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Dirty Secrets Ep 058 “Taylor Vixxen – Corporate Life, Hotwife Marriage & Wild Requests” Taylor Vixxen spent almost 20 years climbing the corporate ladder before deciding she’d rather start living out the fantasies she’d been keeping behind closed doors. 😈 We talk about going from finance executive to adult performer, her hotwife marriage, swinger clubs, picking up younger guys in Vegas, being dominant with women and submissive with men, her boundaries on set, and some of the wildest custom requests she’s ever received. One involved faking an entire heart attack for a cardiovascular surgeon. Yes. Really. And just when I thought THAT was going to be the craziest story, Taylor gives me a dirty secret involving a very hot boxer from her gym, a swinger club, performance anxiety and something she just happened to have in her bag that saved the night. 😂 Trust me, stay for the ending. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @

Dirty Secrets Ep 057 “Derek Kage – From the DOD to Adult Films” Derek Kage went from working for the Department of Defense to becoming an award-winning adult performer… and somehow that’s only the beginning of this story. Derek opens up about growing up gay in Alabama, living two completely different lives while working in D.C., and why walking away from the stable career everyone told him to keep ultimately changed his life. We also get into his accidental first studio scene, being “straight for pay,” the shame men attach to certain fantasies, why there shouldn’t be a rulebook for intimacy, and what working with men, women and trans performers has taught him about communication. Plus, BDSM, voyeurism, pegging, monster fantasies and one VERY memorable dirty secret from Germany. This conversation goes places. 😂 @DirtySecretsPodcast @kateShelor @derek_kage

Dirty Secrets Ep 056 “Ray Ray - Hotwife Life & The Woman Chasing 100” Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Ray Ray Most people have a bucket list. Ray Ray has a goal of sleeping with 100 men... in one day. 😳 Known as the "Queen of the Gang Bang," Ray Ray pulls back the curtain on what really goes into organizing an event with 80 men, why she does it for the challenge instead of the camera, and the surprising athletic mindset behind pushing herself to the limit. We also talk about ethical non-monogamy, life with her husband, why mainstream adult scenes are nothing like real sex, and how she's building a brand around cinematic storytelling instead of shock value. Whether you're curious, skeptical, or just fascinated, this conversation is funny, thoughtful, and unlike anything you've heard before. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @TheRTrain

Dirty Secrets Ep 054 “Missy Davis – Nip Slip Fame, Monogamish Marriage & The Truth” One accidental TikTok nip slip changed Missy Davis' life forever... and somehow TikTok never even took it down. 😏 In this episode, Missy shares how a viral moment led her into OnlyFans, the emotional journey of telling her parents what she really does for a living, and why getting caught forced her to finally stop living a double life. We also dive into monogamish relationships, stag/vixen dynamics, play parties, and the biggest misconceptions people have about ethical non-monogamy. Plus, hear the hilarious story of the Barbie-themed play party that completely changed her perspective on intimacy, and why a kiss turned out to be more controversial than everything that came after. Come laugh with us... and maybe question a few things you thought you knew. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @Missfitdavis

Dirty Secrets Ep 054 “Oh Olivia – Fired for OnlyFans, Teacher by Day & Finding Her Freedom” Imagine spending 22 years as a respected special education teacher... then losing your career because someone paid to see your OnlyFans. Oh Olivia opens up about the day everything changed, how her husband encouraged her to start creating content, and why revealing her face behind the paywall ultimately cost her the job she'd loved for decades. Then we get into the fun stuff... Her first-ever boy-girl scene after being with only her husband for 27 years, filming six scenes during her very first creator weekend, embracing her hypersexual side after a lifetime of religious shame, and why she's now checking off "firsts" she never imagined she'd experience. Plus, we talk hotwife fantasies, group scenes, flirting as a love language, and the surprisingly naughty experience that may have opened the door to a whole new kink. 👑 Host: @thekatykat @thekatykatvip Guest: @oh_olivia_xoxo @Therealoholivia

Dirty Secrets Ep 0453 “Momma B & Vanna – The Mother-Daughter OnlyFans Conversation Everyone's Talking About” A mother and daughter... both successful content creators... and both willing to answer the questions everyone else is too afraid to ask. In this unforgettable episode, Momma B and Vanna Rose open up about how Vanna was actually the one who encouraged her mom to join OnlyFans, why they refuse to create adult content together despite constant assumptions, and how they navigate an industry that most people completely misunderstand. We also talk about confidence after 40, leaving toxic relationships, life as a dancer versus content creator, dating inside the adult industry, BDSM, dominance versus submission, body confidence, family boundaries, and why genuine personality matters more than perfection online. It's funny, emotional, surprisingly wholesome at times, and packed with stories you've definitely never heard before. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @vannarosetv @mommabombshell

Dirty Secrets Ep 052 Sophia Locke – Porn Myths, Dating Disasters & Chasing the Edge What happens when a hypersexual thrill-seeker turns her curiosity into a 16-year career in the adult industry? Sophia Locke joins me for one of the most fascinating conversations we've had yet. We talk about the biggest myths people believe about porn, why porn performers are often better lovers than civilians, and how dating gets surprisingly complicated when your job involves sex. We also dive into BDSM, fear play, power dynamics, the reality of filming adult scenes, and why Sophia says she's gone from chasing extreme experiences to craving intimacy and connection. Plus, we get into awkward dating stories, jealous partners, dominant men who aren't actually dominant, and how a lifelong exhibitionist eventually found peace in being exactly who she is. This one is funny, honest, thought-provoking, and absolutely unforgettable. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @sophiavincentmusic

Dirty Secrets Ep 051 “Sofie Marie – Hotwife Dates, 30-Man Gangbangs & The Husband Who Drops Her Off” Most husbands get nervous when their wife goes on a date with another man. Sofie Marie’s husband drives her there. 😏 In this episode, Sofie shares how a former nanny ended up becoming an adult creator, hotwife, and swinger with a husband who absolutely loves hearing every juicy detail afterward. We talk about first-date butterflies, navigating open relationships, and the surprisingly sweet rituals they’ve built around their lifestyle. We also dive into the logistics of organizing a 30-man g******g, the reality behind hotwife dating, and why Sofie still gets nervous meeting new people, even after years in the industry. And wait until you hear what happens when she gets home from a date... @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @YummyGirlphotography

🎙️ Ep 050 – Amanda the Kink Consultant – Dom/Sub Truths, Male Submission & Kink Myths Dirty Secrets Ep 050 So… what if your partner is kinky and you’re not? Or worse—you are kinky and have no idea how to say it out loud? 😏 Amanda the Kink Consultant is breaking it ALL down. We talk about how to actually start that conversation (hint: it’s not “I want to be spanked”), why male submission is way more common than people think, and what dominance really looks like beyond whips and chains. We also get into power dynamics, the psychology behind kink, and why consent—not intensity—is what separates sexy from scary. And yes… we go there with hypnotherapy, punishment fantasies, and the real truth about 50 Shades. This one’s eye-opening, smart, and just the right amount of spicy. Come play. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @the_kinkconsultant

Dirty Secrets Ep 049 Ash & Tanya – Swinger Clubs, Reality TV Drama & LifestyleRules 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Ash & Tanya What happens when a random night out turns into a full-blown swinger lifestyle… and then lands you on reality TV? 😏 Ash & Tanya share how one unexpected question sparked their journey, how they found a club four minutes from their house, and why their first experiences were equal parts hot and chaotic (wait until you hear the Viagra story…). We get into the real rules that make swinging work, how to avoid resentment, and why “don’t take one for the team” might be the most important advice you’ll ever hear. Plus, their reality TV experience where producers literally tried to mess with their relationship for entertainment… yeah, it’s wild. Come laugh with us. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @ashandtanya

Dirty Secrets Ep 048 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Jaimie Smiles She went from “normal mom next door” to confidently owning her sexuality… and it all started during COVID. Jaimie Smiles opens up about her glow-up journey, how losing weight and gaining attention sparked something new, and the moment her husband casually said, “I made you an OnlyFans.” 😳 We get into hotwife dynamics (and what people totally misunderstand about them), the rules that actually make it work, and how their relationship evolved from private exploration to filming content together. We also talk about confidence, staying grounded while building a following, and why she still sees herself as just a chill, normal girl… who happens to love putting on a show. Plus, a convo about orgasms, expectations, and why sex doesn’t always need a grand finale. @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @jaimiesmiles

Dirty Secrets Ep 047 “Chris Petrone – “Captain Tampon,” Dating Advice & Why Men Need to Wash Their Ass” 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Chris Petrone Is washing your ass… controversial now? Apparently, yes. 😳 Chris Petrone joins me to talk about going from dating advice guy to creating spicy content, and the unexpected backlash that comes with it. We get into parasocial fans who think they know you, why being respectful to women gets you labeled “Captain Tampon,” and the wild DMs he gets (from both men and women). We also talk about porn vs real-life sex, why connection beats technique every time, and how something as simple as communication can completely change your sex life. Plus, wait until you hear the custom request involving a cartoon cow… I wish I was kidding. This one’s funny, honest, and low-key educational in the best way. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @ChrisPetrone

Dirty Secrets Ep 046 “Mallory Knight – Starting OnlyFans at 57, Dommy MommyEnergy & Swinger Stories” Most people think the adult industry is a young person’s game. Mallory Knight started her career at 57. In this episode, Mallory shares how curiosity, a supportive husband, and one intriguing conversation led her into OnlyFans later in life—and why she’s loved every minute of it since. We talk about her years in the swinger lifestyle, the surprising dynamics of filming scenes while staying happily married, and how editing her own content sometimes leaves her a little… turned on. We also dive into her “goddess dommy mommy” persona, why younger fans are drawn to nurturing dominance, and the strange but fascinating custom content requests creators get. Plus, the story of the night her husband encouraged her to invite a stranger from a strip club back home… and what happened next. Host: @thekatykat @thekatykatvip Guest: @mallorykxoxo

DirtySecrets Ep 045 “Justine Jakobs – Porn Prep Secrets, Deep-Throat Tricks & Dating While Filming” What does it really take to perform in professional adult films? In this episode, Justine Jakobs gets real about what life on a porn set is actually like. From the intense physical demands of filming to the surprising behind-the-scenes prep routines, she shares stories that most people never hear about. We talk about the differences between OnlyFans collabs and professional porn sets, how performers prepare their bodies before scenes, and the reality of filming long days while staying energized and camera-ready. Justine also opens up about starting porn in her 40s, navigating relationships while working in the industry, and why professionalism and awareness matter so much on set. Plus, she shares some wild on-set secrets, the techniques performers use to master certain scenes, and a personal story about finally testing out a fantasy she’d only seen in massage videos. This conversation is funny, honest, and full of behind-the-curtain insights into a world most people only see through a screen. YouTube: @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor Follow @thekatykat @justinejakobs

Dirty Secrets Ep 044 “Mrs. Englewood – Swinger Clubs, Glory Hole Stories & 20 Years in Adult” What happens when a casual wine night turns into a 20-year career in adult content? Mrs. Englewood joins me in bed to talk about how she went from “girl next door” on early adult websites to a modern creator navigating OnlyFans, lifestyle clubs, and the wild evolution of the industry. We get into how adult content has changed since 2005, why personality matters more than just showing skin, and what it’s like building a career while maintaining real relationships. We also dive into swinger clubs, lifestyle etiquette, dating after divorce, and the surprisingly sweet side of the adult community. And of course… her dirty secret involves a pair of hidden panties, a bookstore scavenger hunt, and a very determined former pro athlete. This one is funny, honest, and full of stories you definitely didn’t hear in health class. Follow our guest and the show below 👇 YouTube: @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor Follow @thekatykat @MrsEnglewood