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On this episode, Asaad Gulati pulls back the curtain on what it really means to build a career in gay adult content while navigating identity, culture, and visibility. We dive into the lack—and slow rise—of brown representation in gay porn, and how he’s intentionally carving out space where it didn’t exist before. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueen Follow Asaad instagram.com/majestic.asaad

This week, David brings on Dyl - Instagram's newest Himbo with a twist. What starts as a classic “fine man from Instagram” interview quickly turns into a deep conversation about confidence, submission, intimacy, and breaking assumptions. Dyl may look like a walking fantasy, but looks can be deceiving.... We explore how he’s intentional, connection-driven, and just beginning to explore his kinkier side. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueen Follow Dyl www.instagram.com/dyl_.fl

Siren Santiago shares his journey from a conservative upbringing in Puerto Rico to becoming a prominent figure in the adult film industry. He discusses his early sexual awakenings, experiences in the military, and the transition to adult content creation during the pandemic. Siren opens up about his kinks, fantasies, and the importance of connection in sexual experiences, emphasizing that sex should be about intimacy rather than just the end goal of orgasm. Follow Siren Santiago instagram.com/sirensantiagox Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueen

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David interviews his friend, DJ Kidd as he shares his journey into the underground party scene, his approach to creating inclusive spaces, and his insights on sexuality, anonymity, and community building within LGBTQ+ communities of color. Discover the stories behind his events, his thoughts on sex positivity, and his personal experiences with fetishes and connection. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueen Follow DJ Kidd instagram.com/bigworldlittlekidd

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Trap Cinderella shares her journey as a rising influencer and femme queen, discussing her sexual awakening, the impact of ballroom culture, and the importance of self-respect in relationships. She emphasizes the fluidity of sexuality, the challenges faced by trans women, and her passion for music and creative expression. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueen Follow Trap Cynderella instagram.com/trapcynderella

Today on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Jai the Gentleman for a wildly honest, deeply reflective, and unapologetically freaky conversation about sex, kink, and liberation. From risky car hookups to full-blown dancefloor sex, Jai opens up about his evolving sexual journey—and how pleasure goes far beyond just climax. Together, they unpack what it really means to explore your desires, challenge sexual norms, and embrace vulnerability in and out of the bedroom. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueen Follow Jai the Gentleman instagram.com/jaithegentleman Follow Dear Black Gay Men instagram.com/dearblackgaymen

In this episode, host David Brandyn welcomes guests Shadow and Prince FlackOo, a dynamic couple known for their adventurous and fluid approach to sexuality. The conversation flows from light-hearted introductions to deeper discussions about their experiences, including a life-saving moment involving Keita, their freaky adventures in nature, and their evolving sexual identities. They share stories of their first meeting on Grindr, their fantasies, and their recent experiences with threesomes, all while emphasizing the importance of love and exploration in their relationship. In this engaging conversation, the hosts explore various themes surrounding sexuality, fantasies, and the importance of inclusivity in sexual spaces. They discuss their personal experiences with role-playing, the dynamics of open relationships, and the emotional connections formed during intimate acts like fisting. Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueen Follow Shadow https://www.instagram.com/shad00w1123/ Follow Prince FlackOo https://www.instagram.com/princeflackoonyc/

This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with viral sensation and Bad Boys star Relly B for a wild, hilarious, and surprisingly deep conversation about sex, power, and navigating fame. From sexual awakenings to cruising adventures, from topping vs. bottoming to verbal kinks and “good boy” energy — Relly B keeps it real, raw, and unfiltered. They also get into how fame has impacted dating, why having a 9–5 still matters, and what it actually means to have control—in and out of the bedroom. Oh… and yes, we talk about f*****g fans too. 😌 Follow Relly B https://www.instagram.com/durellyrellz/ Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandyn/ Follow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueen/

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandon welcomes Calypso Jete, the winner of Legendary Season 1 and a prominent figure in the ballroom and fetish communities. They discuss the essence of fem queens and butch queens, the complexities of sex and emotions, and the importance of consent and communication in BDSM. Calypso shares her journey through the world of kink, her experiences in the ballroom scene, and offers advice to listeners navigating their own relationships and kinks. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and authenticity in both personal and community interactions. Follow Calypso Jete https://www.instagram.com/calypsojete Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueen

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with the unforgettable Jesus Really — go-go dancer, adult performer, and sex-positive content creator known for his infectious energy, confidence, and unapologetic self-expression. Jesus opens up about growing up Puerto Rican in Philadelphia, discovering his sexuality, navigating social media censorship as a sex worker, and the mindset that allows him to live freely in a world that often tries to shame queer sexuality. This episode also dives into bottoming myths, kink discovery, the “second hole” conversation, sex positivity, and why embracing yourself can inspire others to do the same. If you’ve ever struggled with shame, curiosity, sexual confidence, or self-expression — this episode is for you. Follow Jesushttps://www.instagram.com/jesusreally_ Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueen

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Adrian Hart shares his journey from a small town in Georgia to becoming a prominent figure in the adult film industry. He discusses his sexual awakening, experiences with identity, and the challenges he faced as an openly gay man. Adrian reflects on the realities of working in adult film, including the impact of platforms like OnlyFans, the importance of communication in sexual encounters, and the racial dynamics that influence perceptions of his work. He also addresses the pay disparities in the industry and emphasizes the need for performers to value themselves. Throughout the conversation, Adrian's candidness and humor shine through, making for an insightful and entertaining discussion. Follow Adrian Hart https://www.instagram.com/adrianhartla Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueen

Happy Women's History Month! In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn and Zorine explore the rich history and cultural significance of Hoochie culture, tracing its roots back to the blues era of the 1930s. They discuss the characteristics that define a Hoochie, the impact of cancel culture on Hoochie history, and the evolution of Hoochie Daddies. Zorine shares insights about the Hoochie Khan festival, which celebrates this vibrant culture, and they conclude with a discussion on the Mount Rushmore of Hoochies, highlighting influential figures across decades. Follow Zorine Truly https://www.instagram.com/thee_hoochie_historian_/ Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueenad

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn interviews Jon Darra, a Las Vegas legend known for his multifaceted career as a sex worker, singer, and advocate. They explore Jon's cum dump fantasy, experiences in sex work, and the dynamics of group sex. Jon shares insights into his journey in pageantry, the role of music in his life, and the realities of being a content creator in the adult industry. The discussion also touches on the culture of bathhouses, the differences between various venues, and the importance of open communication in sexual encounters. Throughout the conversation, Jon emphasizes the need for connection, exploration, and the liberation that comes with embracing one's desires. Follow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandyn Follow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueenad Follow Jon Darrahttps://www.instagram.com/darratheexplora_

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In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandyn welcomes Jiyah Bolden, a rising star in the social media landscape, known for her bold personality and creative content. The conversation explores her experiences in the world of sexuality and her unique perspectives on kinks and preferences. Follow Jiyah Bolden https://www.instagram.com/jiyahboldenFollow David Brandyn https://www.instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark https://www.instagram.com/butchqueenad