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Send us a text What happens when leaders prioritize control over connection? Nicole F. Smith and Dr. Shanesia Davis unpack the critical shift modern leaders must make: moving from control reflexes to authentic relationships. Dr. Davis reveals how cultural norms like urgency and perfectionism condition leaders to stay in "doing mode" while neglecting the inner work that creates sustainable impact. In this episode, you'll discover: ✅ Why leadership is a relational process that begins with self-leadership  ✅ How unexamined emotions leak into public consequences affecting teams  ✅ Why empathy doesn't mean fixing others  ✅ How to develop emotional regulation as a core leadership skill  ✅ The difference between being a leader and doing leadership tasks If you've ever felt the weight of needing all the answers or controlling every outcome, this episode will give you permission to lead differently. True influence comes not from control, but from showing up authentically and creating space for others to do the same. Resources mentioned: 📖 20 Golden Leadership Nuggets, Refined by EQ Impact by Nicole F. Smith 🎓 Upcoming webinars on emotional intelligence www.thenicolefsmith.com Your leadership impact begins with your inner work. Connect with Dr. Davis: uandmeconsulting.com [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1AnqSWDbKs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leadership_lounge_tm/ LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-shanesia-davis-359310aa TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@niesha_davis1117?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text Stop undervaluing your expertise! In this game-changing episode, host Nicole F. Smith sits down with Kelly Charles Collins, Esq—former trial lawyer, mediator, and arbitrator turned strategic advisor and professional speaker—for a conversation that will challenge everything you believe about pricing your expertise. Kelly doesn't hold back as she addresses the uncomfortable truth: Black women experts are showing up in spaces without getting paid what they're worth, and it's time to change that narrative. ANNOUNCEMENT! JOIN US IN ATLANTA: Kelly is hosting The 6 Speaking Industry Expo, March 16-18, where Nicole will be speaking at the Iconic Talks Speaker Showcase! This business incubator isn't about taking notes—it's about implementation. Learn the strategies Kelly has used to help clients go from zero to multiple five figures and close six-figure contracts. Ready to disrupt the industry and stop being complicit in your own erasure? Register for The 6 Speaking Industry Expo taking place in Atlanta March 16-18 now at speakingindustryexpo.com Connect with Kelly! facebook.com/kellycharlescollins Instagram: instagram.com/kellycharlescollins LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kellycharlescollins Threads: threads.com/kellycharlescollins You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text Your legacy isn't what you leave behind — it's what you're building right now. In this powerful episode, Nicole F. Smith challenges leaders to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start living their legacy intentionally. Drawing from her keynote The Legacy You Lead and her EQ Impact® Framework, Nicole guides you through a transformative reflection process: What do you need to START doing to align with your values? What do you need to STOP that's blocking your impact? And what strengths do you need to CONTINUE to protect your growth? This episode isn't about achievements or titles. It's about emotional intelligence, authentic leadership, and the courage to show up in a way that creates lasting impact. You'll learn how to define your legacy statement and ensure your presence reflects the leader you want to be remembered as — not someday, but today. You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text You're Not Going BACK, You're Becoming NEW w/ Nicole Bright Divorce doesn't mean going back to who you were before—it means discovering who you're becoming. In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Nicole Bright, certified divorce coach, author, and motivational speaker, to talk about healing from divorce with emotional intelligence, authenticity, and intention. Nicole shares her personal journey of leaving a controlling, abusive marriage while secretly coaching other married women—and how she transformed that pain into her purpose of helping others rebuild their lives after separation. In This Episode, We Discuss: ✨ Why you can't recover the old you—and why that's a good thing  ✨ The shame, guilt, and anger that surface during divorce (and how to process them)  ✨ Nicole's "Find the Bright Spot in Your Darkness" framework  ✨ How to reposition your ex-spouse in your life while protecting your peace  ✨ Why therapy and coaching aren't optional—they're essential  ✨ Breaking free from the masks we wear and the exhaustion of pretending  ✨ The truth: two people in a home can still be a broken home Whether you're navigating divorce, supporting someone through it, or leading others through major life transitions, this episode will shift your perspective on healing, resilience, and self-discovery. About Nicole Bright: Nicole Bright is a certified life coach specializing in divorce recovery, author, motivational speaker, and mother of two. She helps individuals heal from divorce and rebuild their lives with confidence and clarity. www.facebook.com/CoachNicoleBright/  You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text Most people see drama. Leaders see strategy. In this episode, I dissect 50 Cent's documentary move on Diddy—not as celebrity gossip, but as an emotional intelligence masterclass. He controlled his emotions, read the cultural moment, understood the emotional climate, and turned years of tension into influence, revenue, and global positioning. Your leadership will face similar moments. Maybe not on Netflix, but absolutely in your workplace and reputation. I break down five critical truths for leading in cancel culture: Power without EQ is a liabilitySilence is the real scandalReceipts live foreverEQ gives you influence that outlasts backlashSelf-correction speed determines survivalYou cannot afford to lead on autopilot. The leaders who rise in 2025 are the ones who maximize their emotional intelligence—not for show, but for sustainability. This is your wake-up call. You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text In this transformative episode, host Nicole F Smith sits down with Malaysia Harrell—psychotherapist, spiritual transformation coach, UN peace ambassador, best-selling author, and military veteran—for a conversation that will challenge everything you thought you knew about success, purpose, and healing. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:  ✅ How to know when you're living in your divine assignment  ✅ The difference between authenticity and transparency  ✅ Why trauma can redirect you toward your purpose  ✅ How to master the art of becoming and surrender  ✅ Why everyone can't come with you on your journey  ✅ How to redefine success on your own terms MALAYSIA'S STORY: After surviving childhood trauma, near-death experiences in the military, and nine surgeries in five years, Malaysia found herself at rock bottom—254 pounds, Bell's palsy, sarcoidosis, and unable to walk. But in that dark night of the soul, she had a true conversation with God and chose surrender. Three weeks after military retirement, she met with Howard Schultz (Starbucks founder), proving that obedience leads to miracles. Now as a UN-sanctioned peace ambassador, Malaysia travels internationally, helping high-achieving women heal from behind their masks of perfection and step into their divine assignments. CONNECT WITH MALAYSIA HARRELL:  📖 Book: God Has My Six  🌐 Website: MalaysiaHarrell.com  🏢 Consulting: BlissfulLifeConsulting.com  📧 Email: [email protected]  📱 Instagram: @MalaysiaHHarrell @YourWellnessMogul SUBSCRIBE for more transformational conversations that blow your mindset! 🔔 You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text Season 4 brought the real work to the surface. Across every episode, leaders opened up about grief, reinvention, parenting almost-adults, navigating faith, surviving adversity, and choosing courage over comfort. You heard raw conversations about DEI, AI, emotional maturity, purpose-driven leadership, and what it means to stop performing and start living your truth. This season reminded us: • Clarity comes when you confront what you’ve been avoiding • Confidence grows when you lead with honesty instead of perfection • Emotional maturity is the foundation of spiritual, personal, and professional growth • Healing is leadership work — not a side assignment • Mindset + EQ determine the quality of every conversation, decision, and relationship • Purpose gets louder when you stop hiding behind titles and start telling the truth • You can’t build trust or resilience without emotional intelligence From faith leaders to entrepreneurs, community builders to corporate voices — every guest showed what transformation looks like in real time. Season 4 asked you to stop reacting. Season 5 will push you to rise. See you on Season 5! You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text Together, Nicole and Melanie Pratt, radio personality of Charlotte Praise 100.9, dive deep into the intersection of faith and emotional intelligence—challenging the tendency to “put glitter on it” in church and in life, while ignoring the pain beneath. With vulnerability and wisdom, Melanie shares her personal journey from singing in choirs to becoming a trusted voice on gospel radio, and what she’s learned about healing, authenticity, and emotional maturity along the way. 🔑 In this conversation, you’ll discover: - Why faith and healing aren’t either/or—but both/and. - How unprocessed emotions like anger, fear, and grief sabotage spiritual growth. - The power of emotional intelligence as a toolkit for resilience, conflict, and capacity. - Why being the same person in all spaces is the foundation of trust and integrity. - How healthy conflict, pausing, and self-awareness can transform relationships. This episode is a candid, liberating reminder that spiritual maturity requires emotional maturity—and that true faith is never about hiding pain, but about healing it. Connect with Melanie! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melaniewho/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melaniewho1/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melanielpratt/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melaniewho1 You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text From starting a bookkeeping firm at her kitchen table to becoming a global speaker, Nesha Pai’s story is one of resilience, reinvention, and emotional intelligence. She shares how travel, loss, and even a cancer diagnosis shaped her priorities and taught her the power of self-discovery, vulnerability, and courage. This episode is more than a story of success, it’s a masterclass in using emotional intelligence to rise above adversity, reclaim your confidence, and pursue the life you truly desire….and not wait for one day. Connect with Nesha for speaking engagements! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neshapai/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neshapaicpa/ You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text She’s back! 🙌 Communications strategist Roshanda E. Pratt returns to Blow Your Mind(set) to share how 12 months of change—including parenting “almost adults,” navigating grief, and prioritizing self-care—reshaped her life and leadership. With honesty and emotional intelligence, she reveals how clarity, confidence, and courage emerge in seasons of transition. Connect with Roshanda! Facebook: facebook.com/roshandapratt Instagram: instagram.com/therosholive LinkedIn: linkedIn.com/roshandaepratt You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text This episode will blow your mind(set) ++++ PLUS - you get a FREE offer at the end! What if everything you thought you knew about workplace DEI—and the role of AI—was only half the story? In this episode, I sit down with powerhouse attorney, equity strategist, and author Luaskya Nonan, Esq.. to shift perspectives, challenge assumptions, and spark new thinking about the future of work. We unpack:  - How executive orders are quietly reshaping DEI (and why Title VII still rules)  - The double-edged sword of AI in the workplace  - 15 strategies to create inclusive, high-performing organizations  - Why values-driven leadership is the only way forward If you think DEI is “just HR’s job” or AI is “someone else’s problem,” this conversation will change your mind—and your approach. 🎧 Listen now, grab Luaskya’s book Embracing the Future of Work, and claim your free strategy session to start leading the change. Contact Luaskya Nonon, Esq. https://www.linkedin.com/in/luaskyanonon/ You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text Ever hit a wall at 2pm and feel like you can’t make one more decision—let alone a good one? You’re not broken. You’re experiencing decision fatigue—and it’s one of the biggest (and most silent) leadership blockers out there. In this solo episode, Nicole F. Smith breaks down what decision fatigue really is, how it impacts your emotional intelligence, and how to fight back using her EQ Impact® Framework. You’ll walk away with three real-time strategies you can use today to reset your energy, reclaim your clarity, and protect your leadership power. ✅ Learn the Frustration to Focus Reset Tool ✅ Discover how EQ unlocks better decision-making ✅ Get a sneak peek inside the 90-Day EQ Impact® Activation Cohort Whether you're leading a team, managing a business, or just trying to stay sane—you need this episode. 🎯 Ready to stop snapping and start shifting?  👉 Join the 90-Day EQ Cohort or grab the EQ Impact® Workbook Series at  90- Day EQ Activation Cohort: https://stan.store/thenicolefsmith/p/90day-eq-impact-activation-cohort Workbook Series: https://stan.store/thenicolefsmith/p/eq-impact-workbook-bundle You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text What happens when mindset, faith, and emotional intelligence collide? You get this raw, powerful episode featuring Robert Collins—motivational speaker, community leader, and author of Greater Thoughts: The Untrapped Mind. We go deep. Here’s what you’ll hear: Why Robert walked away from his 15-year career with no exit plan—and what happened nextHow attending a speaker’s conference turned into a spiritual revival (including a surprise baptism!)The real reason his original book idea got scrapped—and how Greater Thoughts was born in the showerHis method for reframing negative thoughts before they spiral into emotional avalanchesHow journaling, silence, and gratitude became his armor in life and leadershipWhy unprocessed trauma shows up in how you parent, lead, and love—and how to stop passing it on We talk faith. We talk neuroscience. We talk EQ. And we don’t hold back. If you’re ready to shift your mindset and start living from a deeper, more emotionally grounded place, this episode is for you. Links + Mentions: Robert’s website: TheUntrappedMind.comBook: Greater Thoughts: The Untrapped Mind on AmazonIG & TikTok: @Greater7ThoughtsNicole’s EQ Impact Framework: TheNicoleFSmith.comYou can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text In this bold and emotionally charged episode of Blow Your Mindset, we welcome former NFL player turned nonprofit leader Tony Covington, founder of I Am Underdog, Inc. – a mentoring powerhouse transforming the lives of student-athletes through life skills, mental wellness, and emotional intelligence. 💥 Tony shares raw truths about the racial climate, the power of community, and what it means to truly chase greatness – not fame. From redefining “underdog” to discussing the invisible pressures on young Black men, this conversation challenges cultural norms and unearths how vulnerability, mindset shifts, and purpose-driven leadership can shape resilient, emotionally intelligent future leaders. 🔑 What You’ll Take Away: Why mindset, not muscle, determines greatnessHow Tony helps students develop plans beyond the 1% shot at the NFLWhat Black men really need in the mental wellness spaceThe 3 things you can control (and how they shape your future)Nicole’s powerful reminder: Don’t settle for good when great is calling 🗣️ “You can’t cheat the process—you have to love the process.”  🔥 “There’s a long line to be good. But the line to be great? That’s where the work begins.” 🎧 Tune in to hear how one man’s pivot turned into a global purpose—and why it might be time to sign your own pledge to become an underdog on purpose. Connect with Tony Covington, Founder, CEO www.iamunderdoginc.org [email protected] Facebook: @iamunderdoginc Instagram: @iamunderdoginc You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

Send us a text If you're always trying to be liked, you're not leading—you're managing perceptions. In this bold episode, Nicole F. Smith pulls back the curtain on people-pleasing, how it's sabotaging your leadership, and what emotional intelligence has to say about breaking free. It’s time to set boundaries, communicate clearly, and lead with impact. You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn [email protected] powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.