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"Decolonizing Love" is a social enterprise advocating for polyamory through a critical theory lens, examining the intersections of decolonization, desirability politics, and toxic masculinity. Millie Boella (she/they) and Nick (he/him), a polyamorous couple that live in Toronto, Canada, have been together for 15 years. Millie, of mixed Kenyan heritage with roots in the Dorobo, Nandi, Kikuyu, and Maasai tribes, has lived across Africa, the Middle East, Asia, Europe, before moving to Canada. Nick, originally from Montreal, is of Italian and Greek descent. Millie, a professional writer and artivist, has always embraced polyamory, drawing inspiration from their upbringing in Maasai territory. With over 20 years of activism, they founded the Toronto Non-Monogamous BIPOC group in 2017. Nick, who holds three science degrees and an MBA, became polyamorous in 2010. He is an executive, AI engineer and relationship coach with a strong background in volunteerism and teaching men to deprogram from toxic masculinity. In 2021, Millie and Nick launched "Decolonizing Love," which quickly gained significant traction, amassing over half a million followers across social media and earning features in major media outlets and giving keynotes at prestigious universities. Their work focuses on providing holistic support and peer counseling to make polyamory more accessible and inclusive. "Decolonizing Love" is a social enterprise advocating for polyamory through a critical theory lens, examining the intersections of decolonization, desirability politics, and toxic masculinity. Millie Boella (she/they) and Nick (he/him), a polyamorous couple that live in Toronto, Canada, have been together for 15 years. Millie, of mixed Kenyan heritage with roots in the Dorobo, Nandi, Kikuyu, and Maasai tribes, has lived across Africa, the Middle East, Asia, Europe, before moving to Canada. Nick, originally from Montreal, is of Italian and Greek descent. Millie, a professional writer and artivist, has always embraced polyamory, drawing inspiration from their upbringing in Maasai territory. With over 20 years of activism, they founded the Toronto Non-Monogamous BIPOC group in 2017. Nick, who holds three science degrees and an MBA, became polyamorous in 2010. He is an executive, AI engineer and relationship coach with a strong background in volunteerism and teaching men to deprogram from toxic masculinity. In 2021, Millie and Nick launched "Decolonizing Love," which quickly gained significant traction, amassing over half a million followers across social media and earning features in major media outlets and giving keynotes at prestigious universities. Their work focuses on providing holistic support and peer counseling to make polyamory more accessible and inclusive. Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@decolonizinglove Instagram https://www.instagram.com/decolonizing.love/ Substack https://decolonizinglove.substack.com/ Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@decolonizinglove Facebook https://www.facebook.com/decolonizing.love/ Bluesky https://bsky.app/profile/decolonizinglove.bsky.social Upscrolled @decolonizinglove This episode is brought to you by Olipop, a new healthy brand of soda. Go to https://drinkolipop.com/ and use code Marcela15 at checkout to get 15% off your first order. This episode is brought to you by Shopify. Shopify can help you take your business to the next level. Click HERE to set up your Shopify shop today and watch your business soar! This episode is brought to you by BranditScan, the best defese you have against social media fraud. Click HERE to get started with BranditScan today and get your first month for free. There is no better service to protect your social media accounts and your name and likeness. . This episode is brought to you by Skillshare. Click HERE to start exploring all the courses Skillshare has to offer, from drawing and music, to graphic design and marketing, start expanding your knowledge today. This episode is brought to you by Fiverr. Click HERE to start hiring professionals to help you in various areas and take your business to the next level. This episode is brought to you by PodMatch. Click HERE to bring your podcasting journey to the next level by getting set up’s Only Fans VIP Membership HERE Free Membership HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

About Rachel Dorneanu: Rachel Dorneanu, MS, LPC, BCC, CST, is an individual and couples psychotherapist based in Atlanta and the owner and clinical director of Sage Counseling Therapy and Wellness. Her work focuses on anxiety, boundaries, perfectionism, highly sensitive people (HSPs), relationship counseling, and sex therapy, with a strong emphasis on helping people build healthier emotional and intimate connections. She has been featured in MÈRE Journal and Authority Magazine and has been a guest on over 25 podcasts, including The Couples Therapist Couch with Shane Birkel. Learn more at sagecounselingtherapyandwellness.com. This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tommy Gunn is one of the most prolific and versatile male performers of his generation. Gunn has over 3800 credits to his name at the Internet Adult Film Database (IAFD), is an multi award- winning veteran with over 20 years in the industry, and a proud inductee of the XRCO, Urban X, and AVN Halls of Fame. Known for his rugged good looks and chiseled frame, Gunn enjoys acting, in adult as well as mainstream productions. Tommy had a cameo on HBO's Entourage in 2010, appeared in Louis Theroux’s Twilight of the Porn Stars in 2012, landed a part in the mainstream horror film Wolves in 2014, was on a 2014 episode of Pawn Stars, when he sold his zombie apocalypse vehicle, and appeared in the mainstream film Gangster Land in 2017. A true professional, Tommy Gunn holds a Screen Actors Guild (SAG) card and welcomes opportunities to explore dialogue and performance-driven roles in both adult and mainstream projects. Tommy’s philosophy for work and life is refreshingly simple: “Show up, be cordial, and treat your co-stars with kindness. Building a good rapport with the people you work with is key—everyone wants to collaborate with someone likable, not an egotistical person who thinks they’re above others. That’s just not a good look.” Gunn had a big year in 2025, releasing three major projects. Fans Only: The Human Side of Porn & Fans Only 2: Dreams Fame Desire, documentaries that were produced with Joel Van der Molen chronicling aspects of Tommy’s and others’ careers in the adult industry, and a memoir published through Tepris Press entitled Tommy Gunn: Unloaded. Tommy is now incorporating aspects of those, along with his expertise in fitness, nutrition, and overall male health at The Gunn Life. Through these projects, Tommy’s goal is to share his story authentically, without holding back. When he’s not working, Tommy spends his time enjoying the great outdoors, staying active with workouts, traveling, watching movies, and striving to be the best version of himself. In a world where perception holds power and opportunities are limitless, Tommy believes that staying authentic and grounded is the ultimate approach to both life and success. Follow Tommy Gunn Tommy Gunn Twitter/X: @tommygunnxxx Tommy Gunn Instagram: @theetommygunnxxx Tommy Gunn Facebook: Tommy Gunn Tommy Gunn You Tube: TheeTommy Gunn Tommy Gunn Only Fans: @tommygunnxxx Tommy Gunn Official Website: www.tommygunn.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

RAVYN ALEXA Creator, performer, entrepreneur, and influencer Ravyn Alexa is an ALT exotic mix of Iranian and Black. The stunning ALT busty nymph and self-proclaimed “fantasy slut” is known for her enthusiasm, insane sexual energy, and incredible oral skills. Before entering the adult arena, she attended school for fine arts but dropped out with only two credits left, then became a stripper for five years, and was also one of the elite, infamous ALT GodsGirls before starting her OnlyFans in 2020 and then doing pro studio work in 2025. Since then, Ravyn has shot for many top-shelf studios, including Brazzers, Adult Time, Evil Angel, Reality Kings, Bang Bros, Hookup Hotshot, Collective Corruption, Erika Lust, New Sensations, Perv City, DP Diva, Deep Lush, BaDoinkVR, Kink.com Digital Sin, and Girlfriends Films.  She’s also been nominated for multiple awards as a performer and as one of the founders of Indie BDSM and fetish studio Collective Corruption.    Ravyn won her first industry award in 2026 from the XMAs for Best Sex Scene – Orgy/Group (Mixed) for Adult Time’s “The Bottom Floor: Second Coming.” She’s been nominated for Hottest Fetish Star, Hottest Female Inked Star, Most Popular Alt Model, Best Female Performer, ALT Model of the Year and Best Rising Production from the Urban X Awards, two nominations for her scene work from the AVN Awards, Fetish Creator of the Year and Best Sex Scene – Fetish for Collective Corruption from the XMAs, and Best Female Performer of the Year and Best AltPorn Membership Site (twice) for Collective Corruption from the AltStar Awards. Ravyn has received further global recognition for gracing the pages of Petit Mort, Hustler, AVN, and NightMoves magazines.   When Ravyn isn’t creating content for her platforms or top studios or engaging with her worldwide fanbase, you’ll find her geeking out on sci-fi and fantasy fiction, watching extended editions of The Lord of the Rings yearly, painting miniature figures, doing puzzles, and playing Stardew Valley. Keep up with everything in her world by following her on X, Bluesky, Threads, and Twitch at @RavynAlexa and IG at @RavynAlexaAgain. Subscribe to her OnlyFans OnlyFans.com/RavynAlexa and Fansly Fansly.com/RavynAlexa for daily posts, exclusive content, sexting, order customs, and more. Buy her content a la carte at ManyVids ravynalexa.manyvids.com. Join Collective Corruption CollectiveCorruption.com to indulge in hardcore videos and celebrate heavy kinks. Subscribe to her pornstar-verified Pornhub pornhub.com/pornstar/ravyn-alexafor free, and find out why she has 3 million video views and 15k subscribers. And check out her official site, RavynAlexaRaw.com, to link to everything Ravyn Alexa. ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Follow Marcela For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing the stuff that doesn't make the podcast subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Matt Valentine-Chase (The London Sex Coach) is a specialist therapist, relationship coach, and fierce advocate for sex workers’ rights. With over 26 years of clinical experience, and 30 years supporting the sex and kink positive community, Matt provides trauma-informed, kink-positive, and non-judgmental space for adults, couples, and industry professionals alike. Through his specialized practice as The Sex Work Friendly Therapist, Matt offers sex worker-affirmative therapy designed to challenge societal stigma, honor individual agency, and provide a safe, confidential harbour for those navigating the adult industry. Learn more at thelondonsexcoachonline.net and X: https://x.com/iammattvc This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Raissa Bellini is an Italian creator, performer and model originally from Sardinia, Italy, now based in Miami, Florida. She entered the adult industry in 2025 and quickly built momentum with major studios including Brazzers, Bang Bros, Reality Kings, MILFY and Blacked. Before entertainment, Bellini worked as a yacht stewardess, traveling extensively while developing the discipline, adaptability and confidence she brings to her work today. A former gymnast and fire performer, she brings athletic confidence, international experience and a natural sense of showmanship to her work.Find and follow Raissa Bellini on X | Instagram | OnlyFans | Pornhub | SextPanther | Mynx ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing the stuff that doesn't make the podcast subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

AMANDA DAMES, aka The Kink Consultant, is a sexologist, Somatica® Certified Sex and Relationship Coach, podcast host, and former NYC Dominatrix specializing in kink, intimacy, and communication. Through coaching, education, media appearances, and her podcast The Kink Consultant, Amanda helps people explore desire without shame while making kink feel approachable, empowering, and rooted in consent, confidence, and connection. Known for her honest, playful, and accessible teaching style, Amanda has built an online audience of more than 300,000 followers across social media and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, Women’s Health, POPSUGAR, and Court TVfor her expertise in kink and modern relationships. Her work focuses on helping individuals and couples communicate openly about fantasies, power dynamics, and emotional intimacy so they can create relationships that feel more authentic, exciting, and fulfilling both inside and outside the bedroom. MORE ONLINE: AmandaDames.com (http://amandadames.com/) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Suzanne Noble is a sex and relationship expert, author, and host of the Sex Advice for Seniors podcast, one of the top-rated shows empowering people 50+ to embrace confident, joyful intimacy. Known for her candid, warm, and often humorous approach, Suzanne challenges age-related taboos, misinformation, and awkward conversations about sex after 50. Because life is too short for bad sex... or silence about it. Instagram: @sexadviceforseniors TikTok: @sexadviceforseniors Facebook: Sex Advice for Seniors Website: sexadviceforseniors.com This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free.Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso---## SDC | The Lifestyle CommunityCurious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. You get three days free, check it out at the link in my show notes.Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593---## ProdxHealthTake control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes.Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123---## Mums Candy | Sweet DeliveriesAnd a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes.Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m---## Follow Marcela (end of episode)For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes.Links:- OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv- OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc- Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity- Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Delilah Saul is a writer, sex worker, filmmaker, podcaster, and the founder of Outlaw Media, a multimedia platform amplifying sex worker perspectives on gender, relationships, and society. Her film Beloved (2025) is a documentary about the love lives of sex workers. She's now co-directing Seeing Red with Em Vaughn a feature documentary confronting a century of media bias against sex workers and they're crowdfunding to finish production. Support the film here: https://seedandspark.com/fund/seeing-red-anti-sex-worker-bias-in-the-media ## My Book (show open) My new book is out — How to Bag a Latina Baddie: The Official Guide. For all the men who got intimidated because I was their first Latina, I wrote you the manual on how to do it properly. Get it on Amazon now — link in the show notes. Link: https://amzn.to/4ATfRWX --- ## BranditScan (show open or mid-roll) This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

**Derek Kage** — muscle-bound, tattooed Southern gentleman with piercing grey eyes. Born and raised in Huntsville, Alabama; did undergrad and grad school, then spent about a decade in Washington DC working a steady government job with full benefits — and walked away because he wasn't happy. He's now one of the most decorated performers in the industry in under four years: **3x XMAs Gay Performer of the Year**, GayVN Best Newcomer and Best Leading Actor (2024, for the Raging Stallion thriller *Overdrive*), Grabbys Performer of the Year, Pornhub's Favorite Daddy, and the Free Speech Coalition's Advocacy Award — 80+ nominations total. Hundreds of scenes and 20+ features across gay, trans, and straight studios: Brazzers, Adult Time, Men.com, Falcon, Kink.com, Dorcel, TransAngels, and more. ASN Magazine and GQ Africa both profiled him this year. The hook for your episode: he identifies as gay, but he's crossed into straight scenes — a transition that's basically unheard of and exactly why you flagged his viral potential. He's also open about the business side: consent on set, testing, advocacy work. His IG is [@wholesome_derek](https://www.instagram.com/wholesome_derek), TikTok @derek.kage, site derekkage.com. His publicist is Erika Icon at The Rub PR. ## BranditScan (show open or mid-roll) This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Marla Renee Stewart, MA, CSE (she/her) is an award-winning sexologist, author, and sexual strategist who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips, and is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference. She has studied human sexuality for more than 22 years and has given over 1000 workshops all over the world. She also has been featured on a variety of media outlets, including Netflix's Trigger Warning with Killer Mike and Love & HipHop Atlanta. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay with Dr. Jessica O'Reilly, which debuted in April 2020 and co-edited An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy in 2021. This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

MARNI KINRYS is the founder of The Wing Girl Method, host of the Ask Women Podcast, designer of the F-Formula, and an award-winning female dating coach for men ages 25-85 at every stage of dating and relationships, who’s spent the last decade helping hundreds of thousands of men stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start being Mr. Holy Sh*t, I Want Him! With more than 50 digital programs, monthly online masterclasses, 150 million YouTube views and 1,300,000 subscribers to her channel, Marni Your Personal Wing Girl, Marni is known for her blunt, no “fluff” approach and honest insider tips, tools and advice on what women really want vs. what they say they want. WingGirlMethod.com: https://winggirlmethod.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marniwinggirl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winggirlmethod/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marniwinggirl Twitter: https://x.com/winggirlmethod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@marnikinrys LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marni-kinrys-6237394a ## BranditScan (show open or mid-roll) This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After 17 years of marriage, Courtney Boyer asked her husband a terrifying question: what if we opened the marriage? She discovered she was polyamorous — he wasn't. He's still monogamous. And they're still together. Courtney joins Marcela to talk about what really happens when one partner opens a marriage the other didn't ask for. How do you tell your husband of 17 years you need something he doesn't? What does a mono-poly marriage actually look like day to day? And where does purity culture fit into all of it? Raw, honest, and full of the conversations most couples are too scared to have. **About Courtney:** Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a relationship and sexuality expert, former therapist, and the author of *Not Tonight, Honey* and her memoir *Opened*. She helps people question the relationship rules they inherited, reconnect with their desire, and build lives that actually feel like their own. A polyamorous mother of three in a mono-poly marriage, she has been featured in The New York Post, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and CNBC. Connect with Courtney: courtneyboyercoaching.com | Instagram: @courtneyboyercoaching BranditScan This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Marie Thouin, PhD is a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coach and the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including The New York Times, ELLE, The Times of London, and HuffPost. In her coaching practice, she supports individuals and couples of all backgrounds and orientations to create intentional, authentic, and vibrant love lives.Learn more at www.MarieThouin.com. *. RANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)**  * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv  * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity Full Unedited Episodes Only On https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tripp Terrier is a 40-year-old lifestyle BDSM dominant, kink theorist, and D/s advisor who works with couples and individuals to help foster healthy, committed, long-term power exchange dynamics. Tripp's viral popularity developed through sharing his personal experience with power exchange relationships on social media and extrapolating fundamental concepts that both honor and challenge the BDSM status quo. His work asks essential questions in regards to the interplay of sexuality, gender constructs, agency and consent. It is work that is always incomplete but accessible to all who are up for the journey. Tripp is also a co-founder of Buzzkeepr, a safety app that provides affordable criminal and sex offender background checks for individuals navigating the dating scene. Buzzkeepr is launching soon on Google Play and in the Apple App Store.  *BRANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)**  * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv  * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices