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To start 2026, I’m joined by a guest whose story brings new perspectives around surviving and thriving in parenthood. Stephanie Woodward is a not-for-profit CEO, attorney, proud disabled woman, and mom to six children—including triplets and children adopted through foster care.  She and her husband went from family of 2 to family of 8 within a single year.  In this conversation, we explore parenting multiples, navigating NICU life, pregnancy loss, supporting older siblings through massive transitions, and why routine plus flexibility matters more than having a perfect plan. Stephanie also speaks candidly about disability, scrutiny, and the assumptions that still shape how society views parents, and disabled parents in particular —often without realizing it. This episode isn’t about one right way of parenting: It’s about responsiveness, creativity, advocacy, and building family life around what actually works. In this episode, we cover: Parenting triplets alongside older children Life in the NICU and transitioning home Supporting big siblings through major family changes Parenting as a wheelchair user and adapting routines Misconceptions about disability and caregiving Why “routine plus flexibility” is a powerful parenting framework You can find Stephanie and her family on Instagram at @WCTriplets, and learn more about her work with the Disability EmpowHER Network via the links below. Where you can find Stephanie: Instagram, TicTok, and Facebook at WC Family @WCTriplets Disability EmpowHER Network https://www.disabilityempowhernetwork.org/ What you can do next Book a screening call with Heather (receipts provided for Ontario families) Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend! Provide a review on Apple Podcasts. It truly makes a difference to reaching families who would benefit from understanding their baby’s sleep better. Sign up for weekly baby sleep emails.⁠ Book a screening call with Heather (receipts provided for Ontario families) Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

Sometimes health and medical issues get in the way of how sleep development unfolds. In this episode, Heather Boyd discusses why airway and obstructive sleep apnea are so important to understand, common signs parents may see at night and during the day, sleep apnea’s impact on learning and behaviour, and a plan of action if you are noticing signs of obstructive sleep apnea in your infant. Knowing what to look for and when to pursue medical support can make all the difference. Mentioned in this episode: Little Bird Dental self-assessment tool: https://littlebirddental.ca/airway-centric-health-care/ What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend! Download the Parent Self-Care Toolkit at https://heatherboyd.vipmembervault.com/products/units/view/1239883/?lesson=1601156 Find previous episodes of the podcast at familysleep.ca/podcast Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

New Years Eve, and New Years Resolutions land differently once you’re a parent. The idea of setting resolutions and goals for oneself in the usual ways may not fit at your season of parenting. And that’s ok. Instead, let’s explore 5 questions to ask yourself as you step into 2026. Join Heather Boyd, Occupational Therapist, sleep coach, and mother of 3 as she explores the merit of asking yourself: 1. What about this past year am I proud of or feel happy when I think of it? 2. What do I want to take with me from this past year? 3. Who do I want to be this coming year? 4. What do I want from my environment that will help me thrive and feel good --and how will I create it? 5. Who in my life is important to me (and have I told them lately)? Here’s to the coming months/season/stage of your parenting providing you with rest, connection, and meaning. What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend!  Provide a review on Apple Podcasts.  It truly makes a difference to reaching families who would benefit from understanding their baby’s sleep better.Sign up for weekly baby sleep emails.⁠Book a screening call with Heather (receipts provided for Ontario families) Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

In this episode, we break down what newborn sleep really looks like in the first week—especially the shift from the sleepy first night to the cluster-feeding intensity of night two. You’ll learn what’s normal, why it happens, and simple ways to support rest and regulation in these early days. Night one is recovery; night two is recalibration. We cover: The biology of newborn sleep and why it’s so fragmentedWhat to expect on Night 1What to expect on Night 2 (and why it feels so intense)Gentle strategies that actually help in week oneRed flags that mean it’s time to reach out for support Mentioned in this episode: Ep 62: Sleep Development from Newborn to 3 monthsJoin the December 16th Mom & Baby Circle sample class at Between Mothers in St. Catharines Ep 15: Holistic Approaches to Raising Healthy Kids with integrative pediatrician, Dr. Joel WarshEp 25: The Feeding Journey with Karla Masse, IBCLC What you can do next Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend! Provide a review on Apple Podcasts. It truly makes a difference to reaching families who would benefit from understanding their baby’s sleep better. Sign up for weekly baby sleep emails.⁠ https://heatherboyd.activehosted.com/f/1 Book a screening call with Heather (receipts provided for Ontario families) Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

If you identify as a highly sensitive person, wrap yourself in your favourite blanket, grab a tea, take a deep belly breath and listen in on this episode.  Psychotherapist Nelia DeAmaral chats with occupational therapist and sleep coach Heather Boyd about how to navigate early motherhood as a highly sensitive person. In this episode we talk about: What you may recognize in yourself as a highly sensitive parent The difference between overstimulated and stressed Shifting from overstimulated to regulated Is your baby overstimulated?  Or are they actually under-stimulated? Contrasting calm versus regulated The Window of Tolerance Strategies for supporting yourself and your baby as a highly sensitive parent Mentioned in this episode: Brainspotting.com You can find Nelia at neliadeamaral.com, and on facebook at https://www.facebook.com/nelia.deamaral/info.   What you can do next Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend! Provide a review on Apple Podcasts. It truly makes a difference to reaching families who would benefit from understanding their baby’s sleep better. Sign up for weekly baby sleep emails. Book a screening call with Heather (receipts provided for Ontario families)Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

As the parent of a new baby, you know better than anyone that newborn sleep is different. For Heather Boyd, occupational therapist and mom of 3, there likely was nothing that could have prepared her for the interrupted sleep, the noises her baby would make while sleeping, or the intensity of cluster feeding. However, knowing what to expect and what is normal for baby sleep can be reassuring at a time when everything feels raw, unpredictable, and new. Listen to this episode for an overview of: What sleep looks like in the first 3 monthsHow sleep developsWhat red flags to watch forStrategies for supporting and influencing sleep at this stage Mentioned in this episode: Dr. Gordon Neufeld nuefeldinstitute.comGreer Kirshenbaum https://www.nurture-neuroscience.com/Sarah Ockwell-Smith https://sarahockwell-smith.com/ What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend! Provide a review on Apple Podcasts. It truly makes a difference to reaching families who would benefit from understanding their baby’s sleep better.Sign up for weekly baby sleep emails.⁠ https://heatherboyd.activehosted.com/f/1Book a screening call with Heather (receipts provided for Ontario, Alberta, and Manitoba families). Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

In this episode, Heather Boyd, O.T., mom, and sleep coach, explores why babies drop naps, why it can feel so difficult, and what to do to make it easier. Even though dropping naps is a normal part of development, it can be a bumpy ride! HOW to drop naps without making sleep challenges worse is one of the most common questions Heather gets in her practice. Whether dropping naps is parent-led, circumstance-led, or baby-led, Heather explores ways to make the transition easier. She also explores: Robust naps versus “cat naps” (neither is bad or good) What signs there are that your baby is ready to drop a nap The role adenosine plays in naps Why nap dropping isn’t “all or nothing” How to prepare for bedtime when a nap varies from day to day How expectations can support you in managing the “messy middle” of dropping naps How the last nap drop with our child went (and how we stayed flexible) Why dropping naps can feel disappointing for parents, and Why dropping naps can be a great thing! Wondering what you can do next?  Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend!  Provide a review on Apple Podcasts.  It truly makes a difference to reaching families who would benefit from better understanding their baby’s sleep.  Sign up for weekly baby sleep emails.⁠ https://heatherboyd.activehosted.com/f/1  Book a screening call with Heather (receipts provided for Ontario families) Credits:  🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

Heather Boyd, occupational therapist and mom of 3, shares ways that separation-based advice backfires and what to do instead. When parents get advice that involves separation without any focus on attachment, it can block a parent's ability to help their children regulate.  Whether it’s daytime meltdowns or bedtime shenanigans, separation can feel very alarming. Listen to this episode for examples of bad separation-based advice that Heather wishes she’d ignored early on in parenting, and what to do instead.   With attachment-based perspectives and tools, as well as self-regulation tools for parents, the focus shifts to connection and co-regulation. And with connection and co-regulation, the alarm of separation can soften. Mentioned in this episode: Gordon Neufeld: “Speak but not too much.  Be close but not too close” www.neufeldinstitute.com Kim Barthell: Be a behavioural detective.  www.kimbarthel.ca Parent Self-Care Toolkit https://heatherboyd.vipmembervault.com/products/units/view/1239883/?lesson=1601156 What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend! Download the Parent Self-Care Toolkit at https://heatherboyd.vipmembervault.com/products/units/view/1239883/?lesson=1601156Find previous episodes of the podcast at familysleep.ca/podcastCredits:  🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

In Part 2 of Sleep Emergencies, Heather Boyd, occupational therapist and sleep coach, explores a shift she has seen in her private practice away from “preventing” sleep challenges towards more sleep emergencies, and increased parent stress. The impact on mental health is significant, and getting the appropriate supports is crucial. At a time when stress and information overwhelm are high, parents who are struggling with their child’s sleep are also experiencing feelings of guilt and shame.  This only adds to the burden parents are carrying. Listen in to explore: How Bad advice can be worse than no advice at all. How social media and information overwhelm are making parents feel like they are not measuring up How to shift to more preventative measures when sleep or parenting are getting challenging How creating a sleep emergency plan may actually lead to options you have not considered that actually help your baby sleep. Why getting support can make all the difference What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend! Download the Baby Sleep Connection Podcast Listener Guide at www.familysleep.ca/links ⁠Work with Heather⁠ inside the Confident & Connected Baby Sleep group program or one-on-one. Find previous episodes of the podcast at familysleep.ca/podcast Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

What is a sleep emergency? How is it different than difficult sleep that needs coaching. And when is it a mental health emergency requiring medical attention? Heather Boyd, occupational therapist and certified infant and family sleep specialist, explores these questions and offers strategies for getting support and managing a sleep emergency including: Signs and symptoms of a mental health crisis that warrants intervention without delayWho to reach out to in a mental health crisisSigns that what you are experiencing is a sleep emergencyWhat to do about a sleep emergencyHow sleep coaching plays a role (and when it’s not enough)Preventative steps for sleep emergencies How to consider caregivers and feeding in a sleep emergency Additional Resources: If you are struggling, call for support without delay: your doctor, your midwife, your therapist or when it is a crisis, 911 or your local crisis line. Call your local crisis line -in Niagara Ontario it's COAST (Crisis Outreach And Support Team, available 24/7). In the U.S. call the Maternal Mental Health Line (https://mchb.hrsa.gov/programs-impact/national-maternal-mental-health-hotline). Internationally, reach out through Postpartum Support International at https://postpartum.net/ . Go to the Emergency Department or call 911 if you worry that you or your partner or spouse is at risk of harming themselves or their baby. Getting the support you need matters. Mentioned in this episode: The concept of sleep emergencies is from Lyndsey Hookway in a talk a number of years ago. Lyndsey Hookway is an IBCLC and founder of the Holistic Sleep Coach training in the United Kingdom at https://lyndseyhookway.com/hscp/ If you found value in this podcast: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend!Download the Baby Sleep Connection Podcast Listener Guide at www.familysleep.ca/podcastBook a screening call with Heather Boyd at familysleep.caFind previous episodes at familysleep.ca/podcast Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

Sleep associations often get a “bad wrap”, being labelled crutches or bad habits. In this episode, Heather breaks down what a sleep association is, what it isn’t, and how to appreciate the role sleep associations have in making bedtimes more pleasant. Sharing parallels with routines and habits we have during the day, as well as sleep associations that we as adults use, Heather makes a case for judgement-free sleep associations and why doing what works, and changing what doesn’t, is a helpful approach at any age. What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend! Download the Baby Sleep Connection Podcast Listener Guide at www.familysleep.ca/links ⁠Work with Heather⁠ inside the Confident & Connected Baby Sleep group program or one-on-one. Find previous episodes of the podcast at infantsleep.ca/podcast Credits:  🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

Laila, mom of two and host of the popular Learning To Mom Podcast, shares her personal story about discovering what prenatal depression is and why she has come to understand that prenatal depression may have been part of what made her unexpected pregnancy at age 24 so challenging. This is a heartfelt conversation that runs the gamut from laughter to vulnerability. Although the circumstances of Laila’s journey are unique to her, and where she found support may be different than for you, her message is important: when you understand your experience, and you know what may be happening to you, it becomes easier to get the support you need to survive and thrive at a very challenging time.  It can also reduce the guilt and shame you may be feeling around how you are navigating pregnancy and motherhood. In this episode: Laila talks openly about her personal struggles and what helped her.   She outlines the common symptoms of prenatal depression, what the risk factors are, and 8 tips she has for families based on her experience. If you are struggling with depression (prenatally, postnatally, or outside of pregnancy altogether), talk with your doctor or mental health professional today, be honest with what you are feeling, and get the support you deserve. If you are the spouse, partner, or loving family member or friend who sees your loved one struggling, do not hesitate to help them get help. Mentioned in this episode: Brianna Wiest, on Self-Care https://thoughtcatalog.com/brianna-wiest/2024/04/this-is-what-self-care-really-means-because-its-not-all-salt-baths-and-chocolate-cake-2/ Additional Resources: Prenatal Depression Resources.  If you are struggling, call for support without delay: your doctor, midwife your therapist.  Call your local COAST (Crisis Outreach And Support Team, available 24/7), or local Mental Health Association (CMHA.ca in Canada).  Call 911 if you or your partner or spouse is having a mental health crisis.   Canada’s new (2024) resource for prescription drugs during pregnancy https://www.healthypregnancyhub.ca/ based on research from the https://motherchildcohort.ca/ You can find Laila at: https://www.instagram.com/learningtomom.podcast https://www.learningtomompodcast.com [email protected] What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend! Download the Baby Sleep Connection Podcast Listener Guide at www.familysleep.ca/links ⁠Work with Heather⁠ inside the Confident & Connected Baby Sleep group program or one-on-one. Find previous episodes of the podcast at familysleep.ca/podcast And do ONE THING right this moment that helps you feel grounded –take a deep belly breath, wiggle your toes, make some tea, look up at the stars, or anything else you can do easily that feels good. Credits:  🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

What if your baby’s sleep was a language you just haven’t become fluent in yet? It can be frustrating to try to figure out what interrupted sleep, resistant naps, or frequent waking are telling us. But if we start looking at this as a language we can learn, the cues become like words, and patterns begin to form sentences that help us understand what our baby needs. Mentioned in this episode: Listen to the clues that help you figure out sleep.Know that sleep may be communicating something outside of sleep altogether.The need for connection and safety may be the key thing your baby is communicating.What are the clues we see when sleep is going well? (It’s not just long stretches of sleep!)How do we translate what we are seeing with baby sleep when it’s not going well? What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend!Download the Baby Sleep Connection Podcast Listener Guide at www.familysleep.ca/links⁠Work with Heather⁠ inside the Confident & Connected Baby Sleep group program or one-on-one.Find previous episodes of the podcast at familysleep.ca/podcast Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

Have you been doing “everything right” with your baby’s schedule, following a rigid instructions of a nap and bedtime schedule you found in a book or online and still feel like sleep isn’t working? Listen to 3 key perspectives that will have you rethinking your relationship to your baby’s sleep schedule. Ultimately: Sleep schedules are tools, not solutions.Stress (in you or your baby) can lead to sleep disruptions that no schedule can fix. Address the stress, connect, and regulate the nervous system.Regulation strategies that focus on connection help you see more clearly what sleep routine or schedule works best for your baby in this momentSensory strategies that use movement, proprioception, heavy work, and vestibular experiences are an important foundation to a regulated nervous system that can fall asleep more easily. What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend!Download the Baby Sleep Connection Podcast Listener Guide at www.familysleep.ca/podcast -it includes a breakdown of how much sleep to expect at each age⁠Work with Heather⁠ inside the Confident & Connected Baby Sleep group program or one-on-one. Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood

Whether you are a first-time mom or have multiple kids, there are a few things Heather would want to share with you over a cup of tea (or decaf Americano) to make sleep development easier to navigate. Listen in as she reassures listeners that: Your baby is not broken (and you did NOT break their sleep) Your approach is going to be unique and doesn’t have to follow the rules of any one approach. There’s no “good enough parent club” you have to tick boxes in to be a member in good standing. You deserve support and you aren’t supposed to do this all on your own. Worth exploring after this episode: Self-Care versus Community Care: Episode 18 of The Baby Sleep Connection with Mr. Chazz https://infantsleep.ca/podcast/ep-18-mr-chazz-lewis/ What you can do next: Subscribe to this podcast and share it with a friend!Download the Baby Sleep Connection Podcast Listener Guide at www.familysleep.ca/links for a resource on how much sleep your baby likely needs at each age and stage and moreBook a Sleep Screening Call familysleep.ca/contactFind previous episodes of the podcast at familysleep.ca/podcast Credits: 🎵 Music: Jordan Wood