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Faking It with Ariel and Morgan

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2025/09/18
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2026/10/07
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40 min.
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Faking It with Ariel and Morgan is the podcast that strips down the mystery of Hollywood’s most private moments, and makes you laugh while doing it. Hosted by Intimacy Coordinators Ariel Leigh Cohen and Morgan Smith, each episode dives into the world of film sets, sex scenes, and all the awkward, hilarious, and surprisingly tender stories that come with them.From behind-the-scenes Hollywood secrets to spicy movie moments, we’re here to answer the questions you didn’t even know you had: How do actors fake it? What really happens under the covers on set? And what the actors are really wearing?Expect a mix of comedy, storytelling, and real talk about intimacy, relationships, filmmaking, and the art of pretending. If you’re into funny film podcasts, behind-the-scenes stories, acting tips, NSFW comedy, and Hollywood chaos, you’ve just found your new obsession.Subscribe now and stay real, Fakers.

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American Psycho: Business Cards & Bloody Chainsaws
2026/10/07
American Psycho sex scene breakdown from intimacy coordinators: chainsaws, sex workers, modesty garments, and a very confused Patrick Bateman. An intimacy coordinator's take on satire, simulated sex, and making the absurd feel intentional This week we cover Patrick Bateman's two infamous intimacy scenes with Christie, Sabrina, and Elizabeth, including the iconic mirror moment and that very memorable chainsaw chase. We get into staging, modesty garments, masking, choreography, actor boundaries, power dynamics, and how Mary Harron and Christian Bale intentionally made the sex scenes feel strange, disconnected, and completely unsexy. Plus: we put both scenes through the Spice Scale, and somehow they got an A. American Psycho (2000) Patrick Bateman: Christian Bale. Christie: Cara Seymour. Sabrina: Krista Sutton. Elizabeth: Guinevere Turner. Watch along timestamps: American Psycho: Patrick Bateman, Christie & Sabrina: 42:19 – 45:27 (uncut version)American Psycho: Patrick Bateman, Christie & Elizabeth: 1:13:46 – 1:16:10 (uncut version) Subscribe to Faking It the Pod for behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Listen wherever you get your podcasts. Stay real, Fakers. #AmericanPsycho #IntimacyCoordinator #SpiceScale #FilmBreakdown Research sources: IMDb: American Psycho https://pro.imdb.com/title/tt0144084/?ref_=ttcst"American Psycho Had To Make Some Cuts To Dodge The Dreaded NC-17 Rating" by Natalia Keogan https://www.slashfilm.com/835664/american-psycho-had-to-make-some-cuts-to-dodge-the-dreaded-nc-17-rating/Far Out Magazine: American Psycho https://faroutmagazine.co.uk/tags/american-psycho/MovieCensorship.com http://MovieCensorship.comWHAT WENT WRONG: "American Psycho" with Lizzie Bassett & Chris Winterbauer (Sad Boom Media) Support the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Hacks: Hot Showers, Stage Fright, & Fake Gay Panic
2026/09/23
Hacks intimacy scene breakdown: nudity, nightmares, a fake lesbian relationship, and the intimacy coordinators behind them. An intimacy coordinator's take on comedy, nudity, and chemistry This week we cover Ava and Ruby's shower scene, Deborah's bizarre no-clothes nightmare, and that kiss between Ava and Deborah. We get into staging, body doubles, actor boundaries, power dynamics, chemistry, and why sometimes an intimacy scene just doesn't quite... sync up. Plus: we put all three scenes through the Spice Scale, and one of them somehow got a D. Hacks: Season 3, Episode 2 & Season 5, Episode 7 Intimacy Coordinators: Chantal Cousineau, Sarah Scott & Adrienne Couper Smith.  Watch along timestamps: S3E2 (Better Late) | "Ava and Ruby's Shower Scene": 5:16 – 6:21S5E7 (Montecito) | "Deborah's Nightmare": 0:00 – 0:43S5E7 (Montecito) | "Ava and Deborah's Kiss": 16:44 – 17:01Subscribe to Faking It the Pod for behind-the-scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Listen wherever you get your podcasts. Stay real, Fakers. #Hacks #IntimacyCoordinator #SpiceScale #TVbreakdown Research sources: Rappler (AFP): Nude scenes "incredibly liberating," says Hacks star Hannah EinbinderSupport the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
The Invite: Consent, Chemistry & Couple Swapping
2026/09/09
The Invite (2026) intimacy scene breakdown: Seth Rogen, Olivia Wilde, Penélope Cruz and Edward Norton's sexy, cringe swinging comedy. An intimacy coordinator's take on consent, chemistry, and couple swapping This week on Faking It, intimacy coordinators Morgan Smith and Ariel break down The Invite (2026), Olivia Wilde's A24 comedy about a married couple, Joe (Seth Rogen) and Angela (Olivia Wilde), whose upstairs neighbors Piña (Penélope Cruz) and Hawk (Edward Norton) invite them into something far outside their comfort zone. It's one of the most deliciously awkward sex scenes we've covered, and we're here for all of it. We're talking: Why authenticity can be more valuable than instant chemistryWhat happens when one partner's ready to go when the other is notHow characters' personalities can continue when scenes get spicyThe psychology of kink, control, and surrender in a sex sceneWhether this scene really needed an intimacy coordinatorWatch along timestamps: The Invite: "The Scene": 1:13:05About the film The Invite (2026) is directed by Olivia Wilde, written by Will McCormack and Rashida Jones, and distributed by A24. It's an English-language remake of Cesc Gay's 2020 Spanish film The People Upstairs (Sentimental). It premiered at the Sundance Film Festival in January 2026, opened wide July 10, 2026, and is streaming on digital platforms now, with HBO Max to follow. Subscribe to Faking It the Pod for behind the scenes breakdowns of the most iconic sex scenes in film and TV from two working intimacy coordinators. New episodes every other week wherever you get your podcasts. Comment below with the movie or TV intimacy scene we should analyze next! Stay real, fakers. #TheInvite #OliviaWilde #SethRogen #IntimacyCoordinator Research sources: Boston.com: Olivia Wilde on her Boston-area roots, her love of Diane Keaton, and the discomfort of The InviteTIME: Olivia Wilde interview on The InviteSAG-AFTRA Foundation interviewSeth Rogen on Jimmy Kimmel LiveIMDb: The InviteDeadline: Amy Adams, Paul Rudd, Tessa Thompson join The Invite (2023)Support the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 1 [PLAYBACK]
2026/08/26
Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 1 sex scene breakdown, from the vault: Edward and Bella's meadow, wedding night, and honeymoon. An intimacy coordinator's take on vampire romance We're on vacation, but this episode was too good to stay in the vault. We're revisiting our breakdown of Edward and Bella's unforgettable Twilight scenes, from that infamous meadow moment to the wedding night, the honeymoon, and all the continuity questions that still keep us up at night. Two intimacy coordinators unpack why these scenes work so well emotionally, where the choreography gets… questionable, and why Twilight manages to make everything feel simultaneously incredibly romantic and deeply complicated. Watch along timestamps: Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 1: "Honeymoon Scene": 34:35 – 37:40Did Twilight redefine the teen romance genre, or are we all just overlooking some truly wild vampire-human logistics? Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. #Playback #Twilight #EdwardAndBella #IntimacyCoordinator #FilmBreakdown Support the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Fifty Shades of Grey [PLAYBACK]
2026/08/12
Fifty Shades of Grey sex scene breakdown, from the vault: what the film gets wrong about BDSM. An intimacy coordinator's take on consent and power dynamics In their PLAYBACK series, the cohosts revisit two fan-favorite episodes from The Hoa Hoa Universe while Ariel and Morgan take their summer break. They’ll be back in September with new episodes of Faking It. Ariel and Morgan break down the infamous first Red Room scene. What was supposed to be mainstream BDSM became basically vanilla, questionable choreography, and music doing the heavy lifting. In this episode: Why the Red Room reads more like spectacle than negotiated intimacyHow the film confuses dominance with control and intensity with compatibilityHow music, montage, and production design work overtime to create heat that isn't really thereWhat a more grounded, informed, and sexier version of this scene could have looked likeWhy Christian Grey is a disappointing Dom and loverThis episode isn't about kink-shaming. It's about unpacking why a movie that centered BDSM failed to show how consent, agency, and erotic tension actually function in practice. It's part critique, part craft analysis, and part public service announcement for anyone who thinks vibes count as communication. Watch along timestamps: Fifty Shades of Grey: "Red Room Scene": 1:22:10 – 1:29:34Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Credits Fifty Shades of Grey (2015) | Director: Sam Taylor-Johnson | Focus Features Hashtags #FiftyShadesOfGrey #BDSM #RedRoom #IntimacyCoordinator #FilmBreakdown Research sources: Duke University, "Unsuitable": Fifty Shades and the BDSM community backlashLiterary Hub: "Billionaires Are Bad: Revisiting 50 Shades of Grey in the Age of Mega-Rich Creepers"Entertainment Tonight: Dakota Johnson on simulating sex for seven hours straightPeople: Dakota Johnson on the creative "constant battle" over the Fifty Shades moviesSupport the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Off Campus: The Greenest Green Flag in TV?
2026/07/29
Off Campus sex scene breakdown: is it really the greenest green flag on TV? An intimacy coordinator's take on consent as chemistry Consent can be hot. Who knew? (Us. We knew.) What starts as a classic hockey romance somehow turns into one of the healthiest, hottest conversations about intimacy we've seen on screen. Together, Ariel and Morgan discuss why this scene works so well, how consent builds chemistry instead of killing it, and why emotional safety might actually be the sexiest thing a character can bring to the bedroom. In this episode:  How Off Campus approaches sex after sexual assault experiences Why awkward and silly can be incredibly sexy  The filmmaking choices that sell emotional intimacy  Ariel's very STRONG opinions about the show's nudity choices  Three completely ridiculous ways we'd ruin the scene When foreplay becomes... fiveplay? Sixplay? Plus, they kick things off with a spicy industry rant about fake intimacy coordinators, why proper training matters, and why "straight to penetraysh" is almost always the wrong answer.  Watch along timestamps: S1E4 (The Breakup) | "Garrett and Hannah's Scene": 13:34 – 23:13Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Credits Off Campus (Season 1, Episode 4: "The Breakup") | Based on the novels by Elle Kennedy | Created by Louisa Levy | Showrunners: Gina Fattore & Louisa Levy | Directed by Samantha Bailey | Intimacy Coordinator: Katherine Kadler | Starring Ella Bright and Belmont Cameli Hashtags #OffCampus #RomanceTV #IntimacyCoordinator #BehindTheScenes #TVBreakdown Support the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Obsession (2025): The Horror of Non-Consent | Intimacy & Stunt Coordinator Jen Albert
2026/07/15
Obsession (2025) intimacy scene breakdown with the film's intimacy and stunt coordinator, Jen Albert: its most disturbing intimacy, violence, and non-consent scenes. An intimacy coordinator's take on horror and non-consent Together, they explore how Obsession evolved from script to screen, where the line between stunt coordination and intimacy coordination begins and ends, and why one of the film's most unsettling moments is terrifying without relying on gore. In this episode:  Why the infamous bedroom scene is so disturbing  How intimacy coordination differs from stunt coordination  The theatrical cut vs. the streaming cut  Behind-the-scenes stories from filming Obsession Bloody dolls, Sugar glass, and Foam Bricks How actor collaboration and rehearsal shaped the final scenes When horror and intimacy collide Plus, Jen shares what changed from the original script, how the cast approached portraying non-consent, and what really went into filming the movie's iconic brick scene. Watch along timestamps: Obsession: "Nikki and Bear's Intimate Scene": 44:46 – 45:32Obsession: "Bear Finds Sarah": 1:36:56 – 1:37:24Subscribe for behind-the-scenes breakdowns of film and television's most iconic intimacy scenes. Credits Obsession (2025) | Written & Directed by Curry Barker | Starring Inde Navarrette, Michael Johnston, Megan Lawless | Intimacy Coordinated and Stunt Coordinated by Jen Albert Hashtags #Obsession #HorrorMovies #IntimacyCoordinator #StuntCoordinator #FilmPodcast Research sources: Collider: Obsession Has a Blink-and-You'll-Miss-It Scene That's More Unsettling Than Those Brutal KillsSupport the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Pose: Directing Intimacy & Queer Love | Co-Creator Steven Canals
2026/07/01
Pose intimacy scene breakdown with co-creator Steven Canals: how the FX series directed queer love and its groundbreaking sex scenes. An intimacy coordinator's take on directing queer love They discuss how the scene evolved from script to screen, the challenges of directing intimacy before the role of intimacy coordinator was fully established, and why portraying queer love with tenderness, not spectacle, mattered so deeply. In this episode: The collaborative process between director, actors, and intimacy coordinatorBalancing choreography with actor freedom and authenticityHow intimacy coordination has evolved over the past decadeWhy queer intimacy deserves the same emotional depth as any love storyThe importance of consent, vulnerability, and trust in intimate storytellingPlus, Steven shares behind-the-scenes stories from making POSE, reflects on the show's lasting cultural impact, and tells us exactly how he'd ruin his own scene if he had to. Watch along timestamps: S2E8 (Revelations) | "Ricky and Pray Tell": 3:38 – 5:47Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Credits POSE (Season 2, Episode 8: "Revelations") | Creators: Steven Canals, Brad Falchuk, Ryan Murphy | FX (2019) Hashtags #PoseFX #QueerTV #QueerIntimacy #IntimacyCoordinator #TVBreakdown Research sources: Metro UK: POSE star breaks down Ricky and Pray Tell's Season 2 love sceneSupport the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Sense8 Finale: Going Out with a (Cluster) Bang [Bonus]
2026/06/24
Bonus episode: Sense8 finale orgy scene breakdown, how it was choreographed and why it remains one of the most ambitious intimacy sequences ever filmed. An intimacy coordinator's take on ensemble intimacy From choreography and consent practices to lighting, camera movement, and the challenge of coordinating a massive ensemble scene, they break down how the Wachowskis and J. Michael Straczynski created a sequence that feels emotional, sensual, and deeply connected rather than purely explicit. In this episode: Why foreplay matters for the audience, not just the charactersThe logistics of coordinating large-scale intimacy scenesBoundary-setting techniques, including touch mapping and traffic-light systemsWhy scenes of this scale require multiple intimacy coordinatorsThe importance of diversity, representation, and body variety in intimate storytellingThen, as always, they hand out their Spice Scale scores before completely ruining the scene with some truly terrible creative notes. Watch along timestamps: S2E12 (Amor Vincit Omnia) | "The Finale Orgy Scene": 2:21:00 – 2:26:00Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Credits Sense8 (Season 2, Episode 12: "Amor Vincit Omnia") | Creators: Lana Wachowski, Lilly Wachowski, J. Michael Straczynski | Netflix (2018) Hashtags #Sense8 #Wachowski #BehindTheScenes #IntimacyCoordinator #TVBreakdown Research sources: Out: Filming That Polysexual Sense8 Orgy SceneRefinery29: Jamie Clayton Spills on Sense8's Famous Orgy ScenesSupport the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Sense8: The Psychic Orgy | How the Cluster Sex Scenes Got Made
2026/06/17
Sense8 psychic orgy breakdown: how the cluster sex scene was actually made. An intimacy coordinator's take on ensemble intimacy across continents From gym workouts and hot tubs to morning cuddles and group intimacy across continents, they're unpacking what makes this sequence so memorable and why it still feels unlike anything else on TV. They get into it all: The surprisingly complicated consent questions that come with sharing other people's experiencesThe challenge of choreographing a massive multi-location orgy without rehearsalThe actors' experiences behind the scenes and how an intimacy coordinator could have helpedPlus: German bathhouses, intimacy coordinator wedding hacks, Britney Spears throwbacks, and an extended discussion about what happens if someone in your cluster decides to have sex during your grandmother's funeral. Watch along timestamps: S1E6 (Demons) | "The Cluster Orgy Scene": 32:08 – 39:32----------------------------------------- CREDITS — Sense8 (S1E6 "Demons") Creators: Lana Wachowski; Lilly Wachowski; J. Michael Straczynski Directors: Lana Wachowski; Lilly Wachowski Writers: Lana Wachowski; Lilly Wachowski; J. Michael Straczynski Producers: Grant Hill; J. Michael Straczynski; Lana Wachowski; Lilly Wachowski Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Jamie Clayton; Freema Agyeman; Miguel Ángel Silvestre; Alfonso Herrera; Brian J. Smith; Max Riemelt; Tina Desai; Doona Bae; Tuppence Middleton © 2015 Netflix / Studio JMS / Anarchos Productions / Georgeville Television. All rights reserved. ----------------------------------------- It's Pride Month! Give back to your community this month by donating to some of our favorite organizations: The Trevor Project LA LGBT Center Advocates for Trans Equality Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. #intimacycoordinator #tvbreakdown #behindthescenes #queertv Research sources: Out: Filming That Polysexual Sense8 Orgy SceneRefinery29: Jamie Clayton Spills on Sense8's Famous Orgy ScenesSupport the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Dicks: The Musical | The Incest Factor Explained
2026/06/03
Dicks: The Musical sex scene breakdown: the "incest factor" and what the film is really doing with it. An intimacy coordinator's take on absurdist comedy and taboo Megan Thee Stallion. Nathan Lane. Puppet penises. A gay sex scene between twins that somehow becomes a camp masterpiece. The A24 musical is absurd, offensive, and genuinely hilarious. They go behind the scenes that are not safe for work, unless your work is really cool. In this episode: Why unrealistic sex can be funnier than realistic sexWalking 69s and spit takesLGBTQ+ representation on screenPuppet intimacy in theaterThis episode is for you if: You love A24's weirdest moviesYou want to hear intimacy coordinators lose their mindsYou need queer comedy that isn't serious for onceWatch along timestamps: Dicks: The Musical: "Opening Scene": 0:50Dicks: The Musical: "Sleepover Scene": 1:10:26Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Credits Dicks: The Musical (2023) | Director: Larry Charles | A24 Hashtags #DicksTheMusical #A24 #IntimacyCoordinator #QueerComedy #FilmBreakdown Support the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Secretary: What It Gets Right About BDSM | A Sub Is Born
2026/05/20
Secretary sex scene breakdown: what the film gets right (and wrong) about BDSM, plus the sexiest no-contact scene in film history. An intimacy coordinator's take on power, kink, and consent Maggie Gyllenhaal. James Spader. A desk. And a worm that somehow becomes the hottest moment in the movie. Secretary changed how Hollywood talked about kink on screen. But does it hold up? Ariel and Morgan break down the iconic, controversial, and deeply weird BDSM film that people are still arguing about 20 years later. In this episode: • The worm scene — why anticipation and eye contact are sexier than touch • The Peter problem: she's asking for domination. He's giving nothing. • Why "no safe word, no conversation" is doing a LOT of heavy lifting • Kink as emotional connection vs. kink as self-harm replacement • Breath work that deserves awards and hand spasms that steal the show The verdict: No notes. (Okay... some notes.) Watch along timestamps: Secretary: "Peter Scene": 1:08:34Secretary: "Worm Scene": 1:10:54Secretary: "Aftercare/Gardening Scene": 1:41:47This episode is for you if: • You love cult classics from the early 2000s • You want to understand why Secretary is still discussed • You're curious about BDSM representation on film • You're a fan of Maggie Gyllenhaal or James Spader Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Credits Secretary (2002) | Director: Steven Shainberg | Starring: Maggie Gyllenhaal, James Spader | Lionsgate Hashtags #SecretaryMovie #BDSMfilm #IntimacyCoordinator #CultClassic #FilmBreakdown Research sources: HuffPost: Forget 50 Shades: Feminist Adult Film Producers Pick Their Favorite BDSM EroticaKamera: An Interview with Maggie GyllenhaalScreenSlam: James Spader Exclusive InterviewSupport the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Brokeback Mountain: No Lube, No Warning
2026/05/06
Brokeback Mountain intimacy scene breakdown: from the tent scene to what the choreography leaves unsaid. An intimacy coordinator's take on tension, pacing, and queer love Brokeback Mountain changed queer representation forever. It also left audiences with a lot of questions about how these scenes actually function. From the infamous first tent scene to the long-awaited reunion, Ariel and Morgan break down what's working, what's not, and why these moments feel so tense without ever fully landing. In this episode: The reality of prep, lubrication, and pacing for anal penetrationHow tension overtakes intimacy and why that leaves scenes feeling incompleteThe difference between awkwardness that serves the story vs awkwardness from unclear choreographyHow the intimacy goes from zero to 100 and stays therePlus: beans, spit logistics, near broken noses, and a very real conversation about how an intimacy coordinator would approach these scenes today. A storyteller's lens on queer cinema Ariel and Morgan zoom out to talk about Brokeback Mountain's massive cultural impact, the historical context it exists in, and why representation matters, even when the intimacy itself has room for growth. Justice for lube. That's all they're saying. Watch along timestamps: Brokeback Mountain: "Tent Scene": 27:30 – 29:10Brokeback Mountain: "Rasslin' Scene": 32:51 – 34:54Brokeback Mountain: "Reunion Scene": 1:03:07 – 1:04:46Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Credits Brokeback Mountain (2005) | Director: Ang Lee | Focus Features Hashtags #BrokebackMountain #AngLee #IntimacyCoordinator #QueerCinema #FilmBreakdown Research sources: IMDb: Brokeback MountainWikipedia: Brokeback MountainHoward University Law Library: Proposition 8Before Stonewall (1984 documentary)Freddie.comFOLX Health: LGBTQIA+ History GuideVariety: Brokeback Mountain's 10th Anniversary: Ang Lee and James Schamus Look Back (2015)Details (quoted in Southern Voice)TIME: Brokeback Mountain at 20Towleroad: Mark Wahlberg Not Ready To Do 'The Thing' (2007)VICE: "Sex Scenes: Revisiting the Sex, Violence, Tenderness and Beans of Brokeback Mountain" by Rachel Rabbit White (2019)"Framing Brokeback Mountain: How the Popular Press Corralled the Gay Cowboy Movie" by Brenda Cooper (2008)Support the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
PEN15: Hormones Gone Rogue
2026/04/22
PEN15 sex and puberty scene breakdown: how the show films painfully awkward intimacy with adult actors playing kids. An intimacy coordinator's take on awkward, honest adolescence on screen PEN15 (Season 1, Episode 3: "Ojichan") is one of the most honest depictions of first arousal ever put on screen. From the very first moment of "wait... what is happening to my body?" to the full spiral of can't-stop-won't-stop self-discovery, this episode captures the chaos, confusion, and intensity of discovering desire with absolutely no roadmap. In this episode: The painfully accurate portrayal of first arousal: awkward, obsessive, and completely all-consumingWhy casting adult actors as teens allows the show to explore this safely without crossing ethical linesHow PEN15 captures the feeling of "I must be the only one experiencing this"How shame, secrecy, and silence around sex education shape those early experiencesA masterclass in storytelling through cringe It's cringey. It's deeply familiar. And it turns one of the most private human experiences into comedy gold. We break down why this episode works and how it handles adolescent sexuality with both honesty and humor. Watch along timestamps: S1E3 (Ojichan) | "Maya's First Discovery": 0:41S1E3 (Ojichan) | "Classroom Montage": 4:17 – 5:29S1E3 (Ojichan) | "The Closet/Walkman Scene": 9:22 – 12:54Yes, Ariel mispronounced Maya Erskine's last name. We know. We're sorry. We love her. Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Credits PEN15 (Season 1, Episode 3: "Ojichan") | Creators: Maya Erskine, Anna Konkle, Sam Zvibleman | Hulu (2019) Hashtags #PEN15 #MayaErskine #AnnaKonkle #IntimacyCoordinator #TVBreakdown Research sources: CONAN: Maya Erskine on PEN15The Hollywood Reporter: PEN15 Stars Maya Erskine and Anna Konkle, In StudioNPR: PEN15 Creators Maya Erskine and Anna Konkle Return to Middle SchoolSupport the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.
Buffy the Vampire Slayer: The Hardcore Vanilla Sex Scenes
2026/04/08
Buffy the Vampire Slayer sex scene breakdown: the show's unhinged sex scenes and what makes them work (or not). An intimacy coordinator's take on supernatural romance The Buffy reboot isn't happening. It's devastating. To soothe their wounds, Ariel and Morgan talk about Buffy and Spike in season 6 — where things are darker, messier, and include a whole lot more property damage. From literally breaking a house down during sex to invisible hookups to whatever is happening on that balcony at The Bronze, they have notes. In this episode: The iconic Buffy/Spike "Smashed" scene: why it's so hot and makes zero senseHow the show tries to portray Buffy's rock bottom through sex (and where it succeeds vs. fails)The invisibility scene as a surprisingly perfect example of how simulated sex actually works on setWhy the show keeps saying Buffy and Spike are kinky while showing the most vanilla execution imaginableThe difference between toxic intimacy and BDSMPlus: pants continuity crimes, mystery penetration logistics, and a full breakdown of Ariel and Morgan's personal histories with Spuffy. A masterclass in storytelling through chaos Ariel and Morgan break down why these scenes still resonate, where they fall short, and what they reveal about Buffy's emotional state. It's a behind the scenes look at one of TV's most iconic toxic relationships. Watch along timestamps: S6E9 (Smashed) | "The House Scene": 39:39S6E11 (Gone) | "The Invisibility Scene": 28:08S6E13 (Dead Things) | "The Balcony Scene": 20:25Subscribe for bi-weekly behind the scenes breakdowns of film and TV's most iconic sex scenes. Credits Buffy the Vampire Slayer (Season 6) | Created by Joss Whedon | 20th Century Fox Television Hashtags #BuffyTheVampireSlayer #SpikeAndBuffy #IntimacyCoordinator #TVBreakdown #BuffyAnalysis Research sources: Vogue: Sarah Michelle Gellar interviewThe Hollywood Reporter: James Marsters on filming a "problematic" Buffy sceneSupport the show Connect & Support the Show Watch video versions on Spotify and YouTube. Suggest a Scene & Get Bonus Content: Join our Patreon to request scenes and unlock exclusive bonus episodes. Follow Us: Instagram & TikTok @FakingItThePod Website: FakingItThePod.com Theme Song: Faking It by Mike Goetz Subscribe & Review Never miss an episode — subscribe wherever you listen. Love the show? A 5-star rating helps other listeners find us. Stay real, Fakers. For entertainment and educational purposes only. All trademarks and copyrights remain with their respective owners.

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joseqwerty 2026/02/11
Fun and informative!
Not only do I love learning about this facet of the film and tv production, but Ariel and Morgan are just a ton of fun to listen to. They bring a grea...
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Frantical 2025/12/27
I never thought of it this way
I haven’t seen all of these movies but now I want to watch theme, Ariel and Morgan are spot on! Everyone should listen to this podcast. It brings a wh...
★★★★★
JinaTD 2025/09/28
incredibly original and insightful
Really unique! An in depth analysis on what really goes into making the scenes hyper realistic. Next time pick a better movie than The Room
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FlavorDept 2025/09/27
Listen!
Funny and Insightful! The hosts have a great chemistry, and very engaging. I’m learning aaaand laughing.
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evalosangeles 2025/09/26
Funny, Charming, and Informative!
Love getting the perspective of intimacy coordinators - this is such a unique take, and they add such great stories to each episode. So funny and easy...
★★★★★
Radfunnystuff 2025/09/24
Really Funny!
I don’t know a lot about intimacy coordinating, but this was pretty funny and informative! I clicked that follow button just about when the horse stor...
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