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Every parent hopes to give birth to a healthy child, but what happens when things don't go according to our hopes or plans? Are you prepared for the possibly of your child having a medical condition that requires medical interventions and consistent care? This week, Kate Tuckwell shares the complexities and experiences of parenting her son, who has Treacher-Collins Syndrome. Treacher-Collins Syndrome is a congenital condition that affects the bones and tissues of the face. In this episode, Kate talks candidly about the moment she knew that their lives would never be the same again. She also shares what those first 18 months were like, how her and her husband have adapted, what family life is like now with 2 children, and her hopes for the future. Kate lastly discusses the realities of fighting for funding, finding support and community online, plus the importance of visibility. Mentioned in the Episode: Changing Faces Jono Lancaster - Instagram Not All Heroes Wear Capes - book by Jono Lancaster Wonder - film Contact Kate: Twitter Music: Grant McLachlan

In 2003, Lori’s son Braden was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder. This milestone event changed her focus from teaching elementary students to advocating for all children and inclusive education. In this frank conversation Lori talks about what it's like to have raised a son with additional needs. What you will learn: What skills and emotional resources you need as a parent of a child with additional needsWays in which to support your other children to ensure that they feel loved and secure too Why toxic positivity alienates rather than includes Lori shares the joys of parenting Braden, as well as some of their greatest challenges as parents. She also invites us into understanding the external conversations around autism, including reactions from strangers, toxic positivity, and how we can all do better for families navigating additional needs. Mentioned in this episode: Temple Grandin Dr Stephen Shore SENIA International Contact Lori: LinkedIn Twitter Music: Grant McLachlan

Being a death care tutor is probably one of the most unusual jobs there is. Every single human being is going to die, but despite this, death and dying are still considered a taboo subject in many societies. In this episode, we're going to the heart of the subject. With a wealth of knowledge and a passion for their work, Angie, a seasoned death care professional, shares their unique experiences and insights about teaching people to care for the dead. What you will learn: What complexities may occur with the practical management of a bodyHow death care and funeral have changed in the last 30 yearsWhy death care is important to everyone - and it's not what you think. Angie talks about their work as a tutor and the Ichabod Death Dummies™ they've created to give students a real as possible experience as possible. In this open discussion, Angie talks about the diverse and practical aspects of death care, why they teach this work and why it's important to all us. Whether you are curious about the intricacies of death care, or just what to know what an is Ichabod Death Dummy™, this episode is for you. Angie's conversation might even challenge your perceptions about death, dying, and the art and science of death care. With 30 years experience, Angie provides bespoke and ethical practical care workshops and talks about death care. Assisted for nearly a decade, by The Ichabodies Death Dummies™, Angie designed and built the bodies to demonstrate some of the more complex and common health-care issues. They help students and professionals to ask questions and start 'difficult' conversations. Angie teaches across the UK to funeral service professionals, death doulas and soul midwives, hospice volunteers, community support groups and charities, and also private clients who wish to know more about caring a family member at home. Contact Angie: LinkedIn

Motsabi grew up as a ‘mixed-race’ child in the 1990s in the UK in a blended family in which she was the only person of colour. Her parents took a ‘colour blind’ approach to raising her which meant she ended up navigating the experiences of race and racism on her own. As a result, Motsabi spent much of her childhood believing there was something wrong with her and suffering from high levels of internalised racism, low levels of self esteem and generalised anxiety. She now works to prevent that happening to other Mixed or Black children. Her work focuses on empowering parents & carers to cultivate positive racial identity, belonging and strong self-esteem in children of ‘Mixed’ and ‘Black’ heritage, who live in predominantly white communities. Today, Motsabi talks about how to be aware of when and where your child might experience racism, ways in which to prepare them for life outside of your family, and offers a variety of tips to help parents to embed a strong sense of identity, confidence and self esteem into their Mixed or Black heritage children. Contact Motsabi Website Email Instagram Facebook Music By Grant McLachlan

Receiving the diagnosis of a life-limiting illness is not what anyone wants to hear. Yet, is it the doom and gloom so many fear? In this episode, Maria Baggaley Runningwater shares her experience of a cancer diagnosis, how she has chosen to live and offers an approach that could benefit everyone. Maria is also a good friend of my wife and mine. She’s a beekeeper, a soap maker, a deeply spiritual woman. Maria’s approach to her diagnosis has given me a lot to think about and I know after listening to Maria, you’ll have lots to think about too. Maria's meditations: Listen Now A series of meditations and activities to assist development of positive personal growth and spiritual awareness. Episode information: Music by Grant McLachlan

Regina Petra Meyer is someone who chose to follow her desire for an adventure. So many people dream about adventures, but never do them and regret it. But when we do follow our dreams, it brings all kinds of life experiences, we never imagined. It also often challenges other people, including ourselves! This week, Regina talks about her experiences of living her dream. She shares the challenges of saying yes to the adventure, the joys it brings, - and reminds us that if it doesn't work out, to make sure you have a credit card at hand to fly home! Follow Regina: Facebook Twitter Instagram Website Episode information: Music by Grant McLachlan

After experiencing 6 deaths of people close to her, and most recently her son's, Antonia reflects on these key moments in her life. She shares wisdom about the evolution of her experiences of grief and the ways in which she has chosen to transmute it. Follow Antonia: Twitter Facebook Website UK Resources: Samaritans – FREE Help – Tel: 116 123, E: [email protected] Adfam – help for families dealing with drug and alcohol addiction Al Anon – Family group support alcohol addiction, drug addiction and addictive behaviours Mind – Addiction and Dependency Support NHS Mental Health Services The British Psychology Society – Find a Psychologist Episode information: Music by Grant McLachlan

Loving an addict is one of the hardest things someone can do. This week we hear people's reactions to Antonia's Rolls' exhibition, 'Addicts and Those Who Love Them'. In episode 1 of Drawn to a Deeper Story, Antonia spoke about being the parent of an addict. She invited me to her exhibition in Brighton and I went along to to talk to people as they came out. This type of exhibition creates a visceral space and being part of people's processing experiences felt like an important conversation to have. See photos of the exhibition. Contact Antonia antoniarolls.co.uk – follow Antonia’s work Subscribe to her newsletter Youtube Follow Cath at Drawn to a Story InstagramFacebookWebsiteSubscribe to the mailing list Episode information Music by Grant McLachlan Resources for help In the UK Adfam - help for families dealing with drug and alcohol addiction Al Anon - Family group support alcohol addiction, drug addiction and addictive behaviours Carers UK - Support for carers Samaritans - FREE Help - Tel: 116 123, E: [email protected] NHS Depression Support Groups NHS Mental Health Services The British Psychology Society - Find a Psychologist Mind - Addiction and Dependency Support In the USA National Institute of Mental Health - a range of helplines National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - Tel: 1-800-273-8255 American Psychologist Association -...

Even for the most-informed parent, unlearning racism and having tough conversations about race can be confronting. For families formed through transracial adoption, it's essential. This week, I'm talking with Dr Laura Anderson about transracial adoption and particularly, why nurturing a child's racial identity is critical. In this episode, Dr Anderson talks about racism, unconscious bias and why White parents need to feel uncomfortable. She highlights the importance of understanding the intricacies of racial identity and systemic racism and offers ways in which, as a White parent especially, you can nurture your child. Dr. Anderson is a clinical child and family psychologist who has worked with children, adolescents, adults and families for over twenty years. She is licensed in Hawaii and California in the US. She has lived out of the United States on several occasions. Dr. Anderson is currently based primarily in Hawaii. She provides video health services to members of the expatriate community. The areas of her expertise include school-based behavioral health, the assessment of children and adolescents, support for adoptive families, support for gender expansive youth and their families and parenting neurodiverse children and teens. Dr. Anderson has done talks and trainings in the US and internationally on child development, adoption, school-related issues, and issues related to gender identity development. For both personal and professional reasons, Dr. Anderson is passionate about supporting children, teens and families around the globe. Positionality This podcast acknowledges that this conversation is between two White women. It comes from a position of wanting to have an open conversation about parenting a child of colour and to encourage other White people to educate themselves about lived experiences of racism and privilege. Follow Dr Laura Anderson Common Chord Psychology Services www.drlauraanderson.com Social LinkedInFacebook Mentioned in this Episode Families in Global Transition Embrace Race - Web Embrace Race - Facebook Donate and Information - social justice campaigns Black Lives Matter - Global The Bail Project - USA Stop Hate UK - UK Aboriginal Legal Service (NSW/ACT) - Australia Sisters Inside - Australia (QLD) Black Rainbow - Australia Follow Cath Instagrama href="https://my.captivate.fm/www.facebook.com/drawntoastory.com" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

Care 4 Calais states that the world's refugee crisis is the greatest humanitarian issue of our generation and how we respond will define us for years to come. Among the support and work being done to support refugees however, are the voices of descent; those who seek to demonise refugees and their desire for a safe new life. This attitude has always bothered me intensely. I want to set the record straight. We need hard conversations with those who know first-hand about the truth and realities of refugees. So this week I'm talking with Michael Failla. He's been a refugee activist since 1982 and works closely with LGBTQ+ refugees to get them to safety and resettled in a new country. His work is truly inspiring. Donate SCM Medical Missions - New Life Fund for LGBTQ+ people Help Michael in supporting his refugees Email Cath and she'll put you in contact with Michael Resources UNHCR - The UN Refugee Agency Amnesty International - Refugees, Asylum-seekers and Migrants Follow Cath at Drawn to a Story InstagramFacebookWebsiteShare the podcast Episode information Music by Grant McLachlan

The devastating impact of the overturning of Roe v Wade is very real for millions of women and trans men. In this special episode Cath reflects on the public outrage and pleads to not make injustices 'normal'. She explores the links between #metoo last year and recent events, shares personal stories and offers a 30% discount on her 'Roeing and Wading through the sea of misogyny' tshirt. Listen to get the code! Mentioned in Episode Article about cortisol in pregnancy - Imperial College London Abortion information NHS Ep4 - Valuing motherhood over womanhood Ep5 - The day I was charged with murder Ep7 - Menopause: The final frontier Ep10 - Herstory Rising: The patterns of patriarchy Ep17 - Parenting a child through trauma Roeing and Wading through the misogyny t-shirt Episode Information Music by Grant McLachlan Resources: UK Abortion NHS British Pregnancy Advisory Service Abortion Support Network Samaritans - FREE Help - Tel: 116 123, E: [email protected] NHS Depression Support Groups NHS Mental Health Services The British Psychology Society - Find a Psychologist Australia Pregnancy Birth and Baby - Abortion information Health Direct - Abortion information Australian Abortion Law and Practice Beyond Blue -...

You think you've done everything you can to prepare your child for protecting their physical boundaries and consent and then the devastating happens. You learn that your child's boundaries have been broken. The impact of this kind of trauma is incredibly painful, damaging and long-lasting. The ripple effect means that not only the child suffers, but so do parents and siblings. Personal and shared recovery takes time. In the face of such stressful and emotionally confronting events, how does a family cope? In this episode, Stephanie shares the recent story of her family as they've dealt with the trauma of what happened to her daughter. Stephanie raises important questions about consent, physical boundaries, outside influences on teenagers, and the limitations of the law. She also talks about the importance of understanding your child's silence. What are they not telling you? Do they know how to tell you things and are you giving them opportunities to talk to you? Stephanie's frank and heart-felt words offer real insight into the challenges of expat parenting in different cultures - national, state and familial. Our conversation is challenging to listen to, but an important one for anyone raising children and especially globally mobile families. Mentioned in Episode Tea and Consent video - Thames Valley Police Cusp - documentary Euphoria - USA TV Series Anatomy of a Scandal - Netflix series Naked Attraction - British dating show on Channel 4 Resources UK Police - call triple nine (Tel: 999) Rape Crisis - England and Wales charity with helpline Victim Support - information and support NHS - Getting help Rape Crisis - Rape and Sexual Abuse Support Centre Samaritans - FREE Help - Tel: 116 123, E: [email protected] NHS Depression Support Groups NHS Mental Health Services The British Psychology Society - Find a Psychologist Australia Police - call triple zero (Tel: 000) a href="https://www.1800respect.org.au/" rel="noopener noreferrer"...