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What happens when the life you prayed for starts happening—but your mind is still bracing for what could go wrong? In this episode of Pretty Intentional, I’m exploring something I’m learning in real time: I know how to survive, achieve, push forward, and figure out what’s next. But I’m realizing I haven’t always known how to simply receive—to sit in the fullness of a good moment without minimizing it, moving the goalpost, or immediately searching for something bigger. From surviving cancer to watching dreams come to life, including debuting Meet H.E.R. at ESSENCE Festival, I’m learning that there’s a difference between making every moment count and actually being present enough to experience it. Maybe healing isn’t only about recovering from what hurt us. Maybe it’s also learning to trust joy, receive answered prayers, and stop living as though the other shoe is always about to drop. I didn’t survive to not live. Now I’m learning what it means to actually live like I’m finally home. Follow Candice @candiceobeauty and @prettyintentional for more. Also follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube or wherever you listen to your podcasts!

Is vanity really so bad—or have we misunderstood what it can mean? In this episode of Pretty Intentional, Candice explores the idea that vanity can be sanity: a ritual of self-love, maintenance, identity, and choosing yourself. From losing her hair, brows, lashes, and sense of familiarity during cancer treatment to navigating reconstructive surgery, body changes, and beauty enhancements, she reflects on learning to enjoy beauty without becoming dependent on it. The conversation also goes deeper into the history of women—particularly Black women—using appearance as currency, survival, respectability, and access, and what it means to reclaim vanity without centering men. Plus, we’re talking about dating yourself, setting your own baseline for care, and the beauty rituals we may have lost somewhere along the way. Because maybe Grandma wasn’t doing the most with those 100 brush strokes after all. Vanity doesn’t have to mean insecurity or obsession. Sometimes, tending to yourself simply says: I am worth the effort—even when no one else is watching. Because you are the occasion. Follow Candice @candiceobeauty and @prettyintentional for more. Also follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube or wherever you listen to your podcasts!

The dating pool isn’t trash… it’s just smaller when you know yourself. In this episode, Candice gets real about her dating life (yes, finally) and unpacks what it means to be single by choice—not by lack. From shutting down wild speculation to exploring why so many women would rather be alone than under-loved, this conversation challenges the narrative around dating, standards, and self-worth. If you’ve ever felt like: You love your life, but still wonder about partnershipYou’re no longer impressed by potentialYou’re choosing peace, even when it means walking awayThis episode is for you.

Have you ever had a moment where life felt… personal? Like no matter how hard you try, something keeps falling apart.Like the setbacks aren’t random — they’re targeted. In today’s episode, Candice opens up about her own experiences with loss, disappointment, and adversity — from financial setbacks and job loss to cancer and pregnancy loss — and the quiet question that can follow: “Does God hate me?” But instead of staying in that question, this conversation challenges it. What if repeated hardship isn’t always punishment… but pattern?What if the issue isn’t just what you’re going through, but how you’re engaging with it?And what does it actually look like to grow from adversity instead of just surviving it? Candice explores the difference between suffering that shapes you and cycles that keep you stuck, including: Why some people grow through adversity while others repeat itThe role of self-reflection, accountability, and pattern recognitionThe concept of controlled demolition — and why some things in your life may need to fall apart on purposeA thoughtful challenge to the idea that “God gives His toughest battles to His strongest soldiers”How to reframe hardship in a way that restores your agency without dismissing real painIf you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Why does this keep happening to me?”This conversation is for you.

In this episode of Pretty Intentional, Candice Coleman delves into the complex relationship between anger and bitterness, particularly in the context of Black womanhood. She shares her personal experiences of navigating emotions in predominantly white spaces and the societal pressures that shape how Black women express their feelings. Candice emphasizes the importance of recognizing anger as a valid emotion that can lead to positive change, while also cautioning against the dangers of allowing anger to turn into bitterness. She discusses the physical manifestations of emotional burdens and advocates for honoring one's anger as a form of self-love and healing.

In this episode, Candice Coleman shares her journey of self-discovery as she embraces her role as an auntie while redefining what legacy means to her. She discusses the societal pressures surrounding motherhood, her personal experiences with health challenges, and the importance of choosing peace and joy over societal expectations. Candice emphasizes that legacy is not solely about motherhood but about the impact one leaves on others, and she encourages women to honor their own paths and choices. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Embracing Life as an Auntie 02:43 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Clarity 07:43 Redefining Legacy Beyond Motherhood 11:57 The Role of the Eternal Auntie 19:00 Conclusion: Shaping Your Own Legacy

In this episode of Pretty Intentional, host Candice Coleman discusses the evolution of friendships in adulthood, emphasizing the importance of community, recognizing red flags, and the intentionality required to build meaningful connections. She reflects on her personal journey with friendships, the significance of emotional safety, and the beauty of choosing relationships that align with one's true self. 00:00 Welcome Back and Embracing the Divine Feminine 02:45 The Importance of Adult Friendships 05:45 Navigating Friendship Dynamics 08:21 Recognizing Red Flags in Friendships 11:06 Intentionality in Building New Connections 13:51 Embracing Change and Growth in Friendships 16:34 Creating Meaningful Connections as Adults 19:20 Conclusion: Honoring Your Evolution in Friendships Be sure to rate, comment and subscribe!

What if stepping into your most powerful self didn’t mean doing more—but being more? In this episode of Pretty Intentional, we’re going beyond the buzzwords and diving into the essence of divine feminine energy: what it really is, how it’s been buried under hustle culture, and the practical, soulful ways you can awaken it. Candice gets deeply personal—sharing her own journey of shifting from burnout to balance, from survival mode to softness. From therapy revelations (and a little humor) to COVID discoveries that sparked inner transformation, this episode explores the internal and external ways to embody divine feminine energy with intention and authenticity. We’ll talk about: The difference between masculine and feminine energy (and why you need both) 7 daily practices Candice leaned into to reconnect with her feminine power Mirror work, inner dialogue, and why your “bad bitch playlist” counts as an affirmation Physical embodiment of the divine feminine: hair, makeup, fragrance, nails, and more Books and tools to support your journey deeper into softness, self-trust, and magnetism Whether you're new to the concept or already deep into your feminine flow, this episode is your guide to becoming her—the woman who leads with ease, loves herself fully, and knows her presence is powerful. Be sure to rate, review, and share with a friend who needs a reminder that her softness is strength. Books Recommendations here. Chapters 00:00 Unlocking Inner Power: The Divine Feminine Energy 06:30 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 13:21 Practices to Embrace Your Feminine Energy 20:33 Physical Expressions of the Divine Feminine 23:39 Reclaiming Your Divine Feminine Energy

In this episode of Pretty Intentional, we’re redefining what it means to be strong. Society tells us that strength looks like being tough, independent, and always in control—but what if real power comes from softness? We’ll explore how embracing ease, grace, and feminine energy can make you stronger, not weaker. I’ll share personal stories, dig into why softness is a revolutionary act (especially for Black women), and break down how choosing ease in relationships, friendships, and even the way we speak to ourselves can transform our lives. Listen in as we discuss: Why true strength isn’t about being hard, but being intentional How softness can shift your relationships and self-perception The historical weight of rest and ease for Black women Practical ways to invite more softness into your daily life Because when you lean into softness, you don’t lose your power—you step fully into it. Blog | YouTube | Instagram

In this episode of Pretty Intentional, host Candice Coleman explores the complexities of mother-daughter relationships, particularly within the context of Black women. She discusses the impact of these relationships on self-confidence and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of healing, acceptance, and understanding mothers as individuals with their own stories. Through her own experiences and therapy journey, Candice highlights the significance of breaking generational curses and fostering healthier connections with mothers. Keep Up With Me: Blog | Instagram | YouTube Book: Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died

In this episode of Pretty Intentional, we're diving into the power of self-love and how it shapes the way we treat others. I’ll be sharing my experience mentoring young girls and the impactful exercises we did to build confidence — from "Pass on the Pretty," where they gave non-physical compliments to one another, to "Mirror Mirror," a powerful self-affirmation exercise that moved many of them to tears. We’ll talk about how societal pressures have historically challenged Black women’s confidence, and how while affirmation from others feels good, true confidence starts within. By embracing self-love and acceptance, we set the foundation for healthier relationships and a more empowered life. If you've ever struggled to accept a compliment or found yourself projecting insecurities onto others, this episode is for you. Let's talk about how we can all start to pass on the pretty. Takeaways Learning to love yourself isn't just about feeling good.True confidence starts on the inside, rooted in self-love.Compliments from others mean little if you don't believe them yourself.Mirror work helps combat societal pressures and fosters self-worth.Creating a safe space for self-reflection is essential.Affirmations can help build confidence and self-acceptance.It's important to honor your body and its journey.Self-acceptance allows for growth and healing.Passing on compliments can change the narrative among women.We treat others the way we treat ourselves. STAY CONNECTED: Blog IG YouTubeEmail List

In this episode of Pretty Intentional, host Candice Coleman discusses the intersection of beauty, lifestyle, and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of therapy in navigating personal trauma and emotional well-being. She shares her own experiences with therapy, particularly in relation to her struggles with motherhood and generational trauma. Candice provides practical advice for those considering therapy, including the importance of readiness, setting goals, honesty, and commitment to the therapeutic process. She encourages listeners to grieve their old selves as they embark on their healing journeys, ultimately highlighting that healing is about freeing oneself from burdens that were never theirs to carry. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Pretty Intentional Podcast 01:02 The Importance of Therapy in Personal Growth 04:05 Mother's Day Reflections and Personal Trauma 08:28 Finding the Right Therapist 10:17 Preparing for Therapy: Readiness and Goals 12:01 Honesty and Commitment in Therapy 14:04 The Journey of Therapy: Doing the Work 17:24 Grieving the Old Self 20:20 Recap and Final Thoughts Follow @candiceobeauty Follow @prettyintentional Blog YouTube

In this episode of Pretty Intentional, Candice delves into the concept of walking in God's favor through a spiritual lens. She emphasizes the importance of faith, patience, and obedience as the trifecta necessary for manifesting blessings. Candice encourages listeners to actively engage in their faith journey, prepare for their desires, and align with God's will to truly experience the overflow of favor in their lives. Takeaways Favor is about alignment, not favoritism. Faith is the foundation for receiving blessings. Patience requires active endurance, not passive waiting. Obedience is crucial for aligning with God's plan. You must prepare for what you are praying for. Waiting is an opportunity for personal development. Obedience often requires stepping out of comfort zones. You need to believe that what you want is already yours. Follow @candiceobeauty Follow @prettyintentional

While many rush to map out their year by January 1, I'm here to remind you—you're not late. In nature, winter is a time of hibernation and release, and the true new year begins in spring. So, let’s take a strategic yet grace-filled approach to planning the year you actually want. In this episode, I’m sharing five intentional ways to prep for your best year beyond just vision boards and goal-setting. From purging what no longer serves you to reflecting with Year Compass, writing to your future self, prioritizing health checkups, and even using AI to structure your day—this is all about setting yourself up for success. Plus, I’ll share why redemption is my word for 2025 and how I’m stepping into this year fully ready to reclaim my power. If you’re feeling behind, trust me—you’re right on time. Let’s get into it! Follow Candice @candiceobeauty and @prettyintentional on IG for more and of course follow the show on Spotify and Apple. Links mentioned from the episode: Download Year Compass here. Write a letter to your future self here.

In this episode host Candice Coleman discusses turning 40 years old, overcoming life's challenges and the important life lessons she has acquired along the way.