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If sex really is as meaningless as the sexual revolution claims, why does violation hurt so much? On this episode of With All Her Mind, my husband and I use the Cornell 7 case as a jumping-off point to talk about what the sexual revolution promised and what it actually delivered. We get into why feminism and the sexual revolution go hand in hand, why abortion and contraception have always been part of the package, what the Me Too movement got right, and why your body won't let "casual" sex stay casual. We close with the hope of Jesus for anyone who has been hurt by the sexual revolution. We approach this sensitive topic carefully and don't go into graphic details. Comment below: How have you seen the sexual revolution affect your life or the lives of people you love?

Chris and I are finally filming in our new house, and we’re jumping into a spicy one: how I can be against feminism without being “anti-woman”—and why the internet makes this conversation so unbelievably messy. We talk about the tradwife movement hitting “aesthetic + brand” status (including a major tradwife influencer divorce story), the way some men weaponize “submission” for control, and why the manosphere’s version of “traditional” is basically a total inversion of sacrificial, Christian masculinity.

I suck at homemaking. Or at least, I used to. For years, I would see an overflowing trash can, a sink full of dishes, or a mountain of laundry and somehow…still not do anything about it. And every homemaking system I tried seemed to be designed by someone who was already naturally good at this stuff.  So what do you do if you actually WANT to care for your home well…but organization, cleaning, routines, and maintenance just don’t come naturally to you? Well, after 5 years of marriage, I’ve finally figured out how to make homemaking work with my more creative, Type B brain instead of constantly trying to turn myself into a Type A person (news flash: it doesn't work). We’re talking procrastination stations, the “container rule,” decluttering without destroying your entire house in the process, and why the real answer is less about finding the perfect hack and more about building simple rhythms you can actually maintain.   Your home doesn’t have to be perfect. You just need to learn how to steward what you have...even if you kind of suck at it right now. In This Episode: 0:00 Being A Bad Homemaker 4:43 Struggles Caused By Your Creativity 8:21 Projects vs Rhythms 11:30 Tip 1: Procrastination Stations 14:18 Tip 2: Laundry 15:13 Tip 3: Groceries 16:06 Tip 4: The Container Rule 19:04 Tip 5: The Anti-Marie Kondo 20:29 Tip 6: Embrace Rhythms (NO HACKS!) Resources A Slob Comes Clean by Dana K. White: https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/ Organizing For The Rest Of Us by Dana K. White: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08ZMB6XQS/ Decluttering At The Speed Of Life by Dana K. White: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072TMNCBH/ --- Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

The internet has ruined everything. Humanity is at a huge crisis point, fueled by social media algorithms. We're waking up to this and are instituting some new routines in our home to start moving back to a more analog way of life...a life free from HOT TAKES. Do we really need to know what Matt Walsh or Ben Shapiro think about every single thing in the entire world? And I'm not just picking on them...it's everyone, with everything, all the time. Something's going to break. And I don't want it to be my family's mental health. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:29 The Garage Sale Life 2:39 The Internet Has Ruined Everything 6:30 Hayden Panettiere and Lindsay Clancy 9:31 CS Lewis on News 12:01 The Algorithm's Hot Takes 13:59 Our Need For Control 18:06 How We're Cutting Back In Our Home 24:19 The Future Is Analog Resources: The Machine Stops by E.M. Forster: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071HG139S -- Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

SPOILER ALERT! I am a Little House on the Prairie super fan, so you know I have some thoughts about the new Netflix series. In this episode, my husband Chris joins me, and we explain why Little House (and most new movies/TV shows) all suck these days.  It starts with the word "twaddle" and 19th century educator Charlotte Mason, and ends somewhere around soy burgers and fake meat. Yeah, it's that kind of episode. :)  Make sure to answer our question at the end in the comments, I'd love to hear what you think! In This Episode: 0:26 The Craziest Summer 3:56 All TV and Movies Are Twaddle! 9:03 The Little House On The Prairie Rant 15:19 What's Wrong With The New Little House Series 20:00 This Is My Question... 25:33 Wuthering Heights Violation of Greatness Resources: Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

Today my husband Chris Kuehl and I sit down and give our 6 hot takes that we think conservative Christians should STOP ceding to the left. These are things that Christians and conservatives should care more about than we currently do, and add a common sense, Biblical perspective to the marketplace of ideas, rather than let liberals/leftists take all of the air time with their typically outrageous ideas. Which ones do you agree with? Let us know in the comments, and let us know YOUR hot takes! In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:16 Hot Take #1: Environment 10:51 Hot Take #2: Capitalism 15:21 Hot Take #3: Disabilities 20:10 Hot Take #4: Family 24:28 Hot Take #5: Republican Party 27:42 Hot Take #6: Mental Health Resources: Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

The word "toxic" is thrown around SO often these days. And it's usually directed toward other people in a mean-spirited, judgemental way. In the interest of turning our reflection on ourselves instead of others, I thought today we'd talk about issues common to women...things that may make us, well, toxic. Now I'm obviously not condemning or shaming us, but I do think it's important to turn our gaze on ourselves instead of others, while asking the Lord if there is anything hiding within us that we can offer to Him for purifying and healing.  So in this episode...what happens when female strength goes wrong? I'd love to hear if any of this was convicting! Leave a comment below! In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:08 When Feminine Strength Goes Too Far 3:22 Careless Words 8:01 Envy and Covetousness 11:31 Sloth/Hustle Ditches 15:08 Passive or Controlling 17:15 Selfishness 20:14 Pray This Psalm Resources Mentioned: An Old-Fashioned Girl by Louisa May Alcott: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0140374493/ --- Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

Are some churches too emotional? Are others too rigid? Yes and yes. We are to worship God in spirit and truth. BOTH sides of this argument have something the other needs. The challenge is not to pick one side at the expense of the other. It's so important that we tune our entire beings to be able to experience God with mind, body, and spirit. In this episode, we'll discuss what to take from both sides of the equation in order to find a balanced state, full of the fruit of the Spirit. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:04 Emotionality In Our Faith 4:24 Are We Instruments? 9:30 Emotions Are Not An Enemy 14:15 How To Tune Your Body, Mind, and Spirit to Experience God 18:23 Emotional Intelligence Is True Intelligence 19:32 We Are The Helper 21:29 The Dance Between Spirit and Truth Resources: Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/ Mentioned: Pints with Aquinas Video: Quanta Article: https://www.quantamagazine.org/what-physical-life-force-turns-biologys-wheels-20260420/

Did you hear what came out of the Southern Baptist Convention? They HATE women now!!!! Oh wait... No they don't. They haven't even changed anything. They just upheld a view that they've always had. But of course, the news and social media cycle doesn't care about that, when they have a chance to be feminists and blur the lines between men and women. In this episode, I discuss the real issue here that's NOT being talked about, and why it's so important that we actually stop to think about this before getting caught up in false media discourse. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:53 What I'm Reading 1:40 Reaction Video...Reaction? 3:18 SBC Announcement 5:29 What Actually Happened 10:15 2 Issues Feminism Has Created 12:39 My Question For You 14:41 The Deborah Issue 19:25 The Prayers of Men 20:28 Women Who Changed History 23:50 Reclaiming Feminine Dignity Resources: Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

Is there any value for a Christian woman in her own home? That's the question we're diving into today in response to a reel that's gone viral about a pastor's wife suggesting that there's zero excuse to be a stay at home wife if you don't have children. Feminism's talons have sunk deep into our cultural psyche, to the point where many in the church are now cobbling together "biblical sounding" excuses for feminist thought. At the end, you'll also hear why it's been hard to get these episodes out to you consistently lately, as well as a MUST-read article on men taking up the pro-life cause. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:00 Stay At Home Wife Controversy 5:00 A Woman's Work 13:20 The Gnostic Home 15:47 Pro-Life Men Resources: Landon and Ashley Chase Reel: https://www.instagram.com/p/DYXsroUEVHZ/ Theology of Home by Dr. Carrie Gress: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1505113652/ Theology of Home II by Dr. Carrie Gress: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1505117003/ Live Action: https://www.liveaction.org/ Are Men The Future of the Pro-Life Movement? by Chris Kuehl: https://christopherkuehl.substack.com/p/are-men-the-future-of-the-pro-life Rachel's Vineyard (Healing After Abortion): https://www.rachelsvineyard.org/ Vis Center (Healing After Abortion): https://www.viscenter.org/healing -- Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ -- Follow Justice on IG:   / justicehopekuehl

In this episode I sat down with the author of the new book, Is God A Zionist to discuss the state of Christian Zionism, misunderstandings, the actual process of writing such a controversial book, and the state of US-Israel geopolitics.  The author is actually my favorite podcast guest...my husband, Christopher Kuehl! He has worked so hard the last couple of years to bring this book to life, and it's such a crucial read for anyone who wants the nuanced, intellectually honest arguments that we need during a time as crazy as this, especially around a topic that is quickly becoming a powder keg in the church. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:01 Is God A Zionist 3:22 Dispensationalist? 4:57 From fringe to mainstream 12:18 What's it like to write a book like this? 15:32 Understanding primary sources 22:12 The most challenging thing 27:10 Advice for writers 28:00 Defining Zionism 33:45 The Church Fathers on Israel 40:55 The future of foreign aid to Israel Resources: Is God A Zionist by Christopher Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GNP65L8N Present Witness: https://www.presentwitness.org/ Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

Welcome back to With All Her Mind! I've been going through Lyme Disease treatment right now, and it's been brutal, which, when combined with motherhood, Chris' new book launch, and the rest of life, means I haven't had the time or energy to create much content lately.  I asked you guys on Instagram to submit your questions for me because I thought a Q&A would be a fun way to catch up and get back on the podcast, so thank you for all your questions! I get through 10 questions in this one, ranging from whether Christians should celebrate Easter, to chronic illness, to my parents, and much more. Let me know in the comments if you have other questions you'd like me to tackle. Thank you for all of your prayers, God-willing I'll have another episode out this month, too! In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:58 Q1: Desert Island? 3:12 Q2: Chronic Illness? 8:03 Q3: Our Son Online? 10:00 Q4: International Travel? 12:34 Q5: More Kids? 15:26 Q6: Scapegoats? 21:50 Q7: Your Parents? 25:31 Q8: Exposure in the Church? 30:56 Q9: Easter? 36:48 Q10: Marriage and Parenthood? Resources: Is God A Zionist by Chris Kuehl: https://a.co/d/04QXsy0r Suffering Chronic Illness Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p0B0epIZgCg Easter Isn't Pagan (Wes Huff): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q31k28_rdTg Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/ -- Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

This episode is for all of you out there who have struggled and are still struggling through the suffering that comes with chronic illness...or honestly any kind of suffering. Chris and I didn't start out with a good theology of suffering, and it honestly made hard things even harder than they had to be.  In this episode, we talk about my journey through endometriosis, Lyme Disease, mental health, the toll illness takes on marriage, secondary infertility, and, most importantly... The goodness of God revealed through suffering. If you're going through it right now, we invite you to join us in this honest and vulnerable talk about what life's been like for the past 12+ years and how it's changed and strengthened our relationship with the Lord. In This Episode:  0:00 Intro 1:11 Endometriosis 7:04 Lyme 10:30 Freaked out after getting married 20:45 Truly believing the severity 23:08 Marriage expectations 25:20 Different perspectives on suffering 30:35 Processing suffering 36:57 Suffering as worship to the Lord 41:23 What I've learned about staying positive with chronic illness 41:58 What the Protestant and Word of Faith movement can learn about suffering 43:54 What husbands can do to help their wives during chronic illness 50:44 Recommendations for husbands (from Chris) Resources: Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/ These Beautiful Bones by Emily Stimpson: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00FHBT35K/ He Leadeth Me by Walter Ciszek and Daniel Flaherty: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DVF1Y8VB/ Suffering Is Never for Nothing by Elisabeth Elliot: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1535914157/

I went to Turning Point's America Fest last month - the first one since Charlie Kirk's assassination - and was actually surprised by how much things have changed recently. There's a growing split in the conservative movement, and much of it has to do with young men and those who are trying to reach them...often with extremely anti-Jewish and anti-Israeli talking points that honestly, just don't make sense. In this episode, I'm joined by my husband Chris to discuss what I witnessed at the event, and what we think it means for the conservative movement in America moving forward. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:18 Demographic shift 3:07 The split in the conservative movement 4:22 The middle falling out 8:14 Real life examples of the split 14:33 Ben Shapiro rips the bandaid off 20:19 Tucker Carlson on Islam 22:22 JD Vance bridging the divide? 30:28 Doug Wilson and Steve Deace 35:24 Anger and distraction 39:34 Alex Jones calls out Candace Owens Resources Mentioned: Turning Point USA - America Fest: https://www.amfest.com/ --- Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

In this episode of 'With All Her Mind,' I'm thrilled to sit down once again with Dr. Carrie Gress for an insightful Q&A! We delve into everything from the impact of feminism on modern womanhood to balancing family life with career ambitions. Dr. Gress, a renowned scholar from the Catholic University of America, shares her wisdom on topics like purity culture, the role of femininity, and how we can integrate these values into our daily lives. She also gives us a sneak peek into her upcoming book, 'Something Wicked: Why Feminism Can't Be Fused with Christianity,' coming out in January 2026. You don't want to miss this deep dive into life as a woman, both in faith and in the world.