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This week, we’re talking about adult ADHD and what nobody tells you after the diagnosis: the medication that had Jocelyn flipping out on people at her old job, the apology she went back and gave, and still meant, and the ADHD coaching her psychiatrist just told her exists. We also get into the birthday sail on Lake Michigan that Jocelyn paid for and he could not keep down, Gen Z telling millennials to retire, Jade’s No Child Left Behind soapbox, the follow-up to the Miami sister story, and why the word of the week is accountability. Whether you’re navigating ADHD as a grown woman, a job you already apologized to, or family that mistakes you for free childcare, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Acast Show NotesJocelyn’s psychiatrist follow-up, and the ADHD coaching she did not know existedWhat are adults who find out they have ADHD supposed to do, just cope on their own?Why sleep makes ADHD worse and ADHD makes sleep worseThe medication that had Jocelyn flipping out on people at her old job, the apology she went back and gave, and why she still meant itJocelyn’s birthday trip to Michigan, and the resort full of retireesJocelyn hates water and the beach, and paid for a sunset sail on Lake Michigan for his birthday anywaySeasick in the middle of the lake, the mints, the bag, and the eye patch pictures Jocelyn sent JadeJade’s verdict: you terrible, and I would have done the same thingTwo trainees and a fire drill on a boat somebody paid forWhy Jocelyn is convinced a cruise would be the end of her, and why Jade is going on one anywayLakes, oceans, and the California flight with grandma that started itThe 14 hour flight to South Korea Jocelyn is going to take anywayGen Z is rage baiting millennials, and Jocelyn commented twiceJocelyn thought she was Gen X because of a Spice Girls songJade is 35 and just got the management job, so what you mean retire?Outperform us and take it, and why every millennial would retire tomorrow if she couldJade’s soapbox: No Child Left Behind, no consequences, no winnersAccountability, and what the Miami sister story looks like two weeks laterJocelyn on family that manipulates you: that is just somebody you share DNA withWhy Jocelyn was the family babysitter, and what she would do if her brother pulled thisThe key word of the episode is accountabilityTeach You a Lesson on Netflix, recommended for the second time, subtitles onlyIs childfree an offensive term? Childfree vs childlessHomeless vs unhoused, and who decidedIt’s A Girl’s Perspective, not A Girl’s FactsY’all corrected us on Aladdin, and one of us still says the Genie did too muchTikTok hit 6,000, the Miami clip passed 400,000, and thank you for showing upTimestamps: 00:00 Medication Switch Talk 02:31 Behavioral Coaching Referral 04:59 Doctors Who Explain 05:49 Concerta Dose Fallout 07:28 Birthday Trip Michigan 10:04 Sailing Trip Disaster 13:55 Pirate Pics Debate 16:34 Boat Safety Complaints 18:33 Irrational Water Fears 23:48 Gen Z Rage Bait Theory 26:17 Retirement Rage Bait 27:08 Outperform Us Then 28:36 No Child Left Behind 29:22 Babysitting Gone Wrong 30:35 Accountability Over Family 35:12 Teach You a Lesson 40:11 Childfree Term Debate 42:06 Unhoused vs Homeless 45:04 Aladdin Genie Argument 49:41 Growth and Farewell Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation. #AGirlsPerspective #ADHD #VibeTribe Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're talking about student loans and what it really cost to do what everybody told millennials to do: the $99,900 Jocelyn owed on one accounting degree, the for-profit college behind most of it, the class action lawsuit, the borrower defense claim, and the day her balance dropped to $34,000. We also get into the hairstylist who told clients to stop texting when they arrive, why tips are optional, whether doctors should make more than teachers, and the Long's versus Hart's donut update Indianapolis has been asking for. Whether you're navigating student loan debt you signed for before you understood it, customer service that expects you to serve it, or a city that will pray for you over a donut opinion, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Show Notes•     A coworker who thought bugaboo was a term of endearment •     The hairstylist who told clients to stop texting when they arrive, and why Jade says the text is how you find out she is not ready •     $100 an hour, no seating area, and what stylists think customers owe them •     Jocelyn, a prescription, and a pharmacist with an attitude •     Tips are optional: Jocelyn tips well and says it anyway •     Teachers deserve more money, and teaching has always been honest about the pay •     Should doctors make more than teachers? Jade says they go to school longer, Jocelyn says the teachers are the ones teaching them •     The no zero grading policy and what a B used to be •     How college got pushed on millennials starting in elementary school, and why community college got treated like a punishment •     Ten years to graduate, every college we went to, and the Ivy Tech rule •     Jocelyn's student loan story: $99,900 on an accounting degree, two years at DeVry, the refund checks, the class action lawsuit she found on TikTok, the borrower defense claim on the federal student aid site, and the discharge that took her down to $34,000 •     Only in the USA: a viral video we are not sure is real •     The Indiana fertility doctor documentary and the part that scares Jocelyn most •     The Hart's update: Jade still has not been •     Indiana staples: King Ribs, Long's, peanut butter sandwiches with chili, fries in a Frosty, bacon donuts, and the tenderloin bigger than your head •     Uranus, Indiana is real and known for fudge •     The donut comments: Tim's, Sweet Shop, Pana, the man who wants his $2.50 back, and the Last Supper comment •     What happened when Jocelyn went back to Hart's •     Sippers vs gulpers •     Elmo vs Barney, the Big Comfy Couch, cable but not new shoes, and the radio that never turned off Timestamps:00:00 Bugaboo At Work 03:06 Hair Appointment Rants 09:37 Pharmacy Customer Service 12:39 Tipping And Job Choices 13:46 Teachers Pay Debate 19:15 College Scam Talk 24:24 Student Loan Horror Story 27:05 Borrower Defense Win 31:08 Unpredictable Friend Energy 33:40 Only In The USA Story 38:55 Hart's Update And Indiana Staples 41:40 King Ribs Debate 42:24 Midwest Food Combos 44:32 Tenderloin Madness 46:51 Indiana Is Foolish 49:57 Donut Shop Recs 51:17 Longs Comment Wars 59:30 Hartz Love Story 01:03:14 Weight And Hormones 01:06:43 Wrap Up And Plugs 01:07:45 Elmo Vs Barney 01:10:46 Grandma TV Memories 01:13:31 Final Goodbye Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're talking about Black hair and everything we went through to have it: the relaxer that burned and the beautician who said tell me when you feel it, the salon Saturdays that took the whole day, the big chop, sisterlocks, and the little boy who thinks moms are supposed to have hair. Also on the table: screenshot everything your boss tells you, the report nobody mentioned until it was due, the genie being a bad influence on Aladdin, and a photographer who says she loves our people but can't show you one of us. Whether you're still giving the salon your Saturdays, wondering if your loctician should have this much say, or just tired of explaining your hair to people who don't have to deal with it, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Acast Show Notes•     Two weeks without staff, a report nobody mentioned until it was due, and the whole commercial book of business •     Dropping the ball on purpose versus owning the part that was actually yours •     Screenshot everything: dated, filed by person, meeting minutes in a separate folder •     When Jade leaves a job, the spirit already told her •     Everybody Hates Chris, the Chris Rock debate, and whether anybody remembers he was the zebra in Madagascar •     Happy Feet, the Prince soundtrack, and Robin Williams •     Nothing tops Aladdin, and the genie was a bad influence •     Vincenzo and villains who are geniuses until it's time to be geniuses •     Outdoor shoots available weekdays only, closed Monday through Thursday •     The Black photographer with five photos on her page and not one Black face •     Show me you know how to light us, and why Instagram is not a portfolio •     Dyeing it brown for fall, and the loctician who will not bleach Jocelyn's hair •     Your hair belongs to me now: why Jocelyn handed her head over to her loctician •     Jade's son said moms are supposed to have hair. Jade said it's in the trash •     The perm burn Jocelyn liked, the Malcolm X scene, and the perm Jade's father did that left a bald patch •     Why Jade cut it all off: the salon Saturday that never ended •     The Just For Me commercial was a silk press, and Jam, Sofree, and Blue Magic •     No bedroom set at 39, the oil spot on the wall, and hiring somebody to clean •     The diced pepperoni incident and "different strokes for different folks" •     I drink what the sign say, and PICU is not a thing Timestamps:00:00 A week on the water 01:00 Two weeks without my staff 02:00 PTO means prepare the others 03:00 The report nobody mentioned until it was due 05:15 The whole commercial book of business 06:30 Extending the vacation 08:00 Dropping the ball on purpose 10:00 The mistake that wasn't all mine 13:30 Screenshot everything 16:30 When I leave, I have a reason 17:00 Everybody Hates Chris, and so does one of us 18:30 Who was the zebra in Madagascar 20:45 Happy Feet and the Prince soundtrack 22:30 Nothing tops Aladdin 23:30 The genie was a bad influence 24:30 Vincenzo and villains who forget to be smart 31:30 Did Happy Feet have a villain 32:30 Outdoor shoots, weekdays only, closed Monday through Thursday 36:00 A photographer with no website 36:45 Five photos, all white women 39:00 Show me you know how to light us 39:30 Instagram is not a portfolio 41:30 Dyeing it brown for fall 42:15 Your hair belongs to me now 43:30 Why Jocelyn won't cut hers 44:30 Moms are supposed to have hair 45:30 I liked the burn 46:45 The Malcolm X scene 47:30 The perm my father did 49:30 Sick of my whole Saturday being gone 50:15 The Just For Me commercial was a silk press 51:15 Jam, Sofree, and Blue Magic 52:30 No bedroom set at 39 53:45 The oil spot on the wall 55:00 The only thing I wanna do is sit down 56:30 Merch and the Carolina blue hoodie 59:00 The diced pepperoni incident 1:04:00 I drink what the sign say 1:04:45 PICU is not a thing 1:06:15 Wrap up Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation. #AGirlsPerspective #VibeTribe #BlackHair Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’re talking about what 35 does to a woman’s body and mind and why nobody warns you: ADHD symptoms that showed up out of nowhere, menopause creeping into the 40s, and doctors who say nah you good while your friend is finding out on TikTok what her old OBGYN never told her. Whether you’re wondering if it’s ADHD or menopause, fighting a doctor for a decision about your own body, or just trying to figure out why everything got harder after 35, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Acast Show Notes• Jocelyn asked her psychiatrist if ADHD can just show up, and what she said about women and menopause • Jade’s theory: at 35 everything goes downhill, wisdom teeth included • Why menopause is the biggest life event women never talk about • Hysterectomy does not automatically mean menopause, and why “total” does not mean what you think • Menopause is showing up in the 40s and doctors are still saying nah you good • The TikTok about ten years on a birth control shot and the OBGYN who never said a word • Why Jocelyn wants a woman handling her reproductive health • The doctor who told Jade she was infertile and never put it in her chart • Why paying off your car early can drop your credit score 30 points • A lioness and her cub loose in Indiana, and where is the daddy • The sister who asked for three hours of babysitting and flew to Miami • Low maintenance vs high maintenance vs low investment friendships, defined • The high school friend who showed up at a boyfriend’s house over two missed calls • The one question to ask at the start of every relationship • Art After Dark, release forms, and who actually shows up for you • Hot yoga, guided meditation, and why counting to ten is not clearing your mind • The journals Jocelyn found and the referral she still has not called • Ten years of asking for a hysterectomy and why autonomy is supposed to be the rule • Nobody to take care of but me, and Jade’s future orange cat Timestamps: 00:00 Back on the meds 01:30 Three credit cards paid off 02:00 The lender said don’t pay off the car 02:50 The Trax and the 30 points 04:00 Can ADHD just show up? The psychiatrist answers 05:30 At 35 everything goes downhill 06:30 Why nobody talks about menopause 07:30 Hysterectomy does not mean menopause 09:00 The anesthesiologist and the word “total” 10:30 Menopause is creeping into the 40s 11:00 Doctors saying nah you good 12:00 Male OBGYNs and life experience 12:45 The doctor said infertile and never wrote it down 13:30 A lioness is loose in Indiana 16:30 Can a lion break down a door 17:45 The saline recall 21:15 Story time: watch my sister’s kids for a couple hours 22:30 Miami owes me nothing 24:30 Who was wrong 26:30 Babysitting the whole family 29:30 Anybody can get cut 31:15 Low maintenance, high maintenance, low investment 32:30 The TikTok that started it 35:00 The friend who showed up at the boyfriend’s house 36:30 What do you want from this relationship 40:30 Art After Dark 42:45 Do you still need a release form 47:00 Who actually showed up 50:30 The $1,000 owl painting 51:30 Dot painting and yet another hobby 52:15 Hot yoga 53:30 Guided meditation has too many steps 56:30 The journals 58:45 The referral nobody called 60:30 Just let me reschedule by text 61:45 Redoing the whole wardrobe 63:30 Why can’t women just choose a hysterectomy 67:00 Ten years of asking 68:15 Nobody to take care of but me 69:30 Jade wants an orange cat 70:30 Wrap up Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’re talking about money boundaries, adulting, and only paying people who actually show up, starting with the lawn crew that missed three appointments, quoted almost $1,000 to pull some weeds, and watched Jocelyn get her gloves and do it herself. Whether you’re tired of businesses that waste your time, deciding where supporting a business ends and overpaying begins, or just trying to make your money stretch in a year that keeps testing it, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Acast Show Notes•            The viral stylist story: 10 minutes late, an overheard phone call, and a TikTok post about the client •            Why it was never about the 10 minutes: no communication, then an attitude on top •            Licensed or nah, and why you should not be in customer service if you do not like customers •            The $65 grass cuts, the no-show appointments, and the almost $1,000 weed removal quote •            Supporting Black-owned businesses only when the business holds up its end •            Jocelyn sprays the yard with her brother’s homemade weed concoction and pulls every weed herself •            The audit that shrunk a $1,500 refund to $250 with no explanation given •            The appointment that got canceled 30 minutes out •            Jocelyn’s new Facebook friend: the troll who could not handle being agreed with •            The micromanagement verdict: if I thought you could not do this job, I would not have hired you •            IMs are not text messages and TV shows are not movies •            The pamphlet situation and other words Jade refuses to say correctly •            Facebook is for old people now, chain letters included •            We hit 1,000 YouTube subscribers •            Aging without the crisis, changed birthdays, and why September is still summer Timestamps: 00:00 Book bags and fighting for her life 00:40 Gary still has no power 03:45 The new wheel tax 05:30 The audit: $1,500 becomes $250 11:30 Canceled 30 minutes before the appointment 14:25 The barber hypothetical 15:50 The real story is on TikTok 18:00 The shampoo run excuse 20:20 Licensed or nah 22:15 $65 grass cuts and no-shows 27:00 The $1,000 weed quote 28:15 Jocelyn becomes the landscaper 30:05 Jocelyn’s new Facebook friend 39:30 Lazy management, according to a stranger 43:30 IMs are not text messages 45:55 TV shows are not movies 49:20 The pamphlet situation 51:55 Automate is not optimize 53:30 Jade said the word in class 54:30 Facebook is for old people now 57:50 We hit 1,000 subscribers 59:00 Aging without the crisis 61:00 Jocelyn changed her birthday 63:00 September is still summer 65:15 Flood watch and attic escape plans 67:00 The doorbell story 68:15 Wrap up Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’re talking about adult friendships and the art of saying no, the friend who called Jocelyn’s graduation a family thing after six years, and the trauma bonds that fall apart the minute your life starts improving. Whether you’re navigating friends who disappear when it is time to celebrate you, people pleasing that has you saying yes when your spirit says no, or that one person who leaves you drained every single time, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Acast Show Notes•            The viral graduation TikTok, the oversleep excuse, and Jade’s instant verdict •            Jocelyn’s own graduation story and the friend of six years who called it a family thing •            The HR sendoff: wishing people well in their future endeavors •            Trauma bonds, better credit, and the friends who leave when you level up •            Erykah Badu vibes, Gemini energy, and the eccentric phase that got too expensive •            The Indiana nap shop and why the hate makes no sense •            Do not invite me to the wedding if I never make the cookouts, girls nights, or coffee breaks •            David Banner’s grand skipping entrance •            Vibe Tribe shout outs and the Seoul2Screen reveal •            The parasailing request and the version of Jocelyn that retired in 2018 •            The art of no, energy leeches, and pouring from an empty cup •            The year of no and frozen credit cards •            The mediocre nails incident •            Jocelyn’s ADHD medication update and a mental health check in Timestamps: 00:00 Cappuccino or Americano, vetoed immediately 01:05 The graduation TikTok question 02:05 Jade’s instant verdict 03:20 The graduate posts her receipts 06:10 Jocelyn’s graduation and the family thing excuse 09:15 The HR sendoff 11:10 Trauma bonds and friends who leave when you level up 15:15 The cussing progress report 16:40 Erykah Badu vibes and peak Gemini behavior 20:55 Being eccentric is expensive 23:10 The Indiana nap shop 28:10 Do not invite me to the wedding if I miss the cookouts 29:55 Our algorithms are showing out 33:20 David Banner’s grand entrance 37:20 Vibe Tribe shout outs 39:50 K-dramas and the Seoul2Screen reveal 46:40 The parasailing story 49:20 Born selfish and thankful for it 51:20 The art of no 52:50 Energy leeches, the true definition 54:55 No to Jamaica, yes to bingo 56:30 You cannot pour from an empty cup 59:00 The year of no and frozen credit cards 60:55 Why is every logo gray now 63:45 The mediocre nails incident 67:05 The ADHD update 70:20 Wrap up and where to find us Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’re talking about the honest side of adult friendship, the $2,000 marketing class Jocelyn registered for and quit in two days, and the viral braids video that has everybody arguing about kids and colored hair. Jade knew the class was never happening and said nothing, which raises the real question, when do you tell your friend the truth and when do you let them live? Whether you’re navigating friendships that know you a little too well, ADHD impulse decisions, or the group chat debates about how kids should dress, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Acast Show Notes•            The $2,000 marketing class Jocelyn registered for and unregistered from in two days •            Why Jade kept her opinion to herself, and whether that makes them shady •            Getting the Vibe Tribe to comment, share, and show up •            Spider-Man review with spoilers, underwhelming villains included •            MySpace is coming back, the top eight hot seat, and whether we even like ten people •            American Idol vs America’s Best Dance Crew, and the Secret Circle cancellation we are still not over •            The viral braider video, blonde braids at eight, and where the line actually is with kids, hair, outfits, and makeup •            PSA, always take your receipt, the 81 cent tip story •            Long’s vs Hart’s, the Indy donut debate •            Art After Dark, Saturday August 22, Gallery 317, downtown Indy Merch reminder, the cup is not dishwasher safe Timestamps: 00:00 What we been up to 02:00 The wireless mic rabbit hole, Jocelyn is about to be everywhere 04:15 The $2,000 marketing class, registered and unregistered in two days 06:20 Jade knew and said nothing. Does that make us shady 08:00 What we actually need from the Vibe Tribe 11:10 Spider-Man review, spoilers ahead, skip if you need to 21:20 MySpace is coming back and Jocelyn wants her credit 22:20 Who is in your top eight 25:20 Jocelyn missed her calling as a Jabbawockee 25:55 American Idol vs America’s Best Dance Crew 26:40 Secret Circle deserved better 28:15 The braider video, How young is too young for colored hair 31:55 Where we actually draw the line with kids 37:05 PSA, always get your receipt, the scam you might not catch 40:30 The great Indy donut debate 43:30 Art After Dark, Jocelyn’s pieces, Saturday August 22 46:45 Merch check and the cup that is not dishwasher safe 48:00 Wrap up, leave us a review please Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation. #AGirlsPerspective #VibeTribe #AdultingPodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're talking about golden child siblings, family favoritism, and a Reddit confession from a man who has spent years secretly ruining his older brother's life. Jocelyn and Jade get into why the resentment is really about the parents, the Whitney Houston slander that had Jocelyn ready to fight, and the K-dramas Wonderful World and The East Palace. Whether you're navigating sibling resentment, family drama, or you just need your weekly hangout with your friends, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Show notes: •    The golden child Reddit confession and Jocelyn's comment back •    Family favoritism and who the resentment really belongs to •    Jocelyn's brother, the actual golden child •    No Whitney Houston slander on this internet •    KevOnStage, notifications, and people projecting •    Wonderful World and The East Palace, recapped and rated •    JYP, J.Lo, Chaka Khan, and Jennifer Lewis •    Tequila shots for episode 89 •    The electric blue hoodie dispute •    Tag J. Brooks Boutique, we are manifesting a sponsor •    Merch at agirlsperspective.com Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome back and a SweetArt Fluid update 02:04 Mexican Batman and vigilante justice 04:04 Black cats and Zephyr's attitude 05:45 KevOnStage and the notification police 10:14 Letting your phone die on purpose 12:57 K-drama haircuts and The Apartment Job 16:00 JYP, the singing pastor 18:45 J.Lo movies and marketing 21:55 Chaka Khan appreciation 23:00 No Whitney Houston slander allowed 24:40 Jennifer Lewis is the blueprint 26:26 The golden child Reddit confession 31:57 Jocelyn's brother was the golden child 35:20 K-drama villains who think they are victims 36:41 The East Palace needs a trigger warning 41:47 Tequila shots and two years of AGP 43:00 Optimists, complaints, and electric bikes 44:20 The electric blue hoodie dispute 45:55 PayPal, scammers, and international shopping 47:40 Help us get J. Brooks Boutique's attention 49:29 Why millennials stopped taking pictures 52:30 Jocelyn's next money making skill 54:30 Guests we need on the show 56:57 Merch, art, and goodbyes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're talking about one-sided friendships, adult loneliness, and the difference between a friend and an associate. Jocelyn shares the Reddit story that hit too close to home, the beer fest trip her whole friend group took without her, and the day she told them she was done doing all the reaching out. Jade brings the fire on workplace competition, gatekeeping coworkers, and why she will teach you everything she knows and still bet on herself. Plus a big announcement about the future of the show, straight from us to the Vibe Tribe first. Whether you're navigating friendship problems, corporate burnout, or figuring out who actually shows up for you, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Show notes•    The announcement: ads are coming to AGP, and Sweetheart Creations is the first sponsor •    The merch is live: hats, cups, tees, and the hoodie both hosts claimed •    The Reddit: friends who book trips without you •    Jocelyn's beer fest story and the end of one-sided friendships •    Friends vs associates, the kiki test •    Workplace competition, gatekeeping, and raggedy managers •    Jocelyn's confidence story, from low self-esteem to "I don't want your job" •    The Osco pharmacy story and the job that almost didn't happen •    Double lives and the other woman debate •    Marriage at 69, separate bedrooms, and the nephews who get everything •    Jocelyn's brother, the real MVP of homeownership •    Retiring before 70, period Timestamps:00:00 Catching up, nursing school and new job chaos 02:30 A big announcement about the future of AGP 06:30 The merch is live 11:50 Jocelyn asked for a sign and got three 20:20 The Reddit: friends who plan trips without you 22:20 The beer fest story, the whole group went except Jocelyn 24:30 "I don't owe you an explanation" is fighting words 26:15 The loneliest year and why this podcast exists 29:20 Done with one-sided friendships 30:50 Friends vs associates, the kiki test 34:40 ChatGPT is not your therapist 38:00 Makeup, lashes, and no eyebrows 41:00 Competing with yourself over things you don't even want 46:30 Yes, you are in competition with your coworkers 48:45 Gatekeeping at work and raggedy managers 50:00 From low self-esteem to "I don't want your job" 54:30 The Osco story, the job Jocelyn almost skipped 1:00:30 ACT scores and test anxiety 1:04:15 Fake it till you make it 1:09:30 Double lives 1:11:15 The other woman debate 1:13:45 Jade tried the stay-at-home wife life 1:15:15 Separate bedrooms and marrying at 69 1:19:30 Everything goes to the nephews 1:22:00 Jocelyn's brother is the real MVP 1:24:00 Retiring before 70, period 1:26:45 Wrap-up, send this to a friend Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're talking about divorce, money struggles, and the growth that comes after the broke years. Jade tells the story of putting an ad in the newspaper just to divorce a man she could not find, and Jocelyn relives the car that started smoking at the bank right before the wheels quite literally fell off. We get into friends who lie to your face, listening the first time instead of learning the hard way, why this podcast exists, and the childhood cake story Jocelyn never planned to tell. Whether you're navigating a fresh start, a job you are ready to leave, or a good cry you have been holding in, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Show Notes•     Back to school as adults, clinicals, and graduation plans •     Corporate ladder fatigue and what managing people really involves •     Friends who lie to your face and why we let them •     The JD Byrider car saga and the broke years, 2011 to 2014 •     Jade's divorce and the newspaper ad the court required •     Whitney, Luther, and Yolanda Adams appreciation moment •     When was your last good cry and what brings it on •     Listening to that inner voice and leaving what no longer fits •     Why A Girls Perspective exists and what the Vibe Tribe really is •     Upbringing, accountability, and the icing that came off the cake •     Question of the week: what gets your good cry going Timestamps:00:00 Catching up, school, and graduation plans 05:00 Nobody wants to climb the ladder 06:15 Managing people means documentation 07:45 Friends who lie to your face 12:15 The JD Byrider era begins 17:00 The car starts smoking at the bank 20:00 The Sonata and the pharmacy closing 21:30 The walk of shame back to the dealership 23:30 The acceleration lane rant 26:00 The Fiesta gives out on the highway 27:45 The engine was dead 29:15 Jade's divorce and the newspaper ad 32:00 Paying to get her own name back 32:45 We curse too much 34:45 Whitney, Luther, and Yolanda Adams 36:45 When was your last good cry 39:30 Jocelyn's gratitude cry 42:00 Listening the first time 43:30 When the spirit says leave the job 44:00 Why this podcast exists 48:45 Don't blame the parents 51:00 Jocelyn snuck out in Chicago 53:30 Earning every last one 55:20 The cake story 57:55 Chocolate cake versus yellow cake 59:10 Jocelyn's sweet tooth confession 01:00:30 Question of the week Watch every full episode: [Full Episodes playlist link] Catch the best moments: [Highlights playlist link] Subscribe to the channel: [Channel link] New episodes every Wednesday at 5:15am. Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation. #AGirlsPerspective #BlackGirlPodcast #AdultingPodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're talking about dating standards, broke men, confidence, and situationships with our first full guest table: Brion and Dmatt of the Indy podcast Bellies and BS, plus recurring guest Antonio. The room names the man who moves into your place and contributes nothing, debates whether asking for $20 is a crime, and gets surprisingly honest about doubting yourself while building something new. Jocelyn shares the stranger who got the AGP merch store launched in one night, and Jade tells the story of marrying her ex-husband on purpose. Whether you're navigating modern dating, a side dream next to a day job, or friendships that turned into business, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it.   New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Show Notes•  Gas station food rankings and the Buc-ee's debate •  Meet Brion and Dmatt of Bellies and BS and their five year anniversary block party in Fountain Square •  Networking as an introvert and talking your way into exclusive events •  Jocelyn on confidence, decision fatigue, and building a podcast while working full time •  The stranger at the podcast summit who got the AGP merch store launched overnight •  The Disney tow truck scenario and neighbor parking wars •  The garage squatter story •  Hobosexuals defined, plus bed and a biscuit •  Friends with benefits rules and where they fall apart •  Sugar mamas, sugar daddies, and the Culver's parking lot attempt •  Marriage, prenups, and Jade remarrying her ex-husband seven years later •  Who pays at dinner and the $20 question •  How Jocelyn and Jade met and started A Girls Perspective •  Building podcast networks: Sweetheart Creations and five years of Bellies and BS Timestamps:00:00 Gas station food rankings and the Buc-ee's debate 03:15 Antonio's toxic mottos 04:30 Getting comfortable and the stolen cake icing confession 07:00 McDonald's land, air, and sea and the menus America never got 10:20 Podcast fails, lost episodes, and boom mics 12:10 The Atlanta podcast summit and disrespectful traffic 13:45 Meet Bellies and BS plus the five year block party 18:20 Networking as an introvert and talking your way into exclusive events 21:30 Jocelyn on confidence, decision fatigue, and the 9 to 5 gap 23:00 The stranger who got the merch store built overnight 29:00 The cover art roast, Gina and Moana 33:30 The Disney tow truck scenario 36:30 Neighbor parking wars and the garage squatter saga 43:30 The houseguest who never leaves and never contributes 47:45 Friends with benefits rules 49:15 Sugar mamas and the Culver's parking lot proposal 52:00 Marriage, prenups, and Jade remarrying her ex 55:45 If he can't cover dinner, say it before she orders 58:20 Broke era confessions and the Vegas overdraft 1:00:30 Peanut butter chocolate milk and other crimes 1:04:30 How Jocelyn and Jade met and started A Girls Perspective 1:13:00 Year five, laziness, and getting it done anyway 1:16:00 AI agents and building a podcast network 1:22:30 Where to find Bellies and BS Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're talking about work stress, micromanaging, and what a manager check-in should actually cover, the real-life career moments nobody preps you for. Jocelyn tells the story of a coworker who had a whole month, said we're good every single week, and confessed the day before the deadline, and she is not carrying that. Plus a full response to the Canada comments on our viral clip, the loc pricing debate, South Korea's fake shopping apps, and a trip back to The Box and 106 & Park. Whether you're navigating a stressful job, a manager who hovers, or a comment section with opinions, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Show NotesIn this episode: - Jade's plans for life after school and the case for controlled chaos - Jocelyn's no-news bubble versus Jade's local, national, and global rotation - Responding to the Canada comments: stereotypes, being called Yankees, and Canadians treated better abroad the moment people learn they are not American - The loc pricing debate: new growth, by-the-inch reties, and why Jocelyn sides with the locticians - Jocelyn heads to the Atlanta podcast summit - Discord question: the music videos that raised us, The Box, 106 & Park, and the Busta Rhymes video - South Korea's fake shopping apps and where the dopamine really comes from - The four questions every manager check-in should cover, micromanaging, and the binder deadline story - A no-spend month for the Vibe Tribe, drop a comment to join Timestamps: 00:00 What Jade is planning when school is done 03:05 Jocelyn refuses to watch the news 06:10 The COVID bubble 09:30 Canada, we read your comments 14:30 Treated better the second they find out you're not American 17:00 Stereotypes, languages, and who is really watching who 29:20 The loc pricing debate, charging by the inch 37:30 Jocelyn is headed to the Atlanta podcast summit 39:50 Music videos, The Box, and 106 & Park 49:30 South Korea's fake shopping apps 53:25 What a real manager check-in should cover 1:06:40 The binder story 1:14:30 Wrap up and a no-spend month for the Vibe Tribe Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're talking about workplace value, counteroffers, career growth, and why some companies only recognize your worth after you've decided to leave. We also dive into giving notice, toxic work culture, school cellphone bans, student loans, the Mandela Effect, and several viral internet debates that had us laughing and questioning everything. If you've ever felt overlooked at work, struggled with career burnout, or wondered whether accepting a counteroffer is ever the right move, this episode will feel like sitting down with two friends who understand exactly what you're going through. Show notes: - B2K vs Pretty Ricky Verzuz reactions - The Mandela effects breaking TikTok’s brain - Jocelyn’s old boss stalking her LinkedIn - The counteroffer dilemma: would you stay? - Jocelyn’s real raise-and-quit story - Getting let go before your notice is even up - The new cell phone ban hitting schools July 1st - Paying your own way through college - CPA exam horror stories - A nursing student’s cheating scandal - The truth about blocking people online - Oprah and the Whitney Houston controversy - UK vs US heat wave debate Timestamps00:00 - B2K vs. Pretty Ricky Verzuz 04:53 - Were they lip-syncing? 07:33 - Mandela Effect memories 11:50 - "Move your meat, lose your seat" 12:32 - Former employer checking LinkedIn 14:11 - Would you accept a counteroffer? 22:23 - Being let go after giving notice 31:10 - Knowing your value at work 33:16 - School cellphone bans 38:27 - Student loans and college regrets 43:05 - Is a master's degree worth it? 46:17 - CPA exam struggles 56:29 - Why do people announce they're blocking you? 59:59 - Oprah and Whitney Houston 01:05:05 - UK vs. US air conditioning debate New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast wherever you listen. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're talking about the moments that change the direction of your life when you're still a teenager and do not fully understand the stakes. Jocelyn lost a four-year scholarship to a private school and college her sophomore year of high school, crashed a registration day to beg a dean into letting her in somewhere better, and still ended up graduating National Honor Society. Also: a teacher who withheld scholarship information from her face, a Kroger line incident, a cabin fire she built with paper plates, a pontoon in the rain, and a no-spend challenge starting July 1st that she is inviting the entire Vibe Tribe to join. Whether you have made a decision that cost you something real, fought your way back from it, or still do not know where your money goes at the end of the month, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Acast Show NotesTopics covered this week: - Keyshia Cole debate and the film studies class short film - Deadbeat dad documentary filmed in high school - Jocelyn's private school scholarship: four years high school, four years college, lost sophomore year - Calling the scholarship administrator illiterate, the administrator heard her - Getting pulled from the school mid-semester, transferred to Manly - Crashing a friend's registration day at North Lawndale College Prep - Cornering the dean and making her case without parents present - Getting accepted that Monday, graduating National Honor Society - Mr. Kavanaugh: the teacher who told a student in front of Jocelyn not to share scholarship information with her - Spring cleaning debate: deep clean vs. declutter - The Kroger oxtail situation and the invisible line - Grocery store line rules: carts do not hold spots - No-spend challenge for July: budgeting vs. bill tracking, $400 saved in one month - Cabin trip to Brown County, Nashville Indiana with Nate - Cookie butter bomb incident at the pizza place - Building the fire with paper plates after Nate gave up - Getting soaked on the pontoon on Lake Monroe in the J. Brooks outfit - Jocelyn and Nate's dynamic: not a relationship, very much acts like one Timestamps: 00:00 - Keyshia Cole and the film studies class 03:00 - Deadbeat dad documentary and Jocelyn looking into the camera 06:30 - The private school scholarship Jocelyn lost sophomore year 09:00 - Called the administrator illiterate, she heard her 10:30 - Getting pulled from the school mid-semester 12:30 - Crashing her friend's registration day to beg her way into North Lawndale 15:30 - Cornering the dean and making the case 18:00 - Getting the call that Monday 23:00 - Mr. Kavanaugh and the scholarship information withheld in front of her face 27:30 - Spring cleaning and what it actually means 31:00 - The Kroger oxtail situation 35:00 - Grocery store line rules and the cart rant 42:30 - The no-spend challenge for July 47:00 - Cabin trip with Nate: the cookie butter bomb incident 54:00 - Building the fire with paper plates 57:30 - The pontoon, the rain, and the J. Brooks outfit 01:03:00 - Sharing birthdays and the Nate dynamic Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're talking about what happens when one person in a relationship sets every standard, gives everything, and then gets blamed for wanting equal effort back. The real-life frustration of realizing someone got comfortable on your generosity, and why the people in your corner telling you to give less might be saying more about them than about you. Whether you have been the one giving 70, the one who got comfortable, or the friend watching it happen from the outside, this episode will feel like sitting with two people who are not afraid to say what nobody else will. We also play a full round of Asking for a Friend covering mental health days, sex ed, overpayment ethics, ghosting, 90s R&B opinions, and the true cost of partying like you're 21 when your body is very much not. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen. Show Notes: •       Reddit story: man upset his girlfriend stopped doing 70 percent of the relationship effort and now wants 50/50 •       Who actually sets the standard in relationships and what happens when you change it •       Jealous friends vs. genuinely bad advice: how to tell the difference •       Asking for a Friend cards: sex ed (parents vs. schools), mental health days, overpayment ethics, choosing your baby's sex, stalking your partner's ex, partying in your 30s, baby name theft, ghosting, Backstreet Boys vs NSync, marriage order among friends, bachelorette spending, physical affection between friends, culture and sex talk, couples therapy •       The viral graduation split, the withheld diploma, and the scholarship she may have lost •       Jocelyn's personal mid-30s highway story and why they do mimosas now •       Why couples therapy works only when both people actually want to be there Timestamps: •       [00:00] Donell Jones, f***boys, and 90s R&B we still know every word to •       [12:00] Reddit: She gave 70, he gave nothing, now he's upset it's 50/50 •       [19:00] When your friends tell you you're doing too much •       [23:00] Asking for a Friend: sex ed, parents vs. schools •       [25:00] The graduation split that may have cost her a scholarship •       [31:00] Zero red flags: suspicious or just lucky •       [32:00] Mental health days and why powering through is a lie •       [36:00] If you get overpaid, do you return it •       [39:00] Choosing your baby's sex •       [40:00] Stalking your partner's ex and Jocelyn's personal cautionary tale •       [44:00] Partying like you're 21 when you're in your 30s •       [49:00] Baby name theft •       [51:00] Is ghosting ever okay •       [55:00] Backstreet Boys vs NSync •       [55:30] Marriage order among friends, bachelorette spending, physical affection •       [1:05:00] Does your culture talk about sex enough •       [1:07:00] Couples therapy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.