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Dirty Secrets Ep 042 “Barefoot Mama – Getting Recognized, Collab Chaos & Ranch on Her Feet” 🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Barefoot Mama (@@barefootmamamn) She got recognized in a Vegas restaurant by a woman screaming, “You’re that b*tch my husband pays for.” And honestly? She kind of loved it. This episode is WILD—in the best way. Barefoot Mama (aka Jen) shares how she went from child protection investigator to viral TikToker to full-blown adult content creator. We talk about secret OnlyFans launches, collab house drama, fisting injuries (yep), gangbang goals, and what it’s really like filming back-to-back scenes with strangers. She opens up about racism in the industry, dating disasters, feet in ranch dressing, and the pressure to be emotionally available to men while getting railed on camera. You’ve never heard a Minnesota girl tell it quite like this. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @@barefootmamamn Bone on a Zamboni, anyone?

Dirty Secrets Ep 041 “Lauren Elise Rogers – Purity Culture, Secret Fantasies & Escaping Shame”   Ever tried to go from “don’t touch yourself” to “be a sex goddess overnight”? Yeah... it doesn’t exactly work. Lauren Elise Rogers was raised in deep evangelical purity culture, married a man who later came out as gay, and spent years untangling shame from her sexuality. Now? She’s a sex educator on a mission. We go deep on obligatory sex, religious guilt, post-divorce horniness, and why masturbation was her ultimate act of rebellion. Lauren shares her fantasies (hello, teacher/student), the therapy that saved her, and what purity culture really does to long-term relationships. If you were raised to feel bad about pleasure—or still can’t shake that inner guilt—you’re going to love this one. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @laureneliserogers

Dirty Secrets Ep 040 “Coy Wilder – Stranger Videos, Open-ish Marriage & Getting Caught Kissing” Coy Wilder spills everything—from her wild past filming real-life “stranger” encounters to her unapologetically hot cheating wife fantasy series. In this no-filter convo, Coy opens up about being raised in a small Southern town, how OnlyF’s cost her friendships and family, and why getting “caught” is still her favorite thrill. Kate and Coy dive into cuck dynamics, kissing boundaries (that went too far), and how her husband went from jealous to fully supportive… well, sort of. They talk about collabs, content, and the unexpected reality of filming sex for a living—like when Coy squirted on the cameraman from 20 feet away. If you’ve ever wondered what really goes down behind those stranger video titles or how to balance a hotwife fantasy with real-life love, Coy doesn’t hold anything back. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @officiallycoywilder

🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brooke Ryan (@brookebanter) & Coy Wilder (@officiallycoywilder) (OF @brooke_lovelydd @brookeryanvip @coywilderxxx @coywilder) Besties turned collab queens! Brooke and Coy open up about how they met in a creator house, went down on each other on day one, and never looked back. They talk about the blurred lines between friendship and intimacy, how collabs turned into sleepovers, and why their chemistry has fans begging for more. From strap-on 3somes and FaceTime cuck vids to live cam parties with double “come shows,” nothing is off-limits. They dive into orgy logistics, DILF preferences, and their most popular toys—plus, how preheating the oven is essential before getting wrecked on camera. They’re funny, flirty, and maybe in a full-blown relationship. But don’t worry, it’s still non-monogamous and profitable. @DirtySecretsPodcast@KateShelor @brookebanter @officiallycoywilder OF @brooke_lovelydd @brookeryanvip @coywilderxxx @coywilder

Dirty Secrets Ep 038 “Brooke Ryan – Banking by Day, D*ck Ratings by Night” 🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brooke Ryan (@brookebanter) What happens when a conservative corporate banker discovers the wild world of OnlyF’s? Brooke Ryan tells all—from launching her secret no-face account duringthe pandemic to finally going full-face and full-throttle. Kate and Brooke talk about transitioning from buttoned-up banking to live cm shows, what makes a good dck pic (hint: it’s not size), and how dirty fingernails can ruin everything. Brooke also opens up about her late-blooming sxual confidence, her first squirting experience, why she prefers girth over length, and the emotional balance of humiliation customs and girly collabs. This episode is full of charm, surprise, and juicy behind-the-scenes life from one of the most likable content creatorsaround. @DirtySecretsPodcast@KateShelor @brookebanter

Dirty Secrets Ep 037 “Autumn Rain – Fetish Fame, Trans Porn & Cosplay Confessions” Dirty Secrets Ep 037 – 🎙️ Autumn Rain – Fetish Fame,Trans Porn & Cosplay Confessions Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Autumn Rain (@awwtumdabottom) Autumn Rain joins Kate to talk about how she went from pharmacy tech to viral trans adult film star—thanks to a Grindr hookup and a rebellious streak. They dive into what it’s like navigating the porn world as a trans woman, finding kinky community through FetLife, and why being a switch comes with unexpected challenges when everyone wants her to dom. Autumn shares stories about cosplay scenes, customs she’s tired of faking, and why topping cis women is her favorite kind of shoot (hint: no prep required). They also go deep on gender identity, hormones, and why tongue tricks and lip fetishes are more important than you think. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @awwtumduck

DirtySecrets Ep 036 “Vic Lagina – Brazzers, Burnout, and the Dark Side of Mainstream P*rn Dirty Secrets Ep 036 – 🎙️ Vic Lagina – Brazzers,Burnout, and the Dark Side of Mainstream P*rn 🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Vic Lagina (@viclagina) What really happens behind the scenes of the biggest p*rn empire in the world? Director and producer Vic Lagina opens up about his 20-year career with Brazzers—sharing how it all started with a chaotic crack-fueled first shoot and spiraled into becoming the workhorse behind one of the industry's biggest brands. Vic gets brutally honest about burnout, insane scene requests (elevator sex and prolapse stories included), and why the industry is more about ad clicks than pleasure. They dive deep into the Me Too era, performer boundaries, and what led Vic to finally walk away after decades on top. This is a raw, unfiltered look at the rise and fall of one man’s love affair with adult films—and the toll it took along the way. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @viclagina

Dirty Secrets Ep 035 “Phoenix Marie – 3,000 Scenes, Porn Politics & the Truth About Gang Bangs” Dirty Secrets Ep 035 – 🎙️ Phoenix Marie – 3,000 Scenes,Porn Politics & the Truth About Gang Bangs Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Phoenix Marie (@PMarizzle) Legendary adult film icon Phoenix Marie joins Kate for a raw, hilarious, and unfiltered conversation about what it’s really like after filming 3,000+ scenes. From AVN Hall of Fame to calling out the fakes, Phoenix opens up about her preferences, orgasms, and why she’s never done a gang bang (despite being airtight more than once). They get real about industry myths, the evolution of s*x work, and the power dynamics on set—plus behind-the-scenes drama, strap-on struggles, and being cum-drunk for five hours. Also joining is former director Vic Lagina, who dishes on porn’s glory days, male talent mishaps, and why being a “Pornasaurus” still has perks. @DirtySecretsPodcast@KateShelor @PMarizzle

Dirty Secrets Ep 034 “Bad Bella – Boob Jobs, Sex Wrestling & Anal Prep Diaries” Dirty Secrets Ep 034 – 🎙️ Bad Bella – Boob Jobs, SexWrestling & Anal Prep Diaries Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Bad Bella (@badbellaxo) She’s got 1,000cc boobs, a psychology degree, and a wrestling scene with over a million views—and she’s just getting started. Bad Bella talks with Kate about her journey from Catholic school MySpace rebel to top 0% creator on OnlyF’s. From accidental boob jobs and feature dancing to why she’s finally prepping for her first anal scene (spoiler: she’s got a 12.5-inch dildo), Bella spills it all. They dive into live show secrets, crazy content requests, and how being self-managed means she works harder than anyone to keep her fans fed. This episode is full of outrageous stories, big laughs, and real talk about what it takes to stay at the top in adult entertainment. Follow @badbellaxo for more from this unfiltered powerhouse. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @badbellaxo

Dirty Secrets Ep 033 “Mae Ling – Ball-Busting & Turning Subs Into Better Men” 🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Mae Ling (@adorabledomme) Mae Ling is a professional dominatrix—and she’s not here to sugarcoat it. In this wild episode, she and Kate talk about everything from early morning ball-busting sessions to cuck fantasies, and why some men beg to be used likefurniture. But it’s not all shock and awe. Mae explains the emotional layers behind kink, how she uses domination to help subs better themselves, and the unique bond formed through mindful sensuality. She even shares how she discovered power dynamics through bisexual play, saline breast inflation, and a very unexpected moment involving a strawberry and a 70-year-old man. Follow @adorabledomme for more of Mae’s mind-bending adventures in pleasure and power. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @adorabledomme

Dirty Secrets Ep 032 “Brittany Williams – Voyeurism, BJ Bars, and Lifestyle Confidence” Dirty Secrets Ep 032 – 🎙️ BrittanyWilliams – Voyeurism, BJ Bars, and Lifestyle Confidence DirtySecrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brittany Williams (@litebritenation) What happens when an off-road influencer finds herself at the center of a playroom on a swingers cruise? Brittany Williams opens up about her wildest adventures, including unexpected public play, her bisexuality, and why voyeurism turned out to be her favorite surprise turn-on. From threesomes with her husband to surprise bar hook-ups and sexy lifestyle parties, Brittany shares what really goes down at these adults-only events—and why she says they’ve strengthened her marriage. They also talk about sexual freedom, body confidence, and how building trust through open communication made her relationship nearly jealousy-proof. Plus, Brittany reveals her most awkward encounter with a fan... mid-trail hookup. Follow @litebritenation for more behind-the-scenes on her wild lifestyle and off-road adventures. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @litebritenation

Dirty Secrets Ep 030 “Rocky Emerson: From Gothic Giantess to Porn’s Most Unfiltered Voice” Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Rocky Emerson Rocky Emerson is 6'3", tattooed, and totally unfiltered—and in this episode, she opens up like never before. From her early days as a goth kid in Utah to becoming one of the most recognizable alt stars in adult film, Rocky shares howshe built a career on her own terms. She talks about navigating the industry as a tall, heavily tattooed performer, her love for BDSM and taboo kinks, and why she’s never been afraid to speak her mind—even when it ruffles feathers. Rocky also dives into her experiences withmental health, body image, and the challenges of being both a performer and a person with boundaries. This is a raw, honest, and often hilarious conversation with one of porn’s most compelling voices.

Dirty Secrets Ep 029 “Rebel Rhyder: Tentacle Toys & Engineering to Extreme P*rn” 🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Rebel Rhyder (@RebelRhyderXXX) Rebel Rhyder opens up about her wildest experiences in the adult world—from shooting a basketball out of her booty to organizing not one, but two g*ng b*ngs with 102 men. And yes, she shares all the jaw-dropping logistics behind those events (fluffers, wristbands, the lube situation—you name it). She and Kate get into the weirdest things she’s shoved in her a**, how she made the leap from aerospace engineer to p*rn star, and what it’s like watching her husband shoot scenes with other women while she films naked behind the camera. There’s talk of tentacle play, submissive fantasies, working with trans performers, and the secret soft spot she has for frail old men. This episode is part sex-ed, part pure chaos—and all Rebel. Follow @RebelRhyderXXX for more of her outrageous adventures and wild content.

Dirty Secrets Ep 028 “Elayna Love: Ex-Mormon Phone Sx Operator” 🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Elayna Love (@elaynalovesglamor) Kate sits down with Elayna Love, a stripper, OnlyF’s creator, and phone sx operator who opens up about her journey from devout Mormon to erotic entrepreneur. Elayna shares how she navigated the world of sx work after years of repression and shame, revealing how the stripper pole became both her stage and her fantasy. They dive into the wild world of fetishes—from nose-blowing requests to humiliating powerful men—and how she found healing through domination, roleplay, and radical self-acceptance. With raw honesty and unexpected humor, Elayna talks about climbing out of religious guilt, doing lap dances as a form of therapy, and why her “dirty secret” is thinking about pole dancing when she gets off. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like behind the scenes of NiteFlirt, strip clubs, and the real emotional journey of someone reclaiming her sexual identity—this is the episode you don’t want to miss.

Dirty Secrets Ep 027 “Carmen Valentina: 14 Guys, Wild Customs & Her No-Anal Rule” Veteran adult film star Carmen Valentina joins Kate to talk about her 16-year career in the industry, why she prefers gangbangs over 3somes, and what it’s really like on set. Carmen opens up about her first shoot off Craigslist, how she got into Hustler, and the unexpected ease of 14-man blowbangs. She dishes on why she refuses to do anal (you’ll want to hear the horror stories), how MILF roles took over her bookings, and the weirdest custom request she’s ever received. Plus, the two bond over Hitachi wands, clit sensitivity, and the dangers of cheap boob jobs. This is an unfiltered, hilarious, and brutally honest look at the adult industry—one that covers everything from SPH to the politics of AVN parties. Tune in if you’re ready to learn what porn stars really think about d*ck size, swinging, and their own high sex drives. Follow @bootyfulcarmenvalentina for more uncensored stories and sexy content. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor