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Send us a text 🎙️ “When Numb Isn’t Working Anymore – The Battle to Live Fully Alive” with Doug Nielson In this soul-stirring Part 3 of the Warrior Heart series, Jason Coombs sits down with licensed psychotherapist and Warrior Heart co-founder Doug Nielsen to uncover what really keeps men stuck in cycles of addiction, burnout, and emotional disconnection—and what it takes to break free. Drawing from decades of clinical experience, personal recovery, and transformative men’s retreats, Doug shares a raw, powerful framework for reclaiming agency, healing the heart, and living fully alive. This isn’t about behavior change—it’s about identity, faith, and the courageous journey back to who you were created to be. Whether you’re in recovery, love someone who is, or simply feel like you’ve lost touch with your purpose—this conversation will wake something up inside you. 🔥 Episode Highlights: [02:59] Warrior Heart changed Jason’s life[07:35] “I want to live fully alive… and help others do the same.”[13:18] Disconnection from God as the root of addiction[15:26] Why the heart is the real battleground[22:18] Counterfeit adventure and the pain of false validation[26:29] The nobility of divine masculinity[31:40] Why clarity often comes in silence and solitude[34:03] Practical outcomes from Warrior Heart retreats. 💡 Key Themes: Take Life by the Helm: Doug introduces a powerful framework of anchors, compasses, and the North Star to help men rediscover direction, purpose, and peace.The 3 Core Desires: A battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to pursue. When these are unmet, men settle for counterfeits—substances, status, or thrill-seeking.Agency & Identity: Recovery is a return to the present moment, where God speaks and where real change begins.The Power of Retreat: Jason shares how a single Warrior Heart weekend created clarity in his relationship with his daughter—and how silence and nature cut through the noise of everyday life.🙏 Final Takeaway: Recovery isn’t just about getting clean. It’s about remembering who you are, whose you are, and what you were made for. Doug’s message is clear: You are not broken. You are noble. And it’s time to come home. 📚 Resources Mentioned: For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman:  https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100 Book: Take Life by the Helm by Doug Nielsen https://a.co/d/fbs3GxtWild at Heart by John EldredgeUnhooked by Jason Coombs https://a.co/d/aOymJ3wBricJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text Dropping the Pose Is Where Healing Starts. I used to think most men were struggling with behavior. But a lot of the time, they’re struggling with hiding. In Part 2 of the Warrior Heart series, I sit down with Duane Crabtree, Executive Director of Warrior Heart, to talk about the mask men wear and why most of us don’t even see it. What looks like confidence is often fear. What looks like strength is often self-protection. We talk about porn, people-pleasing, compulsive behaviors, and the quiet search for validation that drives so many men. We also get practical about what it means to fight for your beauty. Not with grand gestures. With presence, safety, and emotional intimacy. This episode is for men who are tired of performing. And for women who want to understand what’s really happening behind the silence. In this episode, you’ll hear: What “the poser” is and why it hides in plain sightThe two questions every man is asking and why taking them to people keeps him stuckHow fatherlessness shapes every man, even with a good dadWhat women actually need and how it differs from what men assumeSimple ways to battle for her heart without slipping back into the poseA sacred moment of brotherhood and grief that changed how I showed up for my familyThis is Part 2 of 3. If Part 1 opened the door to identity, this one shows what happens when a man finally stops faking it. For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman:  https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100 Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text Recovery doesn’t end when you get sober. For many men, the real work starts after the crisis passes. In Episode 40 of Get Unhooked, Jason Coombs shares why long-term sobriety still isn’t the same as emotional and spiritual freedom. After years in recovery, he found a new layer of healing through Warrior Heart Bootcamp, a three-day, phone-free men’s retreat designed to help men reconnect with God, brotherhood, and their true identity. This conversation is a window into the male heart. And it’s not just for men. Women will better understand the silent weight many men carry, the fears they rarely voice, and why safety and vulnerability matter so much in lasting recovery. You’ll also meet Chris Bennett, known as the “Hulk of Hope,” whose story of shame, fatherlessness, and transformation became a turning point not only for him, but for his marriage and family. This is Part 1 of a 3-part series on identity, healing, and what happens when men stop performing and start getting honest. In this episode, we cover: Why sobriety can plateau without deeper inner workThe vow of silence and why solitude changes menThe three core desires of a man’s heart: battle, adventure, beautyFather wounds, shame agreements, and the search for validationWhat creates real safety for vulnerability in marriage To close this episode with Chris and Autumn Bennett, I want to give you a clear path forward. If something in their story stirred hope, conviction, or even discomfort, pay attention to that. Those are often the signals that real change is available, if you are willing to take the next right step. Listen or share the episode here:  https://share.transistor.fm/s/35eda14e If you want to connect with Chris Bennett and explore his coaching services:  https://chrisbennettcoaching.com/ To learn more about the men’s Warrior Heart Bootcamp:  https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman:  https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100 And if you want to explore additional resources and the Unashamed Unafraid community:  https://unashamedunafraid.com/ Thank you for listening to Get Unhooked. If this conversation helped you, share it with someone you care about, and remember: you do not need a perfect plan. You just need to take the next right step. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text On day 73 of sobriety, Jason Coombs was standing outside a hardware store in Salt Lake City wearing an apron and grilling bratwursts for minimum wage. He was trying not to be seen. The shame was loud. Then one conversation flipped the script and launched a new life built on purpose, service, and usefulness. In this episode, Jason shares the exact moment he stopped treating sobriety like the finish line and started living recovery as a daily decision. We talk about how relapse patterns usually begin with emotions long before substances, how one simple question can interrupt the spiral, and why purpose shows up in the process, not after everything is fixed. This is for anyone rebuilding after relapse, walking through recovery, or loving someone who is. Episode Highlights (timestamps) [00:00:31] Introduction: Beyond Sobriety to Transcendence[00:01:25] The Hot Dog Stand Reality Check[00:02:43] The Ego Death Moment[00:04:30] Recognizing the Relapse Pattern[00:05:22] The Serenity Prayer in Action[00:07:01] The Conversation That Changed Everything[00:08:11] Discovering Purpose Through Usefulness[00:10:23] The Tree-Cutting Metaphor[00:12:12] What Can You Change Right Now?[00:13:40] Stepping Stones of Purpose[00:15:21] When Work Becomes Play[00:17:07] Purpose Happens in the Process[00:19:20] Transcendence Is a Decision, Not a Destination[00:23:24] Sharing Your Story With WisdomJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text 📢 We’re re-releasing our second most downloaded episode of the year — and for good reason. Why don’t our loved ones listen — even when we know they’re hurting? In this powerful solo episode, Jason Coombs, host of The Get Unhooked Podcast, reveals the surprising truth: 👉 It’s not about the right words — it’s about the right connection. With raw stories, faith-driven insights, and actionable tools, Jason breaks down how families can stop chasing control and start building real influence through trust and rapport. You’ll learn how to create safety, reduce shame, and become the kind of person your loved one can actually hear. What you’ll walk away with: The difference between trust and rapport — and why it mattersHow to use the PACE method (Partnership, Acceptance, Compassion, Empowerment)Jason’s story of helping a pregnant, homeless loved one detox on his couchThe right way to respond to relapseHow faith, not fear, becomes the foundation for influenceWhether you’re supporting someone in addiction or navigating emotional sobriety yourself, this episode is a guide to transforming conversations, restoring connection, and becoming a healing presence in the chaos. 🎧 Links & Resources: 🔗 Listen to Jason’s book Unhooked on Audible or find it on Amazon 🏡 Learn more at brickhouserecovery.com 🙏 Connect deeper with the podcast community at www.liveunhooked.com Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text When Bree Crabtree’s husband, Jeff, got sober, she thought their marriage might finally be okay. But behind closed doors, she was planning to leave him. What happened next turned both their lives — and recovery journeys — upside down. In this unforgettable conversation, Jeff and Bree open up about the messy, nonlinear path of healing, the identity crisis families face after addiction, and the spiritual and emotional work that saved their marriage after sobriety. Whether you’re in recovery, love someone who is, or are navigating your own personal transformation — this episode will challenge, comfort, and inspire you. Why listeners couldn’t stop sharing this one: Bree’s raw confession: “I couldn’t trust his sobriety for years…”The moment Jeff responded to her divorce request — with total surrenderThe daily habits that rebuilt their trust and changed everythingHow they turned pain into purpose with their business, Lighthouse TattooDon’t miss what thousands have called the most honest, hope-filled conversation on recovery this year. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text “Want to Start the New Year with Purpose? It Begins with How You Finish This One” As the year winds down, it’s easy to focus on what didn’t get done. But what if you could finish with peace — and start the new year with purpose? In this episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs shares a powerful, faith-fueled reflection and goal-setting process to help you get honest without shame, celebrate victories no one else saw, and partner with God to co-create a life that truly aligns. Whether you’re in recovery or supporting someone who is, this 5-step framework will help you reflect with grace and move forward with clarity, calm, and conviction. What You’ll Learn: A 5-step reflection process for growth, not guiltWhy emotional honesty leads to emotional sobrietyThe power of small wins (that no one claps for but matter most)A faith-first approach to setting meaningful goalsHow to use the “rocks vs. gravel” principle to prioritize what mattersWhy Seemingly Unimportant Decisions (SUDs) are anything butTime-Stamps: [01:00] 5-step year-end reflection[04:10] Redefining victory in recovery & life[12:49] Emotional honesty = Emotional sobriety[16:55] The “big rocks” approach to planning[24:41] The V-L-G method: Victory, Lesson, Gratitude[30:08] Why daily choices matter more than resolutionsKey Quote: “It’s not the bears in the forest that take us out. It’s the ants at the picnic.” — AA Wisdom Mentioned in This Episode: Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover by Jason CoombsThe Emotional Raincoat journaling toolLearn more at brickhouserecovery.comPerfect For: Individuals in recovery ready for a fresh startFamilies supporting someone in addictionFaith-based listeners who want more than surface-level goalsAnyone who’s tired of resolutions that don’t stick👉 If this episode resonates with you, subscribe, share it, and leave a review — it helps others Get Unhooked. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text The Moment Jason Finally Believed He Could Recover—And What Got Him There What does it take to believe in a future you can’t see? In this heartfelt episode, Jason Coombs shares the exact moment something shifted inside him—when someone else’s belief lit a spark that he couldn’t find on his own. Pulled straight from Chapter 11 of his book Unhooked, Jason recounts a powerful story of surrender, grace, and the kind of hope that doesn’t wait to be felt—it’s chosen, one painful step at a time. If you’ve ever tried everything to help someone you love recover… and you’re still not okay… this episode is your lifeline. Inside This Episode: A game-changing moment five weeks into treatmentWhy real hope is not wishful thinking—it’s practicalThe 3 components of hope (and how to activate them)What it means to model recovery even when they’re not readyHow surrender can look like strength, not giving upYou can’t control their choices. But you can find peace. And it starts with choosing hope—even when it feels impossible. 🎧 Listen now and discover what got Jason through his darkest moment—and how it can get you through yours. For those seeking additional support, Jason's book "Unhooked" is available on Audible and Amazon, and Brick House Recovery services can be found at brickhouserecovery.com. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text What if the best way to love them... is to let them fall? You’ve begged. You’ve prayed. You’ve bailed them out—again. And still, they won’t change.  But what if you’ve been fighting the wrong battle? In this unforgettable episode, Jason shares the moment that finally shattered his resistance during his fifth treatment attempt—and it wasn’t because someone “fixed” him. It was because everyone stopped trying. Discover how: A peer’s raw confrontation cut deeper than any therapyA counselor’s simple question flipped the script: “What are you willing to do for your sobriety?”His parents’ refusal to rescue him became the greatest act of loveA letter to God—filled with rage—broke open a spiritual healing he didn’t know he neededIf you're tired of doing everything for them… maybe it’s time to do something for you. 🎙️ Episode 34: The Rules That Broke Me Open This one might hurt. But it might also heal. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text Episode 33: Drink Like a Gentleman? Understanding Relapse and Emotional Sobriety Relapse doesn’t always begin with a needle or a pill—it often starts with a lie. In this raw and revealing episode, Jason Coombs shares the gripping story behind his most devastating relapse, just days after graduating drug court. What should have been a victory lap became the gateway to a nine-month spiral of cocaine, heroin, and despair. Based on Chapter 33 of his book Unhooked, this episode breaks down the deceptive nature of “milestones,” the dangerous idea of “drinking like a gentleman,” and why emotional sobriety matters just as much—if not more—than physical sobriety. Whether you’re walking alongside an addicted loved one or navigating your own recovery, this episode offers deep insight into the relapse cycle, emotional ambivalence, and the hidden inner battles that can derail even the most determined individuals. In this episode: Jason’s relapse after drug court graduation and why milestones can be misleadingHow rationalizations like “drugs were the problem, not alcohol” pave the road to relapseThe concept of emotional sobriety—and why clean time isn’t the whole pictureWhat families need to understand about the Stages of Change and relapse“Grace’s” Christmas Eve relapse and how it helped her commit to sobrietyThe Four C’s of family awareness and Seven Steps to SurrenderHow to love someone without losing yourself in their chaosAnd the moment of divine intervention that changed everythingIf you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why did they relapse?” or felt paralyzed by fear, guilt, or confusion, this episode is for you. Grab Jason’s book Unhooked on Amazon or Audible. Learn more about Brick House Recovery at brickhouserecovery.com. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text In this solo episode, Jason unpacks one of the most transformative frameworks for families who love someone struggling with addiction—and feel like nothing they’ve tried is working. If you’ve ever said “Why don’t they just stop?” or found yourself rescuing your loved one (again) despite your best intentions, this episode is for you. Jason walks you through: What’s really happening in the addicted brain (and why logic doesn’t work)How to spot the Stages of Change—and why it mattersWhy “just one area of resistance” can derail the whole recovery processHow to set boundaries without abandoning your heartThe difference between enabling and empoweringWhat it means to take your life back... even if your loved one isn’t readyThis episode is especially powerful for the family member who’s exhausted, discouraged, and wondering if hope is even still possible. It is. 📌 Highlights: [00:31] Reconsidering what you think you know about addiction[04:18] The "lightbulb moment" from Jason’s client and mentor story[07:03] The Stages of Change explained (in real language)[21:24] Why rescuing blocks internal motivation[25:35] Practicing “Vitamin N” (No) and emotional integrity[30:07] Jason’s 30-minute “vow of silence” challenge to reconnect with your larger story🔑 Key Takeaway: Natural consequences aren’t punishment—they’re one of the only things strong enough to wake up a brain that’s been hijacked by addiction. When you stop rescuing and start aligning with reality, you not only create space for their transformation—you start experiencing your own. 💬 Listener Love: “This episode helped me realize I’ve been stuck in my own stage of change around enabling. It gave me permission to let go, and a framework to do it with peace.” —Podcast listener 📘 Resources: Read Jason’s book Unhooked on Amazon or listen on AudibleExplore the Live Unhooked experience at brickhouserecovery.com Join the Brick House Recovery community for ongoing support and toolsJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text In this raw and deeply personal episode, Jason Coombs shares the sacred moment that changed the trajectory of his life—from self-destruction in active addiction to becoming a man with purpose. Through the emotional lens of his son Nathan’s birth, Jason unpacks the concept of “the gift of volition”—that pivotal shift when internal motivation finally replaces external pressure. Whether you’re someone struggling with addiction or a family member watching someone you love spiral, this episode will move you. You’ll hear the story of a man who relapsed on his way to a family trip, got a text that he was going to be a father, and spiraled deeper before finally choosing a new path. A path rooted not in fear, but in purpose. You’ll learn why love alone isn’t enough to save someone—and why families can’t force change, but they can prepare the soil for it. Jason offers profound insight into the power of spiritual surrender, the role of purpose in healing shame, and how relapse isn’t failure—it’s part of the process for many. This isn’t just a story about addiction. It’s a story about transformation. It’s for anyone clinging to the hope that something more is possible. Episode Highlights: The Bear Lake relapse and the birth of internal conflictThe life-altering text message: “She’s pregnant—and the baby is yours”The NICU visit that sparked a sacred shiftWhat Jason means by “the gift of volition” and why it’s the key to lasting changeWhy family love matters—but isn’t the whole equationFinding God’s unconditional love through fatherhoodWhy relapse doesn’t mean failure—it means the person is still in processA powerful closing metaphor: Why families are farmers, not saviorsIf you’re a family member who’s tried everything to help someone get sober—this episode is for you. And if you’re struggling yourself, it’s a reminder that if you’re still breathing, there’s still hope. 📘 Get Jason’s book Unhooked on Audible or Amazon 🌐 Learn more at brickhouserecovery.com Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text 🎙️ Episode 30: Silencing the Inner Critic – Understanding the Addict Voice In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode, Jason Coombs reflects on the one-year anniversary of his father’s passing—and what emerges is a raw, real conversation about one of addiction’s most cunning enemies: the inner critic, or what Jason calls the “addict voice.” Families often wonder: Why can’t they just stop? Why don’t they believe us when we tell them they’re enough? This episode offers real answers—and a powerful framework for recognizing how internalized shame and toxic self-talk keep people stuck in destructive cycles, even when they want to change. Jason draws from his own recovery journey, his Iron Man training, and Chapter 7 of his book Unhooked to reveal how the addict voice operates like Gollum—manipulative, believable, and brutally loud—while the real self is quiet, kind, and often drowned out. Whether you’re someone struggling with addiction or a loved one who feels helpless on the sidelines, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on beneath the surface. 🔑 What You’ll Learn: Why the addict voice is so believable—and how to spot itWhat well-meaning “encouragement” often misses (and what actually helps)The life-changing question that stopped Jason in his tracks: “If I talked to you the way you talk to yourself, would we be friends?”A Hindu practice called Genshai—and how it can change everythingHow mirror affirmations, cold plunges, and encouraging others can actually rewire your brain👪 For families: This episode will help you stop spinning your wheels trying to fix what’s not broken in you. Learn how to stop rescuing and start reconnecting—so you can influence from a place of peace, not panic. 👤 For individuals: If your own self-talk has become a weapon, Jason gives you practical, compassionate tools to stop the spiral and start healing. 💡 Big takeaway: The inner critic drains energy. Encouragement—even to yourself—creates strength. Whether you’re in recovery, supporting someone who is, or somewhere in between, this episode will give you tools to silence the voice that says you’re not enough…and finally hear the one that’s been whispering truth all along. 📚 Want to go deeper? Jason’s book Unhooked is available on Amazon and Audible. For more resources or to find support for your family or loved one, visit brickhouserecovery.com Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text Episode 29 – When Loving Them Means Letting Them Fall Jason on why boundaries aren’t rejection—they’re redemption. What if the most loving thing you can do… is let go? In this episode, Jason Coombs unpacks one of the hardest lessons in family recovery: sometimes love means stepping back and allowing natural consequences to run their course. Sharing his own story of homelessness, addiction, and the night everything broke open, Jason explains why rock bottom—while painful—is often the starting point for real transformation. You’ll hear: Why rescuing can prolong addictionThe truth about “the gift of desperation”How boundaries create space for breakthroughA simple text that pierced through the darknessWhat families can do when they feel powerlessIf you’ve ever wrestled with when to step in and when to let go—this episode will help you find clarity, courage, and hope. 📕 Want more? Get Jason’s book “Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover” on Amazon or Audible. 🌐 Visit brickhouserecovery.com to learn more. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

Send us a text When addiction takes control, it doesn’t just destroy the person using — it pulls everyone around them into the chaos. In this powerful episode, Jason Coombs explains the spiral — that heartbreaking stage when addiction hijacks logic, love, and trust — and shows families how to stop getting dragged down with it. If you’ve ever felt torn between helping and enabling, this episode will give you the clarity and courage to step back without giving up. Jason shares practical tools for detaching with love, setting healthy boundaries, and protecting your own peace while your loved one finds their bottom. In this episode: Why promises keep breaking — and what’s really happening in the brainHow to recognize when you’re getting pulled into the spiralThe truth about rescuing: why helping often hurtsThe “Emotional Raincoat” — a mindset that lets you stay loving without losing yourselfWhat it means to be powerless over them but powerful over youIf you’re exhausted from trying to fix someone else’s addiction, this episode will show you how to find peace, strength, and hope — even when they’re still in the spiral. 👉 Resources: Jason’s book Unhooked is available on Audible and Amazon. Learn more at brickhouserecovery.com. If you or someone you love is in crisis, call 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100