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Send us a text We all have that voice. You know the one - lurking in the back of your mind, blurting out things like “You’re going to mess this up” or “Who do you think you are?” It can be loud, relentless, and often… completely out of line. But here’s the twist: What if your inner critic isn’t actually your enemy? In this episode of Transformative Journeys, Johanna takes a deep, honest dive into the world of self-talk, self-doubt, and that nagging voice we all carry. Through the lens of neuroscience, lived experience, and self-compassion, she explores: Where your inner critic really comes from (spoiler: it thinks it's helping)The connection between the amygdala, fear, and judgmentHow shame, childhood messages, and cultural pressure wire us to self-criticizeWhy “fighting” your inner critic usually backfiresHow to “quiet quit” its worst messages (without shutting down entirely)Science-backed tools to reframe, regulate, and reclaim your narrativeIf you’ve ever been exhausted by your own self-talk, or wondered why that inner voice gets so loud when you're on the verge of growth - this episode is for you. Because you don’t need to fire your inner critic… You just need to give it a new job description. 🎧 Grab your earbuds and hit play - this one’s full of both science and soul. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Kristin Neff – Self-Compassion / Fierce Self-CompassionDr. Rick Hanson – Resilient, Hardwiring HappinessDr. Tara Brach – RAIN technique🔗 Download free resources at transformativejourneys.ca ☕ Support the show at buymeacoffee.com/transformativejo 📺 Watch the enhanced YouTube version with visuals and journaling prompts 🛑 Disclaimer: Johanna is not a therapist, just a human sharing lived experience. “I’m just Johanna – a fellow human being on my journey through this thing called life, and your guide on this transformative journey.”

Send us a text Your intuition isn’t magic — it’s data. In this episode, we explore the science behind gut feelings, why they matter, and how to stop confusing them with anxiety. ✨ What you’ll learn: How your brain and nervous system process subtle cuesWhy intuition feels different from fearPractical ways to strengthen self-trustMindfulness tips to quiet the noise and tune in🎥 This enhanced version includes on-screen prompts and visuals for a more immersive experience. Links & Resources: ✔ Free resources: transformativejourneys.ca ✔ Instagram: @transformativejourneys.johanna ✔ Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys 💜 Subscribe for more honest conversations and practical tools for growth! 🛑 Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. Johanna is not a licensed therapist — just a human sharing lived experience, reflection, and tools for growth.

Send us a text Have you ever felt exhausted trying to live up to who you’re “supposed” to be? In this episode of Transformative Journeys, we explore the quiet, sneaky ways we “should” on ourselves — and how those internalized expectations can leave us feeling like we’re not sure if the person we’re being is the real ‘us’.  Our brains are wired for belonging and safety. From a young age, we learn which behaviors earn approval, love, and acceptance — and many of those lessons quietly turn into rigid internal rules we never consciously agreed to. Over time, those “shoulds” can leave us feeling disconnected, resentful, or like we’re performing a version of ourselves that doesn’t quite fit. In this episode, we unpack: Where some of our internal “shoulds” come from Why our nervous system reacts so strongly to disapproval and perceived rejectionHow to tell the difference between obligation and inner truthWhy discomfort doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong — it often means you’re unlearning something oldHow small, compassionate acts of self-permission can lead to a more authentic lifeYou’ll also be guided through a simple but powerful reflection exercise to help you identify where expectations — not choice — may be driving your decisions. ✨ This episode is for you if: You feel pressure to be a certain way for othersYou struggle with guilt when choosing yourselfYou want to live more in alignment with your values — without burning your life to the groundYou’re learning that authenticity doesn’t require rebellion… just awareness and practice🔧 Free Tools & Resources Looking for extra support as you navigate discomfort and change? Visit Johanna’s Toolkits for free, practical tools to support your nervous system and build emotional resilience:  👉 https://transformativejourneys.ca/  🤍 Support & Community Enhanced visual version available on YouTube Follow along on Instagram: @transformativejourneys.johanna  ☕ Support the Podcast If you’d like to support the show and help keep these conversations going, you can toss a little love into the duct tape fund here: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys  🛑 Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. Johanna is not a licensed therapist — just a human sharing lived experience, reflection, and tools for growth.

Send us a text How much time do you spend truly resting? Not just zoning out on your phone or multitasking while you fold laundry - but actually allowing your mind and body to pause, recover, and restore? In this episode of Transformative Journeys, we’re talking about something that should be simple… but often isn’t: rest. Not the hustle-culture version you earn after doing everything for everyone else - but radical, intentional rest. The kind your brain, body, and spirit need to heal, regulate, and show up as your full self. We’ll explore: Why we feel so guilty about slowing downThe neuroscience behind rest and how your brain repairs during wakeful stillnessDr. Saundra Dalton-Smith’s 7 types of rest (spoiler: it’s not all about sleep)How to identify what kind of rest you actually need right nowSimple ways to integrate restorative moments into real life (without bubble baths or mud masks… unless that’s your thing)If you’re someone who struggles to slow down—or needs permission to rest without guilt—this one’s for you. Resources Mentioned: ✨ Grab the FREE Bounce Back Blueprint – your guide for when life feels like a lot🎧 Episode 7: Mindfulness as a Strategy for Coping and Healing📚 Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith’s TED Talk + book Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity  Let’s Connect 📸 Instagram: @transformativejourneys.johanna 🌐 Website + freebies: transformativejourneys.ca ▶️ YouTube (enhanced episode version): Transformative Journeys 🛑 Disclaimer: Johanna is not a therapist - just a human sharing lived experience. ✨ “I’m just Johanna – a fellow human being on my journey through this thing called life, and your guide on this transformative journey.”

Send us a text Are you tired of making New Year’s resolutions… only to abandon them by mid-January (or earlier)? You’re not alone. In this episode of Transformative Journeys, I break down the real reasons resolutions tend to fail - and spoiler alert: it’s not because you lack willpower or motivation.  We explore: ✨ The neuroscience behind why your brain resists sudden change 🧠 Why willpower is a limited, unsustainable resource 🧩 How identity-based goals work better than deprivation-based resolutions 🧘‍♀️ How reflection, structure, and small, meaningful shifts can rewire your habits 🛠 Plus: My personal process for setting goals that stick - and why I haven’t made a resolution in years You’ll also get two sets of journaling prompts to help you reflect on the past year and move into the new one with intention and clarity. This isn’t a “New Year, New You” conversation. This is about working with your brain, not against it - and creating a version of growth that actually fits your life. 🟣 Mentioned in this episode: 📥 Download the free Bounce Back Blueprint: transformativejourneys.ca 🎧 Episode 25: Who Am I to Start a Podcast? 📺 Watch the enhanced version with visuals and prompts: https://www.youtube.com/@TransformativeJourneys-Johanna   💬 Let’s connect:  Instagram: @transformativejourneys.johanna  Website: transformativejourneys.ca  💜 If this episode resonated, please follow, share, or tap that subscribe button so others can find the podcast too! 🛑 Disclaimer: I’m not a therapist, just a human sharing lived experience. ✨ “I’m just Johanna – a fellow human being on my journey through this thing called life, and your guide on this transformative journey.”

Send us a text This week’s episode is a little different. No tools, no tips, no neuroscience or journaling prompts… Just a heartfelt moment of pause - between the chaos of the season - to honour where you are, reflect on what’s been, and hold hope for the year to come. Whether your December includes joyful traditions or quiet ache… Whether you celebrate Yule, Hanukkah, Christmas, Kwanzaa, or simply winter in your own way… This episode is a soft place to land. ✨ In this closing episode of the year, I also open up about something I hadn’t planned to include. This grief support mini-series - which I’ve been so honoured to share - turned out to be one of the hardest things I’ve ever written. Even after 30+ podcast episodes and nearly 150 presentations about my loss for Threads of Life, this series hit especially close to home. Because I’m still on my grief journey too. As the 20-year anniversary of my son’s death approaches, I continue to feel the weight of certain days - holidays, his birthday, Mother's Day, and the anniversary itself. The grief may be softer now… but it hasn’t disappeared. And like a bear in hibernation, it sometimes gets poked awake during this season. If you know that feeling? You’re not alone. This episode is filled with gratitude, reflection, remembrance… and a blessing - one I hope lands gently for anyone walking through the hard parts of December. 💛 From me to you: Thank you for being here. I’m so grateful to walk this path with you. Connect with Johanna: 🌐 Website: https://transformativejourneys.ca/ 📸 Instagram: @transformativejourneys.johanna 💌 Want to send a note or suggest a future episode topic? Visit the site and say hi! Podcast music is “Back Roads” by Will Harrison from Epidemic Sound 🛑 Disclaimer: Johanna is not a therapist, just a human sharing lived experience. ✨ “I’m just Johanna – a fellow human being on my journey through this thing called life, and your concierge on this transformative journey.” 🎧 Subscribe to Transformative Journeys wherever you listen to podcasts.

Send us a text This is the final episode in my four-part series on navigating grief and loss during the holiday season. The holidays can bring deep spiritual conflict and emotional pain after loss. In this episode, we explore how to navigate traditions that no longer feel safe, sacred, or comforting - and what to do when your beliefs have shifted. In this heart-to-heart conversation, we go deeper into the emotional complexity of the holidays - including the spiritual dissonance that can come with grief, the pressure of traditions that no longer feel comforting, and the conflicting emotions that surface when we’re holding both joy and sadness at once. I also share my own stories of navigating the first few Christmases after my son died - the year I held on to every tradition, the year we ran away to Mexico (and what I learned on the balcony of our room), and how I eventually found a way to blend old and new rituals to meet myself where I was. We'll talk about: What spiritual disconnection during the holidays can feel likeLetting go (or holding on) to rituals and traditionsWhy it’s totally normal to feel two things at the same timeHow your brain is wired to hold grief and gratitude togetherPractical suggestions for boundaries, self-care, and meaning-makingThis episode is about compassion. About not doing the holidays on autopilot. And about honouring your needs - even if they change year to year. 🛠 Free tools mentioned - available at: : https://transformativejourneys.ca/johannas-toolboxes   🧠 Essential Grief Toolkit  📝 Insights for Navigating Grief💜  Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys Thank you for being here - especially during a season that can feel so heavy. You are not alone. 

Send us a text Episode 30 is part of my holiday grief support series - and we’re diving into something both simple and sacred: ritual. Rituals aren’t just religious or cultural. They’re deeply human. From how you make your morning tea to how you mark a loved one’s memory - rituals can offer grounding, connection, and comfort in the face of grief and transition. In this episode, I explore the difference between traditions and rituals, the neuroscience behind why they help us feel more emotionally steady, and how we can create new rituals that support us - especially when old ones no longer fit. We’ll talk about: The four types of grief rituals (Dr. Kenneth Doka’s framework)How cultures around the world use ritual to process changeThe emotional and neurological power of intentional ritualsSimple ideas for everyday or holiday ritualsJournaling prompts to help you create your ownThis conversation is a gentle companion for anyone grieving this holiday season — or navigating changes that leave you longing for grounding, meaning, and connection. 🧰 Free grief support downloads mentioned in this episode at https://transformativejourneys.ca/johannas-toolboxes  💜 Essential Grief Toolkit 💜 Insights for Navigating Grief 💌 Want to support this podcast and the free tools I create?  Toss a little love in the duct tape fund at buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys 🛑 Disclaimer: Johanna is not a therapist, just a human sharing lived experience.  ✨ “I’m just Johanna – a fellow human being on my journey through this thing called life, and your guide on this transformative journey.” 🔗 Podcast music is “Back Roads” by Will Harrison from Epidemic Sound.

Send us a text When someone you care about is grieving, it can feel difficult to know what to say, what to do, or how to show up. You don’t want to say the wrong thing… but saying nothing doesn’t feel right either. And during the holiday season - or around anniversaries, special dates, or milestones - those fears and uncertainties can grow tenfold. In this heartfelt and practical bonus episode, Johanna shares gentle guidance for becoming a compassionate companion on someone else’s grief journey. Drawing from lived experience, trauma-informed insight, and years of supporting families through Threads of Life, she breaks down: 🌿 Why grief feels heavier during holidays and milestones  🌿 The fears supporters have - and why they’re normal  🌿 What grieving people often wish others understood  🌿 Specific phrases, questions, and actions that genuinely help  🌿 Why “Let me know if you need anything” doesn’t work  🌿 How to honour someone’s loved one by using their name  🌿 How to offer support without trying to fix the pain  🌿 How to recognize when a grieving person may need more support  🌿 The role of an “anchor person” during emotional events  🌿 How to care for yourself while caring for someone grieving This episode offers a grounded roadmap for walking beside someone through loss - with compassion, intention, and presence. ✨ Free grief & support resources: Download Johanna’s toolboxes at transformativejourneys.ca ✨ Threads of Life: A Canadian nonprofit offering peer support, education, and community to families affected by workplace tragedy. Learn more at threadsoflife.ca 💛 Support the podcast: If Johanna’s work has helped you, you can support the show at buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys 🛑 Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Johanna is not a therapist — just a human sharing lived experience. Please seek professional mental health or medical support when needed.

Send us a text The holiday season can feel impossibly heavy when you’re grieving. Whether this is your first December without your person - or the fifth, or the tenth - this time of year can bring emotional landmines, painful contrasts, and overwhelm that others don’t always see. In episode 29a, Johanna walks beside you to explore: 🌿 Why holiday “firsts” (and seconds… and thirds…) hit so hard 🌿 The emotional, sensory, and social triggers unique to this season 🌿 Anticipatory grief and why the lead-up is sometimes worse than the day itself 🌿 How grief affects your brain and nervous system (hello, “87 browser tabs” energy) 🌿 Boundaries, expectations, and how to stop performing the “holiday mask” 🌿 Grounding tools, sensory resets, and strategies to honour your needs 🌿 A full permission slip to do the holidays your way — no guilt attached This episode is part of a four-part holiday grief support series, with two mini-episodes releasing this week and more in-depth conversations coming over the next two Mondays. ✨ Free grief resources: • Insights for Navigating Grief • Essential Grief Toolkit Download at Johanna’s Resilience Toolboxes 💛 Your support helps keep the podcast going:  https://buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys Podcast music is ‘Back Roads’ by Will Harrison from Epidemic Sound.   🛑 Disclaimer: Johanna is not a therapist — just a human with a mic and lived experience. This podcast is informational only and not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

Send us a text How do we grieve in a world that’s forgotten how to slow down? In episode 28, we explore the complex and often lonely experience of grieving in a fast-paced, productivity-obsessed culture. From ancient mourning rituals to modern-day memes and emojis, we unpack how societal shifts and digital life have changed the way we mourn - and why grief still needs community, expression, and ritual to be fully processed. I’ll walk you through the difference between grief and mourning, the importance of creating rituals that feel meaningful to you, and how neuroscience backs what our hearts already know - that healing requires presence, connection, and permission to feel. This episode also includes: Cultural and historical insights about grief and mourningA look at how social media both helps and hinders grievingHow modern expectations can make us question whether we’re grieving “right”Gentle journaling prompts to support your process🧠 You’ll also hear some science behind grief’s impact on the brain and body, and why isolating your emotions can make things harder. ✨ If this episode resonates, you might also appreciate the grief-support tools inside Johanna’s free resource library 💜 Want to support the podcast and help keep free content coming?  You can now leave a tip via buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys 🔗 Learn more about Threads of Life - the organization that supported me after my son’s death = at threadsoflife.ca Podcast music is ‘Back Roads’ by Will Harrison from Epidemic Sound. 🛑 Disclaimer: I’m not a therapist, just a human sharing lived experience. ✨ “I’m just Johanna – a fellow human being on my journey through this thing called life, and your guide on this transformative journey.”

Send us a text Have you ever found yourself forgetting simple things during grief - misplacing your keys, struggling to focus, or feeling like your brain is wading through fog? You're not alone. Grief doesn’t just affect our hearts - it affects our brains too. And it’s not “just in your head.” In this deeply personal episode, I’m diving into the neuroscience behind grief brain - that frustrating, disorienting fog so many of us experience after loss. We’ll explore how grief affects memory, focus, and emotional regulation, and I’ll share practical, research-backed strategies to gently support your healing brain. Whether you’ve lost a loved one or are navigating a different kind of invisible loss - this episode is for you. 🧠 What you’ll learn: Why grief impacts your brain function and decision-makingHow cortisol, the amygdala, and prefrontal cortex are all involvedEight science-supported ways to support your cognitive healingHow to support others who may be living with grief brainReal-life examples from my own journey after losing my son🛠 Free Resources I Mention: Insights for Navigating GriefThe Essential Grief Toolkit🕊 Special Note: If you or a family member are coping with the outcome of a workplace tragedy, I encourage you to check out Threads of Life - an incredible organization offering support for families affected by workplace tragedy. Their compassionate work is close to my heart. 💜 You are not broken. Your brain is doing the hardest job of your life. With compassion, structure, and time… it will heal. ✨ Support the podcast or say thanks: buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys 🛑 Disclaimer: I’m not a therapist, just a human sharing lived experience.  “I’m just Johanna – a fellow human being on my journey through this thing called life, and your guide on this transformative journey.”

Send us a text Grief for an unlived future is still grief. It just doesn’t always come with casseroles, sympathy cards… or words. In this vulnerable and reflective episode, Johanna shares her personal journey through a specific kind of grief - one that doesn’t always get named or witnessed. As the holiday season approaches and emotions begin to stir for many of us, this conversation pulls back the curtain on lost history - the ache of what could have been. We often expect grief to show up around birthdays, anniversaries, and tangible loss. But what about the grief for things that never got to happen? A wedding that never came. Children never born. Conversations never shared. The version of ourselves we never became. This kind of grief - sometimes referred to as disenfranchised grief - often goes unseen, unacknowledged, and unsupported. And yet, it lives in us. It lingers in everyday moments and joyful occasions that feel bittersweet. In this episode, Johanna shares: Her personal reflections around her late son’s birthdayHow grief affects the brain’s “predictive coding” and future-focusThe emotional disorientation of having a life stolen by tragedy or lossWhat it means to grieve a version of yourself that no longer existsPractical tools to name, honour, and gently process lost historyShe also offers gentle journaling prompts, compassionate reframes, and free grief support resources for those who need a little help navigating their own complex loss. This episode is especially for those who have experienced: The death of a loved one or close friendA life-altering injury, chronic illness, or diagnosisDivorce, career loss, or identity shiftsA deep ache for a future that never came to beYou are not alone in this. 💜 Grab Johanna’s free resources: The Essential Grief ToolkitInsights for Navigating Grief at https://transformativejourneys.ca/johannas-toolboxes 🕊️ Johanna is a longtime volunteer speaker, volunteer family guide, and workshop facilitator with Threads of Life, a national charity that supports families affected by workplace tragedy. Learn more at: https://www.threadsoflife.ca/  🎧 Listen and subscribe to Transformative Journeys wherever you get your podcasts. ☕ Support the podcast or fuel the metaphorical duct tape fund at: https://buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys 

Send us a text What does it really take to start something new - especially when you feel unqualified, unsure, or scared out of your mind? In this deeply personal, behind-the-scenes episode, I’m sharing the real story of how this podcast came to be. Spoiler alert: it wasn’t overnight, it wasn’t pretty, and Imposter Syndrome still lives rent-free in my brain. But I did it anyway. From scribbling topic lists in notebooks, to putting the podcast mic I wanted in and out of the "shopping cart" online for months, to finally saying “enough” and hitting record - this episode is my little story... part pep talk and part neuroscience-backed invitation to start scared and show up anyway. We’ll explore: Why I started this podcast at 59 (with zero broadcasting background)The truth about procrastination, imposter syndrome, and perfectionismThe science of fear, courage, and neuroplasticityWhy podcasting felt more authentic than TikTok or curated social media postsHow creative expression, vulnerability, and purpose have become pillars of my own healing journeyThis isn’t your average podcast origin story - it’s a reminder that you don’t need to have it all figured out to begin. Links + Resources: 💌 Grab the Bounce Back Blueprint (my free guide to reclaiming your peace + power): https://transformativejourneys.ca  ☕ Support the show (a.k.a. the duct tape fund!): https://buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys   📲 Follow me on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/transformativejourneys.johanna  🛑 Disclaimer: I’m not a therapist – just a fellow human walking this messy, meaningful path with you. ✨ “Still just Johanna here – your guide on this transformative journey.”

Send us a text What if the biggest thing holding you back isn’t a lack of motivation or talent… but an invisible chain in your mind, forged by beliefs you didn’t even choose? In this episode, Johanna dives into the science and psychology of limiting beliefs - those sneaky, fear-based inner narratives that shape what we think we deserve, what we’re capable of, and what’s “possible” for us. We all have them:  🧠 “I’m not good at...”  🧠 “I’m too old...”  🧠 “People like me don’t get to do things like that.” Drawing from neuroscience and psychology, Johanna explains how our brains literally wire these beliefs into our neural circuits, how to rewire the brain through neuroplasticity, and practical strategies to start unlearning the stories that keep you small. You’ll learn how to spot your limiting beliefs, challenge their accuracy, and gently reframe them into something more empowering - including one surprising trick that can literally snap you out of old thought patterns. Learn how taking small actions can help you build confidence one step (and one win) at a time. Because sometimes, the key to growth isn’t learning more - it’s unlearning what was never really yours to begin with. 💜 Listen in and start rewriting the stories that shape your life. If you or someone you know has been impacted by a workplace tragedy, Threads of Life is here to help. Threads of Life is a Canadian charity that provides support to families living with the outcome of a workplace fatality, life-altering injury, or occupational disease - providing compassion, community, and hope. Learn more at https://www.threadsoflife.ca/  🧰 Free resources mentioned in the episode: Bounce Back Blueprint: reclaim your footing after hard seasonsEssential Resilience Toolkit: grounding practices, journaling prompts, and reframing tools👉 transformativejourneys.ca/johannas-toolboxes 💜 Connect with Johanna: Instagram – @transformativejourneys.johanna Website – https://transformativejourneys.ca/ ☕ Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/transformativejourneys 🛑 Disclaimer: Johanna is not a therapist — just a human sharing lived experience.  ✨ “I’m just Johanna – a fellow human being on my journey through this thing called life, and your guide on this transformative journey.”