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2026/10/06
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Love Life And Lose Weight is a podcast that teaches you sustainable weight loss through changing your habits and beliefs around food. You CAN lose weight eating the foods you love without feeling restricted or rebellious. I'm your host, advanced certified weight and life coach, Heather Beardsley. I've helped hundreds of women figure out how to lose weight and create a life they love and now I'm sharing those insights with you.
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115: LAUNCH SALE is happening until 10/11/26 midnight ET Let’s GO.
2026/10/06
Welcome to Season Five Of the Love Life and Lose Weight Podcast! 🎉
The brand-new FALL ONLY Follow Through Planner, the NEW 2027 Follow-Through Planner and Follow-Through Field Guide are here—Why in October? Because We've got 87 days left to get focused follow through and get results before we say goodbye to 2026.
What could be different by December 31st if you started now?
You could feel better in your body. Get stronger. Lose body fat. Navigate the holidays more intentionally. Recover more quickly from overeating or missed days. And most importantly, you could finish the year with evidence that you can trust yourself to keep going—all the way through 2027 even when you don’t do it perfectly.
You probably don’t need more weight-loss information—you need a better system for following throughThe Planner helps you discover what actually works for your individual body, your unique goals, and your real lifeThe new Field Guide helps you answer, “Okay, things aren’t going according to plan. What do I do now?”The Complete Follow Through System includes the Fall ONLY 2026 Planner—so you can start TODAY instead of waiting for JanuaryYour work today? Decide between the Complete digital System, à la carte products, or working with me Imagine sitting down for your December review and thinking:
I didn’t do it perfectly. But I showed up intentionally. I made progress. I feel better in my body. And I’m proud of myself.
Instead of starting over January 1st, you’re continuing. To celebrate the launch of these fantastic new products The Complete Digital System and ALL individual products are ON SALE.
🍂 Launch Special: $85 Through October 11
The Complete Follow-Through System includes the Fall ONLY 2026 Planner, the full 2027 Follow-Through Planner, the new Follow-Through Field Guide, and four Seasonal Group Planning + Review Calls with me in 2027.
Right now, it’s $85 instead of $99 through Sunday, October 11 at midnight Eastern.
À la carte options are also available, and the entire digital system is included at no additional cost when you sign up for private coaching.
Stop waiting to start. You still have three months. What are you waiting for? It's go time.
👉 hbeardsley.com/planner
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
114: Five Coaching Truths That Changed the Way I Think About Weight Loss
2026/09/22
LOVE LIFE AND LOSE WEIGHT PODCAST EPISODE 114
Five Coaching Truths That Changed the Way I Think About Weight LossAfter more than 10,000 hours of coaching women, I’ve learned that sustainable weight loss rarely comes down to finding a better diet or trying harder.
The deepest changes happen when you learn how to lead yourself differently—especially when life becomes stressful, relationships feel complicated, or you don’t have the time and energy to do everything perfectly.
In this episode, I’m sharing five coaching truths that have fundamentally changed the way I think about weight loss, follow-through, and lasting personal change.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Why safety often needs to come before strategyHow over-functioning for other people can pull you away from yourselfWhat to do when stress increases and your usual plan feels like too muchWhy your everyday choices are continually shaping your identityHow recovery supports progress rather than interrupting itWhy lasting weight loss is ultimately an exercise in self-leadershipYou do not need to apply all five truths at once. Choose the one that speaks most directly to where you are right now, and practice it for the next seven days.
Small, intentional choices—repeated consistently—are how you become the woman who follows through for herself.
Coming Soon: The 2027 Follow-Through Planner + All-New Field Guide
The 2027 Follow-Through Planner and its brand-new companion, the Follow-Through Field Guide, are almost here!
Together, they will help you turn what you learn through coaching and this podcast into practical decisions, meaningful goals, and consistent follow-through throughout the year.
Join my email list to be the first to receive release updates, early access information, and all the details:
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If this episode helped you, please share it with a woman who needs to hear it. And if you haven’t already, leaving a rating and review is one of the best ways to help more women find the podcast.
Support the show
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Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
113: How Your Choices Program Your Self Identity
2026/09/08
Every choice you make becomes evidence about who you are.
That doesn’t mean you have to make the “right” choice every time. It means that your self-identity isn’t fixed—and you don’t have to wait until you feel confident, motivated, or completely calm to begin becoming the woman you want to be.
In this episode, I’m talking about how your repeated choices program the way you see yourself. Each time you follow through on an intention—especially when life feels stressful—you give your brain new evidence about what you’re capable of.
You’ll also learn about your Window of Tolerance: the range of stress and emotional activation within which you can still access your values, think clearly, and make intentional decisions.
Expanding that window doesn’t mean eliminating stress. It means becoming more capable of staying connected to yourself while stress is happening.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• How your everyday choices shape your self-identity
• Why identity is built through repeated evidence—not positive thinking alone
• What your Window of Tolerance is and how it affects your choices
• Why resilience means remaining intentional while you’re activated
• How small acts of follow-through teach your brain that you can trust yourself
• Why eating lunch after a stressful phone call, taking a walk after disappointing news, or stopping at comfortable fullness can be powerful identity-building choices
You do not need to transform your entire life today.
Choose one small action that reflects the woman you’re becoming—and let that choice become evidence.
COMING SOON: THE 2027 FOLLOW THROUGH PLANNER + COMPANION FIELD GUIDE
The 2027 Follow Through Planner is coming soon, along with an all-new companion Field Guide designed to help you know what to do when real life disrupts your plans.
The Planner helps you decide what matters and follow through. The Field Guide will help you navigate the stress, emotions, changing seasons, setbacks, and disruptions that can make following through more difficult.
Join my email list to be the first to receive release-date updates, previews, and all the details about both new releases:
HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
112: How to Keep Going With Your Weight Goal Even When Life Gets Stressful
2026/08/25
The goal isn’t to prove that you can keep doing everything no matter what life throws at you. And it isn’t to wait until life becomes easy again before you take care of yourself.
It’s learning how to stay connected to what matters while being honest about what you can realistically carry right now.
So ask yourself:
What does following through look like under these circumstances?
Maybe you do less.
Maybe you simplify.
Maybe you temporarily change the pace of the goal.
Maybe you protect just a few important behaviors and let the rest go for now.
That isn’t failure. It’s flexibility.
A stressful season doesn’t erase the progress you’ve made, and it doesn’t require you to choose between pushing at full capacity and giving up completely. You can adjust the plan, lower the pressure, and still keep moving in the direction you want to go.
And when your capacity increases, you can build from there.
You don’t have to abandon the goal just because you need a different way to pursue it right now.
Adapt the plan. Protect the progress. Keep the goal.
Because sustainable weight management has to work in your actual life—even when your actual life is stressful.
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
111: Understanding Your Nervous System For Better Weight Management
2026/08/11
If you’ve ever noticed that eating well feels relatively easy when life is calm—and suddenly much harder when you’re stressed, overscheduled, underslept, worried about someone you love, or simply dealing with too much—there’s a reason.
Your nervous system changes the conditions under which you’re making decisions. And that matters enormously for your weight management.
In this episode, I’m talking about the connection between sympathetic drive, stress, recovery, and non-hunger-driven eating, particularly for women in midlife.
When your nervous system spends too much time activated, you may notice more food noise, stronger urges for highly rewarding foods, less patience for planning and cooking, more evening eating, disrupted sleep, increased alcohol cravings, and a general feeling of I just don’t have the bandwidth for this today.
That isn’t information to judge yourself with. It’s information you can learn to use.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What sympathetic activation actually is—and why it isn’t inherently badHow chronic stress and insufficient recovery can influence hunger, cravings, food reward, sleep, and decision-makingWhy non-hunger-driven eating often increases when your physiological and emotional resources are depletedWhy midlife women may need to become more intentional about recovery rather than simply demanding more discipline from themselvesHow your wearables and biometric data can help you recognize patterns without turning those numbers into another grading systemWhy the goal isn’t to eliminate stress, but to become better at moving between activation and recoveryHow to identify the conditions that make autopilot eating more likely for youWhat to do differently on days when your nervous system is already carrying a heavier loadOne of the most important shifts I want you to make is this:
Stop asking only, “What should I eat?” and start asking, “What state am I making this decision from?”
Because your weight-management strategy shouldn’t assume that you wake up with exactly the same physiological resources every day.
Some days you have plenty of capacity.
Other days require more recovery, fewer decisions, simpler meals, stronger boundaries, earlier sleep, and a plan that asks less of you.
Learning to recognize those differences—and respond to them intelligently—is part of building a weight-management strategy you can actually sustain.
Your nervous system isn’t separate from your eating behavior.
It’s part of the environment in which that behavior happens.
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
110: The Hidden Cost of Self-Abandonment
2026/07/28
Have you ever wondered why you know exactly what to do to lose weight... but somehow you don't follow through?
What if the problem isn't a lack of willpower?
What if you've simply gotten into the habit of abandoning yourself?
In this episode, I'm exploring one of the most common patterns I see in coaching women in midlife: saying yes when you mean no, putting everyone else's needs ahead of your own, ignoring your body's signals, delaying meals, skipping movement, forgetting medications, and believing that being endlessly available is what makes you a good person.
The truth is, every time you leave yourself behind, you weaken your relationship with yourself. And when self-trust erodes, food often becomes the place we turn for comfort, relief, or reward.
Through real client stories and practical coaching examples, you'll learn why boundaries aren't selfish—they're one of the most powerful tools for protecting your health, your nervous system, and your ability to follow through on the promises you make to yourself.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Why self-abandonment—not lack of discipline—is often the real obstacle to lasting weight loss. How over-functioning and people-pleasing quietly increase stress and make healthy habits harder to maintain. The connection between boundaries, nervous system regulation, and sustainable fat loss. Why food is often responding to a deeper pattern rather than causing it. A simple nightly reflection practice to begin rebuilding self-trust one decision at a time. Mentioned in this episode
📒 The 2027 Follow Through Planner will be available soon. Get on the email list for updates.
📲 Follow Heather on Instagram for coaching insights and behind-the-scenes content.
⭐ If you enjoy the podcast, leaving a rating or review is one of the best ways to support the show and help more women discover a sustainable approach to weight loss.
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
109: Why Your Attention Matters More Than Your Willpower
2026/07/14
Have you ever reached the end of the day wondering...
"Where did all my energy go?"
You intended to make a nourishing dinner, stop eating when you were comfortably full, or go for that evening walk...
Instead, you found yourself eating mindlessly, scrolling your phone, or feeling completely depleted.
It isn't because you lack willpower.
It may be because your attention has been spent long before you ever sat down to eat.
In this episode, we're talking about something that affects every part of your health, your habits, and your weight loss—but almost no one is discussing it:
Your attention.
Modern life is constantly competing for it. News headlines. Social media. Imaginary conversations. Worry. Resentment. Other people's stress. Even well-meaning family members can unknowingly pull you into an "attention spiral."
And every time your attention is hijacked, it costs you.
Not just mentally—but physically.
I'll explain how chronic attention overload can keep your nervous system activated, influence your eating decisions, and make it harder to stay connected to the choices that actually matter.
You'll also learn practical ways to protect your attention so you have more capacity for mindful eating, calmer relationships, and sustainable weight loss.
In this episode you'll learn:
✨ Why attention—not willpower—is often the missing piece in sustainable weight loss
✨ What an "attention budget" is and why you can unknowingly spend it before dinner
✨ How stress, distraction, and divided attention increase the likelihood of eating on autopilot
✨ Why your wearable (like an Oura Ring or smartwatch) may already be showing the physiological cost of chronic attention overload
✨ Simple transition rituals that help you arrive at meals calmer, more present, and more intentional
✨ How setting boundaries around conversations, media, and technology protects your nervous system—and your eating habits
✨ Why learning to repeatedly redirect your attention is one of the most powerful habits you can build
This week's challenge
For the next seven days, simply notice:
What keeps stealing your attention?
Each time you catch yourself pulled into worry, outrage, imaginary conversations, doom scrolling, or someone else's emotional weather...
Pause.
Then gently ask yourself:
"Is this where I want to invest my attention?"
Remember:
Your attention is one of the most valuable resources you have.
Spend it like it matters.
If you enjoyed today's episode, I'd love to hear from you! Send me a DM on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and tell me:
What has been charging your attention lately?
I'd love to know what you're noticing.
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
108 Emotional Sobriety: how to feel your life rather than eat over it
2026/06/30
What if the problem isn’t that you need more self-control?
What if the real work is learning how to stay present with yourself—especially when life feels uncomfortable?
In this episode, we’re talking about emotional sobriety: the practice of remaining emotionally present, honest, and connected to yourself instead of reaching for something outside yourself to change how you feel.
For many women, buffering doesn’t just look like overeating. It can also look like scrolling, overworking, people-pleasing, overthinking, procrastinating, staying busy, avoiding difficult conversations, or constantly putting yourself last.
The challenge isn’t that you’re weak or undisciplined. The challenge is that you’ve likely become very skilled at leaving yourself whenever life feels uncomfortable.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What emotional sobriety actually means and why it matters for sustainable weight lossThe many ways women buffer uncomfortable emotions without realizing itHow emotional eating often functions as an attempt to create safety, relief, or escapeWhy compliance, perfectionism, and people-pleasing can also be forms of emotional bufferingThe difference between reacting to emotions and learning to stay present with themHow nervous system regulation supports emotional sobrietyWhy self-advocacy, boundaries, and honesty are essential skills for lasting changePractical examples of what emotionally sober behavior looks like in everyday lifeI also share examples from coaching conversations, including:
Leaving a restaurant when the experience isn’t working for you instead of enduring itSetting boundaries with adult children without managing everyone else’s emotionsChoosing rest without guiltStaying with feelings of boredom, disappointment, resistance, or uncertainty rather than immediately trying to fix themLearning to trust yourself enough to remain emotionally present, even when it’s uncomfortableEmotional sobriety isn’t about becoming perfectly calm or never wanting to escape discomfort.
It’s about developing the capacity to remain connected to yourself while experiencing the full range of human emotions—and discovering that you are far more capable of handling those emotions than you’ve been taught to believe.
If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I know what to do, but I just can’t seem to do it,” this episode may help you understand why.
Because the goal isn’t more self-control.
The goal is learning how to stay with yourself.
Support the show
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Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
107: Creating a Rebound Protocol When Nothing Seems To Be Working
2026/06/16
Have you ever stepped on the scale and felt completely confused?
You’ve been trying.
You’ve been paying attention.
You thought things were going reasonably well.
And yet somehow the scale moved in the wrong direction. Or maybe you’ve hit a stretch where nothing seems to be happening at all.
When that happens, most women immediately assume they need more discipline, a stricter plan, or a complete restart. But what if the answer isn't working harder?What if the real solution is learning how to respond to setbacks with curiosity instead of panic?
In this episode, I share the exact rebound protocol I teach my clients when progress stalls, weight rebounds, or they feel stuck and unsure what to do next.
You'll learn how to stop spiraling, gather useful information, identify what is actually happening beneath the surface, and create a simple path forward without shame, punishment, or extreme measures.
This episode will help you:
• Understand why rebounds are a normal part of long-term weight management
• Recognize the early warning signs before a small wobble becomes a bigger setback
• Learn how to evaluate your habits objectively instead of emotionally
• Create simple experiments that help you regain momentum
• Build confidence in your ability to recover quickly when life throws you off course
• Develop your own personal rebound plan for future challenges
If you've ever thought, "Nothing is working," this episode will show you a different way to approach the problem. Because sustainable weight loss isn't about never getting off track. It's about learning how to find your way back.
🎧 Listen now and learn how to turn setbacks into data, confusion into clarity, and rebounds into opportunities for growth.
Support the show
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Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
106: How To Move from Self Control To Self Trust
2026/06/02
Have you ever felt like the only way you can lose weight is by being more disciplined, more controlled, and better at following the plan?
You’re not alone.
Many women come to me believing self-control is the answer. They follow rules, avoid certain foods, and constantly ask themselves, “What should I do?”
But over time, that approach becomes exhausting. It creates a cycle of dieting burnout, overeating, frustration, and starting over.
In this episode, you’ll learn why self-control isn’t the same thing as self-trust—and why the women who succeed long-term eventually make that shift.
We’ll explore how to reconnect with your body’s signals, make decisions from internal wisdom instead of fear, and build confidence that doesn’t depend on perfect compliance.
🎧 In This Episode You’ll Learn:
✔️ The difference between self-control and self-trust
✔️ Why dieting often teaches you to outsource your authority
✔️ The three types of safety required for sustainable weight loss
✔️ How restriction can unintentionally fuel overeating
✔️ Why uncertainty is part of the process—and how to handle it
✔️ Simple experiments that help you build trust with yourself around food
✔️ How to stay present during meals so your body can guide your decisions
📝 The Follow-Through Planner is now on sale for 40% off using code summer40
HBeardsley.com/planner
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
105: The 12-Minute Window
2026/05/19
What if the biggest factor impacting your weight loss progress isn’t what you’re eating… but whether you’re mentally present while you’re eating?
In this episode, Heather explores one of the most overlooked patterns she sees in coaching women: spending the entire day thinking about food, weight, goals, and “trying to do better”… only to completely disconnect during the actual meal itself.
This episode will help you understand:
Why so many women “go unconscious” while eating The surprising reason distracted eating has such a powerful effect on results How the brain uses food as a way to mentally check out from stress, responsibility, and decision fatigue Why weight loss may have less to do with constant self-control and more to do with a very small daily window of awareness The hidden connection between presence, satisfaction, fullness, and follow-through How to stay connected to yourself during meals without becoming rigid, obsessive, or “perfect” Heather also discusses the research behind meal duration, why fullness signals are often missed, and how a simple shift in awareness may completely change your relationship with food.
If you’ve ever said:
“I don’t even remember eating that.” “I was good all day and then checked out at dinner.” “I think about my weight constantly but still feel disconnected while eating…” …this episode is for you.
✨ This conversation is practical, eye-opening, compassionate, and deeply relevant for women trying to lose weight without living in constant food obsession.
🎧 Listen now and begin building the skill of staying with yourself during the moments that matter most.
Support the show
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Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
104: How To Master Distracted Eating
2026/05/05
🎙️ Episode 104: How to Master Distracted Eating
✨ You don’t need perfect, distraction-free meals to lose weight.
If you’ve ever found yourself eating in front of the TV, scrolling your phone, or multitasking through meals—and then wondering why you’re still hungry or overeating later…This episode is for you.
Because the goal isn’t to eliminate distracted eating. It’s to learn how to work with it in a way that still supports your body, your goals, and your life.
🎧 In this episode, you’ll learn how to:
✔️ Understand why distracted eating leads to overeating (without blaming yourself)
✔️ Use simple awareness shifts to stay connected to your body—even while distracted
✔️ Stop the “I already messed up, so it doesn’t matter” spiral
✔️ Eat to your desired percentage full without needing perfect conditions
✔️ Create a realistic approach to meals that actually fits your lifestyle
🧠 What’s really going on
Distracted eating isn’t the problem. The problem is losing connection to your body’s feedback system—your hunger, your fullness, your satisfaction.
When you learn how to stay just connected enough while eating,
you can enjoy your meals, your environment, and your life…without overeating as the default.
🔑 What you’ll walk away with
A way to eat in real life—
at your kitchen counter, in your car, at a restaurant, on the couch—
…and still feel in control, satisfied, and aligned with your goals.
No rules.
No restriction.
Just a skill you can practice and get better at.
🛠️ Want help applying this?
This is exactly the kind of skill we build inside my Follow Through Digital Planner—
where you learn how to observe your patterns, adjust in real time, and follow through consistently.
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Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
103: The Follow Through Formula
2026/04/21
In this episode, I’m walking you through the exact follow-through formula I use with my clients to turn intentions into consistent action — without relying on willpower.
You’ll learn how to:
✔ Identify the real reason you’re not following through
✔ Break any goal down into clear, doable steps
✔ Build an environment that makes success easier (and more automatic)
✔ Reverse-engineer your habits so execution becomes inevitable
✔ Make decisions ahead of time so you stop negotiating with yourself
✔ Apply this to real life — including movement, planning, and overeating
🧠 The Follow-Through Formula
Here’s the framework I teach inside the episode:
Name it → Build it → Reverse it → Decide it → Do it
When you apply this formula, follow-through stops feeling random…
and starts feeling repeatable.
💡 Real-Life Examples from Coaching
Inside the episode, I walk you through:
✨ A client who finally followed through on her morning yoga routine — not by trying harder, but by simplifying her first step
✨ My personal strength training system (garage gym, binder, schedule, cues — the whole setup 😄)
✨ How to reduce overeating by one time per week using a structured, data-driven approach
🍽 Applying This to Your Eating Habits
If your goal is to:
👉 Eat less
👉 Feel more in control around food
👉 Stop overeating as often
You’ll learn how to:
• Track your current overeating patterns
• Plan your week ahead of time
• Choose one easier day to practice not overeating
• Reverse-engineer your environment to support success
• Use awareness instead of willpower
🔁 Why This Works
Follow-through isn’t about being “better.”
It’s about:
✔ Building the right system
✔ Reducing friction
✔ Making decisions ahead of time
✔ Creating a clear first step
When those pieces are in place…
Execution becomes much easier.
🛠 Want Help Applying This?
This is exactly the kind of work I help my clients do inside:
👉 Private coaching
👉 Small group coaching
👉 And inside my Follow-Through Planner
The planner is designed to help you:
• Plan your week
• Track your habits
• Review your results
• And follow through consistently
You can learn more here:
👉 HBeardsley.com
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
102: The Power of Recovering Quickly
2026/04/07
🎙️ Episode 102: The Power of Recovering Quickly
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
If one “off” moment—an overeat, a missed workout, a busy day—has a way of turning into a full derailment… this episode will show you a completely different way to approach it.
You’ll learn how to recover quickly so you can keep moving forward instead of starting over.
Inside, you’ll discover:
Why it’s not the mistake that holds you back—it’s what happens nextHow to stop the all-or-nothing spiral before it takes overThe mindset shift that helps you get back on track immediatelySimple ways to rebuild momentum (without overcorrecting or restricting)Why This MatterS
Most women don’t need more information about what to eat or how to exercise.
They need a better way to respond when things don’t go as planned.
This is the skill that changes everything—and it’s probably not what you think.
What We Explore
✨ The hidden pattern that keeps you stuck longer than necessary
✨ How to interrupt emotional reactivity in real time
✨ A powerful question that resets you instantly
✨ What “getting back on track” actually looks like
Your Takeaway
The difference between staying stuck and making progress?
It’s how quickly you recover.
And once you learn how to do that, everything gets easier.
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
101:Your Overeating Habit And How To Change It
2026/03/24
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
Overeating isn’t a personal failure — it’s information.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why overeating almost always makes sense in contextHow restriction, stress, and underfueling drive overeating cyclesThe questions that reveal why overeating happensHow understanding patterns creates change — without shameThis episode helps you stop turning on yourself and start changing what actually matters.
🎧 Best for you if: overeating feels like your biggest obstacle — and you’re ready to approach it differently.
Support the show
🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
Get two free gifts, subscriber-only tips, and an exclusive VIP discount on my digital Follow-Through Planner.
🛠️ This planner is the perfect tool to help you reach your weight goals & build the habits —and your future self—will thank you for.
Check it out here: HBeardsley.com/planner
📲 Connect with me on Instagram @ThriveInMidlife and join the conversation under this Episode's reel.
Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.
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clipperbaby 2024/12/04
Love Life and Lose Weight
Heather is a wonderful coach! Very relatable, knowledgeable, insightful and empathetic while giving honest feedback!! I highly recommend her as a co...
Awray26 2024/11/29
Relatable
This podcast is so relatable. Heather has a way of phrasing things so that they really make sense to me. This is my favorite podcast to listen to!
Hawkeyegirl1987 2024/10/05
Want to change your life…
then this is the podcast for you!! Heather is so knowledgeable about her content and craft, but she is also about nuts and bolts. And not only will sh...
Nonnanp 2024/08/07
Solid, practical, helpful
Heather is a clear, concise, and terrific communicator, and the actions she recommends are simple and wise. She is somehow able to cut out all the noi...
mwjacot 2024/07/20
Hopeful and helpful
Coach Heather makes so much sense! I love listening to her!
kimmyb11 2024/07/10
Kim
Very informative and inspiring. ❤️❤️
Keeyo59 2024/06/27
First class
I’ve coached with Heather, read her book and I’m so happy she’s continuing her podcast. Insightful, filled with lots of aha’s and light bulb moments....
Cayman Jayne 2024/06/18
This Makes So Much Sense!
I discovered Coach Heather through the NBS membership and listening to these podcasts has helped me to finally ‘click’ into gear on my weight loss jou...
Angel Butler Miller 2024/05/04
Loving life
Thank you for spelling it out for me. Thank you for making it easy to understand to eat intuitively and lose weight. I ready.
Fgilardi17 2024/01/31
Amazing!!!
I love your podcast!!! There are many episodes I listen to on repeat. Can’t wait for more♥️
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