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In this short episode that we recorded whilst sitting out in nature, I introduce Heide Getrost, who will be joining us as a guest teacher at the upcoming Conscious Sexuality Experience Immersion and Practitioner training. Heide shares what she’ll be teaching: slow kink, energetic spanking and sensual flogging. Together, we explore how slowing kink down creates more space for sensation, anticipation, trust and connection. Rather than chasing intensity, slow kink allows it to build through rhythm, presence and attunement. Listen to discover what Heide will be bringing to our trauma-informed immersion into conscious sexuality, deep intimacy and embodied play. If you're curious about exploring this work live with us in person, learn more: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/oct2026 Learn more about our Practitioner training: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/practitionertraining For all offerings: https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial

Men often come looking for better sex, more confidence, stronger erections, more pleasure or deeper intimacy. But underneath those desires is something bigger: many men were never truly initiated into manhood, embodiment, emotional expression, intimacy and their own sexuality. Female practitioners can play a powerful role in helping them experience that missing initiation. In this episode, I share what more than 10,000 intimate sessions with men have taught me about supporting them beyond sexual performance and into deeper embodiment, healing and connection. I go into depth with: ~ What men may truly need beneath their sexual concerns ~ Shame, emotional suppression and the mother wound ~ Moving beyond performance into whole-body pleasure ~ Helping men receive without needing to perform or please ~ Sacred touch, Lingam Worship and prostate exploration ~ Reclaiming primal and penetrative energy with consent and heart ~ Conscious kink, erotic shadow work and healing role-play ~ Creating trauma-informed and deeply initiatory experiences I also share a moving letter from a man whose work with a CSE practitioner helped him reconnect with intimacy, pleasure and parts of himself he thought he had lost. This episode is especially for female conscious sexuality practitioners, tantra practitioners, intimacy coaches, sexological bodyworkers, sex workers and anyone who feels called to support men into deeper connection with their bodies, hearts and sexuality. Ready for more depth and juiciness? Explore our CSE Immersion: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/oct2026 Explore our CSE Practitioner training (online or in person: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/practitionertraining Follow my Substack:https://substack.com/@ejlove Men's Sex Mastery Program: https://www.ejlove.com/menssexmasteryprogram All upcoming Immersions and Trainings:https://linktr.ee/csetraining Follow CSE Trainings on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings For my other programs and mentoring:https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Follow me on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial Or Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on! Keywords: men’s sexual initiation, conscious sex, conscious intimacy, female practitioners, men’s sexual healing, embodied masculinity, sexual performance, mother wound, emotional intimacy, whole-body pleasure, Lingam Worship, prostate pleasure, primal play, conscious kink, erotic shadow work, trauma-informed intimacy, CSE practitioner training

Most people don't have an intimacy problem, they have a repair problem. Which is why I created the VOSA Method - Validate, Own, Support and Agreements - a conflict-repair (and in the moment) process I created after spending my entire birthday in 2022 shut down in freeze with my then-partner. This process has changed the game not only for me, but also for my clients and their clients when it comes to repairing and coming back into connection. In this episode, I share: ~ The birthday conflict that accidentally created the VOSA Method~ How unresolved hurt and resentment are the biggest killers of intimacy~ How to use VOSA to repair conflict, rebuild trust and create deeper connection~ Simple tools to regulate your nervous system when conflict becomes overwhelming Because the connection your looking for is in the cleanup. Get the VOSA Method Cheat Sheet with a free 7 day Substack trial: https://ejlove.substack.com/p/the-vosa-method-cheat-sheet Learn more about the Conscious Sexuality Experience Immersion and Practitioner Training: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial Thanks for tuning in. Now let’s get turned on! Keywords:relationship repair, conflict resolution, deeper intimacy, relationship communication, emotional validation, resentment, nervous system regulation, trauma-informed intimacy, conscious relationships, conscious sexuality

This is the conversation that changed my sex life! I believe everyone should be going through this communication framework before any intimate, sensual, sexual, tantric or kinky experience. I go into depth with: ~ The DFBSCTA framework: Desires, Fears, Boundaries, Sexual Health, Communication, Triggers/Trauma and Aftercare~ How these conversations create the “fence of the playground” so you can play more freely, safely and deliciously~ How to ask for what you want in the moment without making the other person wrong~ Why safe words, traffic lights and communication protocols are not just for BDSM (and how to create them) ~ How trauma responses can show up during intimacy and how to support someone with care~ Why aftercare and debriefing are essential for deeper trust, safety and pleasure This episode is for anyone who wants to experience deeper intimacy, safer exploration, better communication and more erotic aliveness in their sex, kink, tantra, relationships or professional intimacy work. It’s especially for practitioners, lovers, couples, sex workers, tantra practitioners, doms, subs, coaches and anyone who wants to create experiences where desire, boundaries, safety, pleasure and consent are truly honoured. Ready for more depth and juiciness? Follow my Substack:https://substack.com/@ejlove Check out my Women’s Sexual Healing Program:https://www.ejlove.com/soulgasmic-woman All upcoming Immersions and Trainings:https://linktr.ee/csetraining Follow CSE Trainings on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings For my other programs and mentoring with me:https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Follow me on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial Or Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial Thanks for tuning in, now let's get turned on! Keywords:conscious sexuality, intimacy communication, consent, boundaries, safe words, traffic light system, BDSM communication, tantra, kink, sensual massage, erotic play, trauma-informed intimacy, trauma responses, nervous system safety, sexual healing, aftercare, desire, pleasure, embodiment, dom self, praise kink, procrastination, erotic aliveness, CSE immersion, CSE practitioner training, intimacy coaching, tantric sexuality, sexual health, safer sex, embodied consent, kink scene negotiation, conscious sex, pleasure dom, submissive communication, intimacy framework

This is the episode where I share one of the most memorable and transformational erotic experiences of my life - my Tantric Queen Worship Experience Fantasy with four men completely in service to me and my pleasure! I talk about: Why I created this experience and what led me here (burnout, people-pleasing, and wanting to fully claim my desires)How I found these four men willing to worship me - yes, reallyThe Queen Tantric Worship Experience in delicious detailWhat this experience healed in me and what it unlockedHow you can start claiming YOUR desires and what's possible when you doThis episode is for anyone who has ever struggled to ask for what they want, who often gives more than they receive, or who is ready to claim their desire to receive pleasure unapologetically! Tantric Queen Playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5eoZC4JByCvDBNiiqK1hj4?si=bb2f94e827dc47bb Ready for more? I invite you to come and experience this for yourself in my Playground... All upcoming Immersions and Trainings: https://linktr.ee/csetraining and follow us at https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings For my other programs and mentoring with me: https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Follow me on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial or facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial Thanks for tuning in, now let's get turned on! Keywords: tantric worship, queen archetype, erotic experience, desire, receiving pleasure, conscious sexuality, embodiment, people pleasing, burnout recovery, claiming desire, dom surrender, sacred sexuality, intimacy coaching, boundaries, consent, sexual healing, erotic empowerment, pleasure, tantric breathwork, fantasy

In this episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with three male escorts who have all attended our Conscious Sexuality Experience training. I asked them all the most curious questions that people wanted to know about what it’s like being a male escort:  How did you get into the industry? Why do you do what you do?  What types of women book your services? What are they looking for?  How do you do this work when you have a partner?  What’s been some of your most memorable client experiences?  What kind of conscious sexuality experiences fo you offer your clients? How has this helped them?  We also chatted about how the Conscious Sexuality Experience Training has had a significant impact on their work, particularly in terms of educating their clients about their desires and boundaries and supporting them to feel loved and safe exploring their sexuality.  Download the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRIANINGS: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠ CONNECT WITH THE MALE ESCORTS Instagram:   Ty Jones - https://www.instagram.com/tyjones_01/ , https://www.instagram.com/pleasureheals_/  George Goulburn - https://www.instagram.com/george_goulburn/,  Tyler Banks - https://www.instagram.com/tylerbanksesct/  Websites:  Ty - https://www.pleasureheals.com.au, https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/ty-jones  George - https://www.georgegoulburn.com/  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Guests and the Importance of Healing Services in the Sex Industry 04:19 Personal Stories: How the Guests Entered the Industry 06:02 Motivations and Passion for Supporting Women's Healing and Growth 15:59 Why Women Book Male Escorts and the Types of Women They Serve 22:45 Creating a Safe and Healing Experience: Communication, Boundaries, and Trauma Response 26:07 Respecting Boundaries and Trauma Responses 27:43 The Importance of Connection and Intimacy 35:59 Standout Client Experiences 01:00:29 The Impact of the Conscious Sexuality Experience Training Keywords conscious sex, male escorts, healing, connection, intimacy, companionship, trauma, triggers, communication, boundaries, aftercare, boundaries, trauma responses, consent, sex industry, demographics, connection, intimacy, physical attraction, client experiences, relationships, Conscious Sexuality Experience Training, communication, intention, safety

In this episode Anna Morrigan and I go deep on:  1. How to know when watching porn has actually become an addiction  2. The real reason men can become so easily dependent on porn  3. The massive impacts porn dependency has on men’s brains, their sexual intimacy, performance and their relationships 4. How men can be re-traumatising themselves every time they watch porn Join my 4 Week Men’s Sex Mastery Program that will help you heal porn addiction, rewire the neurological pathways of the brain and master your sexual energy - ⁠https://www.ejlove.com/menssexmasteryprogram⁠  Get the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRAININGS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

In this episode EJ covers:  1. The Unconscious Unhealed Mother Wound Behaviours and How they Impact Men’s Relationships with Women  2. The 6 Different Mother-Son Dynamics that are Playing out Repeated Patterns in Relationships 3. How this Unhealed Wound Impacts Men’s Intimacy and can be a cause of ED, PE and how it can also Create Kinks and Fantasies that lead to Addictions 4. The Unconscious Loyalty Men have towards their Mothers that creates blocks to being available for & receiving love and having intimacy.  5. The Vital Piece of Men’s Initiation that is missing in most Men’s Work that will actually Heal this Mother Wound (and how I think women are here to help men with this) This is one you will not want to miss - be prepared to have your 👀 opened! Start healing today with our Men's Sex Mastery Program - https://www.ejlove.com/menssexmasteryprogram   Get the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRIANINGS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

In this episode I share the amazing conscious experience I had with a male escort and answer so many of the questions that you had for me about this including: 1. Why I decided to Hire a Male Escort 2. How I found Him and Why I chose this Escort 3. What I wanted to get out of the experience 4. The juicy details of what happened and my reflections and learnings. 5. My personal recommendations of Conscious Male Escorts Get the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRIANINGS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

In the sex industry you will hear the acronyms 'PSE' and 'GFE' which stand for Pornstar Experience and Girlfriend Experience respectively. 'CSE' is the new kind of experience - a Conscious Sexuality Experience - that is about to revolutionise not only the sex industry but the world and we are here to stand at the forefront of this revolution! In this very in depth episode we dive into what this means, how it will revolutionise the world and what you can experience in a CSE.  Get the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRIANINGS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

In this episode Anna and I share about: What Conscious Sexuality is NOT The importance of listening to our bodies and being aware of our sexual conditioning and trauma responsesEstablishing boundaries and consent and knowing what we want and how to ask for itSex as a pathway for healing, growth and discovering and expressing more parts of ourselvesSex reflection conversations to deepen intimacy with othersA juicy story where EJ allowed herself to be fully seen in her seductress!Start Practicing with our Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ Learn more about our Conscious Sexuality Experience Immersions and Trainings -  https://linktr.ee/csetraining Follow us on Instagram: Conscious Sexuality Training - https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings EJ -  https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial  Anna - https://www.instagram.com/annamorrigan54  For all EJ’s current offers, events and trainings go to: https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

In this episode we share about:  Powerful Stories of Healing through Conscious Kink How Kink can be used to Somatically Move Energy through the Body and Brings our Focus to the Felt Sense in the Body Importance of Regulating the Nervous System in a Kink ExperienceExploring the Fear of Humiliation and Working with it SomaticallyExploring your Dominatrix Energy and Dominating Yourself Knowing What Fantasies are Real and which are Trauma-based Intrusive ThoughtsGet the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRAININGS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

Mmm yes please!! In this episode I guide you through the Art of Tantric C**k Worship which I believe is one of the most beautiful intimacy practices and the most powerful way to initiate a man and open his heart. You will learn: Why offer a Tantric C**k Worship RitualHow deeply healing it can beHow I got into it and developed my sessionsA full guide to what happens in a worship sessionHow you can start doing this personally and professionallyALL LINKS: Conscious Sexuality Experience Immersions and Trainings - https://linktr.ee/csetraining Deep Intimacy Playbook: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ Conscious Self-Pleasure MP3 - https://www.ejlove.com/tantricmp3 Men’s Sex Mastery Program - https://www.ejlove.com/mensmastery (enter code ‘podcast’ for 25% off) For all of my current offers, events and trainings go to: https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Follow EJ on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial or facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial or tiktok at https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/ Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

Join me for our very first interview podcast episode with Anna Morrigan!  Anna has been involved in the adult industry for over 40 years starting out as sex worker, she became a highly successful escort and dominatrix and then went on to brothel management and ownership. She now owns a venue and club that is devoted to the exploration of conscious sexuality and has a huge vision to revolutionise the sex industry by supporting women to re-awaken and remember their true sexual power. In this episode we talk about: - How Anna got into the sex industry and how it’s changed over the last 40yrs - How the sex industry has started sexual revolutions for all - The impact of porn on the industry and the guilt-shame cyle that sacred sexuality helps to heal - The History of the Sacred Prostitutes who were revered and would heal men in Ancient Temples - Bringing women back to remember their sexual power through our Conscious Sexuality Experience Training We spoke into the work we are doing together training and initiating women into the Sacred Sexual Priestess through our Conscious Sexuality Experience Immersion and Practitioner Training. To go on your own sexual healing journey you can join my women's Tantric Sexual Healing Program - ⁠https://www.ejlove.com/soulgasmic-woman ⁠ Download the Deep Intimacy Playbook at https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ For details on our upcoming immersions and trainings go to: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

This is going to be one of those episodes that is going to make you see your sex life in a whole new light! Even though I’m sharing about this from having done sex work, this will actually resonate for anyone who has ever been a pleaser and performer in the bedroom. In this episode I share about: - The reality of how sex work and having sex out of obligation or to please can actually be disempowering and damaging to our bodies. - How society glorifies performance and pleasing in the bedroom and how we are conditioned for it - How pleasing can actually be a trauma response called fawning. - The long term impacts of being a sexual fawner. I go deep into sharing my own journey of how I was re-traumatising my body through always try to please my partner and how I became numb and shut down sexually and I also share the journey I’ve been on of recovery to heal my body and reclaim my sex life! Download the Deep Intimacy Playbook and start practicing boundaries and consent at https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/freebook⁠⁠ For details on our immersions and trainings go to: ⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠ and follow us at ⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠ For my other intimacy programs, retreats and trainings go to: ⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠ or facebook at ⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠or tiktok at ⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠ Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!