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Have we turned marriage into a performance?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashley talk about wedding culture, social media, vows, and why so many couples seem to spend more time planning the content around their wedding than understanding the commitment they’re actually making.They react to viral wedding vows, influencer weddings, social media pressure, and the growing tendency to treat the wedding day like a production instead of a sacred moment.They also talk about why vows matter, why marriage should be taken seriously, and how easy it is for the celebration to become more important than the covenant.A wedding can be big or small.It can be expensive or simple.But the real point is not the photos, the outfits, the DJ, the content, or the party.The point is the commitment you are making before God and one another.Don’t lose the plot.--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

What do you do when the Church that helped change your life becomes the place that hurts you?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Will sits down with Alan and Dan for an honest conversation about church hurt, ministry transitions, leadership, discipleship, and learning how to keep loving people after you’ve been wounded.Alan opens up about leaving the church he had served for more than a decade, the pain of walking away without the goodbye he expected, and why he chose not to publicly defend himself when people formed their own opinions about what happened.They also talk about the hidden cost of pastoring people closely, the pain leaders feel when they unintentionally hurt the people they love, and why church hurt can either make you bitter or make you deeper.The conversation ultimately asks a difficult question:Can you heal your wounds without building walls around your heart?Because loving people will always involve risk.And sometimes healing means becoming willing to love again.--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Allan Walters https://www.instagram.com/alllanwalters/Dan Fernandez https://www.instagram.com/danfernan/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Should you tell your spouse everything?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Ashley, Sanaz, and Erica have an honest conversation about secrets, past relationships, trauma, attraction, infidelity, and how much transparency actually belongs inside a marriage.They talk about whether your spouse needs to know every detail of your past, what happens when someone weaponizes information you trusted them with, and why safety is such an important part of vulnerability.They also discuss what to do when you find yourself attracted to someone outside your marriage, whether a crush should be confessed, and how small compromises can eventually become much bigger problems.Sanaz also shares a deeply personal story about something she kept from her husband after they were married, why she was afraid to tell him, and how his response brought her freedom instead of shame.Marriage requires honesty.But honesty also requires a relationship safe enough to hold the truth.--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

What happens when the version of you everyone expects is no longer the real you?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Tim Ross joins Will and Sammy for an incredibly honest conversation about leadership, vulnerability, brokenness, church culture, therapy, and the journey toward becoming fully integrated.Tim opens up about the years he spent trying to fit expectations that slowly pulled him away from himself, the moment he realized he could no longer lead that way, and how he eventually found his voice again.They also talk about why leaders need safe places to be human, what happens when vulnerability gets weaponized against you, why “it’s lonely at the top” is a dangerous lie, and how brokenness can become the very place God begins to bring healing.Tim also reflects on getting canceled, learning who his real audience was, and why he would rather be fully seen, fully heard, fully known, and fully loved than spend his life protecting an image.You were never created to become the version of yourself everyone else needs.Sometimes healing begins when the real you finally comes back.--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Tim Ross https://www.instagram.com/upsetthegram/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Why do we sometimes treat the people we love the worst?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashley have an honest conversation about anger, arguments, emotional maturity, and the sides of ourselves that often come out strongest around the people closest to us.They talk openly about conflict in their own marriage, why Ashley can become harsh with her words when she’s angry, why Adam tends to shut down emotionally, and how easy it is for couples to turn disagreements into a competition over who is right.The conversation also explores insecurity, offense, therapy, emotional growth, and the uncomfortable reality that our spouse and family often see parts of us that everyone else never does.Marriage isn’t about winning every argument.It’s about becoming healthy enough that the people you love don’t constantly receive the worst version of you.--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

What will your kids remember about you when they’re grown?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam and Will have an unexpectedly personal conversation about fatherhood, work, ministry, and the pressure of trying to build something meaningful without missing your children along the way.They share stories about their own fathers, the moments from childhood they still carry today, and how those experiences are shaping the way they raise their own kids.From learning the difference between simply being present and being an intentional father, to making sure there is still something left in the tank when you get home, this conversation is a reminder that success outside the home means very little if your family only gets what is left of you.They also talk about regret, repairing relationships with your parents, and why even fathers who feel like they missed important years with their children can still rebuild something meaningful.Because one day your kids will grow up.The question is: when they look back, will they remember that Dad wanted to be there?--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Does taking care of yourself affect the health of your marriage?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee have an honest conversation about physical attraction, body image, confidence, and why self-care matters even after you've said "I do."They share personal stories from the early years of their marriage, including struggles with weight, insecurity, intimacy, and how their relationships with their own bodies affected their connection with each other.The conversation also explores how getting older, having children, changing hormones, and building healthier habits can shape not only your physical health but also your emotional well-being and marriage.Because sometimes the problem isn't that you've stopped loving your spouse. It's that you've stopped taking care of yourself.--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

How much AI is too much for a Christian?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam sits down with Michael Whittle, founder of Pulpit.ai and VP of AI at Subsplash, for an honest conversation about artificial intelligence, faith, technology, and what AI could be doing to the way we think and relate to one another.They talk about everything from pastors using AI for sermon preparation to people turning to chatbots for relationships, counseling, and spiritual advice. They also discuss concerns about human connection, creativity, education, jobs, data centers, and whether some of the viral claims surrounding AI are actually as clear-cut as they seem.The conversation ultimately comes down to one question: where should Christians draw the line?--Data Referenced in This Video:THE "AI COULD KILL EVERYONE" STORYPirate Wires: Jacob Coxon Worked With AI Doomer PR Firmhttps://www.piratewires.com/p/jacob-coxon-worked-with-ai-doomer-firmTechCrunch: Anthropic's prospectus warns its AI could end humanityhttps://techcrunch.com/2026/09/28/anthropics-prospectus-details-losses-growth-and-yes-a-warning-that-its-ai-could-end-humanity/CNN: Anthropic's leaked IPO filing detailshttps://www.cnn.com/2026/09/29/tech/anthropic-ipo-details-leakWASHINGTON AND THE AI LABSCBS News: Trump's private dinner with Dario Amodeihttps://www.cbsnews.com/news/trump-dario-amodei-anthropic-dinner/Fortune: Trump calls AI oversight a "globalist scheme"; Altman and Amodei at the UNhttps://fortune.com/2026/09/23/trump-un-ai-globalist-scheme-altman-amodei-security-council/--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/Michael Whittle https://www.instagram.com/michaelwhittle/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What does “in sickness and in health” really mean when the sickness is mental?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashley use the Lindsay Clancy case as the starting point for a bigger conversation about marriage, mental health, postpartum struggles, trauma, and personal responsibility.They talk about what happens when a spouse begins to change emotionally, how mental health can affect connection inside a marriage, and the difficult reality of supporting someone who may not feel like the same person you married.The conversation also explores how trauma can affect memory, how easy it can be for a spouse to emotionally check out, and why covenant requires more than staying committed when everything is easy.This episode wrestles with one important question:What does it really mean to love your spouse in sickness and in health?--Do you struggle with obedience to God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

Why do so many people keep starting over before anything has time to work?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Will, Sammy, and Adam talk about consistency, leadership, success, discipline, mentorship, and what it actually takes to build something that lasts.The conversation starts with lessons Will picked up while spending time with Pastor Craig Groeschel and quickly expands into a bigger discussion about why highly effective leaders think differently, why routines matter, and why successful people often stay committed to the same thing much longer than everyone else.They also unpack a lesson attributed in the conversation to Warren Buffett: sometimes success requires being willing to “watch paint dry” — staying patient and consistent instead of constantly abandoning one opportunity for another.But the conversation goes deeper than personal success.The guys ask whether a leader has really built something healthy if everything depends on that leader’s personality, charisma, or presence. Adam shares why discipleship and developing other leaders has become central to how he approaches ministry — and why multiplication matters more than simply building a platform around one person.Because sometimes the breakthrough isn’t another opportunity.Sometimes you just need to stop starting over and stay long enough to grow.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

What’s the difference between protecting your marriage and hiding problems that need to be addressed?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Ashley is back at the table with Erica and Sanaz for an honest conversation about intimacy, marriage, accountability, and the pressure many women feel to keep everything together behind closed doors.The women start by talking about mismatched sex drives, why physical intimacy can begin to feel like another task, and whether scheduling time together can actually help couples reconnect. They also discuss how daily responsibilities and mental overload can affect the desire to be intimate—even when there is genuine love for a spouse.The conversation then turns to a documentary about a pastor’s wife and a difficult question: When does staying silent to protect your husband’s reputation keep you from recognizing that you need help?They unpack why trusted friendships and outside perspectives matter, how to recognize unhealthy patterns, and what it looks like to have honest conversations when a marriage is struggling. They also discuss couples who have reached the point of separation and the work involved when both people want to rebuild trust.A healthy marriage shouldn’t require you to pretend everything is fine.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Aaron & Erica Levyhttps://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_npbestie/--Connect with Nathan & Sanaz Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/nathanjmesa/https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

Can someone be a good person without believing in God?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam sits down with Dr. Chris Palmer for a deep conversation about atheism, morality, meaning, nihilism, truth, technology, and what happens when a culture slowly stops believing that God matters.Chris explains why he believes our generation is experiencing a crisis of meaning—overloaded with information, algorithms, competing opinions, and constant hot takes to the point that many people no longer know what to believe or why they believe it.They also talk about Nietzsche, the rise of “your truth,” whether morality can actually be grounded without God, and why a person can appear successful, happy, and morally good while still wrestling with a deeper question of meaning and purpose.The conversation also dives into the Book of Revelation, why Christians often misinterpret its symbolism, and the danger of trying to connect every new technology or headline to end-times prophecy.At the center of it all is one question:If God disappears from the way we understand reality, what replaces Him?--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Adam Mesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ Dr. Chris Palmer https://www.instagram.com/chrispalmer/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

How strict should Christian parents be with their teenagers?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashley sit down with Jimmy and Deanna, who have been married for nearly 20 years and are raising three sons, to have an honest conversation about raising teenagers in today’s culture.They talk about everything from social media, dating and Life360 to discipline, freedom, letting your kids fail, secular music, tattoos, church attendance, and knowing which battles actually matter.Jimmy and Deanna share why they refused to make every decision a fight—but also why certain things, especially their sons’ foundation in faith, were non-negotiable. They discuss the tension between guiding your teenager and controlling them, and why eventually parents have to trust that the same Holy Spirit speaking to them can speak to their children too.They also unpack why protecting your kids from every mistake may actually keep them from growing, how much freedom teenagers should have, and why your children often learn more from watching how you live than listening to another lecture.So where is the line?Should Christian parents make their kids go to church—or could forcing them eventually push them away?--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Jimmy & Deanna Mettiashttps://www.instagram.com/thepharaoh24/https://www.instagram.com/deannaprayvails/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido

What happens when you stop trying to impress the people you think can open doors for you?In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Will, Sammy, and Jeff talk about ambition, people-pleasing, success, obedience, waiting seasons, and learning how to recognize what God is actually doing in your life.Jeff opens up about the moment he realized he had placed too much weight on influential people, hoping the right connection would eventually unlock his future. Once he stopped treating people as his source, he began learning how to show up authentically and trust God with the opportunities that followed.The conversation also gets into needing fresh oil for new seasons, why someone else’s harvest can make your season of plowing feel like failure, and the danger of measuring your life by somebody else’s definition of success.Jeff also shares a wild story about speaking at a non-Christian business event where he felt led to give an altar call—even though he was afraid it might cost him future opportunities. More than 100 people raised their hands to respond to Jesus, reinforcing the very lesson they spend the episode unpacking: obedience matters more than protecting your image.Stop performing for people. Be faithful to what God gave you—and let Him decide which doors open.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Connect with:Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/Sammy Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Jeff Osborn https://www.instagram.com/jefftosborne/--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/

Why does dating feel so much harder than it used to?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee work through some of the biggest questions singles are asking today—dating apps, where to actually meet people, unrealistic standards, approaching someone in public, the cost of dating, and whether the dating system itself is broken.They also unpack how social media has changed expectations around attraction and relationships, why dating apps can make character difficult to judge, and why getting back into real-life communities and “third spaces” may be more important than ever.And sometimes the answer isn’t simply that dating is broken.Sometimes we also have to rethink what we’re looking for—and whether we’re actually giving people a chance.--Do you feel distant from God?Visit Faith at the Table to get your free resource today!https://tablefaith.com/--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido