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2024/09/16
Latest episode
2026/09/25
Average duration
29 min.
Release period
12 days
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HOT MESS HABITS is the podcast for the high achieving, want to be organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. each week we chat about habits, routines and current obsessions for the everyday, type b girl. hosted by Victoria Harder, new episodes every monday
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the most unexpected way to use google calendar (adhd / mom edition)
2026/09/25
google calendar isn't just for business bros!!!
SET UP YOUR GOOGLE CAL HERE: https://youtu.be/CPCWg1lCYH0?si=R0Ljw9hBQA0IkyZo
TIME STAMPS
0:00 WHY YOU NEED GOOGLE CALENDAR
1:39 where to see the breakdown of the colours
1:50 the different system to using google calendar
4:35 the categories
6:50 the colours / birds eye view
8:08 you need to create re-occurring events
10:15 schedule your brain tasks
11:46 syncing across devices
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DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy
MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
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🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:
FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60
MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide
🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:
microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp
taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356
slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo
tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
music license: MB01VL8DJDLXHMM
married to an adhd girly: type A husband's perspective
2026/09/17
FIRST GUEST EPISODE SAY HI TO LEVI!!
today we chat all about productivity, wellness + what real marriage looks like with adhd and being different!
🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:
DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy
MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023
ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo
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🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:
FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60
MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide
🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:
microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp
taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356
slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo
tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
50 FALL BUCKET LIST IDEAS
2026/09/09
it's cozy girl fall!!! welcome to this weeks episode, covering all things COZY FALL!
MENTIONED IN THE EP:
fall spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2lZgd8cTFkiO6kTKQWnaxS?si=c758efddf5474d27
fall bucket list: https://bodegoods.co/products/fall-goal-setting-template-canva-template
TIMESTAMPS:
1:20 - write bucket list
2:08 - rewatch fall movie
5:35 - build out fall curriculum
6:32 - make a fall playlist
7:05 - go visit pumpkin patch
8:00 - make space cozall
8:56 - go out into nature or on a nice drive.
9:27 - backyard fire with smores and hot chocolate
10:04 - hot coffee on the deck
10:40 - fall family photos
11:19 - change your hair
12:02 - make pumpkin loaf
13:14 - make most of cozy evening
14:00 - clay magnets
14:33 - rewatch Harry Potter
15:19 - hosting fall swap
16:00 - soup season
17:03 - bake a pie
17:23 - make apple crisp
18:32 - thrifting
20:00 - cute pair of leather boots
20:57 - cozy hobbies 1) journaling 2) colouring 3) snail mail
22:06 - fall shopping refresh
23:23 - hosting a book club
24:11 - perfect evening routine
24:39 - start new cleaning schedule
25:15 - host a games night
26:52 - go camping
27:59 - buying a physical book
28:30 - outdoor movie
28:48 - make a boo basket
29:57 - make scrunchies
30:25 - ambiance videos on your tv
31:05 - go to bath and body works
31:47 - play in leaves with kids
32:45 - apple stamping
33:12 - can apple sauce and butter
33:25 - carving pumpkins
33:50 - look for fall events in community
34:27 - buy themed pillsbury for movie night
34:48 - pizza pumpkin
34:58 - go to new cozy town
35:26 - new pair of slippers
35:43 - get fall tea
35:48 - do fall morning with kids and friends
🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:
DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy
MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023
ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo
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🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:
FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60
MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide
🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:
microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp
taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356
slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo
tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
sub count: 7430
ultimate fall reset guide: get your life together this fall | habits & routines for type b girlies
2026/09/02
If you're craving a fresh start, a little motivation, and a plan for getting your life back in order this season, this episode is for you. 🍂 it's time to get our lives together!!! i love a fresh season and what better way to kick off september than a full life reset
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 updates
8:35 - clean everyday bag
9:19 - declutter 10 items from home
10:10 - restock season!!
12:35 - digital life
14:34 - notifications
15:42 - take screen time action
16:25 - use reminder app for grocery list
17:30 - make meal plan steps
21:55 - fall bucket list (COMING SOON)
other videos in the get your life together series:
why you're not consistent: https://youtu.be/9Ygts0Aaz0g
7 habits & systems to implement today: https://youtu.be/g4BxU1tZQMM
why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s
🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:
DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy
MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023
ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo
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🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:
FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60
MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide
🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:
microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp
taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356
slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo
tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER *BEFORE* FALL BEGINS (realistic reset)
2026/08/25
If you're craving a fresh start, a little motivation, and a plan for getting your life back in order, this episode is for you. 🍂
JOIN THE GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER CHALLENGE (LAST DAY TO JOIN!): https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n
In today's episode:
- how to do a simple life audit
- the power of a good brain dump
- my new "open loop" system (that is actually working)
- creating a realistic bare-minimum plan
- getting your home and routines ready for fall
- why it's never too early to start planning for the holidays
- how to actually make your goals happen before the end of the year!!
other videos to in the get your life together series:
why you're not consistent:
https://youtu.be/9Ygts0Aaz0g
7 habits & systems to implement today: https://youtu.be/g4BxU1tZQMM
why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s
🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:
DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy
MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023
ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo
BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372
💫 DISCOUNTS:
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10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372
FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361
CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36
🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:
FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60
MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide
🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:
microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp
taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356
slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo
tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
7 HABITS & SYSTEMS THAT KEEP ME SANE (that you can *actually* do) | get your life together week two
2026/08/18
WELCOME to the three episode series all about getting your life together before the fall! Make sure you sign up to join us for the FREE get your life together challenge here: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n
today we unpack some actual *REALISTIC* habits + systems that keep me sane as a chaotic-leaning, adhd, type b girly.
other videos to WATCH NEXT:
how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s
wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s
why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s
🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:
DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy
MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023
ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo
BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372
💫 DISCOUNTS:
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10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372
FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361
CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36
🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:
FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60
MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide
🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:
microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp
taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356
slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo
tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
music license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
this is why you're not consistent | get your life together week one
2026/08/11
WELCOME to the three episode series all about getting your life together before the fall! Make sure you sign up to join us for the FREE get your life together challenge here: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n
today we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other side
today we unpack WHY you struggle so much to be consistent, and more importantly, how we can *realistically* push through to come out on the other sideother videos to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01ZDXJ35YULC9
JULY FAVORITES | the odyssey, hyperfixation snacks, the thing i've used since high school + MORE
2026/08/07
PLS tell me you like this format of episode!!
This is week 5 (?) of being consistent posting the podcast + also switching up some of my episode types: I am trying to be more unfiltered and CONSISTENT! lmk how you like!
today we chat all about everything I was obsessing about in July
make sure you sign up for the "get your life together challenge" happening this month: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/hfarwj9p5n
other realistic episodes to WATCH NEXT: how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770swellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48swhy you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmyMONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxoBRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372💫 DISCOUNTS:ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canvaBUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmptaylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → https://victoriaharderxo.com/substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxotiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxomusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
7 HEALTHY PHONE HABITS TO BREAK YOUR ADDICTION
2026/08/01
this is the year we end our phone addiction!!!
GET YOUR BRICK NOW (not sponsored, just listen to the episode to hear why I love it): https://getbrick.app/VICTORIA84372
GET THE FULL DIGITAL DETOX GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/how-to-get-unaddicted-to-your-phone
if you’re tired of feeling anxious, overstimulated, distracted and constantly pulled toward your phone, this episode is for you.
we are covering:
- realistic and attainable ways to actually break our phone addiction
- why it is so important WHEN we scroll
- the best iphone feature for phone addiction
- why i love the brick so much (and my fave new feature!)
- the thing that can be missing from the screen time conversation
TIMESTAMPS:
0:53 guilt isn't a strong enough motivator, but it is telling you something
11:06 why it is so important WHEN you scroll
12:40 the BEST new brick feature
14:24 not giving into excuses
16:17 fave iphone feature: greyscale
17:40 practice leaving phone in other room
18:46 self awareness of when your phone becomes a coping mechanism
21:19 no phone policy at the table
22:33 guide to detoxing
other realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT:
how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s
wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s
why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s
🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:
DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy
MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023
ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo
BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372
💫 DISCOUNTS:
ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo
10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372
FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361
CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36
🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:
FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60
MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide
🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:
microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp
taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356
slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo
tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
sub count: 7180
your guide to a MIDYEAR RESET (refreshing goals, redefining productivity, type b pep-talk!!)
2026/07/23
we still have SO MUCH TIME! if you haven't looked at your goals, habits + routines in a while, this is your motivation!
today we cover:
- why we need to take the time to check in (especially if you have adhd)
- why we need to shift our view of productivity
- HOW to actually accomplish our goals
- redefining our schedule + taking action
this episode is for:
🤎 for the type b moms
💻 for the work-from-home girlies
🧠 for the adhd brains
✨ for the recovering perfectionist / eldest daughter
TIMESTAMPS:
1:46: life updates: odyssey + family vacay
8:40: why does a mid-year reset even matter
13:10: does every goal needs to be productive??
15:05: check in with your goals
17:19: my examples of goals I had to shift
22:50: start with HIGH IMPACT low effort
26:44: hosting free challenge!! outro
other realistic productivity episodes to WATCH NEXT:
how to plan your week as a type b girly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXjY1J799R8&t=770s
wellness should cost you $0: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cq4LQZ50Hc&t=48s
why you never finish your to-do list: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7ueqgmeGig&t=1s
🍊 WELLNESS FAVES:
DAILY PLANNER NOTEPAD: https://bodegoods.co/products/daily-planning-notepad-entrepreneur-wfh-task-list?utm_source=shopmy
MONTHLY DESKTOP CALENDAR TEMPLATE: https://bodegoods.co/products/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
ICED COFFEE CUP: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14534023
ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo
BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372
💫 DISCOUNTS:
ULTRAHUMAN RING (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo
10% OFF BRICK: https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372
FAVE SELF TANNER (use code VICTORIAHARDERXO): https://go.shopmy.us/p-26716361
CHATBOOKS PHOTOBOOKS (USE CODE VICTORIAHARDER): https://chatbooks.com/?rstr=12968&ls=whs&utm_source=Roster&utm_medium=victoria-harder-12968&utm_campaign=OrganicReferral&rcid=69047123-5f2f-45bf-96e3-57911d591b36
🦢 HOT MESS HABITS DIGITAL PRODUCTS:
FREE GOOGLE CALENDAR MINI GUIDE: https://victoriahardercreative.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60
MONTHLY DESKTOP WALLPAPER: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/monthly-calendar-template-for-canva
BUTTER MOM SUMMER GUIDE: https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide
🎙️ PODCAST SET UP:
microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp
taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-8007356
slow down you're doing fine: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11708180
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood 🌸
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
website → https://victoriaharderxo.com/
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
instagram → https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo
tiktok → https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
THINGS I FIND INCREDIBLY CHIC AS A TYPE B MOM
2026/07/18
my ultimate list of things I find incredibly chic as a type b mom!! lmk if you can relate or have any to add!
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 PODCAST UPDATES
15:30 having a cute diaper bag
17:20 grocery pick up
19:20 pouches to organize
22:35 having a key attachment on bag
23:22 having nice claw clip
24:16 hot beverage early morning
25:33 baby wearing
26:04 no shame over restarting and picking back up
27:30 having pedicure
30:20 drink hot tea
31:27 vibey evening routine
34:27 car stocked with must haves
36:00 being a chugger not sipper
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNELhi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSThe blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxoInstagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxosubstack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxoAmazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreativemusic license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOTsub count: 7160
HOW TO HAVE A BUTTER MOM SUMMER
2026/07/09
OKAY if you are ready for a butter mom summer, this episode is for you 🧈
we're breaking down how to be present, intentional, and have the most wholesome + whimsical summer with your kids (and yourself) — how to get off your phone, document more, and actually make a plan so you're not looking back in september wondering where the summer went. grab a coffee and let's get into it 🌸
🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO
🧈 butter mom summer guide (paid playbook): https://stan.store/victoriaharderxo/p/the-butter-mom-summer-guide
📵 the brick (my phone detox device) — https://getbrick.com/?snowball=VICTORIA84372
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi i'm victoria, host of hot mess habits 🍓 this is a space for type b moms who want realistic habits + routines without the pressure of doing it perfectly. we talk motherhood, food + fun drinks, dream lifestyle, productivity + just generally trying to get our lives together!!
new episodes weekly 🩰
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
instagram: @hotmesshabits + @victoriaharderxo
tiktok: @victoriaharderxo
substack: victoriaharderxo.substack.com
podcast: hot mess habits on apple + spotify
blog: victoriaharderxo.com
shop: victoriaharderxo.com/shop
shopmy: shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo
amazon (ca): amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative
music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
21 days without social media (breaking my scrolling addiction)
2026/06/24
this video is NOT sponsored but I do love & highly recommend brick: https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372
if you are feeling like you cannot stop scrolling, are getting iriratated with your kids, are constantly anxious, it might be time to do a social media reset
today I chat all about my 21 day challenge and the impact it had on me!
🌸 RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BE LESS ADDICTED
get a brick → https://www.getbrick.com/VICTORIA84372
more ideas on breaking your addiction → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=194s
🤎 ABOUT THE PODCAST
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
The blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/
Substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
Instagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/
Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/
TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?
SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo
Amazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative
music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
de-influencing you as a wellness girly
2026/06/16
in this video i'm de-influencing you from feeling the need to spend money in order to take care of yourself!! it costs $0 to work on your habits + routines
🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO
morning menu → https://bodegoods.co/products/morning-menu-routine-template-for-canva-2
🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL
hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood + building a life we are proud of!!
💫 LET'S BE FRIENDS
The blog →https://victoriaharderxo.com/
Substack →https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo
Instagram→ https://www.instagram.com/victoriaharderxo/
Podcast Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/hotmesshabits/
TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
substack → https://substack.com/@victoriaharderxo?
SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo
Amazon Canada storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoriacreative
music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT
realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbies
2026/04/24
realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbies
in this episode i'm walking you through my realistic spring reset across every area of life — we're talking goals, home refresh, food and drinks, movement, and hobbies. no overwhelm, no pressure, just simple intentional things that actually fit into real life
🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEOseasonal goal setting template → https://bodegoods.co/products/fall-go...chatbooks photo books → https://rstr.co/chatbookers/12968quince linen bedding → https://goto.quince.com/vD40yN🤎 ABOUT THE PODCASThi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my corner of the internet for women who want to romanticize their everyday life without the pressure of having it all together. expect real talk on habits and routines, cozy lifestyle, honest motherhood, food and drinks, and all the little things that make ordinary days feel good. 🌸💫 LET'S BE FRIENDSwebsite → victoriaharderxo.comsubstack → substack.com/@victoriaharderxoinstagram → instagram.com/victoriaharderxopodcast → instagram.com/hotmesshabitstiktok → tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo
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Emthegem_ 2024/11/06
Best new podcast
These are the types of conversations us type b girlies need!! I will never stop sharing this podcast with my friends and on social media!!
Madi Williams 2024/10/08
In LOVE!
I have listened to so many productivity/goal podcasts and this is the only one that keeps my attention! I love how Victoria actually tries to give sol...
Emily5524 2024/10/06
Hot mess habit superstar!
Hey, girlies!
I have been following Victoria for a while now. I’m so grateful she started a podcast/YT. You definitely need to listen to it if you ha...
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A Podcast for type b ?! Yes please! 🙏🏼 🤭🩷
Discovered Victoria on TikTok about a year ago and was so excited that she made a podcast!! If you’re a type b, hot mess girly or guy this is the podc...