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Gabri reads real stories of loss submitted by the My Mom Died community, and reacts to each one honestly. Grief can convince you that no one could possibly understand what you have been through. Then a stranger, living a completely different life, grieving a completely different person, says something that makes you realize you are not alone in this. That is what today is about. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri steps back from her own grief to make space for yours. She reads submissions from listeners around the world, an 18-year-old who held her mom's hand in her final moments, a woman in the UK who was at her mum's side when she took her last breath, a listener in Cape Town who lost her brother and her mom to Covid six weeks apart, a woman in New Zealand who turned repeated loss into a community, and a 16-year-old carrying grief far too early. After each one, Gabri shares where she saw her own grief reflected back. This is an episode about being witnessed. About the comfort of hearing someone say "you felt that too." And about why grief deserves to be shared out loud. If you want to submit your own story of loss, you can find out how in the links below. 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For the first time, Gabri Segui opens up Grief Circle to the public. In this episode of My Mom Died, dozens of grievers come together to talk about the milestones they are genuinely excited about, and the grief that always comes with them. From buying a first house, to getting married, to having a baby, to opening a business, the group explores what it means to celebrate life’s biggest moments without the person who should be there to see them. Gabri and the community also talk about carrying joy and grief at the same time, the signs they believe prove their loved ones are still with them, and the hard truth that grief does not get easier, it gets different. Whether you are facing a milestone of your own or supporting someone who is, this episode is a reminder that you are not alone. Grief Circle is part of the My Mom Died Patreon. Share in the comments: what is one milestone you are carrying grief through right now? Join Patreon for the next Grief Circle: https://www.patreon.com/MyMomDied/redeem/8A2DD 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Gabri Segui is turning 30, which means she is stepping out of the last decade of her life that her mom was alive to see. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri reflects on losing her mom at 25, spending half her 20s learning how to live without her, and the thing nobody talks about in grief: what happens when you look back and realize you are actually okay. She talks about why being okay is not evidence that your grief got smaller, but that your life grew around it, why birthdays are so uniquely hard after losing a parent, and the two-circles idea that reframes how grief and happiness can exist at the same time. Whether you are in your first year of loss or years down the road, this episode is a reminder that you are allowed to feel okay. Share in the comments: what is one thing you have given yourself permission to feel okay about? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Most people think being alive means physically breathing and being here on earth. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui offers a new perspective on what it actually means to live, and why the people we lose never truly leave us. Inspired by a scene in Shane Gillis's Netflix show Tires, she explores the idea that we live forever through impact, not just memory: through the mannerisms, sayings, values, and grace our loved ones pass down, often without anyone even realizing where they came from. She shares stories from Grief Circle, the mannerism she inherited from her own mom, and a set of questions that will change how you think about your own life and legacy. Whether you are grieving or just thinking about the mark you leave behind, this episode will shift something in you. Share in the comments: what is one thing your person left behind in you? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Grief looks different depending on where in the world you are. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui sits down with Helen and Celine, two women from Germany, one now living in New Zealand, to talk about what losing a mom looks like across different cultures. They cover the shocking differences in bereavement leave, why some cultures are blunt about death while others avoid it entirely, what anticipatory grief feels like when you watch a parent fade from cancer, the guilt of grieving from another country, and grieving not just your mom but the version of yourself you were before she died. Above all, this episode is a reminder that talking about grief openly, even when it makes people uncomfortable, is one of the most healing things you can do. Share in the comments: how does your culture handle grief? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For years, Gabri Segui believed you never really move on from grief, you just learn to move with it. Then a conversation with a friend at the gym challenged that thinking completely. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri explores the tension between moving on and moving with your grief, why "move on" is one of the most hated phrases grievers hear, and whether both perspectives can actually be true at the same time. She breaks down what moving on really means, why the phrase creates an invisible timeline that does not need to exist, and why having hard conversations with other grievers can shift your entire perspective. Whether you find comfort in moving on or you carry your person forward, this episode is for you. Share in the comments: does moving on or moving with resonate more with you? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After losing someone, you start seeing them everywhere. A cardinal. A butterfly. A song on the radio at the exact moment you needed it. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui breaks down the actual brain chemistry behind why grievers see signs from their loved ones, from how your brain filters emotionally significant information to the grief psychology concept of continuing bonds. She shares her own sign from her mom, the stories her community shared in Grief Circle, and why the relationship with the person you lost does not end when they die, it just changes. Whether you see signs constantly or feel like you never get them, this episode will give you language for what you are experiencing. Share in the comments: what is your sign from your loved one, and when did you last see it? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you lose someone, grief raises questions that nobody around you seems to know how to answer. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui answers the second round of questions submitted by her community, including how to handle grief guilt, what to do when everyone expects you to be over it, whether you will ever forget the sound of your mom's voice, how to deal with a surviving parent who takes their grief out on you, what to do with a loved one's belongings, and how grief changes your relationship with the things they left behind. She also shares what her mom's last text said, and why she never responded. This is part two of the community Q&A series. Share in the comments: what grief question has never been answered for you? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After losing someone, grief raises questions that most answers just do not touch. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui answers real questions submitted by her community about what grief actually looks like from the inside. She covers how to introduce new people to a mom they will never meet, how to celebrate milestones after losing a parent, what to do when dreams of your person feel more real than waking life, how to handle family members who take their grief out on you, what grief looks like when the relationship was complicated, and what a medium told her about what her mom experienced crossing over. This is part one of two. Share in the comments: what is the one grief question you have never been able to find the answer to? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you lose someone, the first thing most people do is reach for a book. In this episode, Gabri Segui walks through the grief books that actually helped her after losing her mom, including Death by Steve Case, Grief and Grits by Marsha Gray Hill, Moving On Doesn't Mean Letting Go by Gina Moffa, and Motherless Daughters. She also shares two honorable mentions that helped her understand grief in unexpected ways. Whether you are newly grieving or years into it, this is a practical reading list from someone who has been through it. 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After losing her mom, Gabri Segui stopped eating, lost her friends, and spent so much time on her couch that the cushions had a permanent indent from her body. In this episode she talks about the habits that pulled her out of the worst days of grief and changed how she carries loss every single day. She covers her "Pockets of Happy" gratitude practice, finding the right therapist, grief journaling, talking about the people you have lost, and building community when grief has left you completely alone. Whether you are in early grief or years into it and still struggling, this episode offers practical tools that actually work. Share in the comments: what is one habit that has helped you get through grief? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Grief therapy is not what most people expect. In this episode, Gabri Segui walks through her full therapy journey after losing her mom, from ghosting her therapist for a year after the loss to finally going back and learning what therapy actually does for grief healing. She covers how to find a grief therapist, what to do when you can't afford therapy, why grief is not something to solve, and the tools that changed how she carries her loss every single day. Whether you are considering therapy for grief or wondering if it is even worth it, this episode will give you an honest and realistic picture of what the process actually looks like. Share in the comments: have you tried therapy for grief, and what has your experience been? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's normal to feel like grief made you stop caring. But what if it made you care more about everything instead? In this episode, Gabri explores the tension between grief awareness and grief anxiety, what the salience network in your brain actually does after experiencing death, and why oversensitivity after loss is not grief done wrong. Whether you are navigating the loss of a parent or wondering why ordinary moments suddenly feel unbearable, this episode offers language for what you are feeling. Share in the comments: what is one ordinary moment that hits differently now that your person is gone? 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After losing someone, grief doesn't just change how you mourn. It changes how you see everything. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui talks about what happens when death stops being an idea and becomes a reality you carry into every relationship, every milestone, every ordinary moment. She reads a poem she wrote about grieving futures that haven't happened yet, talks about the anxiety of loving someone when you know loss is possible, and shares the most important distinction she has learned: awareness deepens life, but obsession steals it. This episode ends with a reframe that will change how you think about grief entirely. 💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nobody talks about what happens to your surviving parent after you lose one. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui finally opens up about watching her dad grieve her mom, prompted by a text he sent asking why she never talks about his grief. She shares the story of how her parents met at 14, were together 40 years, and what it has been like to watch her dad go from the goofy Arthur-watching guy he used to be to someone she barely recognizes. She also talks about the difference between supporting someone and trying to save them, why someone else's grief is not yours to carry, and how compassion for another person does not require you to abandon yourself. RSVP for the Grief Circle support group on June 23rd here: https://luma.com/kxfzua86  💜 Stay Connected Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymomdiedpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mymomdiedpod 🎥 Watch on YouTube Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@MyMomDiedPodcast 🩵 Join The Grief Club (Patreon) Become a member on Patreon: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📖 Get the Poetry Book Store: https://apt205.store/products/it-came-with-me 📬 Join the Community Sign up for the newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/179400ef58c5/my-mom-died 🕊️ Share Your Story Have a story about grief or healing you’d like to share? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/ydsU3Pxdg7Kb6V466 A 205 Network show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.