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In this episode, we unpack a powerful truth: you’re not failing, lazy, or broken. You may simply be using a strategy designed for a different woman with a different starting point. The approach needed to lose the first 50 pounds is not the same as the approach needed for the last 10, and misunderstanding that difference keeps many women stuck in cycles of frustration. We talk about the psychology of large weight loss, why knowledge alone isn’t enough, and how chasing perfection pulls you further from real progress. This conversation is about choosing the right plan, the right support, and building an identity that matches the life you want to live. We talk about: -The difference between losing the first 50 pounds and the last 10 -The risk of unqualified coaching -Knowledge versus true understanding -Why it’s not just your hormones -Recognizing your “lightbulb” moment -The trap of chasing perfection -Understanding your window of tolerance Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 2:04 psychological differences with large fat loss 8:06 focusing on identity 12:25 having the knowledge but not the behaviors 18:23 habit changes 25:13 gaining the weight back 39:17 choosing the right coach 44:45 tactics for big weight loss CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special episode, we talk to our client Theresa who has lost over 100 pounds in the last two years and is pivoting in a build phase. She has the skills and self-trust to maintain her weight loss for life.  We talk about: -focusing only on the scale -feeling like a failure -learning instead of being told what to do -a personalized approach -seeking internal validation -it’s more than weight loss Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 2:27 lifelong weight struggles 4:26 hesitation to try again 7:05 what’s different about the program 10:03 mindset changes 14:43 focusing on sustainability  18:04 deciding to keep going CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we break down what’s really happening when progress seems to stall and how to know whether you’re actually in a plateau or just feeling impatient. We talk through the most common reasons fat loss slows down, the habits that quietly add up, and why simply doing “more” is rarely the answer. This conversation focuses on sustainable strategies, realistic expectations, and the mindset shifts required to move forward without burning yourself out. We talk about: -How to tell if you’re truly in a plateau -The difference between perceived stalls and real metabolic adaptation -Why protein intake matters more than most people think -“Bites, licks, and tastes” that derail progress -The role hormones play in fat loss -Why strength training is non-negotiable -Choosing direction over speed -Why lasting results require an identity shift Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 1:23 how to know if you’re in a plateau 6:26 metrics you should track 11:16 metabolic adaptation 17:06 when you’re ACTUALLY in a plateau  26:40 realistic expectation for fat loss 32:00 your dream body weighs more than you think it does 38:45 dropping the mental burden CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special episode, we sit down with our incredible client, Melinda, who is down 100 pounds and still going. After trying every diet imaginable and feeling frustrated by short-term results that never lasted, Melinda shares what finally worked and why it had very little to do with a “perfect” plan. Her story is an honest look at what it takes to create real, lasting change, even in the middle of grief, life transitions, and self-doubt. We talk about: -dealing with grief and major life changes feeling like a failure and rebuilding self-trust deciding to make it work instead of starting over why it’s not actually about the diet learning how to be happy in the process setting an example for your children taking action now instead of waiting for the right time Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 1:43 reaching rock bottom 4:20 putting herself first 5:34 having the support she needs 7:04 overcoming misconceptions 9:16 becoming a new person 11:15 sustainability for life CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we have an honest conversation about the benefits of marriage and what it actually looks like to build something meaningful with another person. From continuing to show up when things feel hard to evolving together over time, we share real reflections on partnership, growth, and choosing commitment daily. We also discuss what happens when marriage and business overlap, how reliance can be a strength, and why becoming the person you would want to marry matters more than finding the “perfect” partner. We talk about: -How marriage can enhance your life when you stay intentional -The importance of continuing to show up, even when it’s uncomfortable -Why how you do anything is how you do everything -Evolving as individuals while growing together -Building and running a business with your spouse -Depending on your partner without losing yourself -Being open and receptive to opportunities in marriage -Becoming the person you would want to marry Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 7:15 benefits of marriage 13:17 how you know “she’s the one” 25:40 positive experiences in marriage 28:18 having a business with your spouse 35:59 learning about yourself 42:53 finding good examples 50:28 wisdom for your cynical self CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special episode, we sit down with our client Ashley to share her journey of losing over 100 pounds and, more importantly, maintaining those results. Ashley opens up about the programs that failed her in the past, the mindset shifts that changed everything, and how sustainable lifestyle changes impacted far more than just the number on the scale. From navigating Hashimoto’s disease to becoming a role model for her children, this conversation highlights what is possible when you commit to long-term change and are willing to take action, even when it feels uncomfortable. We talk about: -overcoming Hashimoto’s disease -becoming a role model for your children -breaking old habits -the impact of positive coach feedback -building sustainable lifestyle changes -becoming more physically capable -choosing to do it scared Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 1:53 Ashley’s history 4:20 programs that have failed in the fast 6:28 being a “failure” 9:34 overcoming hesitations 11:24 creating learning opportunities 13:25 coaching the whole person 17:31 seeing physical changes 24:30 focusing on sustainability 26:10 message to former self 30:22 message to someone who is scared CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we dive into the real cost of indecision and how overthinking quietly keeps people stuck. We unpack analysis paralysis, how living on screens impacts motivation and follow-through, and why consuming more information is not the same as taking action. This conversation is about learning to think critically, aligning your values with your effort, and understanding that progress does not require perfection. If you have been waiting to feel ready before you move forward, this episode will help you see what is actually holding you back and how to change it. We talk about: -thinking less and doing more -prioritizing self-care -the impact of living on screens -learning to think critically -emotions tied to the scale -why average is okay -aligning your values with your effort Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 3:55 knowing yourself 5:22 how the iPhone steals your motivation 14:53 how you’re showing up 20:10 application versus information 25:41 why people quit 32:41 getting to where you want to be is not perfect 37:29 shifting expectations CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Willetts Podcast is where marriage, metabolism, and real talk collide. Hosted by Mav & Kait—partners in life, parenting, and calling people on their bullshit—we blend science-backed body transformation with raw, unfiltered conversations about relationships, values, and the messy parts of becoming better humans. We don’t do fluff. We don’t do shortcuts. We tell the truth women 35+ need to hear so they can finally stop deceiving themselves and step into the version of them that has the highest quality of life, health, and marriage. If you want evidence-based guidance, honest perspectives, and two married coaches who practice what they preach—welcome home. This is where real change starts. https://go.elev8coaching.net/start-ads Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we reflect on the lessons, challenges, and growth that defined 2025 while setting our focus and intentions for the year ahead. We talk openly about what it looks like to truly combine lives, maintain integrity in a world full of noise and skepticism, and continue speaking your truth even when it is uncomfortable. We also explore how to handle negativity, avoid procrastination, and narrow in on one meaningful goal. Along the way, we dive into how environment shapes behavior, the importance of communication, and what it really takes to become the person you want to be in the new year. We talk about: -combining our lives -skepticism in the time of AI -saying what you believe -dealing with negative comments -the procrastination trap -focusing on ONE goal -communication and alignment -how your environment drives behavior Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 2:42 the year of clean up 8:50 how you do anything is how you do everything 14:40 working with the right clients 21:02 focusing on communication 25:50 “new year, new me” 37:19 advice to be your best 44:10 curating your phone usage 49:49 environment drives behavior CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we open up about the very real anxiety, pressure, and emotional weight that can come with the holiday season. We also talk about what it looks like to create magic for the people we love while still honoring our own needs, limits, and growth. From navigating the first year of marriage, to balancing household roles, to learning how to support one another deeply and intentionally, this conversation is honest, heart-centered, and full of moments that remind us of the power of partnership, belief, and being each other’s biggest fan. We talk about: -Bringing back the Christmas spirit -Making the holidays magical for others -Navigating the first year of marriage -Sharing household duties in a real and honest way -Giving your partner room to shine -Having someone who truly believes in you -Being your partner’s biggest supporter -Building connection and authentic relationships Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 4:30 making the holidays magical 9:10 plans for the new year 11:55 “roommate” issues 17:33 internal agreements as a wife 27:00 feeling “dependent” as a wife 40:01 supporting each other 48:20 building true relationships CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we answer one of the most common and confusing questions in body transformation: what is your ideal body weight, and what does it actually mean to be in maintenance? We break down how to identify a healthy body composition, how to stop cycling between restriction during the week and overeating on the weekends, and why maintenance is a skill, not a finish line. This conversation is about long-term sustainability, realistic expectations, and learning how to live in a body you can actually maintain. We talk about: -why you should not follow a diet you would not want your kids to follow -why the process matters more than shortcuts -why difficult does not automatically mean effective -developing a healthier mentality around the scale -fears around getting “bulky” -understanding energy in, energy out -learning to follow hunger and fullness cues Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 1:56 finding your goal weight 8:05 making sustainable choices 11:06 how you know you’ve lost enough weight 17:00 the “last 10 pounds” 21:09 going through a build phase 25:30 distorted body image 29:08 when to eat at maintenance 37:40 “eating clean” 43:05 knowing when you’re hungry or full 48:15 how to get your questions answered CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we dig into the cycle of losing and gaining the same 20 pounds. We explore the beliefs and mindset patterns that quietly sabotage long-term change and why willpower alone will never be enough. This conversation is all about shifting how you think, strengthening what you value, and creating a way of living that supports the transformation you want—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally. If you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or convinced that you “should have this figured out by now,” this one will hit home. We talk about: -strengthening your values -committing to yourself -finding freedom in the gray area -borrowing belief when yours feels low -moving forward after being burned -continuing your education and your growth Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 3:03 how you do anything is how you do everything 7:47 committing when life is busy 12:20 finding clarity 18:45 “I should have this figured out” 30:42 being leet down before 41:40 “life coaches” 46:17 the use of AI in DMs 49:53 talking about money CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we open up about the real-life struggles that show up in marriage and personal life — the stress, the anxiety, the messy moments, and the ways we choose to work through them. From juggling blended family dynamics to learning what true intimacy and safety feel like, this conversation is grounded in honesty and the lessons we’ve learned the hard way. We dive into what it means to be loved for who you are, how past experiences shape current boundaries, and why living in integrity matters in every relationship you’re part of. We talk about: -balancing work schedules and personal time -navigating life with children and step-children -setting boundaries based on past experiences -being loved for who you are, not who you “should” be -living in integrity within your relationship -how men bond and express connection Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 3:20 balancing family, work, and personal time 17:30 intimacy and connection 27:20 feeling safe and seen 34:30 respectful conflict and disagreements  40:01 sharing phone passwords 49:58 looking at other men or women 58:16 does your husband actually care? CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we explore what it really means to “show up” in your life, your relationship, and your health. Your standards, your habits, and your communication do not exist in isolation — they influence the people closest to you, especially when you are trying to make changes and your partner is not on the same page. We dig into the emotional, practical, and relational sides of pursuing growth while maintaining connection, and how your behavior can inspire change without pressure or resentment. This conversation is for anyone navigating personal goals while trying to honor their relationship at the same time. We talk about: -setting standards for yourself -leading with curiosity -having hard conversations -assuming the worst -supporting your partner -how you do anything is how you do everything -environment dictates behavior -building emotional connection Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 7:43 raising your own waterline 12:40 communicating your needs 21:15 creating a feeling a safety  29:45 shifting your identity for body transformation  36:15 taking accountability 40:09 being “equal” in your fitness 48:10 physiological and psychological health 57:56 problem solving together CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we break down the beliefs that quietly keep people stuck. These are the stories you repeat, the assumptions you cling to, and the patterns you justify that ultimately limit your growth. We explore how your environment, your relationships, your expectations, and even your idea of “readiness” shape your ability to move forward. If you feel like you’ve been spinning your wheels, this conversation will help you see what is holding you back and what it actually takes to create meaningful change. We talk about: -when things become important -sacrifices as a parent -the company you keep -consistency is variable -importance of compassion -the idea of self-love -you don’t need to have the answers Time Stamps:  0:00 Introduction 2:00 choosing your fitness as a parent 7:45 living your values 11:45 what makes a good parent 17:07 is it the right time? 24:20 ready is a lie 30:03 attributes of your partner 34:57 who you’ve been versus who you’re becoming 45:18 what we mean by what we say CONNECT WITH KAIT: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/ Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-list Free FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfP CONNECT WITH MAVERICK: Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79 1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157 IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.