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There's nothing like writing a book on burn out to then realize just how burned out you are! Kaitlin Chappell Rogers joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to talk about where we're getting the burn out conversation all wrong, how perseverance is a practice, and what it means to depend on God for daily manna, not a perfectly planned schedule. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4zX6pB3  Key topics: Recognition of burnout in women The biblical perspective on perseverance and rest Practical tips for managing stress and avoiding burnout The importance of community and support among women Balancing faith, family, and personal well-being Sound bites: "I'm crawling to the hem of his robe." "God built us this way on purpose." "We already know how the story ends." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 02:00 Personal Stories and Common Ground 03:58 Recognizing Burnout in Daily Life 06:07 Writers and Living Out Their Messages 08:02 The Israelites and the Manna Analogy 10:04 Cultural Pressures and Overload 13:01 The Role of Supportive Spouses and Family 15:10 Balancing Sacrifice and Self-Care 18:05 Living with an Eternal Perspective 20:55 Running Your Race with Endurance 24:02 Pace and Purpose in Life 27:00 Personal Systems and Spiritual Practices 30:12 Practical Steps for Moment-by-Moment Perseverance 32:08 Connecting with Kaitlin and Resources Keywords: burnout, perseverance, women, faith, balance, Christian living, mental health, motherhood, spiritual growth

Mom to five in a family built through foster, adoptive, and biological kids, Micah Maddox has experienced and parented through a wide range of challenges and emotions. And she's got exceptional tips, tools, and insight in how to help your anxious child. Check out this insightful episode with host Julie Lyles Carr. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4BGWSit  Key Topics: The impact of trauma and foster care on childhood anxiety The role of boundaries and clear expectations in reducing anxiety Practical tools like stop-breathe-think for calming children The importance of understanding different diagnoses and seeking professional help Balancing faith and medical intervention in managing anxiety The significance of preparation and communication before outings Recognizing deeper issues behind behaviors like tantrums or withdrawal The power of prayer and spiritual tools alongside medical treatment Takeaways: Children with anxiety often respond to unspoken fears and unresolved trauma. Clear boundaries and expectations help children feel safer and less anxious. Practicing calming techniques in non-critical moments prepares children for real situations. Understanding the difference between normal fears and anxiety disorders is crucial. A combination of faith, education, and medical help offers the best support for anxious children. Sound Bites: "Children need boundaries to feel safe." "Observe your child's triggers and deeper feelings." "Practice stop, breathe, and think in calm moments." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Childhood Anxiety and Parenting 01:06 Micah Maddox's Family and Experience with Anxiety 02:10 The Impact of Foster Care and Trauma on Anxiety 03:27 The Effects of Gentle Parenting on Anxiety 04:53 Why Some Kids Are More Wired Toward Anxiety 06:19 Distinguishing Normal Fears from Anxiety Disorders 08:34 Parenting Styles and Their Influence on Anxiety 12:16 Setting Boundaries and Clear Expectations 14:28 Preparing Children for Situations to Reduce Anxiety 19:00 Recognizing Deeper Issues Behind Behaviors 22:22 Handling Public Anxiety Outbursts 26:46 Practical Calming Techniques: Stop, Breathe, Think 28:05 Faith, Prayer, and Medical Help in Managing Anxiety 33:36 Resources and Support for Parents and Caregivers Keywords: childhood anxiety, parenting, mental health, trauma, faith, boundaries, emotional regulation, foster care, adoption, child development

Please be advised: This episode includes a discussion on suicide. Put those earbuds in if little ears are nearby. So often as parents, we say that we want our kids to be happy. But what if we've got a happiness definition problem that isn't helping them be the best-equipped for real life? Baylor professor Dr. Jonathan Eckert joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a real-time look at what keeping our kids comfortable is costing them, and how to actually help develop resilience and strength in our children for the long haul. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4kjroc3  Key Topics: The concept of the happiness crisis and its impact on youth mental healthThe biblical perspective on joy versus happiness and its importance in resiliencePractical ways parents can foster joy and resilience in their childrenThe role of adversity and struggle in developing grit and joyCultural differences in parenting and independence, including Japanese practicesThe dangers of overprotection and safetyism in modern parentingThe importance of giving children agency and opportunities to navigate conflictThe significance of modeling abundance and gratitude as parentsStrategies for maintaining healthy boundaries with adult childrenThe importance of documenting and celebrating progress in children's growth Takeaways: Redefining happiness as joy that emerges through struggle and adversity.Children's pursuit of happiness often based on fleeting circumstances and comparison, leading to dissatisfaction.Joy is paired with pain and struggle in biblical teachings, emphasizing endurance and gratitude.Parents should focus on fostering resilience and grit through appropriate challenges.Overprotection and safetyism can hinder children's development of independence and resilience.Cultural practices like children walking to the store alone can foster responsibility and confidence.Parents can model abundance and gratitude to cultivate a healthy perspective.Giving children agency in conflict and decision-making helps develop life skills.Documenting progress and celebrating growth builds confidence and resilience.Building a foundation of love, truth, and grace supports children's emotional health. Sound Bites "Adversity leads to belonging and curiosity.""Celebrate progress, not just success.""Model love, truth, and grace in parenting." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Happiness Crisis and Its Significance 01:04 The Problem with Circumstantial Happiness and Comparison 02:26 Redefining Happiness: From Circumstances to Joy 03:45 Biblical Perspective on Joy and Hardship 05:07 The Role of Struggle in Developing Joy and Resilience 06:02 The Impact of Cultural and Parenting Practices 07:48 Balancing Neurological Development and Cultural Expectations 10:01 Helping Kids Seek Healthy Status and Responsibility 13:09 The Dangers of Overprotection and Safetyism 15:00 Giving Kids Agency and Opportunities to Navigate Conflict 19:23 The Power of Love, Gratitude, and Abundance in Parenting 22:00 The Role of Adversity and Belonging in Growth 28:54 Celebrating Progress and Growth in Children 29:36 Resources and Next Steps for Parents and Educators Keywords: happiness crisis, resilience, joy, parenting, youth, mental health, adversity, education, mental wellness, Dr. Jonathan Eckert

What if we’ve missed a few key things when it comes to praising God, coming to Him with gratitude and thanksgiving? Are we depending on our emotions and circumstances to be the driver, or does perseverance have a place in praise?Wendy Speake joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful dive into the beauty, the misconceptions, and the power of being in a posture of gratitude and thanksgiving, no matter what life is throwing at you. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/47vG9B8  Key topics: Definition of gratitude and thanksgiving as a spiritual discipline The concept of an ask fast and its purpose The relationship between praise, worship, and God’s nature How personality traits influence gratitude and praise The importance of authenticity in worship and praise The role of sacrifice in true worship Perseverance in gratitude during life’s challenges The harmonic resonance of praise with God’s nature The distinction between emotional praise and spiritual discipline Practical steps to develop a posture of gratitude Sound Bites: “Set down your petitions to proclaim God’s goodness.” “Praise Yahweh, the most extravagant praise.” “Persevere in praising him, even when life doesn’t feel good.” Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Gratitude as a Spiritual Discipline 03:09 Defining Gratitude and Thanksgiving 04:25 Living from a Posture of Thanksgiving 05:38 Personality and Gratitude: Gifts and Challenges 07:42 The Pitfalls of Excessive Criticality 09:07 Authentic Emotions and Coming to God 11:02 The Concept of Sacrifice in Worship 12:07 Decoupling Praise from Performance 14:34 The Power of Authentic Praise in Worship 17:37 The Ask Fast: Pressing Pause on Petitions 20:28 Boasting in God’s Power and Goodness 22:51 Praise Yahweh: The Call to Extravagant Worship 24:16 Persevering in Gratitude During Hard Times 26:10 Practicing Perseverance in Praise 28:53 The Joy of Praising in Community 31:33 How to Join the Ask Fast and Deepen Worship Keywords: gratitude, thanksgiving, spiritual discipline, praise, worship, ask fast, authenticity, spiritual growth, Christian living

Veteran homeschooler and mom of seven, Jennifer Pepito sits down with AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr, a veteran homeschooler and mom of eight, for an insider’s look at the ins and outs of homeschooling. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4zC3z3L Key Topics: Homes as sacred places and training grounds for faith The importance of atmosphere and internal heart management Habits and routines that foster spiritual encounters Balancing external environment and inner emotional health The role of hospitality in creating a sacred space Repairing relationships and practicing forgiveness The influence of parental attunement and connection Balancing performance and authenticity in family life Sound Bites: “Homes are training grounds for God’s word” “It’s never too late to repair and restore” “My identity is in Christ, not motherhood” Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Sacred Homes and Guest Jennifer Pepito 01:40 Homes as Training Grounds for Faith and Values 03:32 The Power of Intentional Habits and Atmosphere 04:01 Jennifer’s Journey to Creating a Sacred Home 05:25 Teaching Faith Through Homeschooling and Daily Life 07:17 Managing Atmosphere and Internal Heart Health 09:54 External Environment vs. Inner Emotional State 11:23 Forgiveness and Repair in Parenting 13:20 Identity in Christ and Parenting Mistakes 15:07 Reconciliation and Building Healthy Relationships 17:40 Habits of Attunement and Connection 20:32 Balancing Hospitality and Sacredness in the Home 28:29 Jennifer’s Resources and Books 30:36 Closing Remarks and Practical Takeaways Keywords: sacred home, family faith, home atmosphere, parenting, hospitality, spiritual growth, homeschooling, family relationships

Looking for a unique way to engage your middle schooler in a conversation about faith? Jen Weaver and Gayle Veitenheimer join AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr with a unique approach. Born out of a deep desire to help middle school kids come to know God better, Jen and Gayle use a fun, fascinating mystery series to do just that! Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4hKyZO2 Key Topics: The concept behind the Kingswell Kid Detective series How the series incorporates spiritual themes like hearing God's voice and prayer The importance of relatability and modern technology in children's faith stories Character development of Luca and Ember as diverse and relatable figures The collaborative process between Jen Weaver and Gail Veitenheimer The role of prayer and unity in their partnership and storytelling The use of mystery and problem-solving to teach spiritual lessons The significance of multi-generational collaboration in faith education Sound Bites:"Helping kids experience life with God" "Kids see faith as part of real life" "Mysteries beyond Google answers" Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the All Mom Does Podcast 00:28 Meet the Hosts and Guests 01:11 Introducing Jen Weaver and Gail Veitenheimer 02:18 The Inspiration Behind the Kingswell Series 04:34 The Detective Mysteries and Spiritual Topics 05:17 Making Faith Relatable for Kids 07:03 Themes of Hearing God and Prayer 09:01 Character Development of Luca and Ember 12:14 Multi-Generational Faith Partnerships 16:29 The Role of Curiosity and Independence in Faith 20:34 Setting the Series in the Present Day 22:04 Balancing Technology and Mystery in Stories 23:24 Encouraging Kids to Discover God 25:04 Where to Find the Series and Resources 25:52 Future Books and Series Expansion 26:29 Closing Remarks and Resources Keywords: faith education, children's spiritual growth, faith-based mysteries, parenting, kids' faith series, spiritual development, faith in real time, children's books, faith and technology, multi-generational faith

Beth Capecchi is a psychologist. And she's also someone with attention deficit disorder. She joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for a fascinating conversation about living and working with ADHD, what we know today about attention deficit that we didn't know before, and how God works through all of it. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4hSYg9U Key Topics: Neuroscience of ADHD and brain chemistry How ADHD manifests differently in women The importance of self-awareness and diagnosis Strengths and superpowers associated with ADHD Practical strategies for managing ADHD in daily life The role of emotional responsiveness and rejection sensitivity Parenting with ADHD and managing household tasks The cultural perception of ADHD and neurodiversity Sound Bites: “ADHD people have trouble with making decisions.” “Many women with ADHD are undiagnosed because they don’t look hyper.” “Rejection sensitive dysphoria is really just depression when rejected.” Chapters 00:00 Introduction and personal chaos of motherhood 01:15 Meet Beth Capecchi: Psychologist and ADHD advocate 02:44 Understanding ADHD: Overcommitment and decision-making challenges 04:27 ADHD in women: Hidden symptoms and late diagnosis 06:47 The science of ADHD: Brain wiring and genetics 08:43 Core characteristics of ADHD across different personalities 09:55 The strengths and superpowers of ADHD 11:48 Managing executive function and procrastination 13:07 Emotional responsiveness and rejection sensitivity 15:07 Parenting with ADHD: Challenges and strengths 16:44 Balancing responsibilities and self-compassion 19:55 Breaking free from comparison and embracing individuality 21:42 The science behind ADHD: Brain chemistry and genetics 24:41 Treatment options: Medication, natural strategies, and understanding your brain 29:37 The spiritual perspective: God’s design and strengths in neurodiversity 31:03 Closing thoughts: Embracing messiness and authenticity Keywords: ADHD, women, neuroscience, motherhood, mental health, strategies, strengths, diagnosis, neurodiversity

There's plenty of conversation these days about what men and boys shouldn't do. But what about the awesome, intentional, powerful things that God intended for them? Biblical masculinity coach Jennifer Jehl joins Julie Lyles Carr on the AllMomDoes podcast to share her perspective on where we are in our cultural messaging to men, where it falls far short of what family and marriage can look like, and how men and women can work together with greater understanding and support. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4yQeypU Key Topics: Biblical masculinity and femininity Leadership and meekness in men Cultural shifts in gender roles Practical steps for women and men in relationships The importance of faith and surrender in marriage Sound Bites: "Meekness is strength under control." "True leadership is rooted in Christ and humility." "God's design for men and women benefits everyone." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Jennifer Jehl and her mission 02:09 Jennifer's background and calling to biblical masculinity 04:55 The cultural shift: emasculation and passive men 09:07 The biblical view of meekness and strength in men 13:03 How young men are handling relationships today 17:01 The passive husband and women as spiritual leaders 21:05 Practical steps for women to encourage male leadership 25:13 The importance of respectful, honest communication 28:52 Jennifer's journey on LinkedIn and building community 33:01 Defining healthy, vibrant masculinity according to faith 34:00 Where to find Jennifer and connect online Keywords: masculinity, femininity, biblical leadership, relationships, faith, culture, men, women, marriage, Christian living

Moving houses, raising kids, one with special needs, job changes, it's no wonder that Kristen Evans is an expert in feeling frazzled. So how do you keep the stress levels down? Kristen and AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr talk about the very real impact feeling frazzled has not just on your family, but on your own health, and simple things you can do right now to restore some peace. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4h9a4Do  Key Topics: The impact of stress on moms and children The connection between faith and mental health Simple exercises to activate the parasympathetic nervous system The importance of mindfulness from a Christian perspective Strategies for saying no and setting boundaries Recognizing physical signs of stress and emotional pain Takeaways: Deep breathing and diaphragmatic breathing can lower heart rate and blood pressure. Practicing mindfulness through biblical principles helps reduce stress and anxiety. Saying no to unnecessary commitments can significantly lower stress levels. Physical pain and emotional stress are interconnected and should be addressed together. Regularly releasing burdens to Jesus through prayer and physical relaxation techniques can improve mental health. Sound Bites: “Eighty percent of parents feel overwhelmed.” “Faith and mental health are interlaced.” “Releasing burdens to Jesus calms our minds and bodies.” Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: The reality of feeling frazzled and overwhelmed 00:56 Kristen shares her personal journey through stress and mental health crisis 03:10 The stigma around mental health in faith communities 03:53 The importance of integrating faith and mental health awareness 06:00 Research on parental stress and mental health statistics 09:04 The impact of technology on stress and coping skills 12:13 Practical steps: Breathing exercises to activate the parasympathetic nervous system 14:01 The power of saying no and setting boundaries 16:48 The importance of self-care and recognizing physical signs of stress 19:59 Biblical mindfulness and being present with Jesus 22:47 Releasing burdens through prayer and physical relaxation techniques 28:53 Kristen’s new book: The Frazzled Parent’s Guide to Less Stress 29:58 Where to find Kristen Faith Evans and resources for moms Keywords: mom stress management, mental health, mindfulness, Christian parenting, self-care, stress relief, emotional health, parenting tips

Julie takes a 10 year lookback at the lessons learned, what she would change, and what her adult children now say about her best-selling book, Raising an Original. Key Topics: The motivation behind writing Raising an Original The importance of recognizing each child's uniqueness as a theology Lessons learned from raising eight children with diverse personalities The impact of social media and comparison on parenting How AI influences the concept of originality and creativity The role of faith in parenting and trusting God's plan Reflections on what would be different if rewriting the book today The importance of family bonds and laughter among originals Parenting challenges and the balance of individuality and community Advice for parents on embracing their children's originality   Takeaways: Parenting is about honoring each child's unique design and purpose. Comparison is a trap that undermines the celebration of individuality. AI will intensify conversations about what it means to be truly original. Trusting God as the ultimate parent is crucial as children grow into their own paths. Parents should celebrate their children's originality while allowing space for mistakes. Knowing oneself as an original is as important as recognizing others' uniqueness. Family bonds and shared humor are vital in maintaining connection among diverse personalities. Parenting involves releasing control and trusting God's plan for each child. Self-awareness as a parent includes understanding your own originality. Embracing the journey of parenting as an ongoing process of grace and trust. Sound Bites: "Uniqueness is a theology, not a trend." "AI will challenge what it means to be truly original." "Trust God as the ultimate parent in their journey." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and celebration of the 10-year anniversary of Raising an Original 01:51 The motivation behind writing the book and personal reflections 04:06 What Julie got right about parenting and recognizing individuality 05:51 Lessons learned about fairness and representation of children in the book 09:12 The impact of AI on the concept of originality and creativity 10:10 Proof of raising original children and their diverse paths 11:53 Feedback from Julie’s children and the importance of family bonds 19:47 The comparison trap and social media influences on parenting 22:11 Surprises and insights from reflecting on the book’s impact 24:59 Faith dimensions and trusting God in parenting 26:50 Advice to past self and embracing the journey of raising originals 30:08 New initiatives and ways to connect with the community Keywords: parenting, originality, individuality, AI, personal growth, family, parenting advice, self-awareness, faith, parenting trends

Father-daughter duo Emerson Eggerichs and Joy Eggerichs Reed join AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to discuss the bedtime story that became a treasured part of Joy's childhood and has since evolved into a project that encourages parents and kids to see mistakes as an essential part of learning and growth. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3Uk72ol Key Topics: The origin of 'Beega Gets a Do-Over' and bedtime stories Principles of effective communication: true, kind, necessary, clear The importance of validation before instruction in parenting Cultural differences in parenting and communication in France and beyond The role of trust and listening in parent-adult child relationships Legacy building through intergenerational projects and storytelling The impact of cultural environment on children's identity and faith Practical tips for parents to foster emotional intelligence in children Takeaways: Validation is crucial before giving instruction to children. Cultural context influences parenting styles and communication. Building trust through listening enhances parent-child relationships. Legacy is about investing in the next generation with love and wisdom. Children are moral and spiritual beings who make their own decisions. Sound Bites: "Love and respect is the go-to principle." "I looked old thirty years ago, I haven't changed." "Children are moral and spiritual beings." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and guest introductions 01:50 Emerson and Joy share their background and work 03:52 The origin of bedtime stories and family rituals 05:57 Turning childhood stories into a children's book 07:47 Teaching principles: true, kind, necessary, clear 10:05 Parenting insights and cultural differences 11:54 Parent-adult child relationships and trust 13:57 Listening, validation, and empathy in parenting 16:00 Cultural influences on parenting in France and beyond 18:01 The importance of legacy and intergenerational wisdom 20:12 Practical advice for parents and grandparents 22:14 The future of parenting and communication principles 24:08 Where to find the book and upcoming resources 30:59 Closing remarks and encouragement for listeners Keywords: communication, parenting, children's book, legacy, family, culture, love and respect, emotional intelligence, third culture kids, parenting tips

In all the minimalist/maximalist debate about our homes, what if there's a happy, hushed in-between? AllMomDoes welcomes back Myquillyn Smith, aka The Nester, to talk through how you can have a home with lots of things you love while still keeping the chaos to a minimum. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4zri7DN Key Topics:House hushing as a method to reduce visual chaos The importance of visual volume in home decor Balancing sentimental items with minimalism Backward decluttering approach Creating spaces that feel good and function well The psychological impact of environment on mood Strategies for leaving spaces intentionally blank The role of color, texture, and scale in calming a home Resisting marketing influences in home decor The connection between environment and behavior Sound bites: "Your house shouldn't be shouting at you." "Environment shapes human behavior." "Less stuff, more margin, more peace." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and guest introduction 01:00 Myquillyn Smith's background and home journey 01:55 The concept of house hushing explained 03:52 Visual volume and its impact on calm 07:01 Minimalism vs. house hushing: finding balance 10:01 Backward decluttering method detailed 13:54 Creating spaces that invite use and comfort 17:01 The psychological power of environment 19:00 Designing within a Victorian home 20:48 The importance of leaving spaces intentionally blank 23:55 The influence of marketing and inspiration images 27:00 Practical tips for styling with confidence 29:51 Pre-ordering the book and resources Keywords: home organization, house hushing, decluttering, minimalism, interior design, emotional attachment, peaceful home, decorating tips, mental health, lifestyle

The world of careers and education is changing at lightening speed! What can you do to help your child be ready for a new era of work, opportunities, and school decisions? Margot Machol Bisnow has interviewed 70 entrepreneurs and joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to reveal what they all have in common...and it has a lot to do with their moms! Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4wXrHfR  Key Topics: The importance of entrepreneurial qualities like grit, resilience, and curiosity How parents can support their children's passions and talents The impact of AI and technological change on future careers The role of family beliefs and encouragement in shaping entrepreneurial mindset Examples of young entrepreneurs and their childhood influences The shift from traditional career paths to entrepreneurial and gig economy models Sound Bites: "Building something wonderful is its own reward" "Encourage your kids to believe in themselves" "Ask, could I do something differently?" Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Parenting for the Future 00:59 Guest Introduction: Margot Machol Bisnow 02:05 Why Parenting Needs to Evolve with the Economy 03:00 Historical Perspective on Generational Career Changes 03:49 Margot's Inspiration from Her Son's Entrepreneurial Circle 04:45 The Power of Belief and Encouragement in Kids 05:37 Supporting Kids' Passions and Talents 06:43 The Role of Grit, Focus, and Resilience 07:18 The Shift from STEM to Entrepreneurial Skills 08:35 Preparing Kids for Jobs That Don't Exist Yet 09:28 Traits of Successful Entrepreneurs 10:23 How to Cultivate an Entrepreneurial Mindset 11:31 Lessons from Diverse Entrepreneurial Backgrounds 12:15 Supporting Passion Outside Traditional Education 13:23 The Myth of Guarantees in Career Paths 14:16 The Value of Curiosity and Asking 'What If' 15:15 Adapting Education to a Rapidly Changing World 16:17 Soft Skills and Their Growing Importance 17:06 The Myth of Corporate Guarantees 18:12 The Cost and Value of College Education 19:03 The Power of Nonlinear Career Paths 19:51 Encouraging Kids to Explore and Pivot 21:06 Honest Conversations About Success and Failure 22:00 Examples of Kids Turning Passions into Careers 22:56 Resilience in the Face of Setbacks 23:43 Instilling Entrepreneurial Spirit in Everyday Life 24:37 Practical Tips for Parents to Foster Creativity 25:33 The Importance of Asking 'Could I Do Differently?' 26:27 Real-Life Examples of Entrepreneurial Curiosity 27:33 Supporting Kids in Unconventional Careers 28:35 Where to Find More Resources and Books 29:43 Final Encouragement for Parents 30:26 Closing Remarks and Next Steps Keywords: parenting, entrepreneurship, future of work, education, resilience, kids, career, AI, innovation

As the back-to-school mornings fast approach, how can you be your most calm, your most intentional self? Author and musician Kira Willey sits down with AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr with fast, practical tips to both connect and keep the peace with your kids during hectic transitions during the day. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4pvBmHX  Key Topics: Tools for managing children's emotions The importance of self-regulation for parents Mindful transitions and routines Physical techniques to release tension The role of breathing in emotional regulation Building connection through entering children's worlds Sound Bites: "Deep breathing activates the vagus nerve" "Calm parents create calm children" "Releasing tension helps respond, not react" Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Tools for Emotional Calm 01:59 Kira Willie’s Journey from Corporate to Children's Author 04:52 The Power of Self-Awareness in Parenting 07:47 Simple Techniques to Calm Yourself Before Connecting 11:37 Using Body Scans and Movement to Release Tension 14:38 The Importance of Clear, Non-Negotiable Expectations 19:30 The Role of Breathing in Regulating Nervous System 23:18 Building Self-Awareness with 'How's the Weather' Exercise 29:15 Managing Transitions and Using Countdown Strategies 31:54 The Impact of Parent Calmness on Child Behavior Find Kira: Online | Instagram | Facebook | YouTube Book: The Joyful Child: Calm the Chaos, Connect with Your Kids, and Create More Happiness in Your Daily RoutinesKeywords: child development, emotional regulation, mindfulness, parenting tips, stress management, self-awareness, children’s books, Kira Willie, The Joyful Child

Listener questions? Yes please! In our summer series, Raising Them Well, we wrap up this series with an encore episode about kids, kids fighting, kids being jealous of their siblings, all things rivalry! Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4ejEwJw Takeaways: Sibling relationships are foundational to family dynamics.Fairness in parenting can shape sibling relationships positively.Teaching conflict resolution is crucial for healthy sibling interactions.Adult sibling relationships can be complicated and require clear communication.Repairing relationships after conflict is essential for long-term harmony.Modeling healthy relationships helps children navigate their own.Acknowledging unfair situations can reduce resentment among siblings.Parents should avoid favoritism to maintain sibling bonds.Encouraging independence in sibling relationships fosters stronger connections.Seeking professional help can provide tools for managing difficult sibling dynamics.Sound Bites: "That's so weird. Other moms I know don't do things like that.""I would love to talk about this whole topic of sibling rivalry.""Siblings are all over the Bible, and I don't think it's any mistake.""I want to encourage you to think about the wrapped Christmas batteries.""There is conflict that is appropriate.""Repairing relationships is essential for long-term harmony.""Be clear, put it in writing.""We want things to be as fair as possible."Chapters: 00:00 - The Foundation of Sibling Relationships 07:07 - Fairness in Parenting 11:30 - Conflict Resolution and Communication 19:34 - Navigating Adult Sibling Relationships 30:00 - The Importance of Repairing Relationships Keywords: sibling relationships, parenting, conflict resolution, family dynamics, fairness, communication, adult siblings, family therapy, sibling rivalry, childhood development