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2026/10/21
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He’s mad as hell and he’s not going to take it anymore. HATE TO BREAK IT TO YA is a weekly podcast hosted by actor/comedian Jamie Kennedy. Jamie is on a constant quest to get to the bottom of things. Step inside Jamie’s brain where you will be confronted with idea’s that are unique and thought-provoking. An assault on your ears with a spin you may not want to hear.... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jamie-kennedy0/support
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The Comedy Police Are Losing Their Minds | Ep 280 HTBITY w/ Jamie Kennedy
2026/10/21
Everybody has an opinion about comedy these days, but does anybody actually understand it anymore? In this solo episode of Hate To Break It To Ya, I'm getting into the growing epidemic of people who think having a social media following makes them an expert on everything, especially stand-up comedy. From influencers to fellow comedians, it seems like everyone's trying to police what can and can't be funny. And frankly, I'm tired of it.
First, I'm breaking down the Raw Dog Radio controversy involving Sebastian Maniscalco, SiriusXM, and hundreds of comedians who were removed from the channel. I share my own experience with The Jamie Kennedy Experiment and how a decision to take the show to ABC Family instead of Comedy Central may have cost me $25 million in potential royalties. That's show business. Nobody owes you anything, and sometimes you have to adapt.
Then there's Pete Davidson calling out influencers making millions from social media, and the backlash he received. What happened to earning your place in entertainment? What's the difference between having followers and leaving behind an actual legacy? I react to the response and explain why I think Pete has a point.
Finally, we get into the Shane Gillis SNL controversy. I break down his joke, explain why I think people completely missed the punchline, and react to the comedians, doctors, and online critics calling it offensive. I also get into Dan Levy's response, Aries Spears' take, and why comedians criticizing other comedians has become such a problem.
We've lost our collective minds. It's time to bring back some sanity.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Nobody Understands Comedy Anymore
00:08:27 – Comedians Policing Comedians & the Shane Gillis Backlash
00:20:34 – Sebastian Maniscalco & the Raw Dog Radio Controversy
00:24:07 – How The Jamie Kennedy Experiment Cost Me $25 Million
00:41:36 – Pete Davidson vs. Influencers: Fame, Money & Legacy
01:04:03 – Dollhouse of Dread: Ghost Face, Pinhead & Jason at Walmart
01:07:49 – Breaking Down Shane Gillis' Controversial SNL Joke
01:16:51 – Aries Spears Defends Shane Gillis
01:30:13 – Doctors, Comedy Critics & the Outrage Over Jokes
01:43:36 – We've Lost Our Minds: Bring Back Sanity
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Anthony Michael Hall on John Hughes, the Brat Pack & Getting Fired From SNL | Ep 279 HTBITY
2026/10/14
Anthony Michael Hall is one of those actors whose movies helped define an entire generation. This week on Hate To Break It To Ya, I finally got to sit down with someone I've admired since I was a kid. The Breakfast Club was one of the movies that made me want to become an actor, so getting to hear these stories firsthand was pretty incredible.
We get into his early days working with John Hughes on The Breakfast Club, Sixteen Candles, and Weird Science, including the iconic moments he improvised on set. Anthony shares stories about his relationships with Hollywood legends, his experience working with Tim Burton and Christopher Nolan, and how he went from being one of the biggest teenage stars in the world to joining Saturday Night Live at just 17 years old.
We also talk about the Brat Pack, getting fired from Taps before Tom Cruise landed the role, his friendship with Robert Downey Jr., and why even after 51 years in Hollywood, he's still auditioning for parts.
From the wild days of SNL to The Dark Knight, Reacher, and everything in between, Anthony has seen just about every side of this business. This was a really special conversation for me, and I hope you enjoy it.
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About Anthony Michael Hall:
Anthony Michael Hall is an actor, producer, and director best known for his iconic roles in John Hughes classics Sixteen Candles, The Breakfast Club, and Weird Science. At 17, he became the youngest cast member in Saturday Night Live history. His extensive career also includes Edward Scissorhands, Pirates of Silicon Valley, The Dead Zone, The Dark Knight, Halloween Kills, and Reacher.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Anthony Michael Hall Joins the Podcast
00:03:05 – How The Breakfast Club Changed My Life
00:09:01 – Edward Scissorhands, Tim Burton & Reinventing Himself
00:14:19 – John Hughes and the Freedom to Improvise
00:21:23 – Hollywood Auditions, Christopher Nolan & Halloween Kills
00:29:30 – How Hollywood and the Entertainment Industry Changed
00:39:51 – The Brat Pack, Molly Ringwald & Tom Cruise
00:48:13 – Reality TV, Alec Baldwin & Ice-T
00:53:52 – Behind the Scenes of Weird Science
01:03:32 – Reacher, Hollywood & What's Next
01:14:32 – Joining Saturday Night Live at Just 17
01:20:16 – Getting Let Go from SNL with Robert Downey Jr.
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From Old Hollywood to Scream: 50 Years of Stories with Joseph Whipp
2026/10/07
This week I sat down with Joseph Whipp, who played Sheriff Burke in the original Scream and Sergeant Parker in A Nightmare on Elm Street, and I realized pretty quickly how much of his story I had never heard.
Long before Scream, Joseph was a high school drama teacher in Northern California and spent two and a half years playing Randall P. McMurphy in a San Francisco production of One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest before Jack Nicholson took the role to the screen. We get into those early theater years, old-school Hollywood, working with Wes Craven, Cheers, The Golden Girls, Sean Connery, Karl Malden, Paul Sorvino, Johnny Depp and a completely different era of being a working actor.
We also go back through Scream, why Sheriff Burke was never actually killed, why Joseph still thinks they could have brought him back, the insanity of the horror convention circuit, and his ongoing plan for the inevitable Scream 59.
I’ve known Joseph for years from the Scream convention world, but I genuinely got to know him during this conversation. At 85, he’s still hilarious, sharp, full of stories and has more than five decades of Hollywood history behind him.
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About Joseph Whipp:
Joseph Whipp is an actor whose career spans more than five decades. He is best known to horror fans as Sheriff Burke in Scream and Sergeant Parker in A Nightmare on Elm Street. His credits also include Escape from Alcatraz, Cheers, The Golden Girls, Generations, Death Spa, The Hidden and Wrong Is Right. Before his screen career, Joseph taught drama at Carlmont High School and spent two and a half years performing Randall P. McMurphy in a San Francisco production of One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest.
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Website: josephdwhipp.com
Instagram: @josephdwhipp
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00:00 – The Scream 59 Origin Story
00:07:57 – From San Francisco to Venice Beach
00:17:50 – Playing McMurphy Before Jack Nicholson
00:28:00 – Sheriff Burke Never Got Killed
00:41:00 – The Biggest Scream Convention Jamie Ever Did
00:49:50 – Hollywood in the ’80s & Creative Friction
00:57:00 – The Cheers Audition With One Hour’s Notice
01:10:00 – Johnny Depp, Wes Craven & Betty White
01:23:00 – Wild Stories From the Horror Convention Circuit
01:33:00 – The Scream Family & Scream 59
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We’re Living in a Matrix… And AI Just Made It Worse
2026/09/30
This week I’m going down the AI rabbit hole because something about this story is getting seriously weird. An AI researcher leaves Anthropic warning about how dangerous this technology could become, we're hearing claims about rogue bots escaping their sandbox, hacking systems and even leaving self-replicating code around the internet — and I’m trying to figure out how much of this is real and how much could be a work.
Right now I’m about 75/25. I think something very real is happening with AI, but I also have questions about why we're suddenly being flooded with warnings, who benefits from regulation, and whether fear could be used to lock down the industry. Either way, I think 2027 is going to look very different. Save the tape.
I also explain why I’m convinced we live in some kind of matrix after connecting O.J. Simpson, the Bronco chase, MTV, the Kardashians, Jeff Lewis and my own prank-show history. Then we get into some absolutely insane clips from Los Angeles and Portland, the Sydney Sweeney debate, and finally a “greatest TV shows” list that has me asking how some of the biggest shows in pop culture somehow didn’t make the cut.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Trejo’s Donuts, Life Updates & Full Transparency
00:05:50 – The O.J.-Kardashian-Prank Show Matrix
00:10:32 – Is AI Getting Out of Control?
00:14:43 – The AI Whistleblower: Real or a Work?
00:20:55 – Rogue AI, Regulation & Self-Replicating Code
00:28:31 – My 2027 Prediction: Save This Tape
00:32:21 – The Portland Chromosome Shirt Controversy
00:39:07 – The Sydney Sweeney Debate
00:43:37 – The “Best TV Since 2000” List Makes No Sense
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Mercedes Javid Gets Real About Friendship, Loyalty & Forgiveness
2026/09/23
This week on Hate To Break It To Ya I sat down with Mercedes “MJ” Javid, and we had a lot to catch up on. We get into the world of Jeff Lewis and Chump Land, what happens when people fall out of a friend group, loyalty, getting “de-chumped,” and why some people walk away gracefully while others burn everything down on the way out.
MJ also opens up about someone dropping dime on her during the first Chump Con, and then we finally get into our own beef. We break down what happened between us on camera, where things went wrong, and why she believes being able to apologize, forgive and move forward is healthier than hanging onto resentment. We also talk about the early days of reality TV and Bravo, Shahs of Sunset, her real estate career, my ridiculous house hunt, where the whole Jeff Lewis universe is headed, and the new chapter she’s building for herself.
MJ and I can argue, laugh, go completely off the rails and somehow land on something real by the end of it. This was one of those conversations.
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About Mercedes “MJ” Javid:
Mercedes “MJ” Javid is a television personality and luxury real estate broker best known as an original cast member of Bravo’s Shahs of Sunset. She returned to the Bravo world with The Valley: Persian Style and is also entering a new chapter with her upcoming solo podcast, New Season.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – MJ Does Her Makeup Live & The Cartier Bracelet Story
00:07:08 – How People Exit Friend Groups: Grace vs. Scorched Earth
00:12:55 – The Chump Con Incident: Someone Dropped Dime on MJ
00:20:11 – How MJ First Got Into Jeff's World & Their History on the Show
00:25:08 – Jamie and MJ's On-Air Beef: What Really Happened
00:39:47 – OG Bravo Wives, Paris Hilton, and the Birth of Reality TV
00:43:02 – The Apology: MJ Says Sorry and Means It
00:54:55 – Forgiveness Is Health
01:02:26 – The House Hunt: Elevator Houses, Freeway Studios & Finding Home
01:09:01 – Where Is Chump Land Headed? Jeff, Howard Stern, and the Future
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I Tried One Joke… And the Room Turned on Me
2026/09/16
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Back with another solo episode, and this one happened because I came home from the Laugh Factory way too fired up to go to sleep.
I went up on a Monday night, the set was going great, and then I tried one joke that completely changed the room. People started arguing, people started walking out, and at one point I actually offered an audience member $100 to leave. They didn't take it.
So I wanted to sit down and talk through what happened, why the joke hit such a nerve, and where comedy is right now when a room can go from laughing together to completely divided in a matter of seconds. I also get into what happened after the show, the conversation I had with the person I offended, and why I still think comedy has to be a place where we're allowed to push things, get uncomfortable, disagree, and hopefully still laugh.
This one got weird fast.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 – I Just Got Back From the Laugh Factory
03:16 – The Set Was Going Great… Until It Wasn’t
07:48 – The Joke That Changed the Room
13:24 – I Offered an Audience Member $100 to Leave
20:56 – I Apologized, Hugged It Out… And She Still Wasn’t Happy
27:03 – Can We Still Joke About Everything?
31:25 – Watching the Actual Footage From the Show
37:44 – The Apology, the Hug & What Happened Next
46:10 – Final Thoughts on the Night
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The Squatter Hunter on Fake Leases, Broken Laws & Taking Homes Back | Ep 274 HTBITY w/ Jamie Kennedy
2026/09/09
This week on Hate To Break It To Ya I sat down with Flash Shelton — better known as The Squatter Hunter — to get inside one of the craziest loopholes in the housing system.
Flash breaks down how squatters and “deceptive tenants” use fake leases, tenant protections and civil law to stay in properties they don’t own — sometimes leaving homeowners stuck fighting for months just to get their own house back. We get into the worst states for it, why police often can’t simply remove someone, some of Flash’s wildest removal tactics, and the cases that pushed him into becoming The Squatter Hunter in the first place.
I also tell Flash about my own experience squatting in Los Feliz when I was a broke actor in the ’90s — and what I discovered after buying a house that had apparently been functioning as a full-blown commune.
Flash also talks about his A&E series Squatters, how his work went viral, and his push to change squatter laws around the country.
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About Flash Shelton:
Flash Shelton is the founder of Squatter Hunters LLC and star and executive producer of A&E’s Squatters. After dealing with squatters in his own family’s property, he began helping homeowners reclaim their homes and has since become one of the most recognizable voices pushing for squatter-law reform.
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Timestamps:
00:00 – How I Met The Squatter Hunter04:50 – How Flash Became The Squatter Hunter19:43 – The Worst States for Squatters28:26 – $130K and a Year to Get Their House Back31:19 – Who Are These Squatters?44:01 – My Own Squatting Story51:41 – The Commune I Found in My House1:00:27 – Flash’s Wildest Squatter Removal Tactics1:05:37 – The Hollywood Hills Squatter Case1:21:00 – Changing Squatter Laws Across America1:25:42 – How to Protect Your Property
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Panda Express Exposed, WNBA Chaos, & Coca-Cola Bans Jesus | Ep 273 HTBITY w/ Jamie Kennedy
2026/09/02
This week I’m back with another Worlds on Fire, and this one starts with restaurant stupidity and somehow ends with Coca-Cola, predictive programming, Apple, the end times and a conversation with Hayden Panettiere that I haven’t talked about before.
I start with one of my biggest restaurant pet peeves: people cleaning around your food while you’re still eating. If the restaurant is open, the kitchen is open — and I definitely don’t need somebody spraying chemicals three feet from my coffee. A Panda Express video sends me over the edge, and it brings back some memories from my own Red Lobster days when I first moved to Los Angeles.
Then things get heavier.
I get into the debate around Sophie Cunningham and women’s sports, why I think people are deliberately making a pretty basic disagreement more complicated than it needs to be, and why labeling somebody a “grifter” because you don’t like their opinion doesn’t actually answer the argument.
From there we get into abortion, the Coca-Cola custom-can controversy, predictive programming, the Twin Towers showing up over and over again in pop culture, and an Apple commercial that sent me down an entirely different rabbit hole. I’m not telling you what to believe. I’m showing you what I’m looking at and asking the same question I keep coming back to:
At what point do enough weird coincidences make you stop and say, “Okay… what the hell is going on?”
And at the end, I wanted to take a few minutes to remember Hayden Panettiere. I didn’t know Hayden well, but we crossed paths through the Scream world, and the last time I saw her at a convention she opened up to me about losing her brother and what she was going through. After hearing about her passing, I haven’t been able to stop thinking about that conversation.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 – The World Is on Fire
02:59 – My Starbucks Hall of Shame
05:02 – Stop Spraying Chemicals Around My Food
09:53 – This Panda Express Video Is Insane
13:43 – Sophie Cunningham & Women’s Sports
21:04 – When Disagreement Becomes a “Grift”
30:03 – Where I Actually Stand on Abortion
39:05 – The Coca-Cola Custom Can Rabbit Hole
47:04 – Predictive Programming & the Twin Towers
49:30 – Apple, 666 & the “Beast System”
53:55 – Are We Living Through Something Bigger?
54:09 – Remembering Hayden Panettiere
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Scary Movie, Horror Con Chaos & the Real Doofy with Dave Sheridan | Ep 272 HTBITY w/ Jamie Kennedy
2026/08/26
This week on Hate To Break It To Ya I sat down with Dave Sheridan — the man behind Officer Doofy and the actual Ghostface killer in the original Scary Movie — and I have to say, this is one of those conversations where I barely had to do anything. Dave just goes. He's one of the few people who genuinely makes me laugh without trying, and this episode is proof of that.
We get into how Dave created Doofy, the strange road that brought him back for Scary Movie 6, and the original $15 vacuum prop that somehow became a piece of movie history. There are also some ridiculous convention stories, including the time that same vacuum helped knock out the power at an entire event in Scotland.
But a lot of this conversation is really about how much the business has changed — auditions, comedy, conventions, making your own projects, and what it takes to keep working when Hollywood doesn’t operate the way it used to. Dave is naturally one of the funniest people I know, so this one goes off the rails pretty quickly.
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About Dave Sheridan:
Dave Sheridan is an American actor, comedian, writer, and producer best known for playing Special Officer Doofy in Scary Movie (2000) — a role he also performed as the physical Ghostface killer throughout the film. He got his start as an SNL intern, trained at The Second City in Chicago, and broke out with the MTV prank series Buzzkill in 1996, which predated Jackass and Tom Green. His other credits include Ghost World (2001), The Devil's Rejects, A Haunted House, A Haunted House 2, and the Glenn Danzig-directed Hellmask. He returned as Doofy and Ghostface in Scary Movie 6, which opened number one worldwide. He is a father of two and one of the most active figures on the horror convention circuit.
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00:00:00 – Intro & Catching Up with Dave
00:12:32 – Horror Cons, Skeet Ulrich & How Dave Got Into the Circuit
00:15:26 – The Original Scary Movie Vacuum & the $15 Prop Story
00:30:09 – The Scotland Convention Disaster
00:35:32 – How Dave Became Doofy in Scary Movie
00:43:44 – Hollywood Auditions, Three Kings & Office Space
00:54:39 – Scary Movie, the Wayans & Why Dave Disappeared from the Sequels
01:00:00 – Scary Movie 6, Marlon Wayans & Bringing Doofy Back
01:14:05 – Horror Con Economics, Doofy Dollars & Life on the Circuit
01:30:11 – How Hollywood Auditions Have Changed
01:42:22 – Scary Movie 6 Stories & Making Your Own Movies
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Scream 30th Anniversary, Confrontational Fans, and How Con Culture Actually Works | Ep 271 HTBITY
2026/08/19
In this solo episode of Hate To Break It To Ya, I get into everything that went down at the Scream 30th Anniversary panel at Midsummer Night Scream in Long Beach — one of the most elaborately produced con panels I've ever been part of, with a full union crew, stage set, music cues, and close to 2,000 people in the room. It was incredible. But something happened that I couldn't let slide, and I want to break it down honestly and respectfully for anyone who's ever been to a con, worked a con, or wondered what it's actually like on our side of the table.
The big story making the rounds involves a fan who aired a grievance at Matthew — publicly, on stage — over an interaction from a few years back. I wasn't there for the original exchange, but I heard the whole thing afterward, and I want to give you the full picture: the fan's theory (which was actually kind of fascinating, connecting Mad Love to Scream through character motivation), what I think really happened in that signing line, and why I pulled the guy aside, talked it out, and got him to a better place. This is a conversation about parasocial relationships, expectations, and what it means to give someone power over your emotional state. I also had my own version of this play out — a woman reached over from the bathroom line and tried to get a free ChapStick signing, I said there's a process, and somehow that made me a D-bag on the internet. I'm going to explain exactly why that's wrong, and I'm going to do it without apology.
I also get into the Famke Janssen yardstick story that's been circulating — a fan paid $80, got told to stay three feet back, and posted about it. I give both sides. And then there's the Nicolas Cage first-con story, which I heard through the circuit and which is genuinely one of the most human things I've come across in a long time. I close out with a story about a fan named Jess the Mess — who did everything right, earned real access, and ended up getting me Dunkin' Donuts coffee the morning after the con in exchange for a picture she accidentally left at my table. That's the kind of experience this can be when both sides show up right.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Intro: Midsummer Night Scream & the Scream 30th Anniversary Panel
00:02:37 – Matthew's Incident: The Fan Who Aired a Grievance on Stage
00:05:22 – Breaking Down the Mad Love / Scream Fan Theory
00:08:06 – Defending Matthew: What It's Actually Like to Meet 5,000 People in a Weekend
00:11:46 – Jamie Talks the Fan Down & What Good Communication Looks Like
00:16:20 – ChapStick Gate: Why I'm Apparently a D-Bag
00:19:26 – Con Economics 101: How the Table System Actually Works
00:27:31 – Both Sides: Celebrities Aren't Always Right Either
00:34:53 – The Famke Janssen Yardstick Story
00:38:49 – Nicolas Cage's First Con & the Little Girl Who Changed Everything
00:41:51 – Jess the Mess: A Fan Who Got It Right
00:45:47 – Outro: Like, Subscribe & Keep the Pod Alive
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Drea de Matteo on Almost Losing Everything and the $75k Photo That Saved Her House | Ep 270 HTBITY
2026/08/12
This week on Hate To Break It To Ya I sat down with Drea de Matteo — Emmy-winning actress, Queens native, Sopranos icon, and one of the most unexpectedly outspoken voices to come out of the COVID era — and the conversation went everywhere. Drea didn't come in with talking points. She came in with a story, and it's a wild one: a foreclosure notice, a flooded house, a lien she needed to pay off fast, and a decision that made headlines around the world.
We got into all of it — how refusing the vaccine cost her her agent, her manager, and a string of acting jobs she could have taken; how she went from voting for Biden to campaigning for RFK Jr. to watching the whole political landscape shift under her feet; and how a single bikini photo on OnlyFans paid off a $75,000 lien in 75 minutes. Drea breaks down exactly what was on that page, sets the record straight about her son Blackjack and the viral moment that blew up on social media, and explains why she sees the whole OnlyFans chapter less as a scandal and more as a middle finger to a system that dropped her without a phone call. We also talked about her Queens upbringing, her mother's world in the theater — Herbert Berghoff, Uta Hagen, the whole lineage — and how growing up inside that world made her the last person anyone expected to end up on a fan platform paying her own mortgage.
Drea is one of those people who is exactly who she seems like and also nothing like what you'd expect. She's got an Emmy from what is arguably the greatest TV show ever made, she's raising two kids in Laurel Canyon, she's got a t-shirt company, a podcast, and zero interest in playing the game the way the industry wants her to. I loved this conversation. She gave me everything.
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About Drea de Matteo:
Drea de Matteo is an American actress best known for playing Adriana La Cerva on HBO's The Sopranos, a role that earned her the Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Drama Series in 2004. She has appeared in Joey, Sons of Anarchy, Desperate Housewives, and Shades of Blue, among many other film and television credits. Born and raised in Queens, New York, she is the daughter of a playwright and furniture manufacturer, and grew up in proximity to the HB Studio theater world through her mother's work with Herbert Berghoff and Uta Hagen. She has two children — daughter Alabama and son Blackjack, whose father is musician Shooter Jennings — and is the founder of the t-shirt and media brand UltraFree.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Cold Open: Coffee Stains & First Impressions
00:01:50 – Drea the Groupie: Music, Queens, and Rock and Roll Roots
00:06:55 – Growing Up in the Theater: HB Studio, Uta Hagen, and Hating It
00:13:55 – Sopranos, Staying in Character, and Not Wanting to Be Famous
00:15:55 – COVID Changed Everything: From Checked Out to Wide Awake
00:20:30 – OnlyFans Goes Viral: How It Started and Why
00:27:45 – Losing the Agent, Losing the Manager, and Self-Canceling
00:34:00 – Foreclosure, a Flooded House, and the Trip to Tahoe
00:42:05 – OnlyFans Explained: The Bikini Photo, the Lien, and $75K in 75 Minutes
00:54:05 – Emmy on the Sopranos, Then OnlyFans: What the Industry Did
01:00:00 – Setting the Record Straight: Blackjack and the Viral Moment
01:07:55 – Kids, Social Media, and Living in GTA
01:13:45 – Hollywood, Independence, and Whether the Business Can Come Back
01:25:55 – Witch Hunts, Symbols, and Trying to Understand Everything
01:43:15 – Satanism, Secret Societies, and Participating Without Knowing
01:51:30 – UltraFree, the Podcast, and Wrapping Up
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Fauci's Secret Diary Is Finally Public — Here's What It Reveals | Ep 269 HTBITY
2026/08/06
This week on Hate To Break It To Ya, I dive into the release of Anthony Fauci's personal diary and why I think it's one of the most overlooked stories of the year. I walk through the entries that caught my attention, the Congressional testimony that followed, the debate surrounding his pardon, and why so many people still have no interest in revisiting what happened during the pandemic.
From there I revisit some of the moments that changed the way I looked at everything—from the Pineapple Hill protests to restaurants enforcing different rules for different people—and why I think those years permanently reshaped public trust.
Then things take an unexpected turn. We get into a California robotics company unveiling a goat-headed chainsaw centaur, Meta's newest smart glasses campaign that looks like it came straight out of They Live, and why I think we're moving into a future that deserves a lot more skepticism than it's getting.
Whether you agree with me or not, this episode is really about one question: what happens when people stop questioning the people they're told to trust?
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Intro: Best Golf Round of My Life00:01:19 – The Pandemic Was a Three-and-a-Half-Year War00:03:28 – Two Types of People: Telephone vs. Banana00:06:06 – The Cult of Closed-Mindedness00:07:06 – Fauci Takes the Fifth — 111 Times00:20:00 – Reading Fauci's Diary00:25:03 – Fame, Money, and Public Perception00:27:44 – Looking Back at Pandemic Policies00:28:52 – Gain of Function and the Lab Leak Debate00:35:52 – RFK Jr. and Questioning the Experts00:44:46 – Why I Almost Quit: My SNL Audition Story00:51:09 – The Fauci Diary Finally Goes Public00:55:15 – The Goat-Head Chainsaw Robot00:58:45 – Meta Glasses, They Live, and the Future01:01:04 – Patreon, Tour Dates & Final Thoughts
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Los Angeles Is Actually Falling Apart... And Why I'm Talking About It | Ep 268 HTBITY
2026/07/30
This week on Hate To Break It To Ya, I just got back from Galaxy Con, and I'm feeling the effects. I talk about what it's really like working conventions, the fans who make it all worthwhile, the emotional drain that comes with being "on" all weekend, and why I'm starting to rethink how often I do them.
Then I get into something that's been happening right outside my front door in West Hollywood. In just a couple of weeks, multiple major water main breaks have hit the Los Angeles area, flooding streets, shutting down neighborhoods, and even causing water pressure issues miles away. I walk through what I've been seeing, give credit where it's due when repairs happen quickly, and ask the question that's been on my mind: are we simply watching decades-old infrastructure reach its breaking point, or is something bigger going on?
I also revisit the golf cart story and why taking responsibility still matters, even when it's uncomfortable. Somewhere along the way, I accidentally became the guy talking about local news—and honestly, I'm just reporting what I'm seeing.
00:00:00 – Intro: Just Back From Galaxy Con00:01:23 – The Emotional Reality of Working Conventions00:03:35 – Fan Types: The Good, the Sweet, and the Drive-Bys00:06:03 – No Break, No Hiding, No Time to Recharge00:09:28 – My Ideal Convention Schedule00:15:25 – Upcoming Shows and Maybe Slowing Down00:16:22 – The Hole in My Driveway and Where This Started00:17:53 – Water Main Break #1: Sunset Blvd Floods at 5 A.M.00:21:07 – Giving LADWP Credit for a Fast Repair00:25:03 – More Water Main Breaks Across Los Angeles00:30:02 – Anaheim Water Problems and Disneyland Disruptions00:33:37 – Old Infrastructure or Something More?00:34:05 – How Did I Become a Local News Podcast?00:42:30 – The Golf Cart Story and Taking Accountability
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Timestamps:Support the Pod
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Shannon Beador Gets Real: 12 Years of RHOC, the DUI, and Why She's Happy Alone Ep 267 HTBITY
2026/07/23
This week on Hate To Break It To Ya I sat down with Shannon Beador — twelve-year veteran of The Real Housewives of Orange County, one of Bravo's most recognizable faces, and a woman who has lived more on camera than most people do in a lifetime — and she did not hold back. We met through our mutual friend Jeff Lewis, and from the first time I saw her handle a room full of big personalities I knew she was the real deal. This conversation confirmed it.
We go deep on how Shannon ended up on RHOC in the first place — a casting number she found in a drawer, a closet with no windows, and an iPhone camera — and what twelve seasons of reality television actually does to a person. She walks me through the affair that unfolded the day after her very first day of filming, why she and her then-husband made the decision to talk about it openly on camera, and what it felt like to watch it all back six months later while the internet weighed in. We also get into the DUI — the real story, what was going on in her life that night, how she broke her nose and her arm, what she did the next morning, and why she chose a mental health facility over a traditional rehab. Then there's the $300,000 defamation lawsuit she won but still lost, the Quiet Woman restaurant drama that Kelly Dodd turned into a press cycle, the Heather McDonald video that got under Shannon's skin more than she wants to admit, and the full story of the golf cart incident at Kelly's Fourth of July party — including what Jamie thinks actually happened and why nobody is saying the obvious thing out loud.
Shannon is one of those people who is much funnier and much more self-aware than the villain edit would have you believe. She's been through a divorce, a DUI, a lawsuit, public humiliation, and a company that cost her everything — and she's sitting in a duplex in Corona Del Mar, single, happy, and genuinely at peace with herself for the first time. That's not nothing. That's actually the whole story.
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About Shannon Beador:
Shannon Storms Beador is a main cast member of The Real Housewives of Orange County, which she joined in Season 9 in 2014 and has appeared on for twelve consecutive seasons, currently airing Season 20 on Bravo. She also starred in Bravo's spin-off series Love Hotel. A Southern California native, Shannon attended USC and raised three daughters — Sophie, Stella, and Adeline — in Orange County. She previously founded and ran a supplements company and is known for her candid, unfiltered approach to filming her real life, including her divorce, her 2023 DUI, and her ongoing journey as a single woman navigating life after a long marriage.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Cold Open: Reality TV and Appearances
00:01:39 – RHOC Season 20 and 12 Years on the Show
00:05:46 – How Bravo Gatekeeps (and Why It's Outdated)
00:06:46 – How Shannon Got Cast: The Drawer, the Closet, the iPhone
00:08:13 – The Affair: What Happened and Why She Talked About It
00:14:04 – Live Shows with Vicki and How the Show Has Changed
00:20:29 – The DUI: The Real Story, the Crash, and the Aftermath
00:23:41 – Accountability, Mental Health, and Learning to Be Alone
00:29:31 – The Quiet Woman Restaurant Controversy
00:41:26 – The Golf Cart Incident at Kelly's Fourth of July Party
00:56:49 – The Johnny Carson Rule and Jeff Lewis Loyalty
01:00:26 – Kelly Dodd: The Hot-and-Cold Friendship
01:03:15 – The Heather McDonald Video and the $300K Defamation Suit
01:09:49 – Shannon's Storyline This Season and Life in Corona Del Mar
01:14:09 – Dating at 62, Being a Sapiosexual, and the Kissing Bandit
01:19:13 – The Mercedes Fight and Jamie's Apology
01:24:30 – Where to Watch RHOC Season 20
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AI Will Kill Your Job, Hollywood Pays to Play, and Celebrity Meltdown Over Autograph | Ep 266 HTBITY
2026/07/17
In this solo episode of Hate To Break It To Ya, I get into the AI and automation wave that is coming for your job whether you're ready or not. By 2030, half the positions that exist today are gone — middle management, drivers, all of it — and if you're still going to baseball games and barbecues like it's 2015, you are going to get hit in the face by reality. I lay out exactly what I think you should be doing right now: investing, building a personal brand, and seriously looking at owning a self-driving vehicle that earns money while you sleep. I also talk about where I'm at personally — the hospital stay, getting my health and finances dialed in, the upcoming cons, and why I'm done waiting on Hollywood to hand me anything.
From there I get into the state of the pod itself. I'm honest about the views, the clips that pop off, the guests who rock with me immediately versus the ones who give me the Hollywood runaround. I've reached out to big liberal voices in comedy and media and the silence is deafening — which tells you everything about how "inclusive" that side of the aisle actually is. I also react to the disgusting social media behavior I saw after Lindsey Graham's passing, and I make the case that you cannot call yourself open-minded and loving while wishing harm on people you disagree with politically.
Then I react to a viral clip of a young actor — six episodes into his career — grabbing a fan's autograph and trying to light it on fire. I tell a Courtney Cox story from the Scream set in 1996 that changed how I think about fame, I break down what Russell Crowe, Al Pacino, and even the wrestlers get right about dealing with the public, and I explain exactly where this kid crossed the line from "setting a boundary" into something genuinely psychotic. I close out reacting to the Messi and Lamine Yamal prophecy photo, a manifesting breakdown that I think is real science, and a wild GTA-level scene I witnessed outside a coffee shop in LA that you have to hear to believe.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 – Cold Open: State of the Pod
00:01:42 – Why I Started HTBITY and the Guest Booking Reality
00:04:38 – Fox News, CNN, and Who Actually Returns Calls
00:07:47 – Upcoming Cons and What's Next for Jamie
00:09:02 – The 2030 Warning: AI Is Coming for Your Job
00:12:50 – The Left's Inclusivity Problem and Lindsey Graham Tweets
00:19:27 – Hollywood Pays to Play: How Bad Movies Get Made
00:26:19 – LA Is GTA: Coffee Shop Story
00:31:37 – Robocar and the Self-Driving Taxi Opportunity
00:37:50 – Reacting to the Hudson Williams Autograph Meltdown
00:38:13 – Courtney Cox at the Mall: A Scream Set Story
00:44:22 – What Al Pacino, Russell Crowe, and Wrestlers Get Right
00:49:37 – Six Apps Deep: Where the Line Was Crossed
00:52:34 – Manifesting, The Simulation, and The Secret Is Real
00:56:47 – The Messi and Lamine Yamal Prophecy
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Podcast reviews
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Gene Everett 187 2026/09/30
Downhill
Jamie is a nice guy but man he jumps on the fear monger propaganda bandwagon lately.
Jlloyd1988 2026/09/25
Great podcast
I love listening to you while I work! I grew up watching you in movies so when I found out you had a podcast I was excited.
Jenyogagal 2026/08/17
This is SO relatable
I am enjoying this podcast so much, which is refreshing as it is surprising. I went through a similar awakening in 2020, which many did as well and a...
RealityTVLover 98 2026/08/05
Kelly Dodd
Jamie , please get far away from Kelly Dodd . She was calling your new home “tacky” ,on your last Jeff Lewis live appearance, with Kelly . I didn’t li...
JakeGun 2026/07/31
Can’t hear it
Get better microphones and talk into them.
AKAJulianWorthington 2026/06/09
Jamie Kennedy’s HTBITY (Overall Review)
I started listening to Jamie Kennedy’s HTBITY podcast at the beginning of 2018 after I got my wisdom teeth removed. Ever since I started listening to ...
Wolf Winston 2026/02/22
Podcast Gem
Jamie tells it like it is and stick with the cadence from the start to finish. It’s hilarious also thought provoking at times. I love his interaction ...
mikwolly 2026/02/17
Andrew Tate?
Referencing Andrew Tate as a source is just gross. What happened to you, Jamie?
jennieg1234456678990 2026/01/10
Jamie Kennedy for life!!!!
Jamie Kennedy is a national
treasure and I could
listen to he and Beverly D’Angelo for hours.
Melisten 2025/12/30
Amazing soul
The interview with Beverly D’Angelo could have lasted 17 hours. I love them together so much!!
Apart from that interview, Jamie has such a wonderful...
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