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Patrick opens this episode with prayer and an energized call for support during Relevant Radio’s Winter Pledge Drive, inviting everyone to join him in community and faith. Questions flood in about clapping at Mass, proper use of anointing of the sick, monogamy’s roots, and how to encourage spiritual growth within a family, and Patrick answers each with clarity, warmth, and direct appeal.   Jules - Is it ok to applaud during Mass? (02:27) Joel - Why does the Church declare the nature of marriage to be monogamous? (06:58) Email – Question about the anointing of the sick (14:52) Email – How do I communicate with siblings who have fallen away from our faith (27:39) Maddie (email) - My husband struggles to stay consistent in prayer and lead our family in faith and prayer. How can I encourage him in prayer without nagging him? Rose - Does it count for me to pray the Rosary if I just listen to it? (32:42) Solane (email) – Question about mental health and psychiatry (41:12) David (email) – I no longer feel any fellowship at my Catholic Church and I’m thinking of going to another service on Sundays (45:17)

Patrick on the fallout of feminism in American institutions and the fairness of transgender athletes in women’s sports, with commentary from Helen Andrews and collegiate runner Madison Kenyon. Patrick threads together cultural analysis, faith-driven advice, and real-life stories, moving the hour with urgency, empathy, and a few unexpected notes.   Audio: Helen Andrews on feminism - 1. Feminization isn't neutral—in key institutions, it's actively harmful. 2. Demographic feminization → substantive feminization - https://x.com/newstart_2024/status/2017319229259686276?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (04:45) Audio: Madison Kenyon’s case for excluding biological males from female sports from CNN with host Brianna Keilar  - 3min - https://x.com/dineshdsouza/status/2011204762717602270 (11:17) John - Is it ok to get the Tdap vaccine? Is this morally acceptable? (27:26) Candace - I was watching Congress asking woman if men can get pregnant and she couldn't answer the question. I just don't get it. It is just a shame that people not just women can’t answer simple questions like this. (29:51) George - We can't seek fellowship apart from the One Loaf. How can he get fellowship if he separates himself? (35:54)

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Patrick opens the pledge drive hour by calling listeners into prayer, then fields honest questions about bishops, Church history, and Catholic teaching, weaving in a spirited chat with Cyrus about tribute bands and the overload of screens in schools and homes. He listens to real stories about marriages saved and lives changed, mixing humor and faith as he addresses the struggles and joys of everyday life. Through every exchange, Patrick invites listeners to participate, offering hope, coffee, and heartfelt gratitude in return.   Daniel (email) - Society of Saint Pius X (01:31) Audio: Do you believe Christ was fully human in the womb - https://x.com/maga_x_times/status/2013941162684387364?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (08:03) Bill - Did the Early Church Fathers support papal infallibility? (14:51) Bruce (email) – Is going to Church on Sunday only a duty for you? Audio: Hugh Grant on screens and kids - https://x.com/thomassowell/status/2018080668794679548 (27:15) Audio: Kids in school with phones - Kids are deeply addicted to their phones, and this teacher explains how it’s affecting their ability to learn -  https://x.com/financedystop/status/2018098033586843953?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (29:24) Pete - A charter school here in Chicago makes kids remove phones at the beginning of the day and they get them back at the end of the day. (43:02)

Patrick steers an hour crackling with listener calls about Catholic burial, interfaith family tensions, and tough questions of faith, cutting straight to personal stories and cultural flashpoints. He fields debates on sleepovers, Buddhist retreats, immigration protests, and celebrity activism, all while the pledge drive pushes generosity and invites every voice to reconnect with Catholic tradition. Some moments are gentle, others jolt, but Patrick stays sharp, offering clarity as the discussion tumbles between prayer and the pressures swirling outside.   Audio: No Sleepovers (00:15) Zyra - Is it ok for Catholic to go to a Vipassana retreat? (01:59) Dennis - Catholic funeral masses: Does the priest need to have all of the cremains for the mass to be said? (14:39) Maureen - Is it a sin to not be buried in a Catholic Cemetery? (20:15) Audio: Billie Eilish calls America "stolen land" - https://x.com/endwokeness/status/2018176829723398321?s=46 (27:09) Audio: Josh Seiter Walking Tomahawk - Isn’t that how immigration works? – Everyone is welcome, but illegals. -  https://x.com/danproft/status/2017585940483465336?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (34:17) Mark - If you take any 2 hot button issues and look at behavior of protests there is a marked difference. I am talking about March for Life and ICE protests. (41:26) Audio: Tolerance double standards - It isn’t about morality or good and evil, or even right and wrong. It’s about power.  From @liam.out.loud –  https://x.com/thelizvariant/status/2017083337366483330?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (43:26)) Jillian - If you had a child out of wedlock how do you explain church teaching without making the child feel like a mistake? (46:17)

Questions pour in about Catholic marriage, the Crusades, family struggles, and moral decisions. Unexpected moments arise, gratitude flows for donors, and personal stories add a raw edge to the mix, all as Patrick threads Catholic wisdom through every unpredictable turn.   Truth or Consequences - https://patrickmadrid.substack.com/p/truth-or-consequences (01:14) Tom - I had a problem talking to my kids about the birds and the bees. Make sure to answer the actual questions they are asking. (05:35) Samantha - Were the Crusades morally permissible? (07:30) Patrick in Kansas - I have heard that the Eucharist wipes away venial sin. Is this true. Also, what point at mass is too late to arrive to receive the Eucharist? (18:32) Audio: Why belief in God works with Dr. Huberman  –  https://x.com/chriswillx/status/2011423057383223423 (27:07) Audio: When your intentions are pure –  https://x.com/modernxdad/status/2008832480191840551 (30:08) Anne – My friend has a boyfriend that was divorced. Can she be his sponsor for Confirmation? (44:44)

Patrick explores how media manipulation distorts public perception, weaving in stories like the Nicholas Sandman case and experiments revealing the psychology of victimhood. He questions the motives behind selective editing, the risks tied to technology spying and examines why skepticism is vital in the face of digital misinformation.   Audio: The ideology of victimhood -- if you preach to people that they are oppressed, they will look for that - https://x.com/DefiantLs/status/2016471314341445995?s=20 (01:49) Audio: We are in a PROPAGANDA WAR. Your mind is the target and you are being manipulated - https://x.com/howertonjosh/status/2016578612846026966?s=20 (04:43) Emma - My friend is Lutheran and I am not sure if the future husband is Catholic. Can I attend this wedding? (24:02) Adam (email) - I enjoy harnessing my team of horses on Sundays after Mass and taking my family on a wagon ride. Is it wrong to do this? (27:16) Google to pay $68 million over allegations its voice assistant eavesdropped on users (39:46) Audio: Guy asks META device to stop listening. It says it stops, but clearly continues to listen and respond to what he’s saying. (43:43) Joanna - You don't take your phone into Confession. I agree that is good. What if you confess about addiction and then you receive messages about addiction. (46:38)

Patrick explores empathy burnout, faith, mental illness, and the way modern culture presses women into new molds.   Audio: Why Liberal Women care about cultures that hate them - https://x.com/sassafrass_84/status/2017000466245132528  (00:38) Audio: It’s not empathy, it’s ego. It’s okay not to care - https://x.com/CCPISASSH0E/status/2016239348455264761?s=20 (03:26) Audio: "You see the HIGHEST rates of mental illness amongst single, liberal women!" - https://x.com/lightonliberty/status/2011956457567039973 (08:15) Gina - Not taking your phone into the Confessional. Does it record even when its off? Is this true. Why don't you guys try this on air. (11:37) Jorge - Whenever I talk about something important, I put the phone away. (15:23) Sharon - About the cell phone tracking. I heard that you can stop a phone from being trackable by wrapping your phone in foil or putting your cell phone in a tin can. (21:57) Steve - You don't use tinfoil; you use a Faraday Bag. Also, GrapheneOS has Google taken out of the equation. (26:07) Guadalupe - Regarding surrogacy, my son goes to a public school and his teacher said she is having a baby for a friend who can't have a baby. Is this ok? (27:55) Jamie - What does the Catholic Church say about the Ethiopian Bible? (31:18) Bridget (email) – I bring my phone into the confession and it’s helped me sin less Bob (email) - The only way to make your phone truly safe is to drop it in a bucket of water. Daveed - Are there parallels to what is happening with ICE and innocent people and to what Romans did to Jesus? How would Jesus feel right now? (42:34)

Patrick welcomes listeners into lively national discussions about immigration, where real calls spark flashes of emotion and candid debate. Stories of border crossings, law enforcement pressures, political motives, and everyday struggles collide as Patrick weaves tough questions about justice, compassion, and faith into every exchange. He pushes for honest talk, highlighting on-the-ground realities and his own family history, refusing to let political talking points drown out the lived complexities shaping the issue.   Audio: President Obama in 2010 shoots down the whole "stop deportations and just let the illegal immigrants be" argument that the Democrat party is currently pushing. - https://x.com/elonmusk/status/2016146909245665336?s=20 (00:21) Mark – Patrick, I want to compliment you on how you are handling yourself regarding ICE. (05:18) Chris - I remember that whistling has been happening since Obama and Clinton. I think that more people without convictions are being held. I also have issues with how they are training ICE. (09:41) Rico - ICE is being subjected to abuse because people hate Trump. They are using Hispanics. I feel used. (17:57) Courtney - I think Covid and propaganda broke people's minds and that is why people are protesting. (20:43) Doug - Are people looking into organization Indivisible? I asked protestors to go onto public property. I asked them who they were with and they said Indivisible. (24:03) Carlos - People come over illegally but some do come here to escape murder or alcoholism. I fall into this category. How do we fix this? (29:47) Elizabeth - I think we are not thinking outside of the box. Caravans were sent here and are now organized. We see this affecting legal immigrants who are here. Maybe this is how they will take away rights from people. We have to be vigilant. (39:22) Kathleen - I think we don't have the ability to help the poor who need help because of all the illegal immigrants that come here. (45:14) Carla - Trump is a big organizer too. He out organized Dems. Both sides are doing it. (48:26)

Patrick brings the smartphone struggle front and center, questioning why tech and social media seem to influence children more than their own families. Parents call in with raw confessions, regrets, and inventive solutions, from holding out on smartphones to battling the sneaky ways kids get around controls, while stories of bikes, banana seats, and even Maseratis bring humor and a touch of nostalgia to the mix. Rules, boundaries, and values collide with modern tech, leaving listeners weighing connection, safety, and family sanity in a world where a phone can change everything.   Audio: Once kids get smart phones, family life turns into a fight over screen time . . . - https://x.com/drantbradley/status/2012876836502405511 (00:23) Audio: just because everyone is doing it doesn’t mean your kids should do it too - https://x.com/modernxdad/status/2015262851414544684 (02:21) Todd - Smart phone: I challenge you to switch to a flip phone and have kids watch Gun Smoke (09:14) Liz - We are a family of smart phone holdouts, and we gave our kids flip phones and my kids don't care. (10:25) Melissa - A counselor told me that I should get my kid a phone so she could feel more part of other kids' social circles. That was the beginning of the end. (19:36) Jorge - From where I come from, we didn't have TVs. I think I can enjoy the benefit of learning without it. I compare the TVs of yesterday to the phone today. (23:29) Jessica - Smart phones: Somethings that helped me prolong the eventuality of kids getting a phone was a straight A report card. (29:09) Gloria - Smart phone: I set parameters for my kids. My children wanted them at a young age. I did a lot of research before getting them phones. We used a lot of the parental controls available. I think it is working out. (34:14) Marie - I have a teenager and a preteen. I totally agree with Patrick. My 10-year-old hacked my iPad and removed restrictions. (40:27) Andrew - I am a parent of 6 kids. I struggle with how smart phones can lead to the sin of envy. (44:31) John - My college age son argues that killing in video games is moral and I argue it is not. Can you help me? (49:02)

Patrick explores the moral complexities of violent video games and draws unusual comparisons with literature and intention, then pivots to a candid exchange about the effects of smartphones on teens and family life. Calls flow in, pressing Patrick for practical Catholic wisdom, strategies for Bible study, and real feedback on the ethics of documenting protests amid escalating public tensions.   Patrick continues his conversation with John about the morality, or lack thereof, of violence in video games (00:26) Daniel - How can I prepare to discuss the meaning of the book of Revelation as a Catholic? (06:48) Darby - I think people can use these phones as weapons and it is hurting and killing people through incomplete information (12:05) Nicki - We have the Wisephone II and it is great. It is a locked down Samsung Galaxy. We are paying more for a phone that doesn't have all the extras on it. Brick lockdown feature is great. (22:11) Ruth - I am surprised that Patrick didn't point out that this is an adult child and not a 12-year-old. Also, in protests people need to establish trust. There’s misinformation coming out from this administration. (30:16) Christy – Pro-life and pro-America. About Matthew 6:21: How come these people who are doing things in Jesus's name are still going to hell? (36:44) Dennis – I’m a retired police officer and want to comment on police protocols. A lot of people ask why it takes 4-5 persons to subdue a person. Also, the body cams don't show everything. This is why we keep getting into this spiral. Video can't capture perception. (46:45)

Patrick answers questions spanning everything from praying the rosary while making breakfast or driving, to whether it’s genuinely helpful to journal during adoration. Real-world family challenges about faith, grief, and even noise at Mass spark his down-to-earth guidance, thoughtful defense of Catholic practices, and a dose of humor when birthday wishes and smart phone-free dinners come up. Conversations swerve from discussing legal and moral responsibility under pressure to parenting in a complex culture, sometimes bluntly, always with an eye on compassion and truth.   Karis - I am conservative. Spitting is not a mortal sin. The officer had already got in his truck. (00:46) Marina - Is it ok to recite the Rosary while doing things like cooking or cleaning. Can I journal during Adoration? (02:05) Jonathan – Is sinning under duress still a sin? Would God hold it against them? (05:01) Alex - Is it ok to pray the Rosary during Mass? My daughter is dating a girl. What is the most loving response I can give her? (08:18) Moe - My daughter is dating a girl. What is the most loving response I can give her? (12:00) Steve - I do pray the Rosary at Mass. It helps me get over distractions at Mass. (20:54) Debra - If my sister witnessed a trauma in her life, would she be accountable for the sins that happened after or would she only be accountable for sins committed beforehand? What does the Church teach about judgement? (26:58) Rick - Police are not supposed to engage with agitators. This is false witness and a character assassination. (34:50) Veronica - Thank you for inspiring my son and I to grow in our Catholic faith. (43:45) Geralyn - My daughter took grand kids to a restaurant, and they don’t have cell phones. Somebody paid their bill because they were not on cell phones. (48:19) Brendan - Is happiness an act of the will? (49:44)

Patrick opens with Helen Andrews’ take on feminism and wokeness, then moves swiftly through audience questions about gospel parables, Communion practices, and Eucharistic theology, answering with clarity and candor. The episode spins between practical parenting advice, reflections on portrayals of Jesus in film, and behind-the-scenes insights about liturgical choices, keeping listeners on their toes.   Audio: Feminism = Woke; Woke = Feminism - Helen Andrews is an American conservative political commentator, essayist, cultural critic, and author.  - https://x.com/newstart_2024/status/2016224379353379025?s=20 (01:43) Jordon (email) - Where was the outrage when Kyle Rittenhouse killed two protestors; or other notable right-wing protests took place with armed citizens present? Corky - Jesus explains the seed and sower parable to the disciples, but why doesn't he explain this to others? (09:03) Andy – When I receive the Eucharist, I notice that not all Churches give out the body and blood. Why does this happen? (15:18) Andrew - Is the Eucharist valid when there is more than one priest or bishop consecrating it? Why does other minister hold the wine? (26:16) Audio: Keep your kids away from screens for as long as possible - Dr. Gabor Maté issues a stark warning for today's parents - https://x.com/newstart_2024/status/2013848228974727171?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (34:48) Fred – When I received the precious blood for the first time, it was very significant to me. I wouldn't discourage both species. (36:01) Eric - What miniseries do you think is the best depiction of the Gospel? (44:13)

Patrick examines everything from Jim Brewer’s raw reflections on caring for aging parents to practical Catholic questions that listeners bring, like how salvation works for those who never encounter the faith, the nuances of receiving Communion, and issues around marriages outside the Church. Candid advice flows through each response, especially as Patrick speaks with Elisa about her marriage’s validity, guiding her toward steps that bring peace and clarity. The episode pulses with honest conversation, sudden turns, and moments where faith and life meet in the unexpected.   Audio - Jim Breuer “The real test of life is how you care for the ones who once carried you” - https://x.com/jimbreuer/status/2012632515568160996?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (00:19) Santino – What would happen to your soul if you died in a place that did not know about the Catholic faith? (01:49) Tom - Is there a canon law that governs giving out the Precious Blood? (06:50) Dennis - My question is that I am a lawyer with a lot of judge friends who are Catholic. They perform a lot of civil ceremonies. The scandal of attending a civil wedding seems antiquated and how can Catholic judges do these ceremonies? (13:37) Elisa - Regarding marriage, I was married in 1980 and I was married in a Catholic Church at Mass. My husband was not baptized. The parish priest locked the Church to prevent wedding from happening. We broke in and held the mass anyway. Was this correct? An associate pastor married us. (29:37) Rusty - How is it that God knows the choices we will make if we have free will? (40:11) Nicholas - The Institution of The Eucharist. What is Jesus referring to when he mentions 'The Fruit of The Vine'? (48:57)

Patrick welcomes listeners into a whirlwind conversation about artificial intelligence, sparking reactions to Elon Musk’s bold predictions and candidly questioning the consequences for human purpose, work, and relationships. Unexpected calls reference pop culture, raise concerns about machines rewriting history, and wonder aloud what happens if robots take over everyday chores. As the dialogue accelerates, Patrick probes whether people will embrace robots or fiercely protect the messy beauty of real life.   Audio: Elon at Davos, Within a year AI will be smarter than any human being - https://x.com/newstart_2024/status/2014424307900850512?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (00:19) Audio: Elon, “In the future, the robots will make so many robots, that they will actually saturate all human needs -  https://x.com/cb_doge/status/2014400490424173041?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (05:19) Audio: Elon, "You don’t actually need school to learn anymore – https://x.com/ianmiles/status/2014322727205679426?s=20 (11:28) Reba - What is to stop AI taking over all of humanity? (13:54) Stacy - I think we need community with each other, and I think robots taking care of our elderly will only make loneliness worse (21:58) John - My wife has a severe gluten allergy and can’t receive low gluten host. She can receive the precious blood but our priest doesn’t want to resume giving it. What can I do? (25:17) John - My concern is that AI is only as good as the input. I think the vast majority of people working on AI will make it liberal based, and it will be socially to the left. I’m also concerned it will be godless. (28:58) Jackie - I think we need to interact with humans and not robots. (34:19) Miles - Who will pay for individuals being able to access AI and how will we deal with things like credit scores? (42:49) Lourdes - I caught a student cheating using AI and she got everything right. I gave her a failing grade for cheating. However, after that I let students do it because they had to read. I followed this person's career and she still did well in life. (44:11) Esmeralda - Did you ever see the series Apocalypse? I see that this is happening. (47:37) Courtney - I want a Robot. If we are going to have a robot in our house, she needs to agree with us. She will help us have more family time. (49:26)