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The holidays can be one of the hardest times of year for families living with food allergies and celiac disease. Gatherings with family and friends can leave us feeling hurt, stressed, and unseen. This special 100th episode turns the conversation inward. Instead of focusing on how to manage other people, I explores what food allergy and celiac life reveals about us.
I looks at some of the patterns this life can uncover and reinforce, including people pleasing, carrying it all on our own, old family roles, hypervigilance, and relationships that were strained long before a diagnosis. I discuss the grief the holidays can bring, share my own family's evolving holiday story, and explore the growth that comes from this journey.
Thank you to all my listeners and guests for being part of this huge milestone--we now have listeners in 108 countries!
The episode ends with three reflection questions to carry into the holiday season, and an invitation to help shape the future of the show.
Resources mentioned
Listener survey: https://forms.gle/JmYrxoBF19V8ruDw9Guest recommendation form: https://forms.gle/MzC3hnxSmCzyfMSW8Companion guided meditation: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2371319/episodes/20045459Episode #9: A Safe Seat at the Table: A Step-by-Step Guide to Safe Holidays https://dontfeedthefear.buzzsprout.com/2371319/episodes/16069424Episode #48 Gratitude, Grief, and the Gifts We Don't Choose
https://dontfeedthefear.buzzsprout.com/2371319/episodes/18116884Episode #53 Holiday Communication and Boundaries in Food Allergy Families
https://dontfeedthefear.buzzsprout.com/2371319/episodes/18094550Episode #63 When Safety Creates Distance: Isolation, Connection, and Boundaries in Food Allergy Life
https://dontfeedthefear.buzzsprout.com/2371319/episodes/18660952My book From Fear to Freedom: https://a.co/d/0cqJJhdPEpisode References
Golding MA et al. A scoping review of the caregiver burden of pediatric food allergy. Annals of Allergy, Asthma & Immunology, 2021. 54 studies; lower parental quality of life than comparison groups.Acaster S et al. Peanut allergy impact on productivity and quality of life (PAPRIQUA): caregiver burden. Allergy, Asthma & Clinical Immunology, 2020. The review of earlier research includes mothers reporting greater impact than fathers on meal preparation, social activities, stress, and free time.Shah S et al. Patient perception of treatment burden is high in celiac disease compared to other common conditions. American Journal of Gastroenterology, 2014. Celiac treatment burden higher than reflux or hypertension, comparable to end-stage renal disease.Negri-Schwartz O et al. Post-traumatic growth correlates among parents of children with chronic illnesses: a systematic review and meta-analysis. Clinical Psychology Review, 2024. 34 studies, 5,328 parents.Tedeschi RG, Calhoun LG. The Posttraumatic Growth Inventory: measuring the positive legacy of trauma. Journal of Traumatic Stress, 1996.Special thanks to Kyle Dine for permission to use his song The Doghouse for the podcast theme!
www.kyledine.com
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