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If you've ever struggled with painful sex, low libido, or feeling guilty about turning down intimacy because of your bladder or pelvic pain, this episode is for you. In this episode of IC You, I'm joined by Hannah Strom, a licensed therapist specializing in sex therapy and Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT), to talk about the complicated relationship between chronic pelvic pain, sexual desire, intimacy, and the nervous system. Hannah shares her personal experience with interstitial cystitis (IC), vaginismus, and vulvodynia, including how she went from experiencing chronic pain for years to finding relief through a neuroplastic approach. We also get pretty personal about our own experiences with painful sex, the emotional impact of years of pelvic pain, and why sexual desire doesn't always return immediately after the pain resolves. In this episode, we discuss: Hannah's recovery from interstitial cystitis, vaginismus, and vulvodyniaHow Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) can help with neuroplastic pelvic painWhy painful sex can lead to low libido, anxiety, and avoidance of intimacyThe difference between spontaneous and responsive sexual desireHow your nervous system can influence sexual pain, arousal, and pleasureWhy guilt and pressure around sex can make intimacy even more difficultHow sex therapy can help couples navigate mismatched sexual desirePractical strategies for rebuilding intimacy, including gradual exposure, somatic tracking, and taking penetration off the table temporarilyWhy recovering from pelvic pain doesn't automatically resolve the emotional associations you've developed around sex Whether you're navigating interstitial cystitis, bladder pain syndrome, vulvodynia, vaginismus, or painful intercourse (dyspareunia), this conversation offers a compassionate, practical look at how you can begin rebuilding a healthier relationship with sex and intimacy. Resources mentioned: The Way Out by Alan GordonCome As You Are by Emily NagoskiMind Your Body by Nicole SachsPain Reprocessing Therapy practitioner directory Connect with Hannah:Hannah's website Want to learn more about the role your nervous system may be playing in your chronic bladder symptoms? Watch my FREE masterclass to learn about the different factors that can contribute to interstitial cystitis symptoms and how we address them inside Road To Remission. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace individualized medical or mental health care.

How much can your thoughts, emotions, and beliefs actually affect interstitial cystitis symptoms? In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Laura Katz, a Health, Rehabilitation, and Clinical Psychologist specializing in women’s health and chronic pain. Her research has focused on how women cope with chronic pelvic pain conditions, including interstitial cystitis, and she spent eight years working at the Michael G. DeGroote Pain Clinic at McMaster University. We talk about what her research has taught her about why some people with interstitial cystitis cope and improve differently, including the role of emotion regulation, cognitive flexibility, fear, and hope. We also get into medical trauma, fear of flares, pelvic floor physical therapy, and why combining different approaches to chronic pain can be so valuable. If you have interstitial cystitis and feel like you’ve tried treatment after treatment without getting the relief you hoped for, this conversation offers a different perspective on what may be worth exploring next. Endometriosis360: Learn more about the program here FREE MASTER CLASS: Watch my FREE master class on how to get relief from chronic bladder symptoms here!

September is coming to an end, and I’m wrapping up my four-part IC Awareness Month series with some of my biggest takeaways about interstitial cystitis treatment. I also just got back from PelviCon, where I represented the Interstitial Cystitis Association and spent the weekend surrounded by pelvic floor PTs, OTs, and other pelvic health professionals. So it felt like the perfect time to talk about why understanding your individual symptom picture matters SO much. In this episode, I’m covering: Why people with IC can have very different factors contributing to their symptomsWhy pelvic floor physical therapy is an evidence-based IC treatment and why I think the pelvic floor should be evaluatedMy own experience with pelvic PT and why it didn’t help me at firstHow the pelvic floor and nervous system can reinforce each otherHormones, GSM, and vaginal estrogen as potential pieces of the puzzleNutrition, hydration, bowel health, and food sensitivitiesWhy IBS, migraines, TMJ issues, and other overlapping conditions may provide clues about nervous system involvementWhy nervous system work has been such an important part of my recovery and the work I do with clientsHow to start thinking about which pieces may actually be relevant to YOUR symptomsI also share what I want every person with IC to understand as we close out IC Awareness Month: treatment doesn’t have to look exactly the same for everyone, and your diagnosis doesn’t tell us every reason you’re experiencing symptoms. Plus, if you missed the Interstitial Cystitis Association’s virtual conference, The IC Connection: Science, Strategies, and Support, you can still purchase access to the recordings for $25. And if you’ve enjoyed this IC Awareness Month series, make sure you follow or subscribe to IC You so new episodes automatically show up each week. If the show has helped you, I’d also LOVE if you left a five-star rating and review!

September is IC Awareness Month, and I’m back with Part 3 of my four-part series all about interstitial cystitis. In this episode, we’re talking about one of the most important pieces of my own recovery and something I wish I’d understood MUCH earlier: the nervous system. I’m breaking down what neuroplastic pain actually means, how your brain can learn to become overly protective around bladder sensations, and why symptoms like burning, urgency, and pelvic pain can be very real even when your nervous system is contributing to them. I’m covering: What neuroplastic pain is and how it can developThe connection between your brain, bladder, and pelvic floorPatterns that can suggest your nervous system may be contributing to symptomsHow fear, symptom monitoring, and expectations can reinforce the symptom cycleWhat provocative testing can teach us about learned triggersHow somatic tracking can help you respond differently to bladder sensationsHow graded exposure gives your brain new experiences of safetyWhy a little bit of symptoms doesn’t automatically mean you’ve failedWhat I’m learning through my Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy (EAET) trainingSimple ways you can start teaching your brain that safe sensations and activities don’t require a five-alarm responseI also share some of the changes I’ve made in how I respond to my own bladder. Today, if I notice a random sensation, I can notice it and move on. And when you’ve spent years monitoring every little thing your bladder does, that’s a pretty big deal. FREE MASTERCLASS: If you’re wondering whether your nervous system, pelvic floor, or other factors could be contributing to your symptoms, watch my free masterclass, How to Find the Root Cause of Chronic Bladder Symptoms. I’ll walk you through patterns that can help you understand what may be keeping you stuck in the flare cycle and how to start identifying your individual root cause. Watch for free here! THE IC CONNECTION: The Interstitial Cystitis Association is hosting The IC Connection virtually on September 26! Learn more and register here.

September is Interstitial Cystitis Awareness Month, and I’m back with Part 2 of my four-part series all about interstitial cystitis. In this episode, I’m breaking down the IC diet, where our food trigger recommendations actually came from, and what the research really tells us about food and bladder symptoms. I’m covering: What the research says about IC food triggersWhat a newer systematic review tells us about diet and ICHow to identify your individual food triggersWhy hydration matters for bladder symptomsThe nutritional and mental health risks of overly restrictive dietsHow fear and learned associations around food can affect symptomsWhy your current food sensitivities don’t have to be foreverI also share why I’ve seen so many people, myself included, eventually get back to drinking coffee, eating tomatoes, ordering pizza, traveling without packing their own food, and eating at restaurants without worrying about what their bladder will do afterward. WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT FOOD SENSITIVITIES? Listen to Episode 97 of IC You, How to Overcome Food Sensitivities with IC and OAB, where I chat with nervous system therapist Grace Secker about food fear, the nervous system, and reintroducing foods. FREE MASTERCLASS: If you’re wondering what may actually be driving your bladder symptoms, watch my free masterclass, How to Find the Root Cause of Chronic Bladder Symptoms. I’ll walk you through what may be keeping you stuck in the flare cycle, why symptoms can keep coming back, and how to start identifying your individual root cause. Watch for free here! THE IC CONNECTION: The Interstitial Cystitis Association is hosting The IC Connection virtually on September 26! Learn more and register here.

September is IC Awareness Month, so I’m kicking off a four-part series covering what I want people with interstitial cystitis to know, especially if you’re newly diagnosed. In Part 1, I’m sharing what I’d focus on if I were diagnosed with IC today, including: Understanding that different factors can contribute to IC symptomsGetting evaluated by a pelvic floor physical therapistHydration and bowel healthApproaching food without immediately cutting out everything on an IC diet listUnderstanding the role of the nervous systemBeing intentional with supplementsLooking for patterns without making your bladder a full-time jobI’ve recovered from IC, and I’ve spent years helping others better understand what may be contributing to their symptoms. I want this series to give you more information, more options, and a clearer idea of where to go from here. NEW FREE MASTERCLASS: Want to learn more about my root-cause approach to IC? Watch my free masterclass here! THE IC CONNECTION: The Interstitial Cystitis Association is hosting The IC Connection: Science, Strategies, and Support virtually on Saturday, September 26 from 12:00–4:45 p.m. ET. The conference will cover topics including pain science, sexual health, disability, and more. Click here to register!

If you've ever found yourself going to the bathroom "just in case," constantly checking your bladder, Googling your symptoms, or wondering why your bladder is always on your mind, this episode is for you. I'm joined by OCD therapist Kaylee Bullen, LCSW, to talk about the surprising connection between OCD and bladder symptoms. We discuss how OCD differs from anxiety, why intrusive thoughts and compulsions can keep you stuck, and how bladder hypervigilance can become part of the cycle. I also share my own experience being diagnosed with OCD at 28, how exposure and response prevention (ERP) therapy changed my life, and why getting the right diagnosis made such a difference. In this episode, we discuss: What OCD actually is (and why it's so much more than being organized)The difference between OCD and anxietySomatic OCD and bladder hypervigilanceWhy reassurance seeking, body checking, Googling, and "just in case" peeing can become compulsionsHow avoidance keeps the OCD cycle goingWhat ERP therapy is and why it's considered the gold standard treatmentHow to find an OCD therapist who truly understands the condition Whether you have interstitial cystitis (IC), overactive bladder (OAB), pelvic pain, or unexplained urinary urgency and frequency, this episode may help you understand the role OCD can play in your symptoms. Connect with Kaylee:Instagram: @kayleebullentherapyTikTok: @kayleebullentherapy Kaylee's website Connect with Callie: Instagram: @callieknutrition Tiktok: @callieknutrition Watch my FREE master class

Have you ever noticed one symptom improves, only for another one to appear? In this episode, I sit down with mind-body coach Alex McQueen to discuss: • What the symptom imperative is and why it happens• The connection between chronic pelvic pain, bladder symptoms, IBS, TMJ, headaches, and other chronic symptoms• Why healing is rarely linear• How fear can keep the nervous system stuck• The difference between symptom imperatives and extinction bursts• Why stress doesn't have to feel "bad" to affect your body• A simple body awareness exercise you can use when symptoms arise Whether you're living with interstitial cystitis (IC), overactive bladder (OAB), vulvodynia, pelvic pain, or other persistent symptoms, this conversation will help you better understand the nervous system's role in recovery and why new symptoms don't always mean something is wrong. LINKS: Alex's Instagram Alex's Website Callie's Instagram Callie's Tiktok Work with Callie

In this episode of IC You, I sit down with pelvic floor physical therapist and chronic pelvic pain coach Rachel Gofman to talk about bladder retraining, pelvic floor dysfunction, prolapse, and the connection between the nervous system and bladder symptoms. We discuss why urgency and frequency can persist even when your bladder isn't full, how "just in case" peeing can impact bladder function, and practical strategies to retrain your bladder with less fear and frustration.  Rachel also explains prolapse, when pelvic floor physical therapy can help, and how to approach healing through both a mind-body and physical therapy lens. If you've ever felt stuck between pelvic floor dysfunction, nervous system dysregulation, and chronic bladder symptoms, this conversation will help you better understand what's happening in your body and what recovery can look like. Links discussed in this episode: Listen to Rachel's story on Episode 83 of IC You Follow Rachel on Instagram Rachel's website WORK WITH CALLIE Watch my FREE master class Join Road To Remission Join R2R Self Study (men welcome)

In this episode, I sit down with health psychologist and psychotherapist Dr. Sula Windgassen to talk about the brain-body connection behind interstitial cystitis, bladder pain, chronic UTI symptoms, urgency, frequency, and pelvic pain. We dive into why symptoms can continue even when tests come back normal, how the nervous system and pain science play a role, the impact of food fear and bladder trigger beliefs, and practical tools like mindfulness, emotional processing, and nervous system regulation. Dr. Sula also shares her own personal journey with bladder symptoms and what helped her get relief. If you’ve ever felt confused, dismissed, or stuck in fear around your bladder symptoms, this episode will help you better understand what may be happening in your body and where to start. Links mentioned in the episode: Sula's Instagram Sula's Book "It's All In Your Body" Road To Remission Self-Study

In this episode, I sit down with one of my Road To Remission clients, Lynn, to talk about her 15 year journey with interstitial cystitis, bladder pain, urgency, frequency, pelvic floor dysfunction, and nervous system dysregulation.  After years of medications, bladder procedures, elimination diets, and fear around symptoms, Lynn shares how joining Road To Remission helped her finally start addressing the root causes of her interstitial cystitis symptoms and begin finding relief. We talk about the connection between chronic stress, trauma, perfectionism, and interstitial cystitis symptoms, along with the mindset shifts that helped her stop catastrophizing every flare. Lynn also shares how she went from planning life around bathrooms to taking road trips, exercising, going to concerts, and feeling more confident in her body again. We also discuss:• Interstitial cystitis and the nervous system• Pelvic floor physical therapy for IC• Why the IC diet kept her stuck in fear• Neuroplastic symptoms and pain science• The tools inside Road To Remission that helped her feel safe in her body again• The importance of support, education, and community during healing If you feel stuck in the cycle of managing interstitial cystitis symptoms without long term relief, this episode will leave you feeling hopeful and understood. FREE OPEN HOUSE: Join us Monday, May 18th at 1pm EST (Lynn will be at this session) or Tuesday, May 19th at 7pm EST for a FREE Open House to learn more about Road To Remission! REGISTER HERE

After years of living with interstitial cystitis and overactive bladder, I spent a weekend in California doing things I never thought would feel easy again. From boat rides without bathrooms to paddle boarding, Pilates, coffee shop lattes, spicy foods, and even riding a motorcycle for the first time, this trip became a huge reminder of how much life can open back up when you address the root causes of symptoms. In this solo episode, I share:• What traveling used to feel like when my bladder symptoms controlled my life• How nervous system regulation changed the way I experience symptoms and fear• A powerful moment with Vanessa Blackstone that shifted how I think about anxiety and uncomfortable feelings• Why I’m finally accepting that my low back pain and heel burning are likely neuroplastic symptoms too• How distraction, safety, and self compassion can change symptom patterns• The freedom of eating, drinking, moving, and living without constantly scanning for symptoms• Why I stopped treating my body like it was fragile I also talk about how Pain Reprocessing Therapy, nervous system work, and pelvic floor support helped me rebuild trust in my body and get back to living fully again. If you’ve ever felt trapped by fear, hypervigilance, or constant symptom monitoring, I hope this episode gives you hope that healing and freedom are possible for you too. Learn more about Road To Remission and our upcoming Open House in the links below: Road To Remission FREE OPEN HOUSE:

On this episode of IC You, Callie’s client Faith shares her journey with interstitial cystitis (IC), from constant burning, urgency, and anxiety to living a full life with lasting IC relief. After years of confusing symptoms, negative UTI tests, and an IC diagnosis, she felt stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure what to do next.  Traditional treatments did not give her answers, and her world started to feel smaller. Inside Road to Remission, Faith began addressing the root cause of her IC symptoms through nervous system work. Within weeks, she noticed changes in urgency, sleep, and overall anxiety. Over time, her symptoms continued to decrease as she built tools, confidence, and a sense of safety in her body. Now, she travels, eats freely, and no longer plans her life around interstitial cystitis. In this episode, we cover: How her interstitial cystitis symptoms started and progressedWhy traditional IC treatments did not lead to reliefThe connection between the nervous system and IC symptomsEarly wins with urgency, frequency, and sleepHow she traveled while still healing from ICThe shift from fear and control to confidence and IC relief If you are struggling with interstitial cystitis or looking for a different path to IC relief, this episode will show you what is possible. Want to learn what it's like to work with me inside Road To Remission? I'm hosting a FREE Open House for the program on May 18th at 1pm ET and May 19th at 7pm ET. Click here to register.

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Tovah Goldfine for a powerful conversation about how to support your nervous system during stressful seasons of life. We talk about why stress can amplify symptoms, how fear and hypervigilance keep the body stuck, and practical ways to create more safety, resilience, and healing. If life feels heavy right now, this episode is full of hope and perspective. We cover: • Why it’s often your relationship with stress that matters most• How chronic symptoms can be tied to nervous system patterns• Tools to calm the body when symptoms flare• The power of mindset shifts in healing• Why humor, movement, gratitude, and support matter• How to stop living in constant “what if” mode This episode is a reminder that your body is not working against you, and change is possible. Connect with Doc Tovah: 📅 Schedule a FREE Discovery Call with Doc Tovah (limited slots) — https://calendly.com/drtovah-support/new-meeting 🌐 Website — https://www.drtovah.com 📸 Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/tmsroundtable/ 👥 Join the Supportive Facebook Group (3,000+ Members) — https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AwrZpoEdK 📘 Facebook Page — https://www.facebook.com/tmsroundtablerecoverychronicpain Connect with Callie: Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Tiktok Let's be Facebook friends Watch my FREE master class

In this episode, I’m joined by Bonnie Gross, the writer and executive producer of Lady Parts, a comedy based on her real-life experience with vulvodynia, vestibulodynia, pelvic floor dysfunction, and vestibulectomy surgery. We talk about what it is actually like to live with vulvar pain, from pain with tampons, sex, sitting, tight clothes, and everyday life, to the years of medical gaslighting that so many women face before getting real answers. I also share parts of my own story with vulvodynia and surgery, which made this conversation feel especially personal. Bonnie opens up about finally getting diagnosed, undergoing a vestibulectomy, navigating recovery, and dealing with the emotional toll chronic pelvic pain can take on intimacy, relationships, mental health, and self-worth. We also talk about painful Pap smears, trauma in gynecology offices, why trauma-informed care matters, and how Lady Parts is helping more people feel seen through humor, honesty, and storytelling. This episode is for anyone dealing with vulvodynia, vestibulodynia, painful sex, chronic pelvic pain, bladder pain, pelvic floor dysfunction, or the feeling that your body is being dismissed. In this episode, we cover: Vulvodynia and neuroproliferative vestibulodynia Vestibulectomy surgery and recovery Pelvic floor dysfunction and chronic pain Medical gaslighting in women’s health Painful sex, tampons, and Pap smears Shame, intimacy, and relationships Trauma-informed gynecologic care Bonnie’s film Lady Parts and where to watch it Follow Lady Parts & Watch The Film: Follow Lady Parts for upcoming screenings, streaming updates, and ways to support the film. WATCH THE FILM HERE Work with Callie: Join my FREE live master class on March 31/April 1st Watch my FREE master class Join Road To Remission