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Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY! This week, love hurts, holes have limits, and apparently umbrellas don’t always mean you need a raincoat. One Booty Gangster is learning that sometimes love really does hurt when your partner wants to go all the way in but the real question is will he stay open? Plus, we have an update from our bi-guy who’s ready to leave the raincoat at home because, well… he already has an umbrella. We’re nothing if not committed to weather-based sex metaphors. And then we welcome a true San Diego icon: Paris Sukomi Max drag entertainer, dancer, designer, nightlife personality, businesswoman, activist, community leader, and unapologetic champion of San Diego’s queer community. From legendary drag productions to LGBTQ+ advocacy, Paris has spent decades turning glamour into action and community into family. So grab your umbrella, check your limits, and hit PLAY. This one is going all the way in. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Something wicked this way comes…And that wicked is Ryan Murphy & Brad Falchek and this week they gave us 24 minute episodes, contracts with the devil, zoom meetings with pig men with hooks for hands, trauma hookups, demonic tramp stamps, hugs from girls with pig skin, ghosts on grindr, trans supermodel witches with the gift of resurgence, serial killers in a waymo and 13 Dead Bitches in a pit. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY! This week, things are getting tight, stretched, cracked, open, closed, negotiated, lubricated, and occasionally in need of professional attention. And no, we’re not talking about our guest… although, honestly, she’s qualified. One Booty Gangster wants to know what happens when his hole keeps tearing, while another reminds us that after 25 years together, relationships can still evolve and apparently so can the rules. Then we welcome a true drag legend: Sherry Vine! A pioneer of online drag, parody queen, vocalist, comedian, producer, and professional troublemaker, Sherry has spent decades serving glamour, filthy laughs, and unforgettable performances. Her iconic parody videos have racked up more than 20 million views, and she’s still serving it up with her latest live show, Dirty Blonde. The hole questions are complicated. Sherry Vine is not. She’s iconic. Hit PLAY. Things are about to get Vine. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Something wicked this way comes…And that wicked is Ryan Murphy and he brought Jessica Lange, 13 dead bitches on a plane, two Evan Peters, a Black Dahlia, new reasons to fear clowns, the portal to Hell, creaky bones, John Waters and urethra swabs.  American Horror Story is BACK. Welcome to AHS: 13 Honestly, the six-week side piece from the team behind Butt Honestly. I’m Dangilo, joined by Doctor Carlton and Producer/Dr Tony Bejerano who is going to be on air talent for this haunted jaunt where every week we’re breaking down the newest episodes of American Horror Story: 13. This is not an official AHS podcast. We are just longtime fans with microphones, opinions and absolutely no insider information—which will not prevent us from making wildly confident predictions.. FOLLOW THE SHOW AT: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ahs-13-honestly/id6816127674 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY! This week we’re talking PORN, PENETRATION, PROTECTION & POO. Basically, all the P’s nobody learned about in health class. One Booty Gangster wants to know if his post-sex STI prevention strategy is actually doing the job—or just creating more questions. Another is wondering if, after five years of playing it safe, it’s finally time to renegotiate the condom clause. And then there’s a threesome that took a very unexpected turn toward Brown Town.Sometimes the hookup is hot. Sometimes the cleanup is… memorable. Plus, we’re joined by adult performer and content creator Jax Phoenix—known for turning heads at events like Hot Dog Sundays, Summertramp, Outlaw, and Oso Sucia, plus his work with Icon Male, Raging Stallion, OnlyFans, and JustForFans. Four P’s, one Jax, and absolutely no shortage of questions. Hit PLAY. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang! Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY! This week, one couple is ready to crack the door open after five very closed years, but before anyone starts coming and going, they’ve got questions. Meanwhile, one listener in Iowa has an itch that just won’t quit. He can scratch it… technically. But maybe not in public. We have standards. Barely. And then we meet our newest friend: Todd Masterson, comedian, writer, creator, and Butt Honestly’s newest Gay Fat Friend. From writing for Fashion Police during the Joan Rivers era to working on RuPaul’s Drag Race, Todd has turned observations about gay culture, body image, desirability, books, Trader Joe’s hauls, LEGO, Pop Mart, and everyday queer absurdity into a seriously entertaining community. He’s funny, warm, self-aware, and just outspoken enough to make you wonder why we didn’t invite him sooner. Crack the door, scratch that itch, and hit PLAY. Todd has entered the chat. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY! This week, things are opening up, going a little deeper, and in one case… coming right back up. One Booty Gangster has an ambitious mouth and a throat that may be questioning the assignment. With a history of colon cancer and some chest pain in the mix, he wants to know: is it all in his throat, or is something more serious going on? Another listener loves putting in the oral work, but after a string of unfinished jobs, he’s starting to wonder who really sucks in this situation? And one Booty Gangster discovers that an honest conversation with his husband can open the door to a whole new level of intimacy—and a few unexpected possibilities. Plus, we’re opening the READY, SET, CONFESS vault with our very special guest: Glitz Glam! From South Florida beginnings to San Diego’s Church of GLAM, our guest has spent decades serving looks, shaking up nightlife, bending the rules of drag, and championing the LGBTQ+ community. HIV activist, queer mentor, Club Kid, Drag Icon, and one of the forces behind Urban MO—Glitz Glam has stories. So open your ears and hit play. The confession booth is open, the questions are coming in, and things are getting very Butt Honestly. 🍑 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week, things are running a little loose, getting a little too deep, and in one case… not feeling deep enough. One Booty Gangster is wondering how long he should stay off the saddle when his stomach has other plans. Another listener and his wife have gone all-in on anal, but after some serious prostate problems, they’re wondering if their favorite form of intimacy could be causing trouble. And one bottom says the spark is still there—he just can’t quite feel it like he used to. Then it’s time for HIT IT & QUIT IT: quick questions, questionable answers, and absolutely no time to overthink anything. And this week, the guys are joined by Darby Lynn Cartwright and Alexis P Bevels, the wonderfully opinionated hosts of IMHO: The Show and IMHO: The Podcast. Expect strong opinions, big personalities, and probably several moments where you ask HUH? Press play. It’s deep, it’s loose, it’s opinionated—and it’s Butt Honestly. 🍑 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY! This week, P-town comes home with consequences. One Booty Gangster is dealing with a scratchy, sore aftermath that proves not everything that happens on vacation should make the itinerary. Another listener is wrestling with relationship PTSD after a cheating story hits a little too close to home. We also hear from a bottom trying to navigate a serious numbers gamewith his partner—because apparently, even sex comes with statistics. And then there’s the birthday celebration that involved a perfectly creamed cake. We’ll let you decide what that means. Plus, the guys welcome Eric Williams, the Confession Hole himself, from That’s a Gay Ass Podcast, for a conversation guaranteed to bring even more chaos to the mail sack. It’s messy, funny, surprisingly heartfelt, and very, very Butt Honestly. Press play. Your ears are about to get a confession. Find Eric Williams and That's A Gay Ass Podcast here: https://linktr.ee/ericwillz?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=53003e8f-1839-4c6b-9a79-e740ea31b872 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week on BUTT HONESTLY, things get a little dark, a little sore, and maybe a little too hard. One Booty Gangster takes on an ambitious package and ends up sore, concerned, and deep in a Google rabbit hole about his hole. Because apparently, that’s what the internet is for. Another listener wants to know if the YEZTUGO shot and hard-on pills play nicely together. Spoiler: sometimes your sex life comes with a drug-interaction subplot. Meanwhile, one Darkroom Gangster discovers something unexpected in the darkness and is left with one very reasonable question: WHO CONSENTED TO THIS?! Plus, an unexpected update from Episode 110: Monogamy on the Side, and Dr. Carlton returns from P-Town with stories of celebrities, family fun, and enough memories to make you wonder what exactly happens in Provincetown stays in Provincetown. Then, as always, we wrap things up with Love Language of the Week. Press play. Your hole has questions. We have answers. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY! This week, things are getting hard—or, in one Booty Gangster’s case, not quite hard enough. We’ve got a longtime top wondering why his favorite equipment isn’t performing like it used to. Then Hit It & Quit Ittackles the opposite problem: one listener is too sensitive up top and finishing sooner than planned, while another says his medications may be putting the brakes on the whole operation. And because nothing says romance like risk assessment, a monogamously partnered listener wants to know how quickly he’d know if he brought home an unwanted souvenir after stepping out of town. Finally, another Booty Gangster is wrestling with feelings for a guy who may—or may not—be straight. Because apparently we needed to add emotional uncertainty to the medical uncertainty. It’s erections, early exits, medication mysteries, questionable decisions, and complicated feelings—all in one tidy little episode. Press play. Your questions are hard. The answers are Butt Honestly. 🍑 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY! This week, we've got follow-ups from the Booty Gang, including an inspiring update from Australia about one listener's HPV journey and why getting screened can truly save your life. We also check back in with The Big D, who's finally gotten out of his own head—and into much better situations. Plus, another listener shares how GLP-1 medication has changed his cleanup routine (with... mixed results), and the guys break down the biggest news coming out of the International AIDS Conference. Dr. Carlton reviews The Odyssey, the guys complain about San Diego's "heat wave" (yes, we're aware the rest of the country is rolling their eyes), and they wrap it all up with Love Language of the Week. Hit play, relax your butt, and join the Booty Gang. 🍑 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY!  We've got a Booty Gangster who's wondering whether years of living in the closet have been wreaking havoc on his gut, another listener who got his very first anal Pap and is now facing HPV, biopsies, and surgery, and one listener whose weekend adventures somehow escalated from the dance floor to double F’s before breakfast. Plus, we'll talk about why France just shut down one of the world's most famous g******g venues and what the ruling actually means… So lube up your curiosity... because we’re going in. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to BUTT HONESTLY!—the podcast where no question is too personal, too awkward, or this week... too big? This episode is packed with the kind of conversations that make you laugh, make you think, and occasionally make you cross your legs. First up, we hear from a Booty Gangster living in a country where LGBTQ+ healthcare isn't always easy—or even safe—to access. He wants to know if it's ever okay to treat an STI without getting tested first. Dr. Carlton dives into the realities of navigating sexual health when resources are limited and why guessing is rarely the best prescription. Then another listener asks a question that's equal parts anatomy and anxiety: Can taking bigger partners actually cause long-term damage? It's one of the most common myths floating around locker rooms, hookup apps, and group chats, and Dr. Carlton is ready to separate science from sensationalism. And finally, one listener has a problem many people assume they'd love to have: Is having a larger package actually more of a burden than a blessing? From dating expectations to bedroom logistics, the guys unpack why "bigger" isn't always synonymous with "better." Elsewhere, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo recap their adventures at San Diego Pride, where the energy was electric, the outfits were questionable (in the best way), and the people-watching deserved its own Olympic event. Pride always delivers unforgettable moments—and, naturally, the guys have stories. As always, they wrap things up with Love Language of the Week, proving that even after discussing STIs, anatomy, and oversized expectations, there's still plenty of room for a little heart. Whether you're wondering about sexual health, relationship confidence, body image, or you've simply clicked because the title made you blush, this episode has something for you. So press play and join the Booty Gang. Because at Butt Honestly, we answer the questions everyone is thinking... but only a few people are brave enough to ask. Warning: Side effects of this episode may include laughing out loud, learning something unexpectedly useful, and realizing that half the things you believed about sex came from someone who definitely wasn't a doctor. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello, Booty Gang—and welcome back to BUTT HONESTLY, where the inbox is full, the opinions are medically reviewed (mostly), and somehow every episode makes your Google search history just a little more suspicious. This week, we're asking the hard-hitting questions. Like... does wearing NASTY PIG underwear actually tell the world something about you, or is it just a fashion choice with excellent marketing? Dr. Carlton and Dangilo weigh in on whether your briefs are making introductions before you do. Then, one Booty Gangster shares his experience getting the new long-acting PrEP injection—and let's just say the soreness stuck around longer than some of his relationships. Another listener thinks his GLP-1 medication may have unlocked an unexpected superpower by making cleanup easier, proving once again that modern medicine continues to surprise us in ways no clinical trial brochure ever mentions. We also hear from a listener who's spiraling after a hookup, convinced every little ache, itch, and intrusive thought is the beginning of the end. If you've ever gone from "That was fun!" to "Should I schedule my own memorial service?" in under 24 hours, this one's for you. Dr. Carlton brings the science, Dangilo brings the reassurance, and together they help talk another Booty Gangster off the ledge. Outside the mail sack, the guys recap San Diego Pride—the celebrations, the crowds, the glitter, and the beautiful chaos that reminds us why community matters. Then they take a nostalgic detour into their rebellious younger years, sharing stories that prove they were making questionable decisions long before microphones were involved. Some memories are sweet. Others probably have no statute of limitations. As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, because after talking underwear, injections, anxiety, and adolescence, it's nice to end on something warm and fuzzy. So lube up those ears and hit play. It's another episode full of laughs, learning, pop culture, public health, and the wonderfully weird questions that only the Booty Gang could ask. Two things are guaranteed: you'll learn something... and you'll probably laugh at least once in public. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy