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Life can throw challenges at us that seem insurmountable, yet it’s often through these moments that we discover our greatest strength. In this episode, Monica Connolly shares her incredible journey of resilience, beginning with surviving a hypoxic brain injury as a newborn. She also reflects on her childhood and how unrealistic expectations from those around her set her on a path of self-sabotage. As the conversation unfolds, Monica opens up about breaking free from people’s expectations and finding acceptance. Moreover, she reflects on how losing her son and caring for her husband after his brain injury shaped her life and the lessons she learned about commitment. Monica also discusses her personal growth journey, including her weight loss experience and the goals she hopes to achieve through her coaching, writing, and podcasting. Monica Connolly is a keynote speaker, international bestselling author, transformation coach, and host of the Unshakeable Belief podcast. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [02:05] Who is Monica Connolly? [03:40] Surviving the Unthinkable [05:27] Childhood backstory [13:40] Acceptance [19:36] Family Struggles [34:56] Commitment [37:32] Owning a Preschool & Daycare [41:55] Weight Loss Journey [55:32] Goals & Impact Key Takeaways:   • Some of our hardest moments are also our greatest gifts. ~Brian Bogert [13:06] • “Belief is hollow without conviction and embodiment.” ~Brian Bogert [13:24] • As we heal, we give others permission to heal. ~Monica Connolly [56:38] • You are here for a purpose, and you can live your best life fulfilling that purpose. ~Monica Connolly [59:07] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. RESET Coaching Program: https://monicaconnollycoaching.com/reset-group-coaching Keep In Touch with Monica Connolly: Website: https://monicaconnollycoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mnconnolly/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/monica.a.connolly.7 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicaconnollyandco/ Email: [email protected] Podcast: https://monicaconnollycoaching.com/unshakeable-belief-a-podcast-for-people-ready-to-rise/ — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

True transformation begins when we connect with ourselves and embrace our inner strengths. By doing so, we not only deepen our connection with others but also unlock the potential to create meaningful impact in the world around us. In this inspiring episode, Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville, PhD, author of Real Women Change The World and Founder of Sex, Power and Millions, LLC, shares her transformative journey from growing up in an orphanage to coaching global leaders and becoming a pioneer in integrative healthcare. Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville explores how our environment impacts us, why transitions can be challenging, and practical ways to navigate them successfully. She also discusses why so many people feel unseen in their daily lives and shares actionable ways to create connection, recognition, and understanding for those around us. Along the way, Dr. Dorothy Martin-NevilleDr. Martin reveals how she empowers women to fully own their presence, embrace their strengths, and step confidently into their purpose. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [02:14] Who is Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville? [03:56] Unconditional love [06:38] Life in the Orphanage [15:54] How our environment impacts us [28:15] Transition [39:20] Why People Feel Unseen [42:41] Professional Journey [59:28] Empowering Women [01:14:14] Current Focus Key Takeaways:   • People are intrinsically holy and good, yet what often happens is that some choose, consciously or otherwise, to live from a place of defense. They come from anger, control, or illusions of victimization, but inside there exists an amazing, exquisite soul. If they could pause long enough to experience it within themselves, they would see just how completely unlimited they truly are. ~Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville [04:33] • “Our greatest strengths and assets also become our greatest liabilities.” ~Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville [14:30] • “Your trash and treasure are found in the same moments. Do you have the courage to dig through the trash to surface the treasure?” ~Brian Bogert [14:41] • “The greatest exponential growth typically comes after the hardest times.” ~Brian Bogert [31:45] • “Until you have seen yourself, you don’t have the ability to truly see another.” ~Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville [39:46] • “We become ill in certain parts of our bodies because of the energy we carry.” ~Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville [46:42] • “You can only be a healer to the extent that you have done your own healing.” ~Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville [48:39] • Authentic power is never power over others, and true power is never about defending or controlling. It is simply a presence. ~Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville [01:04:44] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. Real Women Change The World: Letting The Good Girl Die So The Real Woman Can Live: https://bit.ly/4iXHhlM Keep In Touch with Dr. Dorothy Martin-Neville: Email: [email protected] Website (Personal): meetdrdorothy.com Website: https://institute.askdrdorothy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/askdrdorothy/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrDorothyCt LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dorothymartinneville/ — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

It’s often assumed that trauma only leaves scars, but it can also serve as a catalyst for growth, self-discovery, and personal strength. Marty Strong is a testament to this, having overcome both childhood trauma and the challenges of SEAL service. Marty Strong is a former U.S. Navy SEAL, a business leader, author, and speaker. He is also the CEO of the veterans’ non-profit foundation Warrior’s Haven USA, where he supports veterans in their transition from military service to civilian life. In this episode, Marty opens up about his journey through childhood trauma and how those early experiences prepared him for the extreme demands of SEAL service. He explores the causes of SEAL service trauma and PTSD, offering listeners an inside look at the psychological challenges faced by elite operators. Marty also explains how Navy SEAL training conditions the nervous system to stay calm in chaotic situations and discusses how SEAL teams maintain teamwork, flow, and interchangeability. Beyond military, Marty discusses the challenges of transitioning to civilian life. Moreover, he opens up about what motivates him to help others and shares the mission and passion behind the creation of Warrior’s Haven, USA. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [02:11] Who is Marty Strong? [03:30] Art & Creativity [22:58] SEAL Training [27:37] Teamwork [34:44] Childhood Trauma [41:27] SEAL Service Trauma [50:22] Helping Others [56:01] Warrior’s Haven USA [01:10:05] Final remarks Key Takeaways:   • There is no limit to what we can create. ~Brian Bogert [06:02] • That which doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. ~Marty Strong [38:44] • You don’t have to be a winner at the start to be a winner down the road. ~Marty Strong [01:10:27] • You can accomplish anything you want if you remove failure from your equation. ~Brian Bogert [01:12:27] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. MasterClass Keep In Touch with Marty Strong: Website #1: https://www.mlstrongauthor.com/ Website #2: https://martystrongbenimble.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinLStrong Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/martinlstrongauthor Books: https://www.mlstrongauthor.com/books LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marty-strong-9676bb13/ X: https://x.com/mlstrongauthor — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

Many people view boundaries as a way of pushing others away, but boundaries are actually meant to keep people in your life with clear rules of engagement that support connection rather than distance. When you learn to set healthy boundaries, you protect your well-being, honor your needs, and create relationships grounded in respect, clarity, and genuine connection. Joining us today is Barb Nangle, a boundaries coach, speaker, author, and the Founder and CEO of Higher Power Coaching and Consulting, LLC. She is also the host of the podcast Fragmented to Whole, where she shares life lessons from her journey in 12-step recovery. Barb dives into the concept of boundaries, explaining what they are, the different types, and why they are essential for healthy relationships. She also shares her personal journey, including her experiences with patriarchy, the evolution of women’s rights, and her 10-year recovery through the 12-step program. Additionally, Barb explains how the program works, its benefits, and how it helped her uncover parts of her identity she never knew existed, including recognizing her victim mentality and understanding how it manifests. Finally, Barb discusses the power of affirmations and how they shape thoughts and beliefs. Moreover, she explains how she helps clients build healthy boundaries, reclaim their power, and step confidently into their authentic selves in every area of life. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [03:06] Who is Barb Nangle? [08:43] Patriarchy [12:06] Recovery Journey [22:26] 12 Step Recovery Program [26:13] Victim mentality [35:25] Affirmations [50:05] Coaching Approach [57:55] Boundaries Key Takeaways:   • Boundary work helps you develop a sense of internal safety so you can withstand the vicissitudes of life. ~Barb Nangle [20:51] • The trash from your past is not your fault; it just becomes your responsibility once you become aware of it. ~Brian Bogert [25:30] • Questions create options and opportunities for us to have new choices and take new actions. ~Brian Bogert [31:46] • Not making a choice is a choice. ~Barb Nangle [32:50] • “The greatest choice is the choice of what to think.” ~Barb Nangle [33:52] • The largest distance in the universe is between the head and the heart. ~Barb Nangle [35:18] • It’s easier to replace a negative thing with a positive thing than to change the negative thing. ~Barb Nangle [36:26] • If you are not willing to feel uncomfortable, you are going to stay where you are. ~Barb Nangle [37:35] • “The definition of self-worth is what you believe you deserve.” ~Brian Bogert [57:04] • Many people view boundaries as a way of pushing others away, but boundaries are actually meant to keep people in your life with clear rules of engagement. ~Brian Bogert [57:55] • It is easier to put slippers on your feet than to carpet the world. ~Barb Nangle [59:39] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. The Secret: https://bit.ly/44kZl35 Keep In Touch with Barb Nangle: Website: https://higherpowercc.com/ Podcast: https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barbnangle/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/barb.nangle.2025/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@higherpowercoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/higherpowercoaching/ — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

In this episode, Aleksandar Svetski, renowned entrepreneur, Bitcoin expert, and author of The UnCommunist Manifesto, The Bushido of Bitcoin, and Bitcoin Times #1, shares key life lessons and insights on business and Bitcoin. Aleksandar dives into lessons from fatherhood and marriage and explores the differences between equality and equal opportunity. In addition, he explains why creating a fair system is impossible and breaks down the distinction between capital and money. For anyone curious about Bitcoin, he explains what it is, how it has developed, its impact on the global economy, and how to get started with it. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [01:43] Who is Aleksandar Svetski? [06:35] Fatherhood [16:34] Marriage & Relationship [27:52] Equality vs. Equal Opportunity [31:19] Creating a Fair System [37:14] Capital vs Money [51:23] Bitcoin [01:02:35] Get Started with Bitcoin Key Takeaways:   • “Respect goes up, love comes down.” ~Aleksandar Svetski [12:17] • “If you want equality, you have to make things unfair, but if you want fairness, you will get inequality all the time.” ~Aleksandar Svetski [28:21] • Bitcoin is energy money. ~Aleksandar Svetski [51:47] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. The UnCommunist Manifesto: https://bit.ly/4i04RxE 2. The Bushido of Bitcoin: https://bit.ly/3JDtGD9 3. 21 Questions: https://bit.ly/3WZVhS4 4. Bitcoin Times #1: https://bit.ly/3K3ljka Keep In Touch with Aleksandar Svetski: Website: https://www.satlantis.io/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alekssvetski/ instagram:https://www.instagram.com/SvetskiWrites X: https://x.com/SvetskiWrites Linktree: https://linktr.ee/svetski Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B081Y1NC7B/allbooks — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

When people bring together their unique skill sets, vision, and perspectives, it becomes clear that impact is not driven by perfection, but by collaboration and a shared purpose. As individuals, we often don’t realize what we’re truly capable of until someone else sheds light on our potential and helps us see the strength and possibilities within ourselves.    Today, we are joined by Chad Link and Rob Brower, the founders of Swyvvl, a home search portal built to make real estate more transparent and fair for everyone. In this episode, they take us inside their unique partnership, sharing how they navigate differences while combining their distinct skillsets and perspectives to achieve their shared goals. Additionally, they share the story behind Swyvvl, discussing what inspired its creation, what drives them, and the vision shaping its future. This episode is packed with insights on collaboration, teamwork, and the power of bringing talent and purpose together to achieve extraordinary results. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [02:13] Who is Rob? [06:02] Who is Chad? [16:28] Rob’s backstory [27:48] Partnership [44:27] Describing Each Other [01:22:00] Story Behind Swyvvl [01:41:34] Closing remarks Key Takeaways:   • You don’t need to be perfect to be useful to others. ~Chad Link [09:54] • Your past doesn’t define you. ~Rob Brower [22:17] • We don’t know what we’re capable of, because it’s often greater than what our mind tells us or our heart believes. ~Chad Link [01:05:37] • Impostors don’t get impostor syndrome. ~Brian Bogert [01:19:16] Keep In Touch with Chad Link: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadlink/ Keep In Touch with Rob Brower: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rlbrower/ Follow Swyvvl Website: https://www.swyvvl.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Swyvvl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swyvvl/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/swyvvl/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Swyvvl X: https://x.com/swyvvl — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

We all have a zone of genius that, once discovered, transforms how we live and connect with others. Discovering that superpower helps us align with our purpose and experience greater joy, freedom, and fulfillment. Emily Schneider embodies the idea of living in your zone of genius. As a visual storyteller and presentation designer, she has turned her passion for simplifying complex ideas into a thriving creative business by blending storytelling and design to help businesses confidently transform their messages into beautiful, effective presentations that resonate with their audiences. In this episode, Emily shares the experiences that shaped who she is today and the pivotal moment that awakened her to the power of the present. She also opens up about what rest means to her and the role control has played in her life. Additionally, Emily talks about how she blends coaching into her design business, the impact of AI on presentations, and the story behind her party motto, “Bring Your Own Tambourine” (BYOT). Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [02:33] Who is Emily Schneider? [09:15] Backstory [19:52] Pivotal Moment [25:37] Rest [31:31] Control [40:59] Design Business [49:47] AI [56:44] BYOT [01:05:03] Final words Key Takeaways:   • Finding your zone of genius is about discovering what not only lights you up but also empowers you to light others up. ~Emily Schneider [03:49] • “The more we know, the better we can do.” ~Emily Schneider [04:54] • Rest is not static. ~Emily Schneider [25:38] • “Curiosity is a superpower.” ~Emily Schneider [01:05:11] Keep In Touch with Emily Schneider: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emilyschneider719/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/powerpoint_queen — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

Life’s challenges can often make us doubt our value and question our self-worth. Yet, within these struggles lies the opportunity to grow, learn, and discover our true strength. In this episode, Brian Bogert interviews Cristina Simmons, a speaker, bestselling author of Eat Your Feelings, and founder of Soul Story Collective, a publishing company that creates a safe space for women to heal while writing their truth. Cristina begins by diving into how to recognize and separate your own energy from the energy you absorb from others. Moreover, she shares the realities of parenting a child with special needs and the awareness required to communicate effectively with a child on the autism spectrum. Cristina also opens up about her relationship with food, sharing how she used it to process her feelings. Additionally, she discusses the insights that inspired her book, Eat Your Feelings. Lastly, she discusses her relationship with money and the inspiration behind her publishing company, Soul Story Collective. Through her own journey, Cristina inspires others to transform pain into purpose. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [02:35] Who is Cristina Simmons? [05:45] Beyond this Lifetime [10:18] Filtering Energy [12:03] Motherhood [20:59] Pivotal moments [28:48] Special Needs Parenting [38:37] Autism Communication [46:16] Eat Your Feelings [54:22] Relationship with Money [01:05:13] Publishing company [01:09:12] Closing message  Key Takeaways:   • “Our greatest lessons come from the most painful things.” ~Cristina Simmons [19:45] • “Sometimes the best form of communication is being quiet.” ~Cristina Simmons [36:42] • Kids on the spectrum tend to do better when information is broken down into smaller, manageable steps rather than given all at once. ~Cristina Simmons [39:10] • Don’t hear what I didn’t say. ~Brian Bogert [45:33] • Food is meant to nourish our bodies, not to serve as a reward or a source of motivation. ~Cristina Simmons [52:29] • “The definition of self-worth is what you believe you deserve.” ~Brian Bogert [58:39] • “It is a disservice to the world if you don’t share your gift.” ~Cristina Simmons [01:09:29] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. Eat Your Feelings: https://bit.ly/4oaRtJy Keep In Touch with Cristina Simmons: Website: https://cristinapsimmons.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cristina-simmons/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cristinapsimmons/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cristina.b.simmons YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CristinaSimmons-d3j — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

From Ivy League graduate to a life shattered by addiction, prison, and homelessness, Ken Miller fought his way back against all odds. Today, he is a respected author, coach, keynote speaker, and founder of Denali FSP. In this deeply honest conversation, Ken shares the darkest chapters of his life, from alcohol addiction and homelessness to prison and even becoming a pimp. He also reflects on reuniting with his mother after 53 years and the turning point that transformed his life. Ken opens up about the lessons on respect he learned in prison and how they reshaped his relationships and his path forward. Through his book, Becoming Ken: One Black Man's Journey From Ivy League to Prison and Back Again, he aims to inspire others to overcome challenges, embrace growth, and find hope even in the most difficult circumstances. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [01:54] Who is Ken Miller? [02:52] Defining a Survivor [04:51] Backstory [09:06] Meeting Mom [17:46] Secrets [21:08] Early Beliefs & Acceptance [29:56] Addiction [39:36] Turning Point [42:50] Respect [54:53] Final Message Key Takeaways:   • We often keep things secret because we are concerned about how others will react if they are revealed. ~Ken Miller [18:58] • Courage is the willingness to accept the possibility of pain. ~Ken Miller [19:29] • Respect is the acknowledgment of a person's position or stature within a community. ~Ken Miller [44:39] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. Becoming Ken: One Black Man's Journey From Ivy League to Prison and Back Again: https://becomingkenbook.com/ Keep In Touch with Ken Miller: Website: https://kenmillerspeaks.com/ X: https://x.com/kenmillerspeaks LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/105336892/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thekenmillerspeaks/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekenmillerspeaks/ — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFzApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

Truth transforms the way we think, act, and connect with others. By stepping into truth, we move beyond the need to be right or place blame and instead focus on understanding and moving forward with clarity. Joining us on the show is Paul Musson, an investment consultant and expert, founder of Paddington Capital Management, and author of Capital Offence: Why Some Benefit at Your Expense. Paul shares his journey of embracing truth as a guiding principle in his life and how this shift has transformed the way he works and lives. He reflects on his life before stepping into truth and shares how he learned to communicate complex ideas with simplicity. Listeners also gain valuable insight into Paul’s investment strategy and how it has helped him align with the right organizations. Finally, Paul discusses why he wrote Capital Offence and explains the difference between capital and money. Additionally, he shares his perspective on solutions to the economic crisis. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [01:50] Who is Paul Musson? [07:38] Truth [18:51] Life Before Truth [27:16] Communication [34:04] Investment strategy [37:37] Book [43:47] Capital vs. Money [50:29] Fixing the Economy [01:00:40] Bird Watching Key Takeaways:   • If you always tell the truth, you never have to remember what you said. ~Paul Musson [07:42] • “A wise man can learn more from a foolish question than a fool can learn from a wise answer.” ~Bruce Lee [28:52] • The worst thing you can do when speaking with a very smart person who is running a business is to ask a leading question, because they will give you the answer you want to hear. ~Paul Musson [30:06] • “Show me the incentive and I will tell you the behavior.” ~Charlie Munger [35:19] • Capital is anything that you produce (a good or a service), while money is a medium of exchange that facilitates the exchange of the capital produced. ~Paul Musson [44:01] • “When you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.” ~Paul Musson [50:54] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. Warren Buffett 2. Capital Offence: Why Some Benefit At Your Expense: https://bit.ly/4qmqJXS Keep In Touch with Paul Musson: Website: https://paddingtoncapitalmgmt.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulbmusson/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/paddingtoncap X: https://x.com/paddingtoncap Book: https://bit.ly/4qmqJXS — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

Schools often prepare us to make a living, but rarely do they teach us how to make a life. While making a living focuses on earning from what we do, making a life is about the deeper journey of discovering who we are and what truly fulfills us. In this episode, Brian Bogert sits down with Ed Hajim, a seasoned Wall Street executive with over 50 years of investment experience, respected mentor, philanthropist, and author of On the Road Less Traveled and The Island of the Four Ps. Ed opens up about his remarkable journey from being an orphan to becoming one of Wall Street’s most respected leaders. He reflects on how his early experiences shaped his identity, strengthened his resilience, and taught him to rise above victimhood. Through his story, Ed reminds us that adversity can become a foundation for growth and purpose when faced with the right mindset. In the course of the conversation, Ed explores the difference between making a living and building a life, emphasizing that true fulfillment comes not from what we earn, but from discovering who we are. Additionally, he shares his three mantras for living with purpose, the lessons he has learned during his more than 50 years on Wall Street, and the most impactful decision he made during that time. Finally, Ed discusses his commitment to philanthropy, emphasizing that true success comes from giving back. He believes that true fulfillment comes from using one’s success to create opportunities for others and that giving is not just an act of generosity, but a powerful way to inspire growth and change. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [02:28] ‎Who is Ed Hajim? [06:37] Making a Living vs. Building a Life [09:31] Three Mantras [14:38] Access to Education [22:19] Being an Orphan [26:21] Crusades & Causes [37:21] Giving [42:49] What Ed is Working On [50:04] Marriage [58:36] Wall Street Key Takeaways:   • Schools do a decent job of teaching people how to make a living, but they don’t formally teach them how to make a life. ~Ed Hajim [03:22] • If you want to make a real contribution, you have to find a real need. ~Ed Hajim [06:51] • Making a living is about earning from what you do, while making a life is about discovering who you are. ~Ed Hajim [07:11] • Education is the solution to everything. ~Ed Hajim [09:36] • To live happily is to live hidden. ~Ed Hajim [18:34] • Adversity is a gift. ~Ed Hajim [22:52] • There is nothing better than changing someone’s life by giving them enough money to do what they want. ~Ed Hajim [33:32] • When we give, we also open ourselves to receive. ~Brian Bogert [37:28] • Life isn’t a smooth road; it is always under construction. ~Ed Hajim [01:05:23] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. THE ISLAND OF THE FOUR Ps: https://www.edhajim.com/island-of-the-4-ps 2. On The Road Less Traveled: https://www.edhajim.com/on-the-road-less-traveled Keep In Touch with Ed Hajim: Website: https://www.edhajim.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/edhajimauthor/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ed-hajim-bba1a7204/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557858696157# — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

Building meaningful relationships and mastering communication are essential skills for success in both personal and professional life. Effective communication not only conveys ideas clearly but also fosters deeper, lasting connections. Today, we are thrilled to welcome Greg Stephens, a communication expert specializing in high-stakes conversations, both personal and professional. Greg is a communication consultant and the best-selling author of Build New Bridges: The Art of Restoring Impossible Relationships. He is also the founder and host of the inspiring podcast A Shot of Inspiration. Greg dives into the value of relationships and reflects on the pivotal moments that shaped his understanding of communication and connection. He also explores why religion often experiences conflict and what we can learn from those dynamics. During the conversation, Greg opens up about the highs and lows of his life, sharing lessons from his first two marriages and his career in sales. He also recounts his basketball success and how a life-altering injury reshaped his life’s trajectory. Greg shares powerful insights on reading people’s energy and cleaning up relationships. He also uncovers the top causes of disconnection and difficult conversations, and introduces his ‘Master Teams’ program, where participants master communication, influence, and relationship skills. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [02:20] Who is Greg Stephens? [03:33] Relationships [11:20] Religion & Conflict [15:18] Building relationships [19:31] Pivotal moment [24:00] Marriage lessons [29:34] Life-altering injury [39:21] Elements of communication [47:58] Lessons from sales [51:39] Reading people’s energy [58:46] Cleaning up relationships [01:03:36] Difficult conversations [01:08:48] Master Teams Key Takeaways:   • Questions reveal the depth of someone’s ability to communicate and connect. ~Brian Bogert [01:44] • Conflicts are common in churches because everyone believes God is on their side. ~Greg Stephens [07:36] • The moment you try to convince someone is the moment you become less convincing. ~Joseph Grenny [13:30] • “Don’t let the lesson get lost in the language.” ~Brian Bogert [15:10] • Religion is awareness of something, a doorway that opens to the vastness of what lies beyond. ~Greg Stephens [17:36] • Only 7% of our communication comes from the words we use, 38% from the delivery, and 55% from the nonverbal. ~Brian Bogert [39:14] • “You can do a lot more than you ever thought you could.” ~Greg Stephens [48:38] • Uncomfortable silence can work in your favor to drive a point home. ~Greg Stephens [50:34] • “The moment we can identify and remove the waste, we can exist at speed without the need to hurry.” ~Brian Bogert [57:52] • “If you can’t measure it, you can’t improve it.” ~Greg Stephens [59:53] • "The moment you believe you are right; you are not curious anymore.” ~Greg Stephens [01:04:17] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. Rush Limbaugh 2. Ann Richards 3. Build New Bridges: https://bit.ly/47jMKPC 4. Crucial Conversations: https://bit.ly/4395A9F 5. The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership: https://bit.ly/47jskpO Keep In Touch with Greg Stephens: E-Mail: [email protected] Website: https://www.alignment-resources.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregstephens2/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gregory.stephens.58 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alignment_resources/ Podcast: https://www.ashotofinspiration.com Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2nIXHw5wv1z8GPsxWuYuAE?si=0fc68b49ea7f4ecb — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available!

We are all limitless in our abilities, capable of achieving anything we can dream of. However, the journey to unlocking our full potential begins with taking one step at a time and embracing small, consistent actions that help us become 1% better every day. In this insightful episode, we hear from Craig Thielen, Chief Product & Innovation Officer at Trissential and host of the 1% Better Improvement Podcast. Craig shares how growing up as the youngest of ten siblings in a small town and facing financial challenges shaped his career path, relationships, and sense of self. He also dives into how his definition of success has evolved and reflects on his career journey as a management consultant, highlighting key experiences, lessons learned, and the mindset that has helped him navigate complex professional paths. As the conversation unfolds, Craig discusses why learning matters to him, the difference between knowledge and wisdom, and practical ways to turn knowledge into wisdom. Moreover, he shares useful tips on how to recall information effectively. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [01:49] Who is Craig Thielen? [04:57] Childhood Backstory [22:18] Redefining Success [27:33] Biggest Life Challenge [33:43] Consulting Journey [44:45] Why Learning Matters [51:01] Knowledge vs Wisdom [56:47] Recalling Information [1:00:45] Closing message Key Takeaways:   • “You are the average of the five people around you.” ~Craig Thielen [08:16] • True freedom comes when we reach a place where we have nothing to justify, protect, or defend about ourselves. ~Brian Bogert [10:58] • True success is achieved when you live with purpose, continually grow as a person, and give back in meaningful ways. ~Craig Thielen [26:45] • “Much of our personal pain comes from remembering the past or worrying about the future.” ~Craig Thielen [30:52] • “You get more of what you focus on.” ~Craig Thielen [47:30] • Knowledge is the information we acquire, while wisdom is the ability to know how to use it. ~Craig Thielen [51:01] • “We are all limitless in our abilities.” ~Craig Thielen [1:01:34] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. Albert Einstein 2. The Power of Now: https://bit.ly/3KRdHBm 3. The Culture Map: https://bit.ly/4gRlRWl 4. Meditations Marcus Aurelius: https://bit.ly/3IOZJiM 5. Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience: https://bit.ly/48eUG5D Keep In Touch with Craig Thielen: X: https://x.com/craigthielen LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigthielen/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/craigthielen Podcast: https://trissential.com/1-percent-better-podcast/ — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

We often feel unhappy, unfulfilled, stressed, or trapped in pain, and many times this stems from limiting beliefs that quietly shape our thoughts, decisions, and sense of self. Many of these beliefs are formed early in life and become so ingrained that we’re often unaware of them, yet they have the power to hold us back and derail our lives. The empowering truth is that by transforming our mindset, we can unlock solutions and take full control of our lives. In this episode, Brian Bogert sits down with Jenny Harkleroad, a Mindset Coach, keynote speaker, author, and creator of the LEAP Transformation App. Jenny shares her powerful journey of transformation, revealing how her own limiting beliefs shaped her life and held her back from asking for help. She opens up about the experiences that created these beliefs, how they manifested in her life, and how she ultimately broke free from them. From struggling with chronic pain that began in childhood to overcoming marriage challenges, she shares the mindset shifts and strategies that allowed her to become pain-free and reclaim control over her life. Jenny also shares practical insights on how the subconscious mind influences our behaviors and decisions. She explains how she helps people who feel stuck or without solutions by shifting their mindset and introduces her LEAP Transformation® App, which provides accessible and affordable support to people worldwide. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [01:58] Who is Jenny Harkleroad? [03:15] Finding solutions [10:24] Limiting Beliefs [13:14] Breaking her back [20:54] Chronic pain [28:21] Becoming Pain-Free [36:39] Marriage [50:59] Subconscious mind [53:09] Helping others [53:51] App Key Takeaways:   • When you have tension in your mind, it causes tension in your body. ~Jenny Harkleroad [14:41] • Go-getters and overachievers often struggle with physical pain because of the heavy pressure they put on themselves to succeed. That constant pressure creates tension in the mind, which in turn causes tension in the body. ~Jenny Harkleroad [21:14] • “The unavoidable precursor to change is acceptance.” ~Brian Bogert [31:34] • Until you accept the current state of things, you cannot alter them. ~Brian Bogert [31:37] • It’s the hard things in life that drive real growth. ~Jenny Harkleroad [45:50] • Our subconscious is a million times more powerful than our conscious mind and controls us about 95% of the time. ~Jenny Harkleroad [51:06] • “What you think about is what you bring about, and what you focus on expands.” ~Jenny Harkleroad [52:59] • If you want to improve anything, you must put in the effort. ~Jenny Harkleroad [01:04:50] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. LEAP Transformation® App: https://www.leaptransformationmethod.com/ 2. The COLOR CODE: https://bit.ly/46OdaHV Keep In Touch with Jenny Harkleroad: Website: https://balancedyou.org/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/balancedyou LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennyharkleroad/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennyharkleroad/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BalancedYouByJenny/ — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898

Your brain is your most valuable asset, yet it’s often overlooked in daily health routines. Investing in your brain health is one of the most important steps you can take to maximize your ability to perform, retain information, and connect with others in ways that truly matter. Joining us today is Eric Collett, a Brain Health Educator, Dementia Care Expert, and Founder of A Mind For All Seasons, a company committed to improving cognitive and mental health. Eric shares insights into the core values that drive learning and takes us through his personal journey into brain health. He also explores how activating curiosity by asking the right questions can create a pathway to learning and meaningful personal growth. In addition, he breaks down the 5 principles of effective interaction and shares actionable brain health tips you can start using today to improve memory, focus, and overall brain function. Timestamps: [00:00] Trailer [00:17] Intro [06:55] Who is Eric Collett? [08:38] Core learning values [16:24] Journey into brain health [22:21] Right questions [27:44] 5 Principles of interaction [52:36] Brain health tips Key Takeaways: • “Listening is, by far, the most active thing any of us can do as humans.” ~Eric Collett [05:06] • The difference between living life by design and living by default is choosing to be intentional in how you approach life. ~Eric Collett [22:57] • You are only as good as the questions you ask. ~Brian Bogert [24:50] • It’s easier to remember things when you use an acronym. ~Eric Collett [27:41] • No one is ever crushed under the burden of a single day; it is only when regret about yesterday and fear of tomorrow are piled on top that today becomes unmanageable.” ~Eric Collett [32:36] • People with Alzheimer’s not only lose short-term memory, but they also progressively lose long-term memory. ~Eric Collett [39:56] • Life history is our most important tool because it gives us two powerful things: context and identity. ~Eric Collett [47:48] • “Tact is the ability to describe others as they see themselves.” ~Abraham Lincoln [48:15] • “First seek to understand, then to be understood.” ~Stephen Covey [49:22] • “Sleep is when the brain takes out the trash.” ~Eric Collett [54:42] People Mentioned and Other Resources: 1. Elon Musk 2. Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity: https://bit.ly/41WY0i 3. To take a FREE brain energy assessment, go to https://amindforallseasons.com/energy  Keep In Touch with Eric Collett: Website: https://amindforallseasons.com/ Instagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/ericdcollett/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amindforallseasons/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amindforallseasons YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@amindforallseasons LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/a-mind-for-all-seasons/ X: https://x.com/EricDCollett  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ericdcollett   — Follow Brian Bogert… Website: https://brianbogert.com/ Podcast: https://www.flippingthelid.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BogertBrian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bogertbrian/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brian-bogert-companies/ Listen to Flipping the Lid anywhere podcasts are available! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zfkjk3mIMY4i6JWQR7aFz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brian-bogert-flipping-the-lid/id1676524898