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Some men resist leveling up their style. But here is the truth. You are hurting your chances with women if you ignore how you show up. This is a rerun episode and it is one you should not skip. Because style is not about being flashy or fake. It is about presenting yourself in a way that makes you feel confident and makes women take notice. In this episode, I bring on my Wing Girl stylist Carol to break this down for you. We talk about why your clothing matters more than you think and how the right style choices can completely change how women respond to you. And more importantly, we get into exactly what to wear so you can look and feel your best. If you have ever wondered whether style really makes a difference… This episode will answer that for you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share what it really means to be masculine. This is a rerun episode but it is one you need to hear. Because being masculine is not something you just turn on once and you are done. It is something you have to carry through your life and your relationships. In this conversation, Shawn breaks down how to build that masculine foundation and how to keep it consistent so women feel it when they are around you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Become A Man Women Want NOW (Go Here): https://becomeamanwomenwant.com/ Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game. Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of. Once you know this secret, you will be able to attract more women than ever before. You will instantly multiply your dating options and have women craving to be with you. And that’s a guarantee. In this episode, Marni reveals the biggest female turn on of all time — and how you can use that to attract the women you desire. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnKiL462Dng Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Learn to do AFTER the attraction phase to keep the girl here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/beyond_attraction_skills In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so you can be an amazing in the bedroom with women ;) MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAA104g1ZVA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🔥 Download the FREE DISC Chart Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/downdisc 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://winggirlmethod.com/bookcall Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another? It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach. In this episode, Wing Girl Nadia breaks down our DISC chart that categorizes women into 4 personality types. You'll learn how to quickly identify which category a woman falls into, and exactly how to approach, flirt, and connect with her based on her type. Once you understand this framework, you'll never waste time using the wrong tactic on the wrong woman again. You'll know within minutes of meeting her exactly how to create attraction. If you've ever wondered why "being yourself" works sometimes but not others—this episode explains everything. 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/G4cXVFxabO4 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod 👋 Youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to flirt like a pro with women? Get the F Formula NOW: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-flirty-now Did you know that it's possible to attract women WITHOUT saying a single word? It's true and it's doable by ANY man... YES even you ;). In this episode, Marni reveals exactly how to attract women without saying a word using the NATURAL effects of your body language. Body Language is the quickest and easiest thing you can alter to actually change how women see you. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QdXCidXhNSw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift.  Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week.Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and become the men they’ve always want to be.Marni will be your host, your best female friend and your own personal Wing Girl.  She’s heard it all before and will deliver the best of the best insider information to help you turn women on.New episodes every Monday and Thursday.Help us by leaving a review and sharing our podcast!It’s time to turn women on! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion about dating attraction and the stories men tell themselves about women. They break down the biggest misconceptions that keep men confused frustrated and stuck including why common advice misses the mark how mixed signals get misread and what women actually respond to versus what men think they do. This episode is part debate part reality check and packed with insights that will challenge how you see dating and attraction. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The friend zone does not get you in the end zone. In this throwback episode we break down what women actually mean when they say they want a bad boy and how to embody those traits without being arrogant cold or disrespectful. We talk about the difference between being nice and being attractive how confidence boundaries and emotional leadership create desire and why trying to please everyone usually kills attraction. Dating and attraction coach Nadine Piat joins us from Australia to share expert insight during Analyze This and help you understand how to show up as the kind of man women are naturally drawn to. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews. >>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dun dun dunnnn. The dreaded friend zone. We have all landed there and it can feel like the Bermuda Triangle of dating. Once you are in it feels nearly impossible to get out. In this throwback episode we break down why the friend zone happens in the first place what mistakes keep you stuck there and what actually shifts attraction so a woman starts seeing you differently. You will learn how to change the dynamic without awkward conversations pressure or gimmicks. If you have ever been told you are such a great guy but felt invisible romantically this episode will help you understand what is really going on and how to finally escape the friend zone for good. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Most dating advice is generic outdated and honestly pretty cringey. In this episode Marni sits down with Dr Jennifer Berman New York Times bestselling author and renowned urologist to have an honest conversation about attraction emotional connection and what actually turns women on. They talk about why desire starts in the mind how emotional safety impacts sexual chemistry and what men often misunderstand when it comes to intimacy. This episode also dives into real world topics like sexual confidence aging communication sexual compatibility menopause perimenopause and the insecurities both men and women experience as they get older. If you want real insight into how women think feel and experience attraction without gimmicks or surface level advice this episode will give you a deeper more honest perspective. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is a throwback to one of our most powerful conversations on self esteem and it is just as relevant today as ever. Building real self esteem is not something most people are taught how to do. It feels big overwhelming and confusing which is exactly why so many people struggle with it and never fix it. In this episode we break down where self esteem actually comes from and how to start building it in a practical sustainable way. We are joined by a guest who knows a thing or two about developing confidence from the inside out both mentally and physically. Guest: Matt Reynolds, Owner of Barbell LogicBarbell-Logic.com Check out Tiege Hanley for simple effective skincare programs designed specifically for menhttp://www.tiege.com/askwomen >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Most men think attraction is built by being polite, respectful, and safe. But that’s exactly why so many women feel nothing, even when the guy checks all the boxes. In this episode, Marni breaks down the biggest misunderstanding men have about attraction with Kurt who is a listener of the podcast. Why logic, effort, and approval seeking quietly kill chemistry before it ever starts. You’ll learn the difference between emotional attraction and emotional safety, why asking permission drains polarity, and how men accidentally skip the flirting phase without realizing it. If you’ve ever heard “You’re a great guy, I just don’t feel the spark,” this episode explains what actually went wrong and how to stop being invisible without becoming arrogant, manipulative, or fake. This is about emotional leadership, polarity, and creating attraction on purpose. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Approaching women in public is rarer than ever, which means if you can do it well, you instantly stand out. In this episode, Marni and Kristen break down the real “first impression” stuff that actually matters: your face, your eyes, your smile, your energy, and your tonality. You’ll learn how to fix resting “don’t talk to me” face, how to use subtle push-pull with expressions, and a simple way to practice on camera so women feel safe, curious, and open around you. Then dating coach Patrick James joins to share how to create attraction fast without overthinking your lines. Why being direct works better than “interview questions,” how to start conversations that feel natural, and the secret move that makes you stand out in under a minute: playful rapport breaks. >>> Want Patrick’s exact playbook? Grab his book 107 Proven Ways to Get the Girl here: https://www.howtogetthegirlnow.com/ >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices