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Hot Mess Habits

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Date created
2024/09/16
Latest episode
2026/09/25
Average duration
29 min.
Release period
12 days

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HOT MESS HABITS is the podcast for the high achieving, want to be organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. each week we chat about habits, routines and current obsessions for the everyday, type b girl. hosted by Victoria Harder, new episodes every monday

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the most unexpected way to use google calendar (adhd / mom edition)
2026/09/25
google calendar isn't just for business bros!!! SET UP YOUR GOOGLE CAL HERE: https://youtu.be/CPCWg1lCYH0?si=R0Ljw9hBQA0IkyZo TIME STAMPS 0:00 WHY YOU NEED GOOGLE CALENDAR 1:39 where to see the breakdown of the colours 1:50 the different system to using google calendar 4:35 the categories 6:50 the colours / birds eye view 8:08 you need to create re-occurring events 10:15 schedule your brain tasks 11:46 syncing across devices 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01VL8DJDLXHMM
married to an adhd girly: type A husband's perspective
2026/09/17
FIRST GUEST EPISODE SAY HI TO LEVI!! today we chat all about productivity, wellness + what real marriage looks like with adhd and being different! 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
50 FALL BUCKET LIST IDEAS
2026/09/09
it's cozy girl fall!!! welcome to this weeks episode, covering all things COZY FALL! MENTIONED IN THE EP: fall spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2lZgd8cTFkiO6kTKQWnaxS?si=c758efddf5474d27 fall bucket list: https://bodegoods.co/products/fall-goal-setting-template-canva-template TIMESTAMPS: 1:20 - write bucket list 2:08 - rewatch fall movie  5:35 - build out fall curriculum  6:32 - make a fall playlist  7:05 - go visit pumpkin patch  8:00 - make space cozall 8:56 - go out into nature or on a nice drive.  9:27 - backyard fire with smores and hot chocolate  10:04 - hot coffee on the deck 10:40 - fall family photos  11:19 - change your hair  12:02 - make pumpkin loaf 13:14 - make most of cozy evening  14:00 - clay magnets  14:33 - rewatch Harry Potter 15:19 - hosting fall swap 16:00 - soup season 17:03 - bake a pie  17:23 - make apple crisp 18:32 - thrifting  20:00 - cute pair of leather boots 20:57 - cozy hobbies 1) journaling 2) colouring 3) snail mail  22:06 - fall shopping refresh 23:23 - hosting a book club 24:11 - perfect evening routine  24:39 - start new cleaning schedule  25:15 - host a games night  26:52 - go camping  27:59 - buying a physical book 28:30 - outdoor movie  28:48 - make a boo basket 29:57 - make scrunchies  30:25 - ambiance videos on your tv  31:05 - go to bath and body works  31:47 - play in leaves with kids 32:45 - apple stamping  33:12 - can apple sauce and butter 33:25 - carving pumpkins 33:50 - look for fall events in community  34:27 - buy themed pillsbury for movie night  34:48 - pizza pumpkin 34:58 - go to new cozy town  35:26 - new pair of slippers 35:43 - get fall tea 35:48 - do fall morning with kids and friends 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9 sub count: 7430
ultimate fall reset guide: get your life together this fall | habits & routines for type b girlies
2026/09/02
If you're craving a fresh start, a little motivation, and a plan for getting your life back in order this season, this episode is for you. 🍂 it's time to get our lives together!!! i love a fresh season and what better way to kick off september than a full life reset TIMESTAMPS 0:00 updates 8:35 - clean everyday bag 9:19 - declutter 10 items from home 10:10 - restock season!! 12:35 - digital life 14:34 - notifications 15:42 - take screen time action 16:25 - use reminder app for grocery list 17:30 - make meal plan steps 21:55 - fall bucket list (COMING SOON) other videos in the get your life together series: why you're not consistent: https://youtu.be/9Ygts0Aaz0g 7 habits & systems to implement today: https://youtu.be/g4BxU1tZQMM why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER *BEFORE* FALL BEGINS (realistic reset)
2026/08/25
If you're craving a fresh start, a little motivation, and a plan for getting your life back in order, this episode is for you. 🍂 JOIN THE GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER CHALLENGE (LAST DAY TO JOIN!): https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n In today's episode: - how to do a simple life audit - the power of a good brain dump - my new "open loop" system (that is actually working) - creating a realistic bare-minimum plan - getting your home and routines ready for fall - why it's never too early to start planning for the holidays - how to actually make your goals happen before the end of the year!! other videos to in the get your life together series: why you're not consistent: https://youtu.be/9Ygts0Aaz0g 7 habits & systems to implement today: https://youtu.be/g4BxU1tZQMM why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
7 HABITS & SYSTEMS THAT KEEP ME SANE (that you can *actually* do) | get your life together week two
2026/08/18
WELCOME to the three episode series all about getting your life together before the fall! Make sure you sign up to join us for the FREE get your life together challenge here: ⁠https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n⁠ today we unpack some actual *REALISTIC* habits + systems that keep me sane as a chaotic-leaning, adhd, type b girly. other videos to WATCH NEXT:  how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
this is why you're not consistent | get your life together week one
2026/08/11
WELCOME to the three episode series all about getting your life together before the fall! Make sure you sign up to join us for the FREE get your life together challenge here: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n today we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other side today we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other sideother videos to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
JULY FAVORITES | the odyssey, hyperfixation snacks, the thing i've used since high school + MORE
2026/08/07
PLS tell me you like this format of episode!! This is week 5 (?) of being consistent posting the podcast + also switching up some of my episode types: I am trying to be more unfiltered and CONSISTENT! lmk how you like! today we chat all about everything I was obsessing about in July make sure you sign up for the "get your life together challenge" happening this month: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n other realistic episodes to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
7 HEALTHY PHONE HABITS TO BREAK YOUR ADDICTION
2026/08/01
this is the year we end our phone addiction!!! GET YOUR BRICK NOW (not sponsored, just listen to the episode to hear why I love it): https://getbrick.app/VICTORIA84372  GET THE FULL DIGITAL DETOX GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/how-to-get-unaddicted-to-your-phone if you’re tired of feeling anxious, overstimulated, distracted and constantly pulled toward your phone, this episode is for you.  we are covering: - realistic and attainable ways to actually break our phone addiction - why it is so important WHEN we scroll - the best iphone feature for phone addiction - why i love the brick so much (and my fave new feature!) - the thing that can be missing from the screen time conversation TIMESTAMPS: 0:53 guilt isn't a strong enough motivator, but it is telling you something 11:06 why it is so important WHEN you scroll 12:40 the BEST new brick feature 14:24 not giving into excuses  16:17 fave iphone feature: greyscale 17:40 practice leaving phone in other room 18:46 self awareness of when your phone becomes a coping mechanism  21:19 no phone policy at the table 22:33 guide to detoxing other realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT:  how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT sub count: 7180
your guide to a MIDYEAR RESET (refreshing goals, redefining productivity, type b pep-talk!!)
2026/07/23
we still have SO MUCH TIME! if you haven't looked at your goals, habits + routines in a while, this is your motivation! today we cover: - why we need to take the time to check in (especially if you have adhd) - why we need to shift our view of productivity - HOW to actually accomplish our goals - redefining our schedule + taking action this episode is for: 🤎 for the type b moms 💻 for the work-from-home girlies 🧠 for the adhd brains ✨ for the recovering perfectionist / eldest daughter  TIMESTAMPS: 1:46: life updates: odyssey + family vacay 8:40: why does a mid-year reset even matter 13:10: does every goal needs to be productive??  15:05: check in with your goals 17:19: my examples of goals I had to shift 22:50: start with HIGH IMPACT low effort 26:44: hosting free challenge!! outro other realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT:  how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s 🍊 WELLNESS FAVES: DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023 ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 💫 DISCOUNTS: ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo 10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361 CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36 🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS: FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide 🎙️ PODCAST SET UP: microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356 slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/ substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
THINGS I FIND INCREDIBLY CHIC AS A TYPE B MOM
2026/07/18
my ultimate list of things I find incredibly chic as a type b mom!! lmk if you can relate or have any to add! TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 PODCAST UPDATES 15:30 having a cute diaper bag 17:20 grocery pick up 19:20 pouches to organize  22:35 having a key attachment on bag 23:22 having nice claw clip 24:16 hot beverage early morning 25:33 baby wearing 26:04 no shame over restarting and picking back up 27:30 having pedicure  30:20 drink hot tea 31:27 vibey evening routine 34:27 car stocked with must haves  36:00 being a chugger not sipper 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSThe blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxosubstack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreativemusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTsub count: 7160
HOW TO HAVE A BUTTER MOM SUMMER
2026/07/09
OKAY if you are ready for a butter mom summer, this episode is for you 🧈  we're breaking down how to be present, intentional, and have the most wholesome + whimsical summer with your kids (and yourself) — how to get off your phone, document more, and actually make a plan so you're not looking back in september wondering where the summer went. grab a coffee and let's get into it 🌸 🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO 🧈 butter mom summer guide (paid playbook): https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide⁠ 📵 the brick (my phone detox device) — https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi i'm victoria, host of hot mess habits 🍓 this is a space for type b moms who want realistic habits + routines without the pressure of doing it perfectly. we talk motherhood, food + fun drinks, dream lifestyle, productivity + just generally trying to get our lives together!!  new episodes weekly 🩰 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS instagram: @hotmesshabits + @victoriaharderxo tiktok: @victoriaharderxo substack: victoriaharderxo.substack.com podcast: hot mess habits on apple + spotify blog: victoriaharderxo.com shop: victoriaharderxo.com/shop shopmy: shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo amazon (ca): amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
21 days without social media (breaking my scrolling addiction)
2026/06/24
this video is NOT sponsored but I do love & highly recommend brick: https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372 if you are feeling like you cannot stop scrolling, are getting iriratated with your kids, are constantly anxious, it might be time to do a social media reset today I chat all about my 21 day challenge and the impact it had on me! 🌸 RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BE LESS ADDICTED get a brick → https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372 more ideas on breaking your addiction → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=194s 🤎 ABOUT THE PODCAST hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!! 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS The blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/ Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo Instagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/ Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo? SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
de-influencing you as a wellness girly
2026/06/16
in this video i'm de-influencing you from feeling the need to spend money in order to take care of yourself!! it costs $0 to work on your habits + routines 🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO morning menu → https://bodegoods.co/products/morning-menu-routine-template-for-canva-2 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!! 💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS The blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/ Substack →https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo Instagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/ Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/ TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo? SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo Amazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbies
2026/04/24
realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbies in this episode i'm walking you through my realistic spring reset across every area of life — we're talking goals, home refresh, food and drinks, movement, and hobbies. no overwhelm, no pressure, just simple intentional things that actually fit into real life 🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEOseasonal goal setting template → https://bodegoods.co/products/fall-go...chatbooks photo books → https://rstr.co/chatbookers/12968quince linen bedding → https://goto.quince.com/vD40yN🤎 ABOUT THE PODCASThi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood, food and drinks, and all the little things that make ordinary days feel good. 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → victoriaharderxo.comsubstack → substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → instagram.com/victoriaharderxopodcast → instagram.com/hotmesshabitstiktok → tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo

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Emthegem_ 2024/11/06
Best new podcast
These are the types of conversations us type b girlies need!! I will never stop sharing this podcast with my friends and on social media!!
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Madi Williams 2024/10/08
In LOVE!
I have listened to so many productivity/goal podcasts and this is the only one that keeps my attention! I love how Victoria actually tries to give sol...
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Emily5524 2024/10/06
Hot mess habit superstar!
Hey, girlies! I have been following Victoria for a while now. I’m so grateful she started a podcast/YT. You definitely need to listen to it if you ha...
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Rachel’s version 2024/10/04
A Podcast for type b ?! Yes please! 🙏🏼 🤭🩷
Discovered Victoria on TikTok about a year ago and was so excited that she made a podcast!! If you’re a type b, hot mess girly or guy this is the podc...
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