How to Do It | Sex Advice with Stoya and Rich

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3.7
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91 reviews
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51 episodes
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Explicit
Yes
Date created
2021/09/10
Average duration
26 min.
Release period
6 days

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For three years, Stoya and Rich Juzwiak have been giving advice to Slate readers on all things sex—mismatched libidos, secret desires, (bad) sexting, surprising fetishes, and assorted other wild things. Now they're joining forces to answer their most jaw-dropping questions yet, sometimes with the help of special guests. Whatever you want to know about sex—truly, whatever—they'll tell you how to do it.

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My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want.
2022/03/27
This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bear to touch herself. Mentioned in this episode: My New Gender Workbook by Kate Bornstein *** Continue following Rich and Stoya and their How to Do It column on Slate here. Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend
2022/03/20
Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected. *** Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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I’m Overwhelmed by My Boyfriend’s Sexual Demands
2022/03/06
This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who is overwhelmed by her partner’s daily sexual needs, and they discuss a letter from a man who wonders if his post-sex feelings are normal. *** Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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The One Thing My Partner Desires in Bed Makes Me Gag
2022/02/27
This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who wonders what they can do to have a better experience giving oral sex, and they discuss a letter from a woman looking for advice on how to explain her specific dating needs.  Mentioned in this episode: Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor *** Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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My Girlfriend Insisted I Have Sex With Another Man
2022/02/21
On this week’s second episode, exclusively for Slate Plus members, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man who wonders how to talk to his girlfriend about a possible change in his sexuality. *** Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu.
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I’m a Woman With a Very Male Sex Problem
2022/02/20
This week, Stoya and Rich advise a woman whose partner complains that she orgasms too quickly, and they discuss a letter from a woman who’s puzzled by why her boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex very often. Mentioned in this episode: So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex by Ian Kerner *** Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now. Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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I Will Never Live Down What My Girlfriend Just Saw Me Doing
2022/02/14
On this week’s second episode, exclusively for Slate Plus members, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man who got caught in a compromising position by his girlfriend. *** Read the How to Do It column on Slate at slate.com/htdi. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu.
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The Simple Way to Have Better Sex After Marriage
2022/02/13
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter for Valentine’s Day from a man who’s looking for tips on how to spice up his sex life with his wife, and they discuss a letter from a man who’s wondering how to involve himself with his wife’s other relationship. Mentioned in this episode: Curious Pleasures by The Reverend Dr Eramus St Jude Croom DD *** Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now for $25 off. Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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The Woman I’m Seeing Has No Idea I Know Her Secret
2022/02/07
On this week’s second episode, exclusively for Slate Plus members, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from someone who wonders if he should tell the neighbor he’s newly dating about what he already knew about her. *** If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in at slate.com/htdi or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu.
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I (Unfortunately) Know What My Husband Has Been Doing in Garage
2022/02/06
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who’s worried about her husband’s secret habit, and offer suggestions for oral sex to a letter writer who has a unique problem.  Mentioned in the episode: Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer Sellers Is Porn Addiction a Real Thing? Moody Bitches by Julie Holland “TMJ and Intimacy” by S. Michael Plaut Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now and get $25 off. Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Is Porn Addiction a Real Thing?
2022/01/31
On this week’s second episode, exclusively for Slate Plus members, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman who wonders what to do about her husband, who claims to have a porn addiction. Guest: David J. Ley Mentioned in this episode: Ethical Porn for Dicks by David J. Ley The Myth of Sex Addiction by David J. Ley Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer Sellers If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in at slate.com/htdi or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu.
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I’ve Only Just Discovered What Really Turns Me On. But What Is This Even Called?
2022/01/30
This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s just made a new sexual discovery about himself. Then they hear from a woman who’s feeling judged for her boundaries. Guest: Ryan Scoats Mentioned in the episode: ‘I don’t mind watching him cum’: Heterosexual men, threesomes, and the erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality. Understanding Threesomes by Ryan Scoats *** Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now for just $1. Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing! Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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3.7 out of 5
91 reviews
golgikanji 2021/10/24
1.5 speed
Good show but consider covering 3 questions instead of 2. Too much repetition of points etc makes it seem you are stretching it out to fill time. I li...
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cactusluver 2022/05/12
Come back! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Come back!!!!
Sue butts 2022/04/04
Love!
Love this show! These two are helpful, fun and non judgemental. Found myself always wanting more! So sad to see it go 😭
elsevier 2022/02/18
Wow, so great
Super surprised with how much I love this cast!
LAR1981 2022/02/08
Boring… probably not for me
It pains me to say it, as I generally find something to enjoy in all of the different Slate podcasts, but this podcast bores me to tears. The mere fac...
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SpringWise 2022/02/07
Great, unless you have a single boundary
Decide you don’t want your husband to use pornography next to you in bed or have private interaction with sex workers outside your marriage (two total...
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Sexpositivewithlimits 2022/01/21
Biased towards extremely liberal sexual values
Hosts can come off as dismissive and judgmental of certain advice seekers whose views and sexual attitudes don’t align with their own. Understandable,...
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Mikeysnappzz 2021/10/18
Refreshing and informative
The hosts are mature, sex-positive, and funny. There’s no shaming of any kind, which makes it an easy, guilt-free listen. The hosts also have good che...
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@charmcitymama 2021/10/14
Just a Great Podcast
This podcast is light hearted but also so relevant and real. I love the hosts’ perspectives.
ifckinh8thisguy 2021/10/09
Authentic & fun
Love hearing the thoughtful and nuanced perspectives from rich & stoya. I appreciate the great advice, and that the questions are real, messy, and not...
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