queer spaces. 1:00 trans women who love Trump? 3:00 the “Tucker Carlson of trans women” 5:00 barred from the strip club 9:00 trans-on-trans violence 13:00 pick-me! 14:00 trans women with privilege? 19:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com 22:00 examples of infighting and sabotage 26:00 dating lesbians 29:00 I'd be more successful if I shut up 32:00 on roasting people 36:00 picking your battles 40:00 trans-medicalism  46:00 outdated terms for people 49:00 what changed for you? 54:00 just one Republican with a trans kid 59:00 some people do anything for Likes 1:03:00 stop copying Sex workers if you hate us! 1:08:00 a sex tip  Find Leanne Lawson on TikTok and IG @crashout3oh4 OnlyFans.com/crashout3oh4 Special mentions to @Liam.nissan and @mohatesmedia FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

What can you learn from an online adult entertainer, YouTuber, and digital marketing professional? Misty Maven creates content for her subscription sites, sells worn clothing items, and tells us about her learning curves and ongoing practices for engaging online. Let’s talk webcam and sex work! 3:00 prior work experience 6:00 why they started sworking 9:00 selling worn garments  12:00 twerking videos  15:00 connecting with others 19:00 nosy and interested in others 23:00 what about the future? 26:00 talking with mom about worry 30:00 regrets in the future? 34:00 Sponsored by NetherlandsWax.com 37:00 beware of scammers 40:00 amazon scammers specifically  43:00 creators who scam? 47:00 economics  50:00 advertising on social media  54:00 tips for starting out 58:00 Sponsored by InstituteforSexuality.com 1:01:00 Colombian webcam workers and coercion 1:06:00 exploitation in commercial labor overseas and here 1:10:00 what’s next for Misty? FIND YOUR GUEST: on YouTube @Mistymistymisty and all links can be found at mistythemaven.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Ready for some inner child work? Our guest was tired of talking about their traumatic incidents and was ready to feel better in their body and relationships again - let’s talk dealing with attachment trauma and healing methods with Mx Harris Hill. 3:00 heal your PTSD faster? 7:00 inner child work  11:00 if you can feel you 14:00 hypersexuality and substances, PTSD 16:00 golden rules for working with people  19:00 inherently traumatized + trans? 22:00 jealousy triggered  25:00 stop relying on them for so much Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com 33:00 core wound therapy 36:00 dating three and power dynamics 39:00 more advice power dynamics Sponsored by InstituteforSexuality.com 45:00 on dating an avoidant  48:00 on being anxiously attached 51:00 co-dependency and materials 54:00 future plans and corporate influencing? FIND YOUR GUEST: at MxHarrisHill.com FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Vada Everlove is a Certified DV Survivor’s Advocate and poet of erotica. She survived sexual abuse and grooming and discusses the connections between purity culture, misogyny and abuse. We reframe some bad narratives and talk connections between polyamory and trauma-healing. 3:00 17 and 30 years old  8:00 some symptoms of CPTSD 10:00 vaginismus and vulvodynia 13:00 numbing your vagina with lidocaine 15:00 pleasure after abuse 17:00 anatomy and consent for kids  19:00 @ BookofWhoredom - our guest on IG 22:00 Sponsored by Netherlandswax.com 24:00 maintaining sanity while online  27:00 more on that ^ 30:00 dating after escaping that 35:00 polyamory and feminism relating  38:00 tradwife fantasy 42:00 Sponsored by InstituteforSexuality.com 45:00 Trump proposed birth bonus 49:00 a poem reading 53:00 afraid to fall in love with more than one person 57:00 a few of our favorite things, cucking and gay boys FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)

Tara Jones is the founder and Executive Director of a small, grassroots non-profit called The Youth Sexpert Program. If you have kids or tweens or teens, there may be some tips in here for you! Let’s talk about youth and education 2:00 building her own curriculum based on needs 5:00 first tampon experience  8:00 talking to your kids, concerns 11:00 continued – 15:00 workshops that they offer 18:00 NetherlandsWax.com 22:00 it happens earlier than you might expect 26:00 how to ask about your kid’s activity 30:00 masturbation is the healthiest  34:00 what if your kid’s friend’s parents are transphobes? 38:00 InstituteforSexuality.com 40:00 Heartstopper is highly recommended 45:00 people mobilizing, recommendations 49:00 Arkansas and high teen birth rates 53:00 amplifying stories and connecting youth people FIND YOUR GUEST: theyouthsexpertprogram.org/ @theyouths3xpertprogram and theyouthsexpertprogram.org/FIND YOUR HOST stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)