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The Vanderpump Hotel is officially open, and Kim Suarez was there for all the drama! Kim is giving us the inside scoop on what went down behind the scenes, from the drama involving Angelica and that photoshoot to the beef between the Vanderpump Villa and Vanderpump Rules casts. Plus, she’s setting the record straight on what REALLY happened between Marciano and Audrey behind Jessi Draper’s back.  👀 Then, we’re heading to West Hollywood to hear about what it’s really like working at SUR. Kim reveals how she landed her job at Lisa Vanderpump’s iconic restaurant, what it’s actually like working there both on and off camera, which cast members really show up for their shifts, and why working alongside her boyfriend proved to be more complicated than expected. Kim reveals that she and Marcus have recently broken up. She opens up about what led to their split, where the two stand now, and how navigating a relationship while starring on a reality TV show contributed to the end of their romance. Kim is confident that Vanderpump Rules will be renewed for another season. And with breakups, cast conflicts, and plenty of unresolved tension brewing behind those restaurant doors, there’s certainly no shortage of storylines! Tune in now for all things Vanderpump!

Lisa Vanderpump has officially entered the hotel business! But opening The Vanderpump Hotel in Las Vegas didn’t come without its fair share of obstacles. And before Bravo’s upcoming three-part series premieres, Lisa is giving us the inside scoop on what REALLY went down behind the scenes. Lisa opens up about what it was like to see her name on the side of a hotel for the very first time, the drama between the Vanderpump Rules and Vanderpump Villa casts (and teases a juicy moment involving Audrey and Marciano 👀), reveals which original Vanderpump Rules cast member she’d want working at her new hotel, and explains the real reason why she never changed her last name from Vanderpump to Todd after marrying Ken.  Lisa also reflects on the lasting impact of her beloved late dog Giggy, shares the story behind the bar named in his honor, and even recommends I try the infamous “Pump and Bump” the next time I visit the Gigolo Bar. This is the inside scoop you won’t want to miss!

It’s a Housewives takeover! Josh the RHONY Stan is back in the [virtual] studio to talk all things Real Housewives—from Salt Lake City to New York and everywhere in between. And this episode could not have started with better timing: the Southern Charm Season 12 trailer dropped the exact moment we started recording! So, naturally, Josh and I watched it for the first time together, live on The Reality of Reality. You’ll hear our genuine, unfiltered reactions as we break down that wild trailer in real time. Then, we’re heading to Bluestone Manor for the Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip finale. Was Luann actually being annoying? Are Teresa and Melissa really friends again? Did Vicki deserve those flowers? And did the Rhode Island girls need to shut up?! Josh and I are answering ALL of these questions and breaking down everything that went down in the finale. Next, we’re heading to New York with the self-proclaimed “RHONY Stan” himself. We’re breaking down the first few episodes of the season, assessing how Daisy is fitting into the group, revisiting the Erin and Jessel drama, diving into the lore of Hailey Glassman, and debating whether or not Carol is really fitting in with the rest of the cast. And finally, we’re heading to Salt Lake City because I needed to know Josh’s thoughts on Ashley Quai. We’re talking about the St. Patrick’s Day trip to San Francisco, whether the current cast dynamic is actually working, and how Josh is VERY reluctantly starting to side with Lisa Barlow. 🫨

It has been a WEEK for reality TV watchers! So, in today’s episode, I’m breaking down the five biggest reality TV stories that have been living rent-free in my head, and there is A LOT to unpack. First, we’re getting into the ongoing drama surrounding Milania Giudice, including the factors that may have contributed to her very public airport incident. Then, I’m taking a deep dive into Pauly D and Nikki Hall’s relationship history, from Double Shot at Love and Jersey Shore Family Vacation to Pauly’s daughter Amabella and everything that happened along the way. Next, I’m sharing an interview with Hudson McLeroy from Next Gen NYC that I wish we had gotten more of during the Season 2 reunion. Then, we’re diving into ALL the Below Deck Med drama currently unfolding, including the surprising [alleged] love connection that has developed since the season wrapped. And finally, we have to talk about West Wilson joining Netflix’s Million Dollar Secret! And why having Brianna “Chickenfry” LaPaglia as a fellow cast member could seriously complicate his game. From family issues and love connections to behind-the-scenes revelations and reality TV feuds, these are the five stories I can’t stop talking about. So tune in for my takes on everything happening in the world of reality TV right now! TW: Mentions of addiction and DV

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to work on reality TV? Well, Mikayla Giroux is pulling back the curtain and taking us behind the scenes! Mikayla has worked on some of television’s biggest reality shows, including The Bachelorette, Big Brother, and The Masked Singer. Now, she’s giving us an inside look at what it takes to produce The Challenge—from what her role as a producer actually entails to what it’s like filming on location and navigating the unpredictable moments that come with producing a competition show. Mikayla is sharing what viewers don’t get to see, what really goes into making The Challenge come to life, and some of the most memorable moments she’s experienced on set, and off - like attending the Emmy’s with Johnny Bananas, CT, and Phaedra Parks 👀. Challenge fans, this one is for you. Tune in for an exclusive behind-the-scenes look at The Challenge from the perspective of a producer.

Ever wonder where the kids of Next Gen NYC actually came from? 👀 In today’s episode, I’m doing a deep dive into the backgrounds of the entire cast—from their childhoods and upbringings to their famous parents, family connections, and how they found themselves in the Bravo universe. We’re getting into Ariana Biermann, Charlie Zakkour, Riley Burress, Brooks Marks, Liam Obergfoll, Emira D’Spain, Georgia McCann, Ava Dash, Shai Frutcher, Gia Giudice, Hudson McLeroy, and Rowan Henchy. And trust me, there is A LOT to unpack. From Gia Giudice’s parents’ jail time, to Charlie Zakkour’s connection to Lindsay Lohan, Ava Dash appearing on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, and all of the Biermann family drama. If you’ve ever wondered how the Next Gen NYC cast became who they are, this episode is for you!

Was the Love Island USA Season 8 reunion… a flop? In this episode, I’m joined by journalist and pop culture content creator Farai Bennett to hilariously break down our unfiltered thoughts on the reunion. Together, we break down the “Core Four” dynamics, who we think were actually the “mean girls,” share our opinions on the final four couples (spoiler alert: only one of us loves “brinity”), and why it felt like none of the men were getting nearly enough heat! We also discuss our fear of Dylan (lol), the Jaiden and Caleb controversy, what Sol could have done differently, and, of course… the girth check. Love Island fans, this one is for you! Tune in now to hear our hot takes about the Love Island Reunion!

It may be a slow season for reality TV, but there is still plenty happening in the Bravoverse—and I have thoughts!  This week, I’m breaking down all the biggest moments from The Valley reunion, including the major differences between Luke and Kristen, the complicated dynamic between Michelle, Jesse, and Lacy, and, of course, Danny’s drinking—and what really happened after Jasmine’s wedding. Then we’re heading to New York for Next Gen NYC. I’m ranking the entire cast from best to worst based on everything we’ve seen this season—and yes, I have some HOT takes about Brooks, Shai, and Charlie. 👀 Plus, there’s plenty of drama brewing in Charleston, from Southern Hospitality STILL waiting on a renewal to Leva’s pending lawsuit. And of course, we’re checking in on all the latest Below Deck Mediterranean drama and what’s happening on The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip.

Georgianna is setting the record straight! After seeing her life and relationships play out on House of Stassi, Georgi is opening up about what was really happening behind the scenes and sharing her perspective on some of the moments that made headlines. We discuss her previous marriage, her ex-husband, and what ultimately led to their divorce, including the real story behind Stassi paying for both her wedding and her divorce. Georgianna also takes us back to growing up with Stassi as a sister, moving to California, the Vanderpump Rules days, and navigating their complicated family dynamic.  And of course, we talk about their mother, Dayna, as well as Stassi and Beau's marriage, the root of Georgianna's ongoing conflict with Beau's sister, Georgia, and the question that has been on everyone’s mind: Did Georgi and Rob actually hook up?! Tune in for an unfiltered conversation with Georgianna as we get into the reality behind House of Stassi.

Deb Chubb is BACK and ready to talk all about her massive elimination win! Episode 2 was a big one for Deb—not only was she sent into the season’s very first female elimination, but she had to go head-to-head with her friend and fellow rookie. Deb takes us behind the scenes of everything that went down this episode, from competing in that intense daily challenge and getting dropped from a skyscraper to her team being disqualified—and everything in between. She’s also sharing what viewers didn’t get to see and how it felt to have her Challenge journey almostt come to an end in one elimination. And it wouldn’t be The Challenge without a little house romance. Deb opens up about her showmance with Will, the other relationships developing inside the house, and the unexpected dynamics between Lete and Johnny Bananas. The competition is heating up, and Deb is just getting started. Tune in for The Reality Of: The Challenge.

From the Love Island villa to The Challenge house, Deb Chubb is entering a whole new world! In this episode, Deb walks us through her unique reality TV journey, from working behind the scenes in television to stepping in front of the camera herself.  She also spills plenty of Love Island USA and Love Island Games behind-the-scenes secrets, including how long recouplings actually take, what Islanders do on their days off, the infamous "sliding walls" cameras, scenes that never made it to air, and so much more. Then, we dive into the premiere of The Challenge 42: Cutthroat. Deb shares how she landed a spot on the cast, what it's really like living in the Challenge house, joining one of the most stacked teams in the game's history, her juicy previous interaction with Johnny Bananas, and what fans can expect from her this season. The Challenge is officially back! And if you're a fan of either franchise, this is an episode you won't want to miss. Tune in for The Reality Of: Love Island & The Challenge.

The House of Stassi premiere and The Valley finale airing on the same night? Both centered around Halloween parties? Now that's cinema. This week, I'm breaking down the premiere of Hulu's House of Stassi, which wastes no time bringing the drama. From reintroducing us to Stassi's world and revealing that she and Katie Maloney are on the outs, to sibling tension with Georgianna, marital issues with Beau and so much more—could House of Stassi be the next Keeping Up with the Kardashians? Then, we head over to The Valley. Danny gets drunk (again), Luke is rude (again), Brittany clashes with Kristen (again), and Janet and Lala's confrontation with Danny ends with Janet launching a plastic Solo cup of wine straight at his forehead. We also dive into the biggest questions heading into next season: Will there be a cast shake-up? Could Nia become collateral damage? What does Brittany's fallout with Lori K mean moving forward? And where does The Valley go from here? Tune in now for my unfiltered thoughts, hot takes, and full breakdown of House of Stassi and The Valley.

Big Brother is one of the hottest shows of the summer, so I'm throwing it back to one of my earliest interviews with Big Brother legend - Taylor Hale! Taylor made Big Brother history as the first Black woman to ever win the game — and the first player to take home both the grand prize and America’s Favorite Houseguest. But her journey to the top was anything but easy. Taylor’s holding nothing back about her not-so-fun time in the house, what it was really like being filmed 24/7, why the live feeds became her best friend, and yes — how she got “kidnapped” before the season even started. She also spills on life beyond the Big Brother walls: from winning Miss Michigan and Miss Congeniality (yes, that’s a real thing - not just a movie!) to hosting Big Brother Unlocked, running The Amazing Race with fellow alum Kyland Young, and the many reality TV shows she’s been asked to do but hasn’t done… yet 👀 Want to know what really goes on in that Big Brother house? Then listen up as Taylor Hale dives into The Reality Of: Big Brother.

Love Island USA may be over, but there's still so much to talk about! In today's episode, Kristi Cooke, better known as @SpillSesh, joins me to recap everything from the Season 8 finale to all the post-villa drama. You might know Kristi as the anonymous YouTuber behind Spill Sesh, where she built an audience of over 700,000 subscribers while never revealing her face or real voice. She opens up about the decision to finally reveal her identity, whether she has any regrets about going public, and some of the wild conspiracy theories people had about who she really was. 👀 Then, we dive into the Love Island USA Season 8 finale, breaking down the final dates, the winning couple, the celebrity messages, and how this finale was different than others. We also share our thoughts on all four final couples—Kayda & Zach, Melanie & Sincere, Aniya & Carl, and Trinity & Bryce. And the drama definitely didn't end when the finale aired. We get into Sincere's family's controversial TikTok Live, Kenzie appearing on Call Her Daddy and the rumors about Dancing with the Stars, Trinity defending Zach against online hate, and all of our predictions for the reunion and Beyond the Villa.

Jasmine Goode has some serious reality TV lore, making her first television appearance on CMT's Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders: Making the Team. She then found herself competing for Nick Viall's heart on The Bachelor, which eventually led to Bachelor in Paradise. After that, she appeared on MTV's Ex on the Beach before taking a five-year break from reality TV—ultimately making her return on Bravo's The Valley. In this episode, Jasmine is reminiscing on it all. She opens up about what it was really like being a Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader, her true feelings about Nick Viall, navigating Ex on the Beach alongside Vanderpump Rules alum Faith Stowers, and why she ultimately turned down MTV's The Challenge. Then, we get into all the drama on The Valley. We dive into Danny's drinking, her fallout with Janet, how the dynamic has changed since Jax Taylor’s departure, the possibility of Scheana Shay joining the cast, Zack’s terrifying moment on the bus in Mexico, and SO much more. Nothing is off limits as Jasmine takes us behind the scenes of her reality TV career in this episode of The Reality Of: The Valley.