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Sometimes, what we're looking for is right in front of us. The right person, an unexpected opportunity, or a chance to change our lives may be closer than we think. Yet, sometimes we miss the good because we're looking for something else. And sometimes, we see the red flags clearly but choose to ignore them. In this episode of Teach People How to Treat You, Nadine and Donna explore why we overlook opportunities, fail to recognize the people who are good for us, and make excuses for the behaviours that tell us everything we need to know. Are we seeing people and situations for what they really are, or are we seeing what we want them to be? Learning to recognize what's right in front of us means trusting our intuition, paying attention to actions rather than words, and being open to people and opportunities that may be so obvious that we end up dismissing them.

How much of our stress, conflict, and unhappiness comes from our need to be right, be recognized, be validated—or simply have things go our way? In this episode, Donna Cappuccitti and Nadine Dozois explore what happens when we learn to leave our ego at the door. We talk about the difference between having healthy self-respect and being driven by ego, and how letting go of the need to win every argument or prove our point can create more peace in our relationships and in our own minds. We also explore how ego can quietly influence the way we react to criticism, rejection, conflict, and even forgiveness—and why sometimes choosing peace is far more powerful than choosing to be right. A conversation about self-awareness, letting go, and making room for a healthier, calmer way of moving through life.

Hate is an expensive emotion—and most of the time, we’re the ones paying the price. In this episode, Nadine and Donna talk about what happens when we hold onto anger, resentment and hatred toward people who have hurt, disappointed or betrayed us. The truth is, they may not even know—or care—that we’re carrying all of that emotional weight. So why give someone that much power over your peace? Instead of spending our energy replaying what happened, holding grudges or wishing someone would get what they deserve, what if we decided that our energy was simply too valuable? This isn’t about pretending you weren’t hurt or excusing someone’s behaviour. It’s about choosing not to let another person occupy valuable real estate in your mind. Because life is too short, peace feels too good—and honestly, hate is just too expensive. I’d rather not.

We all make snap judgments—often without realizing it. In this episode of Teach People How To Treat You, we explore how our assumptions about others can affect our relationships, our communication, and even our own peace of mind. Everyone has a story we can't see. That impatient person in line, the friend who seems distant, the coworker who appears unfriendly—they may be carrying burdens we know nothing about. When we choose curiosity over criticism and compassion over judgment, we create stronger connections and a kinder world. Join us as we discuss why it's so easy to judge, how those judgments can hold us back, and practical ways to approach others with greater understanding and grace. You may discover that letting go of judgment doesn't just change how you treat others—it transforms how you experience life. Thank you for listening, Nadine and Donna xo

The people you surround yourself with have a profound impact on how you see yourself, the choices you make, and the life you create. In this episode of Teach People How to Treat You, we explore why choosing your inner circle is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make. We'll talk about the qualities to look for in healthy relationships, the warning signs that someone may be draining your energy, and why it's okay to outgrow friendships or relationships that no longer support your well-being. You'll learn how your standards, boundaries, and self-worth influence the people you allow into your life—and how the right people will respect them. Whether you're building new relationships, reassessing old ones, or simply wanting to create a more positive and supportive circle, this episode will encourage you to choose people who celebrate your growth, respect your boundaries, and bring out the best in you. Because when you pick your people wisely, you're also choosing the life you want to live.

In this episode, co-hosts Nadine and Donna talk about how liberating it is now that they are both in their sixties. Yes, that's right, sixties!  They focus on the positives of aging and that they are very much aware of how fast life is going by. But don't wait until you are 60.  Grab your power now and live every moment the way you choose to. Follow us on social media and thank you for your support.

Donna and Nadine have their own session of "girlfriend therapy" where they talk about how healing it is to hang out and talk with your girls. Our girlfriends are our best therapists. Join  Nadine as she shares her transforming experience of a wellness weekend that she attended this past summer.  Follow us on Facebook and Instagram to get full details on how you can attend this incredible weekend.

Nadine Dozois and Donna Cappuccitti share invaluable tips on how to foster relationships in the corporate world, These skills are also incredibly helpful for job interviews and for making that sale!

Nadine and Donna want you to learn how to treat yourself the way you would treat a good friend. In life, we tend to go out of our way for others, whether it be  children, parents, other family members and our friends. We are often nicer to stranger than ourselves. In this episode we talk about how to be kind to ourselves and how just buying a small bouquet of flowers can brighten our days.

Nadine and Donna reunite to talk about an amazing cruise they just took together and to talk about getting back to your authentic self. What exactly does that mean and what are the steps we need to take to get back to who we really are? Thank you for listening!

If you think everyone thinks the same way you think, then think again! In this episode, Nadine and Donna address the fact that we all come from different backgrounds and perspectives, and if we want people to disappoint us less, then we need to realize that fact. When dealing with others, keep that concept in mind, and you will find that you will be better equipped to teach people how to treat you. Please send us your questions and comments, and thank you for listening!

Are you tired of worrying about other people, especially those that don't worry about you? In this episode, Donna and Nadine give you tips and strategies on how to let those people go who you no longer have a relationship with. Learn how to identify those who steal your time or don't have time for you. It is all about reciprocity and investing time in those that love you as much as you love them. Thank you for listening and please email us your comments and questions. [email protected]

In this episode Nadine and Donna tackle the topic of dealing with people in our lives that are high maintenance. It is imperative for our well-being to set boundaries and let friends and family and others that we can only do so much for them. In order to live fulfilling lives and to maintain our energy, we must make it clear to those people in our lives that expect way too much from us in all kinds of areas. Whether you have a partner that is too demanding, or a friend who expects you to be available to them 24/7, we need to communicate how we feel and in a loving way, make it clear that we have limits as to how much of ourselves we can give. We also need to have people give back to us. And if we discover that we are doing all the giving, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship. Thank you for listening. Please subscribe and leave us your comments, feedback and suggestions. And do check out our Facebook Page! Donna & Nadine xo

How aware are you of your surroundings? Do you take care to make sure you keep yourself safe? In this episode, Nadine and Donna talk about tips that will help you be safe in a time where violence against women is increasing. Please send us your comments and questions at [email protected] Thank you for listening!

Are you a tweenior?  Well listen and find out. Tweenior is a word that Nadine has invented and it describes Nadine and Donna to a T!  Literally. If you are over 50 and are not feeling it, then you just be a tweenior. In this episode Nadine and Donna have fun talking about what it is like to feel much different than the number of years you may have under your belt. Thank you for listening and let us know if you too are a Tweenior!