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00:00 – why recurring fights happen 1:00 – how you put pressure on the problem 2:10 – the neediness sweet spot 2:55 – the healthy need that goes unmet 3:40 – the way out 9:50 – different complaint, same psychology 10:45 – remove your self-worth from the problem Free consultation: joinanimus.com/schedule

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00:00 – Enmeshment is the veil 1:30 – an old pattern 2:30 – go to church 4:20 – apologize 6:30 – face time with women 8:50 – go through red pill 11:40 – the narcissistic mother

00:00 – Freud and Jung, more similar than different 1:15 – how Freud and Jung differ 5:25 – mind and body 8:00 – false dichotomies 9:15 – mechanism vs teleology 10:50 – conceptual fragmentation 12:00 – the missing link 14:45 – what it looks like

00:00 – real change 1:10 – you’re built to move3:35 – freezing up around women4:40 – advice is demeaning6:40 – two kinds of bad advice9:20 – no pain, no gain

00:00 – trauma is a physical phenomenon1:45 – research criticism3:00 – a confounding variable4:45 – modern therapy vs insight6:15 – insight affects physiology7:30 – Van der Kolk's response 8:00 – context matters8:45 – who keeps the score?

00:00 – there’s no mental illness definition 2:45 – critique current definition 6:15 – medicine is a legitimate field 8:00 – law is a legitimate field 9:15 – why therapy exists 11:40 – emotions 12:40 – decisions 14:30 – the two emotions 16:30 – mental illness pattern 19:15 – mental illness definition 22:40 – science is the handmaiden 24:15 – growth will still be painful

00:00 – The truth is not enough1:15 – How truth becomes resentment2:00 – it's a mother issue3:00 – "feminism has ruined women"5:00 – disclaimer5:30 – "women are hypergamous"7:00 – "women test men"8:40 – "masculinity is criticized"10:15 – "sexual market value"12:15 – takeaway14:15 – sexual politics

00:00 – what is therapy speak.2:45 – therapy-speak guy’s main problem3:00 – modern therapy causes therapy speak5:15 – no clarity = no growth6:15 – attributes of therapy-speak guy9:30 – Gabor Mate10:15 – Internal Family Systems11:00 – Alok Kanojia11:45 – Jordan Peterson12:15 – Jonathan Shedler13:45 – the way out of being therapy-speak guy17:30 – be normal

00:00 – Two wrong ways to communicate2:00 – The right way to communicate3:00 – Question from a viewer who's feeling jealous3:45 – Growth begins with communication6:30 – Whiteboard11:30 – The communication of jealousy12:45 – Own the jealousy15:00 – Communication is practical17:00 – Normal = alpha

00:00 – what is AI psychosis1:15 – AI psychosis is a new outlet for an old phenomenon2:00 – Be robust rather than vulnerable3:15 – AI brain rot4:45 – AI therapy "crisis"6:15 – Two parts of mental robustness7:45 – The antidote to the singularity

00:00 – The Fuentes trap1:45 – Porn is self-harm5:00 – Fuentes is porn6:45 – Deportation policy9:00 – Experience isn’t epistemology10:00 – Demographic enforcement12:30 – “world Jewry”14:30 – Fuentes is the media16:00 – Regulation trumps justification17:00 – American needs a legitimate right wing movement

00:00 – Culture is psychology00:45 – Fuentes is a psychological phenomenon01:45 – post-war consensus02:30 – repression03:50 – Politicizing race05:40 – Why we really hate Fuentes07:50 – Prediction09:15 – Groyper prediction

00:00 – Therapy is lost01:15 – Healthy Gamer's views02:15 – HG misses the point03:15 – Sociology vs psychology04:45 – Why gifted kids are special needs fr06:40 – Comparison07:50 – Shame10:15 – Where your focus needs to be11:40 – How HG addresses responsibility

00:00 – What retroactive jealousy feels like01:30 – Why we obsess over our partner’s past03:20 – Retroactive jealousy serves you06:15 – Jealousy is not the real issue (noise vs signal)09:00 – When jealousy is legitimate11:30 – The Madonna–Whore complex explained14:50 – The whiteboard: breaking down “The Loop”18:40 – How to process jealousy step by step25:00 – Building identity, boundaries, and discernment28:00 – Final thoughts and how to decode your emotions