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29 episodes
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Date created
2024/09/03
Latest episode
2026/04/29
Average duration
74 min.
Release period
37 days

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Give It To Me Bi is a podcast that amplifies the voices and experiences of the bi+ community. Hosted by Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer, this podcast dives deep into the unique challenges, joys, and nuances of bisexuality and bi+ identities in today's world. Each episode offers thought-provoking discussions, personal stories, and expert insights, all with the goal of fostering understanding, inclusivity, and celebration of the bi+ spectrum. Whether you identify as bisexual, pansexual, fluid, or any other non-monosexual identity, or you're an ally looking to learn more, Give It To Me Bi is your space to feel seen, heard, and empowered. Expect a mix of candid conversations, historical context, and topical discussions that connect bi+ experiences to the broader LGBTQ+ movement. Join us every week as we explore what it means to live authentically in a world that often misunderstands or overlooks bisexuality. Subscribe now to become part of a community that’s all about visibility, inclusion, and celebrating the full spectrum of bi+ identities. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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How do you actually know if you're bisexual?
2026/04/29
If you've ever typed "am I bi" into a search bar at 2am, replayed every crush like courtroom evidence, or quietly made "exceptions" to the label you were using, this one's for you. Steve and Chad share real stories from the Give It To Me Bi community: wrong first labels, slow hindsight, dreams and crushes that didn't fit the boxes, and the moment "bisexual" finally became a word in someone's world. No checklist, no gatekeeping, no verdict required by the end of the episode. Just permission, patterns, and the company of people still figuring it out. Chapters00:00 — How do you actually know if you're bisexual?01:09 — BiLights07:47 — No single lightning bolt: wrong first labels & learning "bi" exists31:15 — Messy clues: media, dreams, crushes & social noise49:02 — Steve has questions about getting married54:44 — Labels under the bi+ umbrella: bi, pan, queer, questioning, none1:13:50 — What we wish someone had told us & the 11 positive aspects of bi identity Related episodes:Ep 26 — How to be bisexual in a monogamous relationshipEp 27 — Coming out bisexual later in lifeEp 11 — Bisexuality Explained: Your Burning QuestionsEp 10 — Why Are Bisexual Men Still in Hiding in 2024?Ep 7 — Coming Out as Bisexual in 2024 Links & ReadingWebsiteJoin the Give It To Me Bi communitySubscribe to the newsletterResearch: The positive aspects of a bisexual self-identificationGuide: 'How to Support Someone Who's Come Out as Bisexual' Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Coming out bisexual later in life
2026/04/20
Coming out as bi+ doesn't come with a deadline. If you came out (or you're still coming out) at 30, 50, 70, or any age that didn't match the storybook teen-coming-out timeline, this episode is for you. We want this to be a big warm hug. Steve and Chad sit with the full range of what coming out later actually feels like. As Steve puts it on this episode, "all of these things can be true at once. It can be great, it can be amazing, it could be awful, it can be horrible, it can mean nothing, it can mean everything." Relief, panic, limbo, grief, pride, sometimes all in the same week. We talk about telling your spouse, family, and friends, why you don't owe everyone the same level of access to your identity, the AIB model and split attraction, the grief of paths not taken, and how we talk about the lives we did or didn't live. Out to a handful is still out. Later doesn't mean less. Forward this to whoever needs it. --- 🔗 Read this month's column at the Star Observer: "No Script For This" by Chad → https://tinyurl.com/ycynw88w 📚 Resources mentioned in this episode: • Bisexual Killjoy podcast → https://www.bisexualkilljoy.com/ • Star Observer on Leigh Ryswyk → https://tinyurl.com/5n8sb4c6 🎧 If this one resonated, our back catalogue has more: • Ep 7 *Coming Out as Bisexual in 2024* — the baseline coming-out conversation • Ep 3 *Bisexual Visibility and Generational Shifts* — language and scripts shifting across decades • Ep 6 *Exploring Bisexual Relationships and Research* — relationship and research context 🤝 Need to support someone who's coming out? We made a resource for that. Send it to whoever needs the leg up → https://tinyurl.com/msb7ppz6 👯 Stay with us: • Follow / subscribe wherever you're listening so the next episode lands in your feed • Join the Give It To Me Bi community on Facebook → https://tinyurl.com/n5rpd4dc • Subscribe to the newsletter → https://tinyurl.com/45sfmamc • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/giveittomebi/ • Everything else lives at → https://tinyurl.com/852k48je If this episode hit something for you, forward it to one person who needs it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
How to be bisexual in a monogamous relationship
2026/04/12
We're back. Season 2 is here and we are straight into it. Well, not straight... This week we're tackling one of the most requested topics in the history of this show: how do you stay connected to your bi+ identity when you're in a monogamous relationship? And what does your partner actually need to know? Whether you've ever thought maybe I'm not bi enough because I'm in a relationship, or you're a partner trying to figure out how to show up, this one's for both of you. In this episode: Attraction, identity and relationship agreement are three completely different things. We use Robyn Ochs' definition of bisexuality to unpack why the "scorecard" question is the wrong question entirely — and who keeps asking for it.Mixed orientation relationships. What happens when one person in a relationship is bi+ and the other isn't, and why the unspoken agreement is almost always the most dangerous one.For the partner listening. Your bi+ person isn't afraid of you. They're afraid of everything the world has told you about them. There's a difference and it matters.The research is clear. Partner acceptance doesn't just make bi+ people feel better. It makes relationships better. We get into why.Chad's personal story. Coming out to his late partner Heidi mid-relationship — the rupture it created, the conversations that followed, and how it became one of the greatest joys of his life.And more! Monogamy does not cancel bisexuality. Non-monogamy does not prove it. Links: Join the Give It To Me Bi communityFollow us on InstagramStar Observer column Give It To Me Bi acknowledges that we live and work on Gadigal land. We pay our respects to elders past and present. Sovereignty was never ceded. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Even More Persistent Bi Myths, Busted
2025/09/01
We’re busting more bi+ myths with clear, practical answers: identity vs politics, the “prove it” trap, couples seeking women on apps, ageing and labels, and why health gaps are about stigma—not sexuality. Plus Rainbow Election Forum takeaways, Qtopia’s Sydney Pride Fest news, and a moving tribute to Heidi. KEY TAKEAWAYS - You don’t owe anyone a dating résumé. Your identity isn’t up for audit. - “Queer” can feel political; “bisexual” can be a simple description—both are valid. - App dynamics are shaped by culture and numbers—don’t scapegoat bi+ people. - Bisexuality doesn’t disappear with age; safety, language, and context shift. - Bi mental-health gaps are driven by stigma and minority stress, not by being bi. CHAPTERS - Opening Thanks & Community Care - Rainbow Election Forum: Wins and Gaps - Qtopia Sydney Pride Fest: What’s Coming - Star Observer: Why We Show Up - Myth: “Bi Needs to Be Political” - Myth: “You Must Prove Your Bi-ness” - Myth: “Couples Only Seek Women on Apps” - Ageing and Labels: What Actually Changes - Bi Health: Stigma vs Sexuality - Closing Notes + Tribute RESOURCES MENTIONED - Rainbow Election Forum — Community Q&A with political leaders — https://equalityaustralia.org.au/our-work/rainbow-votes/ - Health Equity Matters — https://www.healthequitymatters.org.au/ - Qtopia Sydney Pride Fest — Festival mentioned — https://qtopiasydney.com.au/pride-fest-2025/ - Star Observer — Monthly column — https://www.starobserver.com.au/category/give-it-to-me-bi Join the mailing list: https://tinyurl.com/3hzyj3zt Join the online community: https://tinyurl.com/49kt66cm Review on Apple | Review on Spotify MEMORABLE QUOTES “You don’t have to prove anything to anyone.” — Host “There’s no one correct way to be bi.” — Host “It’s stigma—not sexuality—that harms our health.” — Host CREDITS Hosted by Steve Spencer and Chad Barnier. Audio Production and Editing by Chad Barnier. Podcast artwork by Chad Barnier. CONTENT NOTE This podcast often discusses themes of mental and physical health, suicide, minority stress, and politics. TRANSCRIPT NOTE Transcripts are auto-generated—apologies for any inaccuracies. #bisexual #bisexuality #biplus #bi+ ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF COUNTRY Give It To Me Bi acknowledge that we live and work on Gadigal Land. We acknowledge the Traditional Custodians of this land and pay our respects to Elders past and present. Sovereignty was never ceded. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Are We Physically Okay? (Asking for All Bisexuals)
2025/04/12
📝 Episode SummaryIn this episode of Give It To Me Bi, Chad and Steve tackle the intersections of bisexuality and physical health, unpacking the unique disparities Bi+ folks face in health systems, studies, and lived experience. From breaking down minority stress and the AIB (Attraction, Identity, Behaviour) model to candid chats about disability, health journeys, and everything in between—this episode is a blend of research-backed insight and heartfelt personal stories. PLUS, a major announcement: the very first Give It To Me Bi Live Show is happening this June for Pride Month at Qtopia Sydney—and you're invited. 🔑 Key Points / HighlightsBisexuals & Health Gaps: Why bisexual individuals face unique physical health risks—including earlier onset disability and chronic illness.The AIB Model: Breaking down why attraction, identity, and behaviour all matter—and how research often fails us.Internalised Ableism & Productivity Guilt: Chad and Steve get real about disability, chronic illness, and the societal shame around “doing less.”What Actually Helps: From electrolyte trauma to walking with purpose—realistic, body-positive tips for health without shame.Live Show Reveal! We’re kicking off Pride Month at Qtopia Sydney with our first-ever live podcast taping AND a bonus community panel night.🎟️ Big Bi Night — Live at Qtopia Sydney🗓️ Mon 2 June 2025 | Get Tickets Join us for Give It To Me Bi: LIVE!, our first-ever live show and a powerful all-star Bi+ panel. 📚 Resources & Links👉 How to Support Someone Who Has Recently Come Out as Bisexual Studies: Dyar et al. (2019). Physical Health Disparities Across Dimensions of Sexual Orientation, Race/Ethnicity, and Sex: Evidence for Increased Risk Among Bisexual Adults. Archives of sexual behavior, 48(1), 225–242. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-018-1169-8Fredriksen-Goldsen et al. (2012). Disability among lesbian, gay, and bisexual adults: disparities in prevalence and risk. American journal of public health, 102(1), e16–e21. https://doi.org/10.2105/AJPH.2011.300379Taylor et al. (2019). Bisexual mental health: Findings from the 'Who I Am' study. Australian journal of general practice, 48(3), 138–144. https://doi.org/10.31128/AJGP-06-18-4615💬 Join the CommunityInstagram, TikTok, ThreadsPrivate GroupNewsletter💜 Call to ActionSubscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.Leave a Review to help new folks discover the pod.Share this episode with someone who's navigating their health or identity journey. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bisexual Health Month: Mental Health with Bailey Merlin
2025/03/17
Bisexual people face some of the worst mental health outcomes in the LGBTQIA+ community, but why isn’t this crisis talked about more? For this episode of our Bi+ Health Awareness Month series, we sit down with Bailey Merlin, board member of the Bisexual Resource Center, co-host of Bisexual Killjoy, and researcher at Harvard Medical School tackling bi+ mental health and erasure. Bailey breaks down the structural barriers bi+ people face in healthcare, the importance of finding community, and how activism itself can be a powerful tool for improving mental well-being. Plus, we chat about the Bi+ Book Gang, funding struggles for bi+ advocacy, and the power of storytelling in making change. In This Episode: 🌈 Why the bi+ mental health crisis is worse than you think 📢 How to advocate for yourself in healthcare settings 📝 The role of research in addressing health inequities 🤝 How community and activism improve bi+ well-being 🎙 Inside the Bisexual Resource Center & Bi+ Book Gang Whether you’re looking for mental health resources, advocacy insights, or just some bi+ solidarity, this episode is for you. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: 📚 Bisexual Resource Center – Mental health resources, advocacy, and community events 📊 Bi+ Health Awareness Month – Learn more & spread awareness 📖 Bi+ Book Gang – A writers’ space for bi+ creatives 🎙 Bisexual Killjoy Podcast – Hosted by Bailey Merlin & Jase Peeples Listen Now:🎧 Spotify 🍎 Apple Podcasts  ▶️ YouTube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bisexual Health Month: Our Sexual Health & HIV Deep Dive
2025/03/03
We’re kicking off Bi Health Awareness Month 2025 by diving straight into Sexual Health and HIV—two areas where bi+ folks often face unique challenges and misinformation. This episode covers everything from safer sex strategies and HIV prevention to the tricky conversations we have (or don’t have) with healthcare providers about being bi+. Chad and Steve share personal stories, discuss the stigma that keeps so many of us from getting tested or disclosing our identities at the clinic, and unpack how better resources can lead to better outcomes. Whether you’ve ever felt ignored in a “gay-only” health setting or worried your doctor wouldn’t “get it,” this conversation is for you.  And don’t worry—we’ll also point you to some awesome resources from the Bisexual Resource Center and beyond, so you can walk away feeling more informed and empowered than ever. What We CoverBi Health Month 2025: Why it matters, and how the Bisexual Resource Center’s initiative helps.Safer Sex & HIV Myths: Breaking down common misconceptions that affect bi+ people.Healthcare Disclosure: Navigating awkward conversations and why being out to your provider can improve care.Practical Resources: Links to brochures, articles, and orgs for more info on HIV prevention and sexual health.Links & ResourcesSocial Determinants of Health (WHO)Bisexual Resource Center – Bi Health MonthHRC Brief: Health Disparities Among Bisexual PeopleSexual Health Tips for the Bi+ CommunityComing Out to Your Doctor as Bisexual (HRC)Tips for Bi+ Inclusion in Programs & Services (BRC)Call to ActionSubscribe: Never miss an episode—hit that subscribe button on your favourite podcast platform.Join the Community: Our Facebook Group or sign up for our Newsletter to keep the conversation going.Share Your Story: If you’ve ever felt overlooked or faced stigma at the doctor’s office, we’d love to hear it! DM us, or post in the group.Remember, knowledge is power—especially when it comes to looking after yourself and your community. Stay safe, stay curious! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bisexuals in Sports: On the Field, Off the Radar
2025/02/26
Sport is supposed to bring people together—but for many bisexual athletes and fans, it has often been a hostile or invisible space. Whether it’s growing up in locker rooms where being queer felt unsafe or seeing top athletes afraid to come out, bi+ people face unique challenges in the world of sports. So today, we’re tackling bi+ representation in sport—the triumphs, struggles, and moments of erasure that define the experience of bisexual athletes at every level. 🎤 Why does the conversation always focus on ‘gay athletes’ instead of asking, ‘Where are the bi ones?’🏟 What impact does biphobia have on mainstream and local sports?💪 Who are the bi+ athletes breaking barriers—and why don’t we hear more about them? Plus, we break down Jeff Molina’s forced coming out in the UFC, the biphobia in the AFL and other mainstream leagues, and the inclusive spaces that are changing the game for bi+ athletes. In This Episode:🏅 The fight for visibility in sport: Why bi+ athletes are still sidelined⚽ From the AFL to the UFC: The challenges of coming out in elite sport🌍 Local sports teams creating inclusive spaces for bi+ and LGBTQ+ players🏳️‍🌈 The backlash against Jeff Molina’s coming out & the risks for queer athletes Whether you’re a die-hard sports fan, a casual spectator, or just someone looking for representation, this episode is for you. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: The BISHH Study! Closes this week!! 📊 Gallup Poll: Nearly 1 in 10 Americans Identify as LGBTQ+, Thanks to Bi+ People & Gen Z⚖️ ABS 2026 Census Gender & Sexuality Changes 📰 Liam Payne & the Speculation Around His Sexuality📢 Trump Administration’s Attempt to Erase Stonewall Trans History 🏳️‍🌈 Pride in Sport Local Sports Team Directory 📰 Jeff Molina’s Forced Coming Out & Backlash Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bisexuals in Musical Theatre: A Punchline or Just Invisible?
2025/02/19
Bisexuals in Musical Theatre: A Punchline or Just Invisible? 🎭🌈Musical theatre has a reputation for being super queer-friendly—but does that just mean “gay-friendly,” while bi+ folks get sidelined? From Rocky Horror winks to a Cabaret nudge, bisexuality in theatre is often a punchline, a trope, or completely erased. Maybe this time, the bisexuals should take center stage. 🎤 Why does theatre lean so heavily on bi tropes?🎭 Which musicals actually get bisexuality right?🎶 How does theatre shape queer identity—and is it truly inclusive?Plus, we celebrate our 20th episode milestone (!!!), talk about Chad’s new role in local LGBTQ+ advocacy, and Steve’s starring moment in an HIV well-being campaign. In This Episode:🎟 How musical theatre helped us discover our queer identities🎭 The Rocky Horror Picture Show problem: Bisexual freedom or tired villain trope?💡 How If/Then nails bisexual storytelling without falling into clichés🔄 When source material is bisexual, but adaptations erase the queerness (The Color Purple, Hamilton)🎬 Rewriting musicals: What shows should have explicit bi representation?Whether you’re a theatre nerd, a casual musical lover, or just here for the campy chaos, this episode is for you. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode:🌈 Biconic Mardi Gras Float - Help Keep Bi+ Representation in the Parade!📰 Star Observer: Mardi Gras' Only Bisexual Float Needs Your Support📊 BISHH Study - Final Call for Participation🌐 Visit Our Website📖 How to Support Someone Who’s Just Come Out as Bisexual👥 Join the Community📩 Sign up for our Newsletter📰 Our Latest Star Observer Article: Could Celebrity Bisexuality Alter Our Nation’s Numbers? Listen Now:🎧 Spotify 🍎 Apple Podcasts ▶️ YouTube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bisexuality in Music: Queerbaiting, Visibility and Marketing Gimmicks
2025/02/10
Ever noticed how women’s bisexuality in pop music is either fetishised into a sexy gimmick, while bi men seem to vanish altogether? In this episode, we dive into queerbaiting, erasure, and whether the industry is genuinely celebrating bisexual identities—or just cashing in on them. 🎤 How does the music industry shape bisexual representation? 🎶 Are recording artists amplifying visibility or being controlled by industry expectations? 📢 Does queerbaiting exist in music, or is it just repackaged biphobia? We also discuss bisexual empowerment in music, the songs that have helped us feel seen, and the unique experience of swapping pronouns in lyrics—whether to hide or flaunt bisexual identity. Plus, we break down the 2025 Grammys, possibly the queerest Grammys to date, and what it says about representation right now. In This Episode:🎵 The Grammys, Lady Gaga’s reign, and the rise of Chappell Roan🎙 How music helps shape bisexual identity & self-acceptance💡 The study exposing how women’s bisexuality is framed in pop music🤔 Queerbaiting or self-expression? The industry’s control over artist personas🔥 Clowns’ Bisexual Awakening—punk rock’s boldest bisexual anthem Whether you’re a karaoke professional, a music lover, or just here for the Gaga worship, this one’s for you. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode:🎵 Abracadabra – Lady Gaga (Official Video)🤠 Saddle Club - Queer Line Dancing🎤 Birdcage Sydney - Queer Femme Club Night📰 Our latest Star Observer Column: 'Could Celebrity Bisexuality Alter Our Nation’s Numbers?'🏆 Chappell Roan’s Speech at the 2025 Grammys📖 Study: Women’s Bisexuality in American Pop Music (2008-2018)🎸 Clowns - Bisexual Awakening (Official Video)Listen Now:🎧 Spotify🍎 Apple Podcasts▶️ YouTube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Does Hollywood Have a Bisexual Problem?
2025/02/04
Does Hollywood Have a Bisexual Problem? 🎬🌈 From bisexual tropes that refuse to die to the characters that shaped how we see ourselves, this episode is a deep dive into how Hollywood portrays bisexuality—for better or worse. We’re asking: 🎭 Why is bisexual representation still such a mess?📺 What actually makes a “good” bi character?🎥 How has cinema influenced the way we understand our own identities? Plus, we unpack the GLAAD Media Report and the ongoing underrepresentation of bisexuality on screen, discuss how bi tropes have personally shaped our own experiences, and revisit the Hays Code—the old Hollywood censorship rules that forced bisexuality into subtext, villainy, or outright invisibility. Also in this episode: ✨ Bisexual-coded villains & messy, imperfect representation—do we need more of it?🌟 Why Hollywood struggles to say the word "bisexual"🎬 Netflix’s upcoming bisexual romance drama & exciting LGBTQ+ news from Thailand Whether you’re a film buff or just a casual viewer, this one is a must-listen. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode:📩 Sign up for our newsletter – Stay updated on episodes, resources, and community events!👥 Join our Facebook community group – Connect with other bi+ people.🌐 Visit our website – Explore more episodes, resources, and updates.📖 How to Support Someone Who’s Just Come Out as Bisexual – A guide for friends, family, and partners.Listen Now:🎧 Spotify🍎 Apple Podcasts▶️ YouTube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The Personal Is Political: How to Reclaim Your Power and Fight for Hope
2025/01/27
In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, we’re diving into the intersection of confidence, self-esteem, and activism—reminding you that the personal is always political. 🌈 Whether you’re faking it ’til you make it or embracing who you are unapologetically, this episode is all about reclaiming your power and finding hope, even when the world feels overwhelming. We explore how to build confidence from the ground up, why grace and self-compassion are key to growth, and how identity shifts can help you become the person you’ve always wanted to be. 💪 Along the way, we tackle feelings of hopelessness with practical strategies for local action, showing how small steps can lead to massive change. Highlights include: ✨ Building confidence through “faking it,” trusting the process, and letting go of others’ opinions ❤️ Practicing grace: self-compassion, celebrating wins, and embracing your mistakes 💡 Shifting your focus from results to identity: How to align your habits and goals with who you want to be 🌟 Fighting for hope: Why local action matters and how to make an impact We’ll also share practical ways to get involved in your community—from joining local boards and advocacy groups to participating in public hearings. The next four years might feel daunting, but disengaging isn’t the answer. Together, we’ll discuss how to reclaim your voice, your power, and your hope. This is an empowering episode for anyone looking to rebuild confidence, take action, and find strength in community. 💥 Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: 📩 Sign up for our newsletter: Stay updated on episodes, resources, and community events! 👥 Join our Facebook community group: Connect with other bi+ people. 🌐 Visit our website: Explore more episodes, resources, and updates. 📖 How to Support Someone Who’s Just Come Out as Bisexual: A guide for friends, family, and partners. Listen Now: 🎧 Spotify 🍎 Apple Podcasts ▶️ YouTube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
How to Be the Best Bi in 2025
2025/01/21
New year, new you! Chad and Steve dive into everything you need to know to make 2025 your best bisexual year yet. From setting resolutions to embracing authenticity, this episode is packed with stories, practical tips, and some bi+ banter. We talk about: How to set resolutions that celebrate your bisexuality – from coming out to upgrading your self-care.Doechii’s epic bisexual clapbacks and why they’re inspiring bi+ confidence worldwide.Stats and trends showing why 2025 is the Year of the Bisexual.Building your bi+ community and finding spaces where you truly belong.Embracing joy and authenticity in all areas of life – even when the world feels overwhelming.Plus, we share personal stories, community highlights, and the moments that are making us laugh, cry, and cheer as we step into the new year. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Sign up for our newsletter: Stay updated on episodes, resources, and community events! Join here.Join our Facebook community group: Connect with other bi+ people. Join here.Visit our website: Explore more episodes, resources, and updates. Explore here.How to Support Someone Who’s Just Come Out as Bisexual: A guide for friends, family, and partners. Read here.Participate in the BISHH study: Help create the world’s largest bi+ specific health survey. Take the survey here.Listen Now:SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"Gay Passing" Bisexuals in Same Gender Relationships
2024/12/16
In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, we tackle the nuanced experiences of bisexual people in same-gender relationships. Have you ever felt "not straight enough to be bi"? For many bi+ individuals, being in a queer-presenting or same-gender relationship often leads to being mistaken as gay or lesbian, resulting in unique challenges and privileges. We unpack what it means to navigate the world as a bi person in a same-gender relationship, the dynamics of "gay-passing" privilege, and how these intersections shape identity, community, and visibility. We also explore how to embrace your bisexuality fully, foster meaningful connections, and address feelings of imposter syndrome within the LGBTQIA+ community. Highlights include: Navigating "gay-passing" privilege and the visibility struggle in same-gender relationshipsOvercoming internalised biphobia and toxic masculinity in forming same-sex platonic friendshipsDating in same-sex circles as a bisexual person—unique joys, challenges, and navigating spacesHow your partner can support your visibility and identity Plus, we dive into listener questions and comments, including a video submission on why it's important to clarify "gay-passing" relationships, and explore how to find pride in your unique place in the queer spectrum. This is a can't-miss episode for anyone navigating identity, visibility, and community as a bisexual person in same-gender relationships. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"Straight Passing" Bisexuals in Different Gender Relationships
2024/12/02
In this episode, Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer delve into the complexities of bisexuality in different-gender relationships. They tackle the challenges of societal perceptions, biphobia, and "straight-passing privilege." Through personal anecdotes and insights from the bi+ community, the hosts explore the need for visibility, validation, and joy in bisexual identities. Together, they confront myths, celebrate positive representations, and offer practical resources for bisexual individuals and their allies. Key Points/HighlightsThe Myth of Straight-Passing Privilege: The misconception that bisexuals in different-gender relationships have an advantage is debunked with personal insights and research data.Reframing the Narrative: Shifting the focus from doom and gloom to joy and thriving in bi+ relationships.Community Insights: Contributions from the Give It To Me Bi Facebook group highlight real-life experiences and challenges.Partner Support: Navigating the journey of coming out in a relationship, with an emphasis on communication and allyship.The Role of Communication: How vulnerability and open dialogue can strengthen relationships and challenge stereotypes.Intersection with Mental Health: The impact of erasure and exclusion on bisexual individuals' mental health.Resources for Allies: Tools and information to help allies support their bisexual loved ones effectively.Resources & LinksBooks Mentioned: For the Love of Men by Liz PlankThe Will to Change by Bell HooksPodcasts Mentioned: The Man Enough PodcastArticles and Videos: Do Bisexuals Have Access to Straight Privilege? by Jamie Arpin-RicciPassing Bi: Bi+ People in "Straight-Facing" Relationships (YouTube)Helpful Resources: How to Support Someone Who Has Recently Come Out as BisexualEnjoyed this episode? Don’t forget to: Subscribe and Leave a Review on Spotify and Apple Podcasts to help more listeners find the show.Join the Conversation in our private Facebook group for exclusive updates and discussions.Visit Our Website for more resources: Give It To Me Bi. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Whidjet 2026/04/28
Excellent podcast
Would highly recommend this podcast to bi+ people, their allies, and everyone connected to us who would like to better understand the largely invisibl...
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BiAndProud 2025/04/12
Best podcast!
I discovered this podcast about two weeks ago and am absolutely loving it! Working my way through every show, and relistening to some favs! Chad and S...
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