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https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/ Head over to our Patreon Exclusive where we get into the details you won't hear anywhere else. Dylan joins us to talk openly about dating after transition, navigating body dysmorphia, and the physical changes from testosterone (including the surprises like hot flashes and bottom growth). You won't want to miss this juicy and uncensored bonus content!  In this inspiring new episode of Trans Crush, Zelah sits down with Dylan (also known as Dylan and the Moon), who shares his journey of stepping into his authenticity and transitioning as a trans man at 26. Dylan opens up about growing up in Cornwall, using music as a safe space, and learning to honor his past rather than hiding from it. We explore critical topics including:  Dylan's early realization of his gender identity at six years old and the struggle of growing up in the '90s without the language to express who he was. Navigating teenage years and the uncomfortable feeling of "cosplaying" femininity before finding the courage to come out. His unique artistic process of creating duets with his pre-transition self (under his former name Lots Holloway) and building a vocal choir using his changing pitch range on T. Filming a four-year documentary detailing his voice transition to create vital resources for future transmasculine people. Winning a BBC music show, collaborating with Jason Derulo, and how stepping into authenticity attracts success and magnetism into your life. Join Zelah and Dylan for an uplifting conversation that demonstrates the beauty of finding your true voice. Dylan is a British singer, songwriter, and musician who transitioned at 26. He creates indie-folk music, writes about his journey, and works on documentary projects to provide resources and visibility for transmasculine people.

Watch the exclusive part here: https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/ Bella is back on Trans Crush! We first met Bella in Season 1, and a lot has changed since then. She has moved from London to Perth, Australia, and in this episode she talks honestly about how different her life feels now. She describes what it is like to wake up and not think about being trans every single day, the sense of normality she has found in Perth, and why Australia feels so different from the UK when it comes to how people react to trans people.  We also talk about some of the harder parts of transition. Gender dysphoria, the pressure to pass, being a 6'1" trans woman, body image, and the ridiculous beauty standards we put on ourselves. Bella also shares her experience with trans healthcare in Australia compared with the UK, including the huge difference in waiting times and how much knowledge doctors have about gender affirming care.  And we get into something I think a lot of people will relate to: how social media can completely distort the way we see ourselves. Bella talks about why she stepped back from trans activism and started focusing more on simply living her life. There are some really honest moments in this conversation, especially when we talk about dysphoria, confidence and learning to look at yourself with a little more kindness.  And if you're a parent of a trans teenager, stay until the end. Bella has some really thoughtful advice about social media, comparison and helping young people who are struggling with their bodies.  Come back to Patreon after the episode for a much more personal conversation about dating, relationships, sex, attraction and what actually makes a trans woman choose a partner: https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/

JOIN OUR EXCLUSIVE COMMUNITY ON PATREON: https://patreon.com/transcrush/ In this new episode of Trans Crush, Zelah sits down with Ant, a trans masc creative who challenges everything we think we know about gender, transition, and identity. From breaking free of binary expectations to questioning the idea that there is only one "right" way to be trans, Ant shares a deeply honest conversation about finding peace in the grey areas.  We explore important topics including:  • Ant's emotional realization they were trans, crying alone in a workplace bathroom after finally accepting their identity.  • Growing up as a tomboy, being bullied for not fitting gender expectations, and how childhood experiences shaped their journey.  • Why they stopped testosterone after six months, and how they realized medical transition wasn't the right path for them.  • The pressure many trans people face to medically transition, and why there is no checklist for being "trans enough."  • Dating as a trans masc person in a non-monogamous relationship, and how society perceives queer couples.  • Why gender stereotypes don't only hurt trans people, but affect everyone, from children in the playground to the mental health crisis facing men today.  • A refreshing perspective on transition as a journey rather than a destination, and why embracing uncertainty can be one of the most liberating parts of discovering yourself.  Join Zelah and Ant for an honest, funny, and thought-provoking conversation that celebrates authenticity over expectations. Don't forget to subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a new episode of Trans Crush.

Go watch the exclusive part on our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TRANSCRUSH/posts/joelle-on-and-164250664  This week on Trans Crush, we sit down with Joëlle, founder of Injectual, to talk about growing up in an all boys school, facing relentless bullying, navigating a difficult relationship with her father, and the moment she realised she wasn’t alone.  Joëlle shares her journey in the cosmetic beauty industry, how she built Injectual, opens up about how gender affirming care transformed her confidence, and explains why she’s now on a mission to make transition related care more accessible for other trans people.  We also discuss mental health, family, the realities of being a visible trans entrepreneur, the NHS waiting lists, and what it takes to build a successful business while staying true to yourself.  Support us on Patreon: http://patreon.com/transcrush  Follow us on socials: http://www.instagram.com/transcrushpodcast  http://www.tiktok.com/@transcrush.podcast

https://patreon.com/transcrush/  Head over to our Patreon Exclusive where we get into the details you won't hear anywhere else. Chloe is our first guest to talk openly about getting an orchiectomy, and she shares everything about that experience. We also dive into her dating life, what it's like dating men for the first time at 47, how her sexual attraction completely changed after transitioning, and the shocking ways men treat her differently once they know she's trans. You won't want to miss this spicy and uncensored bonus content!  https://patreon.com/transcrush/  In this incredibly moving new episode of Trans Crush, Pavie sits down with Chloe, who shares her inspiring story of transitioning later in life at the age of 47. Chloe opens up about the decades of suppressed femininity, the deep shame she felt, and the ultimate relief of finally living her truth.  We explore critical topics including:  •Chloe's lifelong struggle with gender identity, from wishing she could wake up as a girl in the '90s to the profound grief of missing out on her 20s and 30s.  •The pivotal moment her "egg cracked" in 2023 and the emotional process of coming out to her parents via a heartfelt letter.  •The story behind choosing her name, Chloe, and why she still goes by Lucy on socials.  •The differences between moving through the world as a man versus a woman, including the loss of male privilege and the joy of finally feeling connected to her body.  •Her bold decision to leave a 25-year corporate career to travel, write a romance novel (Transatlantic), and pursue trans femme coaching.  •A powerful message to transphobes about the painful reality of transition (like electrolysis) and why it is absolutely not a "choice."  Join Pavie and Chloe for a conversation that proves it is never too late to find happiness and live authentically. Don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell for more essential discussions!

https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/ In this powerful episode of Trans Crush, host Zelah sits down with Ronni, a 21-year-old trans masc individual. Ronni shares his deeply personal journey of knowing he was "born trans" from a very young age, navigating a childhood of feeling misunderstood, and his path through self-discovery and medical transition. We explore critical topics including: •Ronni's early realization of his trans identity and the impact of his older brother on his self-perception. •His coming out journey, from identifying as a lesbian to non-binary, and finally embracing his transmasc identity. •The challenges and triumphs of medical transition, including experiences with hormones (Testogel), top surgery, and the decision-making around body masculinization and hysterectomy. •The unexpected physical changes on testosterone, such as altered smell and cravings. •The vital role of trans community and representation, particularly in places like Brighton Trans Pride. •Ronni's powerful message to transphobes and his advice for younger queer trans mascs on finding community and staying true to themselves. Join Zelah and Ronni for an honest and inspiring conversation about living authentically, finding your chosen family, and the ongoing fight for trans rights. Don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell for more essential discussions! For an even deeper dive, head over to our Patreon Exclusive. Ronni gets candid about his dating experiences since transitioning, the challenges of intimacy and dysphoria in the cis gay male community, and offers crucial advice for younger transmascs navigating their relationships. We discuss the struggle for validation, the fetishization of trans bodies, and the importance of finding partners who truly understand. You won't want to miss this raw and unfiltered conversation! https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/

In this deeply personal episode of Trans Crush, host Pavie sits down with the Chanel. Chanel shares her journey from a traumatic childhood and early realization of her trans identity to becoming a confident woman who embraces self-expression through fashion, art, and her vibrant personality.  We delve into:  •Chanel's childhood experiences, including bullying and feeling misunderstood, and how these shaped her resilience.  •Her early awareness of being trans at just 7 years old, and the lack of trans representation that made her feel alone.  •The pivotal moment she saw a trans woman on Big Brother, realizing transition was possible.  •Her family's reaction to her coming out, navigating cultural expectations (Romani heritage), and the evolving relationship with her mother and grandmother.  •The importance of self-expression and how it contributes to her happiness and mental well-being.  •Chanel's advice for trans women starting their transition, especially those balancing it with education.  Join Pavie and Chanel for an honest and inspiring conversation about identity, family, and the power of living authentically. Don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell for more essential discussions!  Head over to our Patreon Exclusive where we dive deep into Chanel's dating life and experiences with intimacy. We're talking about dating men, women, and trans people, navigating reluctance around intimacy, and the biggest misconceptions people have about her. Plus, we get into some spicy details about a 'sex shed' and other uncensored stories! You won't want to miss this raw and unfiltered bonus content!"  https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/

This episode is sponsored by Feeld. Download the dating app for the curious on Google Play or the App Store: http://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/transcrush  In this episode of Trans Crush, Pavie sits down with the incredible Dani St James. Dani shares her journey from becoming one of the first trans women to appear on a British dating show to founding Not A Phase, a charity dedicated to supporting and uplifting trans adults across the UK. She also talks about building ZOAH and creating products designed with the trans community in mind.  We talk about:  • The work Not A Phase is doing across the UK, from support groups and community events to fitness programmes like Misfits.  • What trans representation looked like when Dani first stepped into the public eye and how things have changed over the years.  • Her appearance on First Dates and the unexpected full circle moment that came with it.  • The impact recent legal developments have had on the trans community and how she stays grounded through difficult times.  • Why visibility matters and the importance of creating spaces where people feel seen, supported, and celebrated.  • Her approach to self care, confidence, and showing up as herself every day.  SUBSCRIBE AND TURN ON NOTIFICATIONS SO YOU NEVER MISS AN EPISODE. WANT MORE? 🌶️ http://patreon.com/transcrush  Dani and Pavie continue the conversation over on Patreon, where they get into dating, relationships, attraction, building ZOAH, and whether men who exclusively date trans women are a red flag or not. It's funny, spicy, and as always, real. 🌶️ http://patreon.com/transcrush

In this episode of Trans Crush, host Zelah sits down with author and sex educator Max Hovey to dismantle the harmful "No Fats, No Fems" culture within the LGBTQ+ community. Max shares his journey from a toxic all-boys school in Kent to becoming a leading voice in body image advocacy and queer advocacy.  We dive deep into:  •The reality of internalized homophobia and the "queer toxicity phase."  •Unpacking the "it's just a preference" defense on dating apps.  •The history of tribe culture, the hanky code, and the creation of the Bear tribe.  •Cis white gay privilege and the importance of community unity.  •How representation (or lack thereof) shapes our desires. This is not everything! We’re heading over to our Patreon Exclusive channel where we lose the filter. We’re talking to Max as a sex educator about the boom in transmasc porn, the psychology of sexual arousal vs. attraction, and the truth about aftercare in queer spaces. You don't want to miss this spicy bonus part!  Watch here: https://patreon.com/transcrush/

Want to hear more of Loulou's intimate dating stories and uncensored content? Head over to our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/ for exclusive conversations, spicy gossips, and real stories you won't hear anywhere else. Click the link to join our community and learn so much more!  Pavie sits down with the amazing LouLou to discuss her journey as a trans woman, offering a candid look into her experiences with gender transition, medical transition, and navigating life as a transgender individual.  LouLou shares her personal story, from realizing her trans identity at a young age to the pivotal role of supportive parents in her HRT and breast augmentation journey. She opens up about the complexities of gender dysphoria, emphasizing that it’s a lifelong process of learning to cope, and the importance of patience during transition.  This episode goes deep into crucial topics like mental health within the LGBTQ+ community, particularly for trans women dealing with depression and societal pressures. LouLou offers powerful advice on finding interests outside of one’s trans identity and giving oneself grace during difficult times. We also tackle the challenging landscape of trans rights and the current political climate, highlighting the need for respect and education.  LouLou gets real about dating as a trans woman, sharing both the struggles of being kept a secret and the joys of finding genuine connection. She discusses the unique dynamics of TFT relationships (Trans-Femme Trans-Masc) and her personal desire for a bi-awakening.  This is an unfiltered conversation that exposes everything they never told you about being trans. Don’t miss this discussion on transgender experiences, gender identity, LGBTQ+ advocacy, and dating as a trans woman.

Today on Trans Crush, I sit down with Steven for a very honest conversation about attraction, shame, and finally admitting to yourself what you feel.  We talk about the first time he realised he was attracted to trans women, why he kept it hidden for so long, and how social pressure and anxiety shaped that silence. He opens up about what it means to stop hiding and start being honest with yourself.  Steven also shares how he sees relationships, what he is really drawn to, and why happiness comes from accepting who you are attracted to. Later in the conversation, he talks about his autism diagnosis and how it helped him understand himself more clearly.  A conversation about honesty, self acceptance, and saying things out loud for the first time.  Watch the exclusive part here: https://patreon.com/transcrush/

In this powerful episode of Trans Crush, host Zelah Glasson sits down with the iconic Oscar (Hotboiyo) to discuss his 13-year transition journey. From growing up in a conservative area of Brisbane, Australia, to becoming a reality TV star on "Slag Wars" and a successful adult content creator, Oscar shares the raw truth about trans masculinity, medical transition, gay community and finding love. We dive deep into:  The differences between transitioning in Australia vs. the UK. Oscar’s experience with Testosterone (HRT) over the last decade. Reality TV behind-the-scenes: Life on "Slag Wars." Navigating sexuality, sex work, and relationships as a trans man. Advice for the trans community on staying true to yourself.  If you're looking for inspiration, real talk, and a bit of "saucy" gossip, this is the episode for you! Subscribe for more trans-masc stories and turn on notifications! 🔥 READY FOR THE SAUCY STUFF? 🔥 The conversation doesn't end here! We’re moving over to Patreon for the Trans Crush Exclusive where things get a lot more intimate.  On Patreon, we answer:  🔞 Sex Work Secrets: How Oscar got into the industry and his OnlyFans demographics.  🫦 Saucier Stories: Uncensored details from the set of "Slag Wars."  👫 Relationship Dynamics: How Oscar and Angel navigate an open relationship and polyamory.  👅 The "Boy P***y" Debate: Oscar’s take on the most controversial questions in the community.  Don't miss out on the spicy gossip and real stories you won't hear anywhere else! Watch now: https://patreon.com/transcrush/

Today’s episode is a deeply powerful conversation with Daisy, a trans woman who has just turned 60 and is finally living as herself. Daisy shares her journey on hormone replacement therapy, and opens up about a painful childhood, including being bullied and surviving a rape at knife point at the age of 13. She talks about how those experiences shaped her, and the long road to finally choosing herself. We also talk about her life right now, preparing to come out to her wife, her three children and three grandchildren, and how she paused her transition for years to be there for her family before finally stepping into her truth. This is a story about courage, healing, and what it means to live authentically later in life. Daisy is an inspiration for anyone who feels it might be too late. Support us on Patreon💜 Watch this and all exclusive Trans Crush episodes for the price of one month: http://www.patreon.com/transcrush

Today on Trans Crush Cheza talks about something we do not hear enough about, what it is actually like transitioning as a teenager. She shares her journey starting puberty blockers at 13, going on hormones at 16, and having surgery at 21, and how having a supportive family and safe environment completely changed the outcome of her life. We also talk about why puberty blockers matter so much for trans teens. How they can give young people time, space and safety while they figure themselves out, and why for many they are life saving gender affirming care. And of course we get into the politics around it, why it is so heavily debated right now, and what it means that access has been restricted for under 18s in the UK. It is an honest, important conversation about growing up trans young, and what support can actually do when it is given at the right time. Watch exclusive episodes on Trans Crush Exclusive: http://www.patreon.com/transcrush Follow us on socials: http://www.instagram.com/transcrushpodcast http://www.tiktok.com/@transcrush.podcast If you want to support the work and watch the full unfiltered conversations, Patreon is where it all happens.

In this powerful episode of Trans Crush, host Zelah Glasson sits down with Kai, a 25-year-old model from Liverpool, to explore the complexities of the trans experience in the UK today. Kai opens up about his journey from realizing his identity as a "masc lesbian" to transitioning into the man he is today.  He shares the raw realities of top surgery, including the unexpected "winky face" nipple loss, the challenges of dating as a trans person, and the vital importance of family support. From the high-pressure world of modeling to the deeply personal process of medical transition, Kai’s story is one of resilience, humor, and radical self-acceptance.  Main Topics Discussed  - The "Stealth" Experience: What it means to navigate the world when people don't perceive you as trans.  - Medical Transition Realities: The difficult choices between starting testosterone and fertility preservation (IVF).  - Top Surgery Deep Dive: A candid look at recovery, "dog ears," scar care, and the emotional freedom of being top-less.  - Modeling as a Trans Man: Finding a safe haven in creative spaces versus the anxieties of traditional workplaces like construction.  - The Power of a Supportive Mother: How Kai's mom became his "rock" throughout his entire journey.  - Dating and Safety: The fears and precautions trans people face in the modern dating world. Patreon Exclusive: Dive Deeper with Kai! https://patreon.com/transcrush/  Want to hear more of Kai's unfiltered story? Join us on Patreon for the exclusive extended cut where we discuss:  - Future Family Planning: Kai's thoughts on ideal methods for having children.  - Sex Life & Sensitivity: A candid discussion on changes in sensitivity after top surgery and his sex life pre and post-transition.  - The complexities of dating as a trans man, including the importance of disclosing biological status.  - Phalloplasty Insights: A detailed look into the phalloplasty process, including wrist to thigh grafts, sensitivity, and laser hair removal.  - Online Persona vs. Reality: The difference between public confidence and private anxieties. Don't miss out on these crucial conversations!  Support Trans Crush and get access to exclusive content.  Join our Patreon: https://patreon.com/transcrush/