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This is just a short Signal I sent to one of my friends last night while i was winding down getting ready for bed. I’d had half a gummy to sleep. I’m just posting it here to test if I could ever manage a minute long pod format, prob won't work for me, but I'm trying to test it out because I miss podcasting. Anyway. Love you, miss you. -Sandi And to the person who emailed [email protected] saying he wants a lesbian to castrate him? 'Cash me ousside, how ’bout dat??'  Source: Trump says presidents should not have learning disabilities, criticizes Newsom  https://www.reuters.com/world/us/trump-says-presidents-should-not-have-learning-disabilities-criticizes-newsom-2026-03-16/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Oh hi, back again with a lil more, this time with some touchstone friends. We tried to talk about lesbian sluttiness, but then her daughters walk in, so we shifted the vibe quick, but I left the recorder running, Figured why not post it. The rest is just us talking, reminiscing a little which we do all the time, and maybe not all of it will relate, but may be worth a listen. P.S. The sound quality is trash because I STILL don’t know how to edit or publish a podcast properly.  Email: [email protected]: https://x.com/TheLesbianMafiaFollow on Bluesky: @thelesbianmafia.bsky.socialIG: https://www.instagram.com/thelesbianmafia/Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Until next time, Sandi 3

This episode was recorded in pieces--beginning, middle & end--spread out over the last five months. It’s been sitting on my laptop with a few other podcast files waiting to be published, but finally, here we are. The episode starts off a bit odd because I had to cut the intro where I say hi because it was choppy. Yeah and I cut out some crap I didn’t mean to, so the ending’s a little janky, but hey, DIY vibes, ya know Anyway, you understand these things.  First is a quick update, where I’ve been. Then, Aaron Kimberly returns for another conversation. She’s a detransitioned woman who shares her perspective on trans identity, gender, and personal evolution. Always a powerful perspective.Follow Aaron:  https://x.com/kimber_tweetsMentioned: Katherine Maher (NPR CEO) on truth as a “distraction” — from her TED Talk, “What Wikipedia Teaches Us About Balancing Truth and Beliefs.” https://medium.com/%40Matthew_Thomas/katherine-maher-and-the-infamous-ted-talk-136615c8a299Email: [email protected]: https://x.com/TheLesbianMafiaFollow on Bluesky: @thelesbianmafia.bsky.socialIG: https://www.instagram.com/thelesbianmafia/Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Until we meet again, Sandi 3

In this ep, I talk about my first experience getting flamed on Bluesky after advocating for fairness and safety in women’s sports. It's a heated topic ya know, caring about the safety and rights of women and girls, especially in the LGBTQ+ and trans activist community, where that’s seen as a no-no. I talk about the smearing backlash I received for standing up for the protection of female athletes. Plus, I touch on the importance of lesbian visibility and the ongoing fight for our right to exist and be recognized, without being erased or silenced. For a visual of the jump at Jurupa Valley High School in California track & field event, you can watch this gentleman's Youtube video:: https://youtu.be/gXTkXO_6u0A?feature=shared New York Times poll finds 79% of Americans want to ban men who ‘identify’ as women from competing against females in sports UP from 62% in 2021 & 67% in 2023 (Gallop). https://www.campusreform.org/article/new-york-times-poll-finds-majority-americans-want-ban-men-identify-women-joining-female-sports-/27323 Here's the actual poll on it's own for those who want to see the results directly: January 2025 New York Times/Ipsos poll found that 79% of Americans support restricting transgender athletes from competing in women's sports. 94% of Republicans 67% of Democrats & 64% of Independents & other political persuasions: https://static01.nyt.com/newsgraphics/documenttools/f548560f100205ef/e656ddda-full.pdfAnd here’s a 2023 Gallup poll showing that Americans had already seen enough to recognize how unfair it is for (male) trans women to compete against girls/women. Americans' Views on Transgender Athletes, 2021 vs. 2023: https://news.gallup.com/poll/507023/say-birth-gender-dictate-sports-participation.aspx   Email: [email protected] on Bluesky: @thelesbianmafia.bsky.socialIG: https://www.instagram.com/thelesbianmafia/Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Until we meet again, Sandi

I talk a little about Ellen DeGeneres’ quiet exit and the strange way her legacy is being handled. Ellen wasn’t just a talk show host, she was a groundbreaking lesbian figure in mainstream media. Despite her flaws, she did pave the way for a certain kind of lesbian visibility, and it’s strange how her departure was met with silence instead of recognition. I also want to acknowledge something important, the Lesbian Mafia is entirely my creation, but for about 2+ years into my hiatus, I became involved in writing activism on TheLesbianMafia.com & Twitter, and I wasn't working alone. While I'm proud of most of the work we did, it ended up sparking important conversations, a lot of people picked up on our ideas and it had a ton of positive impact. We helped shift the conversation around some of the harmful aspects of LGBTQ/trans activism that were going unchecked at the time. Anyway, I hope it doesn’t come across as making excuses, but I just wanted to explain that I was under an immense amount of stress as time went on, which is why I stepped away from podcasting in the first place. But, I take full responsibility for everything that was written. it was a chaotic time, and some things spiraled out of my control and went too far, and I deeply regret that, but at the end of the day, the responsibility is mine and I sincerely apologize to anyone who was hurt by those harsh words. It's been nearly a decade since then and it feels like a different lifetime ago and so far removed from where I am now, but I just wanted to acknowledge the hurt it caused anyone and apologize.    Email: [email protected] on Bluesky: @thelesbianmafia.bsky.socialIG: https://www.instagram.com/thelesbianmafia/Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Until next time,SandiPS- I think I should start a little segment in every show where I do a ‘correction corner’ for the last language mistakes I make in the prior show. You know, the ones I realize I didn't catch until I’m lying in bed at 3 a.m., re-listening to the episode and suddenly thinking, ‘Did you just say "our life" bitch?!’ OR like the last pod "their uterus?" Too bad I don't notice until it's too late. Anyway, forgive!

For over a decade, I disappeared, not just from podcasting, but from my life. My mother was ill, and caregiving eventually became my full-time world for about 15 years. This series pulls back the curtain on some of that time, I'm sharing therapy sessions recorded during those years with my psychologist (modified voice for anonymity). It’s an unfiltered look into the struggles of balancing family obligation, lost dreams, and the challenge of remembering my-self.  After so many years of giving everything to care for someone else, I was left with the terrifying realization that I didn't know who I was anymore. It felt like I'd disappeared entirely somewhere along the way, not sure when, and the hardest part has been trying to find myself again,. Even still. So these sessions aren't only about caregiving, though that’s a big part of it. Whether you're a caregiver, or someone navigating your own struggles, I hope maybe that some of my fragmented story offers connection and maybe through sharing my experience, you can learn from the challenges I've faced. And dear God, the nursing home system is so broken beyond belief. If you think you’ll never be in this position, I hope this helps you understand how quickly things can change. It's one thing if it's just a few years, but long-term illnesses? It's a whole different reality. This is a conversation we must have, not only as a country but as a global community. When you’re faced with the reality of it, you’re shocked by what you witness.. No amount of personal wealth can save you from this mess. It's something that needs to be addressed, because when you experience it firsthand, you cannot believe how bad it truly is. We need to open our eyes, not just to learn from the past, but to ensure a better future for those in need of care and their loved ones. Email: [email protected] on Bluesky: @thelesbianmafia.bsky.socialIG: https://www.instagram.com/thelesbianmafia/Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Just a heads-up, sorry if the volume's all over the place AGAIN in this episode! SORRY!Always yours, Sandi

A special concoction brewed by a talented acupuncturist. A lil about how Wendy Williams is the undisputed queen of radio. Plus, a chat with longtime LA friend about the unforgettable experience of the LA fires and life right now in California.  Referenced: Gisèle Pelicot's ex-husband, dozens of others found guilty in rape and drugging trial in France https://www.cbsnews.com/news/gisele-pelicot-france-husband-dozens-of-men-found-guilty-rape-trial/ Email: [email protected] on Bluesky: @thelesbianmafia.bsky.socialIG: https://www.instagram.com/thelesbianmafia/Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Just a heads-up, sorry if the volume's all over the place in this episode! I'm shit as an editor!Love,Sandi

EXCLUSIVE: Luigi Mangione's mom has something to say from the other side! Along with return guest: Aaron Kimberly, We talk Canadian politics and we pick up where we left off last time and get into it into some of the topics we started discussing. The complexities of gender from a detransitioner's perspective.During the episode, Aaron discusses the book Understanding Transgender Identities: Four ViewsAaron's Twitter: https://x.com/Aaron_GDACEmail: [email protected] on Bluesky: @thelesbianmafia.bsky.socialIG: https://www.instagram.com/thelesbianmafia/ Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Merry Christmas, love you. Happy New Year. More soon...Sandi

It started when I spotted Paul Newman’s cookies in the green market, which got me thinking about his legacy charity with wife Joanne Woodward. I'm so impressed by how these two very imperfect people created something so beautiful. Paul passed years ago, Joanne is now nearing the end of her life, yet their incredible charity is still thriving. I also share my recent attempt at Pure Barre (spoiler: it’s definitely a no-go for me!), my port wine recommendation, and why I’m (big shock) upset with Democrats these days. Email: [email protected] on Bluesky: @thelesbianmafia.bsky.socialIG: https://www.instagram.com/thelesbianmafia/Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Until next time, Sandi

Visited with a longtime friend for dinner and while she’s straight, nobodies perfect, ya know. This is just a lil bit of our chat about the loss of her mom. We also talk just a lil about abortion. And she also echoes my sentiments on the fake standards on women set by the manosphere and Incelville. Meantime they're they’re lucky if anyone's interested at all. No matter how hard societies attempt to undermine heterosexuality, the fact remains that men are fundamentally attracted to women. And human instincts persist. Plus, a lil bit about how I had to escape the allure of my captivating Pilates instructor. Who knows what hidden dangers lurk?!  Heads up: the audio is a bit more chaotic than usual. This happens because I have a tendency to accidentally cut more or wrong sections during editing, which causes the mixed-up and incomplete segments that I then have to TRY to piece together to sound like they were originally recorded! Anyway!  Email: [email protected] to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Follow TLM on TwitterX: https://twitter.com/TheLesbianMafiaMore next time,Sandi

Aaron Kimberly, a whistleblower exposing practices at the gender clinic where she once worked, discusses concerns about the fast-tracking of medical gender transitions. She shares her own experience of having surgery approved after just a few visits with a family doctor at the gender clinic and one psychiatric consultation. As a psychiatric mental health nurse, Aaron has raised alarms about the urgent need for accountable practices, if any at all, in medical gender transition. Her advocacy is informed by her life as a de-transitioned transgender man, lifelong butch lesbian and clinician.You can catch up with Aaron at:  https://x.com/Aaron_GDACAaron's Substack: https://aaronkimberly.substack.com/Email: [email protected] to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Follow TLM on TwitterX: https://twitter.com/TheLesbianMafiaSit on TLM's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/The-Lesbian-Mafia/100072111250307/Until next time, Sandi

Who needs lesbian social events or lesbian dating apps when I’ve found straight divorced men right in my building? My 47 year old boyfriend doesn't wear a too-tight polyester dress though, so I guess the lack of said dress just puts me in the boring 'het' camp now. When I wanna feel unique and special, and really stand out from other hets, I could always force him into a dress and we can be keer together.   I also dish on 'Beverly' and her relentless snake-oil antics. I can’t escape her at the gym, I can’t even drown myself in the hot tub to get away and believe me, I’ve tried! Email: [email protected] to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Follow TLM on TwitterX: https://twitter.com/TheLesbianMafiaSit on TLM's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/The-Lesbian-Mafia/100072111250307/Until we meet again, Sandi

Thinking out loud about how LGBTQ and queer identities intersect with the experiences of Lesbians and the issue of Lesbian erasure. Seeing how the drive for inclusion at any cost (mostly for 45+ yo straight men who identify as "lesbians") within the queer framework has led to the exclusion and underrepresentation of Lesbian women. Where do we go from here?Article referenced: A Straight Man Walks Into A Lesbian Bar https://so.gay/everything-else/news/so-gay-is-a-proud-presenting-media-sponsor-of-nyc-pride-2024/Email: [email protected] to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Follow TLM on TwitterX: https://twitter.com/TheLesbianMafiaSit on TLM's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/The-Lesbian-Mafia/100072111250307/ Until next time, Sandi

Late-night recording, Scattered ramblings. A very unfocused chat with a long time friend (Patti). We touched a bit on long-term friendship, parenting, and a lil commiserating about our entirely s****y families . I came to the table with no topic for this podcast and was very tired, so it's pretty unorganized. We also talked a little about the Olympic disaster and, toward the end, I'm rambling some more about how trashed lesbian culture is again, but yeah for the sake of very inconsistent consistency I uploaded it. Thanks for tuning in!Email: [email protected] to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Follow TLM on TwitterX: https://twitter.com/TheLesbianMafiaSit on TLM's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/The-Lesbian-Mafia/100072111250307/Until next time, Sandi

In this solo episode, I recount my latest Pilates session (a newish venture) and an assisted stretching appointment where I found myself in a compromising position with my Flexologist when she revealed details about her polyamorous lifestyle. And she later shared that her kid is trans, possibly thinking we might have something in common. Don't worry, I quickly clarified that. Apologies for being a cheapo with the content, but tune in for this very brief, if not abrupt, update...Fondly yours, Sandi Subscribe to The Lesbian Mafia on iTunes/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lesbian-mafia/id220131747Follow TLM on TwitterX: https://twitter.com/TheLesbianMafiaEmail: [email protected] on TLM's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/The-Lesbian-Mafia/100072111250307/