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Lynn Marriott and Pia Nilsson return to T-Time as we revisit how to play better golf without changing your swing. Drawing from Play Your Best Golf Now, they share practical ways to build confidence, manage nerves, and enjoy the game more. In This Episode: Simplifying your Think Box and Play BoxManaging balance, tempo, and tensionResetting when nerves or frustration take overBuilding confidence through your post-shot reactionsRecovering from tough rounds and replacing negative self-talkWatch this episode on YouTube! About Lynn Marriott and Pia Nilsson: Lynn and Pia are internationally recognized golf coaches, co-founders of VISION54, and authors of Play Your Best Golf Now and Be a Player. Their coaching helps golfers develop the human skills needed to perform better on the course. Learn more about VISION54 Explore their Books and Action Guides Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Lynn and Pia: Instagram: @lynnpia54 Follow Us: www.toritotlis.com Instagram: @tori_totlis TikTok: @tori_totlis Facebook: @TeamTotlis See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Missy Farr-Kaye returns to T-Time to give us an inside look at women’s college golf and how much the landscape has changed since her first appearance in 2024. From the growing influence of the transfer portal and NIL to new eligibility rules and roster decisions, Missy explains what coaches, players, and parents are navigating behind the scenes. The conversation also goes beyond recruiting. Missy shares how ASU uses statistics and course strategy to develop smarter players, why the U.S. National Development Program is so important, and what it really takes to transition from college golf to the professional level. They also discuss resilience, team culture, personal branding, and why being coachable can make such a difference at every level of the game. In This Episode: How the transfer portal is changing women’s college golf The impact of NIL and the lack of transparency around offers What recruits should really consider when choosing a college Why relationships, team culture, and player development matter How ASU uses statistics to improve course strategy and scoring Avoiding unforced errors and knowing when to play aggressively How the U.S. National Development Program supports young golfers New pathways from collegiate golf to the professional tours The mindset and resilience needed to succeed as a professional Why personal branding and social media matter for today’s players Watch this episode on YouTube About Missy Farr-Kaye: Missy Farr-Kaye is the head coach of Arizona State Women’s Golf and one of the most accomplished figures in collegiate golf. She has helped ASU win NCAA National Championships as a player, assistant coach, and head coach. Throughout her career, Missy has developed elite collegiate and professional players while building a team culture centered on hard work, smart course management, resilience, and having fun along the way. Listen to Missy’s first appearance on T-Time in Episode 114 Learn more about ASU Women’s Golf Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Missy: Instagram: @devilmissy Follow ASU Women’s Golf Instagram: @sundevilwgolf Follow Us: www.toritotlis.com Instagram: @tori_totlis TikTok: @tori_totlis Facebook: @TeamTotlis See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We’re back for another Tournament T-Time as Tori and Phyllis take on Sodus Bay Heights Golf Club for an RDGA two-person best ball event. Before the round, Tori gets candid about watching her handicap climb from a +1 to a 7.0 and how her relationship with golf has changed. Instead of constantly chasing improvement and lower scores, she’s learning to put less pressure on herself, enjoy competing, and remember that a handicap doesn’t define who you are as a golfer. Then it’s time to tee it up! Tori and Phyllis navigate fast greens, beautiful views, and plenty of ham-and-egging as they put together another strong team performance. They break down what worked, what needs improvement, and why playing to your own strengths matters. The duo finishes 3-under gross and 6-under net, taking the win in both divisions and capping off an incredible Rochester tournament run. In this episode: Another RDGA two-person best ball tournament Tori’s changing relationship with her handicap and competitive golf Learning to enjoy golf without always chasing improvement Why a rising handicap can mess with your confidence Phyllis’s approach to her short game and why her sand wedge has become her go-to club The importance of knowing your own game and playing to your strengths Their final gross and net results at Sodus Bay Wrapping up an incredible Rochester tournament run Tori and Phyllis put together another strong round, but was it enough to finish their Rochester tournament run with another win? You’ll have to listen to find out where they landed on the leaderboard and whether they could make it four for four! Make sure you download your copy of Short Game 100! Short Game 100 – Free Digital Practice GuideFollow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We are back with Dr. Joe Parent, bestselling author of Zen Golf, for Part 2 of our conversation about the mental challenges every golfer faces on the course. If you missed Part 1, go back and listen as we cover first tee nerves, pressure putts, intimidating opponents, your inner critic, and what happens when you spend way too much time in your own head. In Part 2, we’re tackling five more scenarios that can quickly derail a round. From recovering after a blow-up hole and keeping frustration from carrying over, to protecting a great round when you know you’re close to a personal best, Dr. Parent shares practical ways to stay present and keep playing your game. In this episode: How to recover mentally after a blow-up hole Why every hole should be treated as a fresh start Stopping frustration from boiling over mid-round Why too many swing thoughts can make things worse How to stop “protecting” a good round and keep playing your game Avoiding the urge to make up for a bad hole Conserving mental energy throughout 18 holes What to do when you start running out of gas on the back nine The importance of hydration, nutrition, and preparing for golf as an endurance event Separating your golf score from your self-worth Watch this episode on YouTube Resources Mentioned Zen Golf by Dr. Joe Parent Zen Putting by Dr. Joe Parent The Best Diet Book Ever by Dr. Joe Parent Dr. Joe Parent’s books and mental game resources -Find each of Dr. Parent's books here -Be sure to get your Free Short Game 100 digital practice guide  Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Every round of golf is filled with moments that can either build your confidence or completely derail it. In Part 1 of this conversation with renowned sports psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Joe Parent, we dive into some of the most common mental challenges golfers face and, more importantly, how to handle them with more confidence, clarity, and enjoyment.  From first tee jitters to intimidating playing partners, Dr. Parent shares simple, practical strategies that can help you quiet the mental noise and get out of your own way. Whether you're competing in tournaments or just trying to enjoy your weekend round a little more, this episode is packed with advice you'll use every time you step onto the course.  In this episode:  Why expectations often get in the way of enjoying your best golf   How to handle first tee nerves and turn adrenaline into confidence   A simple trick for making pressure putts feel easier   How to stop being intimidated by longer hitters and stronger competitors   Quieting your inner critic and replacing negative self-talk   The difference between playing well and simply shooting a good score   Staying mentally engaged during long, slow rounds   Why playing against the golf course—not your opponents—can free up your game  This episode is full of practical mental game strategies that can help golfers of every skill level enjoy the game more, recover faster from mistakes, and play with greater confidence. Watch this episode on YouTube Resources Mentioned Zen Golf by Dr. Joe Parent  Zen Putting by Dr. Joe Parent  Zen Tennis by Dr. Joe Parent  The Best Diet Book Ever by Dr. Joe Parent  A Walk in the Wood: Meditations on Mindfulness with a Bear Named Pooh by Dr. Joe Parent and Nancy Parent  Find each of Dr. Parent's books here  Free Short Game 100 digital practice guide Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Some golf conversations are worth revisiting, and this is definitely one of them. We're bringing back one of our favorite episodes with legendary rules officials Bob and Christy Smith to breakdown some of the most talked about rules situations in professional golf. From Tiger Woods and Lexi Thompson to Dustin Johnson, Patrick Reed, and more, Bob andChristy explain what actually happened, why the rulings were made, and how many of those moments helped shape the Rules of Golf we play today.  Whether you're a competitive golfer or just want to avoid costly mistakes during your next round, this episode is full of practical takeaways and fascinating behind the scenes stories. In this episode: The real story behind Tiger Woods' 2013 Masters drop and how it changed the Rules ofGolf What happened with Lexi Thompson and why the "Lexi Rule" exists today Dustin Johnson's infamous Whistling Straits bunker penalty Patrick Reed's embedded ball and palm tree controversies Why viewer call ins are no longer part of rules decisions Recent rules changes every golfer should know How to handle rules situations with integrity during competition What it takes to become a certified Rules Official If you've ever questioned a ruling, wondered why the rules changed, or wanted a better understanding of how they're applied, this episode is a great place to start. Resources Mentioned: USGA Rules of Golf quizzes and educational resources USGA Rules of Golf app Local and state golf associations for Rules Official opportunities Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Watch this episode on YouTube Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We're recording this episode from the road in England as our group heads to Berkshire for the first round of golf after an unforgettable day at Wimbledon. From the atmosphere and traditions to celebrity sightings and Princess Kate, we're sharing everything that surprised us about experiencing one of the world's most iconic sporting events in person. Along the way, members of our travel group jump on the mic to talk about what stood out most, how Wimbledon compares to events like The Masters and the Kentucky Derby, and why it's an experience we'll never forget. We also dive into the little details that don't always make the travel guides, including where to sit, what to wear, dealing with the summer heat, and a few things we'd do differently next time. If Wimbledon is on your bucket list, this episode is full of honest first impressions and practical tips from people experiencing it for the very first time. In this episode we cover: • Our first impressions walking into Wimbledon• What makes the atmosphere so different from American sporting events• Celebrity sightings, the Royal Box, and seeing Princess Kate in person• Comparing Wimbledon to The Masters and the Kentucky Derby• What surprised us most about the crowds, hospitality, and traditions• Tips for choosing seats and avoiding the afternoon sun• Why Berkshire is next on our England golf itinerary• A few funny stories from the trip, including Phyllis' dream of moving to Scotland Registration for Desert Classic opens on August 4th!! Join the interest list and register here!! Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of T-Time, I’m taking you straight onto the fairways of the legendary Oak Hill Country Club for a super special Net Best Ball tournament with my mom. We’re proving that confidence, fun, and competition belong to every woman golfer. We’re breaking down exactly how we tackled Oak Hill’s notorious East Course, overcoming pre-tournament jitters, score predictions, and the real-time strategy that helped us navigate this tricky course. From navigating the first nine holes to final reflections, I share the highs, lows, and key lessons for tournament rookies and veterans alike. Plus, don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Desert Classic Registration Opens August 4th! Join the Interest List! About Holly Creek Holly Creek is a legendary figure in the Rochester, New York real estate market, boasting nearly 40 years of experience as a top-producing agent. As the CEO and founder of Holly Creek Homes, she has held the title of the #1 Agent in Rochester and Western New York for over 26 consecutive years. Her career is marked by unparalleled success, including being named "Agent of the Year" repeatedly from 1991 through 2024. Beyond her business acumen, Holly has gained recognition in the women’s golf community. Holly is a natural right-hander who plays left-handed, a unique trait she shares with her daughter, Alix. Follow Holly Facebook: Holly Creek Homes. YouTube: @HollyCreekHomes. www.hollycreekhomes.com. Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In Part 2, Tori and Alex dive into the world of tournament golf and all the things no one really teaches you when you first start competing. From scorecards and Golf Genius to rules mishaps and handling nerves, this episode is packed with lessons learned through experience. The conversation covers how tournament golf differs from casual rounds, why playing in uncomfortable situations can actually make you a better golfer, and the importance of knowing the rules while still remembering that golf is supposed to be fun. In This Episode: The biggest differences between casual golf and tournament golf How to handle first-tee nerves and competitive pressure Tournament scoring, Golf Genius, and avoiding scorecard mistakes Stories about rule infractions, provisional balls, and learning the hard way Pace of play and staying patient during long tournament rounds Proper etiquette when calling rules on fellow competitors Why sportsmanship matters, whether you're winning or struggling Learning to separate your golf score from your self-worth Creating a positive experience for yourself and your playing partners Watch this episode on YouTube About Alex Anderson Alex Anderson is the founder of Babes Golf, a women's golf community dedicated to creating welcoming spaces for women to learn, play, and connect through the game of golf. Check out Babes Golf and their upcoming events Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Alex Instagram: @alex_babesgolf Instagram: @babesgolf Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, Tori welcomes back Alex Anderson, founder of Babes Golf, to discuss all things golf etiquette. Before diving into the topic, Alex shares exciting updates on Babes Golf's expansion across the country, including recent pop-up events in Cape Cod and New York City, upcoming plans for Chicago, and details from their latest Babes Vacation at PGA West. The conversation then shifts into the unwritten rules of golf and how understanding proper etiquette can make the game more enjoyable for everyone. Tori and Alex cover everything from pace of play and ready golf to respecting other players, caring for the golf course, and navigating common situations that can feel intimidating for newer golfers. This episode serves as a great resource to share with any woman who is just getting into golf. It is a reminder that everyone starts somewhere, and learning the small details of the game can help build confidence and create a better experience on the course. In This Episode: Babes Golf's nationwide growth and community-building efforts Highlights from the recent La Quinta golf getaway Pace of play tips and beginner-friendly advice Common golf etiquette mistakes and how to avoid them How to be considerate of your playing partners and the golf course Private club etiquette, tipping, and understanding local golf culture Tune in next week for Part 2, where Tori and Alex will dive into tournament etiquette and share even more stories and lessons from their golf journeys. Watch this episode on YouTube About Alex Anderson Alex Anderson is the founder of Babes Golf, a women's golf community dedicated to creating welcoming spaces for women to learn, play, and connect through the game of golf. Check out Babes Golf and their upcoming events Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Alex Instagram: @alex_babesgolf Instagram: @babesgolf Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How much is your mental game really affecting your score? This week, Tori welcomes back Kathy Hart Wood for a conversation about the hidden ways your mindset can impact your performance on the course. From closing the gap between your range game and tournament play to learning how to bounce back after a bad shot, Kathy shares practical strategies that every golfer can start using immediately. Whether you're chasing lower scores or simply looking to enjoy golf more, this episode is packed with simple, actionable mental game tips that can transform the way you play. In This Episode Why your mental game may be costing you more shots than you realize How to close the gap between your range game and your course performance The four reasons golfers truly miss a shot How to stop one bad shot from turning into a bad round Building routines that create confidence and consistency The importance of letting go and committing to every shot Common mental game myths that hold golfers back Kathy's "18 Proud" mindset for enjoying golf regardless of your score About Kathy Hart Wood Kathy Hart Wood is the creator of Your Mental Caddy and author of Mastering Your Golf Brain, a golf mental performance coach, and the host of the Think Above Par podcast. She helps golfers build confidence, improve focus, and lower scores through better mental game strategies. Kathy is also a trusted instructor at women's golf events, including the Desert Classic and Dallas Shootout. Watch this Episode on YouTube Links & Additional Resources Kathy Hart Wood: https://kathyhartwood.com Take Kathy's Mental Game Quiz Learn more about Your Mental Caddy Listen to the Think Above Par podcast Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Tori and Phyllis are back for another installment of the Tournament Series, this time heading to Stafford Country Club in western New York for an RDGA two-person best ball event. Tori had never played the course before, but Phyllis assures her it's one of the best — home to a legendary ladies' invitational and built by white-collar Buffalonians who wanted a hidden gem in the middle of nowhere. The pre-round logistics are chaotic (Phyllis has loans to lock, a jackhammer blocking her street, and exactly 23 minutes to get there), but they make the first tee with seconds to spare. At just 4,515 yards from the yellow tees, Tori goes in expecting birdies all day — and the course promptly humbles her. The short yardage turns out to be a trap: the greens are fast, hard, and nearly impossible to hold, leaving Tori stuck hitting awkward 50-yard shots from the rough all day. Phyllis, meanwhile, keeps chipping and one-putting like clockwork. They finish second in gross and win overall low net — beating a field where the gross winner shot one under on a course that should have played much easier. Along the way, there's a memorable rules moment involving a chalk ball marker (completely legal, but you have to erase it before you putt), and plenty of honest reflection on what the round revealed about both their games heading into the next event. Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

All four episodes of the Creek Cup series are officially live on YouTube — and yes, they dropped out of order (episode four first, naturally). Click the playlist link below to watch them in the right sequence. In this episode of T-Time, Tori and Ashley are joined by Aubrey, the editor behind both the Desert Classic and Creek Cup series, to pull back the curtain on what it actually takes to turn hours of raw golf footage into a four-part series. Aubrey was on the ground at Bandon Dunes for the first time, racking up 20,000 steps a day while wrangling cameras, voice-noting clip numbers, and somehow capturing one of the most unbelievable moments of the trip — April's hole-in-one on a par three playing 155 yards into the wind. Her second career hole-in-one, by the way. And yes, someone ended up in the ocean because of it. The conversation gets into the full production process — from Aubrey's 20-page pre-production document and cast profiling based on Desert Classic footage, to the post-production challenge of meshing everyone's creative vision as a self-described non-golfer. They also talk about what makes YouTube golf such a massive content category, why the Creek Cup format worked so well on camera, and what they'd do differently next time (GoPros in the carts, for starters). If you haven't watched the series yet, head to the playlist link — and if you find them even remotely interesting, share it with your golf crew! Making of The Creek Cup: Bandon Dunes - Playlist The Making of the Desert Classic: 2026 - Playlist Watch this podcast episode on YouTube The Good Vibe Studios is a women-owned and operated creative studio space based in Phoenix, and built for podcasters, photographers, videographers, and entrepreneurs. With 2,000 square feet of creative space and a team that brings serious energy to every project. Follow them at @thegoodvibestudios or visit thegoodvibestudios.com. Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this second part episode on misses and fixes, Justin and I tackle the most frustrating short-game mistakes that cost golfers strokes: the chunk shot, the fat bunker shot, and the dreaded shank, and we teach you exactly how to fix them. We break down the mechanical flaws and mental triggers behind these misses, and we offer simple cues that help you stop hitting behind the ball and start making crisp, solid contact. Justin also shares his expert advice on wedge fitting, mastering the short putt, and the critical mindset shifts needed to trust your technique under pressure. Whether you're struggling with wedges or fearing the bunker, this conversation provides actionable fixes you can implement immediately. Download a free Misses and Fixes Cheat Sheet for your short game! Plus, don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Watch this episode on YouTube About Justin:Justin Klemballa is the founder of Breaking Bogeys, a golf coaching platform built to help everyday players break through scoring barriers and rediscover their love of the game. With over a decade of experience working with golfers at every level, he spent years as Director of Instruction and Lead Master Instructor at the prestigious Jim McLean Golf Schools, one of the most respected development programs in the world.Recognized by Golf Digest as one of the Top 100 Best Young Teachers in America (one of only two instructors in Arizona to earn this distinction), Justin's coaching goes well beyond mechanics. His methodology blends elite technical systems including the Jim McLean System, Trackman Data and Analytics, Mental Management Systems, and Neuro Learning for Golf, giving players a complete foundation across the full swing, short game, course management, and the mental game.Follow Justin breakingbogeys.com. YouTube: Justin Klemballa Golf. Instagram: @justinklemballagolf. Find Out More Get Your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100. 2027 Desert Classic. Breaking Bogeys Workbook. Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Stop losing strokes to frustrating misses! In this episode of T-Time, I sit down with the incredible Justin Klemballa, founder of Breaking Bogeys, to decode the shots that steal our confidence and our scorecards.We’re tackling the Snap Hook, the Slice, the Topped Shot, and revealing why your grip strength might be the silent killer of your fairway accuracy. Justin also breaks down the Swing Path Clock to help you finally visualize your entry point and stop guessing where the ball is going.Whether you’re struggling with consistency or just want to understand the why behind your ball flight, this episode is your ultimate troubleshooting guide.Download your free Misses & Fixes Cheat Sheet now! Plus, don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Watch this episode on YouTube. About Justin: Justin Klemballa is the founder of Breaking Bogeys, a golf coaching platform built to help everyday players break through scoring barriers and rediscover their love of the game. With over a decade of experience working with golfers at every level, he spent years as Director of Instruction and Lead Master Instructor at the prestigious Jim McLean Golf Schools, one of the most respected development programs in the world.Recognized by Golf Digest as one of the Top 100 Best Young Teachers in America (one of only two instructors in Arizona to earn this distinction), Justin's coaching goes well beyond mechanics. His methodology blends elite technical systems including the Jim McLean System, Trackman Data and Analytics, Mental Management Systems, and Neuro Learning for Golf, giving players a complete foundation across the full swing, short game, course management, and the mental game.Follow Justin breakingbogeys.com. YouTube: Justin Klemballa Golf. Instagram: @justinklemballagolf. Find Out More Get Your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100. 2027 Desert Classic. Breaking Bogeys Workbook. Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.