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We’re doing a little heart check 💘 New year, same questions: How’s love going? is Valentine’s Day still a thing? What’s your love language? And is being single on Feb. 14 underrated or overhyped? Plus—we're calling out what movies and social media got wrong about relationships and this unofficial holiday that we either dread or love.

We closed the year 2025 with an assessment: What went well, what advice we'd give our January 2025 selves, what we did for the first time and enjoyed it, what we want to change, what's a new year's resolution we were able to stick to... And finally, what was the 2025 song of year for us. This is a quick look-back convo you can do with your partners to set 2026 off.

Our guest this Friday is a proud tita (na mas bagets pa pala sa amin!) who understands and lives the daily grind of a 9-5 and being a content creator. We talked about her origin story, the joys and challenges of being an influencer, creative block, and bashers! Let’s welcome The Tita G to the podcast!

Remember when Friday nights meant staying out till sunrise—and now it’s all about staying in with snacks and a show? In this episode, we unpack how millennials have slowed down, swapped parties for peace, and redefined what “hanging out” really means. Joining the conversation are a few Gen Z voices, asking the questions every millennial secretly dreads (and loves). Together, we laugh, reminisce, and get real about how growing up, burning out, and finding balance changed the way millennials connect—with each other and with themselves.

In this All Saints/Souls Day episode, we talk about responses to fear, the physical and social fears we have, the many practices we follow in different subcultures, and resurfacing familial conflicts in this season of get-togethers beginning with Undas.

Bills, stacks of responsibilities, bizarre expectations, glowing up and growing up: We're unpacking the unexpected side of adulthood with random stories from our listeners (because misery loves company, right?)

In this episode, we dive into how the definition of success has evolved from our 20s to today. We asked 5 Millennials to share with us their definitions of success, and join us as we unpack the pressures, growth, and shifting expectations in an ever-changing world. Whether it’s career, personal milestones, or happiness, how do we measure success now? Tune in for some real talk on navigating life’s successes in both the past and present!

In this episode, we challenge each other with 10 random yes-or-no questions — but there’s a catch: we can only explain our answers up to three times! Each of us has a different set of questions, so we have to choose our explanation moments wisely. This lighthearted game is a fun way for partners, families, friends, or even coworkers to connect and learn more about one another. For us, it was the perfect way to unwind on a Friday afternoon.

We break the ice with this initial episode by asking 4 individuals what kind act have they done in the past that they did not let people know about. Listen to Kat, Dimples, Joy, and Melvin answer this surprise question on this episode. Disclaimer: Before recording, all 4 phone guests have provided their consent to have their answers recorded for the purposes of this podcast, and their names included. This episode is mostly in Filipino.