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This Thursday, you’re invited into something sacred and real. One of our most cherished community members — the one who shows up honest, even when life feels like a rocket ship up her ass — sat down with Coach Tiffini for a live, unfiltered IFS coaching session. She came in carrying the familiar post-divorce exhaustion: extra work responsibilities dumped without warning, barely time to eat, resentment simmering… yet underneath it all, a new kind of calm she hadn’t felt in years. What rose to the surface was a younger part of her — the 22-year-old still living in the apartment from her early marriage — who learned, over and over, that being fully herself meant blame, betrayal, and rejection. A husband who punished her opinions. A workplace that gave her impossible tasks, then asked “why did you do that?” Years of choosing partners who offered scraps instead of the whole table. So she adapted the only way a tender heart knows how: she started accepting less than she deserves. She shrank. She stayed quiet. She took the crumbs so she wouldn’t risk being told — again — that she’s “too much.” In this session, we gently meet that part in her body (right in the heart space). We witness the loneliness she’s carried alone for decades. And we give her the words she’s been waiting to hear: “You are not too much. Your voice, your boldness, your wild, beautiful energy — these are sacred gifts. The people who belong with you now will celebrate every inch of who you truly are.” You’ll hear the somatic softening that happens when a protected part finally feels safe. You’ll feel the spiritual re-parenting that begins when Self steps forward with love instead of management. This episode is for every woman who’s walked through (or is still walking through) divorce and still notices herself: Saying yes to extra loads at work when her body is screaming noStaying in connections that offer half-hearted effortQuietly putting her own needs last… againIt’s the medicine of seeing how old rejection wounds don’t vanish when the marriage ends — they live on in patterns until we meet them with compassion. Gentle invitations to carry into your week Where in your life are you still quietly accepting less than your full worth — in love, work, friendships, or your own body?What would it feel like to let the version of you who’s done settling speak one small, honest truth this week?Whisper (or write) to that younger part inside: “I see how hard you tried to keep us safe. I’m here now. I’ll stand up for what we deserve.”This is the deep, integrative work we do together — somatic witnessing, spiritual truth-telling, layered healing that touches mind, body, and soul. Premium only, because some conversations are too tender, too powerful, for the open feed. And here’s the part that makes this space different: Premium members aren’t just listeners — you’re invited to be coached, andheld in the same loving container.  Come home to yourself. We’re waiting with open arms. ❤️ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoac Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

Hi, love—welcome to Dear Divorce Diary, where midlife women move beyond talk therapy to process grief held in the body, release what's braced inside, and reclaim the confidence divorce tried to steal. I’m Dawn Wiggins, therapist, coach, integrative healer, and the woman who once lay awake thinking, “I should feel better than this… but my body never got the memo.” Toothpicks holding your eyelids open. Moving through molasses. Wired-tired even after more sleep, fewer spirals, all the supplements and rest hacks. The big scary thing is over, yet exhaustion lingers—rest lands on the surface but never reaches the cells. Why? Because negative beliefs quietly program your nervous system to stay on high alert, and your body stays braced, unable to downshift and truly receive at a cellular level. In today’s episode, we name the two hidden drivers of post-divorce exhaustion that won’t quit: The beliefs silently fueling chronic fatigue (even when life “should” feel lighter)The body patterns reinforcing the brace—and why gentle somatic-spiritual shifts are essential to let rest landReal stories of pausing to process dysregulation in real time (no performative b******t, just remedies, tears, and grace)How receiving support—without apology—builds the capacity you’ve been cravingThis isn’t about pushing harder. It’s about softening protector parts, reprogramming at the belief and neural level, and inviting layered homeopathic harmony to amplify your body’s natural recharge. If this stirred something deep in your chest, join premium for $5/month: exclusive tools, our February 23rd live workshop on receiving as the key to healing, and the full ritual that makes shifts cellular. Resources & Links: Free Nervous System Divorce Recovery Quiz → [quiz link] – Discover your pattern in under 2 minutes.Join Cocoon (free community on Heartbeat) → [Cocoon link] – Your sisters are holding space.Premium Subscription → [premium link] – Deeper integration + exclusives.Dawn Wiggins Therapy → [therapy site] – High-ticket EMDR-homeopathy hybrid sessions.Drop a review if this resonated—it helps other midlife women find us when they’re drowning in the same ache. Send your wins—we love reading them aloud. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

Thursday episodes are for when your body won’t do what your mind understands. If you’re exhausted after divorce but still feel like you can’t drop the ball…  If rest makes you anxious instead of relieved…  If part of you believes that if you stop managing everything, it will all fall apart… This episode gives you something to do in that moment. Not a mindset shift.  Not a pep talk.  Not “just rest more.” In this premium episode of Dear Divorce Diary, Dawn guides you through a body-based reset designed to interrupt the overfunctioning loop that so many women get stuck in during and after divorce. Because divorce exhaustion isn’t a motivation problem —  It’s a nervous system survival pattern built on the belief: “If I don’t carry everything, nothing will hold.”In this episode, you’ll: Locate where the “I have to handle this” response lives in your bodyIdentify the belief that keeps you overcontrolling even when you’re depletedWork with the part of you that learned effort = safetyPractice a guided tapping sequence to test a new experience of supportBegin loosening the reflex to chase, force, or overextend yourselfThis is especially for you if: You’re doing everything “right” but still feel bracedYou don’t trust help yet — or feel safer relying only on yourselfYou’re tired but can’t relaxYou feel hyper-vigilant, responsible, or on edge when you try to slow downCoaching, therapy, or insight hasn’t translated into relief in your bodyYou don’t have to believe anything new for this to work. You just need to notice what your body does when effort stops being the only way you feel safe. 🎧 Come back to this episode whenever divorce exhaustion shows up as overcontrol, urgency, or the fear that you can’t afford to stop. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

After divorce, women are often told to “step into their masculine energy” — be strong, decisive, productive, self-sufficient. But what if you’re not choosing strength at all? What if your body simply doesn’t expect help to arrive? And, do you know what to do about this? In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, we talk about why so many women feel stuck in over-functioning after divorce — and why what looks like competence is often a nervous system stuck in survival mode. You’ll learn: Why safety must come before softnessHow over-functioning becomes a substitute for trustWhy feminine energy doesn’t show up just because you tell yourself to relaxHow childhood beliefs quietly shape the partners we attractWhy receiving help can trigger guilt, shame, or emotional shutdownThe difference between true support and trying to be “held” before you feel safeWe also share insights from hundreds of women who’ve taken our Divorce Recovery Nervous System Quiz, revealing how most women actually feel when someone tries to help them — and why that reaction keeps them stuck in burnout. And stay until the end for My Body Said No, where we each share a real moment when honoring a physical “no” — instead of pushing through — changed everything. If you’re exhausted, capable, and secretly wondering why rest feels impossible…  this episode will name what your body has been trying to tell you. 💛 Want help applying this work in real time? Inside The Room Where It Happens (our premium Thursday episodes), we guide you through the nervous system and belief-level shifts that make softness possible again. 🎧 Links to the community, quiz, and premium episodes are in the show notes. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

Behind the Mic is where we slow the conversation down. In this premium episode, we speak candidly about dissociation during and after divorce—not in clinical terms, and not from a distance, but from inside our own lived experience. This is a quieter, more intimate conversation about the ways women cope when life becomes overwhelming… and how easy it is to miss what’s really happening while you’re busy surviving. We talk about: The moment you realize something has been operating under the surfaceWhy certain habits, patterns, and “coping strategies” feel hard to changeThe difference between functioning and actually being presentHow the body protects us long before the mind understands what’s happeningThis episode isn’t about fixing anything or tying it up neatly. It’s about noticing. Getting curious. And letting yourself hear something you may not have had words for yet. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things after divorce but still feel oddly disconnected… If you’ve ever wondered why certain patterns keep repeating… If you sense there’s more happening beneath the surface than you’ve been able to name… This conversation is for you. As always, Behind the Mic is raw, personal, and meant to be experienced—not skimmed. 💛 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

If you’re in divorce recovery and keep reaching for food, screens, or emotional numbness, it’s easy to assume the problem is discipline. It’s not. In today’s episode, we talk about what’s actually running underneath those patterns: everyday dissociation — the high-functioning, easy-to-miss kind that hides inside coping, productivity, and “getting through the day.” Divorce doesn’t just end a relationship; it changes how present you are able to stay with your own life. This matters because dissociation doesn’t feel dramatic...it feels normal. And when it’s running, healing stays intellectual instead of embodied. You can understand your patterns, do the work, and still feel stuck because the part of you that needs to feel and integrate isn’t fully online. We unpack how dissociation shows up as overeating, doom scrolling, brain fog, emotional flatness, and burnout — and why learning to spot what happens before those behaviors is often the difference between staying in cycles and actually moving forward. We also share practical ways to recognize dissociation in real time, plus listener Small Wins, Big Shifts that show what changes when you stop managing your healing and start experiencing it. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

If you’ve been holding yourself together because it feels like the only way to stay functional, this guided reset is for you. Divorce anxiety and overwhelm don’t come from weakness or lack of coping skills....they come from carrying too much responsibility for too long (often without enough support). This Thursday, Premium Healing Tool offers a gentle, body-based reset designed to help you release internal pressure without forcing calm, bypassing fear, or risking emotional collapse. You won’t be asked to relax. You won’t be asked to stop worrying. And nothing needs to be “fixed.” Instead, you’ll be guided through a slow, contained experience that helps your body learn something new: What it feels like to let go a little without falling apart. In this episode, you’ll be supported to: Stay with anxiety without fighting it or trying to push it awayWork with overwhelm in a paced, grounded way that respects your nervous systemUse a simple butterfly tap to reduce bracing and internal tensionExplore—without pressure—what your system believes would happen if you stopped holding everything togetherExperience relief while staying intact, present, and in control of your own paceThis is not about calming down or making anxiety disappear.  It’s about helping your body recognize that you are SAFE TO HEAL. Even a few minutes of this kind of contact can soften the grip of overwhelm and change how much your system believes it has to carry. You can return to this reset anytime anxiety spikes, responsibility feels heavy, or rest feels unsafe. Nothing needs to resolve. Nothing needs to be perfect. Staying with yourself is the work. We’re with you. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

Hypervigilance doesn’t come from wanting control. It comes from realizing—often too early—that no one else was going to handle it. After divorce, many women find themselves overanalyzing everything: conversations, tone shifts, finances, social dynamics, parenting decisions, other people’s moods. Not because they’re anxious by nature—but because their bodies learned that vigilance was the price of stability. In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, we name the real cost of being the only adult in the room. You’ll hear why: Hypervigilance is a role your body took on when things became unstableOveranalyzing doesn’t calm anxiety—it quietly feeds it until it erupts laterControl is often a substitute for safety, not a sign of strengthLetting go isn’t about trust-falling into uncertainty—it requires somewhere safe to landExhaustion, resentment, and panic are downstream effects of never being able to stand downWe also talk honestly about why healing can’t happen in isolation—and why many women have to outgrow environments, relationships, and identities that once felt necessary but now feel depleting. To close the episode, we share Small Wins, Big Shifts—real listener moments where control loosened just enough for relief, clarity, and trust to return. Not because everything worked out—but because they stopped carrying it alone. If you’ve been living in constant readiness…and rest feels unavailable…if your mind never fully turns off… This episode will help you understand why—and what it actually takes to change it. If you’re craving a room where you don’t have to explain yourself, you’re invited to join Cocoon, our free community on the Heartbeat app. The link is in the show notes. You don’t need more control. You need support. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

If someone has ever told you to calm down after divorce—and it made everything inside you feel louder, sharper, or more volatile—you’re not broken. You’re responding to a loss of connection. In this Thursday Panel Rant, Dawn and the crew get cheeky, honest, and deeply real about why “calm down” is one of the fastest ways to shut a woman down—and why it so often backfires in relationships after divorce. This episode explores: Why being told to calm down often feels like being told your feelings are inconvenientHow emotional suppression turns into explosive anger laterThe link between anxiety, anger, and broken trust after divorceHow gaslighting and dismissal train women to doubt their own realityThe difference between nervous system discomfort from growth vs. true emotional unsafetyWhy anger isn’t the problem—it’s informationThe panel also weaves in the concept of Martin Buber’s I–Thou relationship dynamic—reminding us that real connection requires honoring both people’s lived experience, not just managing the loudest discomfort in the room. Because here’s the truth: Women don’t need to calm down. They need to feel seen, understood, and safe enough to tell the truth. Instead of asking yourself to be quieter, smaller, or easier to handle, this episode invites a different question: What feels unsafe right now—for me, or for them? That question—asked with honesty instead of judgment—is often where regulation actually begins. This is not a polished episode. It’s a lived one. A little ranty. A little funny. And deeply validating for any woman who was taught to silence herself to survive. Welcome to Panel Rant Thursday. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

What if this life after divorce never gets better? What if this is just how it is now? What he ruined everything? What if I can't be healed? If those thoughts have been looping in your mind after divorce, this episode is for you. In the Season 5 premiere of Dear Divorce Diary, we’re opening a powerful six-week series devoted to naming the thing under the thing—the deeper, often invisible forces that keep women stuck in anxiety, overthinking, and emotional exhaustion after divorce. And today, we begin with one of the scariest experiences of all: the fear that the way you feel right now is permanent. Here’s what most of us have never realized: Those thoughts aren’t coming from weakness or fear. They’re coming from a nervous system trying its best to keep you afloat while you're completely collapsed. In this episode, we’re not fixing anxiety—we’re explaining it. Because understanding what your body is doing is often the first moment it finally exhales. In this episode, we explore: Why divorce anxiety often intensifies after the divorce is finalThe difference between panic… and the deeper fear of permanenceHow anxiety gets mistaken for identity—and why that mattersWhat happens when trust has been wounded by loss, betrayal, or overwhelmWhy solutions often arrive from places you never could have predictedHow protective, pessimistic parts can reject help—and how to soften that patternYou’ll also hear personal stories from Dawn, Joy, and Tiffini about moments when they couldn’t see a way forward—until something unexpected showed up and changed everything. And at the end of the episode, we debut a new community segment:  ✨ Small Wins, Big Shifts ✨ where we share listener-submitted moments that prove healing after divorce doesn’t have to be dramatic to be real. If you’ve been afraid that this feeling will never end…  If you’ve wondered whether you’ll ever trust yourself—or life—again…  Let this episode remind you: Nothing you’re feeling means you’re broken.  It means your system learned how to survive. And survival is not the end of the story. 🎧 Stay tuned for Thursday’s companion episode, where we guide you through a nervous-system practice to help your body feel safe again—no fixing, no forcing, just settling. Stress-Less Flower Essence by Freedom Flowers Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

This is not a lesson about divorce healing. It’s not advice. It’s a pause. Day 12 of the 12 Days of Divorce Christmas is simply a blessing—offered to you exactly as you are. If these last 12 days stirred grief, relief, exhaustion, hope, or something you can’t quite name, this episode is here to hold that with you. No fixing. No reframing. No pushing forward. Just a few quiet moments of being witnessed. You’ve been strong longer than you should have had to be. You’ve carried more than most people ever saw. And nothing about what you needed was wrong. As we step into a new year, this is our prayer for you: That you feel chosen. That you feel wanted. That your nervous system learns what safety feels like again. And that you remember—you were never meant to do this alone. Let yourself rest here. Sending all our love, Dawn, Joy & Tiffini Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

If New Year’s resolutions have never worked for you...especially after divorce, it’s not because you lack discipline, motivation, or follow-through. It’s because the version of you who survived divorce is not wired to safely become the woman you’re trying to create. After divorce, most women try to change their lives by changing their behavior. But behavior never sticks when the nervous system doesn’t feel safe expanding. In this New Year’s Day episode, we break down why resolutions fail specifically after divorce—and what actually creates change instead. We talk about: Why “New Year, New You” language backfires on a nervous system shaped by lossHow inherited roles, survival strategies, and emotional suppression block capacityThe real reason desire alone isn’t enough to create changeWhy your brain will offer a thousand excuses—and why that doesn’t mean you’re failingWhat permission has to do with confidence, worthiness, and follow-throughYou’ll be guided through a powerful journaling exercise we call the New Year Permission Slip—not focused on what you want, but on who you’re willing to become to receive it. Because the woman who calls in a fuller life after divorce: has more capacityfeels safer being seentrusts herself more deeplyand no longer abandons herself to stay comfortableAnd she doesn’t arrive by accident. 🎯 Your Invitation Ask yourself: What am I calling in this year?And what am I willing to put on the line to become the woman who can hold it?We believe in you. The real question is—will you give yourself permission to believe in you too? Join Dear Divorce Diary Premium to access the full 12 Days of Divorce Christmas. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

New Year’s Eve has a way of turning self-criticism up to full volume after divorce. The comparisons. The sense that you should be further along. The quiet question of what’s wrong with me that this still hurts? If you find yourself being unusually hard on yourself today, this episode isn’t here to tell you to “think positive” or try harder. It’s here to explain why this happens—and what your nervous system is actually doing when self-doubt takes over. In this episode, we talk about: Why divorce retrains your nervous system to scan for failure instead of progressWhy pride and self-validation feel uncomfortable or even unsafe for so many womenHow New Year’s Eve amplifies comparison, loneliness, and internal pressureA simple practice to help your system start noticing what is workingThis is not about forcing confidence or pretending you’re okay. It’s about understanding why self-criticism shows up when safety feels fragile—and how to interrupt the spiral without shaming yourself for being in it. 🎄 This is Day 10 of the 12 Days of Divorce Christmas—short, steady episodes designed to support your nervous system during one of the hardest weeks of the year. Join Dear Divorce Diary Premium to access the full 12 Days of Divorce Christmas. Capacity builds in connection. Hugs ❤️ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

The holidays after divorce don’t hurt because you’re single. They hurt because they force you to confront how unsafe it feels to need support. In this Day 9 episode of 12 Days of Divorce Christmas, we talk about the hidden, hardest part of life after divorce—asking for help. Not logistically, but emotionally. Not politely, but vulnerably. If feeling safe, seen, and supported came naturally to you, this wouldn’t be the relationship you ended up in—and it wouldn’t be how it ended. So when the holidays raise the volume on need, asking for support can feel threatening, activating, or even shame-inducing. Producer Joy joins me to explore what keeps so many women stuck in invisibility—especially during the holidays and heading into the New Year. We talk about worthiness, vulnerability, and the very real fear that comes with letting yourself be witnessed after divorce. This episode invites you to slow down and ask:  – What do I actually need right now?  – Who has shown me they’re safe enough to ask?  – What would it look like to make one honest, aligned request? This isn’t about forcing vulnerability or asking people to give what they’ve never shown they can.  It’s about reclaiming your right to matter—and letting it begin with you. If the holidays after divorce are making it painfully clear how hard it is to need support, this episode will help you understand why—without judgment, pressure, or pretending you’re ready for more than you are. You’re allowed to feel the fear.  And you’re allowed to ask anyway. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

In this Day 8 episode of 12 Days of Divorce Christmas, Coach Tiffini joins me to unpack what actually happens inside your nervous system when you try to bring old traditions into a new life after divorce...especially in this in-between week between the holidays and the New Year. Through an IFS (Internal Family Systems) lens, we talk about the protective parts that step in when traditions carry grief, memory, and expectation. Not because you’re doing it wrong—but because your system may not feel safe enough yet to repeat what once belonged to a different life. This isn’t about mindset.  It’s not about trying harder.  And it’s not about forcing yourself to “make it meaningful.” It’s about understanding why recreating traditions after divorce can backfire—and how to stop fighting the resistance long enough to listen to what your body is actually asking for. If the holidays after divorce feel emotionally confusing, muted, or harder than you expected—especially as New Year approaches—this episode will help you make sense of that without judging yourself or rushing the process. Your nervous system is doing exactly what it’s designed to do. Join Dear Divorce Diary Premium to access the full 12 Days of Divorce Christmas. Capacity builds in connection. Hugs ❤️ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: (@dawnwiggins) Instagram: (@coachtiffini) On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go. Support the show ✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence