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You can have the biggest vision. You can know exactly where you want to go. But if you don't understand that the vision means nothing without a partner who believes in you before the world does, if you don't recognize that sacrifice is not just about what you give up but about what your partner gives up to see you win, and if you're not intentional about understanding that money is a defense and building that defense requires years of survival budgets and stubborn faith, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply vulnerable, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with a successful entrepreneur and real estate professional for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build a business from nothing, why his wife took her entire salary and brought it to him every month for years while he was building, and the uncomfortable truth that he went almost three years before closing his first proper deal and everyone was asking him why he's wasting his time when he had a degree and international work experience. He holds nothing back. He breaks down why starting a business might be the easiest part but running it sustaining it and growing it is the more difficult one, why most entrepreneurs start with nothing and all he had was a rickety belief that one day he could wake up and start his own thing, and the one thing most people refuse to accept: you need to conquer the emotional battle first before even the partner who is with you comes to believe in you. He reveals why his wife is an amazing woman who believed in him from day one and would take her salary at the end of the month and bring it to him so they could both decide how it works, how she understood the vision and understood where they were going so when they had to do a survival budget on the essential things they needed to survive she didn't complain, and the moment that changes everything: when you finally break through and now there's nothing your wife asks you that you don't do for her because she paid the price too. He also explains why different people want different things in life and he respects the guy who finishes college gets a government job retires driving a Corolla and builds one house but that life would be boring for him, how he wants to make a lot more impact drive a better car travel the world and give his kids way more than he had in life, and the one thing every entrepreneur needs to understand: money is a defense connections is a defense knowing the right people is a defense and power is a defense. This isn't just business advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why you need to know where you're going in life before you choose a person, why he always communicated to her that the vision is big and if she doesn't stay it's actually her loss, and how when they were dating and friends joked that she's the only one who can handle him he told them the vision is big so if she loses him she's at a loss and they eventually started apologizing to her. He dives into why he wants to give his children more than he had because he started life with friends whose parents had houses in Airport Hills and Cantonments and had second passports and could just pick up and buy a ticket and go, how he always had to fill forms and feel inferior and those are real feelings, and the uncomfortable reality that money gives you choices and when the Bible says money is a defense that's what you're doing building a defense. He also tackles why there were times his wife wanted to do something and he disagreed because something else made more sense and she understood because she knew the vision, how they went through seasons where what was coming in couldn't even meet the survival budget but by God's grace they survived, and the one thing every couple building together needs to know: now he bought her a BMW and a lesser car and she drives the better one and he's happy for it because she paid the price too and she's glowing and flourishing. If you're building a business, wondering whether your partner will stand by you when there's no paycheck, or asking yourself how to navigate the emotional battles and survival budgets while keeping the vision alive, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop looking for a partner who will just tag along and start finding someone who understands the vision and is willing to bring their salary to you every month because they believe in where you're going even before the world does. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth.

You can love someone deeply, but marriage takes more than love. It takes commitment, self-control, respect for boundaries, and the willingness to wait for what truly matters. In this episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Dr. Alex Glava-Quarte, former Head of the Civil Service, for a deeply personal conversation about marriage, faith, discipline, relationships, and the values that build lasting commitment. Dr. Quarte shares the story of how Rosemary said NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE and how he almost walked away. He reveals why he initially considered ending the relationship, how her firm boundaries challenged him, and how an unexpected journey of faith eventually brought them together. He also explores: Why marriage requires more than physical intimacy. Why respecting your partner's boundaries matters. Why you must be willing to work and wait for what you desire. The lessons of discipline, parenting, and growing up in an African home. Why you should remain loyal and faithful even when others disappoint you. How faith and the desire to do what is right can shape your life. If you're dating, preparing for marriage, or trying to build a relationship that lasts, this conversation will challenge how you think about love, commitment, and the values you bring into marriage. Guest: Dr. Alex Glava-Quarte ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ JOIN THE UNBROKEN COMMUNITY Be part of the conversation and connect with like-minded people. https://chat.whatsapp.com/IQWilCuTfUqDdG1p102FJD ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, we bring together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors for conversations about love, faith, identity, money, family, and life. Subscribe and join the conversation.

You can do everything right. You can love your spouse with everything in you. But if you don't understand that marriage takes more than just love, if you don't seek professional help beyond church counseling, and if you're not intentional about learning both the act and the art of sex before challenges arise, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply vulnerable, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Angela from Angel Consult, a sex therapist and relationship coach, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build sexual intimacy in marriage, why church counseling alone is not enough to prepare couples for the realities of the bedroom, and the uncomfortable truth that we don't place much value on seeking professional services because we think love alone is enough to make marriage work. Angela holds nothing back. She breaks down why a lot of foundation of marriage wasn't properly set because church counseling has a problem with spelling out the realities of marriage to couples, why they hardly talk about sex beyond telling you your body belongs to your husband and when he wants it you give it to him, and the one thing most couples refuse to accept: underneath the surface there's something more than just your body belongs to your husband and if you don't tell them the truth they go into marriage with that little knowledge and then the realities hit them. She reveals why most couples get married and immediately get pregnant so they don't know what to do and that foundation is set and they grow on that and never get satisfaction, how seeking proper counseling from a sex therapist means you learn about what you're going to experience before you get into it, and the moment that changes everything: when you fulfill the requirements of your church but also seek knowledge from trained professionals who can do assessments to check your compatibility and identify loopholes in your relationship so you work on it before you get into marriage. She also explains why if you get a woman who is disrespectful or a man who doesn't care and you marry that person it will continue and won't change, how we don't place much value on seeking professional help because we think marriage is about love and I love you so much and that is enough but you're lying to yourself, and the one thing every couple needs to know: it doesn't take only love to maintain marriage and it will hit you at a point where you wonder did I really marry this man or this woman. This isn't just sex education. It's a masterclass in understanding why the church doesn't help by not directing people to seek professional help because most people in the church feel elderly people who've been married for 20 something years know all about marriage but age in marriage doesn't give you experience, why some of them if you sit down with their wives and ask of the man they are at home you'll tell yourself I don't want this man to counsel me, and how we are projecting two different identities where a child sees her dad preaching as a man of God but gets home and sees a different man who treats them like nothing. Angela dives into why there's the man of God but that's the man before the of God comes in so the man is still in control of the body soul spirit even though they are called men of God, how they'll stand on the pulpit and give you the word like it will hit you hard but when you sit down with their wives and children you'll be surprised because they don't play out that same role at home, and the uncomfortable reality that churches are putting people in counseling positions based on their age and how many years they've been married without doing background checks to see if this man is the man we see at home and in the church. She also tackles why if couples were told the two of you should put a hold and work on yourselves before you get married maybe just maybe things would be different, how oral sex is not sexual immorality and in cases where a man had an accident and can't function anymore and the wife stayed faithfully for five years she gets to the point where she needs satisfaction and asks can we opt for you to use a sex toy on me, and the one thing every person needs to understand: we must invest in the knowledge about marriage and making it work because it is possible to make it work but if you think love is enough you're lying to yourself.

You can do everything right. You can love your spouse with everything in you. But if you don't understand that sex is not just an act but an art that must be learned, if you don't create a mental picture of your partner's body in your mind, and if you're not intentional about throwing the clock away and stopping the pressure to perform, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply vulnerable, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Angela from Angel Consult, a sex therapist and relationship coach, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build sexual intimacy in marriage, why you need to close your eyes and see your partner in your mind's eye, and the uncomfortable truth that we don't spend time creating mental pictures of our partners because sex has become heterotic instead of pleasurable. Angela holds nothing back. She breaks down why sex is an act and an art that you have to learn to perform well, why you need to sit down together naked and close your eyes and feel each other's body to create a mental picture of your partner, and the one thing most couples refuse to accept: no matter where you are in the world you should be able to close your eyes and see your partner in your mind's eye so you know your wife's body offhand and can tell when something is off. She reveals why these preliminaries are more pleasurable than even the act itself, how before you get into the act your mind your body your nerves everything should be relaxed so the woman is ready to receive you and the man is ready to come to you, and the moment that changes everything: when you stop rushing it and start investing in each other and having time for each other instead of taking something to boost yourself. She also explains why it's usually people who are not taking their partner serious or just want to eat some and go or a partner who is cheating who rush through sex, how when you throw the clock away and don't count the minutes you remove unnecessary pressure and can enjoy the moment, and the one thing every couple needs to know: it can be one minute but it will hit you hard it can be two minutes but it will sound like you will praise God because God made sex in such a way that we have no choice but to say oh my God. This isn't just sex education. It's a masterclass in understanding why an hour or an hour and a half of penetrative sex is not pleasure but enduring it, why if you really take time and work on each other and love on each other with foreplay included it can get to one hour and both of you are satisfied before you get to penetration, and how where it is just casual sex or friends with benefits or just hit and run there's no pleasure and that's where people count the minutes. Angela dives into why the young ones unfortunately think that a man who can go longer means the man is good in bed forgetting that he's pumped his system with drugs to do that, how if you want proper intimacy you throw the clock away and nobody should be checking how long it will take, and the uncomfortable reality that so many factors affect intimacy and it should be talked about because society has placed a stigma on talking about sex so people can't openly say that they struggle with this. She also tackles why seeking help from therapists like herself is not something to be ashamed of, how she walks couples through sexual visualization in front of her for them to work on each other's mind and right then you could see the tension between them and they can't wait to get out of the office and go home, and the one thing every person needs to understand: we are doing this not because it is sin but for Christians and children of God to see that it is proper to seek knowledge and do it the right way so you benefit from it. If you're married, wondering why sex feels like a chore instead of a joy, or asking yourself how to create a mental picture of your partner's body so you can visualize them no matter where you are in the world, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop counting the minutes and start throwing the clock away so both of you can invest in each other and learn the act and the art of sex and experience the intimacy you were meant to enjoy. Guest: Angela from Angel Consult ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journ

You can do everything right. You can love your spouse with everything in you. But if you don't understand that sex is not just an act but an art that must be learned, if you don't communicate openly about what your body needs and how it responds, and if you're not intentional about breaking the silence that keeps couples from experiencing true intimacy, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply vulnerable, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Angela Akins, a relationship coach, counseling psychologist, mental health therapist, and sex therapist, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build sexual intimacy in marriage, why sex begins to dry up after just two years when familiarity sets in, and the uncomfortable truth that we give fake names to body parts when we are kids so even when a child is abused they can't express that he touched here or there. Angela holds nothing back. She breaks down why sex is an act and an art that you have to learn to perform well, why we are conscientized from childhood that sex is something you can't talk about and even the body parts you can't mention without being labeled bad or spoiled, and the one thing most couples refuse to accept: when two blind people lead each other they fall into the gutter because you can't openly go to your parents to ask questions about relationships so you end up talking to your friend who is also going through the same thing. She reveals why seeking knowledge becomes a problem because people don't want to be found out and they don't want anybody to see them as being spoiled, how within the first two years of marriage familiarity sets in and both the man and woman become very familiar with routines and with themselves, and the moment that changes everything: when a baby comes into the bedroom and couples swallow their passion because they don't want to wake the baby up. She also explains why the woman can't fully express herself when having an orgasm because she has to be careful not to make too much noise, how the man who is a talker has to swallow what he wants to say because the baby is lying there, and the one thing every couple needs to know: if you don't talk about it and find ways to manage that situation it will come back to haunt you. This isn't just sex education. It's a masterclass in understanding why some couples keep their children in the bedroom for three years four years five years six years seven years and even up to 11 years so daddy needs a visa to get into his own bed, why if it's not talked about sex becomes so boring and both partners can't attain maximum satisfaction because there's a child in between, and how couples lose themselves to the children and lose their friendship and their intimacy because everything becomes the children. Angela dives into why if a couple has challenges getting pregnant within two years it also affects intimacy because there's pressure from the man's side from the woman's side and self pressure where the woman feels like everybody's looking and society expects me to be pregnant, how sex becomes a duty where the doctor has given them a timeline so they have to just do it and one man got scared of his wife because anytime he sees her she would just pounce on him because they have to perform, and the uncomfortable reality that it kills the fun because you're not having sex for pleasure or because you really want to or because you're aroused by your partner but because you need something from them. She also tackles why so many factors affect intimacy within the first two years and it should even be talked about before marriage, how in the African setting we don't like talking about sex and people were shocked that a woman of God would mention penis and vagina but God created them, and the one thing every person needs to understand: sex is an act and an art and you have to learn it to perform it well. If you're married, wondering why sex feels like a chore instead of a joy, or asking yourself how to communicate what your body needs without the shame and silence that was taught to you as a child, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop swallowing your passion and start seeking the knowledge you need to learn the act and the art so both of you can experience the intimacy you were meant to enjoy. Guest: Angela Akins ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people.

You can do everything right. You can love your spouse with everything in you. But if you don't understand that sex is not just an act but an art that must be learned, if you don't communicate openly about what your body needs and how it responds, and if you're not intentional about breaking the silence that keeps couples from experiencing true intimacy, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply vulnerable, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Angela, a relationship and intimacy expert, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build sexual intimacy in marriage, why 85% of Ghanaian married women have never experienced orgasm, and the uncomfortable truth that we give fake names to body parts when we are kids so even when a child is abused they can't express that he touched here or there. Angela holds nothing back. She breaks down why sex is an act and an art that you have to learn to perform well, why we are conscientised from childhood that sex is something you can't talk about and even the body parts you can't see without being labeled bad or spoiled, and the one thing most couples refuse to accept: when two blind people lead each other they fall into the gutter because you can't openly go to your parents to ask questions about relationships so you end up talking to your friend who is also going through the same thing. She reveals why seeking knowledge becomes a problem because people don't want to be found out and they don't want anybody to see them as being spoiled, how she spent four whole sessions with a married woman who felt giving her husband a b*****b was dirty and wrong, and the moment that woman finally understood that it's not dirty because she's not doing it to any other man than her husband and it is not sin. She also explains why that woman walked up to her husband one day pulled his pants down and started it and the excitement on his face blew him off, how she didn't feel any sense of guilt or shame because she came to the point of understanding that it's her husband and his body is for her and her body is for him, and the one thing every woman needs to know: if you didn't seek out to be taught the act and the art you wouldn't perform it. This isn't just sex education. It's a masterclass in understanding why sex is actually for women not for men because the man does more of the job and has so many places to touch and so many sensations from the head to under the feet but for the man he doesn't even mind he just enters and he's okay so far as he comes, why if you have a partner who takes time to work on your body you will take joy to the fullest because he's treating your body as a treasure and worshiping you by how he touches you, and how you can see a man and know this man I am nothing to him by how he touches you or treats your body. Angela dives into why the orientation and foundation is flawed because when they are having sex the woman doesn't say to the man you're doing it right you're doing it wrong so the man goes in does what he needs to do and then he's done and she never enjoys it, how 85% of Ghanaian married women have never experienced orgasm which is a shame on men but also on women because we are also responsible for that, and the uncomfortable reality that if you want satisfaction and your partner touches you a certain way you didn't like you should be able to talk to them and say I would prefer you touch it this way but a lot of women are quiet about it. She also tackles why some women truly don't know and some don't want to hurt his ego because some men feel hurt by that so they'll rather keep quiet and be served and he gets off and she'll finish it off, how for those who don't finish it off cheating can come in because they can't contain it for so long and they go somewhere that the man treats them and gives them the attention they want, and the one thing every couple needs to understand: some don't have the intention to cheat but it happens and they regret badly because they didn't mean to cheat they don't know what happened they got into that space and felt wanted. If you're married, wondering why sex feels like a chore instead of a joy, or asking yourself how to communicate what your body needs without hurting your partner's ego, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop hiding behind the closet and start seeking the knowledge you need to learn the act and the art so both of you can experience the intimacy you were meant to enjoy. Guest: Angela ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST

You can do everything right. You can work hard. You can provide for your family. But if you don't understand that marriage is not a sprint but a marathon where everyone runs at their own pace, if you don't develop passive understanding with your partner where gestures speak louder than words, and if you're not intentional about respecting your partner's individual identity even within the marriage, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply insightful, beautifully grounded episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Kailash, a business leader with 26 years of marriage experience, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to sustain a marriage, why maintaining 80% control in your decisions means you can adapt without seeking approval, and the uncomfortable truth that the homemaker role is worth a quarter of a million pounds because money doesn't supersede the work of building children's character. Kailash holds nothing back. He breaks down why marriage is like a marathon where not everyone runs at the same speed and everyone has their own strategy but they're all running the same race, why there's no certain formula to make marriage successful because there are so many factors and everybody has their own way of leading life, and the one thing most couples refuse to accept: compatibility in basic thoughts is what makes the foundation gradually strong because when you're good with each other in day to day thoughts everything goes smoothly. He reveals why developing rapport means sometimes you don't need to speak because your gesture can speak for you, how you can look at your wife and she knows what to do without you saying a word, and the moment you realize that passive mind works more than active mind in long term relations because you've developed understanding over time through various mistakes. He also explains why when your in laws call and you don't pick up but you pick up for everyone else your partner notices, how there are two ways of communicating it either aggressively or with respect, and the one thing every couple needs to understand: till the time we maintain self respect and don't cross that personality we don't have an option of ruining that relationship. This isn't just marriage advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why you can drive from office to home without recollecting anything because your passive mind has developed the mechanism over time, why active mind reacts immediately but passive mind treasures lessons from mistakes so next time similar situations arise you know how to handle it, and how you review what doesn't work by talking about it after so that next time both of you are accommodating one another. Kailash dives into why we all have our own individual identity and we get different names as we get attached to different relations, how whatever personality you have whether you're my wife my son my mother we should not cross that self respect, and the uncomfortable reality that the moment you feel what I have said is not wrong but you've hurt someone because the person also has self respect their own character their own thinking you lose the space for understanding. He also tackles why the growth of children depends largely on contributions of the mother because she builds up their character teaches them social culture how to respect elders and how to behave, how most of the time we don't acknowledge it because we feel money supersedes everything, and the one shift happening now: some couples work before bringing children to make their financial side stronger while some women work because they're well qualified and want to use their knowledge and generate revenue for the family. If you're married, wondering whether there's a formula to make marriage work, or asking yourself how to develop the kind of understanding where you don't need words to communicate, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop treating marriage like a sprint and start building a marathon where both of you run at your own pace, respect each other's individual identity, and treasure the lessons from mistakes so your passive mind guides you through the journey. Guest: Kailash ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE.

You can do everything right. You can love your spouse with everything in you. But if you don't understand that marriage takes more than just love, if you don't accept what you see before you say I do, and if you're not intentional about giving space when your partner needs to recalibrate, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply vulnerable, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Elizabeth Irene and Rami Beatty, a couple with 31 years of marriage experience, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to sustain a marriage, why acceptance is more powerful than resignation, and the uncomfortable truth that the wisdom that changed everything came from one simple instruction: look at this man you're marrying, look at what you like about him and look at what you don't like about him, and know that very little is going to change so decide now that you like what you see. Elizabeth Irene and Rami hold nothing back. They break down why she knew instantly at Achimota School Founders Day that this was the man she was going to marry even though it took him several meetings to even recognize her, why he would sulk for three days after a disagreement and she learned to give him space to process his emotions, and the one thing most couples refuse to accept: there's peace in acceptance and there's joy in acceptance but acceptance is not resignation. They reveal why time wars became a major issue because he was brought up in a family where everybody was a stickler for time and his mom would be shouting at six o'clock for a movie at 6:30, how she was only seven minutes late for their wedding and he's learned over the years to wait and watch when she's getting ready instead of getting ready too early and fuming, and the moment that changes everything: when they fought about naming their son two days before she left to give birth and in anger he said let's call him Rami but now they don't even remember the names they were fighting for. They also explain why venting to yourself works better than venting to someone because it can always end up in damage, how she processes things in her head and journals before coming to a conversation while he vents out loud when he's alone at home, and the one thing every couple needs to know: the fruit of the Spirit are expressed in situations that will make you learn to exhibit self-control or peace or love when you feel something less than love and it is within your own home that God is going to give you these opportunities. This isn't just marriage advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why romance is in your mind and you can organize your life systematically no matter how much money you make, why they still go on movie dates and she spoons towards him at bedtime even in her sleep, and how submission is not about one person controlling the other but about submitting to one another and compromising where sometimes one person gets 80% and another time the other person gets 80%. Elizabeth Irene and Rami dive into why a gentleman once congratulated him for allowing his wife to go do her master's and he thought to himself what do you mean I allowed her she has her brain she's the one who got first class, how their marriage has been very much a partnership and they've never explored the concept of submission in the traditional sense, and the uncomfortable reality that they don't plan for the empty nest because their children are welcome until they die and when the days come you just shift to accommodate the times. They also tackle why the love sustains the marriage through the difficult times and as long as the love is there the romance will follow, how they have their own individual pursuits and overlaps where he's her alpha reader and she benefits from his wonderful literature collection, and the one thing every person needs to understand: if you focus on yourself and your spouse well enough when the children leave nothing changes because it's just a continuation of where you were when you first started. If you're married, wondering whether love is enough to hold you together, or asking yourself how to accept what you see without resigning yourself to suffering, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop expecting your spouse to change and start accepting who they are so you can choose to be happy and build a marriage where both of you submit to one another and the love becomes the glue that holds everything together. Guests: Elizabeth Irene Beatty and Rami Beatty ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is wher

You can do everything right. You can love someone with everything in you. But if you don't understand that the adhesive holding your relationship together is not your love for each other but your individual pursuit of God, if you don't realize that a soulmate is not one person but an ideal that many can embody, and if you're not intentional about understanding that the unit of any relationship is the individual, you'll miss the foundation that makes everything else work. In this deeply personal, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Kojo Nganue, curator at One Man Thousand, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build a relationship that lasts, why she's not your soulmate but rather embodies an ideal, and the uncomfortable truth that the problem with most relationships is not the institution of marriage but the individuals who come together in that institution. Kojo holds nothing back. He breaks down why the soulmate framework is flawed because a soulmate is not a person but an ideal, why when you're looking for a soulmate you're looking for somebody who embodies this ideal and that's how come a soulmate will not look a certain way, and the one thing most people refuse to accept: different people can embody that same ideal. He reveals why the anima animus complex is a feminine part of every man that draws him to do things like his intuition and how he can conquer somewhere and cultivate it, how what draws you to another woman is that you see that part of you inside of her, and the moment you realize that wisdom was with God when he was creating the world and wisdom is personified as lady wisdom so instead of a person it's rather an ideal. He also explains why the word ezer which we describe as a helper is actually somebody who's indispensable and capable of things that you are not, how the only other time that word is used in scripture is describing God, and the one thing every man needs to understand: a help meet is God giving you himself. This isn't just relationship advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why the unit of any relationship is the individual, why even your relationship with God depends on you, and how once the individual is aware and can control themselves everything else will fall in line. Kojo dives into why if one egg is good and the other one is bad it will stink but if both eggs are good you have a good omelet, how the thing that secures this is that person A and person B are pursuing God, and the uncomfortable reality that it's not necessarily in terms of morality or a good or bad person but because both people are pursuing God you are assured that whatever comes out of that relationship will be great. He also tackles why it's like a triangle where both of you are the sides of the triangle and God is on top, how the closer you get to God the closer you get to each other, and the one thing every couple needs to accept: without this pursuit and you find each other there's no adhesive that holds you together. If you're in a relationship, wondering whether love is enough to hold you together, or asking yourself why your past relationships didn't work even though the person seemed perfect, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop chasing one person as your soulmate and start pursuing God first so that when you find each other in that pursuit you have the adhesive that keeps you together. Guest: Kojo Nganue ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS to hear this

You can do everything right. You can love someone with everything in you. But if you don't understand that the adhesive holding your relationship together is not your love for each other but your individual obedience to God, if you don't cultivate your partner the way you tend to a flower, and if you're not intentional about leaning into softness while doing the hard parts, you'll miss the foundation that makes everything else work. In this deeply personal, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Kojo Nganue, curator at One Man Thousand, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build a marriage that lasts, why love alone is never enough, and the uncomfortable truth that cultivation means taking care of your partner like a plant so they can lean into their softness while you do the hard parts. Kojo holds nothing back. He breaks down why the problem with his past relationships was not that the women didn't embody his ideal but that individually they were not in pursuit of the adhesive, why he relied on his own willpower which depletes instead of trusting somebody who is omniscient and omnipresent, and the one thing that finally clicked: his obedience to God. He reveals why it took two years before he could pop the question because he had to meet her father who is a big man he admired even before he knew his daughter, how he spoke to his brother his dad and her aunt before approaching him and when they finally met they talked for an hour and a half, and the moment he realized that his love for his woman cannot be compared to the love God has for him or for her but as long as their love is a subset of God's love for them they are sustained. He also explains why cultivation means taking care of you like a plant like a flower, how being stronger than you means he can nurture you protect you and do things you could have done on your own so you can lean into your softness, and the one thing every man needs to understand: the thing that keeps him in check is not his love for his woman but his love for God and his faithfulness to him. This isn't just relationship advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why arranged marriages work because there's an ideal higher than the love they have for each other and they work towards that and more often than not they now start to love each other, why love for love's sake is great but the unfortunate thing is how do you define that love is it based on your feelings or what he's doing or how he spoke to you today, and how when these things are taken away will the love abide. Kojo dives into why the focus has to be one whether there's a God factor or no God factor there has to be something that they're both going for, how so far as they agree it will work because if two people can agree they'll be together, and the uncomfortable reality that the actual nurturing place is right here and if you can move this to any part of the world you can reproduce what you've reproduced. He also tackles why being single is a gift and marriage is a gift and either of them are states so this one is not an aspiration to this neither is this one an aspiration to this, how the five daughters of Zelophehad stood up for themselves as single individual women and changed the law of Israel on their own as single people, and the one thing every person needs to know: by yourself you can build your own things by yourself you're sustainable you can actually be independent as long as your dependence is from God. If you're in a relationship, wondering whether love is enough to hold you together, or asking yourself how to cultivate your partner the way God cultivates you, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop relying on your own willpower and start building a relationship where both of you pursue God first and let your love be a subset of God's love for you. Guest: Kojo Nganue ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS to hear this

You can do everything right. You can work hard, provide for your family, and show up every single day. But if you don't understand that relationships are not a sprint but a marathon, if you don't communicate clearly about who does what, and if you're not intentional about keeping romance alive within your limitations, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply personal, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Kailash, a business leader with 26 years of marriage experience, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to sustain a marriage, why one parent staying home to shape the children's character is critical, and the uncomfortable truth that romance is in your mind and you can organize your life systematically no matter how much money you make. Kailash holds nothing back. He breaks down why after marriage both he and his wife were working because she felt what would she do sitting at home with house help and everything, why when the children started going to school they strongly believed one parent should be there to shape their character, and the one thing most people refuse to accept: children learn whatever they see and when the mother is there she rectifies mistakes like when the child misbehaves with the house girl and says no she's your auntie you cannot talk like that. He reveals why every class of people deserves respect irrespective of which class you belong to, how he always feels that whoever earns his own living deserves respect because he doesn't become a burden on somebody, and the moment you realize that you cannot respect someone depending on money because every individual has a respect. He also explains why romance is in your mind, how some people think after three or four years romance dies and they get involved with their children and fulfilling family requirements, and the one thing every couple needs to understand: you can organize your life in a more systematic way because even billionaires have their own problems. This isn't just marriage advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why you don't need to fly to USA or UK or Bahamas when you can travel to Akosombo with your family, why thinking that holidays or movies or restaurants are not for you because it's for a certain class of people doesn't work with children, and how you can move forward keeping pace with the world within your limitations without shutting all the doors and saying I cannot do this because I'm low salary. Kailash dives into why most relationships get bad because there's always a lack of communication, how however bad the situation is you must communicate because if your children are going and you feel the money you're earning is not enough you sit down and talk to them and they understand, and the uncomfortable reality that the more you take your children into confidence the more they respect you because they know you always speak to them frankly and surrender yourself with your strengths and weaknesses. He also tackles why you don't bluff your children by saying I'll take you to KFC next week and then call from outside saying sorry I got stuck in traffic, how if you grow your children with confidence sharing your tough times and taking them to your office they get so attached that even when they leave because of work they'll make one or two calls every day to find out how you're doing, and the one thing every parent needs to do: keep things transparent and tell your children I cannot send you to this expensive school but I can send you to this school and hard work is in your hand. If you're married, wondering whether romance dies after a few years, or asking yourself how to keep your relationship strong while raising children and working within your limitations, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop thinking relationships are a sprint and start building a marathon where you communicate clearly, organize your life systematically, and take your children into confidence so they respect you and stay connected even when they leave. Guest: Kailash ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS

You can do everything right. You can pursue God with everything in you. But if you don't understand that the adhesive holding your relationship together is not your love for each other but your individual obedience to God, you'll miss the foundation that makes everything else work. In this deeply personal, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with a young man who has finally cracked the code to relationships, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build a marriage that lasts, why love alone is never enough, and the uncomfortable truth that God interrupted Adam with Eve the same way he interrupts every man who is consumed with pursuing him first. This guest holds nothing back. He breaks down why the problem with his past relationships was not that the women didn't embody his ideal but that individually they were not in pursuit of the adhesive, why he relied on his own willpower which depletes instead of trusting somebody who is omniscient and omnipresent, and the one thing that finally clicked: his obedience to God. He reveals why he's been dating since GSS and struggled with youthful exuberance and adolescence and seeking satisfaction, how the difference now is that he trusts God who has the best eye view of what this looks like and follows as he leads, and the moment he realized that his love for his woman cannot be compared to the love God has for him or for her but as long as their love is a subset of God's love for them they are sustained. He also explains why it took two years before he could pop the question because he had to meet her father who is a big man he admired even before he knew his daughter, how he spoke to his brother his dad and her aunt before approaching him and when they finally met they talked for an hour and a half, and the one thing every man needs to understand: the thing that keeps him in check is not his love for his woman but his love for God and his faithfulness to him. This isn't just relationship advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why bad egg bad egg makes a bad omelet but good egg good egg makes a good omelet, why it's not the institution of marriage that's the problem but the individuals who come together in that institution, and how the first Adam and Eve made in the image of God were in pursuit of God until they lost that pursuit and started pursuing each other instead. He dives into why Jesus protects his bride with vengeance and says if anybody comes against his church it is better to tie his neck to a stone and drown in the sea, how the word Ezer means God is not just giving you an ally but giving you himself, and the uncomfortable reality that submission is not tyranny or dictatorship but mirroring how God deals with us because the Holy Spirit is gentle and coaxes us and shows us the way without being forceful. He also tackles why the hierarchy of the home says the man is submitted to Christ and the woman is submitted to the man, how Christ deals with the man the way the man is supposed to deal with the wife, and the one thing every couple needs to accept: love is not enough because the standard is not your love for each other but your obedience to God who keeps you in check. If you're in a relationship, wondering whether love is enough to hold you together, or asking yourself how to maintain your love for your wife in obedience to God, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop relying on your own willpower and start building a relationship where both of you pursue God first and let him interrupt you with each other. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS to hear this

You can do everything right. You can quote scripture. You can understand what it means to be the head of your home. But if you don't understand that leadership is not about controlling everything, if you don't submit to your partner's strengths, and if you're not intentional about cultivating your woman the way God cultivates you, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply personal, beautifully vulnerable episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with a young man who is redefining what it means to be a godly leader in a relationship, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build a marriage that lasts, why submission goes both ways, and the uncomfortable truth that two heads cannot lead a home but a clear leader means leaning on each other's strengths and letting your partner lead where you are weak. This guest holds nothing back. He breaks down why submission is not about being beneath someone but about recognizing somebody who can do things that you cannot, why he submits to his woman's financial wisdom because she is a whiz and he is an artist who needed to learn, and the one thing most men refuse to accept: when you recognize your weakness and allow your partner to lead in that area you gain strength because you submitted to wisdom. He reveals why the way God deals with him is the way he deals with her, how God cultivates him and teaches him and pushes him to write and tells him to work out and eat right, and the moment you realize that loving your wife as Christ loved the church means cultivating her and reminding her that God has not given her the spirit of fear but of power and boldness and love. He also explains why when she starts a new role and wonders how to go about it he reminds her that they did this exact thing six months ago and God showed her he was faithful, how worst case scenario he is also there to remind her how they went about it on day one, and the one thing every man needs to understand: she submits to him when it comes to everything else but he submits to her when it comes to finances because that is her strength. This isn't just relationship advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why individual relationships with God must come before the relationship with each other, why he struggled with pornography and lust for years until God helped him deal with it through celibacy and keeping his temple away from sexual immorality, and how making that clear from the jump means past relationships did not work because the other person did not have the same values but today they don't have that problem because this person has the same values as he does. He dives into why he has two rules in his relationship: tell the truth and at least don't lie, how these rules make them communicate clearly because when there's a problem she cannot say it's fine because that's a lie, and the uncomfortable reality that the least don't lie part means there are some things privy to you that your partner cannot know like when you're a counselor and have conversations with people but the tell the truth part removes everything else from the relationship. He also tackles why the Holy Spirit whispers to him to do romantic things and he does them and she asks how did you know and he says the Holy Spirit told me, how he documents with precision every single thing she tells him that she wants or loves or is interested in because his memory is bad and he remembers the last thing he remembers not the thing itself, and the one thing every man needs to do: have particular days where you have dates even in a long distance relationship because she's just a girl who is a financial whiz and she has to be loved. If you're in a relationship, wondering whether submission means being beneath someone, or asking yourself how to love your woman as Christ loved the church, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop trying to control everything and start building a relationship where both of you lean on each other's strengths and cultivate each other the way God cultivates you. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS to

You can do everything right. You can love your spouse with everything in you. But if you don't understand that marriage is more than just love, if you don't protect the first year from external interference, and if you're not intentional about teaching your daughters how they deserve to be loved, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply insightful, beautifully vulnerable episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with John Michael, social worker and development consultant, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to build a marriage that lasts, why the first year of marriage should be just the two of you with no family interference, and the uncomfortable truth that if you're a father who is absent in your daughters' lives they will accept any kind of love from any man because you never taught them what real love looks like. John Michael holds nothing back. He breaks down why the first year of marriage should be just the two of you because you need to get to know each other without external parties bringing their opinions and turning your private issues into family discussions, why eight out of ten couples who survive the first year survive the rest of the years, and the one thing most couples refuse to accept: when children come they disrupt everything and turn your world either the right side up or the right side down. He reveals why his father who is a Reverend Minister said he doesn't understand why young couples go on honeymoon because by the time they marry they've already eaten all the honey, how some people got married because they got pregnant and trying to put a timeline on when to have children is weird, and the moment you realize that ideally the best time to have children is in your 20s when a woman's body is young and she heals quickly. He also explains why if you have children in your 20s by the time you're 40 you look like you've never had kids and men are asking is that your girlfriend and you say that's my wife, how waiting until your mid 30s means you should start working towards having children immediately because what are you waiting for, and the one thing every couple needs to prepare for: the first year becomes complicated when you're dealing with a woman waking up in the middle of the night telling you she wants to eat okra and you don't have okra at home or she wants KFC at 2 a.m. and you have to find it. This isn't just marriage advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why emotional intelligence is about developing a habit of reflection so you can think about what happened and what you did that added to it and what you could have done differently, why the trick is to have these conversations constantly with yourself because this is how you grow and evolve, and how being an involved father means showing up for school recitals and open days and serving as PTA chairman twice because parenting doesn't stop at paying school fees. John Michael dives into why he made his wife cry the only time he remembers when she couldn't reverse the manual car and he kept repeating himself and got flustered because repeating himself is one of his triggers, how he had to sit down and reflect and make a conscious effort to communicate without escalating the situation, and the uncomfortable reality that when he started having kids he realized he was a lot more patient than he thought and learned to teach children to self soothe by letting them cry for 30 minutes until they realized crying won't make him pick them up. He also tackles why he refused to read any books on raising children because white people writing about their white child doesn't mean his black child will do the same thing, how he wanted to write his own child's book and learn how to raise his child uniquely, and the one thing every father needs to understand: your role is not just to mentor your sons but to teach your daughters how they should feel love because when they meet men they're going to judge how they treat them by how you treat them. If you're married, wondering whether love alone is enough, or asking yourself how to be an involved father who teaches his daughters what real love looks like, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop chasing money at the expense of your family and start showing up in ways that matter so your children learn through observation what a healthy marriage and healthy love actually look like. Guest: John Michael ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders,..

You can do everything right. You can love your spouse with everything in you. But if you don't understand that submission is not synonymous with suffering in silence, if you don't recognize that faithfulness doesn't mean losing your voice, and if you're not intentional about understanding that scripture requires both partners to fulfill their roles equally, you'll miss the foundation that holds everything together. In this deeply vulnerable, profoundly insightful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Yoko Kobi Gold, author of Faithful, Not Voiceless, for an unfiltered conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about what it takes to sustain a marriage, why being a good Christian wife became synonymous with suffering in silence, and the uncomfortable truth that we hide behind culture and scripture to box women into enduring instead of enjoying marriage. Yoko holds nothing back. She breaks down why society expects that as a Christian woman you have to literally lie down for a husband to walk over, why church leaders told her to clean up her cheating husband if she found him on the matrimonial bed with another woman, and the one thing most women refuse to accept: if you read the book of Ephesians chapter 5 it says a woman must submit to the man but it also says a man has to love a woman as Christ loves the church so if I am going to play my part by submitting and then he doesn't play his part by loving me how does that really benefit the marriage. She reveals why her ex husband would literally use the word of God to corner her and say I'm talking you don't have to talk, how church counselors asked what did you do when he cheated instead of asking why is he doing that, and the moment that changes everything: when you realize that your role as a wife is to pray for your husband regardless of whether he's cheating abusive or does nothing but the Bible does not ask a woman to love the husband as Christ loved the church. She also explains why submission is also a form of love and God knew that women would naturally find it difficult to submit so he instructed us to submit, how God knew that men are not emotional beings so he instructed men to love because he wanted a balance, and the one thing every woman needs to know: every woman that is loved right will naturally submit to that man unless that woman is a witch. This isn't just marriage advice. It's a masterclass in understanding why culture is one of the things that has positioned women to endure instead of enjoy marriage, why most of the time our brain is tuned to an overview of what our predecessors did so psychologically it leads you to choose certain spouses that probably you're not supposed to choose, and how if she had known herself the way she got to know herself while she was in the marriage and after the marriage she wouldn't have ended up with her husband. Yoko dives into why she went to rescue him because he was an orphan and didn't have that close knit family so she wanted to be that family for him, how she kept telling herself that God brought her into his life so that he would experience what genuine love is, and the uncomfortable reality that unfaithfulness was one of the major issues in the marriage but church leaders told her she was always the difficult one stubborn disrespectful and that's why he's doing what he's doing. She also tackles why she realized at the point where her personal growth was not being invested in that she can either stay in the marriage for her daughter and not fulfill her dreams or she can stay out and pursue her dreams and give her daughter a better life and a better example for what a woman ought to be, how before the separation came they were practically tenants in the same house in different rooms minding their business and only having conversations when it has to do with the child, and the one thing every person needs to understand: when you are consistently doing the things that you're supposed to do and you're still not seeing changes in the person there's always a trigger because it's draining and some people would not recognize the consistency but rather attack the triggers. If you're married, wondering whether submission means suffering in silence, or asking yourself how to be faithful without losing your voice, this conversation will give you the clarity, the language, and the courage to stop enduring and start understanding that you can be faithful and have a voice because scripture requires both partners to fulfill their roles equally and when a woman is loved as Christ loves his church submission naturally comes. Guest: Yoko Kobi Gold ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT