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A SIMP OVER-PROVISIONS THE WOMAN ‘SIMPING’ has become part of the modern man-woman vocabulary.  The word has a negative connotation regarding the man it applies to.  I have not used this word myself, but these days, while coaching men on their NICE GUY syndrome, men themselves are describing their own behavior as simping and wanting to stop. Within my framework, I would define ‘Simping’ as a man over-provisioning for a woman.  He is OVER-provisioning, because she is not reciprocating with him with her own energies and affections in exchange for what he is pouring into her. This video discusses this phenomenon. DOMINANT MAN:  SELF-STUDY COURSE: OmRupani.com www.OmRupani.org

THE FIRST AGREEMENT IN MAN-WOMAN DYNAMIC The first agreement a man and a woman should create between them is what kind of dynamic they want to create. For couples who are considering creating a dynamic where the man is leading his woman well, and his woman is desirous of that, the two of them coming into agreement that this is in fact the dynamic they both want to create is the big first step. Many couples get stuck at this initial step.  There are several anxieties that exist on both their sides.  And these anxieties should be properly addressed if they are to arrive at Agreement.  The list of anxieties is long.  Let’s examine 3 common concerns on each side. WOMEN’S ANXIETIES REGARDING HAVING THEIR MAN LEAD HER IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP:  Am I giving up power?  Am I choosing the weaker or subordinate position? How often will I regret agreeing to being the follower in this dynamic? What if I am unsatisfied in such a dynamic? MEN’S ANXIETIES REGARDING LEADING THEIR WOMEN  Is this something I will win at?  Or am I being set up to lose? Am I being asked to lead a woman who has no intention of following or cooperating with me or appreciating my leadership?Leading looks like a lot of work.  What do I get for putting in all this extra work in this relationship? COUPLES’ COURSE : https://omrupani.org/dscouples www.OmRupani.org

AGREEMENT IS THE FOUNDATION OF A FUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP 1.  If you want to lead your relationship as a man, your foundational drive needs to be to create Agreement within your relationship unit. 2.  This means, don’t bring people into your relationship unit who are not interested in coming into Agreement with you. 3.  Contentious women are bad relationship partners. ********************* 4.  Any voices and influences in your life that are driving a wedge between men and women coming into Agreement are poisonous to your relationship harmony. 5.  Any voices and influences simply stirring you up into the energy of discontentment and antagonism are sabotaging your relationship mastery.  Please note, even these darker forces are working to bring you into Agreement with THEM.   ********************* 6.  Being a great partner to our partner involves us coming into deeper Agreement with our partner’s true nature. 7.  Becoming a better lover to our partners involves understanding and coming into Agreement with our partner’s erotic makeup. ********************* 8.  At the spiritual level, wisdom is in coming into Agreement with life and the shape of the present moment. ********************* 9.  At the interpersonal level, the more we associate with people we cannot come into Agreement with, the more discordant and antagonistic our life energies will become.  The more we associate with people with whom we are invested in creating Agreement, the more harmonious our lives will be. ********************* 10.  Building greater things in life requires a greater level of Agreement between people.  Building a 10-story building requires that we first know how to build a 1-story building well.   Discord and disagreement are the equivalent of never being able to successfully build even a 1-story building.  Building anything greater with such a person becomes impossible.  Our relationships keep going through the same cycle of deterioration soon after starting.   Such a life becomes a ledger of failed relationships of discord.  Unfortunately, this is how most people’s lives look today. ********************* OBISIDIAN.  October 4-8, 2026.  Catskills, NY COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/obsidian/ ******************* COUPLES’ COURSE.  Dominican Republic.  November 12-17, 2026 COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/dscouples ******************* SUBMISSIVE WOMAN - SELF STUDY COURSE : https://www.omrupani.com/spaces/18894018/content www.OmRupani.org

PODCAST - Creating the Dominant Man OBISIDIAN.  October 4-8, 2026.  Catskills, NY COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/obsidian/ ******************* COUPLES’ COURSE.  Dominican Republic.  November 12-17, 2026 COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/dscouples ******************* SUBMISSIVE WOMAN - SELF STUDY COURSE : https://www.omrupani.com/spaces/18894018/content www.OmRupani.org

OBSIDIAN, Q&A.  DEEPER JOURNEY IS ANCHORED IN RELATIONSHIP. I give information and answer some questions about my new BDSM training. This training will emphasize foundational skills for this realm.  It will also focus on each student mapping out their own erotic make up.  And it will emphasize relationship skills for creating a functional and sustainable dynamic. Please reach out if you have any questions.  [email protected] Payment plans and limited scholarships available for this course. Course date : October 4-8.  Catskills, NY. COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/obsidian/ www.OmRupani.org

OBSIDIAN - SAFE MEN DON’T MAKE WOMEN FEEL SAFE Course Date : October 4-8.  Catskills, NY. Course Page : https://omrupani.org/obsidian/ www.OmRupani.org

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PRIESTESS TRAINING - SOMATIC MASTERY IN THE AI AGE Course Page : https://omrupani.org/#/the-priestess-of-dark-eros/ www.OmRupani.org

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 04 - YOU HAVE WOUNDING AROUND MASCULINE AUTHORITY A woman's relationship to masculine authority is a crucial factor in how her energies run towards her man. If she thinks masculine power is benevolent, if she thinks masculine power renders her safer, she will logically be in support of men being in their power, of her own man being in his power. If she thinks masculine power is inherently threatening to women, then overtly or covertly she will try to sabotage men's power. The subtle methods a woman might apply to diminish or sabotage masculine power are many. Here is a short list: By intruding into his decisiveness and decision making.By having him constantly lose with her, because the more a man loses, the more his power diminishes.By sowing doubt into his certainty.By resenting him when he is in his ease and rest.By infantilizing him — often by employing some of the methods listed above. www.OmRupani.org

PODCAST - MODERN MASCULINITY AND MAN-WOMAN RELATING CONVERSATION TOPICS: The Nice Guy Persona It’s expensive for women to get fooled by men and their masks. What is the nice guy trying to convince you of? The Nice Guy persona is a control mechanism. Wanting everybody’s approval makes cowards of men. Limitations with mothers and women teaching men how to be men. Most mothers and women in society are wounded in relation to the masculine. Women who fear men’s aggression cannot train men to wield that aggression. Missing fathers leave the burden of mentoring sons to mothers. Fathers who are domineering and bullying end up prompting their sons towards the nice guy persona. What is the example of a good, strong man? I’ve seen men of valor still stuck in the Nice Guy energy. Courage in life situations doesn’t always translate to courage in interpersonal relationships. Niceness doesn’t create Containment. Nice guys fail miserably at giving women Containment. Dom-sub dynamic is still the best modality I know for teaching people Containment. It’s crucial for men to learn to Contain their women. And it’s an unmitigated disaster when men seek Containment from their women. Tantrikas are some of the most difficult students for teaching Containment.  The difference between Domineering and Dominance.  The qualifications of leadership. If a man is to lead a woman, her life under his leadership should be better than without it. It should be in a woman’s self-interest to have her man leading her. The only good reason for a woman to surrender to a man is that doing so is a positive experience for her. There is only Spiritual Submission for everyone, men and women. www.OmRupani.org

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COUPLES’ COURSE - STUDENT TESTIMONIALS Next Course - November 12-17.  Dominican Republic. Course Page : https://omrupani.org/#/dscouples/ www.OmRupani.org