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Real Men - Real Talk

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72 episodes
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Date created
2026/04/15
Latest episode
2026/08/26
Average duration
14 min.
Release period
10 days

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Real Men - Real Talk is a refreshingly authentic podcast where men speak candidly about the challenges and triumphs of modern masculinity. Hosted by Chris Dearborn alongside rotating co-hosts including Tilghman, and other members of the Real Men Apparel team, this show cuts through the noise with genuine conversation about what it means to be a man today.

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Inside the Warehouse Where Your Underwear Actually Lives
2026/08/26
⬇️ Your Fabric is LYING to You! Fabric Deep Dive https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Z11FuZAl8qRu90a0avthz Chris was on the road and planning to walk you through the warehouse by himself. Then Tilghman walked into the room, and it turned into a two-phone, two-host tour of every place your underwear sits before it ever meets you. The least glamorous building we own turns out to be the most interesting one. Key moments: 0:00 - What are you wearing today? (cold open from the road) 1:01 - Tilghman crashes the episode 2:38 - Inside the warehouse: row 19, column 24 4:13 - The packing station, the scan cams, and the returns table 8:25 - Jared's desk: seam changes, D-pouch, and bamboo Every rack, label, and scanner in that building exists for one reason: the pair you ordered showing up in the right size, in the right box, on the right day. Practical Applications: If your first order doesn't fit, you usually don't need to ship anything back. Tell us and a new pair goes out.* Most "returns" are just size swaps, so order the size you think you are and adjust from there instead of guessing forever.* Fit complaints on Reddit and TikTok are what actually change the product. The boxer brief back seam got redesigned because guys spoke up.Next time you tear open a package, you'll know it came off row 19, column 24. Somehow that makes it better. Join our community: Website: https://rmac.store Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany #RealMenApparel #RealMenRealTalk #WarehouseTour #MensUnderwear #BehindTheScenes #BoxerBriefs #PouchUnderwear #RealPouchSystem #MensStyle #SmallBusiness #Ecommerce #Shopify #ProductDevelopment #MensFashion #Underwear #Fulfillment #MadeForMen #ComfortFirst #BambooUnderwear #NationalUnderwearDay
We Tried Jockey So You Don't Have To — Zero Support, Full Chafe Option
2026/07/22
⬇️ We Tried Jockey So You Don't Have To We put on Jockey so you don't have to. Tilghman took the boxer briefs, Chris took the bikini briefs, and somewhere between a Fourth of July grill session and a mannequin demo, we learned exactly what "95% cotton, no pouch" does to a man in motion. Spoiler: it does not stay put. In this episode: Tilghman's Fourth of July run in the boxer briefs: heat, fireworks, and a lot of sweat The side fly that didn't work out and the wedgie-for-support workaround Chris's bikini brief reunion — first Jockey pair since he was 10 Why too much fabric between the legs means zero separation The on-camera fabric comparison: flat Jockey vs. real Real Men space Cotton is soft, we'll give them that. But soft with no structure is just a really comfortable problem.
Your Fabric is LYING to You! Fabric Deep Dive
2026/07/15
⬇️ Your Fabric Is Lying to You (A Fabric Deep Dive) Not every fabric wants what's best for you. Chris and Tilghman go hands-on with the four fabrics in your underwear drawer — cotton, modal, nylon, and problematic polyester — to figure out which one keeps its cool, which one holds a grudge (and your sweat), and why one of them keeps giving you the same smell no matter what. Pure homegrown human thought. No AI wrote this one. In this episode: Cotton's big flaw: it soaks up moisture and just… holds onto it (chafing, salt deposits, the works) Modal's case: beech-pulp softness, more wicking than cotton, and how it survives heavy labor in the heat Why nylon is the quiet MVP — cool to the touch, near-zero absorption, and a travel lifesaver The polyester problem: trapped heat, bonded body oils, and that permanent locker-room smell The weave test and the "listen to your underwear" trick that changes how you shop If we can save one man from the oppression and heat of polyester, it was all worth it.
Things Don't Have to Stay the Same - Nate Larkin: Samson Society
2026/07/08
⬇️ The Difference Between Accountability and Accessibility — Nate Larkin, Samson Society Every man is carrying something he's decided nobody gets to see. Nate Larkin spent years hiding his — and then built the thing he wishes he'd had. The founder of the Samson Society joins Chris for the most honest conversation we've had on the show: what recovery from any unwanted behavior actually takes, and why not one of us was built to do it alone. In this episode: - Why honesty comes first — addiction survives on denial, and the first lie you tell is to yourself - Healing happens in community, never in isolation - Accountability vs. accessibility — and why the old shame-based model never worked - Addiction as a response to trauma, and the therapies that help you process it - The Pirate Monk: why integrity isn't purity, it's integration Nate also shares where he is right now — caring for his wife through a stage-four cancer diagnosis, facing headwinds in business, turning 70 — and why that season is exactly when brotherhood matters most. If you've been white-knuckling something in private, this is your sign to let somebody in. --- New episodes every Monday. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@realmenapparelcompany/videos Shop Real Men Apparel: https://rmac.store/ Listen to this episode next: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2sXzoQivmZhlqNWBAoHQVX
We tried Calvin Klein Boxer Briefs so You Don't Have To
2026/07/01
Calvin Klein makes a genuinely good pair of underwear — soft fabric, a waistband that stays put, packaging classy enough to get you excited to put them on. Then you start moving. Tilghman wore the boxer briefs for three days, Chris took the briefs, and the verdict lands the same place every big-box brand does: great fabric, no pouch, everything slowly heading for the exits. In this episode: - Tilghman's three-day boxer brief run and the one-line verdict: "sweaty and moist" - What CK actually gets right — soft fabric, a waistband that won't roll, no chafing - The lawn-mowing disaster and the "briefcase" ride-up on day three - Chris on the briefs: great fit until you walk more than 20 feet - The Hanes flashback and where CK lands on the Goated-to-Cooked ranking Calvin Klein earned its place — but soft without structure is just a really comfortable problem.
Calvin Klein vs. Real Men — We Tried CK So You Don't Have To
2026/06/24
⬇️ Calvin Klein vs. Real Men — We Tried CK So You Don't Have To Calvin Klein is where it started for me — the first boutique pair my mom bought me as a kid, the underwear that opened my eyes to a world beyond Fruit of the Loom. So I bought the official cotton hip brief, wore it for real, and let nostalgia meet reality. Great waistband. Soft cotton. And everything slowly working its way down between my legs the second I started moving. In this episode: - Why I bought the official Calvin Klein cotton hip brief (and the nostalgia behind it) - First impressions: premium packaging and a pouch I didn't expect - The two real problems — it sits low and it runs small - Price reality: $45-50 shipped vs. a 3-pack of Real Men - The Real Men Sport Brief side-by-side: separation, room, and actual air - Giving Calvin Klein its due — they pioneered the pouch Calvin Klein earned its spot in the history books. But it's been almost 20 years, and your lower half has options now. --- New episodes every Monday. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@realmenapparelcompany/videos Shop Real Men Apparel: https://rmac.store/ Listen to this episode next: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Dgnkpqsrm5Uv9MTkh7QkA
Which Pouch Size Is Actually Yours? A, B, C, D Explained
2026/06/17
There is a pouch size for every package, gentlemen, and today we're handing out the map. Tilghman and I go drawer by drawer — A, B, C, and D — so you stop guessing and start knowing. Fair warning: there's a mannequin involved, and Tilghman says something about a "pinhouse." In this episode: - The A-Pouch: a lower-profile fit for guys who don't want the bulge - The B-Pouch: our best-seller, built for real separation and everyday wear - The C-Pouch: more room on the mannequin, our second-best seller - The D-Pouch: max room, built for guys who keep "bottoming out" elsewhere - This week's drop: V-Fly Briefs in Lemon Icing, Peach Dust, and Nimbus Cloud Four pouch sizes, one mannequin, zero shame. Next week: Calvin Klein versus Real Men Apparel, and yes, we know exactly how biased that sounds. --- New episodes every Monday. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@realmenapparelcompany/videos Shop Real Men Apparel: https://rmac.store/ Listen to this episode next: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1Sp1WSTWTEBv7WNWxMcOv3
We Tried Pair of Thieves so You Don't Have To
2026/06/10
⬇️ Your Underwear Opinions Are Chaotic. We Love It. https://open.spotify.com/episode/1Sp1WSTWTEBv7WNWxMcOv3?si=jtbDfbiWRhuySa6py8qKPgIn You asked for it. You literally commented it. So we went to Target, grabbed a three-pack of Pair of Thieves modal boxer briefs, and wore them for a week. Tilghman moved heavy furniture in them. Chris hiked a hill in them. Neither of them made it through without a Gold Bond run and some readjusting. Here's the full debrief. In this episode: - Intro + this week's question: socks with sandals or sandals without? - The Pair of Thieves week: both verdicts, day by day - The structural problem: soft fabric, nowhere to go - Side-by-side comparison: Pair of Thieves vs. Real Men pouch on camera - New colorways, the ranking, and why there's no excuse not to try Real Men Modal fabric is soft. We'll give them that. But soft without structure is just a really comfortable problem. Next episode, we're trying Calvin Klein. God help us. --- New episodes every Monday. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@realmenapparelcompany/videos Shop Real Men Apparel: https://rmac.store/ Listen to this episode next: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1Sp1WSTWTEBv7WNWxMcOv3?si=jtbDfbiWRhuySa6py8qKPgIn
Your Underwear Opinions Are Chaotic. We Love It.
2026/06/03
⬇️ We Dropped our Seamless https://open.spotify.com/episode/1Sp1WSTWTEBv7WNWxMcOv3?si=jtbDfbiWRhuySa6py8qKPg In This Episode You came through with the comments — brand recs, military horror stories, a price breakdown that completely reframes the "but it's cheaper" argument, and one truly inspired tagline suggestion we may actually steal. Chris and Tilghman read them all live and somehow ended up with homework: they're going back to the store to try more budget brands and rank them on a comfort scale. In this episode: - Tilghman's official review of Hanes week: "Probably the hardest week of my life" - Chris's Air Force basic training underwear trauma and why he still thinks about it - The case for Calvin Klein briefs as the best commercial option — and whether it's worth a dedicated review - Duluth Trading Company, Jockey, Saxx, Pair of Thieves — your recommendations, their honest reactions - The pouch mechanics breakdown: tucked vs. lifted, and why ABCD sizing exists in the first place - Why "$13 vs $23" is the wrong comparison — and the cost-per-wear math that actually matters - What's coming next: a store challenge where they pick different brands and rank them on comfort Chuck Sterling's take: there's no wrong answer in the underwear conversation. There's just underwear you've already forgotten you're wearing, and everything else. --- New episodes every Monday. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@realmenapparelcompany/videos Shop Real Men Apparel: https://rmac.store/
We Tried Hanes so You Don't Have To
2026/06/03
⬇️ From Tighty Whities to Pouch Underwear - Underwear History Pt. 2 https://youtu.be/DuOw0MLYvAs We wore Walmart underwear for a full week so you don't have to — and neither of us made it. One pair got ripped off in a restaurant bathroom. The other turned a bowling night into a masterclass in public readjustment. This episode is a live field test of big-box underwear vs. what men actually deserve, plus the launch of the Real Men V-Fly Briefs. Key moments: 0:00 - Welcome to Real Men Real Talk + the Hanes challenge 1:22 - Tilghman's Walmart run: he wanted soft, he got sandpaper 2:00 - "It's been 84 years" — the itching begins 2:45 - Bowling with friends who know you as the underwear guy 3:07 - The bathroom rip-off 3:49 - Chris's brief experiment and the high school itch flashback 6:31 - The fly situation: it's a maze, not a feature 6:57 - The Roman loincloth theory: more fabric ≠ more support 7:15 - Real Men's size-inclusive advantage: XS to 5XL, A to D pouch 8:24 - The V-Fly Briefs drop: $39 for a 3-pack, a penthouse for your junk This is the episode that proves your discomfort isn't normal — it's just what decades of big-box marketing trained you to accept. Practical Applications: * Constant readjusting isn't a you problem — it's an underwear problem * More fabric without structure is just a loincloth with a waistband * Real Men fits you at every size, every season — same brand, XS to 5XL, A to D pouch Last week we covered underwear history. This week we lived it. The wrong way. On purpose. Join our community: Website: https://rmac.store Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany #WalmartUnderwear #HanesReview #MensUnderwear #PouchUnderwear #RealMen #RealMenRealTalk #UnderwearReview #VFlyBriefs #RealMenApparel #ComfortMatters #MensHealth #UnderwearBrands #BigBoxUnderwear #UnderwearTest #MensFashion
As We Move vs. Real Men Apparel — Which Pouch Actually Fits?
2026/05/27
⬇️ History of Underwear Part 2 https://open.spotify.com/episode/0DbKaU7bPHVzgbliekDBmb?si=770a920e1a494493 The wait is over. The RMAC Seamless Brief is officially here — and it's the world's largest pouch seamless brief on the market. Bar none. Nobody has this construction. Chris and Tilghman walk through every detail live, then put it head-to-head against As We Move on a mannequin to show exactly what "accommodating" is supposed to mean. Key moments: 0:00 - Welcome to Real Men Real Talk Live and the big announcement 0:12 - Seamless Brief revealed: world's largest pouch, exclusive to Real Men 1:00 - Future Chris drops in: launching Thursday, May 28 2:00 - Fabric breakdown: 74% nylon, 26% spandex — same as the Seamless Thong 2:45 - Thin pouch design, heat-formed seams, and the unfinished edge explained 3:15 - The "barely there" feel — what zero seam digging actually means 5:00 - Jared's return policy: too generous to change, apparently 5:20 - How to break in seamless seams the right way (the leather boot method) 7:37 - Care instructions you actually need to follow this time — no hot dryer, gentlemen 8:52 - As We Move comparison begins on the mannequin 11:50 - "I could play a tune on that thing" — tension test results say it all 12:45 - 100% satisfaction guarantee and what's coming next The Seamless Brief brings everything RMAC is known for — Real Pouch support, thoughtful construction, and fit that's actually built for real men — into the slimmest, softest brief we've ever made. Join our community: Website: https://rmac.store Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany #seamlessbrief #realmenapparelcompany #pouchunderwear #mensunderwear #underwearlaunch #seamlessunderwear #realmenrealtalk #menscomfort #underwearreview #realpouch #aswemove #masculinity #selfimprovement #menslifestyle #christianentrepreneur #underwear #menstyle #menshealth #productlaunch #supportwhereneedsmatters
Why Did Men Start Wearing Their Waistband Above Their Jeans?
2026/05/13
Part 2 of the History of Men's Underwear picks up where we left off - past the loincloth era and straight into tighty whities, Marky Mark, Calvin Klein, sagging culture, and how pouch underwear quietly became the most functional upgrade men never knew they needed. Key moments: 0:28 - Quick recap: loincloths, status symbols, and the Y-fly origin story 1:41 - Tighty whities: the 12-pack Walmart era and Air Force waistband complaints 3:58 - Underwear as fashion statement: color, style, and the 80s shift 5:17 - Sagging culture and the waistband-above-the-jeans moment 6:54 - Calvin Klein capitalizes on low-riding jeans with bold branding 9:37 - The boutique underwear underground: 2(x)ist, Gregg Homme, and others 10:50 - Why pouch underwear isn't "bulge enhancing" - it's anatomically correct 11:44 - Tilghman's mirror test: "That's just where our package is supposed to be" 13:00 - Why Real Men built a family-friendly version of what boutique brands got right This is the episode that connects fashion history to function - and explains why most men have been unknowingly putting up with uncomfortable underwear their entire lives. Practical Applications: Your discomfort isn't normal - it's just what you've been trained to acceptPouch underwear puts you in a natural anatomical position, not an enhanced oneYou don't have to choose between comfort and a brand you'd actually share with friendsComing next week: We wear Walmart underwear for a week so you don't have to. Join our community: Website: https://rmac.store Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany #UnderwearHistory #MensUnderwear #PouchUnderwear #CalvinKlein #RealMen #RealMenRealTalk #MensFashion #TightyWhities #UnderwearReview #MarkyMark #ComfortMatters #MensHealth #UnderwearBrands #BoutiqueUnderwear #RealMenApparel
Your Underwear Has a History - And It's Weirder Than You Think
2026/05/06
Turns out men have always cared deeply about what's going on underneath. From Aztec loincloths that could get you executed to King Henry VIII's famously padded codpiece to the 1935 jockey brief that caused a near-riot in a Chicago blizzard — underwear has been a status symbol, a sign of honor, and a statement of power for literally thousands of years. Part 1 of 2. Key moments: 0:00 - Welcome: Underwear has always been more than just underwear 2:13 - The Aztec loincloth: Status, law, and the wrong tassels 3:18 - Egypt's Pharaoh and the Chief of Laundry (yes, that was a real job) 4:25 - The Roman standardized loincloth: The underwear of empire 6:09 - Japan's Fundoshi: Honor, abdominal compression, and the 600-year Naked Man Festival 7:15 - King Henry VIII and the codpiece that defies explanation 8:38 - The Union Suit and Dr. Yeager's wool theory 9:23 - The 1935 Y-Front: 600 pairs sold out in a Chicago blizzard. 30,000 more the following week. Join our community: Website: https://rmac.store Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany #MensUnderwear #UnderwearHistory #RealMenRealTalk #Masculinity #KingHenryVIII #Codpiece #Fundoshi #AztecHistory #RomanHistory #YFront #JockeyBriefs #MensFashionHistory #MensHealth #ComfortableUnderwear #RealMenApparel
The Phallic Fallacy: Why Most Men Are Stressing Over Nothing
2026/04/29
⬇️We Ranked Every Underwear Style: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3LCRGMIIauwgvqvoVxRqRr?si=bf984215bbfc4354 Size does matter — but not the way the locker room, the internet, or your imagination told you it does. Chris and Tilghman break down the actual statistics, dismantle the insecurity, and make a pretty compelling case that the content of your character is packing more heat than you think. Key moments: 0:00 - Welcome + today's question: What's the craziest position you've worn your, uh… gear? 1:38 - Tilghman's wrestling coach story and the walk that said everything 3:18 - Locker room insecurity: why we all pretended to be bigger than we were 6:00 - The actual statistics: average erect length is 5.1–5.5 inches (yes, really) 8:00 - The phallic fallacy: why we compare ourselves to extremes that aren't real 10:10 - What our own pouch size data says about how average we actually are 12:00 - Final word: it's about the content of your heart, not the size of your junk The guys we thought had it all figured out in high school? Turns out they were just as lost. And the dude with the best-looking girlfriend? He probably just listened really well. Join our community: Website: https://rmac.store Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany #PenisSize #MaleInsecurity #RealMenRealTalk #MensHealth #Masculinity #SizeDoesntMatter #RealMenApparel #Confidence #LockerRoomTalk #BodyImage #SelfWorth #MensMentalHealth #PouchUnderwear #ComfortableUnderwear #RealTalk
No Seams. No Compromises. The Real Men Seamless Thong Drops Tomorrow
2026/04/22
⬇️Is Pouch Underwear for Bulge Enhancement or Support? https://youtu.be/Arm7oDg5LkE The Real Men Seamless Thong is here - and it's not like anything else on the market. Brushed nylon, buttery-soft fabric, and the largest seamless pouch available in 36 size variations. Chris and Tilghman walk you through everything you need to know, including a live side-by-side comparison that speaks for itself. Key moments: 0:00 - Seamless Thong launch announcement 1:22 - What makes this thong different: fabric, stretch, and pouch design 4:12 - How to break in your new seamless thong (don't skip this) 6:15 - Side-by-side comparison: Real Men vs. the other guys Chris and Tilghman cover the fabric breakdown (76% nylon, 24% spandex), wash care tips to protect the heat-formed seams, and a hands-on comparison showing just how much more pouch space Real Men delivers over a standard seamless thong. Plus - a teaser for the next product dropping soon. Practical Applications: - Stretch your thong before first wear to loosen the heat-formed seams - Follow wash instructions - heat will undo the forming over time - 36 size variations mean there's a fit for everyone (A, B, and C pouch sizes) - D-size pouch is in development - Jared is on it Join our community: Website: https://rmac.store Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_company Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany #SeamlessThong #MensUnderwear #RealMenRealTalk #RealMenApparelCompany #ThongForMen #MensThong #ComfortableUnderwear #PouchUnderwear #NewProduct #UnderwearLaunch #BrushedNylon #SizeInclusive #MensComfort #RealPouch #RMAC

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