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What happens when you finally sit down with your adult children and talk openly about swinging…and sex? Zack and Josie invited their daughters into a conversation they’d never had before, answering their questions, asking a few of their own, and tackling questions submitted by listeners in the Two Plus Two Podcast group on Peaches’nCream. With a family history personally impacted by the lifestyle, the conversation goes deeper than curiosity. The girls share what they believed about swinging, what they knew about their parents’ past, and why they were surprised Zack and Josie chose to return to the lifestyle after how badly things went the first time. Together, they unpack how age, openness, and the strength of Zack and Josie’s relationship have changed the way the girls see it today. Everyone walks away having learned something new, proving it’s never too late to have an honest conversation. For parents with adult children who are navigating the same question of whether to open up about the lifestyle, this episode offers a candid look at the possibilities on the other side of that conversation. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) A quick backstory (00:02:10) Your parents’ sex life (00:04:59) Swinging from a child’s perspective   (00:16:31) Societal expectations of women vs men (00:23:17) Women are in the lifestyle for the men (00:29:28) Answering our kids’ questions (00:39:50) Being a grandparent in the lifestyle (00:44:59) How we pick play partners (00:47:31) Dating and meeting people online (00:50:45) Mutual interest, context and opportunity (00:54:51) Consent is sexy (00:56:39) STI testing and sexual health (01:01:25) Pulling the rip cord, the lifestyle laboratory (01:04:50) What we enjoy and communicating it clearly (01:06:38) Pineapples, gnomes, flamingoes, black rings (01:07:36) AJ and Nyssa answer listener questions (01:07:58) Has it changed your relationship? (01:11:03) Do you look at your parents differently now?(01:12:59) DId it change how you moved forward in your own life? (01:17:09) Our shared experience with the lifestyle last time We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire ⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠

Do women really want sex as much as men? Or have men and women been taught to think about sex so differently that we never really question the assumptions behind that question? Zack and Josie take a surprisingly deep dive into the gender-specific messages they received growing up and discover how those messages may still be shaping their experiences in the lifestyle today. Girls are taught that boys just want sex and will do anything to get it—and that it's their job to protect themselves and not “give it up.” Boys, meanwhile, are taught that wanting sex is natural and that they have to “get it” from girls. That creates a fundamental imbalance: one gender is taught to pursue sex while the other is taught to control access to it. And those messages don't necessarily disappear when people enter a committed relationship—or even when they enter the lifestyle. Zack and Josie explore how those early lessons, along with the messages reinforced by television, movies and popular culture, can create expectations that men will always want sex and women won't. But what happens when you build a sexual relationship on that assumption? As they challenge their own beliefs, Zack and Josie realize they may experience and think about sex very differently—not simply because they're a man and a woman, but because they were programmed with very different ideas about what sex means, who should want it, who should initiate it and what it says about you when you do. The conversation gets raw, personal and unexpectedly revealing, with plenty of “aha” moments for both hosts. More importantly, they come away with new perspectives that could help them—and other couples—approach the lifestyle with more understanding, excitement, fulfillment and perhaps even more success. If you've ever wondered why you and your partner seem to experience desire differently, this conversation may give you a completely different way to look at it—and help you understand what your partner may be thinking but never quite saying. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) Messaging about sex is gender specific (00:03:45) Girl on girl play (00:06:49) Sex is penetrative sex to achieve male ejaculation (00:09:27) Only have sex if you’re in love and if not, you’re a slut (00:11:31) Biology won out over fear of judgment and shame (00:17:17) Sex and the lifestyle (00:21:03) Protection vs pursuit mindset (00:26:35) Men want it more than women (00:29:34) Sexual evolution (00:32:46) Porn vs erotica (00:36:14) Women like to be dominated (00:39:57) Gender roles and sex (00:44:40) How you navigate the lifestyle may determine your success (00:50:34) Men and women view sex, even in the lifestyle differently (00:55:53) A helpful change of perspective (01:00:30) Differences between general society and the lifestyle We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire ⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠

What happens when one partner wants to explore the lifestyle and the other is a “hell no!”? In this entertaining and candid conversation, Zack and Josie are joined by Genie and Dr. G to explore a question that hits close to home for many couples: How do you convince your wife to get into the lifestyle? Presented tongue in cheek, the conversation reveals an underlying truth: You can't convince someone to do something they're not ready for. Each couple shares how they discovered the lifestyle, navigated their early experiences, and learned to balance two unique individuals within the same relationship. But what happens when a wife hears the suggestion and wonders, "Am I not enough?" Josie and Genie share their initial reactions to their husbands' proposals, offering insight into the emotions and concerns that can arise when one partner introduces the idea. The conversation explores both the female and male perspectives, along with practical advice for navigating insecurities, communication, and the desire to explore something new together. As the discussion evolves, the couples explore the importance of respecting the pace of the more conservative partner, recognizing individual differences, and understanding that a couple's journey doesn't have to look like anyone else's. Josie and Genie also reflect on the personal growth they've experienced through entering and navigating the lifestyle. Entertaining, informative, and filled with honest insights, this episode offers couples a valuable opportunity to reflect on their relationship, expectations, and readiness before taking the next step into the lifestyle. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) I’m as shocked as you are! (00:08:14) Life got busy and we moved on (00:11:35) Am I enough? (00:15:11) Gotta have it! (00:18:43) Plant the seed  (00:25:48) Water the seed (00:30:16) Transparency and respect for each other (00:34:55) Things evolved organically at my own pace (00:38:07) We did it our way (00:41:07) Setting and honoring very clear boundaries (00:44:15) Selfish or selfless…it’s a balance (00:47:10) Be authentically yourself and take the journey together (00:48:49) Slow and steady (00:52:33) Ripping the bandaid off (00:54:30) You can’t convince her to do anything…let her be in control (00:57:54) Take her on the journey with you and discover things together (01:00:48) You can expect to grow personally and in your relationship (01:02:07) I am not the same person I was when we started (01:04:19) This episode can be a tool…listen with your partner We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire ⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠ Dr. G & Genie's Groups Arizona Fantasy Club https://arizonafantasyclub.com/ Hot Wife Community https://hotwifecommunity.com/ Genie Wishes https://www.geniewishesevents.com/

Zack and Josie are on their own again as they tackle a listener’s difficult question about navigating the lifestyle when partners have very different ideas about intimacy, emotions, and what feels comfortable. Only three months into the lifestyle, the listener and his wife have formed a strong four-way connection with another couple. He wants to develop a close, sensual relationship with the other wife while still viewing and desiring the relationship as something shared between the two couples. His wife, however, feels insecure about the depth of that connection and has made it clear that she doesn’t want to develop feelings for people they have sex with. What initially sounds like a disagreement about what is—or isn’t—too intimate quickly becomes a much deeper conversation about insecurity, fear, shame, vulnerability, and the need to feel safe with the person who is supposed to be your partner through it all. Zack and Josie explore the difference between making love and just f*****g, how couples can move through the lifestyle together when their boundaries don't perfectly align, and why communication is foundational to sexual exploration and liberation. They also discuss how partners can create the kind of safety that makes difficult conversations possible, how to support rather than invalidate each other’s feelings, and why being fully supported by a partner can make all the difference when confronting the internal struggles that come with exploring outside the traditional boundaries of a relationship. True to form, Zack and Josie use thought experiments to examine the situation from different perspectives and offer their best advice for navigating this—and the many other difficult conversations couples may encounter along their lifestyle journey. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) A listener’s email (00:03:44) What is considered too intimate? (00:08:05) Making love and f*****g (00:11:07) Moving through the lifestyle as partners (00:14:55) The internal struggle and performance anxiety (00:21:10) Relational vs transactional swinging (00:26:13) Communication in play experiences is key (00:29:10) Let’s talk about sex, Baby (00:32:44) Have the conversations - feeling safe is key (00:37:04) Thought experiments and evolving in the lifestyle (00:42:27) Sexual liberation and total acceptance and support (00:44:34) Labels don’t tell the whole story (00:46:15) Navigating difficult conversations (00:48:18) Closing thoughts and advice We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book a Cruise or Your Trip to Temptation or Desire https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/

For the first time, Zack and Josie recorded an episode of Two Plus Two entirely on their own—and they had plenty to talk about. They share the highs and lows of their first Naughty N’awlins experience, an event they had heard only positive things about. In a little nod to their previous conversation about taboo, they stepped well outside their normal routine and had five back-to-back play experiences, playing every day they were there. They discuss the positives and negatives of doing that and share some unexpected consequences. They each weigh in on whether they would repeat five days of consecutive play and what they may do differently. They attended workshops for the first time and experienced a dungeon tasting, where Josie was introduced to e-stim and the violet wand. She enjoyed the experience enough to purchase a violet wand of her own from The Dungeon Store. And then there’s the secret Brad repeatedly teased them about: How can you tell whether a play session is going to be good before you actually play? Zack and Josie finally reveal what they believe is the answer and discuss whether they would still play if they suspected the experience might not be great—or simply walk away and have sex with each other instead. Josie also reveals a shift in her mindset from “give me reasons to say yes” to “give me reasons to say no,” leading to a conversation about how their approach to play has evolved. They briefly share their experience at Colette and invite listeners to weigh in on whether they prioritize quantity or quality in their own experiences by joining the conversation on Peaches’nCream. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) Overall vibe of Naughty N’awlins and host hotels (00:06:27) Our first ever workshops (00:14:42) Dungeon tasting and the violet wand (00:19:50) We made connections prior to the event (00:26:31) We were naughty at Naughty (00:28:04) Our experience of Colette (00:31:56) Back to back play experiences (00:37:58) Quality over quantity (00:40:28) The negatives at Naughty (00:42:51) The health related negatives after Naughty (00:47:27) What we’ll do differently next time We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book a Cruise or Your Trip to Temptation or Desire https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ The Dungeon Store www.TheDungeonStore.com

Genie and Dr. G join Zack and Josie for their first appearance on the podcast. For more than a decade, they have created lifestyle events designed to give couples—and eventually singles—a safe, discreet and inclusive place to explore their sexuality. Through Genie Wishes, Arizona Fantasy Club and their fastest-growing group, Hot Wife Community, consent and respect are at the heart of everything they do. The conversation explores what it means to participate in a lifestyle that society often considers taboo. Genie and Dr. G share how their upbringings and societal expectations shaped their views about sex, relationships, guilt and shame—and how challenging those expectations has led to personal growth. They also discuss vulnerability between partners, creating a safe space for difficult conversations, making propositions without creating pressure, and how to handle a “no” with love and respect. It’s an honest conversation about challenging the rules people are taught to follow, embracing vulnerability, and discovering what can happen when couples give themselves permission to explore the parts of their sexuality that society tells them should remain taboo. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) Safety, consent and discretion are the cornerstones (00:10:54) Genie Wishes and Arizona Fantasy Club (00:12:33) Hot Wife Community  (00:17:08) Reframing sex and the Vegas mindset (00:20:33) Societal and familial expectations and conditioning (00:27:31) Gay clubs are great for dancing (00:33:28) Dr. G’s upbringing and what other people think (00:36:54) Being vulnerable and creating a safe space for taboo subjects (00:41:27) Navigating propositions and conversations with respect (00:45:04) Reactions, responses and disappointment (00:47:44) Stigma of bisexuality for both men and women (00:55:14) Shame and guilt (01:00:44) Processing negative experiences (01:05:02) Internal and external struggles We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ Dr. G & Genie's Groups Arizona Fantasy Club https://arizonafantasyclub.com/ Hot Wife Community https://hotwifecommunity.com/ Genie Wishes https://www.geniewishesevents.com/

Zack and Josie welcome new guests Rick and Gwen for a conversation about their unique journey navigating the lifestyle together. After meeting a little over a year ago, the two began building their connection while exploring how the lifestyle would fit into their relationship. When they met, Gwen was already a unicorn in the lifestyle, while Rick brought extensive experience as a pleasure Dom. Together, they have had to navigate the changes that came with shifting from individual experiences to exploring as a couple. They share the growing pains, lessons learned, and how they continue to support each other’s interests and desires. Gwen talks about how she discovered the lifestyle and what keeps her drawn to it, while Rick shares his journey of finding a place for his BDSM interests with partners who genuinely enjoy those dynamics. The conversation also dives into the challenges singles often face in the lifestyle, including feelings of loneliness and navigating connections without the built-in support of a partner. Rick and Gwen discuss the differences between solo experiences and couple experiences, including the unique bond couples can build when they reconnect and share their adventures together. This episode explores connection, communication, evolving roles, and the ways relationships can grow when partners embrace each other’s authentic selves. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) Gwen’s journey into the lifestyle as a unicorn (00:05:52) Rick’s BDSM journey (00:09:55) BDSM doesn’t interest Gwen, but she respects his desire for it (00:12:11) The pleasure Dom (00:18:00) Rick and Gwen met on Feeld (00:22:42) Building a relationship while navigating the lifestyle together (00:26:57) Perceptions and expectations  (00:32:25) Prejudice, judgment and communication (00:37:24) Adventure, community and connection (00:40:59) The octopus (00:46:50) Parallel play, play dynamics (00:50:42) Navigating feelings and connections (00:55:48) Chemistry, emotional connection and meaningful love (01:00:31) Attraction and communicating interest We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ Rick’s Photography Business ​​https://www.instagram.com/polymathphoto Gwen’s Coaching Business https://theopendynamic.com/

Brad and Jenni return to join Zack and Josie for a spirited conversation about one of the most debated concepts in the lifestyle: fairness. From honoring commitments and navigating separate play to managing insecurities and expectations, the couples explore how they define fairness within their own relationships—and whether it even belongs in the equation. Along the way, they tackle questions about attraction, opportunity, biology, and the unique challenges that arise when partners don't always experience the lifestyle in the same way. As differing perspectives collide, the discussion becomes surprisingly candid, occasionally heated, and ultimately revealing. Rather than offering easy answers, the conversation highlights how every couple must find their own balance between fairness, freedom, and connection. It's an honest look at the feelings, assumptions, and relationship dynamics that emerge when couples venture beyond conventional boundaries. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) Fairness is important to us (00:01:47) Honoring commitments to one another (00:04:32) Playing separately (00:07:14) Playing with a unicorn vs play with female half of a couple (00:09:54) Singles have to go home alone (00:11:42) Men vs women…biology and other things (00:15:28) Making the decision to have a separate play session or not  (00:18:35) Arranging play dates for your partner (00:26:14) Birthday play dates and sharing details of separate play (00:32:28) Fairness isn’t a factor…or is it? (00:38:15) Selecting play partners (00:42:25) Giving and receiving as a couple is hot (00:44:54) Fairness and pacing in play sessions We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/

Brad and Jenni return to join Zack and Josie for a candid conversation about lifestyle parties, attraction, connection, and the many factors that shape our experiences. The couples explore their different approaches to the lifestyle and how they balance socializing, friendships, sexual chemistry, and play experiences. They discuss the excitement that comes with meeting someone new, the thrill of the chase, and why familiar connections can offer a completely different kind of reward. Along the way, they tackle some of the more challenging aspects of the lifestyle—reading interest, communicating attraction, navigating rejection, and dealing with the uncertainty that comes when another couple suddenly goes quiet. The conversation also examines how intentions can shift before and during an event, depending on everything from chemistry with others to the connection they're feeling with their own partner. From "taking one for the team" to choosing quality connections over simply collecting experiences, this episode offers an honest look at the decisions, assumptions, and conversations that happen behind the scenes at lifestyle parties. Whether you're drawn to the excitement of new possibilities or the comfort of established connections, you'll likely find yourself somewhere in this discussion. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) We never go into a party expecting to play (00:02:14) Undiscovered possibilities (00:04:34) Intentions can change based on many factors (00:07:05) No expectations (00:09:10) We always go with the intention to play if we make a connection (00:11:11) Shiny new vs tried and true (00:12:07) Rejection sucks (00:14:58) It may have nothing to do with you and you may never know ‘why’ (00:19:52) Processing rejection (00:22:26) There are lots of reasons why people may cancel (00:27:28) The chase vs familiarity (00:29:45) Energy can change in subsequent experiences with the same people (00:31:58) Would you rather… (00:33:17) The lifestyle draws people who want new experiences (00:35:34) Taking one for the team (00:39:55) Sex with other people is like a box of chocolates (00:43:24) Friendships vs play partners (00:45:50) Lifestyle friends you don’t play with (00:48:12) Jenni’s I Love Cliterature book club (00:49:43) An interesting question to consider (00:54:44) Boundaries…is kissing okay? (00:57:41) Discernment in choosing play experiences We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/

Brad and Jenni return to join Zack and Josie for a candid conversation about a recent lifestyle party they all attended. What started as a discussion about the event quickly evolved into a deeper look at how different couples navigate attraction, communicate interest, and approach new connections. The couples compare their personal styles, discussing everything from subtle signals and direct communication to common mistakes people make when trying to express interest. They share what they've found works best, what doesn't, and why clear communication remains one of the most important skills in the lifestyle. Along the way, Zack and Josie reflect on how much they've grown since their early days in the lifestyle. They discuss becoming more confident, assertive, and intentional while still prioritizing respect, consent, and mutual enthusiasm. Zack explains why he prefers to wait for clear signs of interest before making a move and how that approach has shaped many of their experiences. The conversation also explores some of the unique challenges faced by newer couples who are still building confidence and learning how to communicate their desires, boundaries, and expectations. Although the episode was intended to feature all four perspectives equally, Zack and Josie ended up doing most of the talking as they unpacked two memorable play experiences from the party. They walk listeners through how each connection developed, the communication that happened along the way, and the lessons they took from both encounters. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or have years of experience, this episode offers an honest look at attraction, communication, confidence, and the social dynamics that can make or break a great party experience. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) Party prep (00:02:51) Intentions at parties (00:04:45) Confusing our men (00:05:47) Hit list (00:07:51) Acting thirsty repels people (00:08:34) Pleasantly persistent (00:17:37) The proposition (00:20:51) The play experience (00:24:14) Two directors and two actors (00:31:21) We let it fizzle and made our escape (00:35:38) Communication is so important (00:39:29) We went another round (00:44:18) That’s a ‘no’ (00:46:48) I want her to take the lead (00:52:06) Our threesome within a moresome (00:58:17) The night was interesting (01:01:08) To be continued… We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Hoover Maneuver Reference - Episode 17 at 47:00 https://bit.ly/3QlR6jC Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ Suzie Webster Author Page https://amzn.to/4rXPfOx

Zack and Josie welcome first-time guests Ed and Sarah to the podcast for a fun and unexpectedly relatable lifestyle origin story. What began as a promotional opportunity for Sarah—a former Playboy model—quickly turned into something they never saw coming when they unknowingly arrived at a lifestyle resort. After noticing some unusual interactions between guests, a kind older woman finally pulled them aside and explained exactly where they were…and what everyone was doing there. Rather than running for the exit, Ed and Sarah found themselves drawn to the welcoming atmosphere, body confidence, and freedom of simply being “super naked” around friendly, open-minded people. For several years, that was enough. But on a later trip, an effortless connection with another attractive couple changed everything, leading to their first full swap experience and opening the door to a whole new chapter together. It’s a story about accidental discovery, organic connection, and how sometimes the lifestyle finds you before you ever go looking for it. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) Ladies Love Desire Facebook page (00:02:12) Deer in headlights (00:03:12) Playboy model turned lifestyle resort promoter (00:04:36) These people are really friendly (00:06:28) We got ‘super naked’ at Desire (00:07:12) I wanted women to feel comfortable and welcome (00:08:33) Nothing happened for the first several visits to Desire (00:11:44) We met a really cute couple (00:14:34) It was all we talked about for months (00:18:09) It has become this amazing community of women (00:24:35) Women from the group send sexy pics on husbands’ birthdays (00:29:08) Am I normal questions (00:32:25) Temptations is a non-stop party (00:35:00) We were just sitting next to the bar minding our own business (00:40:43) Temptations vs Desire Pearl vs DRM (00:45:25) You can take her to your room…what am I supposed to do with her? (00:47:52) I’ve always been bi-curious (00:49:16) Theme nights and dressing sexy (00:51:20) Fashion for women over 40  We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ Ladies Love Desire Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/groups/LadiesLoveDesire Sarah’s Instagram Fashion Account https://www.instagram.com/stylinbysarah_/ Suzie Webster Author Page https://amzn.to/4rXPfOx

Zack and Josie welcome first-time guests Brad and Jenni for a candid and engaging conversation about how their journey into the lifestyle began. What started as Jenni’s private enjoyment of erotica and audiobooks quietly transformed their connection—sparking a level of intimacy Brad couldn’t quite explain until curiosity led him to ask questions. From there, the couple began listening together, eventually discovering podcasts that encouraged deeper conversations—ones they had never had before. Those discussions opened the door to exploring new desires, including Jenni’s interest in a same-sex experience, and set them on a path of shared discovery. Brad and Jenni reflect on the early steps, from navigating dating sites to their evolving experiences in the lifestyle. Along the way, they share the highs, the challenges, and the personal growth that comes with it. Zack and Josie add their own insights, creating a thoughtful and often humorous conversation about communication, compatibility, and how very different personalities can thrive together in this space. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) Reaping the benefits from your wife’s erotica addiction (00:05:11) Sex Stories podcast built our communication and eliminated fears (00:10:08) Erotica was our gateway drug(00:12:50) First FF experience (00:16:59) Insecurities, intimidation and support (00:20:51) Women with magnetic energy and confidence (00:23:29) FF dynamics (00:25:37) Our first meeting with a couple (00:29:46) Did I break a ‘rule’? (00:32:47) Different communication styles create conflict (00:34:31) ‘I need water’ (00:37:56) Flirting and socializing (00:39:50) Assessing when it’s time to play (00:42:09) Closing the deal and missed opportunities (00:44:06) Four way dynamics are tough to assess (00:46:55) Exploring separate play (00:48:06) Capitalizing on the energy in the moment (00:51:21) Communication in the moment can be challenging (00:53:06) Playing it safe vs taking more risks (00:54:26) Fear of misinterpretation (00:56:44) Enjoying all the lifestyle layers We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Resources Sex Stories Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-stories-real-people-talking-about-sex-love-relationships/id1448122972

Drew and Suzie are back for a wide-ranging conversation with Zack and Josie about fantasies—where they come from, how they evolve, and why they don’t always follow logic. Drawing from her experience as an erotica author, Suzie shares how deeply she engages with both her own fantasies and those of others, emphasizing that the most powerful turn-ons often center around connection, comfort, and undeniable chemistry. The group explores how compersion weaves its way into many of their fantasies, and why watching others can be such an intense and exciting experience. They also unpack an important idea: fantasies don’t need to make sense—and trying to overanalyze them can cause them to lose their appeal. Just because something is a turn-on doesn’t mean it’s something that needs to be acted on, a perspective Josie reinforces with insight she’s gained from her doctor and host of The PG Spot. The conversation touches on anticipation and “the reveal,” the role of storytelling in building desire, and what it looks like when long-held fantasies shift from imagination into real-life experiences. Along the way, they also discuss how they’ve helped other couples explore their own desires and expand their boundaries in ways they may not have considered before. Thoughtful, playful, and honest, this episode offers a high-level look at fantasies without overcomplicating them—while still leaving plenty to think about. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) Fantasies are an occupational necessity (00:03:20) Fantasies with compersion at the core (00:05:20) Suzie’s books (00:07:15) Fantasizing about someone else’s reality (00:11:06) Fantasies don’t have to be realistic (00:12:37) Compersion and voyeurism (00:14:10) Start with the unknown (00:15:27) A glimpse of nudity can be hotter than full nudity (00:17:32) ‘The reveal’ (00:19:43) From sexually shut down to sexual experimentation (00:21:54) Fucklicking (00:26:15) Expanding your circle of comfort (00:28:57) Acting out your fantasies with play partners (00:32:20) Vulnerability breeds vulnerability (00:34:33) Being told sometimes easier than asking for permission (00:36:37) FaceTime play sessions (00:42:00) FMF threesome vs a foursome (00:45:20) Taking and sharing videos of play sessions (00:48:12) Why foursomes are perfect (00:50:56) Future plans…fantasies fulfilled We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/ Zack’s reference to Josie’s masturbation story Ep 62: Sexy Swinger Confessions: Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played Round 3 at 00:17:00 ThePGSpot Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/4vUEHaqFfytqT99PVdLpcr?si=102cd36b32a5474e

Zack and Josie are back with Drew and Suzie—and this time, the conversation dives into the dynamics of new vs. repeat play. They kick things off with a bold question: what’s the perfect size? Josie and Suzie quickly find themselves in agreement—and their reasoning sets the tone for a fun, unfiltered conversation. From there, the conversation turns to what really drives desire. Zack says all he needs is mutual attraction, but Josie pushes back, arguing that context, energy, and connection play a much bigger role. While Zack and Josie admit they’re often open to new, in-the-moment opportunities, Drew and Suzie lean toward repeat experiences—where trust, comfort, and deeper exploration can take things further. That leads to a conversation about the “script.” Zack jokes that most couples stick to a familiar playbook, while Drew and Suzie are working with a much more expansive “menu.” They share how curiosity, communication, and a willingness to explore have shaped their experiences—and how they even help others expand theirs. And in the end, Zack shares the mindset shift that’s helped him enjoy it all more: letting go of expectations and simply being present for whatever unfolds. So… is it better to chase something new, or deepen something familiar? Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) AWG: The perfect penis (00:04:01) If there’s mutual attraction, I’m good to play (00:06:49) Context and novelty vs familiarity (00:10:54) Exchange of energy plays a big role in interest (00:12:02) Familiarity is more important than novelty (00:16:30) Voyeurism, compersion and Easy Bake Ovens (00:19:10) Going ‘off script’ and keeping things spicy (00:24:04) It’s exciting to help other people explore their sexuality (00:25:54) I don’t know what I don’t know (00:27:42) Vulnerability creates opportunities for new experiences (00:28:58) Sounding…are you into it? (00:32:06) How do you become aware of new things (00:35:29) Regretting the things you did do vs the things you didn’t do (00:36:29) Expanding the menu beyond vanilla items (00:39:53) Prescheduled weekend dynamics (00:42:53) Making the best of every situation (00:45:18) Letting go of anticipation to enjoy the moment you’re in (00:47:32) Expanding your sex menu (00:49:56) Finding other couples with extensive sex menus (00:53:10) We’ve had some amazing play experiences We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves! https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/

Zack and Josie are joined once again by Drew and Suzie as they unpack their first Bliss Cruise experience—while also explaining why they’ve come to jokingly refer to their Virgin Voyages trips as “Swinger Light.” From their first Bliss sailing—dubbed The Sexy Sampler Cruise—to comparing the overall vibe, they dive into the differences between the two cruise experiences. They break down everything from cost and crowd to how (and where) people express themselves, both subtly and unapologetically. But what truly sets Bliss apart? The intention behind it. Together, they reflect on how the meet ‘n greets, workshops, and curated experiences create a sense of connection and inclusivity for every dynamic, every curiosity, and every comfort level. One of the most powerful moments of the episode comes when Drew opens up about a deeply personal experience in the dungeon on the final night. As someone who’s used to being in control in every area of his life, stepping into a submissive role offered something unexpected—a release. Supported by Suzie and Lady Lethal, the experience became more than just physical; it created an intense emotional connection between the couple that carried far beyond that night. Zack and Josie reflect on their own journey this cruise—why it ended up being their favorite Bliss experience yet, despite not loving the ship itself. By letting go of expectations and focusing on what they genuinely enjoy, they found themselves in more organic, meaningful moments. They also revisit the highly anticipated Dance ‘n Play, sharing why it didn’t quite hit the same this time—and how something as simple as room layout can completely shift the energy of a space. From instant connections with new couples to lessons on trust, communication, and trying things more than once, this episode is a mix of playful honesty and deeper reflection on what makes these experiences so impactful. Support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (00:00:00) ‘Swinger Light’ Virgin Cruises (00:01:33) Our first Bliss Cruise…the Sexy Sampler (00:03:42) Finding lifestyle people on a vanilla [Virgin] cruise (00:05:28) Dressing provocatively on a vanilla cruise (00:07:24) Cruising for foodies (00:08:12) Cost comparison Bliss vs Virgin (00:10:42) Bliss meet ‘n greets and workshops (00:14:08) Drew, Suzie and Lady Lethal  (00:23:23) Organic experiences are the best experiences (00:26:35) Dance ‘n Play: daytime foam parties vs evening playroom (00:31:45) Do anything at least twice (00:34:40) Trust in your partner and your agreements (00:41:24) We meet a couple we clicked with immediately (00:42:52) We missed the Royal Caribbean Promenade and dance floor (00:48:25) Parting thoughts We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2 ⁠ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: ⁠⁠[email protected]