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Explore the "PIES of Attraction" with Kimberly Beam Holmes in this enlightening video. As the CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly delves into the four pillars of attraction: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual. Learn how each aspect contributes to a strong, vibrant relationship with your spouse. She emphasizes the often-overlooked role of intellectual and spiritual attraction, providing practical tips to nurture these areas in your marriage. This video is perfect for couples seeking to understand and improve their mutual attraction, leading to a more fulfilling and loving partnership. Kimberly's Podcast: apple.co/3O4JiON Kimberly Beam Holmes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes

If you want to know what a toxic relationship is, or how to deal with it, we’re here to help. We want to give you some guidelines to think about and provide you with truth, hope, and plan going forward. To start, we’ll cover these two questions: 1. What do people say about toxic relationships? 2. What is a toxic relationship clinically?   “Toxic Relationships” are a difficult topic to approach because there are many varying opinions and experiences surrounding it. It seems like everyone has a different definition of what a toxic relationship is. For example, people will say a relationship is toxic when "you can't agree on things." Or, there’s “passive aggressive behavior." Maybe they "can't resolve conflict," or, "avoid conflict because they can't solve it." It could also be that "one person doesn't give any effort to the relationship." Now hear me out- these definitions are not healthy for a relationship, but they aren't toxic. They aren't great, but they can be fixed.   You see, toxic literally means poisonous. Eating or ingesting something that is toxic will kill you. It’s not just that you don’t like the taste. No. Toxic is poisonous. From a professional point of view, toxic relationships are abusive relationships physically, verbally or emotionally.   If you are in a situation where you’re experiencing abuse physically, verbally, or emotionally, feel unsafe/scared, or your rights/freedoms are taken away from you, please get help IMMEDIATELY. The Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/ helps you understand what abuse is and how to get help and get safe. I don't know your situation, but I'm giving you guidelines to think about. If you feel like your relationship is abusive or harmful to you, find someone to help you get safe. After you get safe, only then can you start thinking about the relationship. After this, if there is any way we can help, we would be honored to. Like we said before, there is a difference between how some people define toxic relationships. If you're in a relationship where you're fighting, can't compromise or you stopped putting effort in, while it's not a good situation, there is help for that! And we have worked with thousands of couples to grow, fix, and rebuild their marriage. However, if you’re in a truly toxic and abusive relationship (physically, emotionally, or verbally) please get help. You can start here: https://www.thehotline.org/   We really do care about you. For more information about courses and workshops, visit marriagehelper.com.

If feeling emotionally or sexually rejected has stolen your joy and made you feel like less of a person, then you're not crazy and you're not alone. You're wanting to try and turn your marriage around, but you don't know how. In this video, Kimberly Holmes (CEO Of Marriage Helper) is going to share with you the next steps that you can take to feel like yourself again. by going through these steps, we hope you find that you DO have worth, you DO have value and you CAN turn your relationship around. We have helped thousands and thousands of marriages in situations just like this, where there is a spouse like you, who feels like you are being ignored emotionally or sexually. We have an amazing success rate at working with these marriages and creating a stronger marriage than ever before. Visit marriagehelper.com for more information for your marriage situation.

So your spouse said they’re in love with someone else? Here are 3 things you can do to get them to fall in love with you again & restore trust in the relationship. See how to avoid accidentally pushing your spouse further into the arms of this other person, and how you can react in a way that will make them attracted to you instead. Visit marriagehelper.com for more resources that apply to your situation.

You've been betrayed by your husband. Maybe they they hid an addiction from you. Maybe they have been living a lifestyle that you didn't even know about. Or worse, they had an affair with another woman and you just found out about it. It could be that your husband knows that you know, but maybe they don't. You may be contemplating how you plan to approach him about it. But before you do anything, you need to understand a few things. In today's episode of Quick Tips, Kimberly Beam Holmes talks about what to do when you find out that your husband has betrayed you. Kimberly will explain the two different types of betrayals and where they stem from, as well as give you helpful advice on how to heal the pain and work through it with your husband. There's still hope for your marriage, and rebuilding trust is definitely possible. Sign up for our FREE online course designed to teach you what to do in order to get your spouse back: https://bit.ly/3AgW8C1

It's scary to feel alone. From birth, we are wired for connection. We strive to feel seen, loved and heard. When you first got married, you likely felt as though your partner was your best friend. Over the years, you have drifted apart. What once felt like a deep longing for one another has now turned into a numbness to the relationship. Because of this, you feel more alone now than you did before you got married. Although you may feel like you are completely by yourself in your marriage, we have good news for you. You are not alone. In this episode of Marriage Helper Quick Tips, Kimberly Beam Holmes gives you 3 practical tips on how to regain connection with your spouse if you are starting to feel like there is no hope for the future. You don't want to miss it. Sign up for our FREE online course designed to teach you what to do in order to get your spouse back: https://bit.ly/3AgW8C1

If you feel as though you are no longer a priority in your husbands life, then this is for you. It’s important that we define what type of neglect we are referring to. For this episode, we are talking about being neglected in the form of intimacy, lack of sex, or feeling like you are no longer a priority. If you are being neglected in the form of feeling unsafe, not provided for, not fed, or abused then you need to call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at this phone number: 800-799-7233 But if you are like one of the millions of women who feel as though your husband doesn’t love you anymore, and you’re desperately trying to get his attention in order to rebuild intimacy, passion and have a great marriage, then you need to take notes. Learn how to get your husband to fall back in love with you with our FREE mini course: https://bit.ly/3pAVpGA

Your marriage is about to end.  At least, it feels that way. You've desperately searched for answers, but you're worried that anything you do might only make the situation worse. You want things to go back to the way they were before this crisis happened, but you don't know how to get there. It seems like if you don't do something now, that all hope will be lost. Well, we are here to tell you that there IS hope. In today's episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes shares 3 ways to REVERSE the bad things that have happened in your marriage and gives you practical tips that will help you to begin rebuilding the love that has been lost. You won't want to miss this episode. As a gift to you for listening t this podcast, we would like to give you access to this free course: Click here to access our mini-course to learn HOW to get your spouse back.

Jealousy happens when we are insecure. It comes from the insecurity about not being good enough, attractive enough, or intelligent enough. And we all know that jealousy is the thief of joy. And it will steal the joy in your marriage, too. Why? Because it keeps you focused on what is not enough, how you are not enough, and how your relationship is not good enough. And if you are struggling with your relationship, then you're not alone. But jealousy will wreak havoc, and it probably already has in your marriage. Here's what you need to know about jealousy. Click here to access your free mini-course!

Not all counselors believe that you should stay married. This statement may surprise you, but you should consider that not all counselors are pro-marriage. And sometimes, they may say something that goes against what you want.  You know this though, because to your shock, your counselor has said that you should divorce. So what now? At Marriage Helper, we still believe that you can save your marriage. Here's what you need to know if your counselor is saying that your marriage is over. Click here to get your free mini-course today!

"My husband won't do anything. He is so lazy. Everything ends up on my plate, and I’m drowning in responsibility. I can't keep living like this." Does this sound like you? If your spouse seems like they don’t want to do anything or don’t care about anything, it can be hard to know where to start in turning things around. If you're struggling with a husband who doesn't seem to invest in or care about helping you out in your day-to-day relationship, I totally get how frustrating this can be. My own marriage faced this struggle at one point, and I can help you talk to your spouse about what’s going on and how things can change. Visit marriagehelper.com for more info on workshops!

I just don't know how to get past what has happened. I can't get the images out of my head of who he has been with and the things that he has done. I've had so many women who have been divorced and even some that are in a second marriage happily married say to me, "I wish I would have made my first marriage work." If you feel like you don't know how to do that, we can help. Does this sound like you? If you are struggling with feeling attracted to your husband after he has cheated on you, then that is what we are going to talk about in this episode of Quick Tips Find out more at marriagehelper.com