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📝 EPISODE DESCRIPTIONNot everything that gets your attention deserves your energy. The conversation I keep replaying. The situation I’m determined to fix. The obligation I keep saying yes to when everything in me is saying, Girl, no. Lately, I’ve been asking myself: Does this really deserve this much of me? In this episode of Aging with Grace and Style, I’m talking about what I’m learning about protecting my energy as I get older—and why that doesn’t mean avoiding every uncomfortable conversation or cutting people out of my life. Sometimes protecting my energy means letting go. Sometimes it means setting a boundary, changing my expectations, saying no, or simply deciding to participate differently. At this stage of life, I’m not necessarily interested in doing more. I want to be more intentional about where I put my time, attention, and emotional energy—and make more room for what deserves more of me now. ✨ Key Takeaways Just because something lands in front of you doesn't mean you have to pick it up — that's not avoidance, that's discernmentAsk yourself: does this need my response or does it just want my reaction? Those are two very different thingsProtecting your peace isn't about building a life where nothing gets on your nerves — it's about becoming more intentional about what you allow to stay with youSomething doesn't have to be bad for you to decide you want to do it differently — you're allowed to change simply because you changedYour energy gives you information — pay attention to what feels heavy, what you keep avoiding, what drains you before you even startEvery change doesn't require a dramatic ending — sometimes you just change how much of yourself you give to something 📓 Reflection Prompt Where are you spending energy simply because you always have and does it still deserve that much of you? Sometimes one small shift in where you put your energy can change how your whole life feels. Free Resource: Midlife Wellness Reset Ready to think more intentionally about your wellness without turning it into another full-time job? Grab my free Midlife Wellness Reset at valeriehatcher.com for simple tools to help you create a healthier, more intentional approach to this season of life. BEFORE YOU GO If this episode made you think of another woman who's been giving a little too much of herself to everything and everybody — share it with her. She needs this reminder too. Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com for all episodes.

Are you the woman everybody calls when something needs to be figured out? The problem solver, the dependable one, the one who always has a plan? But when YOU need something, suddenly asking for help feels like the hardest thing in the world? In this episode of Aging with Grace and Style, we're talking about why asking for help can be so difficult for strong, capable women—especially those of us who have spent decades taking care of everybody else. I'm sharing a personal experience that reminded me that support doesn't always mean someone fixing your problem. Sometimes it's simply knowing someone is standing with you. We'll also talk about making specific requests, building your support system, and learning to receive without apologizing. Because asking for help doesn't make you less capable. Sometimes it simply means recognizing that you don't have to carry everything alone ✨ Key Takeaways Why being the dependable one can make asking for help uncomfortable.The difference between being capable and believing you must handle everything yourself.Why receiving support doesn't make you a burden.How to make specific requests instead of expecting people to know what you need.Why everyone needs a support bench—not just one person responsible for everything.How to accept help without going on an apology tour.Why letting people support you is also letting them love you. 📓 Reflection Prompt What's one specific thing you could use someone's help with right now? And who's one person you can ask? One thing. One person. And when they say yes — just say thank you. Free Resource: Midlife Wellness Reset Ready to think more intentionally about your wellness without turning it into another full-time job? Grab my free Midlife Wellness Reset at valeriehatcher.com for simple tools to help you create a healthier, more intentional approach to this season of life. BEFORE YOU GO If this episode made you think of another strong woman who's always helping everybody else — share it with her. Maybe she needs the reminder that she gets to receive too. And if you're ready to go a little deeper, grab my free Midlife Wellness Reset ebook — it's waiting for you at valeriehatcher.com. Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com for all episodes.

What are you just done doing? Not trying to improve. Not putting it on next year's list. I mean done. At 64, I've realized there are a few things I'm ready to leave behind: apologizing for taking up space, saving the good perfume, shrinking to make other people comfortable, and saying, “I'm too old for that.” In this episode of Aging with Grace and Style, we're talking about the confidence that can come with getting older and recognizing what no longer deserves to come with us. Because for women over 60, aging isn't just about what we add to our lives. Sometimes it's about finally giving ourselves permission to let a few things go. And here's the twist: underneath every “no more” is actually a yes to something better. ✨ Key Takeaways Why I'm done apologizing when I've done nothing wrongWhat “saving the good perfume” really representsHow we shrink ourselves without even realizing itWhy accepting a compliment can be an act of confidenceThe difference between being “too old” and being afraid to be a beginnerWhy changing what you'll tolerate isn't negativeHow every no more can make room for a new yes 📓 Reflection Prompt Finish this sentence: no more ___. What's the first thing that comes to mind? And then ask yourself — if I say no more to that, what am I saying yes to instead? Free Resource: Midlife Wellness Reset Ready to think more intentionally about your wellness without turning it into another full-time job? Grab my free Midlife Wellness Reset at valeriehatcher.com for simple tools to help you create a healthier, more intentional approach to this season of life. BEFORE YOU GO What's your first no more? Send me a message or leave a comment — I really want to hear these. And share this episode with a friend and ask her what's on her list. That could be a very interesting conversation. And if you're ready to go a little deeper, grab my free Midlife Wellness Reset ebook — it's waiting for you at valeriehatcher.com. Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com for all episodes.

Appointments made. Bills paid. Groceries bought. Emails answered. Everybody checked on. Laundry done—or at least moved to the dryer, which absolutely counts. But at the end of the week, did you actually enjoy any of it? In this episode of Aging with Grace and Style, we're talking about something many women over 50 know all too well: becoming so good at managing our lives that we forget we're supposed to be living them too. We'll talk about getting out of “get through it” mode, being present for the ordinary moments, and why intentional living after 50 doesn't necessarily mean changing your life. Sometimes it simply means coming back to the life you already have and actually experiencing it. Because the Tuesday you're trying to get through? That's your life too. ✨ Key Takeaways How managing life can quietly become our default modeWhy we're often mentally four steps ahead of where we actually areThe danger of constantly saying, “I just need to get through…”Why ordinary days deserve our attention tooTwo simple questions: What did I enjoy? and What am I looking forward to?Why your calendar needs things that give something back to youHow to enjoy your existing life without adding another thing to your to-do list 📓 Reflection Prompt At the end of this week, ask yourself one question: what did I enjoy? Not what did I accomplish — what did I enjoy? Make sure you have an answer. Free Resource: Midlife Wellness Reset Ready to think more intentionally about your wellness without turning it into another full-time job? Grab my free Midlife Wellness Reset at valeriehatcher.com for simple tools to help you create a healthier, more intentional approach to this season of life. BEFORE YOU GO If this episode made you think of another woman who is very good at keeping everything running — share it with her. Maybe both of you could use the reminder that you don't always have to be the manager. Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com for all episodes.

Protein. Steps. Strength training. Brain health. Sleep. Skincare. Finances. Friendships. Purpose. Hydration. And apparently, we're supposed to stretch too. When did aging become a performance review? In this episode of Aging with Grace and Style, we're talking about the growing pressure to do aging perfectly. There's nothing wrong with wanting to age well, stay strong, protect our health and enjoy our lives. But when did taking care of ourselves become one giant checklist? I'm sharing why I'm simplifying my own approach to aging well—and why health, strength, connection and yes, actually enjoying your life, deserve a place on the list. Because maybe we don't need to get an A in aging. There isn't even a test. ✨ Key Takeaways There's a difference between taking care of yourself and constantly feeling like you're failing at taking care of yourself — and we need to know which one we're doingNone of the items on the aging well checklist are bad — it's when you put them all together that you start feeling behind before you've even had breakfastYou can hear a good idea and keep scrolling — you don't have to immediately add it to your lifeOne missed workout isn't your health. One lazy Saturday doesn't mean you've given up on personal growth. One meal isn't your diet.Enjoying your life belongs on the aging well checklist — and it doesn't get talked about nearly enoughYou get to decide what aging well looks like for you — not social media, not a magazine, not somebody selling you a supplement 📓 Reflection Prompt If you could throw out everybody else's aging well checklist and make your own, what would actually be on it? Just yours. Nobody else's. Free Resource: Midlife Wellness Reset Ready to think more intentionally about your wellness without turning it into another full-time job? Grab my free Midlife Wellness Reset at valeriehatcher.com for simple tools to help you create a healthier, more intentional approach to this season of life. BEFORE YOU GO If this episode made you laugh — or made you realize you've been giving yourself an aging performance review nobody asked for — share it with a girlfriend who could use the reminder too. Also, be sure to rate, review and subscribe as it helps more women over 50 find these conversations when they need them most. Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com for all episodes.

The older I get, the less impressed I am. There — I said it. There was a time when titles, fancy cars, big houses, and packed calendars looked like success to me. Now? I'm impressed by somebody who gets eight hours of sleep, has low blood pressure, and has a drama-free group chat. In this episode, I'm getting honest about how our definition of what actually matters shifts as we get older — and why I think that shift is one of the most underrated gifts of this season. We're talking about status, stuff, busyness, peace, and the quiet things that have moved way up on my impressive list. And I've got a question for you that I want you to sit with: what are you still trying to make look impressive that you don't even want anymore? Because maybe the real opportunity we have at this age is finally getting to update the list — no apology necessary. ✨ Key Takeaways The smoke and mirrors don't work quite as well once you've lived a little — we've seen enough to know what's actually worth wantingBeing constantly busy and exhausted isn't a badge of honor — having control over your time is the real flexYou're not becoming harder to impress as you get older — you're becoming clearer about what's actually valuablePeace is impressive. Kindness with nothing to gain is impressive. Keeping your word is impressive.An impressive life and a meaningful life are not necessarily the same thing — and if you have to choose, choose meaningfulAsk yourself: what are you still trying to make look impressive that you don't even want anymore? 📓 Reflection Prompt What impresses you now that wouldn't have impressed the younger version of you at all? Sit with that — and then ask yourself whether the life you're building actually reflects it. ⭐ Before You Go… 📣 BEFORE YOU GO If this episode made you think of another woman who has reached that wonderful stage where she's just a little harder to impress — send it to her. She's going to love this one. And if you want a little more help figuring out what still fits and actually impresses you in this season, I've got something free for you — the Midlife Reset. Just drop your email at valeriehatcher.com and it's yours. A few simple tools to help you move forward with clarity and confidence — not just reflect, but actually do something with it. Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com for all episodes.

Has your life outgrown the plan you made for it? Because here's what nobody talks about — sometimes the problem isn't that we don't have a plan. The problem is that we're still following one that expired years ago. In this episode, I'm getting honest about what happens when you've changed but your plans haven't — and why rethinking success in midlife isn't a sign that you failed. It's a sign that you finally know yourself well enough to choose differently. We're talking about how to recognize when something no longer fits, why you don't need a dramatic reason to change direction, and how to give yourself permission to want something different even when nothing is terribly wrong. I've also got five honest questions to help you do what I'm calling a "does this still fit" check on your own life. If you've been living by a plan that the woman you are today never actually agreed to — this one is for you. ✨ Key Takeaways How to recognize when an old plan no longer fitsWhy you don't need a crisis to justify changing directionThe difference between giving up and outgrowing a goalWhy being good at something doesn't mean you have to keep doing itHow your definition of success can change in midlifeFive questions for your own “Does This Still Fit?” checkWhy changing the plan can be a sign of growth, not failure 📓 Reflection Prompts Think about one part of your life you've been quietly questioning — a goal, a role, a responsibility, a dream you've been carrying. Ask yourself: does this still fit the woman I am today? Not the woman I used to be. The woman I am right now. 📣 Before You Go If this episode made you think of another woman living by an outdated plan — send it to her. She needs this conversation. And if you want a little more help figuring out what still fits, I have something free for you — the Midlife Reset. Just drop your email at valeriehatcher.com and it's yours. A few simple tools to help you navigate this season with more clarity and confidence so you're not just reflecting — you're actually moving forward. Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com for all episodes.

Do you really need to reinvent yourself after 50 — or do you just need some time and space to figure out what you actually want next? Because those are two very different things. In this episode, I'm getting honest about the pressure we put on ourselves to have a polished second act ready before the first one is even finished — and why I think that pressure is worth pushing back on. We're talking about the difference between reinventing and rediscovering, why curiosity is a legitimate starting point, and how you can execute on what you know while still exploring what you don't. If you're standing between what was and whatever is coming next — and someone keeps asking you what's next — this one is for you. You don't have to have all the answers. You just have to be willing to take the next step. ✨ Key Takeaways Reinvention and figuring it out are two very different things — and you don't owe anyone a polished second act on a deadlineWhat we usually see is the finished product — we don't see the two years someone spent sitting at their kitchen table saying "I have no idea what I'm doing"Executing and exploring aren't opposites — you can act on what you know while you're still discovering what you don'tSometimes you don't think your way into clarity — sometimes you move your way into clarityCuriosity is not a stalling tactic — it's a legitimate starting pointYou can be uncertain without being lost. You can be exploring without being stuck.What's next doesn't have to be bigger or more impressive — it just has to fit the life you want to live 📓 Reflection Prompt Instead of asking yourself what you're going to do for the next five years — what are you curious about right now? Just that. Start there. Before You Go If you're in the middle of figuring it out — not reinventing, not launching your fabulous second act by next Tuesday, just figuring it out — send this episode to a girlfriend who might need permission to not have all the answers yet. Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com for all episodes.

For women over 50 navigating a major career transition, this is the retirement conversation I've been waiting to have — because I'm officially retiring from corporate after nearly 40 years in the workforce, and today I can finally say it out loud. My last day at work is October 31st, and I am officially closing one of the biggest chapters of my life. In this episode, I'm sharing the real story: how the opportunity came, how I made the decision, and why I said yes even without having every detail of what comes next figured out. This isn't a highlight reel. I'm talking about the excitement AND the grief, the pride AND the uncertainty — because both are true. If you're approaching retirement, already there, or staring down your own major life transition and waiting for perfect clarity — this conversation is for you. Spoiler: the clarity doesn't always come first. Sometimes knowing it's time is enough. ✨ Key Takeaways Major life transitions rarely arrive neatly packaged — waiting for perfect clarity before saying yes can mean missing the momentRetirement isn't running away from something; it can be a deliberate, well-considered step toward something more aligned with who you're becomingTwo things can be true at once: this can be the right decision AND still be an emotional oneRetiring doesn't mean disappearing into everyone else's needs — it's an opportunity to decide more intentionally how you want to use your timeYou don't have to have your first six months color-coded before you turn the pageSometimes knowing it's time IS enough for the next step 📓 Reflection Prompts Are you waiting to move forward because you believe you need the entire next chapter planned? What do you already know — right now — that you may be talking yourself out of acting on? Let's Stay Connected If you're retired, approaching retirement, or navigating a major transition of your own, I would love to hear what you're feeling most right now — excitement, relief, uncertainty, or a little bit of everything. Come find me on Instagram at @iamvaleriehatcher and tell me. And if this episode resonated with you, share it with a woman who is thinking about her own next chapter. She needs to hear this one. Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com for all episodes..

Decluttering after 50 hits differently when you realize you're not just sorting through stuff — you're sorting through decades of living. I've been away for a few weeks, and when I come back, I'm bringing the real story of what happened when new floors meant packing up six rooms of a home, a life, and thirty-plus years of memories. From my son Jon's baby shoes to old photographs to mystery cords nobody in the house could identify, I'm getting honest about what we hold onto and why. This isn't a minimalism lecture. It's a conversation about the difference between clutter and meaning — and how to tell which is which. If you've ever stood in a room full of your own belongings and thought "why do we still have this?" — pull up a chair. We need to talk. ✨ Key Takeaways Why decluttering after 50 is about more than organizingThe difference between meaningful keepsakes and unnecessary clutterHow our homes reflect different seasons of lifeWhy memories don't live in our possessionsThe importance of creating a home that supports who you are todayHow intentional living creates room to breathe 📓 Reflection Prompts Are the things in your home supporting the life you're living now — or are you keeping some of them simply because they've always been there? Start with one drawer, one shelf, one box. Keep what you use. Keep what you love. Release the rest. Share If today's episode made you think about your own collection of memories and mystery cords, share it with a woman in your life who might enjoy the conversation. (And just reassure her you're not suggesting her house is cluttered — I don't want to be responsible for any friendship misunderstandings.) Visit pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com to catch up on all our conversations. ⭐ Before You Go… If this episode helped you please take a moment to rate, review, and subscribe to Aging with Grace and Style. It helps more women over 50 find these conversations when they need them most.

If you've spent decades letting a number on the scale decide whether you had a good week or a bad one, this episode on redefining health after 50 is going to hit home. Valerie Hatcher gets personal about the moment she realized her old measuring stick — the one she'd carried for years — no longer fit the life she's building. This isn't a weight loss conversation. It's a mindset conversation about what it actually means to take care of your body when your goals get bigger than a size or a number. You'll hear why strength has replaced shrinking as the new standard, why the mental shift is harder than the physical one, and what it looks like to start investing in the woman you want to be twenty years from now. Whether you're losing, maintaining, or figuring it all out — this one is for you. ✨ Key Takeaways The scale was never the finish line — and it's time to stop treating it like oneAs women age, the goal shifts from losing to building: muscle, strength, bone density, and energyThe hardest part of changing your body isn't the workouts — it's changing the story you've been telling yourselfPreparing for retirement isn't just financial — it's physical; strong is the plan, not the consolation prizeEvery walk, every meal, every workout is a deposit into the woman you're becoming, not a punishment for who you've beenAsk yourself: what are you actually chasing — and is that measuring stick still serving the life you want to live? 📓 Reflection Prompts What is one thing you can do this week that is about building strength — not burning calories? Just one thing. Start there. ⭐ Before You Go… If this episode resonated with you, share it with a woman in your life who is still chasing the old goal — text it to her, tag her in a post. Sometimes all it takes is one honest conversation to shift the whole picture. And if you'd like to continue exploring midlife with honesty, wisdom, and a little sass, visit: pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com

If you've ever wondered what legacy really means for women over 50 — not the will, not the estate plan, but the stuff that lives in people's memories — this episode was made for you. Valerie gets real about what becoming a grandmother to Halo taught her about influence, example, and what we're actually passing down every single day. It's not the big moments. It's the ordinary Tuesdays. It's the way we handle hard seasons, treat people who can do nothing for us, and show up when nobody is watching. This conversation will shift the way you think about who is watching you — and what they're learning. If someone younger described you twenty years from now, what would you hope they say? Let's figure that out together. ✨ Key Takeaways Legacy isn't what you leave behind — it's what you live out loud every dayInfluence happens through proximity, not grand speeches; people learn from who we are, not just what we sayYou don't have to be perfect — the healthiest, most authentic version of you is the greatest gift you can give the next generationGrandchildren give back just as much as we give them: perspective, presence, and a whole new room in your heart you didn't know existedSomeone is always watching — whether it's a grandchild, a niece, a coworker, or a younger woman at churchThe question isn't whether you're leaving a legacy. The question is what are you teaching? 📓 Reflection Prompts🔗 Links & Resources What do you hope people remember about the way you lived — not what you owned, not what you accomplished, but the way you showed up? If someone a generation younger described you twenty years from now, what would you hope they say? 🌐 Website: Valerie Hatcher ⭐ Before You Go… If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend and leave a quick review — it helps more women discover the conversation. And if you'd like to continue exploring midlife with honesty, wisdom, and a little sass, visit: pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com

That moment when retirement stops feeling like a someday thing and starts feeling like an actual chapter? Valerie's living it. In this episode, she gets honest about the quiet shift that happened after turning 60 and watching peers at work take voluntary severance — and how one question ("would I be financially ready if that were offered to me?") changed the way she looks at every subscription, every purchase, every dollar. This isn't financial advice — Valerie says that loud and clear up front. It's a girlfriend conversation about moving from scarcity to intention, from "can I afford this" to "is this where I want my money to go," and why late is never the same as never. If money has been the thing you keep avoiding looking at, this episode is your gentle nudge to just start paying attention. ✨ Key Takeaways What changed when retirement started feeling realWhy awareness is more powerful than fearThe hidden cost of automatic spendingHow intentional spending supports future freedomWhy starting late is not the same as never startingThe connection between money and choices in midlife 📓 Reflection Prompts What is one thing in your financial life you've been avoiding looking at — and what would it feel like to finally give yourself permission to see it, not to fix it, just to see it? If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend and leave a quick review — it helps more women discover the conversation. And if you'd like to continue exploring midlife with honesty, wisdom, and a little sass, visit: pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and Threads @iamvaleriehatcher, where we talk midlife mindset, wellness, confidence, and navigating this season with grace, style, and a touch of sass.

Nobody warned us about the funny side of getting older after 50 — and honestly, that might be the biggest oversight of all. In this episode, Valerie is putting the serious topics aside for a week and getting honest about all the slightly ridiculous, unexpectedly wonderful things that come with this season of life. The readers you can never find. The sounds your body makes without permission. The recovery time that now extends through Wednesday. The heating pad that has become a lifestyle. But woven through all the laughs is something bigger — the realization that somewhere along the way, this version of us became someone we actually like. If you've ever laughed at yourself and then thought, wait, when did this become my life — this episode was made for you. ✨ Key Takeaways The things we laugh about in midlife — the forgotten words, the room confusion, the reading glasses — are more common than we think, and they're worth laughing atRecovery time is real, and pretending otherwise is a full-time job we can officially retire fromJoy looks completely different after 50 — a good sleep score, a quiet morning, things that simply work — and that's not settling, that's wisdomSaying no without explanation, leaving early because you enjoy peace, and knowing exactly how long you need to get ready — that's not being difficult, that's knowing yourselfThe biggest surprise of getting older isn't what we lose — it's discovering that the woman we've become is actually someone we genuinely likeWe lose a little speed and gain a lot of peace — and that might be the best trade-off nobody talks about 📓 Reflection Prompts What's one unexpected thing about this season of life that has actually turned out to be a pleasant surprise? 🔗 Links & Resources 🌐 Podcast Hub: https://pod.agingwithgraceinstyle.com If this episode made you laugh — and maybe tear up just a little — share it with a girlfriend who needs it today. And leave a quick review if you haven't yet; it helps more women find this community. Visit: pod.agingwithgraceandstyle.com 🎙️ WHERE TO LISTEN 🍎 Apple Podcasts: 🟢 Spotify🌐 Website: valeriehatcher.com 🔗 Let’s Stay Connected Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and Threads @iamvaleriehatcher, where we talk midlife mindset, wellness, confidence, and navigating this season with grace, style, and a touch of sass.

Protecting brain health after 50 isn't something most of us learned to think about — until we couldn't remember why we walked into a room. If you've been quietly wondering whether those little memory slips are normal or something to take seriously, you're not alone — and this episode is for you. Valerie shares her own experience with brain fog moments, a family history of dementia, and why that combination pushed her to stop waiting and start paying attention. Inspired by a conversation between Emma Heming Willis and Dr. Nicole Birkins, this episode breaks down five practical pillars — nutrition, movement, sleep, connection, and mental stimulation — that support a healthier, sharper brain right now. No fear, no overwhelm, just real information and one small step you can take this week. Because your brain has been carrying you your whole life — it's time to start carrying it back. ✨ Key Takeaways Women are twice as likely as men to develop Alzheimer's disease — one in five women compared to one in ten men — and that statistic is a reason to act, not panicAs little as 3,500 steps a day can meaningfully support brain health — no gym requiredSleep isn't lazy and it isn't optional — your brain's glymphatic system does critical maintenance work while you restReal human connection — not social media, but actual relationships — protects your brain in ways that are often overlookedMental stimulation doesn't have to be complicated; even memorizing a verification code instead of copying and pasting it countsSmall, consistent choices matter more than dramatic life overhauls — pick one pillar and start there 🎁 FREE RESOURCE: The 5 Pillars of Brain Health After 50 Ready to take action on what you heard today? Grab your free interactive guide — tap each pillar for practical tips you can start using this week. 👉 5 Pillars of Brain Health 📓 Reflection Prompts Which of the five pillars needs the most attention in your life right now — and what's one specific thing you can do about it this week? 🔗 Links & Resources 🌐 Podcast Hub: https://pod.agingwithgraceinstyle.com 🔗 Let’s Stay Connected Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and Threads @iamvaleriehatcher, where we talk midlife mindset, wellness, confidence, and navigating this season with grace, style, and a touch of sass. If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend and leave a quick review — it helps more women discover the conversation. And if you'd like to continue exploring midlife with honesty, wisdom, and a little sass, visit: valeriehatcher.com.