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Swingers

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Rating
★★★★★
4.7
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53 reviews
This podcast has
7 episodes
Language
English
Explicit
Yes
Date created
2026/06/12
Latest episode
2026/06/16
Average duration
25 min.
Release period
2 days

Description

Swingers tells the story of Ruth - a woman who joined a Swinging website and ended up having degrading sex with strangers more than 100 times.   Ruth thinks she is not alone, that there are women all over the UK like her and so she decided to tell her story, using her full identity, to investigative journalist Catrin Nye.  Ruth says that she never wanted to join the swingers website - but did it to please her husband who had been slowly persuading her for more than a decade to try swinging. She ended up having sex with strangers in lay-bys and filming it for her husband. She ended up pregnant by a stranger and giving oral sex to another man while bleeding from an abortion.    In this podcast Catrin pieces together Ruth’s story and asks what it tells us about sexual consent, pressure in relationships, and the swinger community. She digs deep into the online world of Fab Swingers - the website Ruth and her husband used. Catrin discovers countless crimes across the UK linked to the swinging website and speaks to a man who admits to having sex with women who he thinks were pushed into it.   She considers the police response to Ruth, the law and whether swinging can be a cover for abuse.    This is a story told in full honesty. It’s the trickiest investigation of Catrin’s career, but one she also feels must be told.

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6. Black Mirror
2026/06/16
After 18 months of swinging, Ruth has a moment of recognition while watching Black Mirror. With support from friends and domestic abuse services, she secretly prepares to leave her marriage. Now, in her garden, Ruth reflects on freedom, fear and why she chose to tell her story. If you are suffering distress or despair, details of help and support in the UK are available at bbc.co.uk/actionline. Presenter: Catrin Nye Writers: Catrin Nye and Jamie Bartlett Exec Producer: Kavita Puri Series Producer: Ruth Mayer Commissioner: Bridget Curnow Sound Design: Ivor Manley Title Track: David Wrench Researchers: Emily Parsons and Liv Facey Production Management Assistant: Daisy Carol Production Manager: Mandy Osborne All the WhatsApp Messages you hear are voiced by actors.
5. The Messages
2026/06/16
Ruth’s messages sometimes appear enthusiastic - but at other times she says she is scared, traumatised and wants to stop. Solicitor Rachel Horman-Brown explains why messages in controlling relationships cannot be read in isolation. Former chief prosecutor Nazir Afzal reflects on the challenges around issues of consent in the justice system. If you are suffering distress or despair, details of help and support in the UK are available at bbc.co.uk/actionline. Presenter: Catrin Nye Writers: Catrin Nye and Jamie Bartlett Exec Producer: Kavita Puri Series Producer: Ruth Mayer Commissioner: Bridget Curnow Sound Design: Ivor Manley Title Track: David Wrench Researchers: Emily Parsons and Liv Facey Production Management Assistant: Daisy Carol Production Manager: Mandy Osborne All the WhatsApp Messages you hear are voiced by actors.
4. The Club
2026/06/16
At a swingers club near Liverpool, Catrin sees a world that’s meant to be built around rules. Experienced swingers explain how the lifestyle can strengthen relationships - but also how pressure can creep in. In another development FOI data reveals hundreds of police reports mentioning the website Ruth and her husband used - FabSwingers. If you are suffering distress or despair, details of help and support in the UK are available at bbc.co.uk/actionline. Presenter: Catrin Nye Writers: Catrin Nye and Jamie Bartlett Exec Producer: Kavita Puri Series Producer: Ruth Mayer Commissioner: Bridget Curnow Sound Design: Ivor Manley Title Track: David Wrench Researchers: Emily Parsons and Liv Facey Production Management Assistant: Daisy Carol Production Manager: Mandy Osborne All the WhatsApp Messages you hear are voiced by actors.
3. The Boiling Frog
2026/06/16
Warning: this episode contains mentions of suicide. If you are suffering distress or despair, details of help and support are available at bbc.co.uk/actionline. Ruth describes how sex with strangers became a routine of laybys, car parks and fear. Friends describe the years leading up to Ruth joining FabSwingers. Catrin asks how a strong, outspoken woman came to do something she now says she never wanted. Presenter: Catrin Nye Writers: Catrin Nye and Jamie Bartlett Exec Producer: Kavita Puri Series Producer: Ruth Mayer Commissioner: Bridget Curnow Sound Design: Ivor Manley Title Track: David Wrench Researchers: Emily Parsons and Liv Facey Production Management Assistant: Daisy Carol Production Manager: Mandy Osborne All the WhatsApp Messages you hear are voiced by actors.
2. The Men That Swing
2026/06/16
Catrin creates a FabSwingers account and is quickly inundated with messages from men. Professor Nicola Gavey explains why full consent is not always as simple as saying yes. And one male user describes encounters that left him questioning whether women on the site really wanted to be there. If you are suffering distress or despair, details of help and support in the UK are available at bbc.co.uk/actionline. Presenter: Catrin Nye Writers: Catrin Nye and Jamie Bartlett Exec Producer: Kavita Puri Series Producer: Ruth Mayer Commissioner: Bridget Curnow Sound Design: Ivor Manley Title Track: David Wrench Researchers: Emily Parsons and Liv Facey Production Management Assistant: Daisy Carol Production Manager: Mandy Osborne All the WhatsApp Messages you hear are voiced by actors.
1. Fab
2026/06/16
Catrin Nye meets Ruth, who says she was pressured into having sex with strangers through a swingers website more than 100 times. Ruth explains why she is using her full identity. Her story raises difficult questions about consent, shame and control inside a marriage. If you are suffering distress or despair, details of help and support in the UK are available at bbc.co.uk/actionline. Presenter: Catrin Nye Writers: Catrin Nye and Jamie Bartlett Exec Producer: Kavita Puri Series Producer: Ruth Mayer Commissioner: Bridget Curnow Sound Design: Ivor Manley Title Track: David Wrench Researchers: Emily Parsons and Liv Facey Production Management Assistant: Daisy Carol Production Manager: Mandy Osborne All the WhatsApp Messages you hear are voiced by actors.
Introducing... Swingers
2026/06/09
Swingers tells the story of Ruth - a woman who joined a Swinging website and ended up having degrading sex with strangers more than 100 times.   Ruth thinks she is not alone, that there are women all over the UK like her and so she decided to tell her story, using her full identity, to investigative journalist Catrin Nye.  Ruth says that she never wanted to join the website - but did it to please her husband who had been slowly persuading her for more than a decade. She ended up having sex with strangers in lay-bys and filming it for her husband. She ended up pregnant by a stranger and giving oral sex to another man while bleeding from an abortion.    In this podcast Catrin pieces together Ruth’s story and asks what it tells us about sexual consent, pressure in relationships, and the swinging community. She digs deep into the online world of Fab Swingers - the website Ruth and her husband used. Catrin discovers countless crimes across the UK linked to the website and speaks to a man who admits to having sex with women who he thinks were pushed into it.   She considers the police response to Ruth, the law and whether Swinging can be a cover for abuse.    This is a story told in full honesty. It’s the trickiest investigation of Catrin’s career, but one she also feels must be told.

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4.7 out of 5
53 reviews
★★★★★
SchroederComm 2026/08/07
Riveting—Should be Required Listening for All, Especially Young Adults
It’s an incredible look at consent (it’s complicated) and societal norms that feed the degradation of women. But in interviews with psychologists, la...
★☆☆☆☆
Bellamammal 2026/08/05
Infantilizing
How could anyone consider Ruth’s personal, adult choices coercion? Unless she is compromised mentally, and no matter the reason(s), she made consciou...
★★★★★
merp alert 2026/07/24
Required Listening
Honestly it’s difficult to listen to at times, but the story is reported with the utmost respect and integrity. This isn’t something that is necessari...
★★★☆☆
HollandH1975 2026/07/20
Important topic, boring delivery
Everyone should listen to this. It’s such a hidden and terrible topic. that said, it could be one 2 hour pod or a three part series. It’s super repeti...
★★★★☆
ThePassenger444 2026/07/14
Great listen
I did find this pod a bit disjointed and somewhat repetitive. And, had a difficult time fully relating to Ruth’s story. But I think it’s literally imp...
★★★★★
OofiOofster 2026/07/10
Eye opening & disturbing
When a podcast leaves you as shocked & thoughtful as this one you know it must be providing the service the creater / host & subject intended. I hope ...
★★★★★
Sunny-Sees 2026/07/09
I could have lived this
What's being reported here is real. I wish that coercive control were considered a crime here in the US as it is in the UK. Immediately after marrying...
★★★★★
kellybelly1115 2026/07/07
Shocking and important
Such an upsetting & important story. Very well told though the material is difficult.
★★★★★
Marley Jones S. 2026/06/29
Must listen
It’s been 24 hours since I finished listening, and I’m still thinking about this series. It is a shocking story that brings up questions of choice and...
★★★★★
renacg 2026/06/28
Couldn’t stop listening
This is an incredibly powerful series. Gripping, horrifying, and extremely well told. It’s a story of bravery and depravity; the unimaginable and yet ...
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