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Election night had us watching the results like the Super Bowl. In this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we shared our reactions to the 2026 midterms, celebrated the representation discussed in the results and asked what comes next. We talked about the races and candidates that had our attention, including Keisha Lance Bottoms, Deb Haaland, Sarah McBride, Zooey Zephyr and former guest Dina Nina Martinez-Rutherford. We also turned to Arizona, young people seeking office and our concerns about Proposition 318 and restrictions affecting trans students. For “Just the Tip,” Freddy shifted from the usual subject matter to ways to stay involved after Election Day: contact your representatives, reach out to your governor and consider where your money goes. Our conversation about boycotts and supporting LGBTQ+ businesses came with an important reminder: Your budget, location and family’s needs matter. We also caught up on Halloween in the rain, Freddy’s laptop return and foot recovery, and Fefe’s busy Sunday. Before signing off, we talked about Sade, Mariah Carey and the Lenny Kravitz rumor, then shared upcoming drag bingo and TusCon plans. In this episode Culture and boundaries: Sharing our stories without treating human rights as a casual difference of opinion.Post-election action: Calls, emails and accountability beyond the ballot box.Spending choices: Boycotts, local shops and supporting LGBTQ+ artists and makers when possible.Representation: Our reactions to the candidates and election milestones discussed on the show.Trans rights: Concerns about student sports, school facilities and anti-trans measures.Local participation: Young candidates, local races and considering a run for office. Listen to the full conversation and follow Live! with Fefe & Freddy on Spotify. Thanks for spending part of your week with us. Our Patreon community helps support the show. Find us on Patreon, and thank you to our patrons and WigsofaKind. Content note: Explicit language and discussion of discrimination, anti-trans policies, gun violence and conversion therapy. Recorded live Nov. 4, 2026; election discussion reflects the information and reactions shared during that broadcast.

This week, we’re shining a light on our intersex and asexual siblings. We talk about what these identities mean, common misconceptions, and why neither intersex nor ace people need to be “fixed” to fit someone else’s expectations. We also get into the importance of recognizing the full LGBTQIA+ community, not just the identities people may be most familiar with. Freddy shares the story of a packed Trunk or Treat and Queer Marketplace at Brick Road Coffee, including Drag Story Hour Arizona, a missing costume, a last-minute trip back home, and an unexpected trip to the ER. A wrong step in platform boots turned into a fractured fifth metatarsal. We’re not saying the boots are guilty, but they are definitely part of the story. Fefe catches us up on Halloween Drag Bingo, a personal challenge, and a weekend that included getting things done around the house. Then we turn to the headlines, talk politics, and remind everyone to make a plan to vote. We also explore Día de los Muertos and the traditions that honor loved ones who have passed. In this episode: Intersex and asexual identities, definitions, and misconceptions Why ace people can still experience arousal, have sex, and build meaningful relationships Intersex variations and the history of nonconsensual medical interventions Freddy’s Trunk or Treat and Drag Story Hour Arizona story The fractured foot that interrupted Freddy’s upcoming performance plans Fefe’s Halloween Drag Bingo and personal weekend update Political headlines, voting, and the importance of staying informed Día de los Muertos traditions and honoring those who have passed Thanks for spending part of your Wednesday with us. We’re glad you’re here! Support the show: Join our community on Patreon at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy or visit fefeandfreddy.live. Upcoming events: Nov. 12: Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room Nov. 13: The 13th Dimension Burlesque and Drag Show at TusCon Catch us next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation!

We're back! Welcome to Season 15 of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, your Wednesday night conversation. We may have needed a minute (or several) to get ourselves together, but we're kicking off the new season with a summer catch-up, a little sex education, plenty of commentary on the news, and a reminder that the midterm elections matter. First, we catch up on everything that's happened since we last sat down together. Freddy shares stories from his trip to Toronto for Thrust Fest, including connecting with fellow drag kings, performing, exploring the city, and reflecting on what made the experience memorable. He also explains how his return home turned into an ongoing dental saga. Because apparently, a relaxing homecoming was too much to ask. Fefe shares highlights from a busy summer of birthdays, music, drag events, bingo, sex trivia and community work. We also talk about the Desert Star Institute for Family Planning and its work supporting reproductive health care, including the importance of protecting access to care and gender-affirming services. Because it's International Pronouns Day, we also talk about pronouns, drag names and the ways people navigate gender and identity in everyday life. We share our own perspectives and remind everyone that showing respect doesn't have to be complicated. Then, in Just the Tip, we're kicking off the season with a conversation about anal sex and sexual health. We cover the basics, including consent, communication, taking your time, using plenty of lubricant, safer preparation, gloves and the differences between douching and enemas. We also discuss condoms and PrEP, including the important reminder that PrEP helps prevent HIV but does not protect against other sexually transmitted infections. Finally, we turn to current events. We discuss the headlines that leave us shaking our heads, Christina Applegate's reported misdiagnosis, the political obsession with renaming places, and the importance of looking beyond sensational headlines to understand what's happening with legislation. With the midterm elections approaching, the message is clear: make a plan to vote. We're glad to be back, and we're happy you're here with us for another season of stories, laughs, opinions, and conversations that matter. In this episode: We're back for Season 15, with a characteristically chaotic opening.Freddy recaps his trip to Toronto for Thrust Fest and his dental adventures.Fefe shares summer highlights, performances and community events.We recognize International Pronouns Day and talk about pronouns and identity.Just the Tip: Anal sex, consent, communication and sexual health.Current events, Christina Applegate's reported misdiagnosis and political headlines.Why the midterm elections matter and why it's important to vote. Thanks for watching, listening and supporting Live! with Fefe & Freddy. We're looking forward to another season with you!

For our Season 14 finale, we spent the evening doing what we do best: catching up, sharing stories, talking through what's happening in our community, and reflecting on the season we've built together. We started by looking back at a busy weekend that included Phoenix Fan Fusion, Drag Story Hour, family celebrations, and the challenges of navigating Arizona's summer heat. We shared our experiences at Fan Fusion, discussed crowd management concerns, and talked about the importance of making community events safe and accessible for everyone. In this week's "Just the Tip," Freddy tackled a topic many Arizonans understand all too well: summertime seasonal depression. While many people associate seasonal depression with winter, Arizona's extreme summer temperatures can create their own mental health challenges. We discussed practical ways to stay connected, active, and engaged during the hottest months of the year, from museums and indoor activities to finding community and making time for yourself. We also spent time discussing current events, LGBTQ+ issues, community news, and the loss of beloved Phoenix icon Regina Wells. We reflected on her impact, positivity, and the lasting impression she made on so many people throughout the Valley. As the episode came to a close, we looked back on Season 14 itself. We talked about consistency, growth, Patreon content, social media, guests, and what it means to continue showing up week after week after more than a decade of conversations. We shared our gratitude for everyone who has supported the show, joined the conversation, attended events, and helped make this season possible. Thank you for being part of Season 14. We'll see you soon for Season 15.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation. This week, we kicked off Pride Month with a special guest, Buck Wylde, from Revry's King of Drag, a drag king competition and reality show. Before our interview, we shared updates on Pride Month, upcoming events, and Freddy's annual Pride season reminder to take care of yourself during busy performance schedules. From washing costumes and airing out drag bags to staying hydrated during outdoor events, the conversation offered practical advice for performers preparing for a busy summer. Then we welcomed Buck Wylde to the show. The conversation explored Buck's experience competing on Revry's King of Drag, the first all-drag-king reality competition. He shared behind-the-scenes stories about the audition and filming process, the pressure of performing for judges, and the unique experience of helping bring drag king artistry to a larger audience. We also discussed: The growth and visibility of drag kings over the last two decadesWhat it means to be part of a groundbreaking reality competitionThe evolution of drag king performance styles and identitiesThe importance of representation in queer spacesMentoring future performers and creating opportunities for emerging kingsBuilding community across cities and regions through performance and production work One of the most compelling parts of the conversation centered on how drag has evolved. Buck reflected on developing a character over many years and how today's drag landscape allows performers greater freedom to experiment beyond traditional expectations of masculinity. We also talked about online criticism, reality television fandom, and the importance of remembering that performers are real people behind the characters audiences see on screen. The episode closes with upcoming Pride events, Thrust Fest plans, and excitement about what the future holds for drag kings and queer performance spaces.

This week’s episode moved between religion, politics, current events, theater, queer community conversations, and the kind of headlines that make you stop and ask, “What is actually happening right now?” We opened with personal updates, including Freddy sharing that he’s been fighting off “some sort of crud” for nearly two weeks, plus a recap of seeing Angels in America performed in a full-day experience that lasted nearly seven hours between Parts 1 and 2. We also talked about local music, community spaces, and reconnecting with familiar faces at Thunderbird Lounge. Then we moved into “Just the Tip,” where we took a closer look at the Book of Leviticus and the way certain Bible verses are selectively used in modern political and social conversations. We discussed: Leviticus as a broader collection of laws and religious codesVerses surrounding adultery, lying, idol worship, tattoos, mixed fabrics, immigration, and loving your neighbor How some people focus heavily on one verse while ignoring the larger context of the textThe difference between faith, selective interpretation, and weaponizing religion against marginalized peopleThe conversation explored how scripture is often applied inconsistently in public discourse, especially around LGBTQ+ identities, while other teachings in the same text are routinely ignored. From there, we shifted into current events and cultural commentary, including reactions to political headlines, celebrity news, and commentary on public spectacle and accountability. We also highlighted a major moment in queer leather history as Honey Davenport won IML, sparking debate in some circles about drag representation within leather communities. This episode moves between humor, frustration, history, and commentary — asking what happens when people selectively use morality while ignoring compassion, context, and accountability.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation. This week’s episode felt like sitting down with friends after a long trip and finally unpacking everything that happened. We spent most of the episode catching everyone up on our recent travels — including Disneyland, Texas, airports, conference life, passport stress, photography work, and the little moments that somehow become the biggest stories later. We talked about: Traveling to Disneyland and navigating the crowds, atmosphere, and overall experienceBehind-the-scenes moments from the Texas work conferenceThe realities of balancing work, photography, travel, and exhaustionAirport experiences, TSA stress, and travel frustrationsPassport conversations and the anxiety that can come with documentation and travel planningObservations about people, travel culture, and how differently everyone moves through shared spacesThe conversation naturally moved between humor, reflection, overstimulation, and appreciation for the moments that actually made the trip memorable. We also shared updates about upcoming projects, podcast plans, and what it feels like trying to reset after nonstop movement. This episode is less about one headline topic and more about reconnecting — the kind of conversation that happens after life gets busy and you finally have time to breathe and process it all.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation. This week’s episode moves between personal updates, queer history, and a sharp look at current events — all grounded in one central idea: how we communicate who we are, even when we don’t say it out loud. We opened with life updates, including Freddy officially becoming a Canadian citizen and announcing an upcoming performance at Thrust Fest, alongside the usual behind-the-scenes moments that keep things grounded in real life. From there, we moved into “Just the Tip,” and this week’s focus was the history of flagging in queer communities. We broke down flagging as a system of communication — visual cues, symbols, and coded language used to express identity, desire, and safety, especially during times when being openly queer was not safe or even legal. The conversation traced: The origins of flagging before the modern hanky codeThe evolution of the hanky code in the 1970s and beyondThe use of coded language like PolariHistorical examples across communities, including lesbian flagging practices and cultural symbolismHow flagging still exists today — from subtle signals to visible expressions of solidarityWe also highlighted why visibility still matters — especially in a climate where anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric continues to surface — and how even small signals can create connection and safety. From there, we moved into current events, including commentary on political narratives, public spending priorities, and ongoing advocacy efforts — including a major campaign launch by the Human Rights Campaign ahead of upcoming elections. This episode connects past and present, asking how history informs the way we show up now — and how we continue to signal to each other that we’re not alone.

This week’s episode opened the way many real conversations do — a little unpolished, a little chaotic, and fully in the moment. Freddy began the show solo while Felicia joined shortly after, setting the tone for a conversation that moved between humor, frustration, and reflection. We started with a quick catch-up — from Drag Bingo + Cats to Cat Bingo moments that had us questioning people’s choices (yes, including that Chick-fil-A cup). Then we moved into “Just the Tip,” and this week’s focus was clear: artificial intelligence. We broke down what AI is and why it feels so divisive right now. We talked about different forms of AI, including generative tools and more advanced systems used across industries — and how these tools are already embedded in daily life. But the core of the conversation wasn’t just about what AI does. It was about impact. We discussed: The environmental cost, including massive energy use and water consumption tied to data centers The effect on artists and creative industries, including concerns about replacement and originality The impact on critical thinking and mental health, especially with unregulated use The need for regulation and intentional use, particularly in educationAt the same time, we acknowledged where AI is helping — from accessibility to medical advancements and efficiency. The takeaway was simple: AI isn’t going anywhere, but that doesn’t mean we stop questioning it. From there, we moved into current events. We discussed the controversy surrounding Caitlyn Jenner and her passport renewal being marked male despite legal documentation changes, and what that says about policy, identity, and consequence. We also reacted to political commentary, including public figures walking back past support and what it means to face the outcomes of political decisions — what we referred to as “having the day you voted for.” We highlighted advocacy efforts from Human Rights Campaign, including a major campaign aimed at upcoming elections. This episode moves between humor and accountability, asking a central question:Just because something is inevitable — whether technology or policy — does that mean we stop examining it?

This week’s episode took an unexpected turn — and we leaned into it. Freddy opened the show solo while Felicia worked through a long day and tech issues, creating a different kind of energy from the start. It was unpolished, a little chaotic, and very real — the kind of episode that reminds you this show is built in the moment. From there, we moved into a conversation we revisit for a reason: privilege. We broke down what privilege actually means — not just money, but the full spectrum: race, gender, class, ability, religion, “passing,” and citizenship. We talked about how privilege can be invisible to the people who have it, and why “I grew up poor” doesn’t cancel out other forms of advantage. The conversation deepened into what we called “privilege blindness” — the inability or refusal to recognize those advantages — and how that shows up in everyday language, behavior, and even intentions. We used the “boots and sandals” analogy to explain how some people move through the world without feeling the impact of systems that affect others. We also challenged the idea that celebrating one group diminishes another. It doesn’t. Recognition is not subtraction — it’s context. From there, we moved into current events and commentary, unpacking political headlines, media narratives, and moments that left us asking how we got here. The tone shifted between humor and frustration, but always came back to awareness and accountability. We closed with community updates, upcoming events, and a reminder that this space continues because of the people who show up for it.

In this episode, Fefe and Freddy explore self-handicapping — the ways we unknowingly create obstacles to protect ourselves from failure. From procrastination to perfectionism, they break down how this behavior shows up and what it costs us. Plus, current events, global headlines, and unexpected conversations you won’t hear anywhere else. We start with a conversation about self-handicapping — the psychological habit of creating obstacles to avoid failure or protect our ego. Whether it’s procrastination, overcommitting, or blaming outside circumstances, we break down how this behavior shows up in everyday life and what it actually costs us over time. We also talk through how shifting into a growth mindset can help break the cycle. From there, we move into a broader reflection on mindset, accountability, and what it means to show up fully even when things feel messy or uncertain. The conversation stays honest, funny, and deeply relatable as we connect personal experience to larger behavioral patterns. We close with current events, including global headlines, political tension, and lighter “out of this world” stories — including space-related food news that somehow brings us back to Earth.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation. This week, we had one of those episodes that starts playful and honest… and then slowly opens up into something deeper. We kicked things off just being ourselves — joking, getting ready on camera, figuring things out in real time — and reminding everyone that this space is exactly that: real, unfiltered, and ours. Then we moved into our “Just the Tip” segment, and this one hit. We talked about getting older — what that actually feels like, not just physically, but mentally and emotionally. We got real about being closer to 50 than 40, how our bodies are changing, how our energy shifts, and how that forces you to think about things like time, mortality, and what really matters. But it wasn’t heavy for the sake of being heavy. We talked about choosing joy anyway. Still traveling. Still performing. Still doing the things we love — even if we need a little ibuprofen and sunscreen to get through it. We talked about friendships, about showing up for people, and about not letting comfort or fear keep us from living fully. From there, we shifted into current events — and there was a lot to unpack. We covered: TSA workers are owed over $1 billion due to the government shutdownSupreme Court decisions impacting conversion therapy lawsOngoing legal battles around birthright citizenshipImmigration rulings affecting thousands of peopleAnti-drag legislation moving forward in OhioLGBTQ+ history moments and wins, including trans excellence on national stagesGlobal progress toward ending HIVAnd as always, we balanced it — calling out what’s not okay while still recognizing moments of progress and resilience. This episode is a reminder that we’re all figuring it out as we go.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we came back with a full two-week catch-up and a whole lot to say. We started by getting into life updates. Freddy shared about his anniversary trip to Universal — from Super Nintendo World to the struggle with all those 3D rides — and the chaos of getting to Tucson for WWWC after forgetting props (and basically everything else). Despite the heat and the hurdles, the show turned out amazing, and the weekend was full of reconnecting with the community. I kept it real on my side too — busy as always, but we had an incredible time at Irish Tea Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room. It was one of those events where the energy, the laughs, and the celebration just hit the right note. Then we moved into current events, and… whew. We talked about the impact of a government shutdown affecting TSA and how quickly things escalated when ICE stepped in. We unpacked how that felt, what it says about priorities, and why it raised eyebrows for us. We also covered: A wild and tragic criminal case involving an athleteA major lawsuit where a jury found Meta and YouTube liable for contributing to social media addiction and mental health harmA political shift where a Democrat flipped a Republican-held seat in FloridaA major loss in our community with the death of Black trans activist and performer Shyyell Diamond Sanchez-McCrayAnd yes — we had to take a moment to honor that. Catch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, or listen wherever you stream.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we’re unpacking major political developments — from escalating global war tensions to new policies impacting transgender people in Kansas. We break down what it means when state actions affect legal IDs, documentation, and daily life for trans communities — and why these issues matter far beyond one state.Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia “Fefe” Minor dive into the headlines with honesty, context, and community-centered dialogue. We create space for thoughtful discussion, real questions, and respectful conversation — because these moments require more than just hot takes.In this episode:Updates on war and global political tensionsBeing trans in Kansas and the impact of ID and paperwork policy changesLGBTQ+ rights and state-level legislationNational political headlines and developmentsLive audience reactions and open conversationEveryone is welcomed here. Enter the chat and join the discussion.Live Wednesdays at 8 PM MST (Arizona time)Streaming on Facebook, YouTube, and TwitchReplay available on Facebook and YouTubePodcast version available the next day on Spotify and major podcast platformsMajor support for our podcast comes from our Patreon community. Thank you for helping us continue independent LGBTQ+ media and conversation.Why You’ll Want to WatchThis episode goes beyond surface-level commentary. We discuss how legislation, war, and political shifts directly affect real people — especially transgender communities navigating legal identity, safety, and dignity. If you value LGBTQ+ perspectives on current events and thoughtful political discussion, this episode is for you.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! This week, we had a packed show — from weekend recaps and books we love, to serious headlines and some truly powerful moments in culture and politics. We kicked things off by catching you up on life. Freddy shared about working on costumes for the upcoming fundraiser and WWWC, plus being home-bound while his partner was sick. I talked about a chill Saturday and then Sunday’s Chismimosa at Testal benefiting Phoenix Allies for Community Health — drag bingo, dance music, and reconnecting with folks who remembered us from past shows (and yes, I absolutely laughed when someone got bingo wrong). Then in “Just the Tip,” we talked about books. We got honest about how we used to be voracious readers and how we’re trying to get back into reading more consistently. We shared why reading still matters — reducing stress, boosting empathy, improving memory — and we gave you a long list of favorite authors and titles, from fantasy and sci-fi to historical fiction and queer classics. We talked about everything from Watership Down to Tipping the Velvet, Anne Rice’s Pandora, and why graphic novels like Elfquest still hit emotionally every time. We were joined by Brandon McGill, who shared about current projects, dream collaborations, legacy goals, and what’s next creatively. It was thoughtful, grounded, and inspiring. In Current Events, we covered: The State of the Union and the protest moment involving Congressman Al Green. Companies like FedEx pushing back over tariffs. An Amber Alert case that ended safely thanks to everyday people paying attention. An update on a missing person case in Arizona. The Netherlands swearing in its youngest and first openly gay Prime Minister, Rob Jetten. A Black queer animated short film winning a BAFTA. Mariah Carey’s Rock & Roll Hall of Fame nomination (again!). Spectrum Medical expanding LGBTQ+ healthcare services here in Phoenix. As always, we balanced community, culture, accountability, and laughter — because that’s what we do. Thank you for showing up with us.